Right now, you're living in one of two realities. Either Reality A, where you're reacting to circumstances, trying to control outcomes, hustling for results and wondering why it's so damn hard. Or Reality B, where circumstances bend to your wants and needs, where money, opportunities and relationships flow effortlessly because you understand how to shape reality at its root. Now, most people don't even know Reality B exists, but I can say from experience that it does. Over the last 10 years, I've gone from struggling financially and addicted to drugs and alcohol to building a $40 million transformational coaching company and helping hundreds of thousands of people. And in this video, I'm going to show you how thoughts actually become things and the specific mechanism by which they shape your reality. Why your reality isn't changing, even though you think you understand how Law of Attraction works. And the one thing that, when I finally understood it, allowed me to accelerate my ability to manifest what I want by tenfold. Now, first things first. Your thoughts are creating aspect of your reality. Welcome to A Changed Mind, a journey into the topics that matter to you most. From the neuroscience and spirituality of mindset and personal growth, to groundbreaking strategies for health, wealth and relationships, to open and honest conversations about pressing global issues such as the environment, censorship, corporate capture and democracy. Each and every episode reminds us of the certainty of the goodness of the future and provides the teachings, tools and timeless wisdom inspiring you to create real life lasting change in your life and in the world. If you've been desiring a sanctuary for your spirit, a place to go to tune out the distraction, negativity and doom and gloom so that you can tap into the deep power, the vibrancy and the potential you have inside. You're in the right place. Welcome to A Changed Mind. Hey, it's David here. Just a quick interruption to your normally scheduled podcast. I'm out this week on a much needed break, so wasn't able to film a new episode. But don't worry, I went back to find one of my most powerful episodes for you to listen to. Hope you enjoy. And back to the episode. Many people have been studying the law of attraction and how your thoughts create your reality. But only a handful are creating extraordinary wealth and creating the life of their dreams. Why is that? It's because they know something about Law of Attraction that you don't. And over the last 10 years, I've gone from struggling financially and addicted to drugs and alcohol to building a $30 million transformational coaching company and helping hundreds of thousands of people.

And in this video, I'm going To show you, number one, how thoughts actually become things. Number two, why your reality isn't changing, even though you think you understand how Law of Attraction works. And number three, the one thing that once I understood it allowed me to manifest whatever I wanted, no matter what it was 100% of the time. Now, I wish someone had shared these things with me way sooner, because every year of me not knowing this cost me more money and time than I'd like to admit. I now. First things first. Your thoughts are creating every aspect of your reality. You may have heard the story of Bill Buckner. Bill Buckner played in the World Series for the Boston Red Sox. And on October 26, 1986, Mookie Wilson hits a routine ground ball in game six of the World Series that goes through Buckner's legs, forcing a Game 7 that the Mets would win. 19 days before the game, he's interviewed by WBZ TV's Don Shane about the pressures of playing in the World Series. And he says this. The dreams are that you're going to have a great series and win, and the nightmares are that you're going to let the morning run score on a ground ball. He then goes on to say, those things happen. You know, I think a lot of it is just fate. Now. It isn't fate. It's an understanding of how your thoughts and your beliefs become your reality. And this works in two different ways. Now, the first way this works is what we call the internal way, that thoughts become things. And the internal way is explained by behavioral psychology. What behavioral psychology says is whatever it is that you belief, the beliefs that were formed at a very early age. Let's say it's that money was hard to make, or you're not good enough, or you can't trust people as an adult, you will have thoughts in perfect alignment with those beliefs. Your beliefs create your thoughts. Your thoughts create emotions or feelings. So as you're thinking these thoughts of not being good enough or worrying about whether or not you're going to have enough money at the end of the month or about to make a sales call, but concerned that you're not going to do it right or you might bother someone, you actually start to experience a future that has not happened yet. You start to feel the emotions as if it's occurring right there, right now, even though it isn't. Because that's what your thoughts do. Your thoughts create an electroconductivity in your brain that is then transmitted through the nervous system. And you experience that thought as a feeling or emotion. Your Beliefs create your thoughts, your thoughts create your feelings. Your feelings determine what action you do or do not take. When you're feeling fantastic and when you're curious and when you're excited, you're more likely to do the things that you know you should be doing in order to create more wealth, improve your health, or create better relationships. But when you're feeling stress, anxiety or overwhelm as a result of thoughts created by limiting beliefs, you're more likely to either hustle or grind and be very unproductive in your activity because it's coming from a desperate place, or worse yet, procrastinate, self sabotage, or move into indecision. Your actions produce your results, and so ultimately, depending upon the action you are not taking, you get results. And those results are always 100% in alignment with the beliefs or the thoughts that started with them. So, for example, if you're feeling like you're not good enough, and you're feeling not good enough and therefore you're not taking the proper action, or you're showing up from a place of personal insecurity, you're more likely to not produce the results that you're trying to produce. And then when you observe yourself not producing those results, you go, see, I didn't know how to do it right or there's something wrong with me. This is what's called a psycho cybernetic loop. There's nothing actually wrong with you, it's just that your thoughts are creating your reality. What you believe is producing thoughts, those thoughts create emotions, those emotions determine action, those actions produce results. And those results, 100% of the time reinforce the belief that actually created them. And we make the big mistake of thinking that the results in our life are determining how we feel or what we think, when in reality, how we think and what we feel is the root cause of the results that we are or are not producing in our life. Now this is the internal mechanism, again based in behavioral psychology. There's nothing woo woo about this. What you believe, you will then become the instrument of producing in your life. Now what's also happening, and this gets into the idea of law of attraction and vibration and resonance, is that as you're thinking these thoughts, which are determined by your core beliefs that you established when you were younger and you're actually activating electricity in your brain. Your brain consists of a lot of different things, but the piece that's of interest for us is neurons in synapses. You have these electrically excitable cells in your brain, and you have these connections between them. And whenever you have a thought, you're activating these neurosynaptic connections in your brain. And there's actually an electrical or vibrational phenomenon that occurs that, as I mentioned before, is then sent through the nervous system so that you experience the thought as an emotion, which is also an electrical phenomenon. And so you're having over 60,000 thoughts a day. All of your thoughts are manufacturing emotions. And you're essentially an electrical, vibrational, mechanical being walking around, putting off a vibe every single moment of your day. And the quality of the vibration or the, the resonance that you're putting off is determined by the quality of your thought or emotion. And so we live in a vibrational reality. Now, this is a metaphysical perspective. And what that means is that while everything seems very separate and everything seems very physical, science actually tells us that when we look deeply at the physical world, it's not that physical at all. I remember my third grade science teacher explaining to me that the world is composed of molecules, and molecules are made of atoms, and atoms are made of a nucleus that consists of neutrons and protons and a series of electrons that rotate around the nucleus of the atom. And you have an atom. And that, metaphorically speaking, the size of the atom would be like putting the nucleus of the atom the size of a basketball in the middle of a football field. And the electron would be the size of a tennis ball rotating in the parking lot. And so what that tells us is that the physical building blocks of the material world are 99.999999% space. And what we're learning through the quantum mechanical model and being able to look even more closely at stuff, is that the physical stuff, the particles, the protons, the electrons, the photons, are only physical sometimes. Sometimes they're physical, sometimes they're energetic waves. And so really what we live in is this energetic soup, very much like when Neo sees the matrix in a bunch of zeros and ones. It's this shimmering, fluctuating ocean of energy. And we've been given these extraordinary energetic interpretation devices which are known as our five senses. Now, it's very interesting as well that they're called senses. They're not called actualities, they're called senses. We sense something physical. We sense something through our sense of sight, through our sense of smell, our sense of taste, our sense of touch, and our sense of hearing. But really what's happening is we've got these vibrational interpretation devices built into our human being body suit that are interpreting energy or waveform into a physical experience. Now, why is this important to understand? It's important to understand because the misunderstanding that we're living in a physical reality may disallow you from realizing that you're connected to all things. Einstein said this. He said reality is an illusion, albeit a persistent one. And so when you're walking around with that voice in your head criticizing yourself, judging other people, comparing yourself to others, or an indecision, those mental concepts and those emotional experiences are becoming translated into a vibrational output. And now all of life is receiving this vibrational output. And life is organizing in incredibly intelligent and sophisticated ways to manufacture experiences that you will meet in your future that are designed to invoke the same beliefs and the same emotions and the same thoughts that actually created them. So again, there's this idea of a psycho cybernetic loop. You're worried that you're not going to have enough money at the end of the month, and then all of a sudden you get a bill from the doctor because the insurance didn't cover the expenses. And now that's becoming a reality for you. You're sending off a signal or a vibration that's being received by all of life itself. And life is organizing to create coincidences and synchronicities, to manufacture experiences that'll invoke the same thoughts and emotions from you that you had when you started the experience in the first place. Hey, it's David. Just a quick interruption to your regularly scheduled episode by your favorite sponsor. I want to tell you about my book. It is available on Amazon right here, right now. A changed mind. Go beyond self awareness, rewire your brain and re engineer your reality. In this little book are all the frameworks, the tools, the methodologies that I talk about on this show and that I've used to actually change my mind that tens of thousands of other people have used to transform their bank accounts, their businesses, their relationships, their health, their spiritual connection, everything that you want to achieve. This is the way to achieve it. And Amazon has done us a good one. Right now it's significantly discounted, so you can go and pick up your copy, or better yet, pick up a copy for a friend too. There's nothing better than giving the gift of transformation. Right now. Hop on over to Amazon, there's a link in the show notes. And if you love the book as much as I loved writing it for for you, do me a favor, let me know that and leave a review. And now back to your regularly scheduled episode. So again, this is the external mechanism of how thoughts become things. Napoleon Hill talked about this in his book Think and Grow Rich, where he studied the most successful people in the history of the world at that time, and discovered a pattern, 13 things that came down to really one unifying concept, which is the wealthiest, most successful people in the world thought differently. And what he discovered was their thoughts were creating their reality. And that most of humanity was caught up with thoughts of suffering, thoughts of personal insecurity, thoughts of financial insecurity, and so that's what they were creating. Whereas a handful of people had learned how to master their mindset, create new thoughts and new empowered beliefs. And we're creating extraordinary results. So this is how thoughts become things. So why isn't your reality changing, even though you think you understand how Law of Attraction works? Now, this reminds me of about a decade ago, when I first started getting into these concepts. And I recorded myself doing a bunch of affirmations and incantations. Money is easy to make.

Money flows to me. I am rich and abundant. Every day, in every way, I'm getting better, and I'm getting wealthier. And not only did I record it, but I would listen to it in my car, and I would basically scream in unison with these incantations and affirmations that I had created. And yet nothing was changing. The reason why nothing changes, even though you may understand Law of Attraction is because your unconscious mind still has limiting beliefs or resistance in it. See, it's not that Law of Attraction doesn't work, or it only works in some area of our life, but not others. The challenge is that most people simply don't understand how they think. So it's important if you want to start creating change in your external reality. If you want to become wealthier, if you want to become healthier, if you want to develop more clarity around your purpose or your spiritual vision, if you want to be able to attract your soulmate or transform the relationship that you're currently in into the relationship of your dreams. What's important to understand is that we have to become aware of the limiting beliefs or the resistance that we're thinking at an unconscious level if we want to create transformation in our lives. Now, this begs the next question. How do I become aware of some resistance that I'm not aware of? We teach a very, very helpful distinction, and it's called the two states of being. And the two states of being basically says there are two states of being, powerful states of being, and primal states of being. Powerful states of being are when you are feeling or you are in a state of emotion that feels good. States like Joy, curiosity, excitement, compassion, passion, calm, and peace. States of being that feel good. Primal states are states of being that don't feel good. These are states of being like boredom, anxiety, anger, jealousy, overwhelmedness, depression. States of being that don't feel good. Now, what's important to understand is, number one, there's only two states of being, and you're always in one state of being or the other. In fact, you could check in with yourself right now. If you're following along on YouTube, you can drop it in the comment box. What state of being are you in right now? A powerful state or a primal state? So you're always in one state of being or the other. And the other important thing to understand is you are never in two states of being at the same time. You are never in two states of being at the same time. Now, what determines what state of being you're in are the thoughts that you're having about an experience. The experience itself is not determining whether you're in a powerful state or a primal state. What determines the state of being that you're in and whether you feel good or whether you don't feel good is the meaning that you're giving an experience. And so if what we're looking for are our limiting beliefs, then there's an opportunity to actually start paying attention to the experiences that you're having. The don't feel good that you're having a negative reaction to, that you're moving into the sympathetic expression of your nervous system. Fight, flight, or freeze. If you want to become more aware of the limiting beliefs or the resistance that are actually creating your reality that you're not aware of, pay attention to the experiences of your life that you don't like and your reaction to them. So let's say, for example, you're in a relationship and it's not going the way that you want it to, and you notice when you get triggered and you move into a primal state. Pay attention to the thoughts that you're having. Those are the limiting beliefs or the resistance that must be transformed if you want to change the dynamic of your relationship. If you're having challenges with financial abundance and you feel like you're living in financial insecurity, pay attention to the thoughts that you're having. When you think about the fact that you don't have as much money as you would like, they might be thoughts like, I may not have enough, I don't have enough. I may run out of money. Those are the beliefs that you want to pay attention to. Now, I understand that you could look at those beliefs and say, but Dave, that's my reality. But what I want you to understand is that's your reality because of the beliefs you have. If you transform your beliefs, your reality must transform as well. So a great way to become aware of the limiting beliefs that are still informing and creating the results that you don't want in your life is to pay attention to the things that are bothering you and notice your thinking or your beliefs about them. That is the opportunity for you to create massive transformation and change in your life. Now, even though you may have a positive attitude, do incantations and affirmations, you have to change your limiting beliefs if you want to create more wealth, health and joy in your life. Now, there's one simple formula I learned that changed everything for me, that has allowed me to create whatever I want, no matter what it is, no matter how long I've been going without. I want to tell you a quick story first, and that was back in 1543. Scientists believe that the Earth was the center of the solar system, and they were basing all of their mathematics and physics off of this idea that the Earth was the center of the solar system. And in 1543, a guy by the name of Copernicus came along and said, look, your math is all wrong. And they all acknowledge the math is wrong. And he said, the reason why the math is wrong is because the sun is actually the center of the solar system. And as soon as they did all of the recalculations, all of a sudden all the mathematics made sense. Well, what we've all been operating according to up until now is bad mathematics. See, people who came before us, or as we watch other people in the way that they're achieving, quote, unquote success, they taught us some bad equations. Equations like desire plus hustle and grind equals desired result. Or desire plus have enough money and have enough resources equals desired result. Or desire plus be born to the right family or have all of the luck or catch some lucky breaks equals desired result. And that's why we see so few people actually achieving their full potential and why so many people are not living in financial prosperity and abundance. We've been going about creating the results that we want to create according to bad mathematics. Desire plus find the perfect magic pill strategy or get smarter equals desired result. The good mathematics is this. And this equation absolutely changed the game for me and allowed me to integrate this idea of mastering law of attraction in a much deeper level. The equation is desire plus non resistance equals desired result. If you can have a desire or a dream. And I know you do. Your work is not to figure out how to actually create the result that you want. Your work is not to figure out how to overcome your autoimmune disease or chronic health condition. Your work is not to figure out how to get men or women more attracted to you by having the perfect profile on a dating app. Your work is not to figure out the perfect lead generation strategy to acquire more high qualified prospects to grow your business. Your work is to have a desire and then to identify the resistance you have to that desire. See, if you didn't have any resistance to what you want, you'd either be highly confident that you're going to be producing the result in the very near future, or you would have already produced the result already. There's a gap between what you want and the materialization of what you want in your life. And that gap is some form of resistance. Therefore, desire plus non resistance equals desired result. What's the resistance? Well, it's some form of thinking because your thoughts are creating your reality. It's some unresolved limiting belief from your childhood. See, when a sculptor wants to sculpt a masterpiece, the sculptor doesn't take a bunch of clay and start smashing it together like a Mr. Potato Head. Finding the perfect nose, finding the perfect eyes, finding the perfect mouth and pushing a bunch of clay together to create the masterpiece masterpiece sculpture. The sculptor takes a raw block of clay and removes what doesn't belong. And after he or she removes what doesn't belong, what remains is the masterpiece. You have a masterpiece inside of you right now. And the only thing that's covering up that masterpiece is unnecessary. Clay is resistance. How do you become more aware of the resistance? Notice your negative reactions that move you into a primal state to the conditions of your life. And then use the tools that you have access to. So many that I've taught on other episodes on this channel. Once you've identified the resistance to let it go and transform it. Because the name of the game is desire plus non resistant. That's how you produce the desired result. And the beautiful thing is you've already got the desire piece down. You've already been asking for money, haven't you? You've already been asking for a change in your life, haven't you? You've already been asking for better health or better relationships or more clarity or more spiritual connection. You do the desire piece autom. A lot of people make the mistake of thinking they have to do all these vision boards or visualize every single morning. No, you've already placed your order with the divine mechanism. You've already told the system what you want, and you have emitted that vibration and that communication has been received. You don't have to ask anymore. Your work now is the non resistance. In fact, sometimes incessant asking is an indication that there's some resistance going on. That maybe you don't believe that this is how the system works and that all you need to do is follow the thoughts, the inspirations and the opportunities that show up on your pathway. And if you do that without resistance, you will 100% of the time consistently and predictably produce the desired result. No matter how big, no matter how long the absence of the desired result has been going on in your life. No matter what your personal history is or your traumas are, you will leave those all behind and produce the vision you have for your business, your relationships, your health, or your life. If you can just get into the practice of non resistance. Got some other great videos on this channel around how to actually do that and I want to thank you for allowing me to share this with you. If you love this video, do me a favor. If you're listening on the podcast platforms, leave me a rating and review. If you're here on YouTube, subscribe and make sure you smash that bell icon because we're on this journey together and you called forth this video. I know you've been asking and so at some level you've actually been practicing this non resistance because this answer has has shown up. If you love this video, share it with somebody else. I love you so much. I know that there's a masterpiece that is in the process of emerging from inside of you and we're going to do this together.

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