1 00:00:01,379 --> 00:00:03,840 Hey there, entrepreneurs and multitasking wizards. 2 00:00:03,929 --> 00:00:06,439 Welcome back to the Be Well, Do Well podcast. 3 00:00:06,859 --> 00:00:11,049 I'm your host, Amin, here to sprinkle a little wisdom and a lot of heart into your busy lives. 4 00:00:11,799 --> 00:00:14,129 Today we're diving into a topic that's close to my heart. 5 00:00:14,580 --> 00:00:16,329 Good enough is good enough. 6 00:00:16,530 --> 00:00:17,849 Yep, you heard that right. 7 00:00:18,449 --> 00:00:21,689 So grab your coffee or your kale smoothie and let's get rolling. 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:24,290 Let's start with a question. 9 00:00:24,875 --> 00:00:28,384 How many times have you scrapped an idea because it wasn't perfect? 10 00:00:28,714 --> 00:00:30,684 Or redone a task a zillion times? 11 00:00:31,205 --> 00:00:32,235 I've been there as well. 12 00:00:32,515 --> 00:00:35,974 We're bombarded with this idea of perfection in every facet of life. 13 00:00:36,464 --> 00:00:40,635 From Instagram worthy home offices to those picture perfect family outings. 14 00:00:41,334 --> 00:00:42,244 But here's the truth. 15 00:00:42,635 --> 00:00:44,845 Chasing perfection is like running on a treadmill. 16 00:00:45,025 --> 00:00:47,334 You're moving, but you're not really getting anywhere. 17 00:00:48,349 --> 00:00:52,949 Remember in the world of entrepreneurship and parenting, perfect is often the enemy of done. 18 00:00:53,410 --> 00:00:57,150 And let's face it, a done task beats a perfect plan any day. 19 00:00:57,779 --> 00:01:00,620 Now embracing good enough doesn't mean you lower your standards. 20 00:01:00,770 --> 00:01:01,389 Not at all. 21 00:01:01,629 --> 00:01:07,849 It means understanding and accepting that sometimes The best you can do at the moment is absolutely fine. 22 00:01:08,109 --> 00:01:11,579 It's about striking that balance where your effort meets impact. 23 00:01:12,339 --> 00:01:13,299 Think of it like this. 24 00:01:13,719 --> 00:01:17,879 If you're baking cookies for a school event, it doesn't matter if they're not all the same size. 25 00:01:18,459 --> 00:01:22,039 Spoiler alert, they're probably gonna get gobbled up in seconds anyways. 26 00:01:22,039 --> 00:01:37,039 And here's the kicker, when you adopt the good enough mindset, you're not just easing your own stress, you're also setting a powerful example for those little eyes watching you, showing them that it's okay to be human, to make mistakes, and to not always have everything in tip top shape. 27 00:01:37,509 --> 00:01:40,359 Alright, time for a little story here from the trenches of my life. 28 00:01:40,854 --> 00:01:48,064 I was recently asked to help on a volunteer capacity with a walk a thon, a fundraiser, and the cause is really amazing. 29 00:01:48,064 --> 00:01:52,814 Initially, when I was asked, I was a little apprehensive because I didn't really know what it entailed. 30 00:01:52,874 --> 00:01:58,444 I didn't know how much time it was going to take, and it had been five years since the last walk that we had done in our city. 31 00:01:58,889 --> 00:02:04,619 So in 2019 we did a physical walk and since then, due to the pandemic, we hadn't had a physical walk. 32 00:02:04,619 --> 00:02:09,909 It was all virtual fundraising this year we decided that we were gonna restart the walk. 33 00:02:10,359 --> 00:02:11,919 And this is a big deal in our city. 34 00:02:12,039 --> 00:02:16,239 There's about four or 5,000 people that attend and hundreds of volunteers. 35 00:02:16,239 --> 00:02:18,904 And I was asked to be one of the members on the executive committee. 36 00:02:19,911 --> 00:02:22,281 Initially, I thought to myself, I want this to be perfect. 37 00:02:22,341 --> 00:02:27,861 I want everything to go well, no hitches, no mistakes, and I want our team to be perfectly trained. 38 00:02:28,461 --> 00:02:34,381 And I realized that with the ten weeks that we were given to plan and execute this event, that was not going to happen. 39 00:02:34,781 --> 00:02:42,301 There were inevitably going to be some issues, some hitches, some mistakes that we make on our end, and the volunteers on our team will also make. 40 00:02:42,881 --> 00:02:44,421 So we decided, you know what? 41 00:02:44,471 --> 00:02:45,881 Good enough is good enough. 42 00:02:45,971 --> 00:03:00,251 Let's try to get it as close as we can to the previous walk, which we had some templates for, we had some processes, and next year we can take what we learned from this walk and implement it for the future and make that one even better. 43 00:03:01,481 --> 00:03:13,244 I'm so glad I decided to take that approach rather than trying to make every little element of it perfect, because it made it easier for not just ourselves, volunteers and the attendees at the walk. 44 00:03:14,304 --> 00:03:16,884 So how do you embrace this liberating philosophy? 45 00:03:17,444 --> 00:03:18,514 Here's what works for me. 46 00:03:19,024 --> 00:03:21,414 The first thing is to set realistic goals. 47 00:03:22,089 --> 00:03:26,029 Break down that big grand plan into bite sized achievable tasks. 48 00:03:26,409 --> 00:03:28,649 It's just like eating a pizza, one slice at a time. 49 00:03:29,209 --> 00:03:31,929 In the example I gave, we had multiple areas. 50 00:03:32,109 --> 00:03:41,289 We had a stage component, we had a VIP breakfast component, and each of these had to be broken down into bite sized pieces within that group. 51 00:03:41,509 --> 00:03:44,019 The second thing is to timebox your tasks. 52 00:03:44,714 --> 00:03:51,374 When you don't timebox, you end up giving it as much time as you have, and often that's more time than it needs. 53 00:03:51,934 --> 00:03:57,064 So one of the things during the walk that we had organized was we needed a stage where we had music. 54 00:03:57,674 --> 00:04:03,214 Now, my daughter was also helping with this, she was the DJ, and she did the opening ceremonies, which was really exciting for me. 55 00:04:03,819 --> 00:04:11,139 And while I was helping her plan for this, we decided that well, we could take three weeks, eight weeks, whatever it needed to get it done. 56 00:04:11,139 --> 00:04:14,289 But instead, we just allocated two weeks to it. 57 00:04:14,289 --> 00:04:18,489 We said, let's get as much done as we can in these two weeks, and that's good enough. 58 00:04:18,939 --> 00:04:35,044 And because we time boxed that, we ended up actually having a really, really good DJ set, and it worked out perfectly when that two weeks was finished, we knew that we had it almost right, we might have had to make small tweaks, but that's all that was necessary, not any big major changes. 59 00:04:36,424 --> 00:04:38,234 And lastly, celebrate your small wins. 60 00:04:38,654 --> 00:04:43,824 If you got through all the tasks that you within a certain amount of time, give yourself a big high five. 61 00:04:44,334 --> 00:04:46,874 Do a little victory dance, and go celebrate. 62 00:04:46,884 --> 00:04:49,124 Maybe go out for some sushi and treat yourself. 63 00:04:49,574 --> 00:04:54,224 In the end, I want you to remember that life is just too short to spend it chasing impossible standards. 64 00:04:54,614 --> 00:04:58,844 If you're a neurosurgeon or sending a rocket into outer space, sure, it has to be 99. 65 00:04:59,144 --> 00:05:01,154 999 percent perfect. 66 00:05:01,514 --> 00:05:06,724 But, for the majority of the tasks that we do, 80 percent is usually good enough. 67 00:05:07,139 --> 00:05:13,136 As we wrap up today's conversation, I want you to think about one area in your life where you can apply the good enough mantra. 68 00:05:13,646 --> 00:05:15,016 Trust me, it's liberating. 69 00:05:15,356 --> 00:05:19,186 It can be in your health, in your wellness, it can be in your sleep. 70 00:05:20,216 --> 00:05:23,716 Find an area where you think that you can apply the good enough principle. 71 00:05:24,266 --> 00:05:32,136 Until next time, keep rocking it, and remember in the pursuit of your dreams, sometimes good enough is exactly that, good enough. 72 00:05:33,356 --> 00:05:37,956 Thanks for tuning in to the Be Well, Do Well podcast, if you like what you hear, drop a review. 73 00:05:38,706 --> 00:05:40,756 Stay awesome, and I'll see you in the next episode.