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Let's talk about mindset. I recently read a book

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or listened to it rather, a book called Mindset the New Psychology of

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Success by Carol Dweck. It is a fantastic book. I'll

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drop a link down in the show notes, and I want to share with you

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the takeaways from that book. And it's been a while back since I

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read it. And I really should put it back on my list to go

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read slash listen to again. But a

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mindset, there's 2 types of mindset that that she goes into in the

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book. A fixed mindset and a growth mindset.

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And how you can identify, a fixed mindset

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is somebody who believes that your intelligence and your

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talent are static. That what you're born with is what you've

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got, and that's just it. So you can't grow beyond

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that intelligence and the talent that you've been given.

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Someone with a growth mindset believes that you're what

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you've been given is just a starting point. What you've been born with

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is simply where you begin. Your intelligence and your

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talent can be developed over time and you can grow into a

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more well rounded higher potential person.

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So as you consider, you know, a fixed mindset versus

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a growth mindset, you can really see how someone with a fixed

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talent that I was born with is fixed. Like,

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I can't grow in that. I I'm not gonna grow.

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I'm limiting myself into what I can do. Like, this is

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just what I was given, and that's all I've got. But

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if I believe that it can be developed, there's no

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limit to what I can accomplish

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because all I have to do is work on my

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intelligence. I have to work on my talent, work on the skills

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I've got. I can develop my personality. The potential that

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I have at that point is unlimited because I can always

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learn and grow. So that's the that's how

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fixed mindset versus a growth mindset, why different

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people achieve different things a lot more

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than others, and why some always seem to stay stuck.

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So why does this matter? First of all, a fixed mindset

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might prevent you from taking unnecessary risks because you want to avoid

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the possibility of failing or looking foolish to other people

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because, hey. Look. I screwed up. I'm a failure.

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That's what a fixed mindset person thinks of. That's what they

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believe if they try something and fail, and they

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often don't try because they don't want to be perceived as a

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failure. But a growth mindset, that encourages

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you to embrace challenges, push on through

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difficult circumstances, to learn from criticism, and to

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always find lessons and inspiration in the success of other

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people rather than trying to tear down their success or be

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envious of their success, find inspiration in it. That

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makes it a driver of achievement of achievement,

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not just achievement, makes it a driver of achievement and

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actually realizing your full potential. So how can you

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develop a growth mindset? First off, going back to the

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beginning, you have to start by understanding that your intelligence and your

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talent can be developed. So when challenges

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come up, push on through it. Push through the obstacles.

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Look at the obstacle as the way.

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The obstacle and the challenge is a path to

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teaching you mastery. You can learn through

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that. As you learn and grow, you become a better person. You

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gain new skills, new, insights

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through all of those things, and and you become more capable.

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You Can also learn from criticism. When somebody

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criticizes you, we tend to or I tend to take it

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personally. Somebody comes to me with something, I think they're attacking

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me, but in actuality, they're not. If

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I can accept it for what it is, removing myself

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from it as the object of the criticism and just look

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at what they're actually trying to tell me, I can grow in

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that. Each thing we do, each of

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these obstacles, these challenges, criticism from other people.

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All of those things is about moving beyond our

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comfort zone and continuously learning and

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improving. So one of the main takeaways from

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the book, our beliefs about ourselves

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dictate our behaviors. Let me say

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that again. Our beliefs about ourselves dictate our behaviors.

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And the reason that the reason that is is because when we

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believe something, we act out of that belief. It affects

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everything about life. And if we can

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change those beliefs, even just a little bit,

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that can open pathways to incredible new

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achievements. It can open pathways to

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massive improvement in our life, to many other things that we never

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thought possible. It's not just about working harder, but it's

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about changing the underlying beliefs that drive your behavior.

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It all it goes back to the the little children's

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story of the engine that could. You know, the little engine that could. The one

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engine trying to climb the hill, I I can't do it, I can't do it,

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and he couldn't. The little engine that could said, I think I can, I think

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I can, I think I can, and he got to the top of the hill?

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It's all a mindset. It's all about mindset.

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Again, I'm gonna drop a link to that book, Carol Dweck's book,

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Mindset, the New Psychology of Success, I think is what

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it is. Yeah. I'll drop that link down in the

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show notes where you can go find,

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whatever version of it you want or whatever, type you want,

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whether that's audio, Kindle, or physical book. It'll be on

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Amazon of course. Go listen to that book.

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Change your mindset. Change your life and do good work.