- All right.
Speaker:Well, welcome back to the podcast
Speaker:where we're starting a brand
new sermon series this month,
Speaker:talking about, um, five elements of health
Speaker:that God wants you to grow in.
Speaker:So we're talking about
professional health,
Speaker:financial health, physical
health, spiritual health,
Speaker:and today we're talking
about mental health.
Speaker:And so we have a guest, uh, Joel Polo,
Speaker:who's registered psychologist say that.
Speaker:Right. You got it. Okay. Awesome.
Speaker:Which I've personally used
your services in the past Yeah.
Speaker:You know, for, um, our family.
Speaker:And so we're really happy to have you
Speaker:with us today. So thanks for being here.
Speaker:- Yeah. It's so good
to be here, man. Yeah.
Speaker:Talk a little bit about your history,
Speaker:- What you do.
Speaker:- Sure. Well, man, when I was
growing up, I either wanted
Speaker:to be a pastor, engineer, or teacher.
Speaker:- Okay. So I
- Lived in all three realms.
Speaker:I actually went to school first, uh,
Speaker:did some bible college, uh, played soccer.
Speaker:Yeah. I got a scholarship for that.
Speaker:And then it ended up,
uh, pursuing teaching.
Speaker:So that was my first degree.
I love working in schools.
Speaker:My parents were both teachers. Yeah.
Speaker:So I guess it kind of just
came naturally. Right.
Speaker:And through that journey, I
was praying, okay, Lord, like
Speaker:what is the next steps
in my life look like?
Speaker:And I had a number of
conversations with people.
Speaker:So if there's young people listening,
Speaker:it's, it's a journey, right?
Speaker:Yeah. Step by step.
Speaker:And, and one thing I discerned
is I really am passionate
Speaker:about helping people love teaching,
Speaker:but really love, like
helping kids, helping,
Speaker:uh, teenagers especially.
Speaker:Yeah. So someone said, well,
Speaker:you could be a counselor or psychologist.
Speaker:I'm like, oh, cool, I'll check into that.
Speaker:So after some research,
Speaker:and, you know, a lot of
school Yeah. , I ended up
Speaker:- And a weekend course, right?
Speaker:Yeah. $500 later in a
weekend. Course . Yeah.
Speaker:- Right. I end up on this
journey, uh, for the past 10 years
Speaker:of being able to, um,
Speaker:work in professional
practice in schools and,
Speaker:and also, uh, support clients and families
Speaker:- As well.
Speaker:Yeah. Well, that's great. So
we're talking about mental
Speaker:health, which is loaded, right.
Speaker:That idea, especially I
would say particularly
Speaker:within the realm of the church.
Speaker:Right. There's some, um,
confusion about that.
Speaker:And so just to maybe again,
set the table mm-hmm .
Speaker:What are we talking about exactly when
Speaker:we talk about mental health?
Speaker:- Great question. I love even
Speaker:to think about the term
wellness, you know?
Speaker:So in terms of wellness, we
look at emotional, mental,
Speaker:spiritual, uh, physical.
Speaker:There's all these different
areas of course you guys
Speaker:are covering, which is great.
Speaker:And they all overlap. And especially
Speaker:from a Christian perspective.
Speaker:Uh, we have, uh, we're spiritual beings.
Speaker:We have a soul and live in a body. Hmm.
Speaker:So our soul, our mind will
Speaker:and emotions is a really key aspect
Speaker:of stewarding our mental health. So
Speaker:- That's what we'll
talk about when we talk
Speaker:about soul today.
Speaker:And if we go into scripture,
the Bible will talk about soul.
Speaker:And it's really that three,
those three things, our mind,
Speaker:our will, our emotional.
Speaker:So we're talking about
soul health. Mm-hmm .
Speaker:Really today is what we're
talking about. Great. Okay.
Speaker:There we go. Now we set the
table. Let's, so let's begin, .
Speaker:So what are some, um,
Speaker:maybe you would say common misconceptions
Speaker:that people find around mental health?
Speaker:And maybe if you can even
add from the church aspect
Speaker:or the Christian aspect that
maybe some, some questions
Speaker:that they have about it
or some misconceptions
Speaker:or, um, areas
Speaker:that there's just some
uncertainty regarding
Speaker:for sure. Yeah. Mental health.
Speaker:- Absolutely. You know, I love the church.
Speaker:I've been to a lot of
different types of churches.
Speaker:So through my personal
Speaker:and professional experience, uh, you know,
Speaker:I grew up actually Catholic.
Speaker:So until I was about seven or eight years
Speaker:old, attended Catholic church.
Speaker:I've worked for Catholic school boards.
Speaker:It's a beautiful tradition,
Speaker:beautiful masses, beautiful songs.
Speaker:I love to be a part of
that. I've also been in very
Speaker:Pentecostal environments, so
kind of like the exact opposite
Speaker:of that in many extremes.
Speaker:And probably everything in between.
Speaker:So the neat thing about
denominations in churches is we
Speaker:each, I think, have a revelation
or understanding of God.
Speaker:So there's different kind of,
I think, pitfalls or strengths
Speaker:and challenges of each sphere.
Speaker:You know, being a, a church, a part
Speaker:of POCI think one thing
we often see in kind
Speaker:of Pentecostal type
environments is the idea
Speaker:of over spiritualizing.
Speaker:Everything. For sure.
Speaker:God is the most powerful
part of our lives,
Speaker:and the Holy Spirit can come
Speaker:and heal us, if any mental,
mental or physical disorders.
Speaker:Um, but there's a journey.
Speaker:And I love what one
pastor friend of mine said
Speaker:that God heals and journeys
with us in many ways.
Speaker:He uses counseling, he uses
prayer, he uses doctors,
Speaker:he uses medications, he
uses inner healing, a lot
Speaker:of the amazing ministries
Speaker:that you guys have at your church here.
Speaker:But it's a journey.
It's not just one thing.
Speaker:It's a journey of many things.
Speaker:And I think a key thing as
Christians is to be open to
Speaker:how God wants to heal us journey with us
Speaker:and bring restoration in different ways.
Speaker:Right. One of my favorite
stories in the Bible
Speaker:is that this guy name it Right.
Speaker:And, uh, he's told, okay,
Speaker:just go like bathe five or six times.
Speaker:You probably say, I has
nobody exact reference.
Speaker:And he's like, no, I don't wanna do that.
Speaker:That's dumb. Yeah. And
Speaker:- Sometimes, like my kids,
they never want a bath. Right.
Speaker:- And sometimes Lord might be like, Hey,
Speaker:you should go to your doctor.
Speaker:Right. Check this out. Yeah.
Speaker:Or maybe you should go to
this inner healing prayer
Speaker:that might seem awkward
or uncomfortable for you.
Speaker:But I think it's being open
to all the different ways
Speaker:that God wants to heal and
journey with us. Yeah. That's
Speaker:- A great idea.
Speaker:So I know maybe two sides of the spectrum.
Speaker:The most common ones that
I see is one who they
Speaker:are repelled by medical professionals.
Speaker:Right, right. Therapists
counts as a sign of weakness
Speaker:and a sign of lack of faith
that if I have to succumb
Speaker:to sitting under, you
know, the, the thumb of a,
Speaker:of a psychiatrist or psychologist
Speaker:or therapist, that somehow
I am a bad Christian.
Speaker:Right. Right. I lack faith.
Right. God isn't working me.
Speaker:Have you seen that? Absolutely. Okay.
Speaker:So what would you say
to someone like that?
Speaker:- Well, first I'd say,
I love his Bible verse
Speaker:that God's power is made perfect.
Speaker:Not in our strength, but
actually in our weakness.
Speaker:And I'm praying to this year,
I love to pray each year
Speaker:and say, okay, God, what are you focusing
Speaker:on or highlighting this year?
Speaker:And the scripture passages I go
Speaker:after this year was Isaiah 61.
Speaker:And the first part of the
passage talks about struggle.
Speaker:It talks about bringing
comfort to those who mourn,
Speaker:bringing garments of praise
for the spirit of heaviness,
Speaker:the oil of joy again, for mourning.
Speaker:And it talks about prisoners
as well, and being set free.
Speaker:And the Lord spoke something
to me that's so important.
Speaker:And the idea is, he said, if
you want to thrive in life,
Speaker:you have to go through the process.
Speaker:And the Jewish culture, they
Speaker:actually really celebrate mourning.
Speaker:Like when someone dies, they
have a whole, um, parade, so
Speaker:to speak, and they hire even mourners.
Speaker:So there's a process in which
we mourn things in our lives.
Speaker:So it's very normalized in their culture.
Speaker:Perhaps in all our culture,
it's not as normal.
Speaker:So I think the idea that God
Speaker:- Was Yeah.
Speaker:People do not know how to mourn. Exactly.
Speaker:It's like, I don't know how to, I want
Speaker:to get outta this as fast as possible.
Speaker:- Chi me out. Yeah, yeah. I know, right.
Speaker:- The most awkward
conversations are at a funeral.
Speaker:'cause no one knows what
to say. Yeah. Right.
Speaker:- And just avoidance. Right.
Just avoiding all of that.
Speaker:Right. But I feel like the
Lord wants to invite each one
Speaker:of us into our own personal journey.
Speaker:And just being totally
honest, like I am a person
Speaker:who thought, oh, I'm good,
God, I don't need help.
Speaker:But the truth is, we're all on a journey
Speaker:and there's always more healing for us.
Speaker:Mm-hmm . So whatever that
looks like, you know, I've been
Speaker:to counseling, I've talked
to doctors, I've been
Speaker:to inner healing prayer, and it's amazing
Speaker:how the Lord uses all those things
Speaker:to take us one step further
on that journey of healing.
Speaker:And I, I see people in my personal life
Speaker:and sometimes the different
professional settings
Speaker:where I just pray, Lord,
would they be willing,
Speaker:would they open their heart
to just as we talked about,
Speaker:name him just as we
talked about Isaiah 61,
Speaker:would they be open to the
journey God has for them
Speaker:because he wants to heal,
he wants to bring freedom,
Speaker:and he really wants to help us thrive
Speaker:and becoming the full
expression of ourselves,
Speaker:but we have to be open to that journey.
Speaker:- Yeah. So maybe what I
hear you saying is that, uh,
Speaker:seeking professional help
from, um, someone who knows
Speaker:what they're talking about in
the mental health field is one
Speaker:of the ways that God
can provide, um, health
Speaker:to us in greater wellness in our, in our,
Speaker:in our world, in our, in our soul.
Speaker:But you wouldn't say it is
the only way. Absolutely.
Speaker:There are other ways that God does that.
Speaker:And so I would say as, as
one of your pastors, um,
Speaker:I have visited, um, psychologists
Speaker:and therapists in the past,
Speaker:and they actually have a goal
Speaker:for this year for how
many times I want to go.
Speaker:I'm actually go, like, I
want to go see them. Amen.
Speaker:Because I've seen the usefulness of, um,
Speaker:how God uses people in that field
Speaker:to bring greater health to my life.
Speaker:Uh, and so, you know,
as one of your pastors,
Speaker:there's freedom there to
just break that stigma.
Speaker:That that's, that's just
a wonderful thing. Yeah.
Speaker:But I've also seen in my own life
Speaker:and through ministry, the
other side of that being
Speaker:that God has worked outside
Speaker:of medical professionals through prayer.
Speaker:Absolutely. Like just praying for someone
Speaker:and God just breaks someone's, you know,
Speaker:emotional bondage or, or an addiction.
Speaker:I've seen that happen mm-hmm
. Like with my own eyes.
Speaker:And so I believe in the pa
Speaker:and it's a lot cheaper
than seeing a psychology .
Speaker:And so, you know, that's
always my first line
Speaker:of defense when people are
Speaker:walking through, I, I bring prayer.
Speaker:So maybe that's the other, I
talked about those two. Yeah.
Speaker:Two, um, you know, sides of
the horse that people fall off.
Speaker:I'm never gonna see a doctor
because that's a lack of faith,
Speaker:or all I need is faith
and all I need is prayer,
Speaker:and I'm never gonna go
see someone like that.
Speaker:So, you know, maybe could
you speak to that at all?
Speaker:- Oh, absolutely. You know,
I love what one pastor said,
Speaker:Jesus has the one step program.
Speaker:It's really simple about 12 steps.
Speaker:It's not a thousand
steps. He wants to heal,
Speaker:and there's always healing available.
Speaker:I think a really interesting
aspect, you know, I've been
Speaker:to inner healing, prayer,
I've got prayed for,
Speaker:and it's just been life changing.
Speaker:I think those are the, the moments
Speaker:of the most quantum change
and the most powerful change.
Speaker:But I believe healing's a journey,
Speaker:and the Lord brings people into
our lives, pastors, friends,
Speaker:mentors, counselors,
leadership consultants,
Speaker:whoever it might be to help
us walk that journey out.
Speaker:- Yeah. Galatians six
two, I think, is that, um,
Speaker:I think the reference is correct.
Speaker:He gives us one another to
carry one another's burden.
Speaker:Exactly. That's the idea there.
Speaker:- And the idea of, of mentorship
Speaker:and walking with people, I
think is so, so important.
Speaker:Um, because God can heal any moment.
Speaker:And I love being in
that, those environments
Speaker:where I've seen miracles
break. It's beautiful.
Speaker:- Okay. So you are someone
right in the medical field.
Speaker:Right. Okay. Yeah. Who makes
a living off of, you know,
Speaker:being the head doctor ,
and you, I don't know if
Speaker:that's derogatory, but, uh,
Speaker:who has seen God's miracle
hand? Absolutely. Okay, cool.
Speaker:- Yeah. Yeah. And my prayer point now as,
Speaker:as I think about these
things is I pray, Lord,
Speaker:would you give this person the
stewardship to walk it out?
Speaker:- What do you mean by that?
- So,
Speaker:I've seen people just
diving into subjects,
Speaker:whether it be physical
healing, emotional healing,
Speaker:mental healing, spiritual healing,
Speaker:demonize, whatever it might be.
Speaker:And the Lord heals you
right in that moment.
Speaker:Um, I think he wants to teach
us how to live healed. Okay.
Speaker:He, he wants to teach us how
to steward that every day.
Speaker:So I think about a person maybe
Speaker:who struggles a lot mentally.
Speaker:So we pray for them and
the joy of the Lord comes,
Speaker:but then God gives them
the strategic plan of how
Speaker:to live in joy every day.
Speaker:Maybe it's talking to a
friend, reading a Bible,
Speaker:worship music, getting physical exercise.
Speaker:There's actually a stewardship plan
Speaker:where God doesn't just wanna
do something in a moment.
Speaker:He wants to create a lifestyle of health.
Speaker:- Yeah. Wow. I've never
heard of that said like that.
Speaker:I actually think that's true
and helpful. That's great.
Speaker:So as you talk about mental health, um,
Speaker:maybe probably the two
most dominant things
Speaker:that we're talking about
in, in people I'd imagined,
Speaker:correct me if I'm wrong, would
be depression and anxiety.
Speaker:So when I was a young, uh, pastor,
Speaker:I would never really hear those terms.
Speaker:Very, very few and far between. Yeah.
Speaker:Now it feels like, uh, every
corner you turn, you know,
Speaker:someone's struggling with that.
Speaker:Right. What's going on there?
What do you think's happening?
Speaker:- Well, I think first and foremost, we're
Speaker:becoming more aware society,
Speaker:and especially the church,
we're growing awareness of,
Speaker:you know, these are
real medical conditions.
Speaker:And it's not just okay, you know,
Speaker:you're not praying enough today.
Speaker:It's like we, we actually
go through things.
Speaker:And I think that's encouraging
Speaker:because going back to
that Isaiah 61 piece,
Speaker:we're actually entering into
the process of our problems
Speaker:so we can move towards the promise Okay.
Speaker:Of what God wants to do. Okay.
Speaker:- Okay. So you're kind of
recognizing something's
Speaker:wrong. Yes. And you're able to say it.
Speaker:- I think that's good. Right. Okay. Yeah.
Speaker:Uh, a metaphor often
gives like a check engine,
Speaker:like your car, if there's
something going on,
Speaker:whether it be depression or
anxiety, et cetera, whoa.
Speaker:Yeah. I need to do something about that.
Speaker:And a wellknown psychologist from Canada,
Speaker:his name's Dr. Gordon Neufeld,
he talks about emotions
Speaker:that need to be felt.
Speaker:So we need to be able
to feel our emotions,
Speaker:and they're actually important messengers
Speaker:that are telling us information.
Speaker:Mm-hmm . It can become a problem though,
Speaker:when we're not able,
Speaker:or we don't have capacity to
do things with those emotions,
Speaker:and then we can kind of spiral
Speaker:or get locked into, uh, more
challenges in our lives.
Speaker:- Yeah. I've often said, you know, kind
Speaker:of pastoral perspective, if
I'm, if I'm preaching that,
Speaker:you know, emotions are wonderful
slaves, terrible masters.
Speaker:Right, right. They're, they're cues
Speaker:that God has embedded into our
nature to tell us something.
Speaker:Right. Anger isn't bad, it's
telling you something is wrong.
Speaker:Right. But if you allow
it to master you, then
Speaker:that's obviously not something
that you want to happen. .
Speaker:- So I heard one pastor say,
how would you treat a friend
Speaker:who lied to you as often as your emotions?
Speaker:Yeah. a controversial
Speaker:- Statement.
Speaker:- I think from my perspective,
you know, I would say
Speaker:emotions or their, to
help us, they're there
Speaker:as our supportive partners.
Speaker:They're, they're important
friends and messengers.
Speaker:Can we, number one, listen
to them, partner with them,
Speaker:and then work with them to move towards,
Speaker:if you're feeling angry about something,
Speaker:how is that gonna change you?
Speaker:Maybe you have to change or
modify your environments.
Speaker:You're not getting frustrated with
Speaker:- That.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah. I remember when I came
Speaker:to see you a few years
ago with my family, one
Speaker:of my daughters, that was it.
Speaker:It was emotional regulation.
Speaker:And I remember that was
really helpful, that aspect,
Speaker:that really practical,
Hey, here's some things,
Speaker:some physical environment
changes that, that you can have
Speaker:that's gonna help her mm-hmm .
Speaker:Kind of be able to regulate
that. So I remember
Speaker:that being game changer.
Speaker:I mean, we pray and we pray
forever. We pray for her.
Speaker:And, you know, after a few
months, um, of seeing you
Speaker:and employing some of those
strategies, just, it changed.
Speaker:But then I would tell you this is
Speaker:that some of that stuff returned.
Speaker:That's right. Right.
It didn't stay forever.
Speaker:It helped in the moment mm-hmm
. And this past summer, um,
Speaker:God touched her at camp
Speaker:and she's like a whole different kid.
Speaker:Amen. Like, she's, she's brave.
Speaker:She's running an alpha
course at her, at her school.
Speaker:Like, she's just a whole, so
I get like, emotional . Yeah.
Speaker:Amen. But God has just touched
her in a wonderful way,
Speaker:and so I've seen in her life.
Speaker:Amen. Um, God work through you,
Speaker:and I've seen God just do
something independently of anybody
Speaker:and just touch her at an altar.
Speaker:Right. So I've seen both at
Speaker:play, which I'm really thankful for both.
Speaker:- Well, pray for us. We have
three young children now. Okay.
Speaker:Yeah. And we're on that
journey, and my wife
Speaker:and I were just talking
about it last night,
Speaker:and one of our kiddos in
particular we're like, okay, Lord,
Speaker:what systems and structures
do we need to put in place?
Speaker:But we felt a real strong sense in 2025,
Speaker:we wanna pray more
strategically for our children.
Speaker:And that testimony is so beautiful, Ken,
Speaker:and whatever age your
children are, my children,
Speaker:for listeners too, that we
would ask God for wisdom
Speaker:and insight, how to help them Yeah.
Speaker:Personally, experience God,
whatever that looks like,
Speaker:because that's what changes people's
Speaker:lives, and that's what changes us.
Speaker:And, and that's how we become
into the full expression of
Speaker:who God's made us to be.
Speaker:- Yeah. Wonderful. Yeah.
Speaker:So you got people who are
listening who are struggling.
Speaker:Yeah. Um, they're in the thick of it,
Speaker:so they're scared about the future.
Speaker:They're discouraged,
they're really battling.
Speaker:They, you might, they might not say I
Speaker:have mental health issues.
Speaker:Yeah. But they're battling. Right? Right.
Speaker:They're not, they're not. Well.
Speaker:So when would be a cue for someone to
Speaker:go reach out to a professional such
Speaker:as yourself or someone in that field?
Speaker:- Well, first I wanna say, you
know, fill word's with you,
Speaker:and he wants to help you.
Speaker:The cross is vertical
Speaker:and horizontal, so God
is always there to help.
Speaker:Um, but, but the horizontal
part is he brings
Speaker:people into our lives.
Speaker:We're only as strong
as our supporting cast.
Speaker:So no matter what you're going
through today, you need help.
Speaker:We all need help, and God
wants to send us help,
Speaker:but one of the most powerful
Speaker:and practical ways he
sends us help is people.
Speaker:Hmm. So I think no matter who you are,
Speaker:we all need that support and cast.
Speaker:And I think that's the first step.
Speaker:So if you have a friend, a pastor,
Speaker:or someone else in your life,
they can really speak in
Speaker:and guide inter direct you to those Right.
Speaker:Supports. That's what I
love about the local church.
Speaker:We're, we're becoming really strategic
Speaker:and wise in being able to guide
Speaker:and direct people to the right supports.
Speaker:Yeah. And obviously if you,
if you're really struggling,
Speaker:it's important, um, to reach
out, you know, there's,
Speaker:there's, um, emergency numbers
that you can call if you feel
Speaker:that that's urgent, practically
visiting your doctor,
Speaker:that's something that's absolutely free
Speaker:covered by Alberta Healthcare.
Speaker:That's a great first step.
Speaker:Or the doc, your doctor can
say, okay, I see these symptoms.
Speaker:Here's some practical supports.
Speaker:They might recommend counseling.
Speaker:Um, sometimes doctors even
have referral to a lower cost
Speaker:or free counseling too,
so they can steward
Speaker:or help direct that system.
Speaker:And, and often we are
really struggling unwell,
Speaker:we actually need support in helping
Speaker:us get to the right people.
Speaker:So I just encourage you to think about
Speaker:who are those people in your
supporting cast, friends,
Speaker:mentors, pastors, doctors,
whoever it might be
Speaker:that can help triage and direct
you to where you need to be.
Speaker:- And maybe I'll just say,
you know, uh, assume a lot
Speaker:of people from our who are
listening would be from our
Speaker:church, is that's kind of
Speaker:what the role of the local church is.
Speaker:Right. Your pastors and
the volunteer leaders
Speaker:who lead small groups and,
Speaker:and things like that is to
carry your burden with you.
Speaker:Mm-hmm . Uh, you're not alone in that.
Speaker:And, you know, I would suggest that a lot
Speaker:of first step is just, you know, prayer.
Speaker:Amen. Right. And someone who
you trust, you can say, Hey,
Speaker:listen, um, you know, we
have a list of, you know,
Speaker:professional help that
we, we refer people to.
Speaker:Um, but that's usually after
we meet and we pray mm-hmm .
Speaker:And, um, it's not, I
would say our first step
Speaker:is, Hey, see these people.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah. You know, it's just like,
Speaker:I can't do anything, but
maybe these people can't.
Speaker:No. The first step is, let's
see if God will do something
Speaker:kind of just in meeting and praying and,
Speaker:and then, you know, Hey, are you part
Speaker:of, do you have any friends at church?
Speaker:Do you have any people
who are lifting you up
Speaker:and interceding for you
or can walk with you?
Speaker:And so, yeah.
Speaker:That community aspect of the
local church is probably an,
Speaker:an unrealized resource for
Speaker:so many people in their
mental health. Yeah. Walk.
Speaker:- It's so true. And I,
I think about myself.
Speaker:I've been there, man, and
it's been tough, you know,
Speaker:but it's been amazing how just
reaching out to one person,
Speaker:it changes your whole landscape.
Speaker:You feel like you're alone in the dark,
Speaker:and all of a sudden just talking
Speaker:to one person brings light
at the end of a tunnel.
Speaker:I can think of times I've
been so anxious, so depressed,
Speaker:like I, things I've really
struggled with in my life,
Speaker:and it's been extremely challenging.
Speaker:And in those moments, man,
I'm just so thankful, um,
Speaker:for the people in my life
where I was able to call
Speaker:and say, I'm really struggling.
Speaker:Can you help me? And just
having that conversation
Speaker:and feeling heard
Speaker:and feeling understood
and feeling supported.
Speaker:It didn't make everything go away,
Speaker:but it made things like night
and day better difference.
Speaker:- Yeah. Yeah. Uh, we see in
scripture multiple examples of,
Speaker:um, people who are walking
through soul issues.
Speaker:Right. We see David in
Psalm 42, like, my soul,
Speaker:why are you so downcast?
Speaker:You know, why are you so disturbed? Right.
Speaker:We see, uh, Elijah in one
Kings 19, he's depressed
Speaker:to the point of asking God
Speaker:to take his life like he's suicidal.
Speaker:That's he's suicidal.
Yeah. Even Jesus, right.
Speaker:Our Lord in, uh, Gethsemane,
uh, you know, he,
Speaker:he is, he's troubled, right?
Speaker:His soul, right? Mm-hmm
. Our savior, his soul,
Speaker:his mind will and emotion
are troubled within him.
Speaker:And so, uh, we see a biblical example
Speaker:and normalization of
emotional, you know, and, and,
Speaker:and mental struggles that,
that are happening with people.
Speaker:And so the reality is, is people
who are watching listening,
Speaker:they're just, they're
just walking through that.
Speaker:So what would you say from your seat,
Speaker:someone who's listening right now,
Speaker:and you know, the future is gray.
Speaker:Yeah. There's lack of
hope. They're discouraged.
Speaker:Maybe they're anxious or depressed.
Speaker:Maybe they're not clinically right,
Speaker:but they are been diagnosed like that,
Speaker:but they're just sensing, man,
I have no joy for the future.
Speaker:What would be something,
some practical things
Speaker:or some encouragement you
could bring them today?
Speaker:- The number one thing is
hope. That there's always hope.
Speaker:You know, it's says well known scripture,
Speaker:right in Jeremiah 29 11.
Speaker:I know the plans I have for
you declares the hope plans
Speaker:to give you hope and a future.
Speaker:And I think you might feel like the
Speaker:furthest thing away from that.
Speaker:And I just wanna encourage you,
there's so many people, uh,
Speaker:with similar stories and testimonies,
Speaker:because the testimony of
Jesus is a spirit of prophecy.
Speaker:So I'd encourage you,
number one to know, there's
Speaker:so many people were, they
were on their last leg.
Speaker:They were down and out.
Speaker:And the Bible says, these
light momentary afflictions are
Speaker:working in eternal weight of glory.
Speaker:It's my greatest privilege
to walk with people
Speaker:who are in those moments,
because that's when God shows up.
Speaker:That's when, when we're at our worst
Speaker:god's, at his best, yeah.
Speaker:When we're most desperate,
Speaker:we're actually the most open to change.
Speaker:So it's an extremely
challenging place to be,
Speaker:be It's not fun.
Speaker:It's very painful. It needs
to be stewarded very well
Speaker:with practical, medical,
psychological, emotional help.
Speaker:But it's also a place
where miracles are born.
Speaker:It's where God shows up
Speaker:and speaks to you in
Speaker:ways that you've never heard him before.
Speaker:It's when there's clarity that
comes and, uh, understanding
Speaker:and a clear vision for your life.
Speaker:And I personally can think of
Speaker:that one particular moment
when I was about 17 years old,
Speaker:I was in and I was feeling
super depressed, super anxious,
Speaker:struggling like you wouldn't believe.
Speaker:And I just remember that a moment
Speaker:that absolutely marked my life.
Speaker:And I just felt like God came
Speaker:and just very practically
Speaker:through the Bible spoke some
verses and, and a mission
Speaker:and a mandate for my life.
Speaker:And I was honestly at the point
where I'm like, okay, Lord,
Speaker:why do you still have me on this earth?
Speaker:Or what am I here for? And very
practically with scriptures
Speaker:and just the Bible, the Lord
really answered that question,
Speaker:and it's marked my life ever since.
Speaker:And I, I can think of similar
moments. It wasn't just one.
Speaker:You know, we go through the
highs and lows of lights.
Speaker:You know, Psalms 23, you
know, in those valleys,
Speaker:in those dark places, his
rawness staff, they comfort us.
Speaker:And, and the shepherd of
our soul, you know, Jesus,
Speaker:he shows up and just speaks
Speaker:to us in such incredible ways.
Speaker:And I could almost tell you any person
Speaker:who's doing amazing
things for God, you know,
Speaker:who's, who's in the kingdom.
Speaker:They had these moments, they
had these defining moments,
Speaker:and I wish they were on the mountaintops
Speaker:when everything is great.
Speaker:But that's usually when we're
like, okay, I'm good God,
Speaker:I'll just coast and have some fun here.
Speaker:But it's in the valleys
where God just meets us
Speaker:and defines our life and our
moments and speaks to us.
Speaker:So number one, there's hope.
Number two, there's purpose.
Speaker:That there's a purpose and
plan God has for your life.
Speaker:And when we reach the end of
ourselves, we find this plan.
Speaker:And I think that's such
an encouraging thing.
Speaker:Doesn't feel fun, but reaching
the end of end of ourselves.
Speaker:And I love what one pastor said,
Speaker:that's a blessing when
our only option is God.
Speaker:Yeah. It doesn't feel like a blessing,
Speaker:but that's one of my favorite
verses often quote, you know,
Speaker:in terms of counseling
and supporting people,
Speaker:it's these light momentary reflections.
Speaker:They're not fun. They don't
feel like it's not great,
Speaker:but they are working in
eternal weight of glory.
Speaker:So you'll look back on the
season in these moments
Speaker:of your life, and I can say four
Speaker:or five seasons like this for me.
Speaker:And you'll say, that was the
moment, that was the season.
Speaker:That was the defining moments
where the Lord spoke to me,
Speaker:brought clarity, vision, direction.
Speaker:Yeah. And literally, the
reason I'm here today, sitting
Speaker:and talking to do this podcast
is those types of moments
Speaker:where the Lord's met me.
Speaker:- Yeah. It's powerful. I mean,
that would, would bring a lot
Speaker:of hope, hope to people in
those spaces that, you know,
Speaker:you never know what God is
gonna do in those space.
Speaker:I would say for me, something
similar where I have felt God
Speaker:and experienced his presence in a way
Speaker:that have been few times
in my life, was in a season
Speaker:of grief when my dad passed.
Speaker:And it was just like, you know, the,
Speaker:the comfort of the Lord.
Speaker:I would never would've experienced that.
Speaker:I'd never experienced the realness
Speaker:if I didn't go through that suffering.
Speaker:Now, I don't want that suffering.
Speaker:No one wants that suffering. Right.
Speaker:We don't call what is evil Good, right?
Speaker:Mm-hmm
- .
Speaker:- But yet God redeemed that moment
Speaker:and shaped me through that.
Speaker:And almost anyone that
I can say that I look up
Speaker:to in the faith who I'd want
my life to emulate theirs
Speaker:are people who have walked
through suffering and trials and,
Speaker:and hard moments and,
Speaker:and have had that, you know,
emotional battles within them.
Speaker:Right. Um, and so, God,
that seems to be true.
Speaker:- He'll add two pieces that number one,
Speaker:we're only strong to supporting cast.
Speaker:So if you go through alone,
it is not gonna be good.
Speaker:It's gonna be very rough. Mm.
Speaker:That, that is not God's
plans, not as well.
Speaker:The only way to get through
seasons like this is
Speaker:that supporting cast
the people around you.
Speaker:So community is absolutely so key.
Speaker:The other side of things is faith.
Speaker:I love what one past are
shared recently, he said,
Speaker:imagine Ken, you had $10 million.
Speaker:You wrote me a check for like a zillion
Speaker:- Bucks.
Speaker:Hold on, just let me sit there
for a little while. . Right?
Speaker:- Okay.
- Okay,
Speaker:- Good.
Speaker:Okay. I hope you have
a good plan with that .
Speaker:So if you call me up
Speaker:and say, Hey Joel, I'm gonna
give you a check on Friday
Speaker:for $10 million, have give it all away.
Speaker:Just let's say 1 million.
Okay? Okay. Okay. .
Speaker:So, so am I gonna get excited on Friday?
Speaker:Am I gonna wait or am I gonna
get excited when you tell me?
Speaker:Yeah. Because you're a great guy. Yeah.
Speaker:An awesome guy I can trust. Yeah.
Speaker:I'm gonna get excited the minute you
Speaker:tell me, Joel, I'm give
you a million bucks.
Speaker:I am rejoicing. Yeah. And that's
Romans 8 28, right? It is.
Speaker:Yeah. Right. So God said
he causes not some things,
Speaker:not a few things, but all
things to work for good.
Speaker:He doesn't cause create
chaos and crap in our lives,
Speaker:but he turns it for good.
Speaker:So that is the million dollar
check that he's written to us.
Speaker:When we experience tragedy
difficulty, we have to say, okay,
Speaker:Lord, thank you for this check.
Speaker:Thank you. That working great.
All things. Yeah. For good.
Speaker:I'm not gonna wait till it gets good
Speaker:to rejoice. I'm rejoicing now.
Speaker:- Come on. I think that's great, .
Speaker:If that doesn't give you a little hope,
Speaker:I'm ooh, I'm ready to go. .
Speaker:So Joel, why don't you
tell us a little bit about
Speaker:what you're up to right now
with some of the, the projects
Speaker:and initiatives that,
that we can expect kind
Speaker:of coming from you for those
who are listening Yeah.
Speaker:Who just thought that was
really valuable. Yeah.
Speaker:What, what can we expect from
Speaker:- You?
Speaker:Yeah, so good. Well, my wife
Speaker:and I are kind of feel assigned.
Speaker:We have a practice called
Family Life Psychology,
Speaker:and we're so blessed and fortunate.
Speaker:We just had our team meeting this morning.
Speaker:We've got, uh, 10, uh,
Speaker:registered provisional
psychologists working with us.
Speaker:And our greatest passion is
supporting, encouraging them.
Speaker:In addition to that, we
really feel, uh, probably
Speaker:for at least 15 years, we've
really both felt called
Speaker:to ministry and supporting people.
Speaker:So we're actually launching an online
Speaker:platform called Thrive for Life.
Speaker:And our passion is
Speaker:to support people in whatever
their journey might be.
Speaker:There's gonna be e-course
Speaker:and supports for, for parenting,
for relationships, uh,
Speaker:for spiritual growth and development.
Speaker:We're partnering with churches right now
Speaker:to develop a Thriving Leaders project.
Speaker:So for leaders, could it
be in the marketplace?
Speaker:Could it be in churches,
uh, to be able to learn
Speaker:and level up their leadership skills both
Speaker:spiritually and practically.
Speaker:And as well, we're gonna be,
uh, creating a series of,
Speaker:of inspiring videos just to
help, uh, people in the body
Speaker:of Christ reach the full expression
Speaker:of who God's called and to be.
Speaker:'cause that really is the target.
Speaker:That $10 million thing, you know,
Speaker:I'd give you $10 million
if I could reach the full
Speaker:expression of who God's made me to be.
Speaker:And I feel like there's nothing
greater than thriving in
Speaker:life, spiritually,
emotionally, relationally.
Speaker:God is call us two thrive.
Speaker:He's cred us with that
picture in Genesis one
Speaker:and myself, my wife, our team,
Speaker:in whatever small role we can play.
Speaker:We really want to equip the body of Christ
Speaker:to see every person thrive. Yeah.
Speaker:- I imagine those hearing
that right now, that idea
Speaker:of thriving can feel so far off from
Speaker:where they're at right now through that.
Speaker:Um, but the hope of that
that's possible. Yeah.
Speaker:That through God it can happen.
Speaker:- And that's the story. You know, I,
Speaker:I've experienced that so
many times in my own life.
Speaker:And like I said, the testimony
Speaker:of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.
Speaker:So it's so cool when God
is at work in your life
Speaker:for our listeners, that it
might not be in this moment,
Speaker:but they're gonna look back
Speaker:and say, Hey, that was the season.
Speaker:I often think of David in the cave.
Speaker:Aon was a very dark time. Right.
Speaker:You know, you get all his
promises, you're gonna be king.
Speaker:You're this great warrior.
Speaker:You've got all of a sudden
invited into a great family,
Speaker:and all of a sudden everything
turns south as really bad.
Speaker:And David finds himself
in this very lonely place,
Speaker:and all these other
people in the same space,
Speaker:in the same part of life,
you know, they're lonely,
Speaker:broken down, depressed,
miserable, whatever it is,
Speaker:they come together and meet 'em
Speaker:and say, Hey, like, let's
figure something out.
Speaker:Yeah. And from that, these
Speaker:lowly people become the most
mighty warriors in history.
Speaker:You think about the Avengers,
Speaker:but in real life they became
Speaker:mighty warrior. You read about him.
Speaker:- Yeah.
- In, in David's journeys and,
Speaker:and all the things he's overcome.
Speaker:And I believe that's the mandate
Speaker:that the Lord is calling us to as people.
Speaker:We have our struggles and challenges,
Speaker:but the Lord takes those challenges.
Speaker:What the enemy meant for
evil and turns for good,
Speaker:and not just okay, kind
of good kind of a right.
Speaker:But we actually become
the oaks of righteousness,
Speaker:the planting of the Lord,
the Isaiah 61 picture
Speaker:that helps other people in their journey.
Speaker:So just even as I share
this, if I rewind 10 years,
Speaker:it was the people who
helped me get to this point.
Speaker:Hmm. And there's gonna be people
listening in 10 years from
Speaker:now, they're gonna be in our chairs.
Speaker:Yeah. Equipping
Speaker:and supporting others as
Speaker:they've gone through
their own process. Yeah.
Speaker:- Thanks Joel. Absolutely. Yeah.
Speaker:Well, thanks everyone for tuning in
Speaker:and, and, uh, listening to this.
Speaker:If you found it helpful,
we're happy about that.
Speaker:And the reality is that God
loves you. God cares for you.
Speaker:He does have a plan and
a purpose for your life.
Speaker:And there is hope available
for you today in him.
Speaker:You know, I'm reminded of
Jesus' words in Matthew 11.
Speaker:Come to me all who are weary
and I'll give you rest.
Speaker:And I just really want to,
uh, encourage you to enter
Speaker:that rest to, um,
prioritize that relationship
Speaker:with Jesus in this season of struggle.
Speaker:Uh, if you might be in that
Speaker:and just experience the
rest that Jesus has for you.
Speaker:Thanks for watching.