Let's talk about mindset. I recently read a book
Speaker:or listened to it rather, a book called Mindset the New Psychology of
Speaker:Success by Carol Dweck. It is a fantastic book. I'll
Speaker:drop a link down in the show notes, and I want to share with you
Speaker:the takeaways from that book. And it's been a while back since I
Speaker:read it. And I really should put it back on my list to go
Speaker:read slash listen to again. But a
Speaker:mindset, there's 2 types of mindset that that she goes into in the
Speaker:book. A fixed mindset and a growth mindset.
Speaker:And how you can identify, a fixed mindset
Speaker:is somebody who believes that your intelligence and your
Speaker:talent are static. That what you're born with is what you've
Speaker:got, and that's just it. So you can't grow beyond
Speaker:that intelligence and the talent that you've been given.
Speaker:Someone with a growth mindset believes that you're what
Speaker:you've been given is just a starting point. What you've been born with
Speaker:is simply where you begin. Your intelligence and your
Speaker:talent can be developed over time and you can grow into a
Speaker:more well rounded higher potential person.
Speaker:So as you consider, you know, a fixed mindset versus
Speaker:a growth mindset, you can really see how someone with a fixed
Speaker:talent that I was born with is fixed. Like,
Speaker:I can't grow in that. I I'm not gonna grow.
Speaker:I'm limiting myself into what I can do. Like, this is
Speaker:just what I was given, and that's all I've got. But
Speaker:if I believe that it can be developed, there's no
Speaker:limit to what I can accomplish
Speaker:because all I have to do is work on my
Speaker:intelligence. I have to work on my talent, work on the skills
Speaker:I've got. I can develop my personality. The potential that
Speaker:I have at that point is unlimited because I can always
Speaker:learn and grow. So that's the that's how
Speaker:fixed mindset versus a growth mindset, why different
Speaker:people achieve different things a lot more
Speaker:than others, and why some always seem to stay stuck.
Speaker:So why does this matter? First of all, a fixed mindset
Speaker:might prevent you from taking unnecessary risks because you want to avoid
Speaker:the possibility of failing or looking foolish to other people
Speaker:because, hey. Look. I screwed up. I'm a failure.
Speaker:That's what a fixed mindset person thinks of. That's what they
Speaker:believe if they try something and fail, and they
Speaker:often don't try because they don't want to be perceived as a
Speaker:failure. But a growth mindset, that encourages
Speaker:you to embrace challenges, push on through
Speaker:difficult circumstances, to learn from criticism, and to
Speaker:always find lessons and inspiration in the success of other
Speaker:people rather than trying to tear down their success or be
Speaker:envious of their success, find inspiration in it. That
Speaker:makes it a driver of achievement of achievement,
Speaker:not just achievement, makes it a driver of achievement and
Speaker:actually realizing your full potential. So how can you
Speaker:develop a growth mindset? First off, going back to the
Speaker:beginning, you have to start by understanding that your intelligence and your
Speaker:talent can be developed. So when challenges
Speaker:come up, push on through it. Push through the obstacles.
Speaker:Look at the obstacle as the way.
Speaker:The obstacle and the challenge is a path to
Speaker:teaching you mastery. You can learn through
Speaker:that. As you learn and grow, you become a better person. You
Speaker:gain new skills, new, insights
Speaker:through all of those things, and and you become more capable.
Speaker:You Can also learn from criticism. When somebody
Speaker:criticizes you, we tend to or I tend to take it
Speaker:personally. Somebody comes to me with something, I think they're attacking
Speaker:me, but in actuality, they're not. If
Speaker:I can accept it for what it is, removing myself
Speaker:from it as the object of the criticism and just look
Speaker:at what they're actually trying to tell me, I can grow in
Speaker:that. Each thing we do, each of
Speaker:these obstacles, these challenges, criticism from other people.
Speaker:All of those things is about moving beyond our
Speaker:comfort zone and continuously learning and
Speaker:improving. So one of the main takeaways from
Speaker:the book, our beliefs about ourselves
Speaker:dictate our behaviors. Let me say
Speaker:that again. Our beliefs about ourselves dictate our behaviors.
Speaker:And the reason that the reason that is is because when we
Speaker:believe something, we act out of that belief. It affects
Speaker:everything about life. And if we can
Speaker:change those beliefs, even just a little bit,
Speaker:that can open pathways to incredible new
Speaker:achievements. It can open pathways to
Speaker:massive improvement in our life, to many other things that we never
Speaker:thought possible. It's not just about working harder, but it's
Speaker:about changing the underlying beliefs that drive your behavior.
Speaker:It all it goes back to the the little children's
Speaker:story of the engine that could. You know, the little engine that could. The one
Speaker:engine trying to climb the hill, I I can't do it, I can't do it,
Speaker:and he couldn't. The little engine that could said, I think I can, I think
Speaker:I can, I think I can, and he got to the top of the hill?
Speaker:It's all a mindset. It's all about mindset.
Speaker:Again, I'm gonna drop a link to that book, Carol Dweck's book,
Speaker:Mindset, the New Psychology of Success, I think is what
Speaker:it is. Yeah. I'll drop that link down in the
Speaker:show notes where you can go find,
Speaker:whatever version of it you want or whatever, type you want,
Speaker:whether that's audio, Kindle, or physical book. It'll be on
Speaker:Amazon of course. Go listen to that book.
Speaker:Change your mindset. Change your life and do good work.