People are so scared to make mistakes. That's why they get so depressed and
Speaker:Your views on the way society is treating mental health is
Speaker:not dissimilar to ours. Obviously, we know it's a real problem. Guys
Speaker:Everyone does though. That's just how it is. It's how you deal with it and how you look
Speaker:at things. If you want to like cry and get upset about it, then you're just going to be
Speaker:These guys have some of the strongest mental fortitude because
Speaker:Just say something's happened at a show beforehand. You've got to have something in
Speaker:Welcome to the Better Bloke Podcast. I'm Matty. I'm Rob. And
Speaker:we're just a pair of average blokes on a mission to try and be a
Speaker:We're going to speak about all things highs and lows of what it feels like to be a bloke,
Speaker:plus speak to some legends along the way about what it takes to be a better bloke. Let's
Speaker:He spent most of his life on two wheels, growing up racing motocross.
Speaker:Transitioned into the nitro circus and freestyle motocross. He traveled
Speaker:the world doing shows. You got into content creation and
Speaker:started one of the best photography studios in Australia. Thanks man.
Speaker:You've gone on to have a couple of the raddest little whippersnappers. You got
Speaker:Yeah. That was a great intro. That was nearly as good as Bruce Robson's Nitro
Speaker:Oh, look, I'm going for the job. Is he due to retire soon or
Speaker:Oh, sick. I'll be in. It's there for you. But that's why you're here.
Speaker:You've done so many cool things in a relatively short amount
Speaker:of time. And it's like, you've, you've had so many phases to
Speaker:your life where you've gone from one cool thing to the next cool thing.
Speaker:How does it feel kind of looking back at maybe the last 15 years
Speaker:It's pretty cool. I guess, you know, if you told yourself this as a
Speaker:kid, what you'd have, you definitely wouldn't believe it kind of thing. But I
Speaker:guess, I don't know, I've just done what I've enjoyed all the time.
Speaker:Like I've never really worked. I mean, I've hustled and
Speaker:I've got shit done, but I've never like done anything I haven't wanted to do. That's probably
Speaker:Where do you think that came from? Like that was obviously something
Speaker:you did from day dot. Like you were riding bikes before you
Speaker:Not really, to be honest, I didn't get my first bike until I was 14. So I
Speaker:started really late. I always wanted one. And when I finally got
Speaker:one, it was just like the best thing ever. And then I just, obviously just. Had
Speaker:help from the parents and just got into it and kept going and then I
Speaker:did work once my first ever job was Changing tires at
Speaker:tire power. It was like the shittiest job changing tires.
Speaker:I just had black hands for like a month and then I made
Speaker:a mind John I Porter passed away and always had like his pictures on my toolbox and
Speaker:that when I was working and When he died, I was just like that's it.
Speaker:I was gonna ride try and get good But like that's a real late
Speaker:time to get a bike as well. Do you reckon that's what helped you? I
Speaker:don't know, get that hunger to actually give it a proper crack with writing because
Speaker:you were, you're probably competing against a whole bunch of boys that have
Speaker:Yeah. I guess I just had the more, yeah, I was more passionate about it and
Speaker:more like, cause they'd kind of kids, you know, dads push their kids
Speaker:when they're like four and five into writing. So then by the time
Speaker:they're kind of 18, my age, they kind of just on
Speaker:the way out, they're kind of over it. So I was kind of like so passionate. I
Speaker:No, I, I think it's, it's very inspirational. Like
Speaker:I've known you for a few years now and it
Speaker:was probably on, I first met you, I think you were
Speaker:still doing a bit of the Nitro stuff, but you were definitely transitioning into the
Speaker:content side of stuff. What I
Speaker:guess drove that transition and like, how
Speaker:can you, how do you know when it's kind of time
Speaker:Yeah, it was kind of weird. I guess I kind of did both. I'd never really thought that my riding
Speaker:would kind of take off. So my parents always said like, you got
Speaker:to have something else. So I always kind of was growing the photography thing on
Speaker:the side the whole way through. Just, I just took every day as I
Speaker:could with riding. Cause you never know what could happen with a crash or injury
Speaker:or something like that. So I was always just kind of not growing it,
Speaker:but just doing another love on the side. So whenever I was injured, like
Speaker:a lot of riders get pretty depressed when they get break a leg and they can't do anything else
Speaker:where I didn't get sad because. I had this other thing I was doing on
Speaker:the side, which I could do injured. So if I had like a broken leg, which was pretty
Speaker:much very common, so I could just pick up a camera and
Speaker:still do shit. So I would be on tour and I would still like shoot all
Speaker:the content for, um, not just circus and a lot of
Speaker:their, um, sponsors videos and that while I was still on tour. So
Speaker:When you're on tour, and this is something that we
Speaker:talk a lot about, about is the people you surround yourself with. You
Speaker:see guys going down into these holes and you look who they're around
Speaker:and it's all other people in those holes. You're being surrounded by
Speaker:people, you know, Travis Pastrana, like some of the raddest guys
Speaker:on two wheels. Um, so it's just like going to
Speaker:shows in countries and all these people are all doing cool
Speaker:stuff and all chasing their dreams. They're going hard.
Speaker:There's definitely a good positive environment to be around at. The first couple
Speaker:of years was crazy, like you had the best skateboarders, best
Speaker:rollerbladers, best BMXers, best everyone
Speaker:there was like the best at what they did and it was a pretty cool vibe. I don't
Speaker:What's that like doing a show with those kind of like, is it just a massive dick
Speaker:It kind of was, but it was kind of more like that. I found like on
Speaker:Krusty Demons where it was kind of just always just freestyle guys, but
Speaker:because it was a mix of everyone, everyone kind of was the best
Speaker:at what they did. So they didn't need to do that. Yeah. So it was like a self-respect thing.
Speaker:So everyone pushed each other. Exactly. And everyone was pumped on what everyone else
Speaker:did because they couldn't do that. So that was kind of the crazy cool
Speaker:You mentioned injuries, right? So motorbikes
Speaker:are notorious. There's a lot of dudes that do get
Speaker:hurt. And like, obviously along the way you do
Speaker:lose some people. How is having
Speaker:that as such an inherent part of, you know, your career or
Speaker:what you do being difficult to deal with
Speaker:Yeah, it's kind of tricky, I guess. I don't know, the way I looked at it, I just didn't
Speaker:think it was going to last forever. So I was just enjoying every moment I could. And
Speaker:my whole, I guess, I was like that, I live in the moment, but also live
Speaker:like a bit further ahead, where I was like, my whole new goal is
Speaker:my freestyle career is to have kids one day and go riding
Speaker:with them. So I had this long-term goal was just
Speaker:to be able to walk and be able to ride with my kids. So as
Speaker:long as I kept that in my head, that kind of kept me safe in a sense. Cause
Speaker:no matter what happens, if like I couldn't do that, that would
Speaker:crush me more than not being able to do the latest trick or not being able to get
Speaker:on this tour. The end goal was worse, I
Speaker:So you've achieved your life goal. Pretty much. How does that
Speaker:Yeah, I was stoked. It was only probably about a month ago actually. Both
Speaker:How does that make you feel with like knowing that
Speaker:you sort of had that life goal to be able to do that and now you're doing it
Speaker:with the possibility of them going
Speaker:into what you were doing, like, obviously, you
Speaker:didn't really have much self-preservation, or you did to an extent, but only
Speaker:as much self-preservation as you can have when you're doing freestyle. What
Speaker:I don't know, you're kind of stuck there, because I obviously love them riding in that. But then
Speaker:if you try to stop someone from doing something, they'll probably want to do it more. So I
Speaker:don't know. I guess I can just only teach them to
Speaker:help them be smart and aware of what's going on. I don't know.
Speaker:I don't know. I don't know where to go from here,
Speaker:but I don't want to like feel like they ever want to
Speaker:like have to do anything, like just whatever they want to do. But obviously
Speaker:injuries are around, like two of my mates got paralyzed a
Speaker:week ago, two of them, like two different ones, same
Speaker:day they're in the hospital beds next to each other. But I don't want to, like, hide
Speaker:that from my kids. I want them to know that this could happen. So
Speaker:if you want to do it, it's your choice. Because I think there'd be nothing worse than
Speaker:if, you know, being a dad and pushing your kid into sun ink, and then that
Speaker:happens. It's your responsibility kind of thing. Yeah, it was your problem. Where
Speaker:I'd rather my kids know the chances. Like, you guys are lucky to ride this.
Speaker:This could happen. If you want to do it, it's your choice. That's what I kind of do with
Speaker:my boys. Teaching them real-world shit. Yeah, like
Speaker:shit can happen not trying to hide them from it I'd rather than know the consequences because
Speaker:I've had it happen. I've seen guys in shows get paralyzed When
Speaker:I'm in writing with them and then a month later They're sitting in a wheelchair while
Speaker:you're trying to practice and it's there and it's a really it's
Speaker:a head thing It's hard to see you obviously care so much,
Speaker:Yeah. Does that fuck with you as you're like after, just
Speaker:say something's happened to a show beforehand and
Speaker:then you're getting out there to go do it now. Like you've got
Speaker:to have something in your head that's going like, fuck, am I next? Or
Speaker:You can't. I guess the one good thing about freestyle is like it's
Speaker:a lot on you. You're not relying on teams, you're not relying on anyone else.
Speaker:A little bit when you're doing trains that are close and you're following each other, you're relying
Speaker:on people. But a lot of it is you just, it's
Speaker:you. So as long as you can do everything right, you're fine kind of thing. I
Speaker:We did a men's health event a couple of weeks back and one of the
Speaker:other speakers was a high performance coach in rugby. And
Speaker:like top tier guy, he was the essentially the
Speaker:mindset coach for the All Blacks, the Warriors. I
Speaker:don't know, you know the teams better than me. But the point is he
Speaker:deals with the best athletes in the world. And I had
Speaker:a discussion with him. A lot of my background is in action
Speaker:sports and I said, These guys, I
Speaker:believe have some of the strongest mental
Speaker:fortitude because they're risking it all. Like, yes,
Speaker:in rugby, you might go out there and snap an ACL, but every
Speaker:time you're flying 75 foot through the air, like you need your
Speaker:mind to be absolutely in sync with
Speaker:your body. You need to be able to deal with the risk involved. And
Speaker:I think just mentally, some of these action sports athletes
Speaker:mentally. Yeah, it's a weird thing because you
Speaker:don't realise all that stuff when you're kind of doing it. You're just kind of learning along
Speaker:the way. But years ago, when I met Jacko Strong,
Speaker:when he taught me how to flip and stuff, and it took me a long time. It
Speaker:took me like a year to actually get my head around it all. And he used to
Speaker:listen to these like hypnosis tapes about motivation and stuff
Speaker:like that. And he's always done that, and he's done
Speaker:everything he's ever done in freestyle. He's top of his game. And
Speaker:it worked for me. It cleared me up and just made me kind of focus on what
Speaker:I needed to. And I know there's a lot of top guys who do that stuff, but
Speaker:So it's not just that you have a screw loose. You actually do shit to try.
Speaker:Yeah, that's the thing. I think people don't get taught that at school. I think it
Speaker:should be a thing that you should teach. You get taught how to look after your body and stuff,
Speaker:And do you do that now? Like we spoke about it last week
Speaker:where like I've got a little fella and like we'll
Speaker:do like gratefuls and all that sort of shit every night just so he knows
Speaker:to, I don't know, before he goes to bed he thinks about like the good shit that
Speaker:And that's exactly what I do. I think that's something they should, everyone should teach
Speaker:people, teach kids like how to combat things like that. Cause
Speaker:everyone gets shitty times and you harp on things, especially when you're laying
Speaker:in bed and you've actually got time to think. Like, if I get
Speaker:stuck in that and I get something repetitive in my head that's kind of negative, I would just
Speaker:think of going to some, like, happy place and just think about some track riding
Speaker:or my kids getting born or something good. And that can kind
Speaker:of, like, escape for a moment. But I think people, you know,
Speaker:I like to think if you can be in a bad mood for no reason,
Speaker:you can be in a good mood for no reason. That's true. Yeah, definitely. So
Speaker:there's definitely strength. Sometimes I'm in the car just
Speaker:like literally forcing myself into being in
Speaker:a good mood. I'll just like start talking all positive shit. It actually
Speaker:I don't know. I reckon they should teach that stuff. The
Speaker:mind is so important. I know a lot of healthy fit guys,
Speaker:but they're not the fittest up in their minds. Sometimes they're
Speaker:the most depressed, to be honest. I think you've got a healthy mind
Speaker:Fuck yeah, I'll write that. I have the sloppiest rig, but I am
Speaker:I was noticing people go to the gym and they just got there. They're the most messed
Speaker:up people in the head. Not like obviously everyone, but just I got a couple of mates and
Speaker:that's all they chase. And they don't even know that they're not happy. They're not happy
Speaker:You're asking random question. What's what word? Yellow. Everyone's
Speaker:Um, being self aware. All right. So
Speaker:being self-aware is what a lot of
Speaker:blokes are lacking and they think, you
Speaker:know, they know themselves, but like, as you start peeling back the layers and
Speaker:like looking back a little, little deeper into why you actually do things,
Speaker:why you feel a certain way at a certain time, what's happening, how
Speaker:you're reacting to stuff. I think that's probably the space that
Speaker:maybe kids are being taught a little bit better now or should be. And
Speaker:I think that's what we kind of lacked a little bit growing up and we've had to learn it
Speaker:I think a lot of it comes down to, well, what we're trying to do now
Speaker:is like have these conversations with weapons like you, where
Speaker:like you and I can both go, yeah, sweet. We're teaching our kids like to
Speaker:do these little tricks here or you're questioning why aren't kids
Speaker:doing this now? There's going to be a bunch of boys that are going to listen to this and go, Oh
Speaker:fuck. I'm going to go home and do this now. And even
Speaker:if, I don't know, we get three guys that actually go
Speaker:and action it. Yeah. That's three sets of kids now
Speaker:that are going to be able to go and talk to their kids, like
Speaker:talk to their mates at school and go, I did this last night. And it's just
Speaker:Yeah. You definitely hope so. And yeah. I
Speaker:don't know, I guess I was lucky. I just kind of figured it out along the
Speaker:way on my own. But yeah, a lot of people probably don't. And I can't speak
Speaker:for everyone and everyone's situations, but that's just what's worked for me. It's just always
Speaker:try to find, it's just simple things, I guess. Like find something positive
Speaker:in everything bad and nothing bad ever happens. And that's
Speaker:what I've always lived by. And if it's not going to kill you, like, I guess coming
Speaker:from freestyle where it actually could kill me, then everything
Speaker:else is easy now. It's all crime. And
Speaker:that's kind of why I've taken heaps of risks in business because to
Speaker:me, it's just money. It's not going to, I'm not going to break my neck or die
Speaker:And that's so you, you've gone from essentially crushing
Speaker:it in a freestyle, super competitive, super
Speaker:dangerous world. You're now crushing it in
Speaker:business too. Like you're doing some, some pretty gnarly shit in
Speaker:business. Like you're, you're photographing like the
Speaker:biggest brands in the world. Some of what the
Speaker:biggest models, like you're doing heaps of product stuff. You've built
Speaker:some cool shit now too. Like what? What
Speaker:stops you from actually, I don't know, looking
Speaker:back at that risk other than just what you mentioned then? with
Speaker:the FMX stuff. Is there anything else or just full sends all
Speaker:Yeah, I don't know. Just have a go. And don't listen
Speaker:to your mates, I reckon. They're business. Unless they're good at
Speaker:their business, it's like you wouldn't take medical advice from your mate. They're
Speaker:good to have a beer with at the pub, but don't let them talk to
Speaker:Yeah, where you want to be and actually know what they're talking about. There's so
Speaker:many people who just like try to bring everyone down. I hate that. So I've just always
Speaker:Yeah. So sick. One of the reasons I
Speaker:wanted to get you on here was your views on, I
Speaker:guess, the way society is treating mental health is not dissimilar to
Speaker:ours. Yeah. So obviously we know it's a real problem. Guys
Speaker:have hard times, but I think everyone does though.
Speaker:Oh, everyone does. Yeah. We've started saying bloke
Speaker:is almost like a term for good people. Oh, yeah. Women
Speaker:I think everyone has shit times. That's the problem. It's not the problem.
Speaker:That's just how it is. It's how you deal with it and how you look at things.
Speaker:If you want to cry and get upset about it, then you're just going to
Speaker:Yeah. So that's why I wanted to get you on because of this, this train of
Speaker:thought. So if you sit there and you're, you know, pitying
Speaker:yourself, if you're trying to blame other people, if you're trying to
Speaker:say, you know, it's okay to feel terrible
Speaker:and depressed and I'm going to sit in it. It's
Speaker:not going to get you out of it. And that's something you've never done. you've
Speaker:always been able to get your mind in the positive place in
Speaker:bad situations, because you've probably gone through some tougher stuff than
Speaker:most people as well, like from injuries to uncertainty and
Speaker:Yeah, like one crash might lose like
Speaker:60 grand instantly because you cut off the rest of the tour. They need to replace you,
Speaker:so you get no money. It's like you're years gone of wage
Speaker:when I was younger. And I don't know, you just got to suck
Speaker:I know I sound dumb, but I never even got slightly
Speaker:depressed by that. I was just like, oh, well, I learned whatever,
Speaker:It comes back to that whole sort of, it's okay to make mistakes as
Speaker:Yeah, it is fine to make mistakes. I think people are so scared to
Speaker:make mistakes. That's probably why they get so depressed and in so much anxiety and
Speaker:it kind of, they're too combined, I think, because the anxiety is about, they
Speaker:don't want to make a mistake. So they get so scared and
Speaker:I find a lot of the time, if I'm like super nervous
Speaker:or worrying too much about shit, that's when I'm more likely to
Speaker:make mistakes other than just backing myself completely and
Speaker:Totally. And it's good to have a bit of anxiety. I guess it prepares you for
Speaker:whatever's coming up kind of thing. It's just a natural thing. But if
Speaker:You said it earlier, being comfortable
Speaker:with risk is something that's been beneficial to
Speaker:you from your writing to your business. That's something people freak
Speaker:out about, right? Like whether it's leaving their
Speaker:job and not having that paycheck coming in so they can actually go and chase a
Speaker:dream or literally anything else they want to do. A
Speaker:lot of people are not comfortable with risking it. Like
Speaker:you said, it's only money at the end of the day. How do you think
Speaker:or have you seen people or yourself take risk
Speaker:I've just seen it work with so many of my mates. If they have
Speaker:a steady job and they take that chance to go out on their own, and if they've thought about
Speaker:it enough, it always seems to work out for them. I've never known anyone
Speaker:who's gone out and taken a chance on their own and then failed. Because they've
Speaker:taken the time, they've been thinking about it for a year or two years in
Speaker:their job, and they finally build up enough to take that chance, and
Speaker:it's always worked for them. So I don't think it's even a
Speaker:risk, really. You've obviously put in the work, and
Speaker:Yeah, with good preparation, I a hundred percent agree. Yeah. Like
Speaker:it's just so scary for a lot of boys to take a shot.
Speaker:Yeah. What are they? I don't know. It depends on what they're trying to, what they're worried about losing. Are
Speaker:they just embarrassed they might fail? Are they scared they
Speaker:won't have that nice car that they're trying to show off to their mates? Like
Speaker:Do you find it's harder to take risks now that you've got the kids and all that sort of
Speaker:I should, I should more what I should, but my
Speaker:Yeah. Cause like, I don't know, see, I've got that with, well,
Speaker:Jess is the same with me. She'll keep me in check with
Speaker:big loud ideas and whatnot. I mean, we're
Speaker:taking a risk with this. It's an egg, it's a calculated risk, but you
Speaker:know, we're doing some cool shit and all that sort of stuff. But I
Speaker:find that. Like my ability to worry about
Speaker:risk is sort of outweighed by the fact of wanting to do
Speaker:And that's good for you. That's another positive somewhere else.
Speaker:So I want the kids to be able to go like, oh, my dad did this or
Speaker:like, you know, just little cool stuff like that. It's sort of subsidized
Speaker:Totally. And then I get vibes off them
Speaker:because I see them every day. They learn something new and they just get so excited.
Speaker:And then I'm like, I'm not dead yet. I can sort of do new cool shit too. So
Speaker:it kind of keeps pushing me as well. My kids do the
Speaker:That's sick. I think that's one of the best things about having kids is when Not
Speaker:when they start to get close to you though, although your, your ones are pretty little still aren't you? Oh
Speaker:yeah. Three and four. Yeah. So they're probably not rivaling you with too many things
Speaker:I think that's the best thing. It's do you, do
Speaker:Yeah. Do you reckon that's a, that's a big thing with, I
Speaker:don't know, keeping you hungry. Cause obviously you're pretty competitive with
Speaker:Totally, but as long as they're happy, as long as they're having fun, like, I don't care. You
Speaker:Kind of not. It's so different. It's weird. You probably know. The kids are just so
Speaker:different. Like, you can do exactly the same thing, treat them
Speaker:the same. Well, you think you treat them the same, but I guess you obviously don't. The
Speaker:first ones obviously do a lot more, and the second one you're kind of a bit cruisey
Speaker:See, I think we were the opposite with our one and two
Speaker:because the way that our second one came in was hectic. Oh,
Speaker:okay. And all that sort of shit. But so you went more like, yeah,
Speaker:I think the second one was more sort of baby than the first one, but like,
Speaker:Yeah, mine are only a year and two days, I think apart. Yeah, that's why.
Speaker:Something you said to me a fair few years ago now, I think we were on a
Speaker:shoot and there's a handful of quotes that like live in
Speaker:my head. Yeah. This is a Matty Mac quote. You said,
Speaker:you can have it all, but not at once. That's
Speaker:probably my favorite one, yeah. That was before you had kids, right? So,
Speaker:you know, you kind of live this life where you're flying around the world, you're doing the
Speaker:business, you're doing the photos, and now you like have this super
Speaker:like wholesome life where the business is, I guess, set
Speaker:up to be not intensively time consuming. Yeah.
Speaker:And you get to spend all this time with these young kids, which That
Speaker:was always one of the things I thought if I ever had kids, I'd
Speaker:love to be able to be set up enough to
Speaker:And I think it's like not everyone's situations, but
Speaker:a lot of people can, they just choose to make more money or I
Speaker:That's sick. Well, that's why I loved being on the tools and
Speaker:then got off the tools to get back into sales because I
Speaker:love doing school pickup or being able to drop them off or having
Speaker:that flexibility if I need to be able to go, I'm not
Speaker:letting a team down. I can go, hey, call the
Speaker:boss up and go, he's got a sports day today. I'll go to the
Speaker:I do little shit like that. It's so much more rewarding. I
Speaker:take every Tuesday off and just spend it with the boys. It was kind of hard at first. My
Speaker:clients, they didn't really understand. Now everyone accepts it.
Speaker:That's sick, because you only get so much time with them throughout every
Speaker:age bracket they're in. So I respect that so
Speaker:That's so cool. It's not easy to do, but I guess I've just kind of
Speaker:been in good situations where what I've built doesn't involve, like you
Speaker:said, too much time. So I can kind of let people in the studio and then
Speaker:I can kind of leave and stuff like that. I don't know what,
Speaker:I guess, I remember like an old guy said to me once, he was like, um,
Speaker:kids grow up, or lots of people, old people say like kids grow up so quick
Speaker:and I was just like, he's something to that. He's, I think it's because
Speaker:I don't spend enough time with them. That's why they grow up so quick where I feel
Speaker:like my kids haven't grown up quick at all. Cause I've spent so much time with them. It feels slow.
Speaker:Right that. The, yeah,
Speaker:there's the whole them riding bikes thing. It's just
Speaker:kind of. It makes me so happy to see, like,
Speaker:I was trying to hold them out till I was like 15, like myself, to
Speaker:Between you and April, your partner, like
Speaker:they didn't probably have much hope and not doing rad stuff. How's,
Speaker:um. I guess how's seeing them sort
Speaker:of like getting to live this lifestyle
Speaker:that you might've imagined they did, they
Speaker:would do, but you didn't want to push them into it and they naturally sort of
Speaker:wanted to do it. Like it's got to feel good saying like, oh,
Speaker:it's cool. When Mac was riding the stock. Yeah. That was
Speaker:mental. Like a four year old riding this, one of the most powerful bikes
Speaker:It was cool. But then he didn't think it was cool. So he just
Speaker:thought that he took it for granted. Right. So that kind of like, not
Speaker:took away from it, but it was just like, oh, I was like, he's just, he's so
Speaker:naturally talented. He didn't think anything of it. So I'm like, fuck, maybe it's too
Speaker:early for that stuff. I would have killed for
Speaker:It's just one of those things where. He just got off and
Speaker:he was just like, literally he rode around and he's just like, I was
Speaker:How many messages did you get from people going like that's crazy?
Speaker:Everyone's pretty good to be honest. Yeah. I was out of control. It
Speaker:was just such a
Speaker:heavy bike, actually. That's the biggest thing. But I just thought he would ride around the paddock, but
Speaker:then he started like following the track like perfectly. But that was the
Speaker:cool thing about that bike. Cause you can dial it down to like barely moving and
Speaker:there's still, he's got his hand brakes on his things. He's fine. Did you see the
Speaker:Yeah, I was just like right around with him, let him do the throttle. And then I just kind of like, so
Speaker:And he was stretched out, like legs were straight just to
Speaker:But I still try, like, I definitely don't want to push them into the bike thing. Like
Speaker:we still take them like, I take them rock climbing once a fortnight. We
Speaker:started jujitsu, just trying everything. I just want to see what they're like.
Speaker:I don't want to feel like they should do that. Cause I do it kind of thing. Just
Speaker:try everything. And they are just naturally like talented and everything. Cause they're
Speaker:not scared. Like you take this, like a four year or three year old to a rock climbing center.
Speaker:They don't even care that the height, they just like trust that everything's going
Speaker:That's the, where do you reckon fear comes from? It's
Speaker:probably a question for both of you. Cause obviously like I've seen
Speaker:it with my two. They don't have fear at
Speaker:They just trust us. I think if we, if we like, if I say you'll
Speaker:be fine, they're just like, okay, dad says you're fine. We'll be fine. They
Speaker:If you're not going to be scared of nothing. Yeah. Cause that's true. Cause that's something that
Speaker:All the nuts shit you've done. Yeah. It's obviously, yeah. And
Speaker:that's what it is. Like with freestyle, it's the same roller coaster for
Speaker:every rider. You just like get up, you get confident, confident, crash,
Speaker:lose all your confidence. And you slowly build up over a year of no crashes, break
Speaker:an arm, back down. It's just like a roller coaster. It's a big cycle. Your whole career is
Speaker:just ups and downs. And if you get away with more,
Speaker:you're just going to keep doing more and more until it's a bigger crash. And then you just straight
Speaker:Yeah, that's something I had to deal with. Like I was racing downhill
Speaker:as a teen. I'm like, I was never like that top
Speaker:tier dude. I was racing the nationals and stuff, but it was never going
Speaker:anywhere, but I was still getting hurt just the same. And I
Speaker:had to look at it going like, this is not even close to becoming a
Speaker:job for me. Like it took me about until
Speaker:I was 20 years old to be like, Like I literally
Speaker:can't break stuff because I was like bartending at the time. I
Speaker:kind of broken wrist. I won't be able to pay for anything. And
Speaker:that's for me when the risk was like, it's
Speaker:not worth it. Like I can't do it. And it was mainly a
Speaker:Yeah, so I had that with, I stopped playing
Speaker:footy, went on the tools. The week I got off the tools and
Speaker:back into sales, had our last game of the season.
Speaker:And I just had, didn't have to worry about hurting myself. So I'm like, oh, I'm back in sales now.
Speaker:ACL, MCL, Patel, I just blew it all to bits. All
Speaker:my self-preservation went out the window. I'm like, oh yeah, that's
Speaker:right. You're shit at footy and you're really old now. You
Speaker:You get that. So you, Pretty
Speaker:So how, how do you see your life sort
Speaker:of going over the next 10 years? Is it centered around, you know, family
Speaker:and just like continuing to do cool stuff? Cause you're still doing the,
Speaker:like the desert dads and the still getting out on the bike. You're
Speaker:Yeah, I don't actually know, to be honest. It's a good question. I don't know what I'm trying to aim
Speaker:for now. I kind of actually need to find a new goal. Honestly,
Speaker:I think it's just the boys kind of change everything when they
Speaker:come along. I didn't really have any more goals. It was just kind
Speaker:So I don't know. Conor McGregor said it, I think. If
Speaker:you live in the past, you're depressed. If you live in the future, you're anxious.
Speaker:Yeah. So I guess that's kind of where I'm at at the moment. I'm not
Speaker:trying to chase things. I'm not trying to build. I used to have a dream of having
Speaker:big studios in Melbourne and Sydney and doing it all, replicating
Speaker:it. But then I'm like, I don't need to. I'm fine. I'm happy.
Speaker:I kind of like these, I'm not chasing anything anymore. I've got everything I
Speaker:How important do you think it is to rather than achieve
Speaker:bigger and bigger goals is to be content
Speaker:Oh, 100%, everything. Your car, your drive, everything,
Speaker:your house you're in, situations you're in, you kind of just got
Speaker:to like, actually, like, yeah, like, enjoy what you've got, because people
Speaker:don't have, people look up to, would look up to you and think that you've, you
Speaker:know, got the world. So, I don't know, it's just enjoying
Speaker:Did that shift for you? Was there a time like 10 years ago
Speaker:Nah, I've never, I've never been like that ever. I've, I've,
Speaker:I lived like in the smallest little shared house with like eight
Speaker:people just to kind of save up money to buy a business. Like I was never
Speaker:about impressing anyone with anything, just always done what I wanted. Drove
Speaker:like the old bone up van that used to stop on the side of the road and
Speaker:I'd get off and walk the rest of the way to work and stuff like that. Like,
Speaker:I think that's the thing that everyone sees. Everyone will see
Speaker:all the cool stuff that you've done and the highlights of, I
Speaker:guess, Maddie Mac's done all this wicked shit,
Speaker:but they wouldn't know you're living in share houses to do
Speaker:stuff. The journey that it takes to do the
Speaker:cool shit, no one sees that. They just see the
Speaker:No, I still have fun and I still love doing it. I've never depressed about it,
Speaker:but it's just things you take. I think just kids these days, they
Speaker:think they need to meet a girl, and they spend all this money impressing a girl
Speaker:living in this nice, fancy place they can't afford. Not fancy,
Speaker:but you know. You just kind of just got to, like, if
Speaker:you want to get ahead in life, you kind of just got to suck it up. You got to live somewhere you don't want to live
Speaker:Yeah. Too many people are living beyond their means. That's, that's
Speaker:probably the better way of putting it. It's bullshit because
Speaker:it's so much of it's driven by social media too. Yeah. You're
Speaker:saying, you know, Bali trips and fancy cars and
Speaker:just all this fucking bullshit. Yeah.
Speaker:And it's cool that you've never really engaged with it.
Speaker:you're a very humble kind of guy, which is, it's good. More
Speaker:people probably need to conduct themselves in
Speaker:that way because until you have that, you're probably not going to be
Speaker:They're the pretty ones though. So
Speaker:like you've, you've done, Some, some cool shit, like
Speaker:throughout your stretch of your life. I've just
Speaker:That comes back to you being super humble. Um, like what are your,
Speaker:your biggest achievements that you've, that you've done?
Speaker:Like, if you look back from, you know, your first memory
Speaker:to right here, sitting on this couch with us now, and
Speaker:you had to pick three, like what's your, your three biggest achievements
Speaker:I know, I guess like obviously growing up when I was like 14, 15, before
Speaker:I even really had a motorbike, I just watched my videos and it's like, see
Speaker:the guys and that. And pretty much all those top guys that I looked up
Speaker:to, I got to ride with at one point for like months.
Speaker:And that like me and Travis Pastrana used to be like synchro partners in
Speaker:the show for four or five years. So we would do all our same
Speaker:tricks. We would like touch double cans in the air and do all that
Speaker:Cause stuff like that, like I know things that I'd never, you wouldn't even like
Speaker:people say, is this a dream? And like the dream come true. I'm like, no, it would never
Speaker:even considered dreaming it to like, it was a waste of time. But to
Speaker:do stuff like that. And then just to travel the world and do
Speaker:what I love, like there was nothing better. Like I used
Speaker:to just every pretty much show big show, I would like take
Speaker:one second on top of the ramp when it was like a couple hundred thousand people.
Speaker:And I would just like take like three seconds just to soak
Speaker:it in, I guess. And I felt like that was my
Speaker:way of just like putting it inside me. So I never would miss
Speaker:it, I guess, because I actually took the time to enjoy it. I feel like people only
Speaker:miss things in life when they haven't really enjoyed them. So
Speaker:Yeah. So good. Love that you're putting together a life
Speaker:Yeah, I don't know. I never really kind of talked about it, but I guess, yeah, I
Speaker:just, yeah, I know. I think you just got to appreciate the moments. So if you actually
Speaker:That's the biggest thing that anytime we have someone that, you
Speaker:know, puts up in the group or I'm getting married or. You
Speaker:know, what's the best bit of advice, the best bit of advice I ever got about
Speaker:like a wedding day or which, like you just said, you can use in anything is
Speaker:like take five and just enjoy the moment, enjoy the
Speaker:day. Cause everyone gets so caught up in a moment
Speaker:or the hype around like a situation and they don't actually appreciate what
Speaker:You've got, if you, and it's, it's the biggest thing you can do. If you just appreciate it
Speaker:Yeah. I I've done that when I'm on shoots in like some crazy ass
Speaker:locations and it's almost like you're like loading it
Speaker:into the memory bank. Seriously. You're like, let's soak this in. I
Speaker:won't remember the whole thing, but. All right. I'm going to remember what
Speaker:I'm looking at now, how I'm feeling right now. And
Speaker:Yeah. It's life-changing I reckon. And I
Speaker:used to do it like once or twice at the start and I was like, holy shit. And then I could
Speaker:just. Whenever I was sad, I could just go back to that moment, because it
Speaker:was right in the memory bank, like you said. And I
Speaker:think that's, yeah, I know. It doesn't matter what it is. It doesn't have to be like
Speaker:So that's cool to see. Like I'm sitting with two photographers that can capture moments,
Speaker:but these are both saying that like, fuck the photos,
Speaker:like capture it in your head and like live in the now where you
Speaker:I'm big about that. I guess. Yeah. When you feel like that, I guess that is why
Speaker:we kind of do it. And they say, what, um, if you
Speaker:ever want to say, say what a photographer is scared of losing, look at what they photograph
Speaker:most. A lot of the time it's you.
Speaker:Maybe not your work stuff, but like your personal stuff. Like if you're taking photos
Speaker:of your kids the most or whatever you'd love doing, like that's what you're,
Speaker:Yeah. It's mainly photos of my dogs. That holds up. Screenshot of
Speaker:tens. For
Speaker:lack of a better term, you pretty much met
Speaker:your idols in the likes of Travis Westina and stuff like
Speaker:that. He would have been very popular, popular when
Speaker:you were growing up and getting into the scene. Do you remember what it was
Speaker:like when was an invitation? Like how did that
Speaker:initial connection start? And was that one
Speaker:Yeah, I can't remember when we first met, to be honest. But yeah,
Speaker:I don't even know, to be honest. I guess it kind of just happens kind of fast, but slowly.
Speaker:And then you're kind of there. And then you just got invited to the tour.
Speaker:And you're kind of just in the room. And then next, you're riding together. And
Speaker:I can't remember, I know Starstruck, Rob had one the other week.
Speaker:Oh yeah, look, I fangirled hard the other week. Who
Speaker:was that? That was Liam Paro. So he's the
Speaker:IBF world champ for boxing. And yeah, I got a little bit
Speaker:excited and all my cool, calm, collective
Speaker:composure just went out the fucking window. I
Speaker:Yeah. I've found that like, obviously like in what we do, we do
Speaker:have like big people coming into shoots and stuff. You meet influencers, celebrities,
Speaker:whatever. And if there's no like personal connection, like
Speaker:I feel like I could meet like a Chris Hemsworth and yeah, like
Speaker:It's until you do something like that's memorable with those people, like out on
Speaker:the drink and piss and having a, you know, like more like a down to
Speaker:Yeah. Or if it's someone that's like completely in alignment with
Speaker:what you want to do, which is why I ask about Travis. Yeah. Cause I
Speaker:kind of had it. I'm went over to Casey Neistat studio. Oh yeah.
Speaker:Yeah. Like I'm like, man, like I'm in the room
Speaker:where like this dude taught me how to use a GoPro like 15 years ago.
Speaker:It was, a critical part of forming, like,
Speaker:everything I've done in my life. And that, for me, I
Speaker:did the memory thing now. I'm like, I'm in this room right now. Processed
Speaker:Yeah, I guess it's still, like, about, yeah, probably 10 years ago now, so it's
Speaker:Well, even now, like, you'd be meeting some pretty cool people still. Do
Speaker:you... Do you not have, like, that little
Speaker:starstruck moment with some of the guys? Or are you just like, eh, if they're cool, they're cool, if not,
Speaker:I don't know. I've always just kind of like treated,
Speaker:I try to treat everyone just exactly the same. It doesn't matter who it is. And
Speaker:that's what's worked with us in business and that. Everyone is the same. And
Speaker:that's what I guess I learned from Travis Pastrana. He
Speaker:was literally like that. He would talk to some old guy at a pub about
Speaker:his DRZ 400 for like an hour. That was his biggest problem actually.
Speaker:When we were on tour, we actually had to do shit and move along. And he
Speaker:would pull over a bus just to stop and talk to people. He just didn't think
Speaker:he was better than anyone else. It was the coolest thing. Like, I think every
Speaker:young kid motorbike rider needs to meet him to realise that they think,
Speaker:because they think they're the shit in their little scene. But yeah, it's
Speaker:just such a different thing when you actually see someone actually at the top of their game have
Speaker:I think that's the biggest thing that we've learned. Everyone we've had on, they're just humble as
Speaker:fuck. And that's why we're getting the boys on that
Speaker:we want to get on is because they're just
Speaker:normal blokes that have done some cool shit. Everyone
Speaker:we've spoken to, completely normal, just
Speaker:And on that note, I think we're going to call this one a wrap, but thanks
Speaker:for coming on and sharing your story. I think there's so many
Speaker:elements in it that you don't almost
Speaker:have done subconsciously throughout your life, but the way you've been
Speaker:able to like conduct yourself and think your way through moments, even
Speaker:if it came naturally to you, uh, aspects people can pull
Speaker:Yeah, totally. I think, yeah, I think just have some, do some research on
Speaker:like the mind and how powerful it is. Like that's how I kind of fell into it years
Speaker:ago. Like when I was like probably 13, 14, my dad
Speaker:had had some books, my stepdad, so I had some books about mental health
Speaker:and not mental health more. It was back then, it was just about mind control and
Speaker:how you can like, you know, have thinking the
Speaker:right thoughts and that like that. And I used to, I got real stuck into this book, just one
Speaker:randomly. And I almost went down this rabbit hole for like years reading stuff and
Speaker:I don't know, you can actually train, yeah, to train your brain makes a difference. Your
Speaker:brain's a muscle, isn't it? It's 100%. And
Speaker:Sweet. So they can find you, all your links are down
Speaker:there. Go check out the stuff he's doing, it's really cool. I love the stuff you're
Speaker:doing with the kids. I reckon it's awesome for all the dads. We'll
Speaker:put your studio and stuff down there too. You want to take photos of your sick car?
Speaker:He's got the best car studio on the coast for sure. And
Speaker:And as always, be better. Thanks for tuning into today's episode
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