1 00:00:02,570 --> 00:00:06,318 So this is the hey. Hey, you guys. I am back 2 00:00:06,404 --> 00:00:10,042 with a fresh episode on insights 3 00:00:10,106 --> 00:00:13,726 from my trip from Bali. I hope you 4 00:00:13,748 --> 00:00:17,406 guys enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed putting it 5 00:00:17,428 --> 00:00:18,000 together. 6 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,590 Okay? Now 7 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,484 I'm going to go live in just 8 00:00:31,522 --> 00:00:32,300 a minute. 9 00:00:43,020 --> 00:00:43,770 Okay? 10 00:00:47,770 --> 00:00:50,780 If I can go live. We're about to find out. 11 00:01:00,980 --> 00:01:04,560 Greetings, I am back from Bali. 12 00:01:04,980 --> 00:01:08,828 For those of you who are watching me live, my T shirt could not be 13 00:01:08,934 --> 00:01:12,100 more timely with the word grateful written across 14 00:01:12,170 --> 00:01:15,652 it. So excited to be back from my ten day 15 00:01:15,706 --> 00:01:19,492 retreat from Bali, and I'm bringing to you guys a 16 00:01:19,546 --> 00:01:22,900 special episode on insights from my trip 17 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,336 as I speak to you, a little nasally. I travel for ten days. I go 18 00:01:27,358 --> 00:01:30,948 across the globe and catch nothing. I come home to kids with a cold 19 00:01:31,044 --> 00:01:34,490 and now I've got one. So there you go. So 20 00:01:34,860 --> 00:01:38,028 pardon the nasallyness, if that's a word. 21 00:01:38,194 --> 00:01:41,756 So why, first of all, did I even go to 22 00:01:41,778 --> 00:01:44,796 Bali? And we're going to get into this today, but it was really about 23 00:01:44,978 --> 00:01:48,752 consciously surrendering and letting go of the reins. And I'll speak 24 00:01:48,806 --> 00:01:52,384 more to that in a minute. But what you're going to hear 25 00:01:52,422 --> 00:01:56,176 about in this episode today, the key takeaways that 26 00:01:56,198 --> 00:02:00,048 I'm going to talk about with my trip to Bali were, 27 00:02:00,134 --> 00:02:03,764 one, the concept of conscious surrendering. So we're going to talk about 28 00:02:03,802 --> 00:02:07,444 that why I went on this journey. Number two, we're going to talk 29 00:02:07,482 --> 00:02:10,580 about lessons in traversing the unknown. 30 00:02:11,180 --> 00:02:14,200 We're also going to talk about the gratitude 31 00:02:14,700 --> 00:02:17,640 of the country and what I brought home from 32 00:02:17,790 --> 00:02:21,496 experiencing a level I'd never experienced before when it comes 33 00:02:21,518 --> 00:02:24,412 to gratitude, we're going to talk about 34 00:02:24,466 --> 00:02:28,124 experiences over things, going to talk about 35 00:02:28,162 --> 00:02:31,724 that. And then also the power of the 36 00:02:31,762 --> 00:02:35,432 energy and the energetic vortex and just the key term 37 00:02:35,496 --> 00:02:39,228 energy as it relates to Bali. So that's what 38 00:02:39,234 --> 00:02:42,832 I'm going to talk about today. So let's just jump right 39 00:02:42,886 --> 00:02:46,656 in to the conscious surrendering piece because I got a lot 40 00:02:46,678 --> 00:02:49,088 of questions from a lot of people who are like, oh my God, what are 41 00:02:49,094 --> 00:02:52,916 you doing going all the way across the globe to Bali? I've got 42 00:02:52,938 --> 00:02:56,564 these three little kids and these businesses and well, my first response is, 43 00:02:56,602 --> 00:03:00,070 why the hell not? I actually 44 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,132 love the life I've created and the schedule I've created because 45 00:03:04,186 --> 00:03:07,992 I don't have to wait till I retire to hop a plane and spend 46 00:03:08,046 --> 00:03:11,448 ten days somewhere experiencing a different culture in a different world. 47 00:03:11,614 --> 00:03:15,196 Not necessarily a different world, but it felt like a different world. And so why 48 00:03:15,218 --> 00:03:18,952 the hell not, right? But secondly, there actually was intention 49 00:03:19,016 --> 00:03:22,524 around it. And counterintuitive as it sounds, the 50 00:03:22,562 --> 00:03:26,152 intention was to surrender being in control. The intention 51 00:03:26,216 --> 00:03:29,660 was to stop holding the reins, being in charge 52 00:03:29,740 --> 00:03:33,392 right after an epic run, literally a week after 53 00:03:33,446 --> 00:03:37,104 closing down our launch, where we did nearly a million dollars in sales in 54 00:03:37,142 --> 00:03:40,980 less than two weeks. Becoming a best selling author for the second 55 00:03:41,050 --> 00:03:44,852 time. All of this happening in the same month, right? It was time 56 00:03:44,906 --> 00:03:48,500 to slow down and ask the universe, 57 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,936 what does it want from me? 58 00:03:53,118 --> 00:03:56,580 I've been so blessed. I have incredible clients 59 00:03:56,660 --> 00:04:00,328 who've said, yes, what does the 60 00:04:00,334 --> 00:04:04,088 universe want more of? It was time to pause and 61 00:04:04,174 --> 00:04:07,244 listen about what's to come for 62 00:04:07,282 --> 00:04:10,940 2024, right? What's the next level? 63 00:04:11,010 --> 00:04:14,860 What's ascension for me? What does growth look like? And unless you're still 64 00:04:15,010 --> 00:04:18,764 and create space to receive, how 65 00:04:18,802 --> 00:04:22,384 will you ever get clarity, right? So it was time for 66 00:04:22,422 --> 00:04:26,176 me to go there and really, I'll tell you and we'll talk a little bit 67 00:04:26,198 --> 00:04:29,532 about this later, but I was able to get massive downloads 68 00:04:29,676 --> 00:04:33,476 on my direction for the next year, right? We'll talk about 69 00:04:33,498 --> 00:04:36,916 it in a little bit. But I would have never had the space had I 70 00:04:36,938 --> 00:04:40,372 not taken this trip to consciously surrender and be that 71 00:04:40,426 --> 00:04:43,896 creative and tap into my subconscious and create the 72 00:04:43,918 --> 00:04:47,448 space I was consciously allowing to 73 00:04:47,534 --> 00:04:51,048 receive. I want to use. This word 74 00:04:51,134 --> 00:04:54,716 calculated receptivity literally paving a 75 00:04:54,738 --> 00:04:58,124 path creating space blocking out all the 76 00:04:58,162 --> 00:05:01,884 noise so that I could receive and be a student 77 00:05:02,082 --> 00:05:05,804 be an open vessel. Because I spend the large majority of my 78 00:05:05,842 --> 00:05:09,216 days every day being the teacher, being the 79 00:05:09,238 --> 00:05:12,892 boss, being the mom, being the leader, being the decision maker. 80 00:05:12,956 --> 00:05:16,640 Right? Being the visionary. And so it was a time to 81 00:05:16,710 --> 00:05:20,212 receive the gift and the bounty I had received from 82 00:05:20,266 --> 00:05:24,064 working hard and receive the feminine 83 00:05:24,112 --> 00:05:27,796 principle of receptivity, right? So it 84 00:05:27,818 --> 00:05:31,552 was a beautiful place to receive, a spiritual place to receive. 85 00:05:31,616 --> 00:05:35,432 I will also say I've been on my own spiritual journey the past two years 86 00:05:35,566 --> 00:05:39,160 and I have just been on this incredible high of connection to 87 00:05:39,310 --> 00:05:42,520 God, to my source, and was really, really 88 00:05:42,670 --> 00:05:46,232 enjoying that path and creating even more space and stillness 89 00:05:46,296 --> 00:05:49,564 to listen and communicate to my higher 90 00:05:49,682 --> 00:05:53,196 source and what the universe wants more of 91 00:05:53,298 --> 00:05:56,956 from me so that I can make a larger impact in this world. So hopefully 92 00:05:56,988 --> 00:05:59,410 that makes sense. That was my 93 00:06:00,980 --> 00:06:04,704 prime reason for going number one and number two, 94 00:06:04,742 --> 00:06:08,450 because I can. Okay, so 95 00:06:08,900 --> 00:06:12,644 what did I learn while I was there? What I 96 00:06:12,682 --> 00:06:16,436 learned is, again, I just want to recap on this, that 97 00:06:16,458 --> 00:06:19,636 we have to slow down, right, in order to 98 00:06:19,738 --> 00:06:23,460 receive and actually slow down and give thanks. 99 00:06:23,530 --> 00:06:26,484 I'm going to talk a little bit about this in a minute. Just the gratitude 100 00:06:26,532 --> 00:06:30,376 piece, but giving thanks, it's very easy. I 101 00:06:30,398 --> 00:06:33,912 caught myself and my whole team. Like, we're done with launch. So we did almost 102 00:06:33,966 --> 00:06:37,596 a million in sales in less than, like, 14 days. We became a best 103 00:06:37,618 --> 00:06:41,324 selling author, like, 22 of our clients did. We jump on a call 104 00:06:41,362 --> 00:06:45,164 and literally, we're talking about what's next. Like, literally, we're talking 105 00:06:45,202 --> 00:06:47,916 about the next launch. We're talking about the next goals. And it's like, whoa, whoa, 106 00:06:47,948 --> 00:06:51,372 whoa, whoa. Let's pump the brakes. Let's 107 00:06:51,436 --> 00:06:54,930 receive the bounty that has come our way 108 00:06:55,380 --> 00:06:58,770 and let's consciously pause right 109 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,772 in this space. And not just 110 00:07:02,826 --> 00:07:06,372 pause, but give thanks. Give 111 00:07:06,426 --> 00:07:09,844 gratitude, right? The shirt, the gratitude, the 112 00:07:09,882 --> 00:07:13,064 magnanimity. I can't tell you how many times 113 00:07:13,262 --> 00:07:16,936 during that ride of success, right 114 00:07:16,958 --> 00:07:20,548 before I went to Bali that I was literally on my knees bawling 115 00:07:20,644 --> 00:07:24,328 with gratitude for what was manifesting in my life, 116 00:07:24,414 --> 00:07:28,156 right? And so this leads me to what was going on in Bali when I 117 00:07:28,178 --> 00:07:31,564 landed. See, they were in the midst of a 118 00:07:31,602 --> 00:07:35,100 twelve day celebration and I didn't know this. 119 00:07:35,250 --> 00:07:39,056 I landed on their twelveTH day of celebration that 120 00:07:39,078 --> 00:07:42,784 was focused around gratitude. And this key 121 00:07:42,902 --> 00:07:46,450 day that I landed on was called Canning Day. 122 00:07:46,900 --> 00:07:50,644 And it was so timely that I showed up on this day because so many 123 00:07:50,682 --> 00:07:54,244 locals were in the streets celebrating with 124 00:07:54,282 --> 00:07:57,684 gratitude. The children had the gongs and the 125 00:07:57,722 --> 00:08:01,352 bells and they were dancing and they were singing and they had these huge 126 00:08:01,486 --> 00:08:05,272 animal like figures that they were all standing under and moving 127 00:08:05,326 --> 00:08:08,788 in the streets. And they have this key term that's 128 00:08:08,804 --> 00:08:11,972 called sucks. Sucks Manning. 129 00:08:12,036 --> 00:08:15,852 Indeed. Sucks manning in deep. And the term is all 130 00:08:15,906 --> 00:08:19,628 thanks are given for the blessings during human 131 00:08:19,714 --> 00:08:22,940 life, for whatever has been achieved and 132 00:08:23,010 --> 00:08:26,780 found is important to be grateful. 133 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,896 It gives me chills. I did not know when I landed in 134 00:08:30,918 --> 00:08:34,544 Bali on this day that this is what was going on. Yet I was 135 00:08:34,582 --> 00:08:38,392 on such a personal and spiritual 136 00:08:38,476 --> 00:08:41,988 and business high from my own life 137 00:08:42,074 --> 00:08:45,332 and landing in Bali in an immense space of 138 00:08:45,386 --> 00:08:49,060 gratitude to literally pause and give 139 00:08:49,210 --> 00:08:52,948 freaking thanks. Right? It was oozing out of 140 00:08:52,954 --> 00:08:56,756 the know. It's called the island of God. There's 141 00:08:56,788 --> 00:09:00,120 more temples per square mile than anywhere on the planet. 142 00:09:00,620 --> 00:09:04,216 They ooze gratitude. They have every house has a temple. They give 143 00:09:04,238 --> 00:09:07,852 gratitude and an offering to every morning when they get in their car, 144 00:09:07,906 --> 00:09:11,564 there's an offering to give thanks. Where they go for work has an 145 00:09:11,602 --> 00:09:15,390 offering on the front and an altar to give thanks. 146 00:09:15,700 --> 00:09:19,264 Right? I attended a new moon ceremony that 147 00:09:19,302 --> 00:09:22,450 lasted for 3 hours 148 00:09:22,820 --> 00:09:26,416 oozing with gratitude to Mother Earth, to the 149 00:09:26,438 --> 00:09:29,972 sky, to all that we have received. Literally just 150 00:09:30,026 --> 00:09:33,748 an energetic focus on thank you, thank you, 151 00:09:33,834 --> 00:09:37,684 thank you. And what I want to underscore here that was 152 00:09:37,722 --> 00:09:41,384 just eye opening for me is 153 00:09:41,422 --> 00:09:44,584 that the average income in that country is $250 154 00:09:44,622 --> 00:09:48,170 a month. 155 00:09:48,540 --> 00:09:52,312 $250 a month. See, the large 156 00:09:52,366 --> 00:09:56,152 majority of people who live on that island have never left it because 157 00:09:56,206 --> 00:10:00,028 they can't afford to get off the island. But one 158 00:10:00,034 --> 00:10:03,788 of the things I noticed is that there was no homelessness in the 159 00:10:03,794 --> 00:10:07,568 streets here at home. There's a lot of mental illness that contributes to a lot 160 00:10:07,574 --> 00:10:11,052 of homelessness, right? Even though we're the most abundant 161 00:10:11,196 --> 00:10:14,972 gluttonous country in the world, there's this disproportionate 162 00:10:15,036 --> 00:10:18,080 amount of mental illness and homelessness, 163 00:10:19,060 --> 00:10:22,036 even though in this country the average person makes $250 164 00:10:22,058 --> 00:10:25,700 a year. I mean, a month. I didn't see anyone 165 00:10:25,770 --> 00:10:29,456 homeless begging for anything. All I saw was a culture 166 00:10:29,488 --> 00:10:33,144 of people with a huge grin and smile on their 167 00:10:33,182 --> 00:10:36,900 face, immensely grateful to be alive, 168 00:10:37,060 --> 00:10:40,872 immensely grateful for their island, for 169 00:10:40,926 --> 00:10:44,170 life. Oozing with it. And as a matter of fact, 170 00:10:45,100 --> 00:10:48,350 one of the drivers told me, he said, 171 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:52,396 I know the success that you Americans have, it comes at a 172 00:10:52,418 --> 00:10:56,076 cost. He said, It may sound crazy, but we're not jealous of 173 00:10:56,098 --> 00:10:59,676 your life. We know what comes with all that success. 174 00:10:59,778 --> 00:11:03,010 You have to keep up with all the things you buy. And 175 00:11:03,460 --> 00:11:07,008 the thing that really rung true to me is he said, you're here on a 176 00:11:07,014 --> 00:11:10,776 ten day vacation because you need a break. He said, Americans 177 00:11:10,828 --> 00:11:14,180 have so much mental stress from their careers 178 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:18,132 that they literally need to take vacation to get away from it. 179 00:11:18,266 --> 00:11:22,084 He said, US, in Bali, we don't need a vacation. We love our 180 00:11:22,122 --> 00:11:25,496 lives. We work hard physically. We go to bed, we wake up, and we are 181 00:11:25,518 --> 00:11:28,680 so happy, and we're ready to work again. We don't need 182 00:11:28,830 --> 00:11:32,090 vacation dates. And I thought, 183 00:11:32,620 --> 00:11:36,360 wow, that was serious 184 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,710 perspective that he knows what 185 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,880 monetary things are out there. He knows financially 186 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,660 how successful some folks are, but 187 00:11:47,810 --> 00:11:51,408 they aren't jealous for it because they know that it comes at a cost. 188 00:11:51,574 --> 00:11:54,588 And they're such a happy, healthy culture, 189 00:11:54,764 --> 00:11:58,364 which now is so obvious to me because of their 190 00:11:58,422 --> 00:12:02,116 immense gratitude from the moment they wake to the moment they go to 191 00:12:02,138 --> 00:12:05,828 bed. Right. Their mindset, they are 192 00:12:05,914 --> 00:12:09,696 literally programming their mind on a daily basis. Oozing 193 00:12:09,728 --> 00:12:12,650 of gratitude, right? So good. 194 00:12:13,340 --> 00:12:16,872 Another thing I learned, the fear of the 195 00:12:16,926 --> 00:12:19,832 unknown is not so 196 00:12:19,966 --> 00:12:23,744 scary. You guys have heard me talk about this in entrepreneurship, 197 00:12:23,812 --> 00:12:27,564 so I'm going to fold in some analogies here, but believe it or 198 00:12:27,602 --> 00:12:31,196 not, I was nervous to travel to Bali all by 199 00:12:31,218 --> 00:12:34,684 myself. Beyond traveling to Canada and 200 00:12:34,722 --> 00:12:38,064 Mexico, I have not traveled internationally by 201 00:12:38,102 --> 00:12:41,936 myself ever other than Canada and Mexico. I was in 202 00:12:41,958 --> 00:12:45,152 Europe over a decade ago with my husband, but I've never 203 00:12:45,206 --> 00:12:48,624 traipsed 36 hours on planes by 204 00:12:48,662 --> 00:12:52,336 myself somewhere to a foreign country where the native language 205 00:12:52,368 --> 00:12:56,196 isn't English, right? So there was a lot of unknown that had me 206 00:12:56,218 --> 00:12:59,524 really uncomfortable, and I almost didn't go 207 00:12:59,722 --> 00:13:03,396 for fear of getting stuck somewhere and not knowing the language and not 208 00:13:03,418 --> 00:13:07,016 being able to change planes. That may sound silly to some of you 209 00:13:07,038 --> 00:13:10,760 guys, right? But what I learned as I traversed the world 210 00:13:10,830 --> 00:13:14,110 and made it to Bali was that I had that power 211 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:18,284 within myself to get there the whole time. 212 00:13:18,482 --> 00:13:22,284 I just needed to trust the process. I 213 00:13:22,322 --> 00:13:25,820 needed to trust myself. I needed to have 214 00:13:25,890 --> 00:13:29,484 confidence in myself. And by being willing to take that 215 00:13:29,522 --> 00:13:33,184 leap of faith, not knowing exactly what 216 00:13:33,222 --> 00:13:36,624 was on the other side, I didn't even know the people I was staying with. 217 00:13:36,662 --> 00:13:40,052 We're going to talk about that in a minute. It revealed to me a 218 00:13:40,106 --> 00:13:43,300 totally entire new portal 219 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,316 of unknown when it comes to world travel. 220 00:13:47,498 --> 00:13:51,236 It opened my eyes prior to getting on that plane and traveling 221 00:13:51,268 --> 00:13:54,216 across the world by myself. I was 222 00:13:54,318 --> 00:13:57,992 unconsciously incompetent. I did not know 223 00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,444 what I didn't know about traveling the globe, and so I feared 224 00:14:01,492 --> 00:14:05,048 it. By traveling the globe, I became 225 00:14:05,144 --> 00:14:08,492 consciously incompetent, meaning I 226 00:14:08,546 --> 00:14:12,284 realized how little I knew about the rest of the 227 00:14:12,322 --> 00:14:15,656 world by traveling to this one geographic 228 00:14:15,688 --> 00:14:19,164 location across the world. Now I'm 229 00:14:19,212 --> 00:14:22,752 consciously realizing I'm incompetent in learning so many 230 00:14:22,806 --> 00:14:26,464 cultures, so many religions, so many 231 00:14:26,502 --> 00:14:30,084 cuisines, right? All the things. And so I 232 00:14:30,122 --> 00:14:33,796 know there's so much more to learn. And it's just like business. 233 00:14:33,898 --> 00:14:37,590 If we stay comfortable with what we know in business, 234 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,684 we never tap into new portals for quantum 235 00:14:41,732 --> 00:14:43,530 expansion. Right? 236 00:14:45,180 --> 00:14:48,696 I'd never done over $300,000 in sales in a 237 00:14:48,718 --> 00:14:52,408 launch before. I did almost a million dollars in sales in a 238 00:14:52,414 --> 00:14:55,852 launch. I hadn't been there before. Right? It was 239 00:14:55,906 --> 00:14:59,756 uncharted territory. I didn't know unless I 240 00:14:59,778 --> 00:15:03,420 got uncomfortable for the expansion of what was ahead. It's the same 241 00:15:03,490 --> 00:15:07,292 way with my travel. I didn't know until 242 00:15:07,346 --> 00:15:10,864 I tapped into those portals to see, right? And it was 243 00:15:10,902 --> 00:15:14,576 like, wow, I want to do this again. I've got so many 244 00:15:14,598 --> 00:15:18,384 places I want to go now. Right? Another unknown that 245 00:15:18,422 --> 00:15:22,084 was really, really interesting for me. I didn't know who I was 246 00:15:22,122 --> 00:15:25,844 sharing my house with in Bali. I asked. I am like an 247 00:15:25,882 --> 00:15:29,236 enneagram eight who likes to be in control. And even though I was 248 00:15:29,258 --> 00:15:33,064 consciously surrendering, I still wanted to control who was 249 00:15:33,102 --> 00:15:36,888 there, because in my mind, I energetically wanted to 250 00:15:36,894 --> 00:15:40,600 be matched with successful entrepreneurs who were similar 251 00:15:40,670 --> 00:15:44,136 or further along than me because I wanted to learn from them. I always say 252 00:15:44,158 --> 00:15:47,496 I like to be the dumbest, brokest person in the room, right? But that's 253 00:15:47,528 --> 00:15:51,116 business. And I had to remind myself I wasn't on this 254 00:15:51,138 --> 00:15:54,876 trip for business. I was on this trip spiritually and for personal 255 00:15:54,978 --> 00:15:58,080 growth. And what I realized 256 00:15:58,580 --> 00:16:02,240 is that some of the greatest growth happened 257 00:16:02,310 --> 00:16:06,144 for me from some of the most unsuspecting people that were in 258 00:16:06,182 --> 00:16:09,664 that room. What happened and transpired in 259 00:16:09,702 --> 00:16:13,444 this retreat was that the large majority of people there were about 260 00:16:13,482 --> 00:16:17,296 a decade younger than me and a number of steps earlier 261 00:16:17,328 --> 00:16:20,756 on than me in their business growth. And it was a 262 00:16:20,858 --> 00:16:24,392 priceless opportunity for me as a business owner to 263 00:16:24,446 --> 00:16:28,152 literally live in a house with people who are 264 00:16:28,286 --> 00:16:32,104 really exactly like the clients that I serve. You see, I get to 265 00:16:32,142 --> 00:16:35,404 coach my clients across zoom. I get to see them on occasion at live 266 00:16:35,442 --> 00:16:39,224 events. But to live in a house with entrepreneurs 267 00:16:39,272 --> 00:16:42,876 who are in the early stages and hearing again and being reminded of the 268 00:16:42,898 --> 00:16:46,604 early level challenges the mindset 269 00:16:46,652 --> 00:16:49,970 blocks, the personal growth that needs to happen. 270 00:16:50,980 --> 00:16:54,172 The journey that they have to embark on grounded 271 00:16:54,236 --> 00:16:57,824 me and got me more connected with my 272 00:16:57,862 --> 00:17:01,632 current clients. And there was actually a participant 273 00:17:01,696 --> 00:17:05,350 there who reminded me of my children. 274 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:09,444 Okay. Her breakthroughs and her 275 00:17:09,482 --> 00:17:13,192 inner child work that we all did were a mirror to me 276 00:17:13,246 --> 00:17:16,490 as a parent with my kids back at home. 277 00:17:16,860 --> 00:17:20,600 And one of the first things I did when I got home was actually have 278 00:17:20,670 --> 00:17:24,424 direct conversations with my kids. Right. There 279 00:17:24,462 --> 00:17:28,236 were other attendees there that were married, there were couples, and that reminded me 280 00:17:28,258 --> 00:17:31,804 of my husband and I and the journey that we're on together. And 281 00:17:31,842 --> 00:17:35,644 so where I'm going with this is that the unknown of who was in the 282 00:17:35,682 --> 00:17:39,372 group was the magic in my own personal growth 283 00:17:39,516 --> 00:17:43,184 of realizing I don't always need to be put into a room that's going 284 00:17:43,222 --> 00:17:46,992 to grow me in business that many times. 285 00:17:47,046 --> 00:17:50,352 It's the most unsuspecting people who can grow you personally. 286 00:17:50,496 --> 00:17:54,224 Right. And professionally. Right. Experiences 287 00:17:54,272 --> 00:17:58,016 over money. One of the things I noticed again, we talked about the average 288 00:17:58,048 --> 00:18:01,876 income of $250 a month I had on 289 00:18:01,898 --> 00:18:05,448 my vision board before the end of this year to buy a G Wagon. And 290 00:18:05,534 --> 00:18:09,224 I came away from Bali realizing how little these people live 291 00:18:09,262 --> 00:18:12,904 with and how happy they are and how a G Wagon was 292 00:18:12,942 --> 00:18:16,684 not something I really needed. And as a matter of fact, even though it's a 293 00:18:16,722 --> 00:18:20,364 nice car and I love driving it, let's be 294 00:18:20,402 --> 00:18:23,644 honest, those types of purchases are actually for 295 00:18:23,682 --> 00:18:27,336 ego and perception, like literally buying 296 00:18:27,368 --> 00:18:30,592 something for what other people think about your 297 00:18:30,646 --> 00:18:34,176 status, right? Yes, I love the G Wagon, but I have an 298 00:18:34,198 --> 00:18:37,808 Infinity QX 80, which is a really nice high end car to begin with. 299 00:18:37,894 --> 00:18:41,732 And I started running the numbers, and I was like this first 300 00:18:41,786 --> 00:18:45,300 class because Mama went first class. This first class 301 00:18:45,370 --> 00:18:48,992 trip to Bali was, bar none, the best investment 302 00:18:49,056 --> 00:18:52,784 because I was so comfortable. I slept all the way there, I slept 303 00:18:52,832 --> 00:18:56,584 all the way back. I was so rejuvenated and full of energy when I got 304 00:18:56,622 --> 00:19:00,090 there, I started running the numbers, and I'm like a family of five. 305 00:19:00,540 --> 00:19:04,264 We could take three to four first class flights 306 00:19:04,312 --> 00:19:07,484 across the globe to, like, South Africa to Australia, to 307 00:19:07,522 --> 00:19:11,356 Thailand instead of an 308 00:19:11,378 --> 00:19:15,132 ego purchase of a G Wagon. Right? And so 309 00:19:15,186 --> 00:19:18,050 my mindset really shifted around 310 00:19:18,500 --> 00:19:21,984 things, and I've always had more of a focus on 311 00:19:22,022 --> 00:19:25,436 experience. But my ego wanted the G Wagon, 312 00:19:25,548 --> 00:19:29,392 right? My ego wanted the G wagon. The last thing I want to land 313 00:19:29,446 --> 00:19:33,220 on here was the energy vortex of Bali. 314 00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:37,844 For those of you guys who are into the energy and body work, I have 315 00:19:37,882 --> 00:19:41,700 been over the last two years in a major growth in what we call 316 00:19:41,770 --> 00:19:45,544 spiritual ascension. And I and my 317 00:19:45,582 --> 00:19:49,416 energetics coach, my spiritual coach talked about this the day I got there. We did 318 00:19:49,438 --> 00:19:53,128 some really deep holotropic breath work that can really get at the 319 00:19:53,134 --> 00:19:56,700 root of your nervous system. And I had some 320 00:19:56,850 --> 00:20:00,190 huge energetic releases. Huge. 321 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,412 I can't even explain to you the jolts that came 322 00:20:04,466 --> 00:20:08,300 out of my body, the outer body experiences that I had 323 00:20:08,370 --> 00:20:12,124 and even just like how unsettled my legs 324 00:20:12,172 --> 00:20:15,952 were the first two days, really working to 325 00:20:16,086 --> 00:20:19,760 release these last final shedding of old energy to 326 00:20:19,830 --> 00:20:23,444 this final level in this level of ascension that I'm going 327 00:20:23,482 --> 00:20:26,976 through. It was mind blowing and incredible. 328 00:20:27,088 --> 00:20:30,848 But bali is an energy vortex similar to sedona. For those of you 329 00:20:30,874 --> 00:20:34,596 guys who research that type of stuff. The energy healers 330 00:20:34,628 --> 00:20:38,420 there were incredible coming from kind of a western 331 00:20:38,500 --> 00:20:42,184 medicine PharmD training. I found it 332 00:20:42,222 --> 00:20:45,604 fascinating. The body workers who practiced Chinese 333 00:20:45,652 --> 00:20:49,320 medicine and could literally rub their hands on my belly, 334 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,876 check my pulse and look at my tongue and tell me when my period was 335 00:20:52,898 --> 00:20:56,396 going to start, how healthy my heart was, how my lipids 336 00:20:56,428 --> 00:20:59,568 were. It was mind 337 00:20:59,654 --> 00:21:03,216 blowing. How they practice medicine in a completely 338 00:21:03,318 --> 00:21:07,136 different way and get the same results, right? And 339 00:21:07,158 --> 00:21:10,692 so we did a lot of work, energy work. Some 340 00:21:10,746 --> 00:21:13,744 really incredible spiritual ceremonies, cacao 341 00:21:13,792 --> 00:21:17,504 ceremonies. People from across the globe. Therefore, 342 00:21:17,632 --> 00:21:20,912 their spiritual journey and connectedness. This 343 00:21:20,986 --> 00:21:24,456 universal connectedness. It wasn't one single religion. It wasn't just 344 00:21:24,478 --> 00:21:28,088 Budhism or Hinduism or Muslim or Christian. It was 345 00:21:28,254 --> 00:21:31,768 really just spirituality and connectedness to all right 346 00:21:31,934 --> 00:21:35,192 and purpose. Which leads me to that 347 00:21:35,246 --> 00:21:38,860 consciously allowing time where I was able to slow down, listen 348 00:21:38,930 --> 00:21:42,524 to my intuition and get the tugs, get the cues. I've had this 349 00:21:42,562 --> 00:21:46,380 gut pull all year, but I got profound, 350 00:21:47,220 --> 00:21:50,828 profound cues and signs for my next chapter, 351 00:21:51,004 --> 00:21:54,544 for impact, for impact for others in 352 00:21:54,582 --> 00:21:58,060 business and their life. And I actually completely 353 00:21:58,230 --> 00:22:02,004 birthed an entirely new program while I'm there all the way 354 00:22:02,042 --> 00:22:05,764 down to the month by month curriculum. And because I 355 00:22:05,802 --> 00:22:09,456 created the space and I cleared 356 00:22:09,488 --> 00:22:12,276 the energetic path, I 357 00:22:12,378 --> 00:22:15,764 accomplished creating the vision, the 358 00:22:15,802 --> 00:22:19,556 output and a program literally within two 359 00:22:19,578 --> 00:22:23,212 to three days that had I tried to just force myself 360 00:22:23,386 --> 00:22:27,116 to figure it out. While being at home in the chaos and 361 00:22:27,138 --> 00:22:30,716 the push and the leading of my team and the coaching of my clients. It 362 00:22:30,738 --> 00:22:34,268 would have taken me months and likely wouldn't have had the exact 363 00:22:34,354 --> 00:22:37,676 clarity and connection and tethering 364 00:22:37,788 --> 00:22:41,216 to the anchor of the output of it spiritually and 365 00:22:41,238 --> 00:22:44,656 impact. Right. And I know I'm going super woo for some of you 366 00:22:44,678 --> 00:22:48,240 guys, but it was life changing. 367 00:22:48,820 --> 00:22:51,808 And so where I'll land with that is I birds a new program. It won't 368 00:22:51,824 --> 00:22:55,604 be coming out till the new year, I haven't even 369 00:22:55,642 --> 00:22:59,424 named it yet, but it's going to hinge around the modern entrepreneur where bodies 370 00:22:59,472 --> 00:23:03,124 build businesses with mind, body and spirit for expansion 371 00:23:03,172 --> 00:23:06,884 in business. And I am bringing in the absolute experts who've 372 00:23:06,932 --> 00:23:10,712 helped me ascend over the past two years in mind, body 373 00:23:10,766 --> 00:23:14,548 and spirit that has created massive expansion where I've grown 374 00:23:14,564 --> 00:23:18,252 my business 400% since last year while 375 00:23:18,306 --> 00:23:22,092 getting the healthiest and the happiest I've ever gotten. And those were the major 376 00:23:22,146 --> 00:23:25,740 downloads I had while I was in Bali is it's not just business 377 00:23:25,810 --> 00:23:29,424 strategy. This program is not going to be another guru telling you 378 00:23:29,462 --> 00:23:32,880 exactly the business strategy. It's going to be about learning to tap into your own 379 00:23:32,950 --> 00:23:36,464 intuition and get connected so that you can make the next 380 00:23:36,502 --> 00:23:39,632 steps confidently from your internal 381 00:23:39,776 --> 00:23:43,508 north compass. Right. And I'll be hinging on a lot of 382 00:23:43,514 --> 00:23:47,248 the scientific background I have around nervous 383 00:23:47,264 --> 00:23:50,916 system dysregulation and the modalities to get regulated so that 384 00:23:50,938 --> 00:23:54,628 energetically. We are on fire, right? Oh, my gosh. I could talk about 385 00:23:54,634 --> 00:23:58,456 this forever. But speaking of being on fire, this girl has to wrap up because 386 00:23:58,478 --> 00:24:02,296 I've got a coaching haul in two minutes. That is my recap for you from 387 00:24:02,318 --> 00:24:06,092 my trip from Bali. If you're curious or inspired about my 388 00:24:06,146 --> 00:24:09,724 upcoming program, there will be some information in the show 389 00:24:09,762 --> 00:24:13,180 notes about getting on the waitlist. Or you can email 390 00:24:13,250 --> 00:24:17,096 us at teamburnouttoallout 391 00:24:17,208 --> 00:24:20,972 co. You can email us at team 392 00:24:21,026 --> 00:24:23,870 at teamburnouttoallout co. 393 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,244 So hope to see you guys on our next episode. See you live 394 00:24:28,322 --> 00:24:32,164 somewhere. If you're watching this recently, I hope to see you 395 00:24:32,202 --> 00:24:35,504 in Nashville in a couple of weeks. Some of the core 396 00:24:35,632 --> 00:24:39,140 collaborators for this future program next year are going to be speaking 397 00:24:39,210 --> 00:24:42,836 on stage in Nashville. I cannot wait. I hope you guys have 398 00:24:42,858 --> 00:24:44,080 a wonderful afternoon.