In this episode, let's talk about the
Speaker:five signs. It's time to turn your side hustle into a full time
Speaker:business. Hi, I'm Katie McManus, business strategist and money
Speaker:mindset coach, and welcome to the Weeniecast.
Speaker:Your brain is lying to you.
Speaker:It's lying to you about what you think is possible for you. It's lying to
Speaker:you about how much time things are going to take to take off. It's lying
Speaker:to you about what you are capable of. Case in
Speaker:point, over three years ago, I got on the phone with a woman
Speaker:named Lauren Lefkowitz. She'd booked a sales call with me. She wanted to start a
Speaker:coaching business, and in her intake form, she had
Speaker:been very specific that she had a five year plan. She
Speaker:worked full time doing HR and a whole bunch of other stuff for
Speaker:a company, and she had this passion for coaching.
Speaker:Coaching had recently changed her life, taken her back from
Speaker:the beyond the brink of burnout, and
Speaker:shown her exactly how she could show up better at work and in her
Speaker:life. And through going through this journey, she'd realized
Speaker:that she wanted to become a coach herself. But she didn't believe that she could
Speaker:do it full time yet. So as she
Speaker:was booking the call with me, she listed off her five year plan.
Speaker:She was going to start a side hustle coaching business that she would
Speaker:run for five years until it got to the point that she could take it
Speaker:full time. And I remember this as a viewer
Speaker:yesterday, getting on the phone with her and hearing her explain to me
Speaker:exactly how this would work out as a five year plan.
Speaker:And I remember smiling because I could
Speaker:see this woman doing things so much faster.
Speaker:She had drive, she had ambition. She had a
Speaker:deep desire to change lives. On top of all of that, she
Speaker:had this beautiful charisma and way of
Speaker:speaking that I could just see her on stages and writing books and putting
Speaker:herself out there in really brave ways. So towards the end of the call
Speaker:where we were deciding if we would work together, I remember kind of agreeing
Speaker:to, sure. Like, this can be a five year plan. Yeah.
Speaker:Okay, fast forward five months. We celebrated her leaving
Speaker:her job. Just like Lauren. Your brain is lying to you about
Speaker:how long it's going to take for you to start a side hustle
Speaker:and take that side hustle full time and be able to
Speaker:leave your nine to five job.
Speaker:Now, I've had clients who have started side hustles and
Speaker:grown those side hustles to well over six figures a year
Speaker:and are so happy just keeping it a side hustle in addition to their nine
Speaker:to five job. And of course, there's immense benefits to doing that. You
Speaker:have a secure income that you don't have to worry about.
Speaker:You have benefits, you have vacation time. And then, of course, anything
Speaker:that you make in your side hustle is just the cherry on top,
Speaker:and it allows you to live a much bigger life because you have more money.
Speaker:And when you have more money, you have more freedom and you have more choice.
Speaker:And in addition to that, if you're multi passionate and you're really passionate about
Speaker:what you do in your day job, and you're really passionate about what you do
Speaker:in your side hustle, you have your passions covered. There's nothing wrong
Speaker:with building a business that just stays a side hustle. But there is
Speaker:a point where you're going to see the signs
Speaker:that this side hustle is ready to become your full time gig. And in this
Speaker:episode, I'm going to be running through what those signs are. So when they happen
Speaker:to you, you're able to identify them and make a choice. Do
Speaker:you want to take this full time, or does this business need
Speaker:to stay a side hustle because you love your nine to five? I'm going to
Speaker:be talking about this blanks, right? Because
Speaker:people have varying degrees of risk tolerance.
Speaker:I personally am very risk tolerant. If you were to
Speaker:look at my sacred money archetypes, results. I am a
Speaker:maverick, which the maverick is the
Speaker:archetype that is most comfortable with, like, gambling and risk
Speaker:and putting all the chips on the table and just kind of like taking what
Speaker:their winnings are. The way mavericks operate when it comes to business
Speaker:and life, and especially money, scares the crap out of an
Speaker:archetype that we like to call the accumulator. Accumulators
Speaker:do not like to risk things. They want to make sure that things are
Speaker:guaranteed, they're not going to have to touch their savings. And
Speaker:how the two make decisions, especially when it comes to growing a business, are going
Speaker:to be very different. So I'm going to be going through these two veins
Speaker:because it's going to be different for each one of these archetypes. If you're
Speaker:really risk averse, then we'll talk through what your signs
Speaker:are going to be. And if you're really risk tolerant like me, the signs
Speaker:may be a little different.
Speaker:The number one sign that you're ready to take your side hustle to full time
Speaker:and leave your nine to five job is that you are making anywhere from
Speaker:50% to 70% of what your full time job
Speaker:salary is. And of course, on the spectrum
Speaker:of risk tolerance and intolerance, we can kind
Speaker:of make a direct correlation. You know, if you're maverick
Speaker:ish and very risk tolerant, you can probably withstand
Speaker:making a little less because you're not going to be crushed by the
Speaker:anxiety of needing to make up the difference really
Speaker:fast if you really struggle with risk, and risk just
Speaker:does not feel good to you and it adds unnecessary pressure that
Speaker:doesn't make you more productive, then you want to be making more
Speaker:per month in your side hustle, and that'll make you feel more secure
Speaker:in leaving your nine to five. I will also say that leading up to
Speaker:this point, as you're building your side hustle and as you're kind of plotting
Speaker:your escape from corporate life, every single dollar
Speaker:or euro or pound, whatever currency you're working in that
Speaker:you can save, I would save if I were you. It's really tempting as
Speaker:you make more money to be like, cool, I have more money. I'm going to
Speaker:go and spend it. I'm going to go invest in this and I'm going to
Speaker:invest in this and I'm going to invest in this. Sure, there are investments that
Speaker:are going to help you make more money in your business. For instance,
Speaker:investing in a training course that's going to show you how to do
Speaker:it, or working with a coach or maybe hiring a copywriter.
Speaker:But that's not to say that you need to go and hire all these things.
Speaker:As much money as you can save, I want you to save because
Speaker:that is going to be your nest egg, your Runway for when
Speaker:you go full time. Because let's look at the worst case
Speaker:scenario. Say you are an executive leadership
Speaker:coach and you started a leadership coaching business
Speaker:on the side of your nine to five. And let's say you make
Speaker:$10,000 a month from your nine to 570 percent of
Speaker:that would be 7000. Let's say that's seven clients. And let's
Speaker:say, you know, you quit your job and two months afterwards,
Speaker:after you've had no salary and you're just making money from your business,
Speaker:two of your clients end, you know, so now you're down
Speaker:to half of your normal salary. That's really scary,
Speaker:especially if that does not cover your base necessities for your
Speaker:life. And it's that much scarier if you
Speaker:do not have money socked away to backfill it as
Speaker:you need. But I want you to imagine if in your first year of business,
Speaker:of running this side hustle, you're able to save
Speaker:$60,000. Right. $60,000 is nowhere
Speaker:near your full time salary. However, for those first,
Speaker:like, three to five months where you're still ramping up to full time, it's
Speaker:enough to bridge the gap so that you don't feel like you're about
Speaker:to end up in the poor house, which, I mean, what an antiquated term.
Speaker:Do they still have those? I don't know. I feel like in the states,
Speaker:if we actually did have a poor house, it would get attacked by people on
Speaker:the right is socialism. We can't take care of the poor. They need to fend
Speaker:for themselves. They're not strong enough. I feel like here I should bring up that
Speaker:I actually registered as a Republican so that I could go and vote for someone
Speaker:else other than Trump in their primaries.
Speaker:And I want to acknowledge there are a ton of hustle bros out there who
Speaker:are like, no, burn your ships. Quit everything. Go
Speaker:and start your business and put everything into it. That's a very
Speaker:privileged position to come from. That assumes
Speaker:that you have no responsibilities. That assumes that you do not have a spouse
Speaker:who may or may not be able to carry the load
Speaker:financially for your household. That assumes that you don't have
Speaker:dependents. You don't have children or pets that are relying on you to keep them
Speaker:alive. And it goes along with this mentality that
Speaker:we have to make ourselves suffer and work from a place of
Speaker:fear to make our dreams come true. And that is
Speaker:absolutely not true. In fact, when you're in
Speaker:fear mode, you're actually in survival mode. If
Speaker:you're afraid that you're not going to be able to eat, your brain is seeing
Speaker:that as life or death. When you're in a life or death
Speaker:situation, do you have access to your creativity? Are you
Speaker:going to be able to stand firm on your pricing, on a sales call? Are
Speaker:you going to be able to say no to the clients who are not going
Speaker:to be a good fit for you and who may actually end up making your
Speaker:life miserable? Probably not. You know, we're not
Speaker:starting businesses to make our lives harder. Yes, starting a business is probably going
Speaker:to be one of the hardest things you ever do. And also, you get
Speaker:to choose your hard. You get to choose how hard it's
Speaker:going to be. I'm a big believer that one of the best
Speaker:ways you can set yourself up for success when starting a business is
Speaker:by keeping your nine to five job for as long, long as possible. In fact,
Speaker:one of my favorite times to start working with clients is
Speaker:when they're actually starting a new job, because when you're starting a new job,
Speaker:you are going in fresh. You can set boundaries around your time in
Speaker:a way that that's just kind of the expected way to deal with you, with
Speaker:new people versus if you've always worked a little later or
Speaker:you've always taken on an extra project here or there. If you're starting
Speaker:a side hustle business while working a job you've been in forever, you're gonna have
Speaker:to retrain a whole bunch of people as to how they get to deal with
Speaker:you and what they can expect from you time wise. It takes
Speaker:balance and it takes being really impeccable with how
Speaker:you manage your time, which I know for those of us with
Speaker:ADHD is really scary. You have to be very intentional about
Speaker:taking time off. What's that Kim Kardashian quote that was
Speaker:going viral about a year ago? People don't wanna work anymore. Like, you
Speaker:just gotta work. I can tell you my clients do not have
Speaker:a problem working hard. They have a problem taking time
Speaker:off. I can't tell you how many conversations I've had this week
Speaker:alone where I have had to walk clients through exactly
Speaker:what they need to do to step away from work and recharge.
Speaker:So as you're starting your side hustle and as you are setting boundaries
Speaker:around your work, you also have to set boundaries with yourself. You cannot expect
Speaker:yourself to work every waking hour that you're not at your nine to five. That
Speaker:is a recipe for burnout and exhaustion and
Speaker:ruined relationships, for expanding waistlines
Speaker:and for falling behind on all your Netflix shows, which, I mean,
Speaker:the new Bridgerton season is about to come out. Season three, Penelope
Speaker:and Colin are supposed to get it together. It's gonna be rad.
Speaker:You don't want to miss out on that. So long story short, you need to
Speaker:be making between 50 and 70% of what you're taking
Speaker:home from your nine to five before you take your
Speaker:side hustle business full time. Okay, that's part one. Part
Speaker:two is you have to. What am I going to say next? Well, you'll have
Speaker:to keep listening to find out. But first, squirrel, squirrel, squirrel,
Speaker:squirrel.
Speaker:Part two is you have to check in with yourself. There's going to be a
Speaker:point in running this business where you either are fully
Speaker:ready to go and do it. This next bit is not something that's going to
Speaker:happen for everyone. Right? Because some people really enjoy their nine to
Speaker:five. They really enjoy going to work and contributing to
Speaker:a company and their coworkers and working with the
Speaker:clients, in whatever capacity they do, that. There's nothing wrong with
Speaker:keeping your nine to five, but at some point, for some of
Speaker:you, you're going to have this moment of, I'm done. I can't do
Speaker:this anymore. I cannot go to this job
Speaker:and spend my time there and do this work and deal with
Speaker:these people and everything under the umbrella of what
Speaker:you do there. It's just your spirit will be spent. Another
Speaker:moment in that building, either virtual or real,
Speaker:will be something that you just cannot muster the strength to make
Speaker:yourself do right, because you've seen the other side. And this is kind of what
Speaker:happened with Lauren and a bunch of my other clients. When they realized they needed
Speaker:to take their business full time, they just could
Speaker:not keep going with it because they'd seen
Speaker:and experienced the joy that they have doing work they actually
Speaker:love, and they'd seen evidence that they could
Speaker:actually make money from it and be successful at it.
Speaker:Sometimes this point will come before you're making a certain percentage of
Speaker:your income. And here's where we really need to assess what your risk
Speaker:tolerance is. If you're completely risk
Speaker:intolerant, unfortunately, sometimes you're just going to have to force
Speaker:yourself to continue with the nine to five for a
Speaker:few more months until we build your side hustle business up to
Speaker:enough of your full time income so that you
Speaker:feel confident enough and safe enough to successfully take it full
Speaker:time. If you're risk tolerant like I am, you can
Speaker:absolutely, at that moment, be like, what's worth more to me? The paycheck where I'm
Speaker:trading my soul and all my energy every single day,
Speaker:or doing work that I really love and having some risk here,
Speaker:you know, maybe some months will be a little tight. I want to own that.
Speaker:I jumped from my nine to five way too early. I was nowhere near
Speaker:this, thankfully, because I'm a maverick, I was
Speaker:able to pull it out. I was able to, like,
Speaker:hustle and get my income up to what I was making before and then
Speaker:surpass it, you know, times three. That's possible
Speaker:for some of us who. Who aren't crushed by the pressure to make it work.
Speaker:For some people, that pressure to make it work or else you're gonna
Speaker:die, is just a little too much. And that's
Speaker:okay. You don't have to. You don't have to prove anything to anyone. You're
Speaker:living life for you, not for anyone else. And there's nothing wrong with living
Speaker:life in a way that you actually get to enjoy the journey. And of course,
Speaker:there are gonna be trade offs along the way. Maybe you do need to
Speaker:stay in that soul sucking job for an extra two months until you get another
Speaker:client or two. But I would rather you give that
Speaker:little sacrifice than sacrifice the potential
Speaker:success of your business. Right. Because what happens if you leave your job
Speaker:too early? You don't have that risk tolerance and you
Speaker:completely melt down under the pressure. You're just going to have to go back to
Speaker:a nine to five. If you were already miserable there and
Speaker:wanting to escape, imagine how much worse it's going to going to be after
Speaker:you tried going for your dream, failed at it because you couldn't take the
Speaker:pressure, and then had to crawl back to something that made you
Speaker:miserable. We don't want that for you. Okay? That's going to make for a
Speaker:really boring deathbed story. We are, after
Speaker:being very interesting on our deathbeds. We don't want our loved ones sitting there and
Speaker:be like, oh, my God, not this story again about all their regrets and
Speaker:the things they wish they'd done and, ugh, God, I can't listen to this
Speaker:anymore. We want people to be like, oh, my God. Yeah, you did that and
Speaker:you did that and you did that and you were brave and you were
Speaker:funny and you were lit up with life. And I'm going to stick around
Speaker:until your final breath. That's the goal. Anyway, back to the point feeling
Speaker:of being done with your nine to five, that is another sign. That is time
Speaker:to leave the nine to five and take your side hustle full time. Another
Speaker:part, and just a very, you know, straightforward logistical
Speaker:part, that will be a sign that you are ready to take your side hustle
Speaker:to full time is, oh, what am I gonna say next? Well, you'll have to
Speaker:keep listening to find out. But first, squirrel, squirrel, squirrel,
Speaker:squirrel.
Speaker:Another part. And just a very, you know, straightforward
Speaker:logistical part, that will be a sign that you are ready to take
Speaker:your side hustle to full time is whether or not you have consistent
Speaker:leads. Do you have consistent new business coming in? If it's
Speaker:still at that stage where it's really unpredictable and you can't count
Speaker:on getting a client every single month, maybe you get a big client
Speaker:every seven months. You know, depending on how much that client's paying, that
Speaker:might be enough. But if it's not, you're taking
Speaker:a huge gamble going full time. If you can
Speaker:reliably say that you're getting anywhere from four to ten sales
Speaker:calls a month, and you know that your closing percentage is anywhere from
Speaker:25% to 33%, then I would
Speaker:say that you are ready to take your business full time, especially if you're selling
Speaker:a high ticket offer. And again, something that's, like, purely
Speaker:logistical when you're considering if this is ready to be full time,
Speaker:is are you running out of time? You know, there comes a point in running
Speaker:a side hustle where you know that you could do more
Speaker:and make more money if you just had another five or 10 hours
Speaker:in a week. And if you're at that breaking point where you just don't have
Speaker:the time to put into it because you're spending 40 hours a week at your
Speaker:nine to five, that's really a time to consider. Should I be
Speaker:jumping from the nine to five? Now, this part you want to check
Speaker:up against the first bit where you're making 50%
Speaker:to 70% of your nine to five income, because if you're only
Speaker:making 10%, it doesn't really matter if you're running out of time. You know, you
Speaker:could do more if you had more time. Like, that's not enough.
Speaker:The last bit is, do you have the savings for this?
Speaker:One of the inescapable truths about life is that we live in meat
Speaker:suits that require things like food and water and shelter
Speaker:and clothing. I mean, unless you're part of a nudist colony, you live in a
Speaker:really warm climate where there are no mosquitoes, but still, you're going to
Speaker:need food and shelter and water. So we need
Speaker:money to make this work. And that money is going to come from one of
Speaker:two places. Going to come from the business itself, or it's going
Speaker:to come from our savings. I can guarantee you one thing. As a business
Speaker:owner, you will have slow months. You will have months where
Speaker:you're panicking about money, cash flow will kind of dry
Speaker:up or slow down, and you're going to get spun
Speaker:into a panic. It doesn't really matter if you're a maverick
Speaker:or you're an accumulator or any of the other
Speaker:archetypes. When that happens, as a human, you're
Speaker:still going to need to pay your rent or your mortgage and go and buy
Speaker:groceries and go and buy food at restaurants and
Speaker:buy some clothes. And if you can't do
Speaker:that, you're not going to be able to move forward with the business. You're going
Speaker:to be backed into a corner. And we're not designing businesses where you
Speaker:just barely survive. That's not the point. That's one of the reasons why
Speaker:when I get on the phone with potential clients and I ask them how much
Speaker:money they want to make. I actually throw out their first answer because the
Speaker:first answer everyone always gives to that question is, oh, well, here's
Speaker:the base amount that I would need to survive if I wanted to eat ramen
Speaker:every day and barely make my electrical bill and mooch
Speaker:wifi off of my neighbors and pay rent for a really
Speaker:shitty apartment that I would have to downsize a whole bunch, maybe get rid of
Speaker:my cat to get into. I would be willing to make this much, and that
Speaker:would be fine. That's not the answer I want. I want the answer
Speaker:of how much money you want to make. How much money do you want to
Speaker:make so that you can live in your ideal home? So that
Speaker:you can adopt ten more cats? Live your best Taylor Swift
Speaker:life. My favorite fact about that woman is that she is
Speaker:the crazy cat lady that we all aspire to be. Secretly, personally, I'm kind
Speaker:of allergic to cats, so I can't necessarily be a crazy cat lady, but I
Speaker:can have a deep appreciation for them and with the pride that she
Speaker:has around her cat ladyhood. For you to get there,
Speaker:though, you need to not just be focused on your
Speaker:survival, you need to be focused on what your bigger dream is,
Speaker:what your big goals are. You know that saying, aim for the stars
Speaker:and land on the moon? I'm not sure if I made it up or if
Speaker:I heard it somewhere. So maybe you haven't heard it. But anyway, there's
Speaker:this belief that, like, when you shoot for something that feels
Speaker:so big and so out of reach, you're more likely to land
Speaker:somewhere. That is still a huge accomplishment to get to. When I start with clients
Speaker:and we're trying to figure out their basic pricing, we actually don't figure out how
Speaker:much money they want to make in the first year of their business because that's
Speaker:not really helpful. So if you say that you want to make
Speaker:$100,000 that year and we base your pricing off of that
Speaker:$100,000, you're probably only going to make 33,000,
Speaker:right? Because you're starting a business, there's ramp up time,
Speaker:there's figuring out your niche. You have to start marketing. You're not going to have
Speaker:a full list of clients right away after you decide you're starting this business.
Speaker:That's not how it works. However, if in year three, you decide you
Speaker:want to make $300,000, great, we can base your pricing off
Speaker:of that. And if you're only making a third of that, you're far more likely
Speaker:to make $100,000 in your first year. And realistically, when
Speaker:you're on sales calls and this is a new business and you're asking for big
Speaker:money for your work, are you going to be more confident asking
Speaker:for it when you have zero money in savings? Or are you going to be
Speaker:more confident asking for it when you have a good chunk of change socked
Speaker:away and you know that if this person says no to working
Speaker:with you, you're going to be fine. You'll be able to feed yourself, you'll be
Speaker:able to pay the mortgage. Your children will have shoes. If
Speaker:you have children. Thankfully, pets don't need shoes. They need other things.
Speaker:Watch Luna come up and be like, mom, I really want shoes. You can
Speaker:talk.
Speaker:So whatever it is that your brain is telling you is possible for you, I
Speaker:want you to tell it to off. Your brain doesn't understand
Speaker:how this works. Never done it before, has lived in a world
Speaker:where you're constantly made to feel like you're not good
Speaker:enough. For you to succeed in the neurotypical
Speaker:systems that have been designed for things to function, you have to
Speaker:go above and beyond. You have to bend yourself into a pretzel that
Speaker:got twisted in the conveyor belt to be able to be
Speaker:successful. One of the most beautiful things about starting a business is
Speaker:that you get to design the business to function for how you
Speaker:function. You do not have to create a business that will require
Speaker:you to bend into a pretzel to be able to run.
Speaker:You absolutely can if you really enjoy making yourself suffer. If
Speaker:you're a masochist, go for it. But you do not necessarily have to
Speaker:do that. One of the things that I walk my clients through is
Speaker:designing a business that works for them to have their
Speaker:ideal lives. This is one of the reasons why those business programs that are
Speaker:like one size fits all follow my step by step plan that worked
Speaker:for me and just do it yourself. Why? Those don't really work
Speaker:for everyone. They maybe work for 5% of the people that sign up for them.
Speaker:And for those of us with ADHd. When we start programs like that,
Speaker:we get a couple lessons in and we just feel so defeated because it
Speaker:feels like we're back in school and we're being given instructions
Speaker:for our a project that just feels
Speaker:completely alien to us, that has all these
Speaker:complicated instructions that don't really feel like stuff that we like doing. And so then
Speaker:we get into executive dysfunction about doing the one little bit, but then we can't
Speaker:get to the next little bit without doing that first little bit. And so then
Speaker:we start feeling all the shame bubbling up of, oh, my God, I just can't
Speaker:do it. All that comes up when you sign up for these one size fits
Speaker:all programs. If every single business
Speaker:were able to function in the same exact way,
Speaker:starting a business wouldn't be hard. It wouldn't be something that the failure
Speaker:rate was super high. Everyone would just do the same thing. Okay, you're not meant
Speaker:to do the exact same thing as another business owner. You have to
Speaker:find a way to design this business in a way that allows
Speaker:for you to be in your strengths, for you to
Speaker:feel lit up, doing the things that you love day in and
Speaker:day out. It's okay that you don't know how to do that. You've never done
Speaker:this before. And up until now, you have lived in a world that
Speaker:is designed for neurotypicals, by neurotypicals, and you've had to
Speaker:work really hard and you've had to sacrifice parts of yourself that you
Speaker:don't even realize to be successful. Your brain
Speaker:is going to take a beat to understand that that's not necessary when
Speaker:you start a business. It's a learning process curve that I'm personally still
Speaker:on, and I train on this. I literally work with other
Speaker:ADHD entrepreneurs and I'm still struggling with it myself. Your
Speaker:brain is not going to be able to be truthful with you because it doesn't
Speaker:actually know the truth here. So whatever it is that you think is possible
Speaker:for you, whatever dream or goal you think
Speaker:is quote unquote realistic for you to
Speaker:reach, I hereby call bullshit. And I hope you call
Speaker:bull too. And sure, come up with your five
Speaker:year plan. Bring that five year plan to a generate income
Speaker:strategy call with me and we'll have a nice little laugh about it, and we'll
Speaker:come up with your five month plan. And if you want to book that generate
Speaker:income strategy, call. The link is in the show notes and you can go
Speaker:to weeniecast.com/strategycall. I
Speaker:can't wait to talk to you there.