A boundary I'll never break again is.

Blank, allowing anyone to try to dim my light.

Oh, that's a good one.

Did you hear that, Real Housewives of Atlanta? A red flag I no longer ignore is blank.

I am well researched on narcissistic personality disorder. I can spot it from a mile away.

We should have had a cocktail while we chatted.

I know, right? I think I'm gonna have one after.

I'd love to play a quick rapid fire game with you. We like to wrap up the show with a little game.

Okay. I love games. Okay. All right.

Okay. This is the game segment that is called Midlife Manifesto. So I will start a sentence and you finish it with whatever comes to mind first.

Okay?

In midlife, I finally learned to blank.

Love myself, pamper myself.

O. Those are both really good. Okay, next one. A boundary I'll never break again is.

Blank allowing any kind of disrespect.

Do you hear that? Real Housewives of Atlanta.

I don't think they're included in this one because they've already been disrespectful. So.

Yeah, I can only imagine.

Allowing anyone to try to dim my light.

Oh, that's a good one.

Yeah, that one is really good and very.

Oh, you know what I want? I want to change mine. Okay. I love that one. I won't allow anyone to make me feel like I have to dumb myself down.

Yes. We're done with that. That's, like, old news. That's not happening anymore.

Shine bright.

Shine bright.

Yeah, that's right.

Okay. The sexiest thing about getting older is blank.

My confidence. Self confidence. Like, I. This is it. Like, you know, you get the wig, you get the wig off, you get the makeup, you get the makeup off, you get the real body. Like, you. You get. Everything is you. You get the real. So I would say confidence.

Yes.

And just.

Just feeling comfortable. Comfortable being yourself. Like, my husband always teases me. Like we were first dating. In, like, one of the first nights we were together. I said, you know, I'm not taking off my scarf.

Your scarf?

Oh, my God.

Not messing up my hair.

Right. That scarf.

You're like, okay, there's gonna be one thing that you're not going to touch tonight, and that will be the hair.

Right?

Hey, I don't blame you. I don't blame you.

I love it.

A red flag I no longer ignore is blank.

Oh, a red flag. I.

Nice.

You don't say narcissist. Yeah, I was getting ready to say I am well researched on narcissistic personality. Disorder. I can spot it from a mile away. No narcissist. I see you coming before you even get here. Like, I'm not doing narcissist in 2026 are for the rest of my life. I'm good on narcissists.

Goodbye. Got your fill? And they walks amongst. Amongst us, not only in our romantic relationships, but even our female friendship groups.

Oh, yes.

That's some of the worst of it.

Oh, and family members. And family members. Don't forget the family members and business people in the year.

You know, they're everywhere. They're everywhere. It's crazy.

Yeah.

Yeah, absolutely. My power shows up strongest when I blink.

I would say for me, in mom mode, when I'm with Noelle, like, I feel like that is my. Being a mother is my biggest and most proudest accomplishment. I feel very powerful as a mom. Like, I'm definitely. All I need is my cape. Because when it's time to clock in, as a mom, I am all the way in. And that is the job, the responsibility that I take the most serious. So, yeah, I think for me.

I think being able to deal with conflict and handling it in a balanced way and maintaining my composure, that is handling.

Power and handling it in a smart way. In a smart way.

Yeah.

Correct. Yeah. If you can handle it in a smart way and not, like, just let it get to you, like, that's. That is a superpower.

Trying to stay, you know, maintain my emotions and just, you know.

Yep, absolutely. One thing that used to scare me but doesn't anymore is losing friends.

Like, honestly, I feel like sometimes in life, you know, people are just with you for a reason and a season, and it's okay for one or two to fall off every year and two new ones to come on. Like, it just. It doesn't. I don't second guess it. I trust myself. I trust my discernment. I trust timing. I trust energy. And, you know, sometimes it's just time to let go. And it's not even a bad thing. It's just you guys no longer energetically and spiritually, mentally, and emotionally have that connection anymore. And that's okay.

And that's okay.

Yeah.

It's a season. Like, you're saying it passes. Mm. Yeah. And you have to be okay with letting it go, which we need to sometimes. Okay. I used to chase blank, but now I attract blank.

I think I would say I attract opportunities. For example, even the birth of Gloisima came from an opportunity of just out into the universe and speaking to people and speaking it into Existence and. And just being at the right place at the right time with the right people helped us to bring gluism to fruition.

That is amazing. I mean, you say something and then you create it, and here it is.

Yes.

Yes.

I feel like I used to chase money. Coming from very humble beginnings. Like, I always was. Like, if I had money, I would have more options, I would have more choices, more power to do the things that I want to do. I won't be in a position of being stuck because I would have the means to do what I need to do. So I feel like I used to chase money, and now I feel like I attract it. I feel like at this point, I built a brand for myself that people resonate with. I think as a person and as a brand, I'm very authentic. Yeah. So opportunities and the money sing by me.

Happiness to me now looks like blank.

Being in control of my destiny.

You.

Know, and that means, you know, like, for, you know, just working, being able to, you know, have my own businesses and. And not, you know, it's. It's great having the. Having that level of. Of comfort of getting, you know, a paycheck every two weeks or whatever it is, but, you know, you never know when that's going to be taken away from you. So just being able. Control of that, for me, is. Is happiness.

Happiness looks like. Looks like peace to me. I feel like. And when you have true peace, you have happiness. You do because you have peace. Yeah, Peace. Peace equals happiness. Like, when I'm at peace, I am genuinely happy. I'm in my happy place.

Yeah, that. That is the key, being at peace. Ladies, I love chatting with you. It's like sitting with girlfriends at dinner. I love it. I love it so much.

We should have had a cocktail while we chatted.

I know, right? I think I'm gonna have one after. After we.

Exactly. We're like, oh, yes, a margarita sounds good.

It.