This one started with a shared password.
Speaker ALisa had been with her partner for years.
Speaker AThey trusted each other.
Speaker AThey shared access to things.
Speaker AEmails, streaming accounts, sometimes even phones.
Speaker AIt had never been an issue.
Speaker AOne afternoon, Lisa tried to log into her email.
Speaker AThe password didn't work.
Speaker AShe tried again.
Speaker AStill nothing.
Speaker AThen a notification came through.
Speaker AThe recovery email had been changed.
Speaker AAt first, she assumed it was a glitch.
Speaker AThen more alerts followed.
Speaker ABank password changed.
Speaker AShopping accounts logged out.
Speaker ASocial media locked.
Speaker ALisa called her partner.
Speaker ANo answer.
Speaker AShe sent messages.
Speaker ANo reply.
Speaker AAbout an hour later, a text finally came through.
Speaker AThey said they needed space.
Speaker ASaid they were taking a break.
Speaker ASaid they'd explain later.
Speaker ALater didn't happen.
Speaker ABy that evening, important emails were gone, saved drafts deleted, photos missing.
Speaker ALisa realized her partner had gone through everything.
Speaker AMessages, receipts, old conversations.
Speaker AWhen they finally spoke days later, the explanation was simple.
Speaker AThey said they'd felt insecure.
Speaker ASaid they wanted to know the truth.
Speaker ASaid they didn't trust her anymore.
Speaker AThe passwords were never changed back.
Speaker AThat night, Lisa posted the story online.
Speaker APeople focused on one detail.
Speaker ANot the breakup.
Speaker AThe fact she was locked out of her own accounts before being told it was over.
Speaker AThe final update was short.
Speaker AThe accounts were recovered.
Speaker AThe relationship wasn't.