Hello, hello and welcome to the Borealis

experience. I'm your host Aurora, life coach and companion

on this beautiful journey content life. I hope you're

doing well. I hope you feel safe. I hope your heart is

light.

I hope you feel free. I hope you can see that you have choices

and life. But last episode

was about the choices

that you make.

How to Increase your choices and possibilities and to feel free

whenever you feel stuck.

Today I want to talk about your death. But my gosh, Aurora.

Very light topic.

That's a beautiful spring day. I'm currently on my little

vacation, my road trip. And yeah, I record these episodes

before I left because I wanted to make sure that you do not

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All right.

Let's talk about your desperate.

That is of course, like everything I share here is just

my experience and what I've learned what helped me to heal

what helped me grow what helped me to be the person that I am

today, running a beautiful little business here.

But I imagined it being very similar for everybody when they

are on their deathbed. And a couple years ago, I learned this

was my grandfather who was about to pass away.

And the interesting thing that I've learned is that

he was mad at a lot of people. While he was still healthy. He

always judged people he blamed people

was angry, resentful towards people.

That was just his thing.

But when his death was coming closer when he could really

smell it and

yeah, touch it, so to say right in front of him.

All the regrets came up. All the mistakes came up. All the pain

came up that he had inflicted on others.

Let that sink in.

Imagine that one day you lay there and everything comes back.

It's a very, very tricky situation to be and because

maybe right now while you're listening, you are regretting a

bunch of things already and then you would say but Aurora Why are

you saying this? Like I made really huge mistakes and I'm

still suffering from the consequences. Why do you say

this? How am I going to survive to my death

with these regrets

bear with me

I will ask you to start out on a journey of self forgiveness.

If that's the case, if you've done mistakes, if you've made

choices in your past, that are fully hollow or horrible and

very shitty, especially for other people, but now for you,

then you can't waste any more time. But you have to forgive

yourself.

And this now might sound like wow, forgiving myself, no,

because that would mean that I accept. And I'm okay with the

mistake I've made but I'm seriously not.

I understand. I will say to you, but you have to forgive

yourself, you have to let this go.

Down and over with.

You can't make this mistake.

hinder you hold you back restrict you any longer.

You have to start and let go.

And if you are

in a situation where you feel okay with yourself, then this

episode is for you as well. Because Be wise with the choices

that you're making. And make sure that yes, you follow your

heart your follow your soul calling.

But on this path,

try to the best of your ability to not harm or hurt other

people.

Again,

you will upset people you will piss people off once you engage

on your own journey.

And that's okay, you have to follow your heart. But I mean,

intensely hurting and letting down.

shutting people out that you're just too lazy to have an honest

boundary setting conversation with

to be as clear as possible.

To express yourself as honestly as possible.

is one way to live without regrets.

At the end of your life,

I have a strong feeling that even if I was to make no

mistakes, so to say until the rest of my days, my brain would

still come up with stuff oh my god. But I could have done this,

I could have said this, I could have you know, accomplish that.

This is simply how our brain works.

But the decisions that you're going to make, from now on,

have not only a deep impact on your future

and how your life is going to unfold, they have a deep impact

on others as well.

The better you know yourself, the better decisions you're

going to make that affect you the best way possible and the

people around you that you love and care about.

So, I think was this episode, I really want to raise awareness

that you can't waste any time and forgiving yourself forgiving

others and to set yourself free from regret and resentment

and to focus on how you can make better choices

from now on

in order to not live with regrets and pain.

What is driving you? What are your core values?

And do you live in alignment with these core values that you

have? Is there areas in your life where you are in conflict

with your values where you feel

you have to

compromise

and if you want me to list the areas of your life that I'm

talking about here it is your

personal relationships, your family, your friends, your

romantic relationships, and most importantly your relationship to

yourself.

Can you express yourself freely?

Let? Do you let people see you for who you are?

Do you lie to yourself? And why do you lie to yourself to learn?

Do you lie to others? And why do you lie to others?

are you silent? When you should be speaking up but you choose

to? Because you don't want to create drama and conflict?

How it is when it comes to your job, your work life?

Are you self employed? Are you employed? What's your relation?

Like with your boss with your co workers?

If you're self employed,

what drives you?

Are you in alignment with your core values at work?

Your physical health?

Are you making the best

out of your physical health? Or do you compromise? Do you cheat?

Your mental health?

How do you nurture your mind? What do you consume on a daily

basis? Through your eyes through you yours? Is it an alignment

with your True core values?

Your financial situation?

Do you feel comfortable? Do you feel safe Do you feel supported?

It is really important to live with this awareness with this

consciousness. Because the last thing I want is for you to

regret one day that you didn't take enough care of yourself

that you were not honest with the people around you.

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Alright, take really good care of yourself. And I will be out

there very soon again. Bye bye