Foreign
Speaker:obstacle for professionals acting on a
Speaker:spiritual calling based business is fear.
Speaker:Your calling is strong.
Speaker:You know in your heart of hearts that coaching, mentoring or guiding others
Speaker:spiritually, or what our culture has deemed as woo woo is what you must do.
Speaker:But showing this side of yourself is terrifying.
Speaker:You're afraid that colleagues will be skeptical, even laugh and
Speaker:question your credibility.
Speaker:This is a nine step guide to shift from professional career to spiritual
Speaker:guide so you can embrace your calling.
Speaker:Even worse than what you fear your colleagues will say,
Speaker:you fear losing the standing that you've spent a lifetime building
Speaker:in your professional career.
Speaker:It's a fear of judgment.
Speaker:And I totally get it.
Speaker:I've been in those shoes and have a few things to share that I know will help you.
Speaker:It's a hard spot to be in because when you spend so long building a
Speaker:professional career and then that little nudge that's been growing and
Speaker:growing and growing suddenly becomes very loud and it's, you know, that
Speaker:calling to do maybe more meaningful work.
Speaker:I don't want to say that your career hasn't been meaningful
Speaker:because it absolutely has.
Speaker:But there's something in you that says, I can't ignore this, I
Speaker:can't turn away from this.
Speaker:I have to do this.
Speaker:And yet it's so at odds with what most people know you for.
Speaker:And that's where the friction is, right?
Speaker:That's where that fear is.
Speaker:Because oftentimes when we do more spiritual work, or let's say if we
Speaker:begin to express this more spiritual aspect of ourselves, whether it's a gift
Speaker:that you have certain knowing knowledge, intuition,
Speaker:whether it's healing, emotional intuitiveness, psychic work, whatever it
Speaker:is, there, there are many, many, many modalities that we can fill
Speaker:in the blank here with.
Speaker:But it doesn't matter because all of it is often something that we've
Speaker:kept very private and personal.
Speaker:Very private and personal.
Speaker:And so there's not only the aspect of making it visible, which is really,
Speaker:really tough to do, there's.
Speaker:That brings its own baggage, right?
Speaker:But there's also the aspect of not a lot of people know this side of me
Speaker:and are there going to be consequences to me putting this out there?
Speaker:So the first thing that I want you to do is recognize that your calling
Speaker:comes because of readiness.
Speaker:If you're in that place where you're like, I have to do this, I have to act on this,
Speaker:I have to begin to share my gifts, gifts in this way,
Speaker:then that calling, that really strong calling, it's not here just because,
Speaker:it's here because of readiness.
Speaker:You are ready.
Speaker:Professionals often feel really insecure about publicly stepping
Speaker:onto their spiritual path.
Speaker:Publicly, right?
Speaker:They may have been on their spiritual path for a long time, but it's been
Speaker:very private and personal.
Speaker:You're shifting from logic to feelings, which feels less concrete
Speaker:and more wishy washy.
Speaker:But it's actually a balancing of the feminine, masculine and
Speaker:right brain, left brain.
Speaker:It's a normal change when you're conscious and aware and on a path of personal
Speaker:growth, very deep personal growth.
Speaker:And if you're feeling that urge to step into your calling, it means you've reached
Speaker:your readiness point, plain and simple.
Speaker:Many professionals successfully transition to a spiritual coaching or mentoring
Speaker:business and they don't experience the feared fallout.
Speaker:Instead, they often find unconditional love, acceptance and
Speaker:respect for their courage.
Speaker:You might even find out that you have colleagues with similar desires.
Speaker:You'd be really surprised at who comes out of the woodwork, so to speak.
Speaker:To get help with your gifts at the early stages of your calling, it's
Speaker:important to acknowledge your desire for change.
Speaker:Reflect on your professional journey as a stepping stone for something bigger.
Speaker:Ask yourself if the fear is worth turning away from all those who
Speaker:need you in this new role.
Speaker:So all of these clients that you're going to help through your gifts in some
Speaker:spiritual way, whether that is faith based, it could be a universe, universe
Speaker:based, it could be intuition based, it could be a number of things.
Speaker:Like there's a million things that.
Speaker:It could be energy work, it could be sound healing, it could be
Speaker:manifesting coaching, right?
Speaker:All of these things, all of those people that you're going to help and who really,
Speaker:really need you, think of your fear in this way.
Speaker:Like, is it worth turning those people away to not have to face the fear?
Speaker:Most of the time when I ask that question, it's a resounding no.
Speaker:The answer, and as I recently said in, I think it was in a video on my YouTube
Speaker:channel, Coach Diaries, but I said, you know, not every thought has to be true.
Speaker:And in fact, most thoughts aren't.
Speaker:But even with the fears popping up and the hesitancy, just remind yourself, remind
Speaker:your brain that every thought that pops into your head of what could
Speaker:happen, it doesn't have to be true.
Speaker:And it usually isn't.
Speaker:So number two, use your professional background.
Speaker:Your past experiences are invaluable.
Speaker:You've spent a lifetime accumulating them, and chances are they're
Speaker:an intentional part of what has led you to this point.
Speaker:I've worked with attorneys, CEOs and medical doctors.
Speaker:I've even worked with a trauma and burn surgeon who was following
Speaker:her spiritual calling.
Speaker:They all struggled to let go of the fear of exposing an aspect of their true self
Speaker:that their career had sometimes shadowed.
Speaker:In some cases had completely shadowed, right?
Speaker:It would not have been okay to let that come through.
Speaker:Viewing this aspect of self as something that needs to be hidden is a mistake.
Speaker:This aspect of your true self is front and center right now because it's grown and
Speaker:evolved, but it has always been there.
Speaker:Your skills, knowledge and wisdom have combined to bring you to a point where
Speaker:you're ready to acknowledge and act on your calling.
Speaker:That's what I mean by readiness.
Speaker:This calling wouldn't be here and be so strong if it wasn't for readiness.
Speaker:Try to see your professional background as a needed perspective.
Speaker:You had to gain it or have it as part of your foundation, right?
Speaker:In order to be able to do this work.
Speaker:Now this can help you see your shift into more spiritual, energetic and
Speaker:woo woo work as a natural progression.
Speaker:It's a path and you know it's a progression of your purpose.
Speaker:Here are a few ways to leverage your professional background.
Speaker:1. Note your transferable skills.
Speaker:Integrate them into a spiritual guidance approach.
Speaker:2. Reflect on your career achievements.
Speaker:Notice how your past is connected to your present.
Speaker:You know it's not all about career and skills so much as it is about
Speaker:confidence and inner growth and certainty.
Speaker:How did your career help you create that?
Speaker:3.
Speaker:Create a story that bridges your past to your present and start sharing the story.
Speaker:There is one there, one that you can bridge from your career
Speaker:to your spiritual work.
Speaker:It's really important to start sharing that so many people
Speaker:will be able to relate.
Speaker:And even if it's not something they have experienced, hearing your story and
Speaker:understanding what has brought you here is how they will connect with you.
Speaker:3. Reframe career change as an evolution.
Speaker:There is nothing permanent except change.
Speaker:I swear that's my daily mantra.
Speaker:Change is the only constant.
Speaker:Sometimes it's a moment to moment mantra.
Speaker:You know nothing will ever stay the same.
Speaker:It's impossible.
Speaker:Things change and people evolve.
Speaker:It's a gift to get the chance to express a more conscious, meaningful aspect
Speaker:of yourself and your calling.
Speaker:It truly, truly is the alternative.
Speaker:Is living without experiencing the highest expression of who you are?
Speaker:Would you want a life of never having expressed this aspect of yourself?
Speaker:No, thank you.
Speaker:I chose to step into my calling even though it was and
Speaker:sometimes still is scary.
Speaker:4. Address fears and doubts.
Speaker:Identify and overcome your fears.
Speaker:You've been gifted with a powerful machine, your brain.
Speaker:However, it can be a little Excessive with protection mode.
Speaker:And that can make it really unhelpful at times.
Speaker:It usually happens when you feel stuck, unable to take the next step, or you're
Speaker:struggling to talk about the spiritual stuff openly.
Speaker:So learn how to manage your mind when this happens.
Speaker:Understand how it works so you can leverage it rather than be
Speaker:unconsciously ruled by it.
Speaker:If you don't have a system for moving fears and doubts out of the way, you won't
Speaker:be able to make the impact you're here to make, because it will always
Speaker:pop up and derail you.
Speaker:Truth is, we all struggle with fear, doubt and worry.
Speaker:Especially for things like imposter syndrome, fear of failure or
Speaker:judgment, loss of credibility.
Speaker:Acknowledge and address these fears.
Speaker:Learn the skills of mind management so you can grow your new business more quickly.
Speaker:One of the greatest skills you can attain is mind management.
Speaker:Here are a few ways you can handle fears when they pop up.
Speaker:Give your mind some truths that contradict the fear.
Speaker:Here's an example.
Speaker:You may fear that your colleagues will judge you,
Speaker:and yet you can recall that one time when you were having a heart to heart
Speaker:conversation with a colleague that you worked with and you just happened to share
Speaker:a little bit about your gift and she was all ears.
Speaker:She couldn't get enough.
Speaker:She wanted to hear more and she absolutely loved it.
Speaker:And it was a surprise call on a memory that makes you really, really happy.
Speaker:So if the fear, doubt and worry pops up, simply recall a memory of something,
Speaker:someone, a time, a point, an instance that makes you really, really happy and hold
Speaker:that feeling for as long as you can.
Speaker:The fear and the happiness can't exist at the same time.
Speaker:Hold an image of helping humanity with your gifts and feel the gratitude that
Speaker:you receive from all those people.
Speaker:Number five.
Speaker:Create daily practices that support your calling.
Speaker:You may already have some things like this in place.
Speaker:I want you to make sure that if you don't, you do.
Speaker:And if you already have something like this in place, that
Speaker:you're consistent with it.
Speaker:This has to be cultivated and treated as a skill gained, something
Speaker:that you have to practice every day.
Speaker:You found success in your career by gaining skills and practicing, so
Speaker:the same is true for your calling.
Speaker:And while the new skills and practice you take on may be more internal,
Speaker:they are needed all the same.
Speaker:The more you practice, the more confident you become, the more confident you are,
Speaker:the more effective effectively you can show up for the people who need you.
Speaker:Believe in your potential.
Speaker:Remember your intention, attention and expectations shape reality.
Speaker:Your reality.
Speaker:Set aside time every day to embody your new role with visualization.
Speaker:Write about all the new clients coming your way.
Speaker:Reflect and process any emotions that make you feel stuck or overwhelmed.
Speaker:6. Tap into your full potential.
Speaker:Developing self awareness is crucial and most of us who are on a path that is a
Speaker:special calling, a more spiritual path, or woo woo, whatever we want to call
Speaker:it, that's a very big umbrella.
Speaker:By the way, we have already developed some level of self awareness that is not
Speaker:necessarily more than the average person because there's certainly somebody doesn't
Speaker:have to necessarily be spiritual to have a higher level of self aware.
Speaker:But we wouldn't be in this place of I feel this calling, I must go do this if
Speaker:we didn't have a higher level of self awareness.
Speaker:But the first step to any great change is, as you probably already
Speaker:know, becoming aware.
Speaker:You must be aware of your surroundings, starting point and needs.
Speaker:Only then can you begin to consciously create if you're following a spiritual
Speaker:calling and with it, building a business.
Speaker:Your business is a conscious creation.
Speaker:It deserves your full potential and abilities.
Speaker:These four steps can help you tap into what you're capable of.
Speaker:Identify what's in the way of you becoming more visible in your
Speaker:new spiritual calling.
Speaker:Create a plan for addressing the obstacles and skepticism, if any.
Speaker:Cultivate your intuition and knowing regularly with daily practices and
Speaker:surround yourself with people who support your new role.
Speaker:Think of this as alchemy.
Speaker:Instead of turning lead into gold, you're transforming professional
Speaker:expertise into spiritual wisdom.
Speaker:The result is abundance for all, for yourself and for all of those
Speaker:people that you are going to help.
Speaker:But just in case, here's some statistics.
Speaker:According to the Pew Research Center, 81% say there is something spiritual beyond
Speaker:the natural world, even if we cannot see it.
Speaker:81% 74% say there are some things science cannot possibly explain.
Speaker:45% say they have had a sudden feeling of connection with something
Speaker:from beyond this world.
Speaker:Clearly, there is a growing awareness and need for spiritual coaching,
Speaker:mentoring and guidance.
Speaker:It is time.
Speaker:7. Confidently build your new identity.
Speaker:Many have walked this path before.
Speaker:Others have followed a calling and built a business around coaching,
Speaker:mentoring or spiritual guidance.
Speaker:You're not the first and you won't be the last.
Speaker:History shows a long standing presence of mystics in society.
Speaker:And their role was to remind us of who we are.
Speaker:They help us to maintain our connection to something bigger.
Speaker:People crave meaning and now more than ever
Speaker:they seek life and spiritual coaching, energy readings or wellness practices
Speaker:that connect them to a higher self.
Speaker:The need is real.
Speaker:Some of the things that I read about the current generation and or and
Speaker:even you know, beyond but because of the our current lifestyle, how much people are
Speaker:suffering from disconnect, a lack of real and meaningful relationships.
Speaker:Disconnect from nature.
Speaker:Disconnect from their higher self.
Speaker:Disconnect from something that feels meaningful.
Speaker:It's becoming a bigger and bigger problem.
Speaker:So if you're feeling that calling super strong that means readiness and
Speaker:let me tell you, we need it.
Speaker:Realize the impact that your new identity can have in comparison to your profession.
Speaker:So they're both incredibly valuable and they both fulfill a need.
Speaker:One goes wide while the other goes deep.
Speaker:Again, it's simply an evolution.
Speaker:Embrace it.
Speaker:Build your new identity as the foundation of your business.
Speaker:Identify your values and voice.
Speaker:Create a story that bridges your past with the present.
Speaker:Clarify your new audience.
Speaker:Write your message, mission and meaningful outcomes.
Speaker:Develop your offer.
Speaker:Start talking about it.
Speaker:Establish credibility in your new field.
Speaker:Start with the story that bridges your past to present.
Speaker:Be the voice for those who are not yet at the stage of readiness that you are.
Speaker:Trust that the people who resonate with you will find you.
Speaker:They'll find you and follow you and work with you.
Speaker:8. Choose a supportive community.
Speaker:Nurture relationships with former colleagues I've had many conversations
Speaker:with professionals who shifted to spiritual work and they tell me they were
Speaker:pleasantly surprised when they told everyone
Speaker:because they weren't judged in the way that they feared, but they were actually
Speaker:people that they never thought would be interested in their work,
Speaker:were in full support.
Speaker:Colleagues were even interested in working with them.
Speaker:Imagine a vertical scale.
Speaker:It shows your career as the foundation for the evolution of you.
Speaker:Even though it seems completely different and non relevant, it's relevant to you as
Speaker:a person who needed the foundation to grow from.
Speaker:With each experience of growth, you rise on the scale.
Speaker:From this perspective, you can see how your past career is connected
Speaker:and even enhances your standing.
Speaker:Foreign support systems designed for spiritually
Speaker:minded coaches, mentors and guides.
Speaker:So building a business will require work and listening to your inner guidance.
Speaker:It's important to choose support that addresses more than just your business.
Speaker:It should also help you as the whole person that you are.
Speaker:Look for mind management tools, daily practices and marketing guidance.
Speaker:Pick a community where you can go at your own pace.
Speaker:Avoid feeling pressured or intimidated by tech, aggressive tactics
Speaker:or information overload.
Speaker:When you're really sensitive to the energy of things, that can be
Speaker:a really big challenge.
Speaker:Big Issue 9 Balanced Mind Management, Manifesting and Marketing I know that
Speaker:might sound a little odd, but for those of us who are doing this, more woo woo Work.
Speaker:Energy is everything.
Speaker:Everything is energy.
Speaker:Mind management, manifesting which is intention, attention, and
Speaker:expectation and marketing are key.
Speaker:By providing tools for mind management, helping you understand the power of
Speaker:intention, attention, and expectation, and showing you how to take empowered
Speaker:marketing action, your whole being is brought into your business.
Speaker:Your whole being is honored, nurtured, and given wings.
Speaker:This is a holistic success model for business coaching that
Speaker:is rapidly taking hold.
Speaker:Integrate all three for a deeper level of long term success and you get to avoid a
Speaker:roller coaster of uncertainties that trends or tactics can bring.
Speaker:You know, I recognize that your calling may feel fragile at first first, but with
Speaker:the right support, you can make your leap into meaningful work that helps humanity
Speaker:answer your calling because you're needed.