Curious how to partner.
Speaker:Minimal investment with maximum impact.
Speaker:So Justin Abrams and I break down how to leverage small tests and increase
Speaker:your surface area for luck and build relationships that will propel your
Speaker:growth no matter what field you're in.
Speaker:Let's dive into it.
Speaker:Justin, we're doing this.
Speaker:It's great to have you here, my friend.
Speaker:How are you?
Speaker:I am so good man, and I'm so psyched to be here.
Speaker:This has been a struggle, like we have definitely taken our time to book
Speaker:this episode, and I appreciate you for bobbing and weaving with my crazy life.
Speaker:We'll unpack a little bit of it today, but Joe, I'm psyched to see you again on the
Speaker:podcast and join your show for a change.
Speaker:Yeah man, I was just on yours and, and I mean like, well strictly from
Speaker:nowhere and you can find that you, we'll link all this stuff up here
Speaker:channels we're everywhere as we
Speaker:I mean like I think you just have like such a cool brand and Cool.
Speaker:I know you have a cool vibe and personality.
Speaker:Immediately got along, but we got connected actually through a mutual client
Speaker:of ours doing some, doing some dev work.
Speaker:I was doing more like on the marketing side, you're actually doing the what?
Speaker:The advising and tech side.
Speaker:I mean, you do so much cool stuff, man.
Speaker:So, and then, and then getting to know you on your show.
Speaker:That's why I was like, well, I gotta have you on mine now, you
Speaker:know, to just keep the party going.
Speaker:And of course we'll link you to the, uh, the other episode, but.
Speaker:Yeah, man.
Speaker:Um, you're, you're living, we're both in wild times.
Speaker:I mean, great things happening, new additions to the family.
Speaker:I know on your side, things are, are just, things are popping in in all ways.
Speaker:So what, what keeps you grounded right now that just comes to mind?
Speaker:Like,
Speaker:You know what?
Speaker:There's quite a few things that keep me grounded.
Speaker:I'm gonna, I'm gonna blend the, the three major categories, you know, we'll
Speaker:go like extracurricular, we'll go the professional path and, and family.
Speaker:You know, I'm in a, in a very interesting part of my life
Speaker:as far as family is concerned.
Speaker:There's nothing more grounding than nesting and welcoming
Speaker:a, an infant into the world.
Speaker:So like, I'm very much at home in nuclear, uh, very limited as far as
Speaker:social engagements and things that I'm doing outside of just my, my nuclear,
Speaker:my nuclear wife and son that I have now.
Speaker:And, uh, so that really keeps me very focused and, and that
Speaker:allows me to prioritize the other two categories, which is.
Speaker:The business and my extracurriculars, my my activities.
Speaker:And so I have a really healthy relationship with my business.
Speaker:You know, I often give the advice, Joe, that opportunity is sometimes
Speaker:more important to follow than passion.
Speaker:I'm really lucky to have become passionate about my opportunity that came my way.
Speaker:So for me, being in this business while, you know, like running an agency lifestyle
Speaker:and being a service provider and like.
Speaker:A hectic lifestyle for sure, and like really hard to run this business.
Speaker:But like, I really feel like I was kind of made for all of that.
Speaker:You know, my historical career is in, is in sales, is in client
Speaker:services, is in being a service provider and an expert in my domain.
Speaker:Like, this is just second nature to me.
Speaker:And instead of doing it for an employer, I'm, I'm doing it for myself.
Speaker:And I have the privilege of being an employer, which is a whole
Speaker:different topic we can talk about that I'm really passionate about.
Speaker:And then of course my activities just like really keep me remembering
Speaker:that I'm human and capable and, um, sometimes not so capable.
Speaker:And like, it's really sobering to be an athlete and like, I'm not
Speaker:old at all, but like I'm getting older and I'm aware of my abilities.
Speaker:And we were just talking.
Speaker:We can unpack it if you'd like about some injuries that I'm nursing back and, All
Speaker:of those things, pursuing my activities, everything from climbing to, to I
Speaker:snowboard in the winter and and surfing and cycling, and I could go on and on.
Speaker:I got so many little activities.
Speaker:CrossFit for sure is part of my life and just generally in fitness
Speaker:and wellness and nutrition, like these are all big categories that
Speaker:I'm really super passionate about.
Speaker:But in reality, it, it, it really is all meant to just keep me grounded,
Speaker:keep my head from blowing up, keep me humble, um, keep me pursuing
Speaker:new activities and new adventures and things that just fuel my fire.
Speaker:So, yeah, man, I, I, I have a whole system of ways and continue to evolve
Speaker:ways for myself to, to remain grounded.
Speaker:that's good man.
Speaker:And yeah, it seems like a very, like you can communicate it really
Speaker:well too, whereas, you know, a lot of us just, I mean, it probably
Speaker:helps to have a podcast too.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:And
Speaker:It does a little
Speaker:know, I know you have a great business business partner as
Speaker:well, good friend of yours.
Speaker:So I mean, like that, there's always that too.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:It's right.
Speaker:I see a lot of sim similarities with us too, and also agency owner.
Speaker:It's like you're interfacing with people a lot.
Speaker:It's not like you're just talking to a screen all day or, yeah, no,
Speaker:no fault of their own, but like just creating content all day.
Speaker:But it's like when you're actually with people engaging, solving
Speaker:problems together, building together, it's like you reach, I don't know,
Speaker:there's some something different.
Speaker:'cause I do the same thing naturally.
Speaker:but I'm curious, I, I wanna go back to that whole like,
Speaker:follow the opportunity thing.
Speaker:Like can you unpack that a little bit more and your, your thought behind that.
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:You know, like, um, it's a very, very, uh, mutual belief between
Speaker:me and my business partner.
Speaker:One tangential, just backstory of me and my business partner for your audience.
Speaker:Uh, my, my partner who is also the chief technology officer and
Speaker:chief architect of Cause of a Kind, his name is Michael Rispoli.
Speaker:He's been my friend since we're 15 years old.
Speaker:He's my rock climbing buddy, and like, we're still climbing together
Speaker:a couple days a week and, and like.
Speaker:That's a, that's a relationship built on the foundation of
Speaker:a super intentional sport.
Speaker:And it is one thing to be super passionate about climbing.
Speaker:It's another thing to be really realistic about climbing, because
Speaker:it's quite literally a deadly sport.
Speaker:So while we're very passionate about it.
Speaker:Neither of us were ever gonna be a professional at it.
Speaker:Neither of us was ever going to pursue it as a career.
Speaker:And so that is really the relationship between pursuing
Speaker:passion and pursuing opportunity.
Speaker:If I pursued that as a passion, I probably would not have seen
Speaker:success in any way, shape, or form.
Speaker:I maybe would've ended up working in the climbing industry doing something
Speaker:related to climbing, and it probably would've tainted the activity for me.
Speaker:So when I think about the relationship of opportunity versus passion, and I
Speaker:speak to a lot of young people and a lot of career coaching and just a lot of
Speaker:professional development in general, I'm fortunate to do those types of things.
Speaker:Uh, you often catch the advice from people that are your senior, which
Speaker:is to follow your pers your your passions, pursue your passion, figure
Speaker:out what you like to do, then figure out how to go make a buck at it.
Speaker:Oftentimes, the things that we're passionate about.
Speaker:Are not the opportunities that give us the rest of the formula
Speaker:that lead to a successful life.
Speaker:And so for me it was cool to follow passion, but it was more
Speaker:valuable for me to follow the opportunities that came my way.
Speaker:And I'm lucky enough to be, to have become passionate about the
Speaker:opportunities that came my way.
Speaker:And what I talk about is I'm passionate about people and communicating,
Speaker:and that's where my career I spent.
Speaker:North of 15 years in client services and sales, like that passion of
Speaker:communicating functionally with people and value propositions
Speaker:and being your trusted advisor.
Speaker:That whole formula was, I was so passionate about it, but cool.
Speaker:Put a label on it with a job title so I can catch a paycheck at it.
Speaker:You know, I was, I, I was following the opportunity of creating a business.
Speaker:Did I originally set out to create a service-based business?
Speaker:Not in the slightest.
Speaker:I wanted to be a tech founder.
Speaker:Mike and I have been trying to build software since like 2014.
Speaker:We've had a bunch of failed projects and opportunity came along, which
Speaker:was clients looking for us to solve their problems and build for them.
Speaker:And so we followed that opportunity and have been become quite passionate
Speaker:about the client services motion and about the project development motion and
Speaker:about becoming masters of our domain.
Speaker:And now that passion has become.
Speaker:Part of our rhetoric, it's become quite contagious in what we're known for.
Speaker:And it's like if you want a team so stoked about the problem that you bring
Speaker:their way, go, go talk to these guys.
Speaker:And so now we get to evolve off of that.
Speaker:And now I'm receptive to where opportunity is coming from.
Speaker:And I'm a, I'm a passionate entrepreneur.
Speaker:I'm a passionate operator.
Speaker:I'm passionate about zero to market.
Speaker:And so that opens opportunity up all the way because I'm not pigeonholed.
Speaker:I wanna work with amazing people who have amazing tangential talents.
Speaker:And so opportunity for me is all because my pursuit of passion as a career I
Speaker:didn't do, I pursued opportunity and became passionate about the skill sets
Speaker:I was deploying to the opportunity.
Speaker:And so that's where the advice comes from is awesome.
Speaker:If you're that 1% that can pursue your passion to a level of lifestyle
Speaker:that you would find to be successful.
Speaker:If you're not part of that 1% group, pursue opportunity.
Speaker:Don't get stale.
Speaker:Pursue the next opportunity on top of the experience that you've had.
Speaker:I'm not saying to settle, I definitely do not settle, but there is something
Speaker:to say about pursuing opportunities that come your way and figuring out how
Speaker:to become passionate about the atomic pieces that put that experience together.
Speaker:That's good, man, because I mean, it's, it, it clearly states like one.
Speaker:If you just go to, I'll just shout at your site again cause of a kind.com.
Speaker:I remember when I first looked you guys up, I was like.
Speaker:Oh, damn.
Speaker:This guy is like, these guys.
Speaker:I love the way that you present yourself and it's, it's purely
Speaker:just right in your face.
Speaker:It's, it's not like as a jerk or anything, it's just straight
Speaker:up like, here's who we are.
Speaker:Never miss a website deadline again.
Speaker:Um, uh, what, what is the thing?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You basically are talking about, yeah, get a no bullshit quote right now.
Speaker:I mean, it's just the language you're using.
Speaker:You're just like, yeah, we, we, ridiculous.
Speaker:We're ridiculously easy to do business with.
Speaker:Wanna hop on a quick call.
Speaker:The answer's always yes.
Speaker:You know, it's, um, are there any issues that you find or maybe like
Speaker:as you coach some folks or whatever, like navigating opportunity and, you
Speaker:know, like, uh, issues in getting passionate with an opportunity or,
Speaker:you know, because it's like it can quickly lead to burnout for some folks
Speaker:if you don't approach it correctly.
Speaker:so opportunity shows itself in, in quite a few different ways.
Speaker:I often speak to young people that are in pursuit of their first job, and
Speaker:the hiring market for juniors in any category right now is really difficult.
Speaker:And you may be looking at a really long stint of unpaid internships and lots
Speaker:of folks just cannot afford, literally financially afford an internship.
Speaker:They quite literally need the income
Speaker:Mm.
Speaker:when that's the scenario, an opportunity comes calling.
Speaker:Probably shouldn't have too much of an opinion about how you make money.
Speaker:And it's always easier to find a gig when you have a gig.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:That's just a, that's age old wisdom and advice right there.
Speaker:So it really depends on where you are in your career Projection.
Speaker:It really depends on what your network looks like.
Speaker:It really depends at where you are in your, in the stages of your career.
Speaker:And so opportunity presents itself differently for the different stages.
Speaker:If I'm talking to a younger audience, it is about being employable.
Speaker:Demonstrate your ability to be employable.
Speaker:So if you made it through high school and you didn't have a job.
Speaker:I, I had my first job out.
Speaker:I, I was 12 years old.
Speaker:I was a ca golf course, super accountable.
Speaker:It's the first time I, it is the first time I ever got told f you to my face
Speaker:because of my performance with subpar.
Speaker:That's a way to
Speaker:I never heard that again.
Speaker:And that's a way to learn again, is from some, some super rich local
Speaker:that won't pay you for your round because you just weren't good enough.
Speaker:And so that's a like.
Speaker:Getting a job, demonstrating your employable, demonstrating
Speaker:that you have a pursuit of skills no matter what job you get.
Speaker:Again, the lens you look through, you could become passionate about
Speaker:the core skills that you, that you stitch together for that experience.
Speaker:Or you could just be slogged by it.
Speaker:It could be a drag, but that's all about you, man.
Speaker:Like that's all about the person.
Speaker:And like it depends on the lens that you look in.
Speaker:I can honestly say I've had some really horrible jobs in my life.
Speaker:But I can do, I can dot 'em all together.
Speaker:I can stitch every single job as a formidable experience, and I can tell
Speaker:you a story from each one of those jobs that compounds today, 20 something
Speaker:years later, into a professional career now opportunity for a more and
Speaker:mature professional looks different.
Speaker:It looks like promotional opportunities, it looks like is now the right time after
Speaker:raising kids to start that business.
Speaker:I always wanted to start.
Speaker:It looks like the pursuit of financial freedom.
Speaker:It looks like the pursuit of, of travel and calming down and maybe
Speaker:distributing wisdom, and so opportunity presents itself depends on where you
Speaker:are in the stage of your lifecycle.
Speaker:But man, being a dad of young kids, being, being exposed to the youth and
Speaker:to the next generation of professionals that are out there, the number one thing
Speaker:that I implore is demonstrate employment.
Speaker:I don't care where you had a job.
Speaker:I don't care where you have a job currently.
Speaker:I care that somebody else has a litmus test on you and that you're proven.
Speaker:And now we can all grow into potential.
Speaker:And again, the opportunity will give you new sets of skills to explore that
Speaker:maybe you'll become a professional at.
Speaker:So this is all a compounding experience.
Speaker:I, I love it, man, because with that, yeah, that employable essence, I guess,
Speaker:and however you get in that mode, it changes something in us as well, and
Speaker:the way that we think things through.
Speaker:And obviously if you need to get paid, if you've got that cash flow coming
Speaker:in, you're feeling better, you're more, you're open to more opportunity.
Speaker:You.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Those dark corners that in your mind are now lit up to something quite
Speaker:different, you know, and, and things just show up and you're like, holy crap.
Speaker:It was just
Speaker:I'll give you, I'll, I'll give you another piece on it.
Speaker:I talk about this all the time, uh, in the, in the, in the
Speaker:lens that a lot of folks have.
Speaker:Something in the way, probably something that has to do with social anxiety.
Speaker:I, I had that for a long time in my career too, but I was like pushed off
Speaker:the cliff into networking and, and putting myself out there and being my own
Speaker:advocate and, and et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker:Getting a, getting a job, whatever the heck it is.
Speaker:Putting yourself in those uncomfortable situations, it
Speaker:increases the surface area for luck.
Speaker:So.
Speaker:By opening up that avenue for yourself.
Speaker:You may run into nobody, but you may run into the next thing that happens to you.
Speaker:Good or bad.
Speaker:Luck doesn't always have to be good.
Speaker:It could be bad luck on that day that you run into, but if you
Speaker:stay static, you can guarantee one thing is that momentum is cut off.
Speaker:And so for anybody that is pursuing opportunity or they're passionate about
Speaker:something and want to explore it a little bit deeper, again, I specialize
Speaker:in that zero to market, that zero to one, that getting that minimum
Speaker:imaginative product off the ground and like how can we figure out how to
Speaker:increase our surface area for luck?
Speaker:For young people, it's about getting a job, demonstrating talent, building
Speaker:your small network, getting referrals, taking the next coffee break.
Speaker:Just get out there and make a name for yourself.
Speaker:For the folks that are a little bit mature in their career, you
Speaker:have options now, you now you have experience, you have worldliness,
Speaker:you have a little bit of wisdom.
Speaker:You might, you have a network there.
Speaker:The options are just different, but we're all kind of in the same pursuit
Speaker:of where is the next opportunity coming from for me to say yes or no to?
Speaker:And that comes back to increasing the surface area for luck.
Speaker:That means like, yo, take the day off to go skiing.
Speaker:To treat yourself to the afternoon to go get your nails done or
Speaker:go go out with your friends.
Speaker:It's not really about enjoying the moment.
Speaker:If you're in pursuit of opportunity, you're hungry for it.
Speaker:Every one of those outlets is an opportunity to connect
Speaker:with a new individual, which opens up new opportunity.
Speaker:Dude, and there's a book I wanna recommend here.
Speaker:I think you'll love it.
Speaker:I highly recommend you.
Speaker:You grab it, I mean anyone, it's called Lucky You, and it's
Speaker:by this author, price Bridget.
Speaker:And.
Speaker:The reason why, so I it's, it's like a 50 page thing, fast read, but the whole point
Speaker:is it's, it's all about, well, it's called the psychological strategy for multiplying
Speaker:luck and achieving your big ambitions.
Speaker:So Lucky You is the name.
Speaker:It's not on Amazon.
Speaker:You actually have to buy it through his website.
Speaker:It's like a pamphlet style.
Speaker:So this, this book and also a series of other books was recommended
Speaker:by my friend, um, John Asraf.
Speaker:And he was in The Secret, the movie, and like he's a local buddy of mine
Speaker:here in San Diego Mastermind and he was like, Joe read this book.
Speaker:And then he also, years ago it was some other books, but his is latest one.
Speaker:It's exactly what you're saying, Justin.
Speaker:It's basically like the more you put yourself out there, the more you say
Speaker:yes, the more that you actually engineer.
Speaker:Opportune, like you have a choice to introduce more luck into your life.
Speaker:It's totally up to us.
Speaker:And I love the, the, the way that you say it, it's like,
Speaker:it's the surface area of luck.
Speaker:I'm like, it's, it's absolutely right.
Speaker:I don't think he actually framed it as that, praise Bridget
Speaker:in his book, but it's, you're speaking the same language, so,
Speaker:And let's just like, let's humanize it for a second.
Speaker:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker:Like folks probably look at you and me and think extrovert, and
Speaker:they think like, oh, well it's easy for you to walk outta the house.
Speaker:I. But in reality, man, like I have crazy anxiety level conversations.
Speaker:I've battled with depression for years.
Speaker:I battle with body dysmorphia and my self image, my mind's eye of what I look
Speaker:like in public is quite a bit different from what you actually see on camera.
Speaker:I'm, I'm one of you.
Speaker:I'm one of us.
Speaker:I'm just a regular dude, but like, I refuse to just
Speaker:sit by and watch my life go.
Speaker:And so there's been many years where like.
Speaker:Cumulatively many years of just no action, no activity.
Speaker:I remember just like not feeling valuable, not feeling like I was worthy of any
Speaker:type of job or in pursuit, and I couldn't get an interview and like yada yada.
Speaker:Like I remember all of that.
Speaker:And now it's in this perspective of like, I eat what I kill.
Speaker:So if I don't get out, if I don't go and hit the pavement and figure out where my
Speaker:next deal is coming from, I whole, I have a whole business that I have to make sure
Speaker:I can, I can put payroll through that.
Speaker:I, I gotta find, I, I have staff.
Speaker:I, I have a business partner.
Speaker:We both have families, like the stakes are high, my house is leveraged.
Speaker:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker:Like, there is no opportunity for me to sit, feel bad for myself and complacent,
Speaker:yet I battle with all of these things.
Speaker:That's just the reality of just being a man and being human.
Speaker:And so.
Speaker:I don't have some crazy formula.
Speaker:I I, I don't have like, you know, some spiritual coach that's
Speaker:taken me from left and right.
Speaker:Like I just have a ref, a refusal to just be regular and like I have
Speaker:this saying and my partner and I have this saying, which is like, I'd
Speaker:rather be canceled than irrelevant.
Speaker:And that's where like my personal brand comes from and like.
Speaker:Yeah, just, this is me, man.
Speaker:These are my battles and struggles and the things that I have for
Speaker:myself accomplished, and, and, and man, does it feel good when I
Speaker:can give a nugget to somebody and see the light bulb go off, but I'm
Speaker:just a regular Joe Schmo, you know?
Speaker:Was there like, 'cause I, I, I'm right there with you Justin.
Speaker:I've, I've, I very similar.
Speaker:We're a mirror, right?
Speaker:Like we're all mirrors and um, like I know physical activity for me, jujitsu for
Speaker:you, you do like, I mean, I do some other stuff, but you do like a whole my, of my,
Speaker:whatever that word is.
Speaker:Uh, do you think that helps you break out of that a little bit?
Speaker:Like to maybe not loosen me up, but at least open up a new layer and
Speaker:then also as you answer that, like.
Speaker:How do you get stuck?
Speaker:Like when you get stuck and when you got stuck in the past?
Speaker:Like how do you feel like you've shaken yourself outta that rut
Speaker:you know, I, I used to, I used to do my activities self servingly,
Speaker:and if you look at the activities that I do, they're all very much
Speaker:individual contributor activities.
Speaker:I'm a rock climber.
Speaker:If you climb on rope, you need one other person on the other end of the
Speaker:rope, and like, it's very much just like not a networking experience.
Speaker:I'm a CrossFitter.
Speaker:You can go to a class, keep your head down, do your exercise,
Speaker:and get out and go home.
Speaker:Uh, I'm a golfer.
Speaker:You, you could just join a foursome at your local municipal and like not make
Speaker:friends and not evangelize yourself and just play your round of golf.
Speaker:Keep your head down.
Speaker:So forth and so on.
Speaker:You can ask me about every one of my activities.
Speaker:I use my activities as an opportunity to let my hair down, be authentically
Speaker:myself and have unburied conversations that don't sound like sales pitches.
Speaker:So I show up to the gym and I prioritize the people that are standing around.
Speaker:I go outta my way to make that five second friend have an introduction.
Speaker:What do you do?
Speaker:What are you building?
Speaker:What do you care about?
Speaker:And what ends up happening again, it all comes back to increasing
Speaker:that surface area of luck.
Speaker:I can't tell you how many times I've been on the golf course that
Speaker:has turned into a lead opportunity for us and has turned into deals.
Speaker:And so then you figure out different ways of compounding your experience.
Speaker:For example, I, I believe that your first impression is your last
Speaker:impression, so I don't just give somebody a way to remember me.
Speaker:I give them something they'll never forget and throw away.
Speaker:And so this is my business card and I put a QR code on it, and I just, I have
Speaker:come up with little systems that make me the most memorable person of your day.
Speaker:And so when I leave the house to go do the things I really enjoy.
Speaker:I have a conversation with myself in the car while I'm having anxiety about getting
Speaker:out and doing that thing, which is, it's okay if you want to go and be quiet and
Speaker:put your head down today, but you'll probably kick yourself if you realize that
Speaker:the person that was gonna change your life was in that gym with you at that moment.
Speaker:Was, was in that foursome with you while you were playing golf,
Speaker:was in the surf lineup with you, was at the campsite next over.
Speaker:So I just literally.
Speaker:Excuse my language mind, fuck myself into believing that this
Speaker:opportunity is the opportunity.
Speaker:And usually it's not.
Speaker:Like, usually it's not how many times you go out, you just strike out.
Speaker:It's just another casual day.
Speaker:It could just be a lame conversation at the, but you're fine.
Speaker:It's all good.
Speaker:You connected?
Speaker:fine.
Speaker:And my, my whole goal is to, is to give value.
Speaker:I give, give, give.
Speaker:Like I, I, I never ask for the order.
Speaker:It's part of my sales strategy.
Speaker:A customer has to ask me for the paperwork.
Speaker:So.
Speaker:For me, it's more about giving and, and, and, and connecting on conversation.
Speaker:And like if you get past those first few moments of like weird
Speaker:pleasantry introductions in American culture, you really unlock like a
Speaker:lot of uniqueness but also a lot of crazy similarities between people.
Speaker:And that's why you and I vibe because we got, we got over the hump of just
Speaker:simple introductions and we really got to unpack each other's story.
Speaker:And like here we are simpatico 3000 miles away, running in parallel.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:true, man, because every, like you just start chip, chip away from
Speaker:those little, yeah, I don't know, western bears or whatever we set
Speaker:up for ourselves and I think that's probably part of the issues of
Speaker:social.
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:There's a greater thing happening with society I feel like right
Speaker:now, where we gotta figure out.
Speaker:How to get back to people and just communicating in person ideally, you
Speaker:know, um, that's why I love going to the, yeah, like the Jiujitsu gym.
Speaker:I freaking love it because like you get to connect with people
Speaker:on a whole different level.
Speaker:Obviously you're choking each other out too, so it's like Oh, absolutely.
Speaker:A whole different level,
Speaker:Do you trust me now?
Speaker:yeah, I'm like, actually I do, you know?
Speaker:So, yeah.
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:Like there's, I feel like we all need something like, but it's up to us
Speaker:to show up and engage in the moment.
Speaker:I I agree.
Speaker:a human bureau.
Speaker:It's okay.
Speaker:we went as far as.
Speaker:We created the Long Island Technologist Networking Group.
Speaker:So like I, I was a little bit burnt out after a career of
Speaker:traveling into New York City.
Speaker:My partner, same thing, but like I'm craving in person networking experiences.
Speaker:I'm, I'm part of all sorts of different membership related networking groups,
Speaker:executive round tables, leadership coaching and mentorship groups.
Speaker:Like I've pursued all of these things, the pursuit of wisdom and knowledge
Speaker:and make fewer mistakes as a business owner was the fuel behind that.
Speaker:But we found this moment in opportunity, which was, how can I increase the
Speaker:surface area for luck for everybody else?
Speaker:Again, it's part of like my giving mentality.
Speaker:So we created Long Island technologists.com.
Speaker:Not a, not the most beautiful website you'll ever see, but it
Speaker:is, it is an open source project if anybody wants to contribute to it.
Speaker:Uh, and the goal was every 45 days we meet at the origin location of cause
Speaker:of a Kind, which is a small coffee shop in a town called Farmingdale.
Speaker:And we bring together technologists, technology enthusiasts, brand
Speaker:developers, uh, if you're working in the soft skills within the technology
Speaker:arena, which is project sales, client services, revenue ops, whatever, hr,
Speaker:if you're related to tech in any way, we built our own networking event.
Speaker:So now what I, I, I'm literally do doing what I'm preaching, which is.
Speaker:I increased my own surface area for luck.
Speaker:Most folks are coming to see me and my partner.
Speaker:That's how they found out about it in the first place.
Speaker:Yet they leave with a Rolodex.
Speaker:They leave with a handshake and an opportunity.
Speaker:And I'm filling the room with business owners.
Speaker:I'm filling the room with thought leaders.
Speaker:I'm filling the room with juniors.
Speaker:And the whole idea is get these people together.
Speaker:If you're having trouble in the job market, I'll bring the job market to you.
Speaker:And so now that has grown into like a significant passion project for
Speaker:us, but it's all based on this.
Speaker:Increased my surface area for luck, self servingly.
Speaker:And if I can do that at scale for everybody else, maybe the next great
Speaker:opportunity comes along for me too.
Speaker:Dude, it will and it, I'm sure it does every single time more than you
Speaker:can ever even imagine or handle even.
Speaker:more, more than I think I can record and things now, and we're
Speaker:in a nice position of that.
Speaker:That sounds great.
Speaker:Probably not best for me and what I'm trying to build, and I wish you luck.
Speaker:And so now it's a really cool opportunity of distilling what's the
Speaker:right opportunity for us to pursue.
Speaker:Or Yeah, that, and then you could pass it off to maybe someone in that
Speaker:network and be like, you know what?
Speaker:I know Jim over
Speaker:Uh, at the end of the day, I, I'm just the plug, I'm just the plug.
Speaker:I, I just wanna connect two resources together.
Speaker:That's like, so satisfying to me.
Speaker:I get like, I get.
Speaker:I get so much out of that man, like just fuels me.
Speaker:I don't even have to be part of the extended discussion, but like
Speaker:connecting two individuals together.
Speaker:Let them watch 'em make some magic.
Speaker:Man, I, I could just do, if you can get paid for that just to be the
Speaker:connector, that would be my jam.
Speaker:I mean, you probably are in some ways.
Speaker:I know I have been because I, I, I find myself in the same role, and
Speaker:when you do it naturally, I mean, you're not expecting anything, but
Speaker:you might get some more referrals.
Speaker:Like that's how I'm saying, you probably gotten paid for it and you're like, boom.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:That's right.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's not direct.
Speaker:tell me, uh, or walk me through this whole minimum imaginative product,
Speaker:because this is the MIP we dubbed it on your podcast, I think, but, uh,
Speaker:you, you break it down because you're the man going from a zero, this idea
Speaker:of nothing or maybe something a little bit of something to doing something.
Speaker:Uh, I think it's a great opportunity also to kind of just weave in modern
Speaker:tooling and a little bit of ai and like, how, how does this work?
Speaker:So let, let's give a full thought on this.
Speaker:Um, I build software Cause of a Kind builds software and web
Speaker:experience for cause back mission driven and innovating businesses.
Speaker:I, I build software.
Speaker:So you can imagine that I've hear, I've heard every acronym that
Speaker:you could possibly imagine about building first software or or
Speaker:second beta release software, or my minimum viable product or yada yada.
Speaker:So I went down this like rabbit hole of trying to catalog all the minimums.
Speaker:You have like a minimum marketable product.
Speaker:You have a minimum viable product, minimum revenue generating product.
Speaker:There's all these minimums, but there was never anything
Speaker:that had to do with the, the.
Speaker:The minimum idea, and this is like a Steve Jobs concept like this.
Speaker:This goes back to some of the greatest founders and like this is a, this
Speaker:is like a, a Ben Franklin concept.
Speaker:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker:It's like what is the minimum imaginative product doesn't have to
Speaker:be like your minimum viable, which which means it lives and breathes.
Speaker:I can interact with it.
Speaker:Maybe I can generate revenue, maybe it can get users, maybe it
Speaker:can sell something, et cetera.
Speaker:This has to do with.
Speaker:Your shower moment, your traffic moment.
Speaker:This has to do with like you're on a call and like it comes to you and
Speaker:you wrote it down and like, what is the next series of steps that you
Speaker:take to see if something has a pulse?
Speaker:It's not a heartbeat.
Speaker:This is not really about can this live and breathe on its own.
Speaker:This isn't about does it have blood supply and brain power.
Speaker:This is about inception and so.
Speaker:I built this whole program.
Speaker:It's on YouTube should anybody really care about it.
Speaker:It's called Inception Marketing.
Speaker:And it really has to do with the earliest possible marketing motion
Speaker:to prove viability for an idea.
Speaker:And so we always talk about, especially with building softwares, I see a
Speaker:lot of fresh founders and startups I that are, that are bootstrapped,
Speaker:and you have to be very delicate with the bootstrapping entrepreneur.
Speaker:It's typically life savings.
Speaker:It could be retirement count account.
Speaker:Y and, and it's somebody's emotional passion project that they've
Speaker:been thinking about for years.
Speaker:And lots of times they come with like this big baked product, this roadmap,
Speaker:this big design package, like this big
Speaker:out Proma.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:all this stuff.
Speaker:And I'm like, Hey, the most expensive piece of this comes in twofold.
Speaker:One is building it.
Speaker:The other one is marketing it, and those are your two major
Speaker:expenses that you're up against.
Speaker:Of course, you can bloat in any other avenue.
Speaker:You can get super bloated in design.
Speaker:You can get super bloated in branding, and I've seen all of those things happen.
Speaker:But my fiduciary responsibility without having a license on the line, my
Speaker:fiduciary responsibility from founder to founder is to make sure that if I
Speaker:build your idea, it fucking works and that you're successful from that idea.
Speaker:And so the minimum imaginative product and my inception marketing strategy is to test
Speaker:whether your idea has legs, has a pulse.
Speaker:And so I created this formula that gives folks the opportunity
Speaker:to use modern tooling.
Speaker:This is nothing outta the ordinary.
Speaker:This is like, uh, go on Instagram and figure out the keyword or hashtag strategy
Speaker:for like the atomic pieces of your idea.
Speaker:And is anybody having a conversation about that topic?
Speaker:And then categorize the signal.
Speaker:If nobody's having a conversation about it, that's a red flag.
Speaker:Like is it so unique and so original that there's no
Speaker:consumer market available for it?
Speaker:Or the opposite is it so saturated that like you'll just be one of a million, in
Speaker:which case there's a formula for that.
Speaker:If that's the category you want to get into, especially for CPG and
Speaker:for food and for beauty and cool, like there's formulas for all that.
Speaker:This can be like utilizing tooling.
Speaker:So I'm, I'm a big proponent for leveraging AI for right now.
Speaker:This is, this is a perfect example for, for, you know, your open AI
Speaker:chat GPT scenario or, or Gemini or whatever you're gonna interact with.
Speaker:Grok is great for this type of thing, which is build, build me a small
Speaker:inception product for X idea and I wanna see what it would take to
Speaker:get it from, from zero to market.
Speaker:Not necessarily zero to built, not to revenue, not to user adoption, not
Speaker:to fundraising, like whatever your milestones are that you're categorizing.
Speaker:To get it to the ini, the initial blip of light, that initial pulse, is it possible.
Speaker:And so leveraging tools, especially chat agents that can just help us to kind of
Speaker:just take our gibberish thought, even a voice note or something when you're
Speaker:in the car and speak that idea to life.
Speaker:But the way that you interact with the AI agent isn't, Hey, build
Speaker:me a business plan for this idea.
Speaker:'cause it'll just execute.
Speaker:It's break.
Speaker:My idea, does it exist?
Speaker:Is there anybody else in the market that currently has it?
Speaker:Do you see any other conversations?
Speaker:Is there any user feedback from this problem?
Speaker:Can you take a look at forums like a Reddit, like a Quora can?
Speaker:Can you take a look and see and build me a case as to why I should take the next
Speaker:step and make an investment in this?
Speaker:And so I'm using the tooling in a way which is helping me to protect myself.
Speaker:Am I going down a path that I. Should anticipate failure, in which case I need
Speaker:a different set of skills and body armor to protect myself along the way versus
Speaker:how I built Long Island Technologists.
Speaker:For example, I ran this program through Long Island Technologists.
Speaker:I said, is there an appetite?
Speaker:So I used platforms like Eventbrite to see is there a local appetite?
Speaker:And sure enough, you find that the historical technology focused networking
Speaker:groups that have taken place are few and far between, but they all have sold out.
Speaker:Every time one of those come into play, they sell out.
Speaker:So hey, that's a super good signal for me to say, Hey, if
Speaker:I create one, it will sell out.
Speaker:So why don't we create one?
Speaker:If it doesn't sell out, I'll cancel the event.
Speaker:Like protect myself from the public shame,
Speaker:Not that difficult to do.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Right, but, but sure enough, as you go through this formula
Speaker:and you figure out like, Hey, okay, there's a market for this.
Speaker:It's not a saturated market.
Speaker:There's an opportunity here.
Speaker:I could put my wrinkle on this thing.
Speaker:Let's have the first one.
Speaker:And so that minimum imagination puts you down this pathway
Speaker:of just proving or disproving whether the problem is solvable.
Speaker:And then from there, you can then determine what's the next step that I
Speaker:need to take to make it a viable solution.
Speaker:And so this really came out of, I've heard every acronym under the sun for people
Speaker:building software and building businesses and companies and all these things.
Speaker:And I was like, Hey, there has to be something that takes place
Speaker:prior to the minimum viable product because most people are so far
Speaker:away from minimum viable product.
Speaker:You.
Speaker:You have you.
Speaker:I'm sure you know, but I'll say it just for theatrics.
Speaker:You have no idea how many people come across my desk that wanna rebuild Uber.
Speaker:Or rebuild Etsy, and I'm like, you realize that the minimum viable product
Speaker:has to be at parody of one of these platforms, and these are billion
Speaker:dollar publicly traded companies.
Speaker:So we're not talking minimum viable because I know what viability looks
Speaker:like to compete in that arena.
Speaker:I. We're talking minimum imaginative.
Speaker:We're talking minimum marketable.
Speaker:Can you get people to drive to a landing page?
Speaker:We're talking minimum buyable.
Speaker:Can you have your first product that you sell for a fraction of
Speaker:what you anticipate, just to see if there's throughput in generating
Speaker:revenue, and so forth and so on.
Speaker:There's this whole, this whole list of things that happen
Speaker:before minimum viability.
Speaker:See, this is why.
Speaker:This is probably why you could sell so many, uh, and not sell because pe
Speaker:people are inviting themselves to work with you as, uh, an agency of your own.
Speaker:That that helps bring people's, uh, web applications to life, you know,
Speaker:their web properties, whatever it is.
Speaker:'cause you're literally getting, you're building trust through this process.
Speaker:It's, it's rational.
Speaker:It's when you start to think about it, you're like, oh yeah, duh.
Speaker:I should probably prove out my idea in the smallest little bit possible.
Speaker:First, uh, using next to no cash.
Speaker:Maybe, uh, you know, platforms we're already on, like Instagram or
Speaker:Eventbrite or these free platforms.
Speaker:You don't have to drop 10 a hundred k or whatever it is to go build out your MVP.
Speaker:and then if you really take a look at a, at a. Uh, a little
Speaker:bit of a dark side of building, especially in the technology arena.
Speaker:It's fashionable these days to pursue profitability.
Speaker:For the last 10, 15, 20 years of building software, it was
Speaker:unfashionable to be profitable.
Speaker:And so it depends on where you're at in the stage of your life.
Speaker:But if you're a bootstrapping founder with a big idea.
Speaker:You, you, I implore you to pursue profitability.
Speaker:And so if the idea that you're thinking about sinking your life savings into does
Speaker:not have a path to profitability, hold on.
Speaker:Like sa, save the nest egg.
Speaker:Put, put in a savings account, high yield with four point a half
Speaker:percent interest, like compound the cash in some creative way.
Speaker:Deploy it in a way that'll make your income some other way.
Speaker:But if you can prove before you ever spent a dollar on development
Speaker:that it's not gonna work.
Speaker:That's also a very sobering experience to go through as well.
Speaker:And there are not very many founders out there that failed wisely.
Speaker:They, they fail having done the thing with the wisdom, having failed through
Speaker:the moment, having burned the cash pile, having burned the relationship with the
Speaker:engineer, having shipped it overseas and spent 160,000 where they thought it would
Speaker:be at a fraction of what they spent here locally, but they couldn't articulate the
Speaker:problem or whatever, whatever, whatever.
Speaker:So there had to be this life that occurs before you break ground.
Speaker:And so I wish that more, um, I wish that more service providers would take a
Speaker:little bit more of a, a, a trust based, I call it fiduciary responsibility.
Speaker:I, I have a financial and compliance background, uh, a fiduciary
Speaker:responsibility in the various stages that they contribute to.
Speaker:For example, if I was, if I was a, a, a brand designer, if that was like my thing
Speaker:and that's what people are coming to me for, I would take, I would take them
Speaker:through a process that determines whether their brand can live in that arena or not.
Speaker:And so I, I just don't know if service providers, there's probably
Speaker:a panic to acquire new customers.
Speaker:There probably isn't uncertain economically, like all sorts of
Speaker:different reasons that, that prevent people from taking that extra step.
Speaker:For me.
Speaker:I'm trying to build an investible business.
Speaker:I'm trying to build a business, uh, that has incredible retention for
Speaker:the talent density that we acquire.
Speaker:I'm trying to build a business that has a portfolio of true,
Speaker:full on success stories.
Speaker:I'm trying to build my accelerator into an incubator that eventually can
Speaker:feed the venture capital community and private equity community.
Speaker:So my goals of building this business are a little bit different than just
Speaker:taking a mon, taking the money and running and being a little bit, you
Speaker:know, negligent of somebody's goals.
Speaker:I have a responsibility to me, my team and Cause of a Kind as a brand
Speaker:to make sure that the partners that we bring on a, have an appetite
Speaker:for the type of model that we have.
Speaker:Because I'm di I'm very different from, from most businesses that we come across
Speaker:in the way that we engage, but also like.
Speaker:Is the ride appropriate?
Speaker:Is the mission there?
Speaker:Is it a cause back focused business?
Speaker:Are they innovating appropriately?
Speaker:Do they have realistic expectations of what the technology can do for them?
Speaker:Is the timeline practical?
Speaker:And, and so forth.
Speaker:And so my sales process is more of a disqualification experience than it
Speaker:is trying to sell you on something.
Speaker:That's trust based right there.
Speaker:And like, who doesn't want to have, who doesn't wanna
Speaker:engage with someone like that?
Speaker:And you're, it's not gonna be a quick, quick in, out kind of project.
Speaker:You're, you're in it for the life of that relationship, ideally.
Speaker:I mean, shouldn't we all, like we're gonna Yeah.
Speaker:It goes for any kinda relationship in person too.
Speaker:So like extend that here in business.
Speaker:And I freaking love it.
Speaker:Justin.
Speaker:Um, I mean this, the whole, the whole process, what you just described
Speaker:can be applied in so many ways.
Speaker:Both ai, not ai, but like what you said, there's so many tools where you can take
Speaker:what you just said to chat t to, you know, you could vibe code, even though vibe code
Speaker:is riddled with all sorts of issues too.
Speaker:But it can get an idea out at least, you know,
Speaker:just don't think that's gonna be your go-to market
Speaker:strategy against Lyft or Uber.
Speaker:But, um,
Speaker:Right, right, right.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:But, uh, dude, I mean the, you got my brain spinning in so many ways
Speaker:and, um, I just, I just love the, the perspective you bring, man.
Speaker:So
Speaker:Thanks, Joe.
Speaker:I wanna wrap it up right here, but, uh, what is, I guess, what's one
Speaker:always kind of thinking like, what's, what are you most excited for in, I
Speaker:mean, obviously I think I know on a personal level what you're excited for.
Speaker:Like maybe you can, you can say that too, but anything else, like in terms of.
Speaker:Just what we talked about, like your Yeah.
Speaker:Growth.
Speaker:I, I would say in your next like five years, how do you think you're gonna
Speaker:evolve into a whole different version of you, you know, just in, I don't know, it's
Speaker:probably 10.0 at this point or, or beyond.
Speaker:Anything else?
Speaker:Anything on your radar you think you're gonna do to uplevel?
Speaker:I'll, I'll, I'll go as far as, I have never said my daughter's name out loud.
Speaker:I'm expecting a daughter in the next three weeks, which is an interesting, um, it's
Speaker:an interesting measurement of time, right.
Speaker:So like my, I, I have a son, he's four, what I've accomplished
Speaker:in the last four years.
Speaker:He was born with $4 and 7 cents in my bank account.
Speaker:And like I was not sure if we were coming or going or what
Speaker:the hell the situation was.
Speaker:And so what has been accomplished over the last four years is a, a true testament.
Speaker:And I heard a very interesting, um, quote, probably from, from Instagram,
Speaker:I think it was either LinkedIn or Instagram, and it was an image.
Speaker:And it said on the day you were born, a tree was planted somewhere in the world.
Speaker:And that tree has been growing alongside of you for your entire journey.
Speaker:And so I'll, I'll dedicate this episode to my daughter.
Speaker:Her name will be Story True Abrams.
Speaker:And you know, we had a little, uh, uh, we had a short conversation before this
Speaker:podcast of, of our journey and trying to achieve story, and it has been a
Speaker:hell of a story, and maybe one day I'll record it, so I'll dedicate this to her.
Speaker:But the reason why I bring this up is because I will use her as
Speaker:the next measurement of time.
Speaker:For the next four years, and I just say four years because my son is
Speaker:four in the next couple of weeks.
Speaker:And like I can fully measure the success and all the tribulations and everything
Speaker:that's happened over the last four years.
Speaker:I don't know what's gonna happen.
Speaker:But I do have hopes, and I don't even necessarily label them as goals, but I,
Speaker:I do have hopes and their, their hopes for me and my nuclear family of course,
Speaker:but it's really hopes for my impact.
Speaker:And so I, I. I was fortunate enough to listen to a presentation not too long
Speaker:ago at the Long Island Technologists Meetup, where the presentation was
Speaker:about, um, what are the two words?
Speaker:If you had to summarize your personal brand into two words, what would it be?
Speaker:And shout out to Carolina Luna and my home girl, and she gave an amazing presentation
Speaker:on distilling your personal brand.
Speaker:And if you have one second with somebody, what do you tell them is your purpose?
Speaker:And so for me, I distilled my two words into drive impact.
Speaker:And so I don't really know what I'm gonna get myself into.
Speaker:I'm a chronic entrepreneur.
Speaker:We didn't really get into my seven generations
Speaker:No, I know.
Speaker:story, but I'm a chronic entrepreneur.
Speaker:Um, I run multiple businesses at this point, so in various stages of, of, of,
Speaker:of, uh, in various stages of, of maturity.
Speaker:And so my entire goal comes back to how we kind of started this
Speaker:conversation, which is about increasing my own surface area for luck.
Speaker:But I don't want to do that.
Speaker:Without knowing that what I am doing with my time is driving impact to others.
Speaker:And so this comes back to a real childhood pursuit of mine.
Speaker:Like when I was four years old, like my kid, I wanted to be a doctor.
Speaker:I went to medical school or tried to go to medical school and you know,
Speaker:my old, my whole pursuit was for patient care and not so much patient
Speaker:care, but family care and, and being a really stable bedside opportunity
Speaker:for folks that are in challenging.
Speaker:Moments of their life.
Speaker:And so I've carried that all throughout my experience and it's
Speaker:what's made me a very good ambassador from a client services perspective
Speaker:for the companies that I work for.
Speaker:It's what makes me a trusted advisor through a sales process.
Speaker:It's what allows me to be a successful entrepreneur and pursue
Speaker:new businesses and be a great partner for strangers that come along my way.
Speaker:And so my, my real goal and my hope and what's gonna happen
Speaker:for the next couple of years.
Speaker:Probably a lot of compounding of what currently is going on.
Speaker:A lot of growth.
Speaker:You inspire the heck outta me, man.
Speaker:Like your, your podcast Hustle and Flow chart, the volume of, of, of episodes that
Speaker:you've recorded, the extent of the network people that you're a household memory for.
Speaker:You know, I, I believe that we are, are chronicling with, with our
Speaker:podcast the journey of our life.
Speaker:And so I'm super bullish and passionate about my own podcast and I can't wait.
Speaker:For some of the folks that I emulate, you know, like I have this vision of
Speaker:having Steven Bartlett, diary of a CEO aren't strictly from nowhere and like
Speaker:stand toe to toe with a titan and like, I just like, man, the, the, the, the
Speaker:opportunity to drive impact to people.
Speaker:Those are the, those are the types of guys like the, you, you could
Speaker:be a chronic entrepreneur and have your hat in 50 different things.
Speaker:You can have a full on family and lifestyle.
Speaker:You can have a public forum where.
Speaker:You're not only finding the blend of creativity, but also of, of philanthropy
Speaker:and activity and meaning in this life.
Speaker:And so, so my goal is to, you know, get to the end and look back and
Speaker:be like, yo, that kid killed it.
Speaker:You didn't leave anything out there, man.
Speaker:You, you did it all, man.
Speaker:Uh, it's gonna happen.
Speaker:You'll have Steven on and we're gonna keep chronicling
Speaker:by the way, like, yes, you will strictly from nowhere.
Speaker:Go check out Justin's podcast.
Speaker:It's over at cause of a kind.com.
Speaker:And, and seriously, man, I, I love everything you bring to the table
Speaker:and you literally bring it all to the table, wear it on your sleeve.
Speaker:So I appreciate you for being you here and literally everywhere.
Speaker:So,
Speaker:I have one version I talked to, I talked to my wife about this.
Speaker:I got one version.
Speaker:Come and meet me,
Speaker:It's a great version, man.
Speaker:So appreciate you, man.
Speaker:And you're gonna be meeting story very soon too.
Speaker:I'm stoked
Speaker:Thank you so much, man.
Speaker:You're a blessing to me.
Speaker:I, I wish you forward to extraordinary, man.
Speaker:Thank you so much.