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So in today's episode, we are delighted to welcome on

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Ione Georgioukas from Tourette's Action.

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And, Ione, we've had conversations with you

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before, and we wish that we'd press

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record because we we realized at the end of the conversation what

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a brilliant podcast it would have made. So, obviously, we had to invite you on

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to do 1 and record it. So thank you for joining us.

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Thank you so much for inviting me and for having me on today. After

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our last chat, it just opened up so many questions

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for me that I Well, I suppose I didn't know. I had this

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stereotypical thought about Tourette's

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and what it Actually was and how you would recognize

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it, and you just went, yeah. Not really. Some

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people have that. And Absolutely.

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And do you know what, Kev? You're not alone with that. Unless you kind of

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you work in the field of Tourette's or you directly know and love someone with

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this Beautiful and bizarre condition. You generally don't know

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about it as much. You know, the public understanding of Tourette's

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does not meet the level of Kind of comparable neurodivergent

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conditions like autism or ADHD, which generally, nowadays,

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we're we're making some great strides in kind of understanding it And

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being able to support it really early on and recognize it really early

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on, but we we have not kinda got that status with Tourette's

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yet. So we are, As a charity, we're working really hard, you know,

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dragging it, kicking and screaming, hopefully, to to the public eye

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and to to do exactly that myth bust, move away from some of these

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misconceptions that we have and hopefully make the world a little bit of a more

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enjoyable and safer place for people with Tourette's?

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Brilliant. And that's exactly the reason we said, we need a podcast. We

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need a podcast. Indeed. And it

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is a fascinating subject as well. So when we were talking to

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you before, we could've just talked all day, couldn't we? We

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there was no stopping us. Absolutely. And that's part of

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the the joy of my role is that once you get me going talking on

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this topic, I, I struggle to stop, so I'm definitely in the right position.

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Yeah. So I suppose the best place to start is

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what actually is Tourette's? Because My personal

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view before I talk to you was that

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people just swear. That's Tourette's. That is, you know, that

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is What I thought it was and

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how to recognize it, but it's so much more than

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that. Absolutely. And it's a great place to start, and I

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think you're not you're not alone with that misunderstanding there, Kev. So I

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guess I'll I'll kind of reintroduce myself. So I'm I'm Ione, as As was said

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and I'm the therapies and advocacy manager at Tourette's Action, and we're the kind

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of the national charity who who looks to support people with tics and Tourette's,

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Tourette's, but also the people around those those individuals. So their

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teachers, their parents, their siblings, their driving instructors in this wonderful

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case, They're health care professionals, they're GPs, absolutely

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anyone who will listen. And in my role, I get to do

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lots of kind of training and awareness and on some unfortunate occasions,

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some podcasts and some face to face workshops, and I absolutely

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love it. So we always kind of,

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we're we're working hard to be kind of on the ground in order

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to give a bit of a voice for people with Tourette's. And and quite importantly,

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I think, I'm a lived experience advocate. So I have Tourette's

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syndrome. I also have ADHD and dyslexia. And what we'll learn

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about in a bit is that Lots of these things come hand in hand.

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So we kind of we like to widen that lens when we're when we're thinking

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about Tourette's and neurodiversity too. So Tourette

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syndrome is, it's a neurological condition, or we might call it

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a neurodevelopmental condition. And it sits under that kind of

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umbrella bracket of, conditions like ADHD

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and autism. But for this kind of in

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this condition, the key features are ticks. So they are sounds and

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movements that are involuntary. They're not what someone wants to do.

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They're what someone's body needs to do. And like you said,

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Keifer, this really big myth around Tourette's

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is That Tourette's is the swearing condition. And, you know,

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it's it's not anyone's fault that they have this this

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misunderstanding because Tourette's and swearing makes up

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for a 100% of what we see on our TV, where they only ever

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show this kind of extreme side of the condition. And

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I think it's it's really important to recognize

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it's probably the hardest part of the condition to live with. So what

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I'll say is that we call the swearing part of the condition

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Palladia. So that is a term that kind of means,

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the the verbal the verbal swearing ticks.

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X. We also have copapraxia, which is the movement swearing

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tics, so given the middle finger, for example. But

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these symptoms only affect 15 to 20% of

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people with Tourette's. So it is a minority of the Tourette

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population, But they're definitely the symptoms that have the

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biggest impact. You know? They're the ones that cause the most issues, the most

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challenges, the most discrimination. They stop people doing

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things. They stop people wanting to leave the house and things because they don't feel

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safe or comfortable, but it's definitely not the majority, who have

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these symptoms. So I think something that we're always desperately and

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delicately trying to balance is how do we represent this really tricky

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side of the condition whilst also saying, hey. There's loads

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of other stuff going on, and there's lots of other things that have a really

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big impact. It's not only swearing. And it's so

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important for us as a charity and for me as a as a

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Tourettic individual to move past this because it's

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become a barrier to people getting diagnosed. So we've had

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families who come to us and they say, oh, we went to the GP about

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little Andy's tics, and his tics have been going for years. And he has this

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little noise that he makes, and he has these movements he makes. But the GP

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said, oh, he's not swearing. Don't worry. It can't be Tourette's. And, actually,

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when our medical professionals are still kinda held under this

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mythical idea that everyone with the condition swears or that it has

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to be so, so, so extreme to be Tourette's syndrome, Then we've got

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all of these people who are living with these symptoms, these really tricky symptoms,

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but who don't know how to advocate for themselves. They don't know how to explain

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what's going on for them, and they can't access the support

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that they need to kinda live the life that they want to.

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We still live in a a a society and in a time where

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everything's very diagnosis led, unless you have that that magical

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piece of paper from that magical clinic with a 10 year waiting list that

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says, hey. You've got this condition. Then you can't so easily

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access support at work Or in education all throughout your life,

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really. And you can't find your tribe so easily. You can't say,

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well, this is the place for me. That's the support group for me. That's the

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driving instructor for me because he understands my condition. Because if you don't

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understand your condition, then it's really hard to kinda help other people to get

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it. So, Yeah. Big part of this is it is not all

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about swearing, but the kind of the criteria for that

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Tourette's diagnosis is multiple pulmodus, a lot a couple of

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different movement ticks and at least 1 vocal or sound

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tick. Okay? And those don't have to be words. They could be noises

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or anything that comes from the vocal cords. So, actually, when we think

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about kind of Tourette's, we might see This this image of someone

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who's swearing lots, who's got loads of quite extreme sounds and

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movements that are quite violent or noticeable, But,

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actually, you could gently clear your throat, roll your eyes, and scrunch

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your forehead, and you might have been doing that for 3 or 4 years from

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childhood, And you fit the criteria for Tourette's, so I think it's

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really important that we say, you know, Tourette's looks very different

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on everybody. What you see in me versus what you see in

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others is gonna really vary, and Tourette's just changes

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naturally through throughout the course of A day, a week, a month,

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a year, a person's lifetime. So, again, if we see someone one

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day and they're they're quite ticky, they might be very Excited. They might be

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very stressed. We don't wanna assume that that is their baseline, that's how

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they live their entire life, and that they're never gonna have more settled

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periods, because it's just not the case, and I think that could be a

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bit of a barrier to to people, for example, wanting

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to take on a new client With this condition to teach them something, if

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they're very nervous in that first interaction and very excited and ticky, you

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might be thinking, oh my goodness. How are we gonna navigate this safely? But,

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Actually, once somebody knows you, once somebody knows what they're doing,

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once somebody understands what's expected of them, their anxiety's slightly

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reduced, their tics are gonna be slightly more reduced, and they're gonna be able to

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function differently or better at in that situation. So tics

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aren't a constant. They, they wax and wane. Again, I've

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got so many questions for you, ma'am. Loaded up.

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So is there anything that springs it on? Or

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you know? Is it overwhelm? Is it just a nervous

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situation? Is is there anything or is it I suppose I'm

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gonna leave it there for a minute because there's probably loads of questions in there

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already. So Fab. Yeah. So, I mean, the actual

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kind of what causes Tourette's in the 1st place. It's kind of it's

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got a genetic component, so it's about 50% heritability. So we

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often see tickers in families. We see uncles and dads Parents

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who have had tics, maybe not a diagnosis of Tourette's, but then the

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child or young person will also have tics. But within the

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individual with Tourette's, are lots of things that are widely accepted

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or widely reported to impact ticks. And I use the word kind of

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positively or negatively, but, actually, we should really say increase or

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decrease because I don't really like to put this idea of lots

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of ticks being bad and not Many being good because it's just not the

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case. So some of the things that we

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know can increase tics, and I always start with this Yes. Because I

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think it's really important. It's excitement and joy

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and anticipation and and the adrenaline that comes with those

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emotions and those feelings. We have a real tendency

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as parents, carers, professionals, teachers, loved

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ones, friends, family of people with with Tourette Syndrome to say, ma,

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listen, bud. Are you okay? You're feeling stressed? You're very ticky today.

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Your ticks are off the chart. What's going on? And, actually, it could be

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that I'm going to Thorpe Park on the weekend. It could be that my

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favorite TV show has started a new series. It could be that I'm having a

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cracking bowl of pasta for dinner. It could be Absolutely anything that's triggered

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that excitement and has consequently impacted and increased the ticks.

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And I think we've got to recognize that because we're always sort of

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Concerned maybe when we see these increase in tics, and so often they are

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a celebration. Talking about tics

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Increases tics. So I'm in a I'm in a peculiar job, if I've

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gotta be honest. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse,

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but focusing on tics, Being around other people that tick,

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increase ticks. So ticks, like lots of other things in life, are

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very suggestible. They respond to positive and negative reinforcement.

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So when we're focusing on them, we're bringing attention to them, it's

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more likely that we will we'll do that thing or that the tics might

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be more present. It doesn't mean we shouldn't talk about tics. It doesn't mean we

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shouldn't be around other people who tic, but it's something that we just have to

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consider when planning life. You know, I wouldn't if I had a colleague with

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Tourette's, I wouldn't sit directly next to them in the office, or I would not

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get so much work done. And I have to interestingly,

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When I'm driving, this is a big consideration. I do we do lots of,

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Tourette's inclusive events at Tourette's Action, kind of weekends

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for adults or Children or teenagers with the condition, and

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they're often all around the country, and they're amazingly well received. But

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I can't drive there anymore because I can drive there very safely,

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but I can't drive home after the weekend very safely. So that is a kind

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of and a really clear and, I guess, a good example of how our

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tics can change and also our capacity or our willingness or our

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safety when driving can change and how generally people with Tourette's

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are quite quite sensitive and thoughtful in, is this

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a safe opportunity? Am I about to go into an environment where my tick's gonna

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increase? Because I'll drive there safely, But after that weekend,

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I'll have to pull over about 18 times on the way home to take it

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out. And, actually, for me, that doesn't feel worth it, and I wouldn't recommend it.

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So Being around others who tick, talking about focusing on ticks,

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are very much gonna, you know, increase those ticks in the short term.

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Stress and anxiety, of course, it's not all it's not all joy. Stress

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and anxiety can increase any symptoms or the challenges that we have, you know, whether

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we get headaches, whether we have IBS, you know, what whatever it might

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be, over and under stimulation, so kind

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of really busy, loud, unpredictable spaces,

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Spaces where you're kind of quite worried about the impact of your tics. Could I

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get in trouble? Could I offend someone? Is there lots of

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Unpredictable kind of car horns or bright lights going on. Those

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things can be, a trigger for ticks. Often, again, in the short

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term, you might have a A tick response to a sensory change that

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then settles back down. Being really tired can

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impact ticks. It can increase ticks. And, obviously, there's also

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lots of individual things that people have found will maybe

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impact their tick. So me and supermarkets sworn enemies. I

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will I'd, you know, do all sorts of creative things to avoid going to a

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supermarket because they're a space that really triggers my tics.

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They're bright and they're busy and there's lots of people and they're echoey and it's

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quiet and, you know, all of the things that create a recipe for disaster for

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me. But lots of other people with tics That that doesn't bother them. That's

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a fine part of their day, so really recognising that individual

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difference. On the other hand, of course, we have things that

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decrease our tics. So being relaxed and accepted is a really, really big

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one. Being in a space where eve you know everyone gets it. If you say

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something that is shocking or unpredictable or peculiar or

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creative or witty that they know that it's a tick. It's not your thoughts and

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feelings. It's not what you wanted to say. It is Involuntary.

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Kind of low stimulus spaces that you know what's going on around

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you. You know the people in that Base can be really, really helpful.

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Having no consequence to the tick, not not being worried you're gonna be told

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off, asked to leave, stared at, looked at, questioned

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is is a really, really big one, kind of creating comfortable, safe

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spaces. And this is a big one and my absolute favorite one

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to kind of talk to and ask people with tics about is focused

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and concentrating activities. So lots and lots and

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lots and lots of people with tics and Tourette's will find that their tics

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reduce significantly when they're engaged in certain tasks. And

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there are such a wide range of these asks from kind

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of music, sport, singing, cooking, reading,

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driving, working, writing, Drawing. You

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know, the list goes on. There's as many activities as there are people, but it's

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a real kind of hallmark feature of Tourette syndrome. Do you get a

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reduction in your tics in certain spaces and activities. And for so many

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people, the focus and the attention when driving is is the

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perfect kind of recipe for that That tick reduction. And for

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for lots of people that I know and I work with and I speak with

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who have have Tourette's, they find that their ticks are barely present when they

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drive. They might have a little extra tick, a a traffic light. They might let

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out some of that movement, but, actually, the focus and the attention that they are

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paying, means that their tics naturally reduce, which I think is

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fab. We also know that things like exercise and activity

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can support a reduction in tics And mindfulness and relaxation, the

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2 beautiful buzzwords that help everything in the world, but that we rarely

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wanna do. So yeah.

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He wants a drink.

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There was several things that struck me there. So there

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was that lack of diagnosis for some people,

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it struck me that that must be an incredibly lonely

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place to have a suspicion that

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perhaps you have Tourette's, but then to be told

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no, you you you're not good enough

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Tourette's, to have Tourette's. It's so it's not bad

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enough. You can't even do Tourette's properly, so

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no. What a great way

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to reframe it. Absolutely. And it it really must feel like that. I mean,

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it is not rare. It's 1 in a 100 school aged children. It's 300,000

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people in the UK At least. And I'd say that that's that statistic is

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probably is probably higher, but we we just people aren't

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getting diagnosed at the rate And as easily as they could and should

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be. So there's all these kind of invisible barriers to people

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accessing diagnosis and treatment and and the confidence and the

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language that Comes with those, you know, yeah.

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Yeah. It must be incredibly lonely not to be able to find your

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tribe or the support because we all we need

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that, don't we? And then the other thing that struck me was

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that excitement and stress and anxiety

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are two sides of the same coin. We

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often feel those feelings almost

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identically in our physical body, but it's all down

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to interpretation, isn't it? So it makes complete sense

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that those sensations being excited or being anxious,

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they feel very similar. So, of course, they would both

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increase tics. It it makes sense. Absolutely. That

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butterflies in your tummy, you know, is it that actually it's it's excited,

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fluttering, or is it, oh, I feel sick and you know, it's it's you're so

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right. It's in the interpretation, isn't it? But it feels so similar in the

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body. Yeah. Absolutely.

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Nerve sighted. Nerve sighted. We you know, we write the web Nerve

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Sighted. Oh, I love that. Not sure

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if they're nervous or excited or it's a bit of both, then we just

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blend them into nerve sighted. Oh, that just start pinching that.

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That's fabulous. I'm feeling a bit nerve sighted. Yeah. I'm just

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I'm just I mean, yes, that thing that judgment

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is everywhere, isn't it? And so even if somebody is

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ticking a lot, then immediately we jump that conclusion that it's a

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negative, that they're feeling anxious rather than feeling

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excited. So just trying to when you have that natural reaction,

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just try to pause it a second and then just say, how's your day today?

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Find out. Is it being excited, or is it being nervous and anxious,

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or or maybe not even knowing. Yeah. Absolutely. And

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act one thing I will mention is that something that I consistently hear from

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from the Tourette's community is this this Frustration,

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when people kind of comment on on that the tick severity

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that day. So whether that's positively or negatively, oh, you're not very

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ticky today. It's marvelous. You think, oh, well, I'm gonna be now

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Al, because you've just you've just reinforced it. You've

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reminded my brain that I want and need to do these things. You have just

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reactivated it. You know, done. And then on the other

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hand of this, when people say, yeah. You are very ticky. Actually, again, you're

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increasing attention to it, And you're making someone more self conscious of other

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people noticing it. So I kind of generally say, if there's not

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risk involved, Then we can just ignore tics,

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you know, at any level. Sometimes tics are

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funny. Sometimes tics are creative, fucking

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bizarre, beautiful, and it's okay to respond in those

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moments based on the individual. You know? Everyone has a different way of managing their

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condition. I am living with it. Some people's tics,

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some people find it really difficult if other people respond, but I generally

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encourage kind of just asking because I, for example, if I

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had a a quite a bizarre or complex vocal tic, which could

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be all sorts, I I

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respond. I laugh at my tics. They shock me. They surprise

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me. They entertain me, and the the people in

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my direct Circle also kind of use humor to navigate

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and live with this bizarre condition, but there's such a

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difference between kind of saying, do you mind if I respond it's appropriate

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to kind of walking past someone and responding without knowing them or being in

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their their circle and their system, because I've told people, you know,

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we just ignore tics before, and they've taken it to the extreme.

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And everyone is in the room pretending it's not happening, and it's like that's

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almost as strange as us really

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focusing on them and ignoring everything else. So I just it's kind of

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taking him with a pinch of salt and recognizing that we've all got different ways

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of living with this. And and some tics warrant a bit of a response

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and a bit of an interaction, and other tics, we're just gonna let them be.

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And it's it's really interesting. It's one that you accept it yourself. You know? I

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think that's one of the the big things, but also others Just

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accepting who you are because everyone is an individual, aren't they? So although

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people might tick, I might sneeze a Or am I coughing

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at all? But she's you know, it's it's that's what I'm I was

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getting from last time we talked, and you've just confirmed it again to

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me, is that, you know, we're all different. We all do stuff.

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Absolutely. Accepting that in the 1st place is Yeah.

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Everyone's different. Everyone's different. And you're so right. We

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tune out as human beings. Like, all of these sounds

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and kind of, you people have these little these wiggles. They might stand up a

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lot. They might tap their pen incessantly. They might, like you said, have hay fever

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and sneeze really loudly and violently 400 times a day,

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and we kind of tune it out because we expect to hear it in our

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environment. So we we don't necessarily give attention. But

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if that's a meow in an office, If that's a, you know, a bird noise

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in the supermarket, we're suddenly going, what's going on here? And our

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brains are getting confused. And as soon as our because they're trying to keep us

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safe and work out there's a there's something that doesn't fit right now. Let's get

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curious about it. But once we've got curious about it and we've realized, well,

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there's probably not a cat in her pocket. So let's assume that there's

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something else going on, and, actually, we don't really need to know about it, so

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we can just ignore it. Now we can tune it out. That's That's what we

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wanna be kinda doing is is just let letting it be. It's not always

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easy. Sometimes ticks are really loud or really shocking or

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really distracting. But once we've realized that's a tick,

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then we can draw attention away and say, hey, Brain. You're safe. There isn't a

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cat. There isn't a tiger. There isn't a lion or a bear. It's just Margaret,

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and Margaret's doing nothing. Yeah. Yeah.

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So I'm gonna turn it to sort of, like, the driving aspect

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of things now, I suppose. So if people were driving,

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you know, learning to drive or they're already driving, and

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you mentioned some of the things that You know, nerves and stress,

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noisy, unpredictability, those those sort of things.

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So do you feel like when you're driving in a car, do you feel like

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it's a safe place in the car. Me, personally?

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Yeah. I was gonna say it's it's it's got everyone. I know everyone's different, but

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I suppose when you're learning to drive or you're driving on your own, You you

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can choose if you want the radio on. You can choose if there's no

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radio on. And does that then constitute that safe place for

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you? Great question. And, I mean, I think what I'd say is

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it's it's changed, Kev. So I've been driving for nearly 10 years

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now, 9 9 years. And And as we know, these things happen

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at the beginning of my driving journey. It took all of my mental and physical

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focus, and all of my attention now is very tense, and I I

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actually didn't particularly enjoy driving. I found it quite a stressful process.

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I found learning to drive okay, but now I

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I don't driving at all. I really enjoy it. I've acclimatized

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to it. I don't have to focus so much, and it is an environment. It

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is an activity that naturally reduces is my tics.

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I I enjoyed learning to drive. I had a wonderful driving

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instructor, a fabulous Scottish man who loved rock music and who'd

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always give me a fisherman's friend from We Were Learning. And then he gave me

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one of my driving tests, and it became this, like, magical,

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powerful medicine, this placebo medicine.

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Yeah. Fabulous, Andy. Thank you for getting me through. And I, actually, like

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lots of other kind of neurodivergent people, I'm a bit of an all or nothing

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girl. So I think it's the ADHD in me, but I decided to do an

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intensive driving block. And I did 5 hours a day for 5 days in a

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row, and then I did my test because that's how I work. Lots of

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other people with especially with Tourette's syndrome might say that is my

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nightmare. There's no way that I could manage my

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tics. I could in you know, I could focus for that long. So it's

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really individual. But I think having a familiar person who really

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knows you and gets you on that Journey with you is so

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important, and someone who can laugh with you and who can put

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you at ease, who can allow you to feel safe, who can allow you to

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Take a tick break without feeling that that impacts their

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judgment of your capacity. You know? Oh my goodness. You've got to stop. That means

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you're not gonna be safe. Hey. Hey. Hey. Check your assumptions with your

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coat at the door, buddy. You'd allow someone to have a wee break.

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If someone was sneezing loads, you'd say, hey. Pull over. Let it out. If

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someone, you know, it just oh, god. We we cannot

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think just because this is a tick. We make so many assumptions on capacity,

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Skill IQ, all of these things just

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from these movements and sounds. And it's just It's not the

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case. People have to, yeah, pull over or pause for for

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loads and loads of things in life. Why can't we allow that for

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ticks? You know, why don't we transfer that that kind of

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compassion and understanding and just absolute acceptance to tics?

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Mhmm. Yeah. Yeah. There's just some really simple,

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simple tips there, isn't there? That sort of why can't you

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stop and pull over and have regular tick brakes? If it's so

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if driving lessons say it's the first few driving lessons,

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you're still finding them a bit anxiety creating, a bit

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stressful, so maybe you're ticking more, then

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factor that in, having that driving instructor who

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can work with you, adapt the lesson to you,

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have that conversation at the beginning. How would you like me to react to your

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tics? Do you want me to ignore them? Do you want me to laugh at

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them? You know? Do you want me to respond? What would you like me to

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do? There is no judgment. And when you want a break or

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if you're ticking a lot, let me know. We'll pull over, have a

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tick break. Absolutely. That's the dream. And being

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told that explicitly at the beginning Would be so reassuring for people

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because it's it's really hard to advocate for yourself and to ask for these things

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because people have lived a whole life, where if they do, someone might say,

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Actually, now we've we've just we've had a chat in the office, and we're a

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bit worried that, actually, maybe this isn't the right time for you to be learning

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or maybe it's not particularly safe. And Have you spoken

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to your doctor about it? Yes, yes, and yes. So lots of people hold

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back their requests and their need for reasonable adjustments for fear Of

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the assumptions that are gonna be made because you've done that, I I'm

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literally a professional advocate, and I find it

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hard to advocate for myself, and I find it hard to ask for these things

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for myself. I would firely and passionately advocate for anyone

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else and speak to their staff, their professionals, their teams, their

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parents, their teachers, They're driving instructors, but we

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internalize all of these past experiences of, you know, people

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making judgments on what we can and can't do. And actually, that's the opposite

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of what someone with Tourette's needs. If they feel safe to ask for what

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they need and to put it in place without fear of judgment or consequence,

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They'll do that, and they'll manage their condition much more effectively

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and more safely. You know?

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I just you know, I don't know if everyone knows this, but on

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your driving test, you can talk to the test center manager

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And actually say, look. I suffer from Tourette's. I might need

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to pull over and just have a a little break And

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then carry on. No. Not a lot of people actually

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know that. So if everyone's aware of it from the beginning, People are

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probably gonna be less stressed when they get to the test. Yep. So when

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you book your test Yeah. That's when you request so

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when you book your test, there's a place on where to to

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put in. And so if it's not Tourette's, if it's if it's something else, then

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to say, this is a likely adjustment that I might need. This is clear adjustment

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that I might need. This is my condition. These are the sorts of things that

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would be helpful for me. And it's I know it's not always

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guaranteed. No. But the request can be

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made, and where possible, they will try to accommodate that

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request. So advocate for yourself when you book your test,

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get the request in there. Yeah. Wow. That's fab. I I didn't

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know that, and I imagine lots of people don't know that. And,

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actually, I think by the time you get to the test, you've probably got a

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great idea of how long you can drive before you might need a

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tick break Yeah. At at what level you your tics can be

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where you feel safe to drive versus where you don't. There's quite

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unique tics that can be barriers to driving. If you have those

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tics, you have to think more carefully about how you drive, how long you drive

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for, when you're safe to drive, and there's a 1,000 ticks that would

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have absolutely no impact

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on your driving safety. If, you know, if people can Belt

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out Mariah Carey songs, right, for their whole 8 hour journey

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home, then why can't someone have persistent vocal tics?

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Why can't I stick my tongue out repeatedly? Why can't I

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raise my eyebrows? Okay. If my tick is rolling my

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eyes, And I know that that's that's that's gonna be a direct

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safety barrier to driving. So that day, when that tick's occurring, I'm

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not gonna drive or I'm not gonna drive for longer than my will

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naturally suppress, but there's just a 1,001 other ticks that

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would have no impact. Normally, by the time you get to your test, you know

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how long you can drive before Might start to impact. But like you

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said, test day, it's not a normal day, is it? It's not with your

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your Andy. It's not with your familiar safe Driving instructor that

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you've been with for a long time. It might be a totally new face, and

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your tics might be more severe day. And so just

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knowing, I might not need it, but I have that

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option there. That in itself is probably gonna reduce ticks because it's that

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protection, isn't it? It's the answer to that worry question, what's

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gonna happen if? Yeah. Yeah,

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absolutely. Yeah. Sorry.

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I've asked loads of questions. You go first. It's almost

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like the Kev show again. You carry on. I said I'm

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in politics. Yes. So I know

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when we spoke before, so, you know, talking on about driving

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tests and talking about anxiety. One of the

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things that you mentioned when we talked previously was that one of the

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causes of anxiety is that judgment from let you say,

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you're not next to your normal driving instructor who you've had those conversations

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with, who you've built that relationship with. And so

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that judgment from an examiner, not just about your

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driving, but about you and your tics

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can increase that anxiety, can't it?

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Absolutely. Yeah. I think, you know so Tourette's isn't, isn't

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a learning disability. It doesn't impact IQ. If anything, lots of

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people with Tourette's kind of have these these really spiky profiles, so they're

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really, really incredible strengths, well above the average population, and then a

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few things that are particularly difficult because of their brain type and and the

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way that they work and live. But some of the sounds and

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movements that can come from the body when someone is is having tics

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can be really, really, really quickly and easily associated

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with, Oh, lack of capacity, a lack of understanding,

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some additional learning needs, very poor control, or very

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impulsive, or very loud, or hyperactive. But, actually, It's simply a

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feature of the condition, and it's it's not it doesn't impact those

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things. But I think consciously or unconsciously, people are making

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assumptions and judgments on On all sorts of things when they

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hear or see these these movements. So that's something we really like to say. You

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know, it's don't assume. It makes an ass out of you and me. This

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is this is simply a body reaction. It's

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a it's a muscle movement. It's a sound.

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Don't try to look too far beyond it, really. Yeah.

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Fabulous. I I mean, I've just written some little I've

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written loads of notes Again, I've written loads of notes again. So I suppose

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from my driving instructor background and if driving instructors are

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listening to this, My advice to them would be

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no assumptions and just no judgments. You know?

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Everyone's an individual. We teach the individual.

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You know? And I suppose that is the the golden rule, isn't it?

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You know? We We just teach the individual.

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Absolutely. Absolutely. And I think, you know, I was looking up a little bit

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of kind of research into driving and Tourette's, etcetera, and I I think seem

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to say that, actually, the presence of Tourette's doesn't seem to have that

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much of an impact on kind of driving outcomes and safety. The presence of

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ADHD and catastrophic ADHD, that is actually kind

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of statistically what what shows maybe a slight risk increase for

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driving. But actually with Tourette's, No. What what lots of studies have shown

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us is that most people with tics and Tourette's, around 80% who engaged in this

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research, have a driving license and drive safely and a small

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percentage with with more intense tics or quite

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specific tics, for example, throwing the head back or

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eye rolling that impair the safety of driving. Those

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individuals chose not to get a driving license. Though what's interesting

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is that all of the people in this piece of research that said, you

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know, I don't have a driving license because of my tics, all of them

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Or, you know, 98% of them wanted support to access

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1, but didn't feel like that support was in place and that that support

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was available. And, actually, for those individuals, I think

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there there is a safe way to drive, and it's about kind of really low

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and slow. And if you need to do half an hour Lessons,

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over an hour lessons or 2 hour lessons, marvelous. If you need to

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build up your your exposure to Driving. If you need to spend some

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time in someone else's car first, if you need to you know, the I think

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that there are lots of safe and creative ways that we can support people to

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learn to driving Whilst recognizing that it's a choice, and loads of people

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with or without Tourette's don't want to drive or don't need to drive.

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But what I found really lovely and reassuring from the research is that most

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individuals with Tourette's drive drive safely, comfortably, and happily, But

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make informed day to day decisions on factors that

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might impact their tics. I won't ever drive to a festival. It wouldn't be safe.

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I'm too excited, and, you know, regardless of of the Tourette's, it's

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kind of my personality, but I know that that's something. And I will I

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put that in place. It's my legal, ethical, Personal

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responsibility to do that. You know, you you don't need to disclose

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that you have Tourette's syndrome in order to get a driving license unless you think

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it's gonna Impact your driving. And if you're not sure, talk to your

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doctor. Have that conversation. Look at the research that

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Explores what types of tics might impact driving. And is this something I'm

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experiencing? In which case, is this the right time? We know that tics come and

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go. They change throughout the course of a person's life. So I I've

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had eye rolling tics for various points within my life and various points

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within the 10 years that I've been driving. It didn't mean that I had to

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give up license, it meant I didn't drive at that time. And

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similarly, in in kind of childhood, I had big arm tics, and those

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would have impaired my driving, but I wasn't learning to drive at that time.

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So we're recognizing ticks come and go. They wax and

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wane. They rarely stay the same tick throughout the course of your life.

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And so if it's not the right time right now, it doesn't mean it's never

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gonna be the right time. And to answer my questions? Yeah.

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It's just brilliant. It's just so much

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really common sense obvious.

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It doesn't feel like there's anything that we shouldn't

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already know, and yet somehow we didn't already

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know. It's Well, it's our assumptions, isn't it? Yeah. That's the if I

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was to sum this up, you know, right back to the beginning, what did I

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think Tourette's was? And it's but it

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may be that, But there's a lot more as well, isn't there?

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And it's just like, okay. I get it now. Absolutely.

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And I think, actually, it's a nice point to come back to, Kev. We

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we said that there there's only 15 to 20% of people who have these,

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kinda, these swearing tics. But if you are working with

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someone with these tics, the most important thing you can do is to

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not bring attention to them and to ignore them even if and I

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really compassionately recognize that this isn't always easy

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even if the nature of those ticks target a feature, you know, characteristic

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about yourself, which they often do, And often the anxiety of

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insulting, offending, or upsetting someone increases the likelihood of that

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tick happening. So It's not easy. I work with lots of people with

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Tourette's. I have a receipt I've been on the receiving end of some really

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creative, beautiful, bizarre, targeted tics that you're like,

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oh, that hit right in my self conscious gland. However,

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it's not what they meant. And if I make them feel anxious, shamed,

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or embarrassed for this, I'm gonna make it worse for them. They live with this

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condition all the time. I am I'm alongside

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this For 1 hour a week. And, actually,

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my comfort isn't always more important than someone

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else's. Actually, how can we just say, well, no. I get it.

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Oof. I get it. It's okay. And that's something that's so protective.

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And in time, that would that would reduce the likelihood of those ticks

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Occurring when someone isn't going, don't call them fat, don't call them bull, don't call

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them this, don't call them that. You know, it's it's the it's the don't that

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make us actually more likely to do. So if people aren't worrying, they are

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less likely to to have some of those tics. Not always easy,

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but give it a go. Yeah.

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Fantastic. Well, I I think that is a brilliant

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piece of advice to to finish up on, actually,

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I I only thank you so much

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for sparing the time for us today to come on and talk

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so passionately, and give us so much

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information, which I I really hope that everyone

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else enjoys and learn something from because we know learned a lot

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from you. Yeah. It's and it's, yeah, it's

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been brilliant, so thank you. Oh, you are so, so welcome. It's

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been really wonderful to come and have this conversation, and I know

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that this is a a worry and an anxiety for lots of young people

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growing up with Tourette's. Would I ever drive? I ever get a job? Would I

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ever get married? And I hope that some of the the support and advice can

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help people to know you absolutely can drive safely, and you might just need

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to Explore with support what helps your tics, what's in

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what increases your tics, and find the right driving

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instructor who really gets you. You know? And I think good Good luck with it.

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And, obviously, if if you are learning to drive and you want some support or

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some advice, do get in contact with Tourette's Action, and we can,

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we can offer some kind of support strategies to make that journey a little bit

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easier if needed. So thank you so much for having me, guys.

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Thank you. And we will make sure that all of your links are in the

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show notes so that they're they're available for anybody listening

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to we have to find you nice and easily. Fabulous.

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Well, thank you guys. Thank you.