So in today's episode, we are delighted to welcome on
Speaker:Ione Georgioukas from Tourette's Action.
Speaker:And, Ione, we've had conversations with you
Speaker:before, and we wish that we'd press
Speaker:record because we we realized at the end of the conversation what
Speaker:a brilliant podcast it would have made. So, obviously, we had to invite you on
Speaker:to do 1 and record it. So thank you for joining us.
Speaker:Thank you so much for inviting me and for having me on today. After
Speaker:our last chat, it just opened up so many questions
Speaker:for me that I Well, I suppose I didn't know. I had this
Speaker:stereotypical thought about Tourette's
Speaker:and what it Actually was and how you would recognize
Speaker:it, and you just went, yeah. Not really. Some
Speaker:people have that. And Absolutely.
Speaker:And do you know what, Kev? You're not alone with that. Unless you kind of
Speaker:you work in the field of Tourette's or you directly know and love someone with
Speaker:this Beautiful and bizarre condition. You generally don't know
Speaker:about it as much. You know, the public understanding of Tourette's
Speaker:does not meet the level of Kind of comparable neurodivergent
Speaker:conditions like autism or ADHD, which generally, nowadays,
Speaker:we're we're making some great strides in kind of understanding it And
Speaker:being able to support it really early on and recognize it really early
Speaker:on, but we we have not kinda got that status with Tourette's
Speaker:yet. So we are, As a charity, we're working really hard, you know,
Speaker:dragging it, kicking and screaming, hopefully, to to the public eye
Speaker:and to to do exactly that myth bust, move away from some of these
Speaker:misconceptions that we have and hopefully make the world a little bit of a more
Speaker:enjoyable and safer place for people with Tourette's?
Speaker:Brilliant. And that's exactly the reason we said, we need a podcast. We
Speaker:need a podcast. Indeed. And it
Speaker:is a fascinating subject as well. So when we were talking to
Speaker:you before, we could've just talked all day, couldn't we? We
Speaker:there was no stopping us. Absolutely. And that's part of
Speaker:the the joy of my role is that once you get me going talking on
Speaker:this topic, I, I struggle to stop, so I'm definitely in the right position.
Speaker:Yeah. So I suppose the best place to start is
Speaker:what actually is Tourette's? Because My personal
Speaker:view before I talk to you was that
Speaker:people just swear. That's Tourette's. That is, you know, that
Speaker:is What I thought it was and
Speaker:how to recognize it, but it's so much more than
Speaker:that. Absolutely. And it's a great place to start, and I
Speaker:think you're not you're not alone with that misunderstanding there, Kev. So I
Speaker:guess I'll I'll kind of reintroduce myself. So I'm I'm Ione, as As was said
Speaker:and I'm the therapies and advocacy manager at Tourette's Action, and we're the kind
Speaker:of the national charity who who looks to support people with tics and Tourette's,
Speaker:Tourette's, but also the people around those those individuals. So their
Speaker:teachers, their parents, their siblings, their driving instructors in this wonderful
Speaker:case, They're health care professionals, they're GPs, absolutely
Speaker:anyone who will listen. And in my role, I get to do
Speaker:lots of kind of training and awareness and on some unfortunate occasions,
Speaker:some podcasts and some face to face workshops, and I absolutely
Speaker:love it. So we always kind of,
Speaker:we're we're working hard to be kind of on the ground in order
Speaker:to give a bit of a voice for people with Tourette's. And and quite importantly,
Speaker:I think, I'm a lived experience advocate. So I have Tourette's
Speaker:syndrome. I also have ADHD and dyslexia. And what we'll learn
Speaker:about in a bit is that Lots of these things come hand in hand.
Speaker:So we kind of we like to widen that lens when we're when we're thinking
Speaker:about Tourette's and neurodiversity too. So Tourette
Speaker:syndrome is, it's a neurological condition, or we might call it
Speaker:a neurodevelopmental condition. And it sits under that kind of
Speaker:umbrella bracket of, conditions like ADHD
Speaker:and autism. But for this kind of in
Speaker:this condition, the key features are ticks. So they are sounds and
Speaker:movements that are involuntary. They're not what someone wants to do.
Speaker:They're what someone's body needs to do. And like you said,
Speaker:Keifer, this really big myth around Tourette's
Speaker:is That Tourette's is the swearing condition. And, you know,
Speaker:it's it's not anyone's fault that they have this this
Speaker:misunderstanding because Tourette's and swearing makes up
Speaker:for a 100% of what we see on our TV, where they only ever
Speaker:show this kind of extreme side of the condition. And
Speaker:I think it's it's really important to recognize
Speaker:it's probably the hardest part of the condition to live with. So what
Speaker:I'll say is that we call the swearing part of the condition
Speaker:Palladia. So that is a term that kind of means,
Speaker:the the verbal the verbal swearing ticks.
Speaker:X. We also have copapraxia, which is the movement swearing
Speaker:tics, so given the middle finger, for example. But
Speaker:these symptoms only affect 15 to 20% of
Speaker:people with Tourette's. So it is a minority of the Tourette
Speaker:population, But they're definitely the symptoms that have the
Speaker:biggest impact. You know? They're the ones that cause the most issues, the most
Speaker:challenges, the most discrimination. They stop people doing
Speaker:things. They stop people wanting to leave the house and things because they don't feel
Speaker:safe or comfortable, but it's definitely not the majority, who have
Speaker:these symptoms. So I think something that we're always desperately and
Speaker:delicately trying to balance is how do we represent this really tricky
Speaker:side of the condition whilst also saying, hey. There's loads
Speaker:of other stuff going on, and there's lots of other things that have a really
Speaker:big impact. It's not only swearing. And it's so
Speaker:important for us as a charity and for me as a as a
Speaker:Tourettic individual to move past this because it's
Speaker:become a barrier to people getting diagnosed. So we've had
Speaker:families who come to us and they say, oh, we went to the GP about
Speaker:little Andy's tics, and his tics have been going for years. And he has this
Speaker:little noise that he makes, and he has these movements he makes. But the GP
Speaker:said, oh, he's not swearing. Don't worry. It can't be Tourette's. And, actually,
Speaker:when our medical professionals are still kinda held under this
Speaker:mythical idea that everyone with the condition swears or that it has
Speaker:to be so, so, so extreme to be Tourette's syndrome, Then we've got
Speaker:all of these people who are living with these symptoms, these really tricky symptoms,
Speaker:but who don't know how to advocate for themselves. They don't know how to explain
Speaker:what's going on for them, and they can't access the support
Speaker:that they need to kinda live the life that they want to.
Speaker:We still live in a a a society and in a time where
Speaker:everything's very diagnosis led, unless you have that that magical
Speaker:piece of paper from that magical clinic with a 10 year waiting list that
Speaker:says, hey. You've got this condition. Then you can't so easily
Speaker:access support at work Or in education all throughout your life,
Speaker:really. And you can't find your tribe so easily. You can't say,
Speaker:well, this is the place for me. That's the support group for me. That's the
Speaker:driving instructor for me because he understands my condition. Because if you don't
Speaker:understand your condition, then it's really hard to kinda help other people to get
Speaker:it. So, Yeah. Big part of this is it is not all
Speaker:about swearing, but the kind of the criteria for that
Speaker:Tourette's diagnosis is multiple pulmodus, a lot a couple of
Speaker:different movement ticks and at least 1 vocal or sound
Speaker:tick. Okay? And those don't have to be words. They could be noises
Speaker:or anything that comes from the vocal cords. So, actually, when we think
Speaker:about kind of Tourette's, we might see This this image of someone
Speaker:who's swearing lots, who's got loads of quite extreme sounds and
Speaker:movements that are quite violent or noticeable, But,
Speaker:actually, you could gently clear your throat, roll your eyes, and scrunch
Speaker:your forehead, and you might have been doing that for 3 or 4 years from
Speaker:childhood, And you fit the criteria for Tourette's, so I think it's
Speaker:really important that we say, you know, Tourette's looks very different
Speaker:on everybody. What you see in me versus what you see in
Speaker:others is gonna really vary, and Tourette's just changes
Speaker:naturally through throughout the course of A day, a week, a month,
Speaker:a year, a person's lifetime. So, again, if we see someone one
Speaker:day and they're they're quite ticky, they might be very Excited. They might be
Speaker:very stressed. We don't wanna assume that that is their baseline, that's how
Speaker:they live their entire life, and that they're never gonna have more settled
Speaker:periods, because it's just not the case, and I think that could be a
Speaker:bit of a barrier to to people, for example, wanting
Speaker:to take on a new client With this condition to teach them something, if
Speaker:they're very nervous in that first interaction and very excited and ticky, you
Speaker:might be thinking, oh my goodness. How are we gonna navigate this safely? But,
Speaker:Actually, once somebody knows you, once somebody knows what they're doing,
Speaker:once somebody understands what's expected of them, their anxiety's slightly
Speaker:reduced, their tics are gonna be slightly more reduced, and they're gonna be able to
Speaker:function differently or better at in that situation. So tics
Speaker:aren't a constant. They, they wax and wane. Again, I've
Speaker:got so many questions for you, ma'am. Loaded up.
Speaker:So is there anything that springs it on? Or
Speaker:you know? Is it overwhelm? Is it just a nervous
Speaker:situation? Is is there anything or is it I suppose I'm
Speaker:gonna leave it there for a minute because there's probably loads of questions in there
Speaker:already. So Fab. Yeah. So, I mean, the actual
Speaker:kind of what causes Tourette's in the 1st place. It's kind of it's
Speaker:got a genetic component, so it's about 50% heritability. So we
Speaker:often see tickers in families. We see uncles and dads Parents
Speaker:who have had tics, maybe not a diagnosis of Tourette's, but then the
Speaker:child or young person will also have tics. But within the
Speaker:individual with Tourette's, are lots of things that are widely accepted
Speaker:or widely reported to impact ticks. And I use the word kind of
Speaker:positively or negatively, but, actually, we should really say increase or
Speaker:decrease because I don't really like to put this idea of lots
Speaker:of ticks being bad and not Many being good because it's just not the
Speaker:case. So some of the things that we
Speaker:know can increase tics, and I always start with this Yes. Because I
Speaker:think it's really important. It's excitement and joy
Speaker:and anticipation and and the adrenaline that comes with those
Speaker:emotions and those feelings. We have a real tendency
Speaker:as parents, carers, professionals, teachers, loved
Speaker:ones, friends, family of people with with Tourette Syndrome to say, ma,
Speaker:listen, bud. Are you okay? You're feeling stressed? You're very ticky today.
Speaker:Your ticks are off the chart. What's going on? And, actually, it could be
Speaker:that I'm going to Thorpe Park on the weekend. It could be that my
Speaker:favorite TV show has started a new series. It could be that I'm having a
Speaker:cracking bowl of pasta for dinner. It could be Absolutely anything that's triggered
Speaker:that excitement and has consequently impacted and increased the ticks.
Speaker:And I think we've got to recognize that because we're always sort of
Speaker:Concerned maybe when we see these increase in tics, and so often they are
Speaker:a celebration. Talking about tics
Speaker:Increases tics. So I'm in a I'm in a peculiar job, if I've
Speaker:gotta be honest. I don't know if it's a blessing or a curse,
Speaker:but focusing on tics, Being around other people that tick,
Speaker:increase ticks. So ticks, like lots of other things in life, are
Speaker:very suggestible. They respond to positive and negative reinforcement.
Speaker:So when we're focusing on them, we're bringing attention to them, it's
Speaker:more likely that we will we'll do that thing or that the tics might
Speaker:be more present. It doesn't mean we shouldn't talk about tics. It doesn't mean we
Speaker:shouldn't be around other people who tic, but it's something that we just have to
Speaker:consider when planning life. You know, I wouldn't if I had a colleague with
Speaker:Tourette's, I wouldn't sit directly next to them in the office, or I would not
Speaker:get so much work done. And I have to interestingly,
Speaker:When I'm driving, this is a big consideration. I do we do lots of,
Speaker:Tourette's inclusive events at Tourette's Action, kind of weekends
Speaker:for adults or Children or teenagers with the condition, and
Speaker:they're often all around the country, and they're amazingly well received. But
Speaker:I can't drive there anymore because I can drive there very safely,
Speaker:but I can't drive home after the weekend very safely. So that is a kind
Speaker:of and a really clear and, I guess, a good example of how our
Speaker:tics can change and also our capacity or our willingness or our
Speaker:safety when driving can change and how generally people with Tourette's
Speaker:are quite quite sensitive and thoughtful in, is this
Speaker:a safe opportunity? Am I about to go into an environment where my tick's gonna
Speaker:increase? Because I'll drive there safely, But after that weekend,
Speaker:I'll have to pull over about 18 times on the way home to take it
Speaker:out. And, actually, for me, that doesn't feel worth it, and I wouldn't recommend it.
Speaker:So Being around others who tick, talking about focusing on ticks,
Speaker:are very much gonna, you know, increase those ticks in the short term.
Speaker:Stress and anxiety, of course, it's not all it's not all joy. Stress
Speaker:and anxiety can increase any symptoms or the challenges that we have, you know, whether
Speaker:we get headaches, whether we have IBS, you know, what whatever it might
Speaker:be, over and under stimulation, so kind
Speaker:of really busy, loud, unpredictable spaces,
Speaker:Spaces where you're kind of quite worried about the impact of your tics. Could I
Speaker:get in trouble? Could I offend someone? Is there lots of
Speaker:Unpredictable kind of car horns or bright lights going on. Those
Speaker:things can be, a trigger for ticks. Often, again, in the short
Speaker:term, you might have a A tick response to a sensory change that
Speaker:then settles back down. Being really tired can
Speaker:impact ticks. It can increase ticks. And, obviously, there's also
Speaker:lots of individual things that people have found will maybe
Speaker:impact their tick. So me and supermarkets sworn enemies. I
Speaker:will I'd, you know, do all sorts of creative things to avoid going to a
Speaker:supermarket because they're a space that really triggers my tics.
Speaker:They're bright and they're busy and there's lots of people and they're echoey and it's
Speaker:quiet and, you know, all of the things that create a recipe for disaster for
Speaker:me. But lots of other people with tics That that doesn't bother them. That's
Speaker:a fine part of their day, so really recognising that individual
Speaker:difference. On the other hand, of course, we have things that
Speaker:decrease our tics. So being relaxed and accepted is a really, really big
Speaker:one. Being in a space where eve you know everyone gets it. If you say
Speaker:something that is shocking or unpredictable or peculiar or
Speaker:creative or witty that they know that it's a tick. It's not your thoughts and
Speaker:feelings. It's not what you wanted to say. It is Involuntary.
Speaker:Kind of low stimulus spaces that you know what's going on around
Speaker:you. You know the people in that Base can be really, really helpful.
Speaker:Having no consequence to the tick, not not being worried you're gonna be told
Speaker:off, asked to leave, stared at, looked at, questioned
Speaker:is is a really, really big one, kind of creating comfortable, safe
Speaker:spaces. And this is a big one and my absolute favorite one
Speaker:to kind of talk to and ask people with tics about is focused
Speaker:and concentrating activities. So lots and lots and
Speaker:lots and lots of people with tics and Tourette's will find that their tics
Speaker:reduce significantly when they're engaged in certain tasks. And
Speaker:there are such a wide range of these asks from kind
Speaker:of music, sport, singing, cooking, reading,
Speaker:driving, working, writing, Drawing. You
Speaker:know, the list goes on. There's as many activities as there are people, but it's
Speaker:a real kind of hallmark feature of Tourette syndrome. Do you get a
Speaker:reduction in your tics in certain spaces and activities. And for so many
Speaker:people, the focus and the attention when driving is is the
Speaker:perfect kind of recipe for that That tick reduction. And for
Speaker:for lots of people that I know and I work with and I speak with
Speaker:who have have Tourette's, they find that their ticks are barely present when they
Speaker:drive. They might have a little extra tick, a a traffic light. They might let
Speaker:out some of that movement, but, actually, the focus and the attention that they are
Speaker:paying, means that their tics naturally reduce, which I think is
Speaker:fab. We also know that things like exercise and activity
Speaker:can support a reduction in tics And mindfulness and relaxation, the
Speaker:2 beautiful buzzwords that help everything in the world, but that we rarely
Speaker:wanna do. So yeah.
Speaker:He wants a drink.
Speaker:There was several things that struck me there. So there
Speaker:was that lack of diagnosis for some people,
Speaker:it struck me that that must be an incredibly lonely
Speaker:place to have a suspicion that
Speaker:perhaps you have Tourette's, but then to be told
Speaker:no, you you you're not good enough
Speaker:Tourette's, to have Tourette's. It's so it's not bad
Speaker:enough. You can't even do Tourette's properly, so
Speaker:no. What a great way
Speaker:to reframe it. Absolutely. And it it really must feel like that. I mean,
Speaker:it is not rare. It's 1 in a 100 school aged children. It's 300,000
Speaker:people in the UK At least. And I'd say that that's that statistic is
Speaker:probably is probably higher, but we we just people aren't
Speaker:getting diagnosed at the rate And as easily as they could and should
Speaker:be. So there's all these kind of invisible barriers to people
Speaker:accessing diagnosis and treatment and and the confidence and the
Speaker:language that Comes with those, you know, yeah.
Speaker:Yeah. It must be incredibly lonely not to be able to find your
Speaker:tribe or the support because we all we need
Speaker:that, don't we? And then the other thing that struck me was
Speaker:that excitement and stress and anxiety
Speaker:are two sides of the same coin. We
Speaker:often feel those feelings almost
Speaker:identically in our physical body, but it's all down
Speaker:to interpretation, isn't it? So it makes complete sense
Speaker:that those sensations being excited or being anxious,
Speaker:they feel very similar. So, of course, they would both
Speaker:increase tics. It it makes sense. Absolutely. That
Speaker:butterflies in your tummy, you know, is it that actually it's it's excited,
Speaker:fluttering, or is it, oh, I feel sick and you know, it's it's you're so
Speaker:right. It's in the interpretation, isn't it? But it feels so similar in the
Speaker:body. Yeah. Absolutely.
Speaker:Nerve sighted. Nerve sighted. We you know, we write the web Nerve
Speaker:Sighted. Oh, I love that. Not sure
Speaker:if they're nervous or excited or it's a bit of both, then we just
Speaker:blend them into nerve sighted. Oh, that just start pinching that.
Speaker:That's fabulous. I'm feeling a bit nerve sighted. Yeah. I'm just
Speaker:I'm just I mean, yes, that thing that judgment
Speaker:is everywhere, isn't it? And so even if somebody is
Speaker:ticking a lot, then immediately we jump that conclusion that it's a
Speaker:negative, that they're feeling anxious rather than feeling
Speaker:excited. So just trying to when you have that natural reaction,
Speaker:just try to pause it a second and then just say, how's your day today?
Speaker:Find out. Is it being excited, or is it being nervous and anxious,
Speaker:or or maybe not even knowing. Yeah. Absolutely. And
Speaker:act one thing I will mention is that something that I consistently hear from
Speaker:from the Tourette's community is this this Frustration,
Speaker:when people kind of comment on on that the tick severity
Speaker:that day. So whether that's positively or negatively, oh, you're not very
Speaker:ticky today. It's marvelous. You think, oh, well, I'm gonna be now
Speaker:Al, because you've just you've just reinforced it. You've
Speaker:reminded my brain that I want and need to do these things. You have just
Speaker:reactivated it. You know, done. And then on the other
Speaker:hand of this, when people say, yeah. You are very ticky. Actually, again, you're
Speaker:increasing attention to it, And you're making someone more self conscious of other
Speaker:people noticing it. So I kind of generally say, if there's not
Speaker:risk involved, Then we can just ignore tics,
Speaker:you know, at any level. Sometimes tics are
Speaker:funny. Sometimes tics are creative, fucking
Speaker:bizarre, beautiful, and it's okay to respond in those
Speaker:moments based on the individual. You know? Everyone has a different way of managing their
Speaker:condition. I am living with it. Some people's tics,
Speaker:some people find it really difficult if other people respond, but I generally
Speaker:encourage kind of just asking because I, for example, if I
Speaker:had a a quite a bizarre or complex vocal tic, which could
Speaker:be all sorts, I I
Speaker:respond. I laugh at my tics. They shock me. They surprise
Speaker:me. They entertain me, and the the people in
Speaker:my direct Circle also kind of use humor to navigate
Speaker:and live with this bizarre condition, but there's such a
Speaker:difference between kind of saying, do you mind if I respond it's appropriate
Speaker:to kind of walking past someone and responding without knowing them or being in
Speaker:their their circle and their system, because I've told people, you know,
Speaker:we just ignore tics before, and they've taken it to the extreme.
Speaker:And everyone is in the room pretending it's not happening, and it's like that's
Speaker:almost as strange as us really
Speaker:focusing on them and ignoring everything else. So I just it's kind of
Speaker:taking him with a pinch of salt and recognizing that we've all got different ways
Speaker:of living with this. And and some tics warrant a bit of a response
Speaker:and a bit of an interaction, and other tics, we're just gonna let them be.
Speaker:And it's it's really interesting. It's one that you accept it yourself. You know? I
Speaker:think that's one of the the big things, but also others Just
Speaker:accepting who you are because everyone is an individual, aren't they? So although
Speaker:people might tick, I might sneeze a Or am I coughing
Speaker:at all? But she's you know, it's it's that's what I'm I was
Speaker:getting from last time we talked, and you've just confirmed it again to
Speaker:me, is that, you know, we're all different. We all do stuff.
Speaker:Absolutely. Accepting that in the 1st place is Yeah.
Speaker:Everyone's different. Everyone's different. And you're so right. We
Speaker:tune out as human beings. Like, all of these sounds
Speaker:and kind of, you people have these little these wiggles. They might stand up a
Speaker:lot. They might tap their pen incessantly. They might, like you said, have hay fever
Speaker:and sneeze really loudly and violently 400 times a day,
Speaker:and we kind of tune it out because we expect to hear it in our
Speaker:environment. So we we don't necessarily give attention. But
Speaker:if that's a meow in an office, If that's a, you know, a bird noise
Speaker:in the supermarket, we're suddenly going, what's going on here? And our
Speaker:brains are getting confused. And as soon as our because they're trying to keep us
Speaker:safe and work out there's a there's something that doesn't fit right now. Let's get
Speaker:curious about it. But once we've got curious about it and we've realized, well,
Speaker:there's probably not a cat in her pocket. So let's assume that there's
Speaker:something else going on, and, actually, we don't really need to know about it, so
Speaker:we can just ignore it. Now we can tune it out. That's That's what we
Speaker:wanna be kinda doing is is just let letting it be. It's not always
Speaker:easy. Sometimes ticks are really loud or really shocking or
Speaker:really distracting. But once we've realized that's a tick,
Speaker:then we can draw attention away and say, hey, Brain. You're safe. There isn't a
Speaker:cat. There isn't a tiger. There isn't a lion or a bear. It's just Margaret,
Speaker:and Margaret's doing nothing. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker:So I'm gonna turn it to sort of, like, the driving aspect
Speaker:of things now, I suppose. So if people were driving,
Speaker:you know, learning to drive or they're already driving, and
Speaker:you mentioned some of the things that You know, nerves and stress,
Speaker:noisy, unpredictability, those those sort of things.
Speaker:So do you feel like when you're driving in a car, do you feel like
Speaker:it's a safe place in the car. Me, personally?
Speaker:Yeah. I was gonna say it's it's it's got everyone. I know everyone's different, but
Speaker:I suppose when you're learning to drive or you're driving on your own, You you
Speaker:can choose if you want the radio on. You can choose if there's no
Speaker:radio on. And does that then constitute that safe place for
Speaker:you? Great question. And, I mean, I think what I'd say is
Speaker:it's it's changed, Kev. So I've been driving for nearly 10 years
Speaker:now, 9 9 years. And And as we know, these things happen
Speaker:at the beginning of my driving journey. It took all of my mental and physical
Speaker:focus, and all of my attention now is very tense, and I I
Speaker:actually didn't particularly enjoy driving. I found it quite a stressful process.
Speaker:I found learning to drive okay, but now I
Speaker:I don't driving at all. I really enjoy it. I've acclimatized
Speaker:to it. I don't have to focus so much, and it is an environment. It
Speaker:is an activity that naturally reduces is my tics.
Speaker:I I enjoyed learning to drive. I had a wonderful driving
Speaker:instructor, a fabulous Scottish man who loved rock music and who'd
Speaker:always give me a fisherman's friend from We Were Learning. And then he gave me
Speaker:one of my driving tests, and it became this, like, magical,
Speaker:powerful medicine, this placebo medicine.
Speaker:Yeah. Fabulous, Andy. Thank you for getting me through. And I, actually, like
Speaker:lots of other kind of neurodivergent people, I'm a bit of an all or nothing
Speaker:girl. So I think it's the ADHD in me, but I decided to do an
Speaker:intensive driving block. And I did 5 hours a day for 5 days in a
Speaker:row, and then I did my test because that's how I work. Lots of
Speaker:other people with especially with Tourette's syndrome might say that is my
Speaker:nightmare. There's no way that I could manage my
Speaker:tics. I could in you know, I could focus for that long. So it's
Speaker:really individual. But I think having a familiar person who really
Speaker:knows you and gets you on that Journey with you is so
Speaker:important, and someone who can laugh with you and who can put
Speaker:you at ease, who can allow you to feel safe, who can allow you to
Speaker:Take a tick break without feeling that that impacts their
Speaker:judgment of your capacity. You know? Oh my goodness. You've got to stop. That means
Speaker:you're not gonna be safe. Hey. Hey. Hey. Check your assumptions with your
Speaker:coat at the door, buddy. You'd allow someone to have a wee break.
Speaker:If someone was sneezing loads, you'd say, hey. Pull over. Let it out. If
Speaker:someone, you know, it just oh, god. We we cannot
Speaker:think just because this is a tick. We make so many assumptions on capacity,
Speaker:Skill IQ, all of these things just
Speaker:from these movements and sounds. And it's just It's not the
Speaker:case. People have to, yeah, pull over or pause for for
Speaker:loads and loads of things in life. Why can't we allow that for
Speaker:ticks? You know, why don't we transfer that that kind of
Speaker:compassion and understanding and just absolute acceptance to tics?
Speaker:Mhmm. Yeah. Yeah. There's just some really simple,
Speaker:simple tips there, isn't there? That sort of why can't you
Speaker:stop and pull over and have regular tick brakes? If it's so
Speaker:if driving lessons say it's the first few driving lessons,
Speaker:you're still finding them a bit anxiety creating, a bit
Speaker:stressful, so maybe you're ticking more, then
Speaker:factor that in, having that driving instructor who
Speaker:can work with you, adapt the lesson to you,
Speaker:have that conversation at the beginning. How would you like me to react to your
Speaker:tics? Do you want me to ignore them? Do you want me to laugh at
Speaker:them? You know? Do you want me to respond? What would you like me to
Speaker:do? There is no judgment. And when you want a break or
Speaker:if you're ticking a lot, let me know. We'll pull over, have a
Speaker:tick break. Absolutely. That's the dream. And being
Speaker:told that explicitly at the beginning Would be so reassuring for people
Speaker:because it's it's really hard to advocate for yourself and to ask for these things
Speaker:because people have lived a whole life, where if they do, someone might say,
Speaker:Actually, now we've we've just we've had a chat in the office, and we're a
Speaker:bit worried that, actually, maybe this isn't the right time for you to be learning
Speaker:or maybe it's not particularly safe. And Have you spoken
Speaker:to your doctor about it? Yes, yes, and yes. So lots of people hold
Speaker:back their requests and their need for reasonable adjustments for fear Of
Speaker:the assumptions that are gonna be made because you've done that, I I'm
Speaker:literally a professional advocate, and I find it
Speaker:hard to advocate for myself, and I find it hard to ask for these things
Speaker:for myself. I would firely and passionately advocate for anyone
Speaker:else and speak to their staff, their professionals, their teams, their
Speaker:parents, their teachers, They're driving instructors, but we
Speaker:internalize all of these past experiences of, you know, people
Speaker:making judgments on what we can and can't do. And actually, that's the opposite
Speaker:of what someone with Tourette's needs. If they feel safe to ask for what
Speaker:they need and to put it in place without fear of judgment or consequence,
Speaker:They'll do that, and they'll manage their condition much more effectively
Speaker:and more safely. You know?
Speaker:I just you know, I don't know if everyone knows this, but on
Speaker:your driving test, you can talk to the test center manager
Speaker:And actually say, look. I suffer from Tourette's. I might need
Speaker:to pull over and just have a a little break And
Speaker:then carry on. No. Not a lot of people actually
Speaker:know that. So if everyone's aware of it from the beginning, People are
Speaker:probably gonna be less stressed when they get to the test. Yep. So when
Speaker:you book your test Yeah. That's when you request so
Speaker:when you book your test, there's a place on where to to
Speaker:put in. And so if it's not Tourette's, if it's if it's something else, then
Speaker:to say, this is a likely adjustment that I might need. This is clear adjustment
Speaker:that I might need. This is my condition. These are the sorts of things that
Speaker:would be helpful for me. And it's I know it's not always
Speaker:guaranteed. No. But the request can be
Speaker:made, and where possible, they will try to accommodate that
Speaker:request. So advocate for yourself when you book your test,
Speaker:get the request in there. Yeah. Wow. That's fab. I I didn't
Speaker:know that, and I imagine lots of people don't know that. And,
Speaker:actually, I think by the time you get to the test, you've probably got a
Speaker:great idea of how long you can drive before you might need a
Speaker:tick break Yeah. At at what level you your tics can be
Speaker:where you feel safe to drive versus where you don't. There's quite
Speaker:unique tics that can be barriers to driving. If you have those
Speaker:tics, you have to think more carefully about how you drive, how long you drive
Speaker:for, when you're safe to drive, and there's a 1,000 ticks that would
Speaker:have absolutely no impact
Speaker:on your driving safety. If, you know, if people can Belt
Speaker:out Mariah Carey songs, right, for their whole 8 hour journey
Speaker:home, then why can't someone have persistent vocal tics?
Speaker:Why can't I stick my tongue out repeatedly? Why can't I
Speaker:raise my eyebrows? Okay. If my tick is rolling my
Speaker:eyes, And I know that that's that's that's gonna be a direct
Speaker:safety barrier to driving. So that day, when that tick's occurring, I'm
Speaker:not gonna drive or I'm not gonna drive for longer than my will
Speaker:naturally suppress, but there's just a 1,001 other ticks that
Speaker:would have no impact. Normally, by the time you get to your test, you know
Speaker:how long you can drive before Might start to impact. But like you
Speaker:said, test day, it's not a normal day, is it? It's not with your
Speaker:your Andy. It's not with your familiar safe Driving instructor that
Speaker:you've been with for a long time. It might be a totally new face, and
Speaker:your tics might be more severe day. And so just
Speaker:knowing, I might not need it, but I have that
Speaker:option there. That in itself is probably gonna reduce ticks because it's that
Speaker:protection, isn't it? It's the answer to that worry question, what's
Speaker:gonna happen if? Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker:absolutely. Yeah. Sorry.
Speaker:I've asked loads of questions. You go first. It's almost
Speaker:like the Kev show again. You carry on. I said I'm
Speaker:in politics. Yes. So I know
Speaker:when we spoke before, so, you know, talking on about driving
Speaker:tests and talking about anxiety. One of the
Speaker:things that you mentioned when we talked previously was that one of the
Speaker:causes of anxiety is that judgment from let you say,
Speaker:you're not next to your normal driving instructor who you've had those conversations
Speaker:with, who you've built that relationship with. And so
Speaker:that judgment from an examiner, not just about your
Speaker:driving, but about you and your tics
Speaker:can increase that anxiety, can't it?
Speaker:Absolutely. Yeah. I think, you know so Tourette's isn't, isn't
Speaker:a learning disability. It doesn't impact IQ. If anything, lots of
Speaker:people with Tourette's kind of have these these really spiky profiles, so they're
Speaker:really, really incredible strengths, well above the average population, and then a
Speaker:few things that are particularly difficult because of their brain type and and the
Speaker:way that they work and live. But some of the sounds and
Speaker:movements that can come from the body when someone is is having tics
Speaker:can be really, really, really quickly and easily associated
Speaker:with, Oh, lack of capacity, a lack of understanding,
Speaker:some additional learning needs, very poor control, or very
Speaker:impulsive, or very loud, or hyperactive. But, actually, It's simply a
Speaker:feature of the condition, and it's it's not it doesn't impact those
Speaker:things. But I think consciously or unconsciously, people are making
Speaker:assumptions and judgments on On all sorts of things when they
Speaker:hear or see these these movements. So that's something we really like to say. You
Speaker:know, it's don't assume. It makes an ass out of you and me. This
Speaker:is this is simply a body reaction. It's
Speaker:a it's a muscle movement. It's a sound.
Speaker:Don't try to look too far beyond it, really. Yeah.
Speaker:Fabulous. I I mean, I've just written some little I've
Speaker:written loads of notes Again, I've written loads of notes again. So I suppose
Speaker:from my driving instructor background and if driving instructors are
Speaker:listening to this, My advice to them would be
Speaker:no assumptions and just no judgments. You know?
Speaker:Everyone's an individual. We teach the individual.
Speaker:You know? And I suppose that is the the golden rule, isn't it?
Speaker:You know? We We just teach the individual.
Speaker:Absolutely. Absolutely. And I think, you know, I was looking up a little bit
Speaker:of kind of research into driving and Tourette's, etcetera, and I I think seem
Speaker:to say that, actually, the presence of Tourette's doesn't seem to have that
Speaker:much of an impact on kind of driving outcomes and safety. The presence of
Speaker:ADHD and catastrophic ADHD, that is actually kind
Speaker:of statistically what what shows maybe a slight risk increase for
Speaker:driving. But actually with Tourette's, No. What what lots of studies have shown
Speaker:us is that most people with tics and Tourette's, around 80% who engaged in this
Speaker:research, have a driving license and drive safely and a small
Speaker:percentage with with more intense tics or quite
Speaker:specific tics, for example, throwing the head back or
Speaker:eye rolling that impair the safety of driving. Those
Speaker:individuals chose not to get a driving license. Though what's interesting
Speaker:is that all of the people in this piece of research that said, you
Speaker:know, I don't have a driving license because of my tics, all of them
Speaker:Or, you know, 98% of them wanted support to access
Speaker:1, but didn't feel like that support was in place and that that support
Speaker:was available. And, actually, for those individuals, I think
Speaker:there there is a safe way to drive, and it's about kind of really low
Speaker:and slow. And if you need to do half an hour Lessons,
Speaker:over an hour lessons or 2 hour lessons, marvelous. If you need to
Speaker:build up your your exposure to Driving. If you need to spend some
Speaker:time in someone else's car first, if you need to you know, the I think
Speaker:that there are lots of safe and creative ways that we can support people to
Speaker:learn to driving Whilst recognizing that it's a choice, and loads of people
Speaker:with or without Tourette's don't want to drive or don't need to drive.
Speaker:But what I found really lovely and reassuring from the research is that most
Speaker:individuals with Tourette's drive drive safely, comfortably, and happily, But
Speaker:make informed day to day decisions on factors that
Speaker:might impact their tics. I won't ever drive to a festival. It wouldn't be safe.
Speaker:I'm too excited, and, you know, regardless of of the Tourette's, it's
Speaker:kind of my personality, but I know that that's something. And I will I
Speaker:put that in place. It's my legal, ethical, Personal
Speaker:responsibility to do that. You know, you you don't need to disclose
Speaker:that you have Tourette's syndrome in order to get a driving license unless you think
Speaker:it's gonna Impact your driving. And if you're not sure, talk to your
Speaker:doctor. Have that conversation. Look at the research that
Speaker:Explores what types of tics might impact driving. And is this something I'm
Speaker:experiencing? In which case, is this the right time? We know that tics come and
Speaker:go. They change throughout the course of a person's life. So I I've
Speaker:had eye rolling tics for various points within my life and various points
Speaker:within the 10 years that I've been driving. It didn't mean that I had to
Speaker:give up license, it meant I didn't drive at that time. And
Speaker:similarly, in in kind of childhood, I had big arm tics, and those
Speaker:would have impaired my driving, but I wasn't learning to drive at that time.
Speaker:So we're recognizing ticks come and go. They wax and
Speaker:wane. They rarely stay the same tick throughout the course of your life.
Speaker:And so if it's not the right time right now, it doesn't mean it's never
Speaker:gonna be the right time. And to answer my questions? Yeah.
Speaker:It's just brilliant. It's just so much
Speaker:really common sense obvious.
Speaker:It doesn't feel like there's anything that we shouldn't
Speaker:already know, and yet somehow we didn't already
Speaker:know. It's Well, it's our assumptions, isn't it? Yeah. That's the if I
Speaker:was to sum this up, you know, right back to the beginning, what did I
Speaker:think Tourette's was? And it's but it
Speaker:may be that, But there's a lot more as well, isn't there?
Speaker:And it's just like, okay. I get it now. Absolutely.
Speaker:And I think, actually, it's a nice point to come back to, Kev. We
Speaker:we said that there there's only 15 to 20% of people who have these,
Speaker:kinda, these swearing tics. But if you are working with
Speaker:someone with these tics, the most important thing you can do is to
Speaker:not bring attention to them and to ignore them even if and I
Speaker:really compassionately recognize that this isn't always easy
Speaker:even if the nature of those ticks target a feature, you know, characteristic
Speaker:about yourself, which they often do, And often the anxiety of
Speaker:insulting, offending, or upsetting someone increases the likelihood of that
Speaker:tick happening. So It's not easy. I work with lots of people with
Speaker:Tourette's. I have a receipt I've been on the receiving end of some really
Speaker:creative, beautiful, bizarre, targeted tics that you're like,
Speaker:oh, that hit right in my self conscious gland. However,
Speaker:it's not what they meant. And if I make them feel anxious, shamed,
Speaker:or embarrassed for this, I'm gonna make it worse for them. They live with this
Speaker:condition all the time. I am I'm alongside
Speaker:this For 1 hour a week. And, actually,
Speaker:my comfort isn't always more important than someone
Speaker:else's. Actually, how can we just say, well, no. I get it.
Speaker:Oof. I get it. It's okay. And that's something that's so protective.
Speaker:And in time, that would that would reduce the likelihood of those ticks
Speaker:Occurring when someone isn't going, don't call them fat, don't call them bull, don't call
Speaker:them this, don't call them that. You know, it's it's the it's the don't that
Speaker:make us actually more likely to do. So if people aren't worrying, they are
Speaker:less likely to to have some of those tics. Not always easy,
Speaker:but give it a go. Yeah.
Speaker:Fantastic. Well, I I think that is a brilliant
Speaker:piece of advice to to finish up on, actually,
Speaker:I I only thank you so much
Speaker:for sparing the time for us today to come on and talk
Speaker:so passionately, and give us so much
Speaker:information, which I I really hope that everyone
Speaker:else enjoys and learn something from because we know learned a lot
Speaker:from you. Yeah. It's and it's, yeah, it's
Speaker:been brilliant, so thank you. Oh, you are so, so welcome. It's
Speaker:been really wonderful to come and have this conversation, and I know
Speaker:that this is a a worry and an anxiety for lots of young people
Speaker:growing up with Tourette's. Would I ever drive? I ever get a job? Would I
Speaker:ever get married? And I hope that some of the the support and advice can
Speaker:help people to know you absolutely can drive safely, and you might just need
Speaker:to Explore with support what helps your tics, what's in
Speaker:what increases your tics, and find the right driving
Speaker:instructor who really gets you. You know? And I think good Good luck with it.
Speaker:And, obviously, if if you are learning to drive and you want some support or
Speaker:some advice, do get in contact with Tourette's Action, and we can,
Speaker:we can offer some kind of support strategies to make that journey a little bit
Speaker:easier if needed. So thank you so much for having me, guys.
Speaker:Thank you. And we will make sure that all of your links are in the
Speaker:show notes so that they're they're available for anybody listening
Speaker:to we have to find you nice and easily. Fabulous.
Speaker:Well, thank you guys. Thank you.