You don't need a man to achieve anything. And trust me,
Speaker:you don't need a man to be a powerful woman. You
Speaker:don't need a man to raise your children. On the other
Speaker:hand, of what I've experienced from having a great man,
Speaker:I'm going to tell you, yeah, you do need a man. Welcome to Krystal Rowe
Speaker:Impact, a space dedicated to empowering you
Speaker:to be the change that your bloodline has been waiting for. Join me
Speaker:and together, let's inspire change. Welcome
Speaker:back to the Krystal Rowe Impact Podcast. And today we're going
Speaker:to talk about the death of the alpha male or the
Speaker:power of the alpha male. Now we live
Speaker:in a world where the alpha male is typically
Speaker:the leader of the pack, confident, assertive,
Speaker:and dominates in the industry. And
Speaker:we have come up from a generation of women
Speaker:that haven't had equal rights. They haven't been
Speaker:paid the same. And we've really lived through
Speaker:a male dominated business
Speaker:world. And today
Speaker:we're going to talk about the power of
Speaker:the masculine and the feminine energies. So
Speaker:masculine energy is about protecting and
Speaker:providing. And the feminine energy
Speaker:is about the nurturing and the sensitivity
Speaker:of one's being. Now, we
Speaker:do have to take into consideration that
Speaker:some people have to be both. We
Speaker:all have masculine and feminine energies
Speaker:inside of us, no matter our gender. But
Speaker:life sometimes throws us curveballs where we have to
Speaker:really balance both of them. And
Speaker:for me, when I came out of the refuge with my
Speaker:seven children, I had to really
Speaker:be in my masculine energy. I had to provide
Speaker:and protect my children. I had to create
Speaker:a life for us. I had to build
Speaker:that. And it wasn't the easiest
Speaker:thing to do, but in hindsight, it's all I knew I
Speaker:had to do. And yes, I was nurturing
Speaker:and I did love my children, of course, but
Speaker:it wasn't my main energy that I gave them. I
Speaker:provided and I protected. And
Speaker:for a lot of people out there, we get into a survival mode
Speaker:and this is what we do. Whether you're a male or
Speaker:a female or you're in a relationship or you're not, you
Speaker:will have one energy that dominates over
Speaker:another. And when my
Speaker:husband came into my life, I was very much in my
Speaker:masculine, not only in my personal being,
Speaker:but also in business. And that filtered out
Speaker:to the way I treated people, the way I treated my
Speaker:children. And even though I had this feminine, soft
Speaker:side to me, a very intuitive side, I
Speaker:still projected a masculine energy.
Speaker:And when my husband came into my life, he had
Speaker:a very masculine energy himself. And
Speaker:that was extremely attractive to me. And
Speaker:that is a beautiful dance that if you
Speaker:allow yourself to magnetically connect
Speaker:to somebody else's energy and
Speaker:we actually revert back to the olden
Speaker:days where the man would provide and hunt
Speaker:and gather and the woman would nurture and
Speaker:create and create life and create
Speaker:a home and create community. And so
Speaker:when TJ came into my life and he actually allowed
Speaker:me to step back from being
Speaker:so masculine and being so stuck
Speaker:in having to protect and provide. And
Speaker:when he created a safe and secure energy
Speaker:for me, I was able to drop out of my masculine energy
Speaker:and stay in my feminine energy, which
Speaker:is my creative energy. And that's really how I've had
Speaker:the opportunity to create heritage impact
Speaker:and to have the courage to do
Speaker:this podcast and actually share with you a
Speaker:part of my life that is just growing and unfolding as
Speaker:we go along. And there's a beautiful thing about allowing your
Speaker:feminine and your masculine energy to be in flow with each
Speaker:other. and have those qualities actually come
Speaker:from a man and a woman. And when you have a man in
Speaker:his masculine energy and a woman in her feminine
Speaker:energy, both creating this dynamic energy,
Speaker:everything is possible. The things that
Speaker:TJ and I have actually created and
Speaker:achieved in a short span of our relationship is
Speaker:I don't even have a word to describe it. I was going to say
Speaker:priceless and unbelievable and
Speaker:just magical. And I
Speaker:believe that everybody should experience this
Speaker:kind of love and this kind of energy
Speaker:because it is dynamic and it is powerful and
Speaker:it is empowering for both of us to
Speaker:be able to have a space where not only do
Speaker:you feel safe to be seen and nurtured, but
Speaker:a place that you know you are safe and protected. And
Speaker:when we actually are able to operate from
Speaker:such a beautiful collective space
Speaker:where our qualities are free to
Speaker:be what they are meant to be, what our human nature
Speaker:is designed for us to be, it's amazing. It's
Speaker:rewarding and it's satisfaction and
Speaker:it makes you feel like you've accomplished things in life and
Speaker:You really are in flow and you're operating from
Speaker:a place of love and acceptance and
Speaker:being in my feminine energy. my
Speaker:true divine feminine energy, which I believe is
Speaker:the center of who I actually truly am. And there's a
Speaker:part of me that knows that my intuition is the best part of
Speaker:me. I
Speaker:can sense when somebody's not OK and
Speaker:I'm allowed to show up and create a space for them
Speaker:to feel comfortable with me. And that's a really unique quality to
Speaker:have. And I am grateful for it and I
Speaker:want to nurture that. And I'm very blessed to
Speaker:be able to do so because I have a husband that
Speaker:I've allowed into my life to use
Speaker:his masculine energy and just in return I
Speaker:do the same for him. I create and use my
Speaker:feminine energy to help him to feel
Speaker:seen and loved and safe. So I encourage you
Speaker:to consider allowing your masculine
Speaker:and your feminine energies to dance beautifully together and
Speaker:in your workplace or your business allow a
Speaker:masculine energy to come to the forefront, if
Speaker:that's their strength. Allow somebody's feminine energy
Speaker:to be their strength. And it's not about a
Speaker:competition. It's not about the power
Speaker:of the alpha male and the dominancy. It's about the
Speaker:beautiful complementary energies
Speaker:of bringing them together. We've
Speaker:got to be in a world now where we choose to bring
Speaker:our masculine and our feminine energies together in
Speaker:a beautiful balance. Because when we dance beautifully
Speaker:with those energies, we radiate an
Speaker:amazing frequency that is so
Speaker:attractive to people that they begin
Speaker:to wonder, like, what is it about that person? It's
Speaker:not, oh, they're dominant, they're sensitive, they're
Speaker:this. Our energies are not in competition with
Speaker:each other. They are for each other. They empower each
Speaker:other. And when we bring them together beautifully and allow them to dance,
Speaker:you're a very special person. You're a very amazing person
Speaker:to be able to do that and encourage you to try to
Speaker:balance your energies. Now, I know we live in a
Speaker:world where You don't need
Speaker:a man to achieve anything. And trust me, I
Speaker:know that. You don't need a man to
Speaker:be a powerful woman. You don't need a man
Speaker:to raise your children. On the other hand,
Speaker:of what I've experienced and what I have become from
Speaker:having a great man, I'm gonna tell you,
Speaker:yeah, you do need a man. you do need a
Speaker:man to allow you to
Speaker:become your true authentic self. It doesn't
Speaker:matter if you're more masculine or more feminine in your energy
Speaker:and you can't find that balance. If
Speaker:you have another person in
Speaker:your life You can be, I don't
Speaker:need a woman, I don't need a man, whatever it is. Explore
Speaker:the idea that you might just need
Speaker:a man. And the reason why you need a man, a
Speaker:real man, is because you need to allow and
Speaker:give yourself permission to explore
Speaker:your feminine energy. And when you have another figure
Speaker:in your life that holds that masculine, especially
Speaker:if you are a divine feminine energy. If you truly
Speaker:want to create in your life,
Speaker:You do need that balance. And I'm here to
Speaker:tell you and share with you that it can happen. You
Speaker:can bring down the walls and you can allow
Speaker:somebody else into your life, into that role,
Speaker:and you can soften yourself and allow a
Speaker:man to be that masculine energy for you.
Speaker:And I promise you, you will find so
Speaker:much more about yourself that you didn't know
Speaker:existed and you will be more powerful and
Speaker:you will feel more empowered by letting your
Speaker:energy and your true self free. If you enjoyed this
Speaker:podcast, leave a five star review on Spotify and