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People are so scared to make mistakes. That's why they get so depressed and

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Your views on the way society is treating mental health is

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not dissimilar to ours. Obviously, we know it's a real problem. Guys

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Everyone does though. That's just how it is. It's how you deal with it and how you look

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at things. If you want to like cry and get upset about it, then you're just going to be

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These guys have some of the strongest mental fortitude because

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Just say something's happened at a show beforehand. You've got to have something in

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Welcome to the Better Bloke Podcast. I'm Matty. I'm Rob. And

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we're just a pair of average blokes on a mission to try and be a

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We're going to speak about all things highs and lows of what it feels like to be a bloke,

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plus speak to some legends along the way about what it takes to be a better bloke. Let's

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He spent most of his life on two wheels, growing up racing motocross.

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Transitioned into the nitro circus and freestyle motocross. He traveled

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the world doing shows. You got into content creation and

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started one of the best photography studios in Australia. Thanks man.

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You've gone on to have a couple of the raddest little whippersnappers. You got

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Yeah. That was a great intro. That was nearly as good as Bruce Robson's Nitro

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Oh, look, I'm going for the job. Is he due to retire soon or

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Oh, sick. I'll be in. It's there for you. But that's why you're here.

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You've done so many cool things in a relatively short amount

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of time. And it's like, you've, you've had so many phases to

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your life where you've gone from one cool thing to the next cool thing.

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How does it feel kind of looking back at maybe the last 15 years

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It's pretty cool. I guess, you know, if you told yourself this as a

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kid, what you'd have, you definitely wouldn't believe it kind of thing. But I

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guess, I don't know, I've just done what I've enjoyed all the time.

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Like I've never really worked. I mean, I've hustled and

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I've got shit done, but I've never like done anything I haven't wanted to do. That's probably

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Where do you think that came from? Like that was obviously something

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you did from day dot. Like you were riding bikes before you

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Not really, to be honest, I didn't get my first bike until I was 14. So I

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started really late. I always wanted one. And when I finally got

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one, it was just like the best thing ever. And then I just, obviously just. Had

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help from the parents and just got into it and kept going and then I

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did work once my first ever job was Changing tires at

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tire power. It was like the shittiest job changing tires.

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I just had black hands for like a month and then I made

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a mind John I Porter passed away and always had like his pictures on my toolbox and

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that when I was working and When he died, I was just like that's it.

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I was gonna ride try and get good But like that's a real late

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time to get a bike as well. Do you reckon that's what helped you? I

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don't know, get that hunger to actually give it a proper crack with writing because

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you were, you're probably competing against a whole bunch of boys that have

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Yeah. I guess I just had the more, yeah, I was more passionate about it and

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more like, cause they'd kind of kids, you know, dads push their kids

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when they're like four and five into writing. So then by the time

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they're kind of 18, my age, they kind of just on

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the way out, they're kind of over it. So I was kind of like so passionate. I

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No, I, I think it's, it's very inspirational. Like

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I've known you for a few years now and it

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was probably on, I first met you, I think you were

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still doing a bit of the Nitro stuff, but you were definitely transitioning into the

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content side of stuff. What I

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guess drove that transition and like, how

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can you, how do you know when it's kind of time

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Yeah, it was kind of weird. I guess I kind of did both. I'd never really thought that my riding

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would kind of take off. So my parents always said like, you got

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to have something else. So I always kind of was growing the photography thing on

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the side the whole way through. Just, I just took every day as I

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could with riding. Cause you never know what could happen with a crash or injury

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or something like that. So I was always just kind of not growing it,

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but just doing another love on the side. So whenever I was injured, like

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a lot of riders get pretty depressed when they get break a leg and they can't do anything else

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where I didn't get sad because. I had this other thing I was doing on

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the side, which I could do injured. So if I had like a broken leg, which was pretty

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much very common, so I could just pick up a camera and

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still do shit. So I would be on tour and I would still like shoot all

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the content for, um, not just circus and a lot of

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their, um, sponsors videos and that while I was still on tour. So

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When you're on tour, and this is something that we

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talk a lot about, about is the people you surround yourself with. You

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see guys going down into these holes and you look who they're around

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and it's all other people in those holes. You're being surrounded by

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people, you know, Travis Pastrana, like some of the raddest guys

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on two wheels. Um, so it's just like going to

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shows in countries and all these people are all doing cool

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stuff and all chasing their dreams. They're going hard.

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There's definitely a good positive environment to be around at. The first couple

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of years was crazy, like you had the best skateboarders, best

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rollerbladers, best BMXers, best everyone

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there was like the best at what they did and it was a pretty cool vibe. I don't

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What's that like doing a show with those kind of like, is it just a massive dick

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It kind of was, but it was kind of more like that. I found like on

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Krusty Demons where it was kind of just always just freestyle guys, but

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because it was a mix of everyone, everyone kind of was the best

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at what they did. So they didn't need to do that. Yeah. So it was like a self-respect thing.

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So everyone pushed each other. Exactly. And everyone was pumped on what everyone else

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did because they couldn't do that. So that was kind of the crazy cool

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You mentioned injuries, right? So motorbikes

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are notorious. There's a lot of dudes that do get

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hurt. And like, obviously along the way you do

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lose some people. How is having

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that as such an inherent part of, you know, your career or

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what you do being difficult to deal with

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Yeah, it's kind of tricky, I guess. I don't know, the way I looked at it, I just didn't

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think it was going to last forever. So I was just enjoying every moment I could. And

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my whole, I guess, I was like that, I live in the moment, but also live

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like a bit further ahead, where I was like, my whole new goal is

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my freestyle career is to have kids one day and go riding

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with them. So I had this long-term goal was just

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to be able to walk and be able to ride with my kids. So as

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long as I kept that in my head, that kind of kept me safe in a sense. Cause

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no matter what happens, if like I couldn't do that, that would

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crush me more than not being able to do the latest trick or not being able to get

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on this tour. The end goal was worse, I

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So you've achieved your life goal. Pretty much. How does that

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Yeah, I was stoked. It was only probably about a month ago actually. Both

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How does that make you feel with like knowing that

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you sort of had that life goal to be able to do that and now you're doing it

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with the possibility of them going

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into what you were doing, like, obviously, you

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didn't really have much self-preservation, or you did to an extent, but only

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as much self-preservation as you can have when you're doing freestyle. What

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I don't know, you're kind of stuck there, because I obviously love them riding in that. But then

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if you try to stop someone from doing something, they'll probably want to do it more. So I

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don't know. I guess I can just only teach them to

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help them be smart and aware of what's going on. I don't know.

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I don't know. I don't know where to go from here,

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but I don't want to like feel like they ever want to

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like have to do anything, like just whatever they want to do. But obviously

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injuries are around, like two of my mates got paralyzed a

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week ago, two of them, like two different ones, same

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day they're in the hospital beds next to each other. But I don't want to, like, hide

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that from my kids. I want them to know that this could happen. So

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if you want to do it, it's your choice. Because I think there'd be nothing worse than

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if, you know, being a dad and pushing your kid into sun ink, and then that

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happens. It's your responsibility kind of thing. Yeah, it was your problem. Where

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I'd rather my kids know the chances. Like, you guys are lucky to ride this.

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This could happen. If you want to do it, it's your choice. That's what I kind of do with

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my boys. Teaching them real-world shit. Yeah, like

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shit can happen not trying to hide them from it I'd rather than know the consequences because

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I've had it happen. I've seen guys in shows get paralyzed When

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I'm in writing with them and then a month later They're sitting in a wheelchair while

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you're trying to practice and it's there and it's a really it's

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a head thing It's hard to see you obviously care so much,

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Yeah. Does that fuck with you as you're like after, just

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say something's happened to a show beforehand and

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then you're getting out there to go do it now. Like you've got

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to have something in your head that's going like, fuck, am I next? Or

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You can't. I guess the one good thing about freestyle is like it's

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a lot on you. You're not relying on teams, you're not relying on anyone else.

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A little bit when you're doing trains that are close and you're following each other, you're relying

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on people. But a lot of it is you just, it's

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you. So as long as you can do everything right, you're fine kind of thing. I

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We did a men's health event a couple of weeks back and one of the

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other speakers was a high performance coach in rugby. And

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like top tier guy, he was the essentially the

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mindset coach for the All Blacks, the Warriors. I

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don't know, you know the teams better than me. But the point is he

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deals with the best athletes in the world. And I had

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a discussion with him. A lot of my background is in action

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sports and I said, These guys, I

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believe have some of the strongest mental

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fortitude because they're risking it all. Like, yes,

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in rugby, you might go out there and snap an ACL, but every

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time you're flying 75 foot through the air, like you need your

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mind to be absolutely in sync with

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your body. You need to be able to deal with the risk involved. And

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I think just mentally, some of these action sports athletes

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mentally. Yeah, it's a weird thing because you

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don't realise all that stuff when you're kind of doing it. You're just kind of learning along

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the way. But years ago, when I met Jacko Strong,

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when he taught me how to flip and stuff, and it took me a long time. It

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took me like a year to actually get my head around it all. And he used to

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listen to these like hypnosis tapes about motivation and stuff

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like that. And he's always done that, and he's done

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everything he's ever done in freestyle. He's top of his game. And

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it worked for me. It cleared me up and just made me kind of focus on what

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I needed to. And I know there's a lot of top guys who do that stuff, but

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So it's not just that you have a screw loose. You actually do shit to try.

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Yeah, that's the thing. I think people don't get taught that at school. I think it

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should be a thing that you should teach. You get taught how to look after your body and stuff,

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And do you do that now? Like we spoke about it last week

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where like I've got a little fella and like we'll

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do like gratefuls and all that sort of shit every night just so he knows

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to, I don't know, before he goes to bed he thinks about like the good shit that

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And that's exactly what I do. I think that's something they should, everyone should teach

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people, teach kids like how to combat things like that. Cause

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everyone gets shitty times and you harp on things, especially when you're laying

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in bed and you've actually got time to think. Like, if I get

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stuck in that and I get something repetitive in my head that's kind of negative, I would just

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think of going to some, like, happy place and just think about some track riding

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or my kids getting born or something good. And that can kind

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of, like, escape for a moment. But I think people, you know,

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I like to think if you can be in a bad mood for no reason,

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you can be in a good mood for no reason. That's true. Yeah, definitely. So

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there's definitely strength. Sometimes I'm in the car just

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like literally forcing myself into being in

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a good mood. I'll just like start talking all positive shit. It actually

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I don't know. I reckon they should teach that stuff. The

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mind is so important. I know a lot of healthy fit guys,

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but they're not the fittest up in their minds. Sometimes they're

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the most depressed, to be honest. I think you've got a healthy mind

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Fuck yeah, I'll write that. I have the sloppiest rig, but I am

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I was noticing people go to the gym and they just got there. They're the most messed

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up people in the head. Not like obviously everyone, but just I got a couple of mates and

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that's all they chase. And they don't even know that they're not happy. They're not happy

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You're asking random question. What's what word? Yellow. Everyone's

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Um, being self aware. All right. So

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being self-aware is what a lot of

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blokes are lacking and they think, you

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know, they know themselves, but like, as you start peeling back the layers and

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like looking back a little, little deeper into why you actually do things,

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why you feel a certain way at a certain time, what's happening, how

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you're reacting to stuff. I think that's probably the space that

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maybe kids are being taught a little bit better now or should be. And

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I think that's what we kind of lacked a little bit growing up and we've had to learn it

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I think a lot of it comes down to, well, what we're trying to do now

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is like have these conversations with weapons like you, where

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like you and I can both go, yeah, sweet. We're teaching our kids like to

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do these little tricks here or you're questioning why aren't kids

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doing this now? There's going to be a bunch of boys that are going to listen to this and go, Oh

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fuck. I'm going to go home and do this now. And even

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if, I don't know, we get three guys that actually go

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and action it. Yeah. That's three sets of kids now

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that are going to be able to go and talk to their kids, like

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talk to their mates at school and go, I did this last night. And it's just

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Yeah. You definitely hope so. And yeah. I

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don't know, I guess I was lucky. I just kind of figured it out along the

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way on my own. But yeah, a lot of people probably don't. And I can't speak

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for everyone and everyone's situations, but that's just what's worked for me. It's just always

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try to find, it's just simple things, I guess. Like find something positive

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in everything bad and nothing bad ever happens. And that's

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what I've always lived by. And if it's not going to kill you, like, I guess coming

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from freestyle where it actually could kill me, then everything

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else is easy now. It's all crime. And

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that's kind of why I've taken heaps of risks in business because to

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me, it's just money. It's not going to, I'm not going to break my neck or die

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And that's so you, you've gone from essentially crushing

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it in a freestyle, super competitive, super

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dangerous world. You're now crushing it in

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business too. Like you're doing some, some pretty gnarly shit in

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business. Like you're, you're photographing like the

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biggest brands in the world. Some of what the

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biggest models, like you're doing heaps of product stuff. You've built

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some cool shit now too. Like what? What

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stops you from actually, I don't know, looking

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back at that risk other than just what you mentioned then? with

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the FMX stuff. Is there anything else or just full sends all

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Yeah, I don't know. Just have a go. And don't listen

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to your mates, I reckon. They're business. Unless they're good at

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their business, it's like you wouldn't take medical advice from your mate. They're

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good to have a beer with at the pub, but don't let them talk to

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Yeah, where you want to be and actually know what they're talking about. There's so

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many people who just like try to bring everyone down. I hate that. So I've just always

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Yeah. So sick. One of the reasons I

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wanted to get you on here was your views on, I

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guess, the way society is treating mental health is not dissimilar to

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ours. Yeah. So obviously we know it's a real problem. Guys

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have hard times, but I think everyone does though.

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Oh, everyone does. Yeah. We've started saying bloke

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is almost like a term for good people. Oh, yeah. Women

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I think everyone has shit times. That's the problem. It's not the problem.

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That's just how it is. It's how you deal with it and how you look at things.

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If you want to cry and get upset about it, then you're just going to

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Yeah. So that's why I wanted to get you on because of this, this train of

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thought. So if you sit there and you're, you know, pitying

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yourself, if you're trying to blame other people, if you're trying to

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say, you know, it's okay to feel terrible

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and depressed and I'm going to sit in it. It's

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not going to get you out of it. And that's something you've never done. you've

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always been able to get your mind in the positive place in

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bad situations, because you've probably gone through some tougher stuff than

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most people as well, like from injuries to uncertainty and

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Yeah, like one crash might lose like

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60 grand instantly because you cut off the rest of the tour. They need to replace you,

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so you get no money. It's like you're years gone of wage

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when I was younger. And I don't know, you just got to suck

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I know I sound dumb, but I never even got slightly

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depressed by that. I was just like, oh, well, I learned whatever,

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It comes back to that whole sort of, it's okay to make mistakes as

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Yeah, it is fine to make mistakes. I think people are so scared to

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make mistakes. That's probably why they get so depressed and in so much anxiety and

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it kind of, they're too combined, I think, because the anxiety is about, they

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don't want to make a mistake. So they get so scared and

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I find a lot of the time, if I'm like super nervous

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or worrying too much about shit, that's when I'm more likely to

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make mistakes other than just backing myself completely and

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Totally. And it's good to have a bit of anxiety. I guess it prepares you for

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whatever's coming up kind of thing. It's just a natural thing. But if

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You said it earlier, being comfortable

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with risk is something that's been beneficial to

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you from your writing to your business. That's something people freak

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out about, right? Like whether it's leaving their

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job and not having that paycheck coming in so they can actually go and chase a

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dream or literally anything else they want to do. A

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lot of people are not comfortable with risking it. Like

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you said, it's only money at the end of the day. How do you think

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or have you seen people or yourself take risk

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I've just seen it work with so many of my mates. If they have

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a steady job and they take that chance to go out on their own, and if they've thought about

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it enough, it always seems to work out for them. I've never known anyone

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who's gone out and taken a chance on their own and then failed. Because they've

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taken the time, they've been thinking about it for a year or two years in

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their job, and they finally build up enough to take that chance, and

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it's always worked for them. So I don't think it's even a

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risk, really. You've obviously put in the work, and

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Yeah, with good preparation, I a hundred percent agree. Yeah. Like

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it's just so scary for a lot of boys to take a shot.

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Yeah. What are they? I don't know. It depends on what they're trying to, what they're worried about losing. Are

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they just embarrassed they might fail? Are they scared they

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won't have that nice car that they're trying to show off to their mates? Like

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Do you find it's harder to take risks now that you've got the kids and all that sort of

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I should, I should more what I should, but my

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Yeah. Cause like, I don't know, see, I've got that with, well,

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Jess is the same with me. She'll keep me in check with

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big loud ideas and whatnot. I mean, we're

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taking a risk with this. It's an egg, it's a calculated risk, but you

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know, we're doing some cool shit and all that sort of stuff. But I

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find that. Like my ability to worry about

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risk is sort of outweighed by the fact of wanting to do

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And that's good for you. That's another positive somewhere else.

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So I want the kids to be able to go like, oh, my dad did this or

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like, you know, just little cool stuff like that. It's sort of subsidized

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Totally. And then I get vibes off them

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because I see them every day. They learn something new and they just get so excited.

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And then I'm like, I'm not dead yet. I can sort of do new cool shit too. So

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it kind of keeps pushing me as well. My kids do the

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That's sick. I think that's one of the best things about having kids is when Not

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when they start to get close to you though, although your, your ones are pretty little still aren't you? Oh

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yeah. Three and four. Yeah. So they're probably not rivaling you with too many things

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I think that's the best thing. It's do you, do

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Yeah. Do you reckon that's a, that's a big thing with, I

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don't know, keeping you hungry. Cause obviously you're pretty competitive with

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Totally, but as long as they're happy, as long as they're having fun, like, I don't care. You

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Kind of not. It's so different. It's weird. You probably know. The kids are just so

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different. Like, you can do exactly the same thing, treat them

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the same. Well, you think you treat them the same, but I guess you obviously don't. The

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first ones obviously do a lot more, and the second one you're kind of a bit cruisey

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See, I think we were the opposite with our one and two

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because the way that our second one came in was hectic. Oh,

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okay. And all that sort of shit. But so you went more like, yeah,

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I think the second one was more sort of baby than the first one, but like,

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Yeah, mine are only a year and two days, I think apart. Yeah, that's why.

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Something you said to me a fair few years ago now, I think we were on a

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shoot and there's a handful of quotes that like live in

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my head. Yeah. This is a Matty Mac quote. You said,

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you can have it all, but not at once. That's

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probably my favorite one, yeah. That was before you had kids, right? So,

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you know, you kind of live this life where you're flying around the world, you're doing the

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business, you're doing the photos, and now you like have this super

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like wholesome life where the business is, I guess, set

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up to be not intensively time consuming. Yeah.

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And you get to spend all this time with these young kids, which That

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was always one of the things I thought if I ever had kids, I'd

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love to be able to be set up enough to

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And I think it's like not everyone's situations, but

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a lot of people can, they just choose to make more money or I

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That's sick. Well, that's why I loved being on the tools and

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then got off the tools to get back into sales because I

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love doing school pickup or being able to drop them off or having

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that flexibility if I need to be able to go, I'm not

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letting a team down. I can go, hey, call the

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boss up and go, he's got a sports day today. I'll go to the

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I do little shit like that. It's so much more rewarding. I

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take every Tuesday off and just spend it with the boys. It was kind of hard at first. My

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clients, they didn't really understand. Now everyone accepts it.

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That's sick, because you only get so much time with them throughout every

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age bracket they're in. So I respect that so

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That's so cool. It's not easy to do, but I guess I've just kind of

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been in good situations where what I've built doesn't involve, like you

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said, too much time. So I can kind of let people in the studio and then

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I can kind of leave and stuff like that. I don't know what,

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I guess, I remember like an old guy said to me once, he was like, um,

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kids grow up, or lots of people, old people say like kids grow up so quick

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and I was just like, he's something to that. He's, I think it's because

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I don't spend enough time with them. That's why they grow up so quick where I feel

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like my kids haven't grown up quick at all. Cause I've spent so much time with them. It feels slow.

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Right that. The, yeah,

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there's the whole them riding bikes thing. It's just

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kind of. It makes me so happy to see, like,

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I was trying to hold them out till I was like 15, like myself, to

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Between you and April, your partner, like

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they didn't probably have much hope and not doing rad stuff. How's,

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um. I guess how's seeing them sort

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of like getting to live this lifestyle

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that you might've imagined they did, they

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would do, but you didn't want to push them into it and they naturally sort of

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wanted to do it. Like it's got to feel good saying like, oh,

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it's cool. When Mac was riding the stock. Yeah. That was

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mental. Like a four year old riding this, one of the most powerful bikes

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It was cool. But then he didn't think it was cool. So he just

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thought that he took it for granted. Right. So that kind of like, not

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took away from it, but it was just like, oh, I was like, he's just, he's so

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naturally talented. He didn't think anything of it. So I'm like, fuck, maybe it's too

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early for that stuff. I would have killed for

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It's just one of those things where. He just got off and

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he was just like, literally he rode around and he's just like, I was

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How many messages did you get from people going like that's crazy?

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Everyone's pretty good to be honest. Yeah. I was out of control. It

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was just such a

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heavy bike, actually. That's the biggest thing. But I just thought he would ride around the paddock, but

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then he started like following the track like perfectly. But that was the

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cool thing about that bike. Cause you can dial it down to like barely moving and

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there's still, he's got his hand brakes on his things. He's fine. Did you see the

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Yeah, I was just like right around with him, let him do the throttle. And then I just kind of like, so

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And he was stretched out, like legs were straight just to

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But I still try, like, I definitely don't want to push them into the bike thing. Like

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we still take them like, I take them rock climbing once a fortnight. We

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started jujitsu, just trying everything. I just want to see what they're like.

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I don't want to feel like they should do that. Cause I do it kind of thing. Just

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try everything. And they are just naturally like talented and everything. Cause they're

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not scared. Like you take this, like a four year or three year old to a rock climbing center.

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They don't even care that the height, they just like trust that everything's going

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That's the, where do you reckon fear comes from? It's

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probably a question for both of you. Cause obviously like I've seen

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it with my two. They don't have fear at

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They just trust us. I think if we, if we like, if I say you'll

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be fine, they're just like, okay, dad says you're fine. We'll be fine. They

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If you're not going to be scared of nothing. Yeah. Cause that's true. Cause that's something that

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All the nuts shit you've done. Yeah. It's obviously, yeah. And

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that's what it is. Like with freestyle, it's the same roller coaster for

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every rider. You just like get up, you get confident, confident, crash,

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lose all your confidence. And you slowly build up over a year of no crashes, break

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an arm, back down. It's just like a roller coaster. It's a big cycle. Your whole career is

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just ups and downs. And if you get away with more,

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you're just going to keep doing more and more until it's a bigger crash. And then you just straight

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Yeah, that's something I had to deal with. Like I was racing downhill

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as a teen. I'm like, I was never like that top

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tier dude. I was racing the nationals and stuff, but it was never going

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anywhere, but I was still getting hurt just the same. And I

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had to look at it going like, this is not even close to becoming a

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job for me. Like it took me about until

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I was 20 years old to be like, Like I literally

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can't break stuff because I was like bartending at the time. I

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kind of broken wrist. I won't be able to pay for anything. And

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that's for me when the risk was like, it's

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not worth it. Like I can't do it. And it was mainly a

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Yeah, so I had that with, I stopped playing

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footy, went on the tools. The week I got off the tools and

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back into sales, had our last game of the season.

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And I just had, didn't have to worry about hurting myself. So I'm like, oh, I'm back in sales now.

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ACL, MCL, Patel, I just blew it all to bits. All

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my self-preservation went out the window. I'm like, oh yeah, that's

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right. You're shit at footy and you're really old now. You

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You get that. So you, Pretty

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So how, how do you see your life sort

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of going over the next 10 years? Is it centered around, you know, family

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and just like continuing to do cool stuff? Cause you're still doing the,

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like the desert dads and the still getting out on the bike. You're

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Yeah, I don't actually know, to be honest. It's a good question. I don't know what I'm trying to aim

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for now. I kind of actually need to find a new goal. Honestly,

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I think it's just the boys kind of change everything when they

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come along. I didn't really have any more goals. It was just kind

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So I don't know. Conor McGregor said it, I think. If

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you live in the past, you're depressed. If you live in the future, you're anxious.

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Yeah. So I guess that's kind of where I'm at at the moment. I'm not

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trying to chase things. I'm not trying to build. I used to have a dream of having

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big studios in Melbourne and Sydney and doing it all, replicating

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it. But then I'm like, I don't need to. I'm fine. I'm happy.

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I kind of like these, I'm not chasing anything anymore. I've got everything I

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How important do you think it is to rather than achieve

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bigger and bigger goals is to be content

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Oh, 100%, everything. Your car, your drive, everything,

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your house you're in, situations you're in, you kind of just got

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to like, actually, like, yeah, like, enjoy what you've got, because people

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don't have, people look up to, would look up to you and think that you've, you

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know, got the world. So, I don't know, it's just enjoying

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Did that shift for you? Was there a time like 10 years ago

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Nah, I've never, I've never been like that ever. I've, I've,

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I lived like in the smallest little shared house with like eight

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people just to kind of save up money to buy a business. Like I was never

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about impressing anyone with anything, just always done what I wanted. Drove

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like the old bone up van that used to stop on the side of the road and

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I'd get off and walk the rest of the way to work and stuff like that. Like,

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I think that's the thing that everyone sees. Everyone will see

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all the cool stuff that you've done and the highlights of, I

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guess, Maddie Mac's done all this wicked shit,

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but they wouldn't know you're living in share houses to do

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stuff. The journey that it takes to do the

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cool shit, no one sees that. They just see the

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No, I still have fun and I still love doing it. I've never depressed about it,

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but it's just things you take. I think just kids these days, they

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think they need to meet a girl, and they spend all this money impressing a girl

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living in this nice, fancy place they can't afford. Not fancy,

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but you know. You just kind of just got to, like, if

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you want to get ahead in life, you kind of just got to suck it up. You got to live somewhere you don't want to live

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Yeah. Too many people are living beyond their means. That's, that's

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probably the better way of putting it. It's bullshit because

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it's so much of it's driven by social media too. Yeah. You're

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saying, you know, Bali trips and fancy cars and

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just all this fucking bullshit. Yeah.

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And it's cool that you've never really engaged with it.

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you're a very humble kind of guy, which is, it's good. More

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people probably need to conduct themselves in

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that way because until you have that, you're probably not going to be

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They're the pretty ones though. So

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like you've, you've done, Some, some cool shit, like

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throughout your stretch of your life. I've just

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That comes back to you being super humble. Um, like what are your,

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your biggest achievements that you've, that you've done?

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Like, if you look back from, you know, your first memory

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to right here, sitting on this couch with us now, and

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you had to pick three, like what's your, your three biggest achievements

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I know, I guess like obviously growing up when I was like 14, 15, before

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I even really had a motorbike, I just watched my videos and it's like, see

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the guys and that. And pretty much all those top guys that I looked up

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to, I got to ride with at one point for like months.

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And that like me and Travis Pastrana used to be like synchro partners in

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the show for four or five years. So we would do all our same

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tricks. We would like touch double cans in the air and do all that

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Cause stuff like that, like I know things that I'd never, you wouldn't even like

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people say, is this a dream? And like the dream come true. I'm like, no, it would never

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even considered dreaming it to like, it was a waste of time. But to

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do stuff like that. And then just to travel the world and do

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what I love, like there was nothing better. Like I used

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to just every pretty much show big show, I would like take

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one second on top of the ramp when it was like a couple hundred thousand people.

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And I would just like take like three seconds just to soak

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it in, I guess. And I felt like that was my

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way of just like putting it inside me. So I never would miss

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it, I guess, because I actually took the time to enjoy it. I feel like people only

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miss things in life when they haven't really enjoyed them. So

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Yeah. So good. Love that you're putting together a life

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Yeah, I don't know. I never really kind of talked about it, but I guess, yeah, I

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just, yeah, I know. I think you just got to appreciate the moments. So if you actually

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That's the biggest thing that anytime we have someone that, you

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know, puts up in the group or I'm getting married or. You

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know, what's the best bit of advice, the best bit of advice I ever got about

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like a wedding day or which, like you just said, you can use in anything is

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like take five and just enjoy the moment, enjoy the

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day. Cause everyone gets so caught up in a moment

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or the hype around like a situation and they don't actually appreciate what

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You've got, if you, and it's, it's the biggest thing you can do. If you just appreciate it

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Yeah. I I've done that when I'm on shoots in like some crazy ass

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locations and it's almost like you're like loading it

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into the memory bank. Seriously. You're like, let's soak this in. I

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won't remember the whole thing, but. All right. I'm going to remember what

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I'm looking at now, how I'm feeling right now. And

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Yeah. It's life-changing I reckon. And I

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used to do it like once or twice at the start and I was like, holy shit. And then I could

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just. Whenever I was sad, I could just go back to that moment, because it

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was right in the memory bank, like you said. And I

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think that's, yeah, I know. It doesn't matter what it is. It doesn't have to be like

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So that's cool to see. Like I'm sitting with two photographers that can capture moments,

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but these are both saying that like, fuck the photos,

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like capture it in your head and like live in the now where you

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I'm big about that. I guess. Yeah. When you feel like that, I guess that is why

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we kind of do it. And they say, what, um, if you

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ever want to say, say what a photographer is scared of losing, look at what they photograph

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most. A lot of the time it's you.

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Maybe not your work stuff, but like your personal stuff. Like if you're taking photos

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of your kids the most or whatever you'd love doing, like that's what you're,

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Yeah. It's mainly photos of my dogs. That holds up. Screenshot of

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tens. For

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lack of a better term, you pretty much met

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your idols in the likes of Travis Westina and stuff like

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that. He would have been very popular, popular when

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you were growing up and getting into the scene. Do you remember what it was

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like when was an invitation? Like how did that

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initial connection start? And was that one

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Yeah, I can't remember when we first met, to be honest. But yeah,

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I don't even know, to be honest. I guess it kind of just happens kind of fast, but slowly.

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And then you're kind of there. And then you just got invited to the tour.

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And you're kind of just in the room. And then next, you're riding together. And

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I can't remember, I know Starstruck, Rob had one the other week.

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Oh yeah, look, I fangirled hard the other week. Who

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was that? That was Liam Paro. So he's the

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IBF world champ for boxing. And yeah, I got a little bit

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excited and all my cool, calm, collective

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composure just went out the fucking window. I

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Yeah. I've found that like, obviously like in what we do, we do

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have like big people coming into shoots and stuff. You meet influencers, celebrities,

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whatever. And if there's no like personal connection, like

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I feel like I could meet like a Chris Hemsworth and yeah, like

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It's until you do something like that's memorable with those people, like out on

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the drink and piss and having a, you know, like more like a down to

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Yeah. Or if it's someone that's like completely in alignment with

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what you want to do, which is why I ask about Travis. Yeah. Cause I

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kind of had it. I'm went over to Casey Neistat studio. Oh yeah.

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Yeah. Like I'm like, man, like I'm in the room

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where like this dude taught me how to use a GoPro like 15 years ago.

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It was, a critical part of forming, like,

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everything I've done in my life. And that, for me, I

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did the memory thing now. I'm like, I'm in this room right now. Processed

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Yeah, I guess it's still, like, about, yeah, probably 10 years ago now, so it's

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Well, even now, like, you'd be meeting some pretty cool people still. Do

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you... Do you not have, like, that little

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starstruck moment with some of the guys? Or are you just like, eh, if they're cool, they're cool, if not,

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I don't know. I've always just kind of like treated,

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I try to treat everyone just exactly the same. It doesn't matter who it is. And

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that's what's worked with us in business and that. Everyone is the same. And

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that's what I guess I learned from Travis Pastrana. He

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was literally like that. He would talk to some old guy at a pub about

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his DRZ 400 for like an hour. That was his biggest problem actually.

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When we were on tour, we actually had to do shit and move along. And he

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would pull over a bus just to stop and talk to people. He just didn't think

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he was better than anyone else. It was the coolest thing. Like, I think every

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young kid motorbike rider needs to meet him to realise that they think,

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because they think they're the shit in their little scene. But yeah, it's

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just such a different thing when you actually see someone actually at the top of their game have

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I think that's the biggest thing that we've learned. Everyone we've had on, they're just humble as

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fuck. And that's why we're getting the boys on that

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we want to get on is because they're just

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normal blokes that have done some cool shit. Everyone

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we've spoken to, completely normal, just

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And on that note, I think we're going to call this one a wrap, but thanks

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for coming on and sharing your story. I think there's so many

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elements in it that you don't almost

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have done subconsciously throughout your life, but the way you've been

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able to like conduct yourself and think your way through moments, even

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if it came naturally to you, uh, aspects people can pull

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Yeah, totally. I think, yeah, I think just have some, do some research on

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like the mind and how powerful it is. Like that's how I kind of fell into it years

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ago. Like when I was like probably 13, 14, my dad

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had had some books, my stepdad, so I had some books about mental health

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and not mental health more. It was back then, it was just about mind control and

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how you can like, you know, have thinking the

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right thoughts and that like that. And I used to, I got real stuck into this book, just one

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randomly. And I almost went down this rabbit hole for like years reading stuff and

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I don't know, you can actually train, yeah, to train your brain makes a difference. Your

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brain's a muscle, isn't it? It's 100%. And

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Sweet. So they can find you, all your links are down

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there. Go check out the stuff he's doing, it's really cool. I love the stuff you're

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doing with the kids. I reckon it's awesome for all the dads. We'll

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put your studio and stuff down there too. You want to take photos of your sick car?

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He's got the best car studio on the coast for sure. And

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