1 00:00:02,029 --> 00:00:05,290 Kat: Hey, my name is Kat and I'm Lee and welcome to the 2 00:00:05,860 --> 00:00:07,630 Wildly Wealthy Life podcast. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,620 In this show, we explore the journey of what it means to live a truly 4 00:00:12,620 --> 00:00:14,169 exceptional and fulfilling life. 5 00:00:14,549 --> 00:00:18,399 Each episode focuses on how a foundation of brilliant minds and brave hearts. 6 00:00:18,784 --> 00:00:21,615 Nurtured through the arts leads to lifelong success. 7 00:00:22,064 --> 00:00:25,354 Get inspired with actionable tips to foster a growth mindset, 8 00:00:25,564 --> 00:00:28,914 leadership values, and creativity in children and adults, turning 9 00:00:28,914 --> 00:00:32,404 their potential into lasting contributions for their communities. 10 00:00:32,694 --> 00:00:36,544 We hope you embrace the challenge to shift your perspective as we equip 11 00:00:36,604 --> 00:00:38,735 you and the next generation for a 12 00:00:48,684 --> 00:00:51,305 Today I'm going to share about working from a place of 13 00:00:51,315 --> 00:00:53,735 alignment instead of hustling. 14 00:00:54,065 --> 00:00:57,935 And for those of you who are listening to this on audio, I'm 15 00:00:57,935 --> 00:00:59,974 holding a jacket up that says hustle. 16 00:01:00,425 --> 00:01:04,974 Uh, it would align, uh, crossing the word hustle and align is right underneath it. 17 00:01:05,595 --> 00:01:08,284 I definitely know a thing or two. 18 00:01:08,610 --> 00:01:16,050 Or a hundred about hustling, but I am also learning a lot about alignment. 19 00:01:16,460 --> 00:01:21,770 And today is day three, um, from the BBD live business by design conference. 20 00:01:21,789 --> 00:01:26,950 And, um, I really experienced today what it means to be alignment. 21 00:01:26,960 --> 00:01:31,030 Not that I haven't experienced it before, but even more so today. 22 00:01:31,245 --> 00:01:34,315 Um, and he will understand why as I share this story. 23 00:01:34,865 --> 00:01:40,325 In the last, I would say, gosh, eight years or so, I have spent 24 00:01:41,165 --> 00:01:45,615 close to 150, 000 in coaching. 25 00:01:46,395 --> 00:01:51,414 Um, and this is coaching literally from anything from really real 26 00:01:51,414 --> 00:01:59,630 estate to music to, um, My business and for the most part, that's it. 27 00:01:59,630 --> 00:02:06,400 Like the real estate music business licensing, learning how to be, you know, 28 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,419 certification program, all these things. 29 00:02:08,859 --> 00:02:13,020 And yeah, close to 150, 000 in coaching alone. 30 00:02:13,460 --> 00:02:15,400 And I'm not even talking. 31 00:02:15,625 --> 00:02:19,695 I'm not even counting the amount of money that I've spent 32 00:02:19,705 --> 00:02:22,495 on training my body, right? 33 00:02:22,495 --> 00:02:26,084 So that's also coaching, but in a different way, I guess, but training 34 00:02:26,084 --> 00:02:27,535 my body for movement, right? 35 00:02:27,544 --> 00:02:32,165 Like when I went into overdrive and trained for stunts and I trained anything 36 00:02:32,165 --> 00:02:35,275 from gun training to wire work to. 37 00:02:35,679 --> 00:02:38,579 All sorts of different martial arts and the amount of money 38 00:02:38,579 --> 00:02:41,980 that I spent that year, literally just on training stunts alone. 39 00:02:42,429 --> 00:02:47,140 And then, of course, the years of training that I've put into aerial. 40 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,640 So that 150, 000 is literally just strictly on in the last 41 00:02:51,649 --> 00:02:55,539 eight years of my growth in real estate and music and in business. 42 00:02:56,009 --> 00:02:58,365 And Is it worth it? 43 00:02:59,645 --> 00:03:00,585 Sometimes I don't know. 44 00:03:02,385 --> 00:03:08,095 Um, sometimes I question myself too, but you know, like I spent 10, 000 on 45 00:03:08,265 --> 00:03:14,345 a one year mastermind for real estate and I am very much an action taker. 46 00:03:14,414 --> 00:03:16,544 I don't just when I. 47 00:03:16,675 --> 00:03:18,325 Pay for something for a program. 48 00:03:18,375 --> 00:03:24,315 I do not take it lightly and I do the work because I am a doer gosh I've been a doer 49 00:03:24,315 --> 00:03:29,915 my entire life And i'm learning how to just be but you know, I spent ten thousand 50 00:03:29,915 --> 00:03:34,985 dollars on a real estate mastermind and I I did out of that mastermind. 51 00:03:34,994 --> 00:03:39,505 I learned how to invest in real estate and we we did purchase you know, um 52 00:03:39,735 --> 00:03:44,200 three Additional rental properties because of the stuff that I learned. 53 00:03:44,709 --> 00:03:47,790 I purchased another real estate program training. 54 00:03:47,790 --> 00:03:53,000 I think it was 7, 500 on note investing and out of that note investing. 55 00:03:53,060 --> 00:03:58,869 I did purchase a note and we actually in fact sold that note this year. 56 00:03:59,610 --> 00:04:03,130 And, uh, did get profit out of that. 57 00:04:03,610 --> 00:04:08,750 I did go into a private investing, not private investing. 58 00:04:08,750 --> 00:04:10,239 It's, it was private funding. 59 00:04:10,499 --> 00:04:14,600 You learn how to be a private funder for investors. 60 00:04:14,910 --> 00:04:18,290 Um, that was, I believe also a 7, 000. 61 00:04:19,625 --> 00:04:24,755 That one, I did not do anything about because, well, 62 00:04:24,795 --> 00:04:26,344 we kind of ran out of funds. 63 00:04:26,344 --> 00:04:31,245 We realized we can't be a private funder, a private lender. 64 00:04:31,265 --> 00:04:33,265 It was a private, how to be a private lender. 65 00:04:33,515 --> 00:04:35,925 We can't be a private lender if we don't have funds. 66 00:04:36,215 --> 00:04:41,304 So, um, but actually, I still know. 67 00:04:41,799 --> 00:04:44,590 How to go into private lending if I want to. 68 00:04:44,590 --> 00:04:48,880 So later on, you know, hopefully as you know, my business grows, 69 00:04:48,909 --> 00:04:51,659 then we'll have funds and I can actually be a private lender. 70 00:04:51,669 --> 00:04:55,219 So that's down the line, but I did learn that, but gosh, 71 00:04:55,219 --> 00:04:56,570 there's just so many things. 72 00:04:56,570 --> 00:04:59,489 The amount of coaching that I have. 73 00:05:00,275 --> 00:05:08,435 Paid for has been crazy and there's such a thing as hungry. 74 00:05:08,655 --> 00:05:13,605 This is what I learned this and not that I don't know this, but just kind of hearing 75 00:05:13,605 --> 00:05:19,584 it from another person, you know, kind of teaching it and also from a person that. 76 00:05:19,835 --> 00:05:21,955 Her name is Natalie Ellis from Boss Babe. 77 00:05:22,315 --> 00:05:25,675 Uh, she has built a freaking multimillion dollar business. 78 00:05:26,065 --> 00:05:29,854 And she has an incredible story, incredible, incredible story that I 79 00:05:29,854 --> 00:05:35,194 encourage you to look up if you don't know her already, but there is such a thing 80 00:05:35,235 --> 00:05:40,695 as she was teaching about hungry versus empty, operating from a place of hunger 81 00:05:40,755 --> 00:05:42,855 versus operating from a place of empty. 82 00:05:43,665 --> 00:05:45,305 There's nothing wrong with being hungry. 83 00:05:45,335 --> 00:05:47,059 There's nothing wrong with being hungry. 84 00:05:47,419 --> 00:05:52,440 Having the drive, the hunger for more, the hunger to, to learn more, 85 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,750 to be more, to be better, right? 86 00:05:55,479 --> 00:05:59,719 There's nothing necessarily wrong with that, but there's something wrong with 87 00:05:59,729 --> 00:06:05,110 that if you are combining that with operating from a place of emptiness. 88 00:06:05,580 --> 00:06:10,520 So, I think what I've realized as I look back in my experiences is 89 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:14,330 that I'm that person who's hungry to learn for more, who's hungry to, 90 00:06:14,590 --> 00:06:16,620 to do more, who's hungry to grow. 91 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,589 And so I do feel that I've operated from that place, and I don't think it really 92 00:06:21,589 --> 00:06:26,820 is from a place of emptiness for the most part for a while until actually in the 93 00:06:26,830 --> 00:06:32,950 recent years that I realized that, um, the reason why I went into overdrive and. 94 00:06:33,655 --> 00:06:38,984 Signing up for even more coaching and even more masterminds is because I'm starting 95 00:06:39,275 --> 00:06:46,025 to kind of suddenly get scared because I'm signing up for all these things. 96 00:06:46,055 --> 00:06:50,804 And yes, I am doing the work, but then I am not seeing the return in my investment. 97 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,719 And part of the reason why I'm not seeing the return of my investment 98 00:06:55,770 --> 00:06:58,989 financially is because when you're signing up for so many coaches and 99 00:06:58,989 --> 00:07:03,609 so many masterminds, then you have so many voices speaking into you so many 100 00:07:03,609 --> 00:07:06,369 suggestions and coaching coming into you. 101 00:07:06,599 --> 00:07:09,859 And now you're like, well, I will do them all. 102 00:07:10,425 --> 00:07:11,295 Because that's me. 103 00:07:12,065 --> 00:07:15,105 I'm the person who will like, you're, you're saying I'm doing this. 104 00:07:15,115 --> 00:07:15,785 Yes, coach. 105 00:07:15,805 --> 00:07:16,405 I'll do that. 106 00:07:16,705 --> 00:07:19,415 And then this other coach tells me you're saying that you should do this. 107 00:07:19,625 --> 00:07:20,235 Yes, coach. 108 00:07:20,264 --> 00:07:21,005 I got, I got it. 109 00:07:21,035 --> 00:07:21,584 I'll do it. 110 00:07:21,715 --> 00:07:23,515 I'm, I'm the yes coach person. 111 00:07:24,884 --> 00:07:27,014 So all of a sudden. 112 00:07:28,140 --> 00:07:33,670 I'm seeing that I'm getting scared because I am, I'm signing 113 00:07:33,670 --> 00:07:36,590 up for all these things and then spending so much money on coaching. 114 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:41,699 Meanwhile, you know, my business, if I'm not signing up for all of these crazy 115 00:07:41,700 --> 00:07:45,010 coaching, my business is making money. 116 00:07:45,820 --> 00:07:49,410 The problem is my business is not making any money because everything that flows 117 00:07:49,410 --> 00:07:52,520 into the business is literally just put back into all these coaching that 118 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:55,810 I'm paying for and mind you, they're not, they're not cheap coaching. 119 00:07:55,900 --> 00:07:56,310 Okay. 120 00:07:57,310 --> 00:08:00,739 So, finally, I met this guy named James Wedmore. 121 00:08:01,070 --> 00:08:01,800 I met him. 122 00:08:01,820 --> 00:08:04,659 Well, this weekend today, personally, but I met him online. 123 00:08:04,770 --> 00:08:05,390 He didn't meet me. 124 00:08:05,390 --> 00:08:06,010 I met him. 125 00:08:06,230 --> 00:08:10,400 I saw him online and I signed up for his course. 126 00:08:10,790 --> 00:08:11,670 There we go again. 127 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,370 I signed up for his course earlier this year. 128 00:08:14,525 --> 00:08:22,045 June of of 2004, and it was a 2997, uh, self study course. 129 00:08:22,295 --> 00:08:23,705 There's some coaching. 130 00:08:23,745 --> 00:08:28,664 Um, you know, there's some coaching with with his trained coaches, but 131 00:08:28,664 --> 00:08:30,215 it's not like one on one coaching. 132 00:08:30,224 --> 00:08:34,774 It's really up to you to watch everything and put everything into implementation. 133 00:08:34,994 --> 00:08:35,944 But somehow. 134 00:08:36,875 --> 00:08:39,044 And I always, I always kind of feel this. 135 00:08:39,054 --> 00:08:41,025 It's like, there's going to be something good from this. 136 00:08:41,325 --> 00:08:42,315 I promise this is it. 137 00:08:42,325 --> 00:08:42,745 This is it. 138 00:08:42,745 --> 00:08:43,585 I think this is it. 139 00:08:44,305 --> 00:08:47,094 And this time, this is it. 140 00:08:48,565 --> 00:08:50,705 This time, this is it. 141 00:08:51,065 --> 00:08:55,445 If there's only one coaching I could choose, it would be this. 142 00:08:56,420 --> 00:09:03,030 Because I have gone through so much coaching, and I'm a very coachable person. 143 00:09:03,430 --> 00:09:07,229 I follow, and as I already said, I'm a yes coach person. 144 00:09:07,429 --> 00:09:12,740 You tell me what to do, I will implement the heck out of what you tell me to do. 145 00:09:13,519 --> 00:09:20,590 The difference with James course is that he really gives you a step by 146 00:09:20,590 --> 00:09:23,930 step blueprint of what you need to do. 147 00:09:24,294 --> 00:09:28,724 To actually earn money in your business, right? 148 00:09:29,414 --> 00:09:31,504 Um, but, but it's not just the earning. 149 00:09:31,555 --> 00:09:40,654 It's actually really being clear on who you serve, what you do, and how that fits 150 00:09:40,654 --> 00:09:46,064 into the overall lifestyle of what you want to do as a business owner, because 151 00:09:46,074 --> 00:09:48,265 business is an addition to your life. 152 00:09:48,275 --> 00:09:49,865 It does not take over your life. 153 00:09:49,865 --> 00:09:52,255 And I'll talk about that a little bit more later. 154 00:09:52,805 --> 00:10:01,250 But the thing about James is that, um, He makes it so simple, business is 155 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:08,839 simple, you have an offer, you make an offer, and you make it to as many, you 156 00:10:08,839 --> 00:10:14,890 make that offer to as many people as possible, that's it, so you have an offer, 157 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,650 that's your product or your service. 158 00:10:17,774 --> 00:10:21,655 You make an offer, because if you don't make an offer, how are people 159 00:10:21,655 --> 00:10:24,345 going to know to buy from you if you don't actually make that offer? 160 00:10:24,704 --> 00:10:26,984 And number three, you get that offer in front of as many 161 00:10:26,984 --> 00:10:28,685 people as possible, right? 162 00:10:28,724 --> 00:10:32,354 As many people that are in alignment with who you're offering it to, right? 163 00:10:32,355 --> 00:10:37,675 So obviously, um, I'm not going to make an offer to dentists if my product or 164 00:10:37,675 --> 00:10:39,744 my service is not for dentists, right? 165 00:10:39,744 --> 00:10:42,825 So I have to get in front of the, the people that I'm serving 166 00:10:42,835 --> 00:10:44,385 and make that offer to them. 167 00:10:46,075 --> 00:10:47,785 Get in front of them, make that offer to them. 168 00:10:47,915 --> 00:10:51,965 And then, and then obviously, uh, offer them the service or the product. 169 00:10:52,535 --> 00:10:55,204 And it's just that simple. 170 00:10:56,675 --> 00:11:01,154 The more you offer, and the more you get in front of more people, the more 171 00:11:01,154 --> 00:11:02,415 money you'll make in your business. 172 00:11:04,134 --> 00:11:07,035 And, you know, as I said, it's not about money, right? 173 00:11:07,405 --> 00:11:08,695 But today. 174 00:11:09,645 --> 00:11:14,175 I witnessed right a room full of people today. 175 00:11:14,175 --> 00:11:15,565 We close out the event today. 176 00:11:15,835 --> 00:11:18,095 A lot of them are already successful entrepreneurs. 177 00:11:18,105 --> 00:11:20,465 A lot of them are some of them are starting. 178 00:11:20,665 --> 00:11:22,935 It was a mix of people in the room, right? 179 00:11:23,175 --> 00:11:27,435 But there were a lot of entrepreneurs there who are like they had a 180 00:11:27,435 --> 00:11:31,405 panel of seven figure entrepreneurs and they're just regular people. 181 00:11:31,630 --> 00:11:37,080 Like me, like you, regular people who got a hold of their vision, they want to 182 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,420 serve people, uh, they put their business online so that they can serve more, right? 183 00:11:41,420 --> 00:11:44,600 If your business is online, you obviously are able to reach more people 184 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:48,520 because you don't have that location brick and mortar, um, limitation. 185 00:11:49,749 --> 00:11:55,445 And today I witnessed, um, The whole, the whole room today 186 00:11:55,775 --> 00:12:00,154 raised about 250, 000, 251, 000. 187 00:12:00,155 --> 00:12:05,244 Uh, we all gave money into the charity this week called Charity Water. 188 00:12:05,655 --> 00:12:10,954 And, um, James said that it was the biggest, uh, money that has been 189 00:12:10,954 --> 00:12:14,475 raised so far at this live event that we, that he holds once a year. 190 00:12:14,925 --> 00:12:17,335 Um, it's a three day event once, once a year. 191 00:12:17,375 --> 00:12:22,165 And, um, Because it's a room full of entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs are usually 192 00:12:22,165 --> 00:12:26,305 very, very giving people the reason why we do business and the reason why 193 00:12:26,525 --> 00:12:29,724 we want to make the money that we want to make is because we want to be able 194 00:12:29,725 --> 00:12:34,025 to have that capacity to serve and bless other people with our finances. 195 00:12:34,605 --> 00:12:40,735 Um, gosh, like I, I have charities I want to support. 196 00:12:40,735 --> 00:12:42,305 I have causes I want to support. 197 00:12:42,335 --> 00:12:48,535 I have, I want my own, you know, later on, like a freaking cat cafe. 198 00:12:48,535 --> 00:12:53,595 It has a dog park that has a, uh, Amphitheater for performances that 199 00:12:53,595 --> 00:12:57,085 we can host for children that we have given scholarships to for 200 00:12:57,085 --> 00:13:00,525 music and movement, and then they come over here and they learn about 201 00:13:00,525 --> 00:13:02,185 music and movement and life skills. 202 00:13:02,205 --> 00:13:05,855 And we have this whole production that I can just produce all on, all on my own, 203 00:13:05,865 --> 00:13:07,955 like as far as financial goes, right. 204 00:13:08,175 --> 00:13:09,534 Because I have those funds. 205 00:13:09,534 --> 00:13:10,975 That's what I would love to do. 206 00:13:11,345 --> 00:13:16,875 I would love to have a tree adventure park because of my love for adventure, or you 207 00:13:16,875 --> 00:13:20,055 can hold like team building activities and it's your own adventure park. 208 00:13:20,390 --> 00:13:22,890 Gosh, there's just so much that I want to do. 209 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:27,130 There's so much that money can do for you. 210 00:13:27,439 --> 00:13:30,979 And if you have an amazing heart for people, gosh, that 211 00:13:30,979 --> 00:13:32,200 money can go a long way. 212 00:13:32,309 --> 00:13:34,619 Cause money is not the root of evil. 213 00:13:35,860 --> 00:13:37,210 It's our, it's our greed. 214 00:13:37,220 --> 00:13:41,550 It's our, it's our gosh, unstationable desire for money. 215 00:13:41,580 --> 00:13:43,230 That's the root of evil, right? 216 00:13:43,230 --> 00:13:45,210 But the money itself, it's, it's not evil. 217 00:13:45,210 --> 00:13:46,000 It's just a tool. 218 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:47,270 So. 219 00:13:48,839 --> 00:13:54,910 I witnessed that today and James, you know, he is a 20 million entrepreneur. 220 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:59,079 His, his, I don't even know really actually how much he's, you know, 221 00:13:59,079 --> 00:14:03,809 his revenue is gross revenue a year, but he has this story where he 222 00:14:03,810 --> 00:14:05,590 went from 2 million to 10 million. 223 00:14:06,250 --> 00:14:10,670 And in one year, um, that is also an incredible story in and of itself. 224 00:14:10,690 --> 00:14:14,770 He, his, his sleep was just a quantum leap in his business. 225 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,250 And it actually came from a very, very difficult time in his life. 226 00:14:18,289 --> 00:14:19,730 The, there was a very difficult time. 227 00:14:19,730 --> 00:14:25,000 Someone was suing him and he had this crazy fear that he was going 228 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,870 to lose everything and instead of. 229 00:14:28,569 --> 00:14:32,860 Surrendering into that fear he stepped out faced that fear and his business 230 00:14:32,890 --> 00:14:37,350 actually at the time that he got sued He was able to grow his business from 231 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:41,859 two million to ten million dollars in one year And that was years ago And I 232 00:14:41,859 --> 00:14:47,020 know that he is way past ten million dollars now a year and I share all of 233 00:14:47,020 --> 00:14:52,710 this because going back into verse hunger versus empty so I've been panicking 234 00:14:52,970 --> 00:14:58,110 because basically I've been paying for all of these coaching things and nothing 235 00:14:58,110 --> 00:15:04,149 is coming back because I am building way too many bridges when you have too 236 00:15:04,149 --> 00:15:07,659 many voices in your head, you have too many coaches telling you what to do. 237 00:15:07,850 --> 00:15:11,229 You tend, especially if you're a yes coach kind of person, you will follow 238 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,330 all of these directions and now you're building this bridge, and now you're 239 00:15:14,330 --> 00:15:16,750 building this bridge, and then this bridge, and then this bridge, and then 240 00:15:16,750 --> 00:15:20,490 this bridge, and then this bridge, and you're wanting to go from here to here, 241 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:24,110 and then, uh, And all of those bridges are never built all the way through. 242 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:30,319 So then my attention is, you know, trying to catch like five 243 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:31,600 different rabbits all at once. 244 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,609 And I end up not catching any rabbit. 245 00:15:34,850 --> 00:15:40,899 And finally, with James, I just really understand now, and I've learned 246 00:15:40,900 --> 00:15:42,349 this too from other people, right? 247 00:15:42,350 --> 00:15:44,810 I've learned the concept of like, focus on one thing. 248 00:15:44,810 --> 00:15:47,000 I've learned the concept of, um, um. 249 00:15:47,485 --> 00:15:51,765 But, you know, being clear on who you serve, being clear on what you want to do. 250 00:15:51,795 --> 00:15:55,335 I've, I've, I know all these things already, but I think the difference with 251 00:15:55,335 --> 00:16:02,125 James is he really has a step by step by step by step, freaking the process, man. 252 00:16:02,514 --> 00:16:04,065 The process is just ridiculous. 253 00:16:04,095 --> 00:16:07,265 It is so clear that if you follow it. 254 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:11,860 It's not that it will happen like that, right, but it's that 255 00:16:11,860 --> 00:16:14,240 your success is truly inevitable. 256 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,720 It's going to happen if you follow it. 257 00:16:17,899 --> 00:16:24,549 And so I sat there today and today was the last day of, um, Enrolling 258 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:27,369 in the BBD next level that's business by design next level. 259 00:16:27,579 --> 00:16:32,580 So what I enrolled in this June was his, uh, self study course, right? 260 00:16:32,580 --> 00:16:35,090 With like a little bit of group coaching on the side. 261 00:16:35,540 --> 00:16:36,630 And then the next level. 262 00:16:36,935 --> 00:16:41,475 Above that is called next level and it's his mastermind for the people who now want 263 00:16:41,485 --> 00:16:46,754 to go further Instead of the once a year event that I get to go to right like which 264 00:16:46,754 --> 00:16:51,155 is this event that I've been in this the past Few days you get like four different 265 00:16:51,185 --> 00:16:55,905 events and then More coaching from him and really more touch point with him 266 00:16:56,255 --> 00:17:00,615 because he's been doing this for 17 years now, the, in the online business space, 267 00:17:00,615 --> 00:17:03,234 and he's just incredibly successful. 268 00:17:03,424 --> 00:17:07,734 So he's, and he's coached thousands of people and thousands of people have 269 00:17:07,744 --> 00:17:14,254 literally followed his system and they have scaled this business to the moon. 270 00:17:15,395 --> 00:17:16,754 And so here I am. 271 00:17:17,454 --> 00:17:21,165 The enrollment for next level was due today by lunchtime. 272 00:17:22,034 --> 00:17:25,804 And yesterday I kept asking, like, I literally kept asking God, 273 00:17:25,804 --> 00:17:26,985 like, do I enroll in this thing? 274 00:17:26,985 --> 00:17:30,814 Because I know, I know that I know that I know that if I enroll in this 275 00:17:30,815 --> 00:17:36,214 thing, um, and especially because now I'm actually focused in a sense, not 276 00:17:36,214 --> 00:17:39,185 that I wasn't focused in the growing my business before I was focused in 277 00:17:39,185 --> 00:17:40,455 growing my business before, but I was. 278 00:17:40,670 --> 00:17:43,970 Just focusing on way too many different directions because I had way too 279 00:17:43,970 --> 00:17:48,180 many voices in my head, way too many coaches in my ecosystem of coaches. 280 00:17:48,250 --> 00:17:48,570 Right. 281 00:17:49,019 --> 00:17:49,409 And so. 282 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,890 Now that I know that I know that this is the coach that's going to 283 00:17:53,930 --> 00:17:59,830 take me further and I will no longer Enroll in any other coaches, right? 284 00:18:00,509 --> 00:18:01,440 This is it. 285 00:18:01,719 --> 00:18:05,929 I know that if I go to next level mastermind, which by the way is 286 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,199 about eleven thousand dollars a year 287 00:18:10,519 --> 00:18:14,710 So this is love and that it would be an eleven thousand dollar payment, I 288 00:18:14,710 --> 00:18:16,754 know that I would succeed No doubt. 289 00:18:17,594 --> 00:18:18,375 I just know it. 290 00:18:19,395 --> 00:18:23,375 I have no doubt in my ability to follow everything that he says, and 291 00:18:23,375 --> 00:18:26,304 because I've seen it work for others, then I know it will work for me too. 292 00:18:27,014 --> 00:18:31,675 Okay, because I have a vision of same thing, same as all these other people 293 00:18:31,675 --> 00:18:35,474 that I saw there today who's standing in the panel and they are called seven 294 00:18:35,475 --> 00:18:39,025 figure entrepreneurs because they have scaled their businesses to seven figures. 295 00:18:39,385 --> 00:18:41,655 And so I am that person who I want to sit. 296 00:18:42,084 --> 00:18:46,554 On their seats, you know, a year from now, two years from now, however long 297 00:18:46,564 --> 00:18:51,054 it takes me, um, to be that seven figure entrepreneur with the service 298 00:18:51,054 --> 00:18:55,735 that I do, and because I love what I do, and I believe in it so much. 299 00:18:56,495 --> 00:18:57,864 And so here I am. 300 00:18:58,540 --> 00:19:02,720 Really contemplating, do I spend another 11, 000 in this next 301 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,649 level mastermind coaching because he only offers it once a year. 302 00:19:06,220 --> 00:19:07,910 The enrollment is only open once a year. 303 00:19:08,870 --> 00:19:10,769 And yes, last night I've been praying. 304 00:19:10,770 --> 00:19:11,919 I said, God, like, what do I do? 305 00:19:11,919 --> 00:19:12,449 What do I do? 306 00:19:12,449 --> 00:19:13,100 What do I do? 307 00:19:14,399 --> 00:19:14,999 And then. 308 00:19:15,470 --> 00:19:19,080 This morning I texted Lee, I said, babe, yes or no? 309 00:19:19,290 --> 00:19:20,920 And of course he has no context, right? 310 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:22,320 He said, yes. 311 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:23,649 I said, okay. 312 00:19:24,120 --> 00:19:25,540 And I said, do you believe in me? 313 00:19:25,620 --> 00:19:28,200 And he said, yes, of course he believes in me. 314 00:19:28,210 --> 00:19:31,580 Lee is super supportive, incredibly supportive in everything that I do and 315 00:19:31,580 --> 00:19:34,199 encouraging and all good things, right? 316 00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:34,610 Yes. 317 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:35,170 Yes. 318 00:19:35,310 --> 00:19:35,900 Okay. 319 00:19:36,420 --> 00:19:37,590 I guess I'm enrolling. 320 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,350 Of course he doesn't have the context of what I'm saying and what I'm asking. 321 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,400 I'm just asking for, you know, a sign. 322 00:19:44,409 --> 00:19:46,459 I'm just desperately asking for a sign. 323 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:50,140 I said, God, please just, just, okay, I'm going to quiet myself. 324 00:19:50,140 --> 00:19:55,420 So I was, I was listening to the speaker and I just, I just kept 325 00:19:55,420 --> 00:20:00,380 quieting myself and I kept quieting myself and I realized the answer. 326 00:20:01,149 --> 00:20:02,060 If I. 327 00:20:02,719 --> 00:20:07,820 do this, I will still be operating from a place of emptiness. 328 00:20:08,670 --> 00:20:12,150 And the reason for that is because all the other coaching programs I've 329 00:20:12,159 --> 00:20:15,279 done up to the point in just the last recent years, I'm not saying 330 00:20:15,279 --> 00:20:18,560 from the very beginning I've, I've operated from a place of hungry. 331 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:19,069 I want to grow. 332 00:20:19,069 --> 00:20:19,690 I want to grow. 333 00:20:20,079 --> 00:20:20,909 And not that. 334 00:20:21,820 --> 00:20:23,510 I'm not in a place of hungry right now. 335 00:20:23,540 --> 00:20:24,780 I'm still in a place of hungry. 336 00:20:24,780 --> 00:20:25,350 I want to grow. 337 00:20:25,360 --> 00:20:26,260 I want to learn more. 338 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:32,620 But there's a lot of emptiness in my operation, like in the way I operate 339 00:20:32,630 --> 00:20:38,760 now, because of the fact that I am desperately wanting to make my money 340 00:20:38,770 --> 00:20:43,600 back on all these coaching programs that I have been spending so much money on. 341 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,630 And because my business is not actually making the money that I wanted to make. 342 00:20:48,270 --> 00:20:57,195 And so I sat there and I said, If I Do this, that means that it will require 343 00:20:57,195 --> 00:21:02,665 me to step up even more because this is an 11, 000 product, which means that I 344 00:21:02,665 --> 00:21:07,834 will work myself to the bone to literally do everything that they're asking me 345 00:21:07,834 --> 00:21:10,824 to do so that I can grow my business. 346 00:21:11,024 --> 00:21:11,554 Right. 347 00:21:12,914 --> 00:21:15,014 And I know that's actually not what they're going to tell me to do, 348 00:21:15,024 --> 00:21:16,685 because with the way James work. 349 00:21:16,885 --> 00:21:22,135 The reason why the people that he coach are coaches are so successful is because 350 00:21:22,135 --> 00:21:23,804 his whole thing is actually doing less. 351 00:21:24,409 --> 00:21:27,580 If you do less, you will actually be a lot more successful. 352 00:21:29,210 --> 00:21:33,740 And if you just do the most important things, get, get, get away with from, 353 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:38,109 from all the fluff, you know, trim off the fat, like whatever they want to call 354 00:21:38,109 --> 00:21:41,739 it, like you'll actually earn a lot more, you'll actually be a lot more successful. 355 00:21:43,104 --> 00:21:46,795 But I sat there and I knew that the next level is going to be great for 356 00:21:46,795 --> 00:21:50,264 me, but I just knew that it wasn't the right time because I actually 357 00:21:50,264 --> 00:21:55,754 really need to heal the, the operating from emptiness that's inside of me. 358 00:21:56,054 --> 00:22:02,405 And then I evaluated my, my life for, for the last like two, three years or so. 359 00:22:02,745 --> 00:22:07,054 I said earlier, business is an addition to your life. 360 00:22:07,074 --> 00:22:09,965 It's not supposed to take over your life. 361 00:22:10,685 --> 00:22:12,554 And what I've realized is that. 362 00:22:14,175 --> 00:22:16,955 I have made my business, my God, 363 00:22:19,014 --> 00:22:20,635 I have made my business. 364 00:22:21,379 --> 00:22:27,290 The thing that I think about every waking moment, every second of my life. 365 00:22:29,780 --> 00:22:34,270 I have made it the thing that goes before my husband. 366 00:22:34,829 --> 00:22:37,689 I have made it the thing that goes before my prayer time. 367 00:22:38,169 --> 00:22:40,790 I have made it the thing that goes before me. 368 00:22:41,190 --> 00:22:45,910 taking care of my body and actually nurturing my body more and being 369 00:22:45,910 --> 00:22:48,719 consistent with my practice and movement. 370 00:22:49,350 --> 00:22:53,140 I've made it the thing that goes before me playing the piano, which every time I 371 00:22:53,260 --> 00:22:55,460 play the piano, it gives me so much joy. 372 00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:01,239 I have made it the thing that has kept me at home and working 16 hour 373 00:23:01,270 --> 00:23:06,129 days, uh, and not even leaving the house for three, four days straight. 374 00:23:07,550 --> 00:23:08,810 That's the reality of it. 375 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:10,410 And. 376 00:23:10,705 --> 00:23:15,045 Lee would sometimes tell me, Babe, have you, have you gotten outside today? 377 00:23:15,045 --> 00:23:16,595 You need to go outside. 378 00:23:17,185 --> 00:23:20,425 And I would just be like, I would open the door and I would stick my head outside and 379 00:23:20,425 --> 00:23:22,225 I'd be like, There you go, I went outside. 380 00:23:22,285 --> 00:23:24,995 And I closed the door and I sit back on the couch and I start working again. 381 00:23:26,294 --> 00:23:34,024 And so, I sat there today and I felt this surge of energy go through 382 00:23:34,044 --> 00:23:35,874 me and it was such a clear no. 383 00:23:37,564 --> 00:23:41,195 Going into this other coaching program is going to be amazing. 384 00:23:41,334 --> 00:23:45,804 It's going to be no doubt amazing, and it's going to no doubt supercharge me 385 00:23:46,054 --> 00:23:48,614 to the moon with my business goals. 386 00:23:48,695 --> 00:23:53,245 However, it's not the right time because what I really need to do 387 00:23:53,374 --> 00:23:58,879 is to actually put my energy and my finances back more into coaching. 388 00:23:59,220 --> 00:24:02,780 Getting therapy for, for myself, getting therapy for Lee, getting 389 00:24:02,780 --> 00:24:08,310 therapy for both of us in a marriage counseling setting, um, because we 390 00:24:08,330 --> 00:24:10,740 both have a lot of trauma in our life. 391 00:24:10,909 --> 00:24:13,590 Me, him, individually and us together. 392 00:24:14,009 --> 00:24:15,114 We've gone through a lot. 393 00:24:15,645 --> 00:24:21,865 Some heavy things in in the recent years and we really actually need to come 394 00:24:21,865 --> 00:24:29,625 together and and Find that place again and not that we don't love each other. 395 00:24:29,625 --> 00:24:33,255 We love each other very much I I love Lee and he loves me and he 396 00:24:33,255 --> 00:24:35,054 supports me and everything that I do 397 00:24:37,965 --> 00:24:41,524 But we need to find that connection again 398 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:49,370 And I feel like every time I talk to Lee, all I talk to him about is my business. 399 00:24:51,180 --> 00:24:54,640 And I put my business in front of him every single time. 400 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,720 You know, I choose my business over him, over God, over 401 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,280 myself, over everything else. 402 00:25:00,725 --> 00:25:04,575 Sometimes my dad calls me and I love my dad and sometimes I can't even 403 00:25:04,575 --> 00:25:07,125 like talk to him because I'm like, dad, I'm really busy right now. 404 00:25:07,125 --> 00:25:08,575 I gotta, I gotta finish this. 405 00:25:09,804 --> 00:25:12,605 And that's not okay. 406 00:25:14,535 --> 00:25:19,754 So instead of signing up for another coaching program, instead of, um, 407 00:25:19,995 --> 00:25:25,084 overdriving, overwhelming, overworking myself, I've decided that this year, 408 00:25:25,594 --> 00:25:31,565 I am just really going to put my relationship first and whatever gets 409 00:25:31,565 --> 00:25:33,255 done, gets done in the business. 410 00:25:33,255 --> 00:25:35,095 Whatever doesn't get done, doesn't get done. 411 00:25:35,574 --> 00:25:39,435 I don't want to supercharge myself into overdrive to try to meet 412 00:25:39,444 --> 00:25:45,054 those goals in a timeline that I want just because of my ego. 413 00:25:46,335 --> 00:25:50,815 You know, yeah, I want to get to my, my, my first, you know, 414 00:25:50,875 --> 00:25:53,115 million dollars revenue a year. 415 00:25:53,275 --> 00:25:54,795 That's, that's what I would love, right? 416 00:25:55,104 --> 00:25:56,964 And then from there, I want to keep going, right? 417 00:25:56,974 --> 00:26:02,044 I want to, uh, just keep going and it's not even worth it. 418 00:26:02,310 --> 00:26:09,200 You know, I mean, all of those people today that spoke in the panel who are the 419 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:13,650 seven figure entrepreneurs that started just like me, a lot of them shared their 420 00:26:13,650 --> 00:26:16,550 story that they were like, Oh, yeah, they were just sitting in in my seat 421 00:26:16,570 --> 00:26:21,070 and, you know, in this in the audience seat, like, just like us watching them. 422 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:25,070 They were there in our seats and and and watching. 423 00:26:25,254 --> 00:26:29,655 The people in the panel and also started their business from zero from scratch 424 00:26:29,655 --> 00:26:34,735 from hardships from from confusion from not knowing from from started their 425 00:26:34,735 --> 00:26:39,125 businesses out of, you know, a divorce out of a death out of a loss out of 426 00:26:39,134 --> 00:26:46,045 miscarriages out of Death out of just so many hardships and yet those people are 427 00:26:46,045 --> 00:26:51,565 sitting there right now and are now seven figure entrepreneurs and yes, I want to 428 00:26:51,565 --> 00:26:57,085 be like them, but every single one of them has also said that it will happen, 429 00:26:58,655 --> 00:27:00,455 but you can't force your way through it. 430 00:27:00,704 --> 00:27:02,655 Number one, and. 431 00:27:02,965 --> 00:27:10,154 Number two, it actually happens the moment you put your values first. 432 00:27:12,715 --> 00:27:16,564 And for me, my value is my relationship with God, my 433 00:27:16,564 --> 00:27:20,235 relationship with Lee, my relationship with my friends and my family. 434 00:27:20,264 --> 00:27:22,205 That's, that's my value, you know? 435 00:27:22,225 --> 00:27:26,345 And, and yes, my relationship with my, my families that I work with, my 436 00:27:26,345 --> 00:27:29,385 students, but they're still my clients. 437 00:27:29,675 --> 00:27:33,025 You know, like, I love, and that's a problem with me because I work with kids. 438 00:27:34,265 --> 00:27:36,995 I, I tend to really be attached to them. 439 00:27:37,005 --> 00:27:38,645 Like, I love them so much. 440 00:27:38,665 --> 00:27:41,394 I love, I love all my students so much. 441 00:27:41,415 --> 00:27:41,705 And 442 00:27:44,805 --> 00:27:49,795 I want to be that person for them that just knows that Miss Cat is there. 443 00:27:49,845 --> 00:27:51,495 Miss Cat is going to be there for them. 444 00:27:52,485 --> 00:27:52,945 You know? 445 00:27:54,145 --> 00:27:55,995 And that's why I care for them so much. 446 00:27:56,705 --> 00:28:01,615 That's why I do all the things that I do because I love them and I just 447 00:28:01,615 --> 00:28:04,495 want to show them in my own little way Especially because it's online 448 00:28:04,495 --> 00:28:08,765 and they don't I don't get to see them hold them hug them You know and just 449 00:28:08,975 --> 00:28:11,725 really show them that I care for them. 450 00:28:12,404 --> 00:28:16,715 I So I feel like sometimes I do overcompensate, I send them gifts, I send 451 00:28:16,715 --> 00:28:21,125 them stuff, but it's just my way of just showing them that I think about them, you 452 00:28:21,125 --> 00:28:26,155 know, and I think when, when, when you're working with, with kids, with families, 453 00:28:26,165 --> 00:28:29,764 sometimes it's hard to like put a boundary and say, they're still your clients, 454 00:28:29,774 --> 00:28:34,834 Kat, they're still your clients and your, your family still comes first, you know, 455 00:28:34,904 --> 00:28:40,014 and it's hard because I, I, They're my clients, but I really do see them as part 456 00:28:40,014 --> 00:28:45,215 of my family that I really genuinely see them as an extension of my family, even 457 00:28:45,215 --> 00:28:46,715 if they don't see me that way to me. 458 00:28:46,745 --> 00:28:47,845 I see them that way. 459 00:28:47,865 --> 00:28:52,014 That's you know, and it's that's why it's hard for me to detach 460 00:28:52,014 --> 00:28:57,875 myself sometimes from my business from all that I do because of. 461 00:28:58,450 --> 00:29:02,810 You know, my attachment to their well being, to their growth. 462 00:29:05,250 --> 00:29:05,700 Yeah. 463 00:29:06,370 --> 00:29:08,510 And I guess that's a lesson that I also need to learn. 464 00:29:09,010 --> 00:29:14,720 That I need to not hold on so much to that and detach myself from the results 465 00:29:14,740 --> 00:29:16,520 of, you know, what they're getting. 466 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,259 And gosh, that's another lesson on its own. 467 00:29:19,259 --> 00:29:22,370 But basically, what I've learned is I'm aligning my values. 468 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:27,130 Going back to the beginning of my story here is that I'm aligning my values. 469 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:34,980 I am aligning, aligning who I am and really and truly 470 00:29:35,260 --> 00:29:38,769 what I value to my business. 471 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,800 I'm not making my business align. 472 00:29:40,860 --> 00:29:43,559 I'm not making my business dictate what I do. 473 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,640 I'm making my business be in alignment with my values. 474 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,140 And so I'm really proud of myself. 475 00:29:50,250 --> 00:29:53,100 I am super proud of myself because I'm one of those people 476 00:29:53,100 --> 00:29:54,820 where it's like, next level? 477 00:29:55,330 --> 00:29:56,500 Yeah, sure. 478 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:57,390 Sign me up. 479 00:29:57,660 --> 00:30:00,900 You can pretty much sell me anything when it comes to like personal growth 480 00:30:00,919 --> 00:30:02,430 and mastery and all this stuff. 481 00:30:02,740 --> 00:30:03,990 You can sell me anything. 482 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,220 I am all for it. 483 00:30:05,260 --> 00:30:07,980 I will sign up for it and I will do the freaking work. 484 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,740 Because I enjoy working. 485 00:30:10,050 --> 00:30:12,380 I'm one of those kids that actually enjoyed homework. 486 00:30:12,380 --> 00:30:16,850 So, no surprise here that I will sign up for Mastermind so that 487 00:30:16,850 --> 00:30:18,900 I can give myself more work. 488 00:30:20,430 --> 00:30:22,600 Yep, that is no surprise. 489 00:30:22,700 --> 00:30:30,520 So Yeah, I'm just so proud of myself today that I did not actually sat and 490 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:34,290 I let the answer come to me and I was seeking the answers like I feel like 491 00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:37,950 I was asking God for the answers and I knew that the answer was going to come. 492 00:30:38,420 --> 00:30:40,349 Um, but I was ready to sign up for it too. 493 00:30:40,370 --> 00:30:40,920 I was ready. 494 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,890 The, the, the application form was already in my bag. 495 00:30:44,900 --> 00:30:46,020 It was ready to go. 496 00:30:46,690 --> 00:30:50,990 And, um, I was like at any moment now, God, if you say yes, I'm going, 497 00:30:51,230 --> 00:30:53,719 I'm going, I'm signing up 11, 000. 498 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:54,250 Take my money. 499 00:30:54,250 --> 00:30:54,640 Yeah. 500 00:30:55,770 --> 00:30:56,720 Money that I don't have. 501 00:30:56,750 --> 00:30:57,250 I'm just kidding. 502 00:30:57,990 --> 00:31:01,950 But seriously, like, it's really crazy because I signed up for so many coaching. 503 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:07,180 But I'm proud of myself to have, first of all, actually sat down to 504 00:31:07,180 --> 00:31:14,200 listen, taking some breath work and listen, and second, really being open 505 00:31:14,309 --> 00:31:20,240 to the voice that's coming in and showing me so clearly, like, Kat, it 506 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,150 is a no and this is the reason why. 507 00:31:22,815 --> 00:31:26,295 It's because if you say yes to that, you're going to be in overdrive again, 508 00:31:26,545 --> 00:31:30,375 you're going to be operating from a place of emptiness, not hunger, but you're 509 00:31:30,375 --> 00:31:34,184 just going to be doing this, right, because you're just so empty to try to 510 00:31:34,185 --> 00:31:38,985 get yourself out of this hole that you've dug, and, uh, All that's going to do is 511 00:31:38,985 --> 00:31:41,735 it's going to put your business again in front of everything else that you 512 00:31:41,735 --> 00:31:44,895 value and everything else that you said that you're doing this business for. 513 00:31:44,895 --> 00:31:47,995 Because to be honest, I'm doing this business because I want freedom, right? 514 00:31:48,225 --> 00:31:51,154 I have this dream of like retiring leave from his work. 515 00:31:51,154 --> 00:31:53,085 Like I want my business to make so much money. 516 00:31:53,085 --> 00:31:55,484 He doesn't have to work that he gets to also do what he wants to 517 00:31:55,485 --> 00:31:59,635 do because all these years he's been freaking supporting me. 518 00:32:01,275 --> 00:32:06,155 My love for dance, he supported that, like my, my love for real estate, he 519 00:32:06,155 --> 00:32:10,454 supported that, my, like, hey, here's a 10, 000 course that I want to take, 520 00:32:10,455 --> 00:32:16,714 he's like, sure, go for it, you know, it's, it's crazy, so I want him to be 521 00:32:16,714 --> 00:32:22,620 able to be free and do the things he wants to do too, and So the thing that 522 00:32:22,620 --> 00:32:25,880 I say, Hey, I want my business to be successful so it can give me freedom to 523 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:30,500 have more time with my, with my family and, you know, and, and Lee and friends. 524 00:32:31,949 --> 00:32:33,820 And here I am, it's taking me away from it. 525 00:32:34,729 --> 00:32:37,090 So that ends, that ends today. 526 00:32:38,050 --> 00:32:41,240 Tomorrow I'm going to go back and fly back to LA and it's a Sunday 527 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,029 and I have a ton of things to do. 528 00:32:43,029 --> 00:32:46,780 And especially because of today of the last three days, I already got 529 00:32:46,780 --> 00:32:50,220 a download of how I need to pivot my offer that I just launched. 530 00:32:50,510 --> 00:32:55,020 Um, And all these things that I need to do to test and, and, and put out there. 531 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,080 Um, but tomorrow, I am not going to work. 532 00:33:00,730 --> 00:33:01,420 I said it. 533 00:33:02,679 --> 00:33:06,594 The moment it came out of my mouth, I'm like, Did I really just say that? 534 00:33:06,594 --> 00:33:08,419 Did I really just say that? 535 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,230 Because that's the problem too, because I actually love to work. 536 00:33:12,230 --> 00:33:12,639 That's the problem. 537 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:17,340 Problem because I'm a freaking workaholic and the problem about that 538 00:33:17,340 --> 00:33:21,019 is realizing that it probably has come from some sort of trauma where I feel 539 00:33:21,020 --> 00:33:22,670 like the need to always do something. 540 00:33:22,689 --> 00:33:27,809 I can't just sit still and actually be okay and be at peace with myself. 541 00:33:27,809 --> 00:33:32,395 I mean look at now it's literally It's really literally like almost 1am. 542 00:33:33,045 --> 00:33:34,568 I have a flight at 7am here. 543 00:33:34,568 --> 00:33:35,594 I am 544 00:33:37,975 --> 00:33:40,165 talking about alignment with my values. 545 00:33:40,465 --> 00:33:42,184 Apparently I don't value my health. 546 00:33:42,185 --> 00:33:44,645 Oh my gosh, I'm such a walking contradiction sometimes. 547 00:33:44,685 --> 00:33:49,014 But, but I just had to get this out today because I feel like I was in a flow. 548 00:33:49,014 --> 00:33:52,925 I was recording an episode every single night when I got back into 549 00:33:52,925 --> 00:33:55,525 my Airbnb after the full day event. 550 00:33:55,555 --> 00:33:57,845 We've been there since 9am this morning. 551 00:33:58,140 --> 00:34:02,770 8am actually for me, I got in early and got a little bit of coaching done, um, 552 00:34:03,340 --> 00:34:06,410 this morning and it's now almost 1am. 553 00:34:06,470 --> 00:34:10,119 I have a 6am flight and here I am still recording this episode, but it's 554 00:34:10,119 --> 00:34:13,569 okay because tomorrow I ain't working. 555 00:34:14,050 --> 00:34:17,429 I'm aligning my business to my value and I'm going to value, 556 00:34:17,429 --> 00:34:20,010 I'm going to show the world. 557 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,430 It doesn't really matter. 558 00:34:22,430 --> 00:34:25,460 I'm just saying like, I'm going to show, I'm just going to, I'm 559 00:34:25,470 --> 00:34:27,470 just going to prove it to myself. 560 00:34:27,500 --> 00:34:28,040 That's it. 561 00:34:28,390 --> 00:34:30,070 That I can do this. 562 00:34:30,419 --> 00:34:32,169 I can put myself first. 563 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,040 I can put my husband first. 564 00:34:34,270 --> 00:34:35,680 I can put God first. 565 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,039 I can put my family first. 566 00:34:37,039 --> 00:34:40,700 I can put my friends first before my business. 567 00:34:42,580 --> 00:34:45,540 I can work from a place of alignment and not hustling. 568 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:47,390 I can do this. 569 00:34:48,620 --> 00:34:49,250 Thanks for listening. 570 00:34:50,590 --> 00:34:54,430 Alright, friends, that's a wrap on today's episode of Wildly Wealthy Life. 571 00:34:54,490 --> 00:34:56,680 We hope you're feeling fired up and ready to take on the 572 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:57,940 world with 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