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You don't need a man to achieve anything. And trust me,

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you don't need a man to be a powerful woman. You

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don't need a man to raise your children. On the other

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hand, of what I've experienced from having a great man,

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I'm going to tell you, yeah, you do need a man. Welcome to Krystal Rowe

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Impact, a space dedicated to empowering you

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to be the change that your bloodline has been waiting for. Join me

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and together, let's inspire change. Welcome

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back to the Krystal Rowe Impact Podcast. And today we're going

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to talk about the death of the alpha male or the

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power of the alpha male. Now we live

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in a world where the alpha male is typically

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the leader of the pack, confident, assertive,

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and dominates in the industry. And

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we have come up from a generation of women

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that haven't had equal rights. They haven't been

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paid the same. And we've really lived through

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a male dominated business

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world. And today

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we're going to talk about the power of

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the masculine and the feminine energies. So

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masculine energy is about protecting and

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providing. And the feminine energy

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is about the nurturing and the sensitivity

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of one's being. Now, we

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do have to take into consideration that

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some people have to be both. We

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all have masculine and feminine energies

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inside of us, no matter our gender. But

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life sometimes throws us curveballs where we have to

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really balance both of them. And

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for me, when I came out of the refuge with my

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seven children, I had to really

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be in my masculine energy. I had to provide

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and protect my children. I had to create

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a life for us. I had to build

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that. And it wasn't the easiest

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thing to do, but in hindsight, it's all I knew I

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had to do. And yes, I was nurturing

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and I did love my children, of course, but

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it wasn't my main energy that I gave them. I

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provided and I protected. And

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for a lot of people out there, we get into a survival mode

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and this is what we do. Whether you're a male or

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a female or you're in a relationship or you're not, you

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will have one energy that dominates over

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another. And when my

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husband came into my life, I was very much in my

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masculine, not only in my personal being,

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but also in business. And that filtered out

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to the way I treated people, the way I treated my

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children. And even though I had this feminine, soft

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side to me, a very intuitive side, I

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still projected a masculine energy.

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And when my husband came into my life, he had

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a very masculine energy himself. And

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that was extremely attractive to me. And

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that is a beautiful dance that if you

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allow yourself to magnetically connect

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to somebody else's energy and

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we actually revert back to the olden

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days where the man would provide and hunt

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and gather and the woman would nurture and

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create and create life and create

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a home and create community. And so

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when TJ came into my life and he actually allowed

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me to step back from being

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so masculine and being so stuck

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in having to protect and provide. And

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when he created a safe and secure energy

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for me, I was able to drop out of my masculine energy

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and stay in my feminine energy, which

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is my creative energy. And that's really how I've had

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the opportunity to create heritage impact

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and to have the courage to do

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this podcast and actually share with you a

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part of my life that is just growing and unfolding as

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we go along. And there's a beautiful thing about allowing your

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feminine and your masculine energy to be in flow with each

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other. and have those qualities actually come

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from a man and a woman. And when you have a man in

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his masculine energy and a woman in her feminine

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energy, both creating this dynamic energy,

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everything is possible. The things that

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TJ and I have actually created and

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achieved in a short span of our relationship is

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I don't even have a word to describe it. I was going to say

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priceless and unbelievable and

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just magical. And I

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believe that everybody should experience this

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kind of love and this kind of energy

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because it is dynamic and it is powerful and

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it is empowering for both of us to

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be able to have a space where not only do

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you feel safe to be seen and nurtured, but

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a place that you know you are safe and protected. And

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when we actually are able to operate from

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such a beautiful collective space

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where our qualities are free to

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be what they are meant to be, what our human nature

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is designed for us to be, it's amazing. It's

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rewarding and it's satisfaction and

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it makes you feel like you've accomplished things in life and

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You really are in flow and you're operating from

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a place of love and acceptance and

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being in my feminine energy. my

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true divine feminine energy, which I believe is

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the center of who I actually truly am. And there's a

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part of me that knows that my intuition is the best part of

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me. I

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can sense when somebody's not OK and

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I'm allowed to show up and create a space for them

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to feel comfortable with me. And that's a really unique quality to

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have. And I am grateful for it and I

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want to nurture that. And I'm very blessed to

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be able to do so because I have a husband that

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I've allowed into my life to use

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his masculine energy and just in return I

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do the same for him. I create and use my

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feminine energy to help him to feel

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seen and loved and safe. So I encourage you

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to consider allowing your masculine

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and your feminine energies to dance beautifully together and

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in your workplace or your business allow a

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masculine energy to come to the forefront, if

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that's their strength. Allow somebody's feminine energy

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to be their strength. And it's not about a

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competition. It's not about the power

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of the alpha male and the dominancy. It's about the

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beautiful complementary energies

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of bringing them together. We've

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got to be in a world now where we choose to bring

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our masculine and our feminine energies together in

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a beautiful balance. Because when we dance beautifully

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with those energies, we radiate an

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amazing frequency that is so

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attractive to people that they begin

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to wonder, like, what is it about that person? It's

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not, oh, they're dominant, they're sensitive, they're

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this. Our energies are not in competition with

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each other. They are for each other. They empower each

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other. And when we bring them together beautifully and allow them to dance,

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you're a very special person. You're a very amazing person

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to be able to do that and encourage you to try to

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balance your energies. Now, I know we live in a

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world where You don't need

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a man to achieve anything. And trust me, I

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know that. You don't need a man to

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be a powerful woman. You don't need a man

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to raise your children. On the other hand,

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of what I've experienced and what I have become from

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having a great man, I'm gonna tell you,

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yeah, you do need a man. you do need a

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man to allow you to

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become your true authentic self. It doesn't

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matter if you're more masculine or more feminine in your energy

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and you can't find that balance. If

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you have another person in

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your life You can be, I don't

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need a woman, I don't need a man, whatever it is. Explore

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the idea that you might just need

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a man. And the reason why you need a man, a

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real man, is because you need to allow and

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give yourself permission to explore

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your feminine energy. And when you have another figure

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in your life that holds that masculine, especially

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if you are a divine feminine energy. If you truly

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want to create in your life,

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You do need that balance. And I'm here to

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tell you and share with you that it can happen. You

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can bring down the walls and you can allow

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somebody else into your life, into that role,

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and you can soften yourself and allow a

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man to be that masculine energy for you.

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And I promise you, you will find so

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much more about yourself that you didn't know

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existed and you will be more powerful and

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you will feel more empowered by letting your

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energy and your true self free. If you enjoyed this

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podcast, leave a five star review on Spotify and