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G'Day everyone.

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It's Coach Michelle J Raymond, your trusted guide for building your

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brand and your business on LinkedIn.

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And listeners, we've been doing a series of having my guests who are experts

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who also happen to be my friends, and I am so lucky to have this person

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coming on the show for the second time.

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Nancy Harhut, welcome back to the show.

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Oh my gosh.

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I am so excited to be here.

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Michelle, thank you so much for calling me a friend and for

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having me on the show again.

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Really appreciate it.

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Look, I am so glad that we got to actually cross paths at Social Media

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Marketing World earlier this year, and unfortunately we won't get to do it next

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year, but it was one of those sessions that when I was sitting in the room,

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I just watched people around me as you were speaking, scribbling so many notes,

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like they were going mad, like, don't forget this tip that Nancy's giving them.

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And for people that weren't in the room.

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You should go and buy Nancy's book, which is called Using behavioural

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Science in Marketing, and I'll put all those details in the show notes so

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that people can go and check it out.

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It is just jam packed full of so much goodness.

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And you said you are gonna share a little bit about that today in "How Brain Science

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Can Teach Us About LinkedIn Marketing".

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Are you ready?

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Nancy?

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Are you ready?

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I am ready.

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Yes, let's do it.

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Alright, let's do it right after this short word about

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our podcast sponsors Metricool.

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Okay, Nancy, we are back and we are going to get into this one.

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And unlike Jay Schwedelson, there are no weird things that you need to

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eat or hot wings challenges coming.

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This is straight into it.

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Your best tips and I wanna ask the first question because my audience

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are B2B marketers and they're often responsible for all kinds of things.

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But one of the problems that I see keep popping up that I learned from

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you is that I think most B2B marketers out there still think that B2B

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buyers just make rational decisions.

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I'd like to know from a brain science point of view.

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Why is that such a dangerous marketing assumption, especially when it

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comes to their LinkedIn marketing?

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Sure.

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I mean, it is absolutely a very common misconception, no question about it,

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and there is an element of truth to it.

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Certainly B2B buyers make decisions for the good of the company.

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So they're thinking about things that, you know, in, in rational terms.

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Absolutely.

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But it doesn't stop there.

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Right?

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At the end of the day, people are people, whether they're at home, whether

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they're at work, people are people, and behavioural scientists have found that

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we all need to access the emotional parts of our brain in order to make decisions.

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Right?

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There's a researcher named Antonio Demasio.

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And he conducted research among people whose, uh, brains had been damaged

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and it was the part of the brain that was damaged that controls emotion.

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And what he found was they were virtually incapable of making a decision,

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even a very simple decision like, what would you like for lunch today?

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They couldn't decide.

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They go back and forth and back and forth.

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They couldn't land.

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And he found that we, people, humans, need to access the emotional parts of

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our brain in order to make decisions.

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So if you are, a B2B marketer.

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And you're thinking, oh, it's all about facts and figures and speeds and feeds,

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and let's just keep this very rational.

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You are going to leave money on the table.

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Some of your messages will connect.

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Sometimes they'll just happen to land right in front of someone who's really

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interested in that topic or ready to buy.

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But you are not gonna reach as many people.

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You're not gonna build the connection with as many people, and you're

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not gonna convert as many people.

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Even the, The B2B Institute has found that emotion in B2B messages drives seven

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times the sales, the revenue, and the profitability of the marketing messages.

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So, you know, it really, it's, it's proven.

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In market, it's proven by behavioural science.

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We really want to have some of that emotion.

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We don't wanna walk away from the rational sales points, but we want both.

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We, we know that people make decisions for emotional reasons and then quickly

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justify those decisions to themselves and to other people with the rational reasons.

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So what we want is that nice balance of both of them.

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Are we better off speaking to the fear side of those emotions or the

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positive side, like are people.

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Looking for confidence boosters or, uh oh, don't let me make that bad decision.

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So I look like I've made the wrong one to my peers.

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Uh, you know, it depends.

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People are looking for a little of both.

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Very often we wanna be reassured, uh, we don't wanna look bad to the boss.

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We don't wanna look bad to our peers, we don't wanna look bad to the board.

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We don't wanna make a, a decision and then find, oh my gosh, getting this up the

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food chain is just an enormous amount of work, or onboarding people is, is keeping

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me here nights and weekends, you know?

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We're looking for reassurance.

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But we also, don't wanna miss out on things.

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And behavioural science has shown us that people are actually twice as

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motivated to avoid the pain of loss as they are to achieve the pleasure of gain.

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And in marketing, we usually focus on the gains, the advantages to benefits, all

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the wonderful things that will happen if you just choose me, become my company,

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my customer sign up for, uh, my service.

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Right?

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And I, I don't think we need to walk away from that.

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In fact, I know we don't want need to walk away from benefits, but there

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are times when a little well-placed loss aversion can go a long way.

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And so maybe what you wanna do is you wanna point out the pain someone will

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be in if they don't do what you're asking them to, or point out the

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pain they can avoid if they in fact do what you're asking them to do.

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So sometimes people need that reassurance.

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They wanna feel like, okay, I'm making a, a good decision and

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there's not gonna be a problem.

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Other times they need that little extra nudge of, you know, being faced with the

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pain of loss that they're likely going to encounter if they don't make the move.

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If they don't, click the button if they don't, uh, become a customer.

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You wanna judge the, the context and the market and have a little bit of both.

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The FOMO is real.

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You guys have had Thanksgiving offers, we've had Black Friday offers,

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we've got the Christmas offers, soon we'll have the new year offers, like

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there are offers coming like left, right, and centre every which way.

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And I'm a sucker for when it is, you know, we're down to the last few available, the

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time's running out, these kinds of things.

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That's when I am going, uh oh.

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If I don't do this, I'm gonna miss out on this deal.

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And it may not come around.

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Knowing full well that the game is, it's gonna come round in about

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another five minutes if I just wait.

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But patience isn't my virtue, my friend.

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Shout out to all the marketers who prey on people like me, poor, innocent

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people like me, who can't wait.

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But you know what, Michelle, it's not your fault because human

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beings are actually hardwired to want that instant gratification.

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behavioural scientists talk about something called present focused bias,

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and we want what we want and we want it now, and we don't like to wait and

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we will discount, uh, later rewards.

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So we'll take a smaller but sooner reward.

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Over a larger but later one.

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Experiment after experiment after experiment has proven that.

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So you're not alone.

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You know, we want what we want, we want it now.

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And uh, and if we think that we are, we're about to lose it,

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that's when we're gonna grab it.

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Absolutely.

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Oh my God.

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I'm gonna take this clip and I'm gonna play it for Lil every time

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I'm doing my online shopping.

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So thank you for this clip if nothing else.

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The other thing that I think comes up, Nancy, in a lot of conversations,

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so I'm helping people say with their LinkedIn company pages, we are writing

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content, putting it out there and obviously that frequency piece comes up.

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What happens is we come back to the conversation around, we've already

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said that we've said it before.

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Oh, do we have to, you know, show up that often?

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Why does repeated exposure matter so much in B2B and how should marketers think

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about that when we are using LinkedIn?

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Because this is another clip that I'm gonna want to use with my clients and

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say, we can't just post once and then expect that message to get across.

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But I know you and you always come and bring the receipts of why this

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is gonna be worth it for people.

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One of the reasons is the effect that repetition has on the human brain.

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So when we hear something often, it becomes familiar.

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And when something becomes familiar, it feels more truthful, it feels

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more real, it feels more trusted.

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And as a result, we're much more likely to accept it.

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We're gonna remember that name, we're gonna remember that company.

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We're gonna remember that product or that service.

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It's gonna feel familiar and it's gonna feel right.

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It's easy for us to recall something.

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And when it's easy for the brain to recall something, easy for the brain to process

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something, it feels right and it's not a big leap to assume that it is, right?

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So suddenly this, this is the right choice.

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And then I think, the other reason simply is people are scattered.

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Their attention is, you know, divided across so many different things.

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You post something once, if it doesn't happen to pop up when somebody is

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scrolling at that particular moment, they're just not gonna see it.

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And you're like, well, I've, I put it out there.

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It's like, well, good for you.

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Repeating our message, it, it reinforces it for those who have seen it.

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And we know that that's good.

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And it also widens the chance that we're gonna reach our market and

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we're gonna at least get some of our messages in front of them.

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It might feel like a little bit more work on our part, but

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we absolutely need to do it.

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The wonderful brain science benefit is the more someone hears our name, our product,

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our, you know, our benefit, our value proposition, the more real it becomes,

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the more likely they are to believe it.

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And that's a good thing.

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I have a question for you.

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'cause there's some stats that get thrown around from time to time on LinkedIn and

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I don't even know where they started, so I'm just putting it out there.

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I can't quote it.

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But once upon a time, it used to be, you know, people need to hear something

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seven times before they remember it.

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And then someone would say a year later, it's 14 times and

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then it was like 32 times.

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Like have we gotten worse at being able to remember and recall stuff as a human race?

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Or is there something that we can do that's like, no, this

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is the number or frequency.

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What are your brain science things?

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Tell us about this.

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Yeah, that's an interesting question.

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And I have seen those varying stats, whether it's seven or 14 or 21 or 30,

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there's definitely some truth to them because we're not completely focused.

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We're cruising along on autopilot and we may or may not engage.

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There is some research that shows that even if you remember something,

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if it's not relevant to you, it kind of doesn't make a difference.

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If I can recall the message in the brand, but that brand didn't make

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an emotional connection with me, it's not really gonna be helpful to

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me, and as a result to the brand.

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And there's some research that also shows that even if you can't immediately

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recall something, but it's more something that you notice subconsciously, it

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still can impact your behaviour.

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Again, going back to repetition, this is a very good thing, right?

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So it's, it's hard to say, you know, what that magic number

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is, but what we do know is.

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We wanna be out there with our message.

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We wanna be out there with our message, but it, it's gotta be the right message.

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It's gotta be a message that connects with people that has some emotion

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that maybe has a good story, so that people feel that the relevance is

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there, and if the relevance is there, our brain encodes that message.

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Because we know we're going to need it for the future.

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It's like, oh, this is gonna be important to me.

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This is something I'm interested in.

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This is something that can help me either achieve something or avoid something

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painful, but it's relevant to me.

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And so it gets kind of tucked away in our brains, and it's

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there for us when we need it.

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Relevance is something Nancy, that is definitely I'm gonna say the

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topic de jour on LinkedIn right now.

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So if we rewind the clock a little bit back to June, the

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world changed on LinkedIn.

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So once upon a time we could rely on certain reach ie our content being

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shown to as many people as possible that, LinkedIn determined and then

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they shifted everything and they were moving it towards relevance.

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So not as many people, but hopefully the right people and

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it's been an interesting year.

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I am gonna put it out there that I've really struggled with this

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change because I was addicted to the impressions just like everybody else.

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But tell me from a behavioural science point of view, why might niche and

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specific messages outperform kind of more broad thought leadership that used

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to, you know, hit a wider audience.

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Will I be seeing results from this relevance play that

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LinkedIn tells me I will?

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One can never say for sure if what LinkedIn says is actually going to, you

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know, perhaps, you know, let's hope.

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But what I can say is that brain scientists talk about something called

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self-concept and that is this idea that people will seek out, products and brands

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that reflect well on them that either reflect how they see themselves or how

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they would like the world to see them.

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And so when we stop casting that really wide net and we get a little

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bit more niche and a little bit more specific, it gives us the opportunity

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to build that community, to have people say, yes, that's the company

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for me, that's the brand for me.

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That's the the one that I wanna be associated with.

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That's the community that I wanna be part of.

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And that can be a very good thing because.

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Once you can make that connection with a, a customer or a prospective customer,

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uh, it becomes really sticky, right?

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You get that emotional bond and people are kind of wed to you.

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If you can get that customer, you're gonna keep that customer.

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So having that more specific, more niche content helps build those smaller

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communities, where people are attracted by this is the brand that reflects

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who I am, or this is the brand that reflects the way I'd like to be seen.

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So it builds that exclusivity, which is another thing that

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behavioural scientists talk about.

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If everybody can have something, well we may or may not be interested, but

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if it's only for certain people and we wanna be part of that exclusive group,

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that can be very, very, very motivating.

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So when you start to craft your content set up those guardrails that you're

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not trying to be every, everything to everyone, but you're for a very specific

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kind of person or group of people, that kind of adds to that exclusivity

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and, that makes people feel good.

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It is one of those things that I would have to say over the last few months for

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myself and my own business right now that I've been reflecting on, because I think

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it's easy when we're creating content and often on the fly, we start off with great

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strategies and then life happens and then we move into just get the post done or

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something grabs our attention, and then all of a sudden you drift off course.

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That tightness in your message of who you're speaking to all of

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a sudden dissipates over time.

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And I think that's what I've noticed with my own content is that it starts

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off small and it's just like just one post here, and then it's one post

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there, and then all of a sudden those posts get a little bit closer together.

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And we're at the end of the year and I'm thinking.

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I love my audience of B2B marketers like they are my target.

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And if I go back and specifically look at some of the content that I've been

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putting out, and whether that's the podcast, whether it's videos, whether

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it's LinkedIn posts, I realise that I've probably become a little more

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everything to everyone as you said.

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And that is where the power is lost.

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When I was the Company Page Queen and that's all people knew me for, like

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the opportunities come flooding in, whether it's speaking, whether it's

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clients, it was really clear in that clarity I think is just what sells.

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And you know, me.

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I'm here for how can marketing help me sell more?

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I make no apologies for that, but I, I think I've just noticed it for myself.

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Do you do check-ins with your clients?

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Like how do we get people back on track?

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Yeah, that, that's a good question.

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I've had this conversation with a couple of clients actually,

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where I used to phrase like, you want that steady drumbeat, right?

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You've decided what it is you wanna be known for what your,

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you know, your message is, your value proposition, your promise.

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Call it what you will, but you know what you wanna be known for

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and you just need to stick to it.

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And it's tempting to say, but I couldn't do other things.

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Or I have a perspective on, other issues and, you know, why not expand?

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The problem is you start to dilute the message, and that's not gonna

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serve you well in the long run.

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You know, you might pick up another person here or another person there, but

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it really does start to dilute things.

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And if you have that, that, that focus, that steady drumbeat where this is

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who I am and this is what I stand for.

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And, uh, you know, every piece of content that you put out there,

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every post that you comment on.

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, comes through that lens with that perspective.

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That just keeps reinforcing who you are, that adds to how you're gonna

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be thought of, how you're gonna be remembered, and it actually makes

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you more likely to be remembered.

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As tempting as it can be to broaden that tight focus, that steady

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drumbeat is what's gonna pay off.

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Because, you know, again, we were talking about this earlier, but.

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People have a lot on their minds.

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There's a lot, trying to, uh, compete for their attention and they're not

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spending nearly as much time consuming our content as we are creating it.

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They don't spend as much time thinking about it as we spend thinking about it.

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And so by coming back to the same essential message, you know, just

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over and over and over again, that's what serves us well.

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I found with a few clients recently, and these are multinational global brands.

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And when I say to them, okay, tell me about this particular product

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that they're offering and where is it most likely to be sold into?

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And it is always everyone, everywhere we can sell this thing and asking them to

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narrow things down would mean saying to somebody else in a different department,

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actually, we're focusing on this, not that because we know it will work.

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And trying to get people to understand that this will help them sell more, not

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less, is a really tricky concept to get across the line because they're like, no,

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Michelle, we can sell it to this industry, that industry, this country, that country,

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you know, everyone, senior people, junior people, like there's everyone involved.

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It's when I start rocking in the corner because I intuitively

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know that that's not the case.

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And I'm really thankful for one of my clients 'cause they're entering

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into a, a new industry where there's two key players already established,

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been in the market 25 years.

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They're the new kid on the block, have an amazing product.

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I'm like, if you try and compete with them on same, same, I know

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that you're gonna do it because your content's gonna look the same.

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You're gonna sound the same.

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You're gonna talk about exactly the same stuff.

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And why would I choose the new person over the two existing players in the business

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that have those long term relationships and have built a brand in that industry.

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And thankfully we found a little niche that we're gonna carve out.

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They trusted me on that and very quickly where they haven't been able to get

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traction over a, you know, a year or so.

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Now they're starting to see it.

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Their sales team are now connected to this is the campaign that we are doing.

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Because before they were like.

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It's all a bit blah, you know, like it was their kind of words.

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We don't wanna share it with our audience.

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They were reluctant to sell the story.

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They didn't want to put the content out on their company

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page or their personal profiles.

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And so it was just this whole stagnant, they got stuck.

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And so I, I think there really is so much power in what you've just shared here.

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That I want people to know that I know intuitively that your gut is gonna

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tell you, but I can sell anything to everyone and especially at a time

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where it's probably tough for a lot of people out there and it makes your

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brain see the bigger the pond, the more chance of catching the fish.

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Actually, no, let's go fishing in a really small pond, because you've just got such

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a bigger chance of actually winning.

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So thank you for my personal reminder again, uh, this is a clip I'll play

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to myself, just so you know listeners.

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Thanks Nancy as always.

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As you were saying that, I was thinking of this one client I had where we

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literally went to them with data.

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Data saying this is who's buying and this is who's not.

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So let's save money by only focusing on these people and Yep, yep, yep, yep, yep.

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They're nodding through the whole presentation.

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Yeah, that makes perfect sense.

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And then at the end they said, but you know what?

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Just in case someone over there decides to buy, we should just keep

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doing it the way we've been doing it.

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And it was, it was like, oh my gosh, you know, we just spent an hour.

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With all of the data, but you know what you're saying, good for you

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for convincing your client to, to do what you know, what the what's right.

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Um, but people get nervous that they either are overconfident and

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think, yes, I can do it, or they're afraid that they might lose that one.

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One person, that one company, that one sale, and it's like,

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oh, it's not gonna happen.

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You know, it's gonna be a much more efficient, much more effective

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sell to narrow things down.

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But it's hard.

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We're human and we're either, like I said, either over overconfident or

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fearful, we're gonna lose someone.

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So, good for you for, uh, getting your client on the right track.

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I did not succeed with that particular one for, for me, but hey.

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Yeah.

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'cause we're humans like, and I have so much empathy for people out there

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because this is something that, like I said, goes on in my own business.

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Like my head knows what I should be doing in this circumstance.

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So if anyone out there is listening to this and you're struggling having

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that conversation with your managers or your team about going narrow.

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I feel for you because this really is something that is so

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powerful if you can nail it.

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But at the same time, getting everyone in line to think that

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going narrow is going to give you a higher chance of increasing sales.

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That's a tough call.

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So hopefully what Nancy shared today is gonna help people out there.

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But Nancy, I wanna move on to something else that you talk about, which is, mental

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friction and you talk about trying to reduce that rather than persuade people.

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What is that exactly?

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And what might that look like on LinkedIn for a post or a campaign?

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So when you think about it I wanna persuade people.

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What does that mean?

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That means I'm gonna try to sell someone and no one really wants to be sold.

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Right.

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When we push too hard, uh, what happens is something called

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psychological reactance, right?

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We're pushing someone so hard that they turn around and they push back.

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And if I really am trying to sell you this, they're really not gonna buy it.

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So we're much better off taking the approach where we allow people

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to come to their own conclusion.

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And what's wonderful about that is, you know, people may argue with what you

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or I tell them to do, but they rarely argue with their own conclusions.

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So if we can, create our posts, set up our content so that people

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start to go through it and they're nodding and they're coming to their

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own, oh, this would be good for me.

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This is, oh, this is what I should do.

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You know, we're not telling them to do it.

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They're thinking it on their own.

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And that's what is so valuable.

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So instead of coming on strong, and I, I get it, we all wanna sell.

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I mean, that's how we stay in business.

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We all want to, but instead of coming on with this idea of, I need to

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persuade you, what we wanna do is we wanna just present the information

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in an interesting, informative, educational, entertaining way.

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We wanna have a lead that pulls people right in.

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Maybe we wanna tell a story because stories allow the reader, the listener,

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to put themselves in the shoes of the main character, which of course

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means that the main character should not be the company or the product,

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but it should be the customer.

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The customer succeeds because of the product, but the

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product itself isn't the hero.

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We wanna create content like that where people can place themselves in the

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shoes of the customer and come to the conclusion on their own that, yeah,

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this is something that I should do.

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And it, it's not easy because the temptation, of course, is I wanna sell,

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I have numbers I need to hit, I've got all this great stuff I wanna say.

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So we're very tempted to just lead with that, shove it out there.

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But, it really doesn't work because nobody wants to be sold to.

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And if we, if we push too hard, they're gonna push right back.

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I just read an article, this morning actually it was published

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on the, new Newor Marketing Blog, which comes out of the Netherlands.

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And they were citing some 2025 research, this year's research that said that if

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your social platform gets too salesy.

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What happens is, ironically, you make fewer sales, right?

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People go on and they want, you know, information and

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they, they want the community.

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And if the balance starts to to tip over towards too salesy.

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What happens is they pull back and they'll comment here and there, but the engagement

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isn't as strong and the sales drop off.

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That's another reason why, you know, not only do I have to be careful about

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which particular platform we choose and what's going on, and keep our eye on

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that, 'cause context is important, but it's another reason why we don't want

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to get too salesy, because that's just gonna not only ruin it for us, but for

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everyone else on the platform, right?

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If everyone on LinkedIn is sell, sell, sell.

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Based on this research, you know, people are gonna be pulling back

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saying, eh, you know, I, I don't, I don't have that same feeling.

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I don't have that same trust that I used to have.

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When I would go here.

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I don't feel like I'm exchanging information with my peers or with

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the people that I respect and follow.

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I feel like somebody's trying to sell me.

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Someone's trying to persuade me, and I don't like that.

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It's a very natural human feeling, and so we have to be careful about that.

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There was something that you slipped in there that I wanted to go Yes, yes, Nancy.

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That is it.

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You made a, a comment, I won't quote you, but it was like,

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literally, if your product or service is the hero of your post.

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I think you've missed the point, and I would agree with that.

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I think that's why LinkedIn Company Pages get such a bad rep and the

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content doesn't really travel as far.

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'cause too often the company or the product or the service

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are the hero of the post.

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And everybody else is like, eh, who cares?

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That's got nothing to do with me.

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That's not helping me get closer to my goals.

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And I think when you have the ability to take that out and make your customer

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or your customer's customers all of a sudden be the focus on how they

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got there so that they're the hero.

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You're right.

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That is so much more relatable and the kind of content that resonates.

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And that is when brands get trusted and that's when brands can create community.

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And it doesn't have to be all on the personal pages like people

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would have you believe, but if you just talk about yourself.

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Yeah, it's like when you're at a party and someone just does that and what do you do?

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Excuse me, I gotta go grab a drink.

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You don't want to be that person when it comes to your LinkedIn content.

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I like to give people actionable tips.

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You know me, Nancy.

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That's how I roll.

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And if you had the opportunity to speak directly to B2B marketers, which we do

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on this podcast, and you could change just one thing that about how they either

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write their content or structure their LinkedIn content to work the brain instead

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of against it, what would you recommend?

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Well, I mean this, this is a perfect segue actually, um, because what I

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would say is, uh, as you're developing your content, the one thing you need

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to do is you need to be more customer focused and less company focused, right?

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There's plenty of things that you want to say, wonderful things about your company

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and your product, and you are excited about it, and you wanna share all that.

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But we need to think about not what we, we wanna say, but what our

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customers and prospects wanna hear.

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And if we start to filter things through that lens.

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So we get a very different kind of content.

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We'll find ourselves using the words I, we insert company name right?

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Far less.

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We'll find ourselves using the word you far more often.

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We just need to start to see things through our customer's eyes.

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And even though there are 20 million things we wanna say about our product,

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because it's so wonderful, we need to restrain ourselves and zero in on the

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two or three things that are really gonna resonate with our customers and

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prospects that are really gonna make a difference for them, that are gonna be

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the, information that they're looking for.

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Because that's, that's when they're gonna engage.

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And so again, less company focused, way more customer focused.

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You are not gonna get anything but a huge ditto for me on this one as well.

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No surprises there.

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You're the expert in this space, but I just see it happen all

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too often where it is just all about company, company, company.

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You can still talk about the same topics, but you can flip that angle and really

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get into the shoes of the person on the other side, and that's what I'm trying

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to teach my clients when I'm working with them, especially for company pages, is why

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does the person on the other side care?

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How are you helping them make more confident buying decisions

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or get them closer to their goals?

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What are you doing that's helping them, rather than just talk about yourself?

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And it can be talking about exactly the same topic, but flipping the script.

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Everybody wins.

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And you know what?

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I'm a fan where everybody wins.

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Absolutely.

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I mean, it could be, this is a bad example, but it could be as simple as

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instead of saying, we're so excited to tell you about our whatever, it's like

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you'll be really interested to know that our whatever can help you in this way.

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Again, bad example, but it does represent the, the two different ways to get into

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something, and our, our temptation is because we're so excited, we, we, I wanna

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tell you about this, you know, and it's like, no, no, you might be interested

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in this and it's like, oh, I might, why?

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Let me find out more.

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Why might I be interested?

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Right.

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It's all about the customer.

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In fact, we can even list a couple of bullets about why our particular

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product or service is so good, but there's been scientific research that

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shows three is the optimum number, not four, not five, not six, not the 10 or

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20 that you have on your sales sheet.

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Zero in on the three.

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Three has critical mass.

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One, two, it's a little watery where like, I don't know, maybe

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not, not, you know, hasn't really, jelled three is where you wanna be.

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4, 5, 6. It starts to just be too much and the scientific research shows

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that, people start to just tune out.

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But, so you can talk about your product and service, you can have

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those three key points and they could be different from, one segment to

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another, from one product to another.

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You know, zero in on what is gonna be most relevant to your target.

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But again, always through the target's eyes.

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It's not about what you wanna say, it's about what they wanna hear.

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I think we should just leave that there, because I know you said it's not a

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great example, but if we could just get our listeners of this podcast to make

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that change and shift that language.

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One, it doesn't cost anyone anything, so there's no reason we can't do it.

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It is such a simple and effective change that you could implement that I absolutely

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concur with everything Nancy's saying that it would make such a big difference.

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And I'm, you know, I spent 20 years in sales.

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I love selling.

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But we don't need to always punch people in the face with everything that's so

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amazing about our products and services.

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And if three's the magic number, I'm on board with that one.

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But Nancy, like, you know, I just wanna sit here and nerd out on all of this

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behavioural science stuff with you.

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I can't do that 'cause I have to wrap the podcast up.

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But I am going to encourage everybody to go across to your profile,

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connect with you on LinkedIn, and definitely grab a copy of your book.

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So many simple, small changes that would be so effective to really help

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people get better results from their marketing efforts in 2026 and beyond.

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And I think I am calling 2026 the year that we need to get

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back to foundations of marketing.

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The year that we have to stop being distracted by all the shiny toys that are

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out there and build that solid foundation.

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So Nancy, you've helped us a lot here.

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I wish you every success in 2026, and thanks for coming back on the show.

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Oh my goodness.

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Thank you so much, Michelle.

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It's always a joy to speak with you and, and by extension to your listeners.

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So thank you, thank you, thank you.

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And I wish everybody wonderful success in 2026.

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Amazing.

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So until next week, cheers.