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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Hi and welcome to the World order, showcase. Podcast I'm your host, Jill Hart. And with us today is Nathan Francis Nathan helps young people take back control of their minds through the subconscious mind pathway. He believes everything else falls into place. Once you help people become consciously aware of why they're doing the things they're doing. Welcome to the show, Nathan. It's really great to have you here.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hello, Jill, thank you for having me. I'm I'm glad I I reached out to you in a podcast. Group of 1.2 million people, or whatever is in there. So I'm glad we could connect this way.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And you're all the way in Australia, and I'm over here in the United States. So we're like time traveling. And we had to coordinate everything in order to make it work.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: We did. I'm glad we did so. Thank you for having me. It's a very, it's a pleasure to be here. It's a really awesome podcast that you have. So I hope a few of my listeners can subscribe to you. And yeah, thank you very much. Having me.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, thank you. And you are the host of breaking the breaking free podcast which.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I am.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Excited to share with people, too.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So tell us your story. How'd you get started.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Okay, how do I get started? Well, my journey started at the start of 2020 for most people. So I was one of those people prior to that stuff starting
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that would, you know, drink, party, sleep around and do all those things that young men do. And for me it got to a point where
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that lifestyle was taking its toll. I was starting to get fit, anyway, because all that stuff that went down in 2020, not sure how aware and awake your audience is, but I became very aware of what's going on in the world. And
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I started taking control of my health and and things started changing. I started changing. And for me.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I knew I always had a voice. I knew I always had skills that I could offer, because prior to that, too, I was a teacher, and and I love working kids. So I always had a passion for helping people. I just was doing it in a different way.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and for me I looked myself in the mirror at the end of 2021. So this is a bit of a fast forward now, and and it was a weekend. It was a Saturday night, and I went right. I'm going to have one last night of this stuff. I'm going to look myself in the mirror, which I did. And I said, Nate, this is your last night of drinking, partying, carrying on being immature sleeping around treating women this certain way, which I'll get to the programming of that in a minute. And I just
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: just put it out there to the universe. Put it out there to spirit. Put it out there to God. Put it out there to Jesus, whatever your audience believe, and just let that handle itself. So 12 h later, I'm sitting on a plastic fold out table. I was drunk. I was high. I was all those things, and
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: there were 3 young girls sitting on the opposite side of the table, and I was just doing my thing, as I normally would at that time of the morning, and I fell through that table, and I hit the ground hard, and for me that was a rock bottom. It was a moment of are you going to continue down this path, or are you going to do something else?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And I remember going to bed that night, and I woke up 3 or 4 h later, and my mentor now had just done an interview, a podcast with another buddy of mine as well, and he was talking about self-sabotage, the subconscious mind pathway and all this stuff. And I was like, Oh, my God! I do all this.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I I have negative thoughts, I I do things, and then it happens. And I'm like, why did I just do that? Why do I treat women and people this certain way like it just resonated with me? Anyway, I got some free advice and and different things happened. And from this it was about December.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah, probably about this time, 3 years ago, he launched the coaching school. When this podcast goes up, it will be 3 years since I actually started it. So yeah. And from there I learned about the subconscious. I learned about my own journey, one of my own healing health.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: well-being journey. And I was like, Wow, these are the things I was doing.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: These are the things I could be doing. These are the dreams that I've had. This is sort of how you can navigate to get. There was all about stripping back my self worth, my self Love myself, care. I always had Self-love, but it was in a different way which we can get to, and for me it was.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It was letting go of the old to bring in the new, and I was letting go of old patterns, old people, old towns, old all this stuff
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to be like, Wow, there's a whole new world out there.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And for me to be able to speak on platforms and host my own. Podcast if you hadn't told me this 4 years ago, I'd have said, Yeah, I've got the potential.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But actioning that potential. Well, that was that was the biggest flip I had a mentor say something in me that I wasn't able to say myself
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: at that point. But once I saw that potential and saw it in me. It opened up a whole new world in terms of I can see other people's potential. I can see potential in everyone here, and we all have the ability to do some pretty cool stuff.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But our own programming, our own fears, our own worries, our own traumas. All this stuff sort of just becomes this big ball of of energy, of oh, it's just easy to stay comfortable. It's easier to not put myself out there, and it's easier to sort of live this life of comfort
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: rather than expand and explore and evolve and and transform. So that's basically my story. In a 2 min, 3 min. Spiel, but yeah, there's a lot more layers to it. But for me it was falling through. That table was the was the was the catalyst, for where I am now, and and what I'm doing now. If it wasn't for that table well, it would have happened another way. I feel like I was always supposed to do this? So yeah.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: are they.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Love the metaphor, though
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the falling through the table, or really you did hit rock bottom.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I did.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: There was.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: No no doubt about it.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I have kind of a similar
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: story in a way that when I
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I have been embracing sobriety for the last over a year now.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And it was just, you know, I I just decided one day, I'm
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: this isn't making me happy. It's not anything that really
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: goes with what I want to do in the world.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And I just decided to stop
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and had a really cool experience with the hawk, which I'll tell you about another time, because I've told the listeners about it a million times.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: But
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I I never. I never looked back. It just was like, okay, that that chapter is closed. We're moving on.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And I think you can only do those kinds of things
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: when you are able to take
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: control of your thoughts, and how your your conscious mind is working in order to let your subconscious mind
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: move out of old patterns. What are your thoughts on that.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah, 1, 100, like I had the programming of. I watched a lot of American pie growing up. So I often talk a lot about stiff luck, Charlie Sheen, Joey, and friends, so you could sort of see the programming I had. You know they had the Charlie Sheen had the beach house. He had the. He had the the hot tub, he had, the the women around and the cigars, and it's like, well, that was
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: on the TV for a young guy like me watching that going. Well, that's sort of being a king like he's got the women. He's got the house. He's got the money. He's got fame. He's got all this stuff.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and then they portray Alan in the show. He has. The family has the son, but he's broke, and he's poor, and he's lonely, and he's miserable. So they they really paint that picture of that lifestyle as something to sort of hold on to and for me with stifler as well, you know. You watch American pie. Over and over and over again. The subconscious mind works on repetition. It's like going to the gym. Do you want to build strength?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Need to go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week and consistently go and over, Tommy, build strength with the mind. It's the same thing. If you're watching American pie.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you're watching friends. You're watching 2 and a half men. And you're watching all these
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: shows based on these guys being portrayed as kings, but treating a women a certain way to get safety amongst the group. Well, for me, I went. Well, I'm playing that card. I'm playing the role of stifler, and Joey and Charlie in my own way, because that's safe. He has friends, he has women.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I want friends. I want women. So I'm just going to go and automatically download that program on a revenue level and play that card. And I played that card till I was 26
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: got to 26, I was like, well, I don't have.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't have the beach house.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't have the women, because in reality women don't like being treated like that, and I had to go on that journey to find that out, and it took me to that moment of that table to be like? Well.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: they don't, because I didn't have what they had. And it's like, well.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: what are they trying to do here? Because I did that program, and it didn't work for me. So it was a matter of
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: not listening to music in the same sort of way. A lot of the rap music and the music out there today is very, very sexual. If you're listening to that on a repetitive level, then you're gonna act out that programming inside that that music. So I was like, well, if they're programming me through the TV, through the music, through everything that I'm currently consuming.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Well, I need to. I need to take my earphones out. I need to turn the TV off. I need to turn these things off and find some empowering content. How do you do that? Well, there's music out there that's very empowering. It's independent. It ain't mainstream, but it's out there. So I might listen to music like that. I might listen to some sound healing to try and tune into the frequency of where I want to be on a repetitive level. 5, 2 8 Hertz. I'm like, I'm gonna listen to this
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and just relax my mind and calm my nervous system down so that I can figure out what's true to me.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Is that behavior true to me? Or was that put there by a TV program that I thought was safe?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And it was that navigating journey of what was true to me, and what was someone else's belief, or someone else's
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to figure out how I can navigate my own journey. And for me it it takes time you're not going to build
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the kingdom in in one or 2 months. This is going to take time, because for me that American pie friends, 2 and a half men programming had been there since I was 12, and for me, that's that was 14 years worth of programming. Now I was watching Porn when I was 8, 8 years old, so there's the other layer to it. So not only was I watching American pie 2 and a half men and friends. I was also watching Porn.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: so I was watching Porn. So my programming of women was very
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: was very. You could say bad, you know, because
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: for me, cutting, cutting back the porn was hard work, because that was all I was used to for 20
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 20 years nearly. So that's a lot of programming to just
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you know. And for people out there, you're gonna have moments where you where you're gonna go back because
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: start off small and put baby steps in and say, Look, I'll give it a week. You get to the week. Well done, awesome. But then, as you keep moving, that resistance gets longer, and as that resistance gets longer you'll look back and go. Wow! I don't need that anymore.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because look how much better my life is without that thing, whether it's porn. Whether it's alcohol, whether it's any of these things, your life will be better once that resistance gets longer and you'll realize, oh, wow! My life is better. I feel better. I I have control over my my mental health and my physical health more than when I had that thing. You'll notice the differences. Each time you'll go deeper and deeper and deeper each time you go back, and you'll figure out you'll understand you go. Oh, wow! Look!
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Look how much better. I look and feel, and for me it was just that resistance, getting longer and longer each time learning how to channel that energy into my life into my goals, into my dreams, has then enabled me to
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to speak about these things, to start the business, to start the podcast to write the book and do these things that I've done was understand that I had the power and the potential within me, and all I had to do was say it, because once you see it.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: your your life changes forever. And that's how this subconscious mind works repetition
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: subliminal messaging. There's things hidden inside your TV shows and movies that are there for a reason, and they are there to disempower you. You need to find things that empower you and there's plenty of those things. This podcast is one minds, one, they empower, they inspire. Listen to those stories, listen to those people on repetitive level. You'll eventually find your way through this
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: interesting system. We all currently live in.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: What's your thoughts on social media
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in terms of.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Social media is interesting because I had a really awesome piece of advice from someone, and and they said to me, become a creator, not a consumer.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because when you consume you look at Tiktok, you look at Instagram. They have these reels right, and you got these young people. They're just flicking, and the next reel plays after the ones finished in instantly. So you're getting this dopamine hit.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's not real dopamine. It's a technological electrical dopamine that's not
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: real. The real dopamine is building your testosterone, going to the gym and being the person that you want to be. That's natural dopamine getting out in nature. Getting out in the ocean is natural dopamine.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Social media can be very harmful. You're talking.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: About dopamine and serotonin.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Correct.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Serotonin is what you want. It's the sustainable good feeling, dopamine
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it. It hits you, and you have to have more. And you you have to have larger quantities of it in order to get the same feeling
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: where serotonin is. It's a maintainable
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: sort of high.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm!
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But our youth of today won't even don't. They don't know what this is unless they're
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: conscious. And their families.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you know, our youth of today are just mindlessly scrolling, not knowing
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the effects it's having on mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And for young kids they're exposing them
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and their their bodies. They're thin. Their skin is thinner, their bones aren't really developed
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: totally yet. And so that's impacting them in a greater way than it does an adult who consumes large amounts of screen time.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Just kind of a.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And I find
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: many people out there use that screen to distract themselves from what's really going on in their lives, to not go to that dark place to not go to that place of wherever it is. You know it's it's this stuff that that they've held on to for such a long time. It's in this box. They've left the box on on the shelf. It's time to put the screens down. Turn the screens off, walk over to that shelf, blow the dust off it, and open it up and step into your potential, because we all have the ability to do these things.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Read a book.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: but then, action, this is another part of the subconscious mind, too. A lot of people will read those self-help books, but they won't action anything.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, you have to do stuff. Nothing changes until you actually do something different.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Correct action's a beautiful thing.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It could start with just even your thoughts and breathing, and I can remember when I 1st learned how to meditate.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Just like
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: 3 min was forever to me.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Now I can sit down, and an hour and a half can go by, and I'm like. Oh.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I I guess I need to stop and go do something.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: This feels good.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Their mind's racing. It's having the ability to be able to just take those 3 deep breaths, and you'll find you'll be able to do it. But it's just taking that time to relax. People don't feel like they have time.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You got plenty of time. What you do with it.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: There's a quote about somebody who
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: a monk or something.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Maybe it was the Dalai Lama that it was attributed to. But he's like, I've got a really busy day today. I better meditate for 4 h instead of 2.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's just getting
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: getting your mind in the right place. You're much more able to accomplish what you want to accomplish than
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: if your your mind's racing, and you're running around doing all the things.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: But you're not really getting anything done.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 100%. And
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the way this subconscious model works is that if getting things done is not a program or not a thing that you saw as a child. Then you won't get things done, because that's what you're used to. It works on repetition, as I said before, and it works on familiarity, comfortability, and finding safety amongst the tribe. If your your family circle, as you were growing up between the ages of 0 and 6, was full of alcohol and
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: violence and all these things that are out there. Now for kids. Then that's the program you're going to act out
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because that's what you're used to. You're not used to any anything else. So something else comes in. Well.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that's a very uncomfortable thing to be. People don't like being uncomfortable
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: we're programmed to be comfortable. Look at the school system. We we look at everything out there that's out there. It's all about comfortability and not embracing the uncomfortability
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: we're forever seeking the comforts it needs to be flipped on and said we need to seek the uncomfortability, because in those uncomfortable moments are the chances and the changes you can make to grow
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: rather than staying where you are and being comfortable, we came here to grow. We came here to evolve. We came here to learn.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's what we came here to do.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: For sure, for sure. I can remember the 1st time I had to get up in front of my class
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I was in.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I think I was in 6th grade.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I went homesick. I I just was like, I can't do this.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: There's no way.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And now, I have my own podcast I talk to people all the time. It's like
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I could talk in front of groups of thousands. It just doesn't bother me anymore. But it's that that
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: put in uncomfortable positions. You have to just do it sometimes.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and it does get easier.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And I'll add to that story. I love what you just said, because my book and all my stuff was birthed from an inner child that I had inside the school system. Now the subconscious mind remembers everything but it. It puts these blocks and these barriers there to protect you. It wants to keep you safe
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: for me. I wanted to unpack Pandora's box, and.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: like I had the intent and the action behind. I want to
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: explore my potential my capability. Now I remember being on a table 2 and a half years ago with an awesome kinesiologist, and she said, something happened to you when you were 6. Now, I went straight there and said, Yeah, I was playing on the floor with Lego, and my parents were in a
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: parent teacher, interview, and I was on the floor. And this teacher said, I used to write a lot of stories about mystical things, comic books, and I used to write a lot about being a hero here in Australia. The Afl. Is a very popular sport. I used to write about kicking goals after sirens, and and being that hero, that
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that yeah, being the hero. And this teacher said, Oh, we don't want Nathan writing this stuff anymore. He needs to write what everyone else is writing, and he and he needs to do the work everyone else is doing. And for me
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I downloaded that as a program as a 6 year old of well, my writing's not worthy. I'm not worthy.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I'll conform, and I'll do that now for me. That blocked my writing ability, because that one person's perception or perspective stopped me from
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: doing it. So for me. I went back to that kid playing the Lego, and I just held him and said, Nathan, you can do and be anything that's 1 person's perception of who and what you can be. You can do and be anything. There's 6 billion people out here on the planet, Nathan.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: From that moment forward the next 6 weeks. I wrote my book.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 3 months after that I started the podcast.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 2 months after that, I was like, I'm Gonna launch A, website, I did those things
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: it was a safety block. And I went. I don't want to block this anymore.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: So I went back to that child told him what he needed to hear in that moment, and told that teacher to to go jump. And I'm gonna do this thing.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah. And it really is just a matter of making a decision
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and embracing.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: regardless of other people's opinions because they're just opinions, and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you don't know what that woman was experiencing. She's probably not even still alive. At this point.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I know most of my teachers are gone.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they're just in that age group that
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: th. Those people aren't around anymore. Not very many of them, anyway, but it's
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's recognizing that
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they had an opinion about something when you were 6 years old, and they probably had an ulterior motive. It probably wasn't about what you were writing so much as
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she was wanting everybody to conform to a certain standard, so that she wouldn't get in trouble.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Correct.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Most people are personally motivated
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in those situations. Well, in all situations. Really, it's like, if you're getting up and talking in front of a whole bunch of people. Most people want to know what's in it for them, and if it's not about them, then they
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: don't really care.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: This.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's kind of a cynical way of looking at things, but
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and then it gets back to what you were talking about about programming because we are fed stuff, especially these days.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: that's designed to hit us
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: where we're vulnerable.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: A AI and social media is really good at this. But even in the games kids play online, there's it's subliminal messaging. But it's it's on steroids these days.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Okay.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: your your phone listens to you when you're walking around talking, and it shows you ads about what you were talking about.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Sometimes it shows you ads about what you were thinking about, and that terrifies me
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: personally.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I'm not sure how that.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Thing, you know, and we talk a lot about this stuff, too. And and you know you could talk about who's behind it. And and then who's behind them and them and them them? But the thing is.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: they'll get you if they can put you in that state, because they know they've proven it that if they can put you in fear, terror, panic, you will do and say anything and look at the last 4 years you had people lining up to do stuff that was probably not in their best interest, but they did it anyway, because they're in a fear, panic, and terror. If you can.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And if you stood against that
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: man you were, you had to have really thick skin, and you had to be really strong.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Try being 26
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: lifestyle I used to live that was going against the grain on many levels for me, and I would do it again in a heartbeat. Because
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Here you are!
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And for me I was just gonna add to the fear, panic, and terror. If you can bring yourself into a centered calm
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: based on your own influence is not being influenced by all of these things. Now, if you look at how all this was orchestrated. It was orchestrated as soon as you walk into the school system, because you're conforming, you're complying, and you're looking up to an authority figure to rule you to guide you to boss you around, tell you what to do every day.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Then you leave the school system, and then you're doing that in a job as well. So you are being told what to do every single day.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: A lot of people out there don't know
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: To to train you to become
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: not necessarily a robot, but to work
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in a in factories and in situations where you're told what to do, and you better just do it
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: because people who have the ability to think for themselves.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they tend to become unemployable.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And but the people and the kids that think for themselves inside the school system, get labeled with all this stuff to keep them in that box and never ever stepping out of it.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: We know what those labels are. I don't have to name them. But
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: yeah, it starts there. That's where it starts. I'll say to people all the time, and they jump on coaching calls and and things with me. I say, you weren't born this way. You were manufactured this way as soon as you walked into that school system. They manufactured this for you. This isn't your fault. You you had no control over this.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You just download. These programs are all safe. They're all familiar with all repetition. You're working as designed. But, hey, we can sort of reprogram you from that manufacturing programming, and help you step into the person you were supposed to be. Now that will be uncomfortable. That will be unfamiliar. Be very unsafe, but in 8, 9, 10 years time it will be familiar. It will be more comfortable, and it will be more safe. But you'll still continue to grow
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because the school system wants to stop you from growing, and they want to manufacture you, as you just said before, into a workout rather than a thinker.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Thinkers, thinkers are expensive.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 100%.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I I homeschooled 3 of my 5 kids for that very reason. And then when they got into high school, or when they
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: turned 13. We have a an alternative school in our community
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: like 7 HA day, 4 days a week, no homework.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And they were for
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: basically, it's for kids that couldn't make it in regular high school. They were. They were just
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they're the more creative kids and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: kids that would getting into trouble
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: for the most part.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: but I thought it would be a good idea to send my kids there anyway.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and so they would go there when they were 13,
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and they each. They each had a different experience. They went for 3 years. They all graduated when they were 16, except the youngest. She graduated when she was
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: in 3 quarters.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she blew through it. But
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: then it was during Covid. But our approach to it was. There's only 4 teachers over there. I knew all 4 teachers. I knew what they were teaching, and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it was a game.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: The game is you're going to get A's. I don't really care how you get those A's. But you need to get A's.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And they they would cheat. They would tell me what they were doing, and just like, Well, okay.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I don't care.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's a game. What we're going for is that piece of paper that says I graduated from high school
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they did make A's.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: did creative things. The youngest who graduated when she was 15, she
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She never did anything like
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: not totally on the up and up. Let's put it that way
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to get to get her grades.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She made all A's except for one class, and they he gave her a B plus, just because he couldn't give her straight. A's through the whole thing.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it was just.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's it's the approach that parents take to schools
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: like, it's the teacher's job to give you information. It's your job to
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: assimilate that information and feed it back to them in the way that they want to hear it.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Whether it's right or wrong is not is not anywhere near the point, because most of it's wrong.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Just let's be honest.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're not keeping up with what's happening. And there's information that comes out every day.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: school, in the traditional sense, it has to change.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, it's
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's a waste of time. I'm sorry.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It is, if people from your show want to listen to my show on the breaking free, podcast my last 3 episodes, I'm showcasing a lot of these alternative systems, these former teachers that have started these alternative systems. And they're doing some really awesome things. There's children that are starting podcasts at like 12 years old, and putting on spotify. There's there's children that are wanting to do, Ted Talks. I interviewed a 14 year old last week, and she just blew me away. She's doing meditation.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: she's thinking for herself. She's looking at Jodi Spencer. She's looking at at these, at these other people as as they're her. They're her you could say
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Oh, my God! She's doing the yoga! She's doing all these things! I'm like, Oh, my God! Like these alternative systems are doing some really awesome things. However, you have these government department sort of systems wanting to shut these down, because look at what they're doing.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Creating people that have ideas, and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the ideas are like spreading.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: A young girl on Youtube who has like millions of downloads for her shorts. She's 17, and I can't remember her name. I wish I could. But she she's just amazing. And she goes on, talk, shows, or on podcasts. And she, she talks about
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the attention to detail, and how she studied all these other
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: really good podcasts who did shorts like Mr. Beast, and she like, took it all apart. And
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she thinks that if she creates a short and it doesn't get a million downloads or a million views.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: there's there's something wrong with that that episode or that video.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She's that good. And there's there's like so many kids out there who have Youtube channels and tick tock, and all of these different
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: content creation systems
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: out there that they're monetizing, and they're just doing spectacularly well.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And they're bringing value to the marketplace.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Something that's, you know.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah. And I say that to a lot of the children that I work with, too, that the teens, I say, look, there are children, your age that are making some serious amount of money here online. And you can do this, too. Here's how you can do it. Follow these people, take the good and the bad and the ugly, make it your own, and go out there and shine, because in a world that doesn't want you to shine, being the one that shines will get you so far.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah. And it's not on looks or anything else it's on, you know, who's who's out there being the most creative.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: How different can you be? I mean, look at the people that were doing those planks.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Good.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: It's something really outlandish and.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: But that's the thing inside the school system. We're looking for that familiarity and that safety amongst the tribe. We don't want to be different because we don't want to be ostracized.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Daughter again the 15 year old, they kept telling her.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Don't don't let her wear these dresses, my daughter. She's
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she dresses up.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: She looks like an anime character most of the time. She has pink hair.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she's so cool, but
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she just when she was young she'd I never really said no, you can't wear that. She would wear these
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: crazy outfits, and the school was like, no, we just want her to wear her pajamas to school sweatpants and a T-shirt.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: So like.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Okay. So just wear your sweatpants and a t-shirt.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Awesome. You just letting her explore and figure things out for herself. It's yeah.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, she's so creative. And it's just it's who she is. And and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you know, maybe because I was 44 when I had her. I I just like
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: oh, honey, you're the greatest gift ever.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I don't.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I do care what you do. But you know, explore who you are.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: You're
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you're great.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Hmm.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And she's just
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: grown into this amazing human being.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: All of my kids are really great, but
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: she's just a baby, so I can be really proud of her.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's awesome.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So how do you do this coaching that you do? Is it in groups? Is it one on one.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do have groups. Yeah, I did a. I launched a a teenage program back in March the the growth that those that those 4 that those 4 children were in the the growth? Was it? Was there like the data? Was there like it was that started here? And I just I remember. I I'll tell you a story about it. I said to this kid he wanted a soccer ball. He's 13
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: who was 13 in March. He wanted a soccer ball, and and I knew he he wanted that soccer ball, because Mum and I were exchanging emails about it, and I wanted to bring it up to show how he could get it in in another way, because he immediately went, Mom, can. I'm a soccer ball. And Mom went like that. And she shook her head. And I said, Okay.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: what does that feel like? And he goes. I feel I feel sad. I feel angry. I just I wanted moms. I said, Okay, well, what's another way? You can get a soccer ball, Joel? And he went.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I don't know. I said, Okay, well, what about if you're at the supermarket tomorrow, you're at a market or wherever you go, and you just happen to find someone that's got a bag of soccer balls. That's like I've got all these balls. He always want to get rid of them. What if you're because he was still going to school at this point. What if you're at school in a couple of weeks time? And the PE teachers, you know, ordered a heap of new socket balls, and he's wanting to get rid of some that are still relatively new, but because there's newer ones he just wants to get rid of them just to.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: anyway. Fast forward a month and Mom emails me. Oh, the PE teacher gave Joel a soccer ball the other day I went. Oh, really.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Joel's smile on his face. She said. You couldn't. You couldn't wipe it off, because what I helped him through was that there are other ways to get that thing you have to be focused on. Just one thing
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that PE teacher was actually did order new soccer balls and gave some of the kids ones because
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: done.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Bang! There it was.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and he walked away with a brand new soccer ball didn't have to pay a cent.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and he's like, Thank you, I said, well, if you can expand your mind and open it up. You can open up to all these potentials. But we get so focused on that one thing in that one outcome. I did that, too. You know, I went and saw psychics and different people that told me I was going to do this and do that. And I got focused on it, going the way I wanted it to go. But I needed to open my mind and expand and be like, well, there's so many
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: potential so many things. It can happen in any way. Just be open to that, and then take the inspired action for that to come into your life and me learning that helped Joel be like, well, mate, you just expand that.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You're gonna allow that in because you want that ball. So you're gonna get that ball just that mom isn't gonna get it for you.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah. Unbelievable.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Rather than going around just being mad at Mom. And then you've taken your focus off of getting the soccer ball. Now, you're just mad at Mom.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yep.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Now you're out there looking for
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: the opportunities.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: When is it? Gonna show up? I can hardly wait.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's the thing, too, you know. We become very impatient with it, too. So that creates another energy. It's just finding that that place of stillness, of calm, and trusting that whatever that thing is will come because you've already put the order into the universe. So it's gonna come, or God, or spirit, or Jesus, or whatever you do believe.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: give you that thing in the most beautiful timing. But there might be some work for you to do to get that thing. You might have to go through some pain, some stuff to be able to get to the other side of that. So who knows but at some point that thing will come with inspired action? Trust, patience, resilience, and discipline.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: For sure. I I love that.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And I love the story
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: because it's
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's it's a true case of manifesting and opening up to the possibilities. And we.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do it all the time. And that's what I teach inside my programs is that
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: the school system teaches you the goal setting and the manifesting to a point. They don't teach you the rest. Once you figure out the rest
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: look out, and I teach that.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: That is.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Not teach it. I facilitated. I guide it so they can. Yeah. But I'll say, Teach, but yeah, it's a powerful thing, and that's how powerful we are.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and also inside the school system. It's all about resumes, cover letters, career expos. You don't have people like us, Jill, coming in and saying, this is how you start a podcast this is how you start an online business. This is how you can make money online. It's just that manufacturing of that worker rather than expanding the children's minds being like, well, if you don't want to do the job.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: you can do this other cool stuff. We're not. Gonna we're not going to highlight or showcase that other cool stuff. He's a career. Expo. Go and be a truck driver, go and be a nurse, go and be a doctor, you'll get all the gratification, get all the safety, all the glory of being those people because they're portrayed in the media as being such
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: powerful, awesome people. Don't worry about little little old Johnny over here. He's got an online business is absolutely thriving and killing it. We'll give you all the glory. Go and do your job, and then learn to resent that for the rest of your life. Well done! See you later.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And spend a lot of money
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to realize how miserable you are.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: especially in the medical community. Man. I
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I talk to people all the time that spent gobs, and I mean gobs of money
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to become doctors or nurses or physicians, assistants or whatever. And they're they're just.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're miserable.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They work long hours. They're not really compensated all that. Well, considering the debt that they had to take on to get to that point.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you know they could have gone and become a health coach and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: lived a much better life
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and actually helped. People had an impact that.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: instead of just, you know.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: continuing on a charade and making the pharmaceutical companies rich.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: they could actually have an impact on on one human who.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: when one human heals it, impacts.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: The ripple.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: All the yeah, the ripple effect that impacts everybody around them.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: so.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: There's no safety, there's no there's. There's no safety in in that, though. If you look at the the way the media portray these people. There's a lot of safety in that
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: on a sublevel, subconscious level. If you want the gratification.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: See you, though.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Exactly, but if you want to be a hero, then they'll portray a hero for you to go and be. It's not necessarily the the natural hero. It's a
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah, it's
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: it's terrible. The amount of lying that goes on
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: to young people who are at a point where they could do whatever they want to do.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: because there's there's really a very short amount of time from the time you get out of high school to the time you end up starting to form families or form partnerships
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you're free to do whatever you want to do
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: you, you really can explore all your options, and we we push people into going to college, which is another money making
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: conglomerate out there that doesn't really help people. It just enslaves them in debt.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're gonna get the same kind of job when they get out of college. That they could have, you know, joined a union, or learned a trade, or learned a skill.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and they've got it.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You're easier. You're easier to lie to. You're easier to rule. You're easier to manipulate. You're easier to govern when you're in debt when you're in fear when you're in panic, when you're into fear, when you're broke, when you're weak, when you're poisoned, when you're all of these things, you're easier to manipulate. You're easier to manufacture. If you can empower yourself step by step, inch by inch. Progression, not perfection. You'll be able to empower yourself to sidestep all this shit.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Yeah. And and we really need that for the next generation. Because
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: this, the system we've got going on right now is a broken. I'm I'm
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: so happy about that.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: B needs to change.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It does.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And it is changing because, you know, coaches are out there
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: talking to people, and
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: people are waking up. They're.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: That's the thing. One conversation one seed
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: may not grow in the moment you might really trigger that person might be a very heated conversation.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: but 6 to 12 months time that seed will grow.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: If it's supposed to grow, it will, and that person might circle back and say, Hey, thank you for saying what you said. Sorry for the way I reacted. Not responded.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You've helped me, and it's like that. One conversation could just light a spark, create a ripple, and one by one, inch by inch, step by step, we will. We will get there, because this is the time of it now and the next.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: astrologically speaking, here, the next 4 years are going to be huge here, here here on Earth. As
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: some energetic things are happening, we're we're connected to that. So we're gonna shift into that. And it's gonna be an interesting 4 years could get Rocky. But
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: we all chose to be here.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I do believe that.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Oh, it's so exciting!
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Please.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I really believe that good is coming. And it it's already here. Today was a good day.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: and today will be a good day for you.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: You're just starting.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I am just starting. It's actually yeah. What are we? 16 h apart? So yours. Friday night, there.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Friday afternoon. And your Saturday morning. And I love that you know we can time, travel and meet in space somewhere, that doesn't even exist.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Yeah. And speaking of that, too, you know, if your listeners and your viewers want to be that better version of themselves, or they or they have this dream or this goal. Well, speaking of time, travel, that person already exists out there. So if you can imagine that person walk up to that person. What's it feel like? What's it taste like? What's it smell like? What are you hearing? What are you seeing? And then walk up to that person, and just.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: or for me. I just walked up to that person that wants to be the father and the husband and the provider and the leader. I just walked up to him and said, I want to be you now. 3 years ago I walked up to that person after the bowled out table incident, and he had the podcast he had the book. He had all these things. I walked up to him and said, I want to be you. I'm living that guy now
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that guy existed 3 years ago. I wanted to be him. Here he is, and during 3 years, time or 2 years time, whenever it is, there's another version of me. I want to be so. I'm continuing to step into those versions of me that exist. So it helps me still to grow, evolve and and become that next better version of me.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I wanna see how far I can go up Success Mountain. I wanna get to the top of that thing. So that's where I'm going.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And and the people that you need to help you. They just will come alongside you and walk with you. It.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 100%.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I've I've met so many people on this journey. It's like.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Sign.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: They're all so interesting, and they're all.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Falling, falling through, falling through that table
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: 24 h late. 5 h later I was introduced to my mentor. Now Jason.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I then went on a journey up the northeast coast of Australia with my brother, and we met so many other awesome people that helped me step into my power and helped me remember who I am.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It was that table moment that set off this path of where I am right right now. If it wasn't, it would have happened in another way, of course, but it had to be that table, and it's like, well, those people they were already there. I just
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: had to go through some stuff to be able to have those people come into my life.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and also let go of those old belief systems of of that old life
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: to welcome in that newer
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: that that knew a lot. It was hard letting go of my old town and my old friends and some of my family.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: but the people I've met since it's it's chalk and cheese.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Never heard that expression before. I love it.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Australian one. It's an old one, but I've said that a bit lately. I don't know where I've got that from, but.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: And genius. Yeah.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Leaves a leaves a good picture in your head.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: It does.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: So how can people get in touch with you, Nathan?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Well, this is. This is February. Now, isn't it? So we've time jumps. We're actually in November. But this is being released in February. So my website is nathanfrancis.com. I can find me there. You can find my name again on social media, on you, on Instagram, Facebook. Tiktok just put in Nathan, Francis and I'll we'll come up.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: can find my podcast. On Youtube apple, spotify rumble and Amazon. It's the breaking free. Podcast.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: By the time this goes up I could be 900 episodes in, and it's so many awesome free information there, so many awesome guests, heaps of solo ones as well, and the information is all there for free my website. There's a lot of blogs on there that I've written over the course of my journey over the last 4 years, you can circle back to the very 1st one, be very different to the one I've currently written.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Even my 1st podcast that I did I cut the guest off and all that was a very, very funny podcast it is still there it can sort of
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: for me. I just grew on that podcast if I didn't start it, I would never would have started. And I just learned a lot along the way
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: yeah, everything's there. And if you really, you know, if you want to work with me and you've and you can do that too. You can book in a free discovery call, and we can have a chat about all things, you and how I can help you strive to be the best version of you because
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I see your potential. I had someone say it in me, and I love that. I can now see it in others, because we all have potential. We all came here to do something. We were just manufactured and programmed to do something else that wasn't organic to us.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I'm here to help you remember who you are and what that is.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: Awesome. So what's the one thing you hope the audience takes away from this conversation.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: I hope the one thing the audience takes away from this podcast. Is that you have the power. You have the potential. You you came here to do some really awesome things
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: if you can. If you can sit with yourself and find that stillness, and find that calm, and allow yourself to feel what it is you need to feel, feel the anger, feel the sadness, feel the pain, the pain. Teacher, feel all of these things, but then allow yourself to feel the joy, feel the excitement, feel happy, feel all the emotions, and then ask yourself 2 simple questions. Who am I?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Who am I beyond the title that I've given myself. What if it's the job? Or if it's the coach or podcast host or author, whatever it is, who am I beyond that. Keep asking yourself who you are. Get to that place where you don't need any of these labels. You're just you
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because you're more than just your name. You're a soul that has inhibited this body for a human experience. But you're also here to do some cool stuff. Ask yourself who you are, and keep asking yourself who you are, and then ask yourself, what's true to me.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Is that belief system true to me?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: And if it's not true to you ask yourself where it come from, you'll know where it's come from. Might be your family home might be school might be somewhere, and then ask yourself, well.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: how do? How can I change that?
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: Because once you ask yourself those questions consistently
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: over a 3 week, 4 week, 5 week period, you will be a different person.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: because your perception of yourself and the world will begin to change, and allow yourself to to really feel that change, because you can then, inch by inch, step by step, progression of perfection get to that next version of you.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: You have so much power and so much potential. If you could just see a little bit of it, just a teensy, tiny bit. It ignites this spark, the spark ignited in me, and you will be the only one that will put it out. There'll be no other influence that will put it out. It will just be you versus you.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: and that's the way to go. Keep going. You got this.
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Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist & Host of the You World Order Showcase Podcast: I love that. Thank you so much for joining me.
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Nathan Francis - Youth Self Sabotage Coach: No worries. Thank you for having me.