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John and Connie: Hi, and welcome to another episode of Celebrating

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Small Family Businesses where we celebrate passion in action.

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Today we are celebrating Staged Right LLC, with Andrea and Ray Bryant.

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Hi Andrea.

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Hi Ray.

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Andrea and Ray: How

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John and Connie: Welcome to our podcast!

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So we always like to, to start with like how you got here and.

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Uh, you know, I think it's, uh, from what I've learned quite a, a, a journey.

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So, but how did you get to Staged Right?

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Andrea and Ray: Well, um, I was a second grade teacher for 20 years

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and I kind of had enough of, um, teaching things I don't believe in

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and ways I don't believe in, and just.

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You know, kind of beating kids up with testing that I felt like

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we were doing to second graders.

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So, um, you know, Ray said, why don't you stop teaching and do something else?

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I said, oh, you said it, you can't take it back now.

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So I started flipping houses, and I, we did a few and they were okay.

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It was kind of like this, make some money.

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Oops.

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Lose some money.

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Oh.

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You know, just kind of a little bit of a rollercoaster like that.

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And the girl that was staging my houses when we flipped them, I was talking

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to her one day on the phone and she said, Hey, I, I'm moving to Savannah.

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I said, what are you doing with your business?

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Because I knew she had enough furniture to stage 60 houses.

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I said, whatcha doing with your business?

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She said, oh, I'm gonna sell it.

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I said, she goes, well wait a minute.

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Why don't you buy it?

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I said, me buy it.

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I don't know anything about that.

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I can teach kids how to read, but I dunno anything about that.

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I've seen your flips.

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They're beautiful.

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You can do it.

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It's not rocket science.

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I was like, Hmm.

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So I went into him and I said, um, he said, who was on the phone?

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I said, oh, the stager who stages for us?

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he, he said, what's she up to?

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I said, well, she's selling her business.

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And he said, why don't you buy it?

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I said, well, you're the second person in 10 minutes to say that.

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Maybe I need to think about it.

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So I called her back and said, could I follow you around and, you

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know, see, see what it entails?

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And she said, sure.

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So I followed around for a couple of days and I was like, oh.

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This looks like fun.

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This is a fun job.

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Okay.

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So I'm gonna buy it.

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So I followed her around for a couple of months.

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Um, we were gonna kind of end the year with my books and her books, you know,

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make it a little easier on the books.

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And so we, you know, I followed her around and I have to say she was maybe

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the meanest person I've ever met.

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I can attest to that.

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She was just, just nasty and nasty to her employees and huh?

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They couldn't wait for me to take over pretty much, right?

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So we got near the end of the year and she said, um, she just

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happened to say, oh, last week I sold $30,000 worth of furniture.

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And I said, sold furniture.

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I said, why did you sell furniture?

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She said, because it's still my business and I'll do what I want.

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I said, yikes.

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So I came home and told him, and I called my lawyer and he said, the

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lawyer's like, oh, I don't like that.

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I said, me neither, because how do I know what else she was selling behind my back?

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So I called her the next day.

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Well, it took me two hours to call her.

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I had to get up the nerve to call her because remember she's scary

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called her and she said, what?

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You don't want it anymore?

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I said, I do want it, but I can't pay the same price.

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If you know, if you're selling furniture.

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And she said, well, the price is firm.

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I said, okay.

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She goes, okay, bye.

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I was like, and he's like, oh, I bet she's gonna call you back.

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You know, you spent two months with her.

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There's no way she's gonna just let this die.

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I said, I don't know about her.

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She might just burn that furniture before she calls me back.

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And she never did.

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And I was, Hmm.

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After I licked my wounds for a minute, I said, think I can do this by myself.

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I don't think I need, you know, I think we can do it.

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We, so that's what we did.

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We started our own.

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And you know, I always used to laugh his, I pull in the yard and his

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truck looked like Sanford and Son.

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He'd be singing the Sanford and Son song to me, because every his pickup truck

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was always loaded down with furniture from here and there and everywhere.

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And that's kinda how we started it.

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It just, it was.

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It's supposed to be a little differently, but it worked out great.

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I'm, I'm thrilled with how it worked because I was gonna have to

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pay her payments for three years and then I didn't have to do that.

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I would've had instant customers, but.

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This was better.

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This was better.

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And then, uh, one of her employees called me after I didn't buy,

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and he said, what happened?

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Oh God, what happened?

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Why didn't, why didn't you buy it?

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well, I couldn't, you know, I told him the story.

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He said, well, if you ever need help on the weekends, or, you know, when I'm not

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working with her, I'm, I'm happy to help.

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So my first, the first few houses we did, Ray and I, and, and Bobby

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did the houses and, you know, the pickup truck and the U-Haul.

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um, then she found out that he was working with me and she fired him.

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So I was like, uh oh, we gotta get a lot busier because now

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I'm responsible for Bobby.

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So that's what happened.

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So it lit a little fire under us, and that's how it, how it all happened.

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John and Connie: So did when she didn't sell it to you, did she also not move

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out of the area like she was planning?

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Andrea and Ray: She'd already bought a house in Savannah, so

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she was already planning to move.

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And I've heard from other stagers that they, she asked them if they wanted

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to buy things, but the problem was her furniture wasn't in great shape.

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It was rough.

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I mean it, and so they were like, they didn't want it either.

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And then after I didn't buy it, people had said, you know,

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she has a terrible reputation.

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I'm glad you didn't buy her business, because I would've been

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digging myself out of a hole.

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I'm glad to have had zero reputation rather than a negative one.

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So

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John and Connie: So you dodged a bullet there.

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Andrea and Ray: to.

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John and Connie: Wow, that's cool.

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So you started as a, basically as a customer of staging the,

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the concept of staging right?

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When you were flipping houses.

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So you learned the value of it from the other side

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Andrea and Ray: Absolutely.

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It makes a humongous

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difference.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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And then I would think that would, did that make it easier to sell?

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Andrea and Ray: What's that?

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John and Connie: Did that make it easier to sell to your customers when

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you, you could say, look, I've been flipping houses and staging made all the

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difference, or whatever your story was.

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Andrea and Ray: Absolutely, because my, the main customers of our business is

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they're flippers and real estate agents.

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Um, flippers.

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Flippers are a hard sell because they, they are pinching every single penny.

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I understand that.

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And, and then I think when they call me and they understand,

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oh, she's a flipper too.

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She, she gets me.

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I think that's really helpful, and I think I was in the right

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place at the right time going.

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I, I'd been, he, we'd both been going to meetings, real estate meetings and

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real estate investor meetings and the, you know, a lot of the flippers already

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knew they knew us, so they weren't Then when I said, Hey, I'm doing this, oh,

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at first they'd say, oh, that's Foo foo.

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What does putting some pillows in a couch in a house do?

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Well, we, I said, you know what?

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A couple of the.

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Big players.

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I said, lemme just do one.

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Lemme do one for it really cheap.

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Let's see what happens.

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So we did it, and I remember one of them, the one, one guy had a

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little condo over in Madeira Beach.

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Couldn't sell it, couldn't sell it.

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Ray and I staged it by ourselves.

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I don't think Bobby was available.

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Then we staged it by ourselves.

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That was a chore.

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The, the elevator upstairs could, the elevator couldn't fit the couch.

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So three floors.

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The good thing, I got muscles here, but three floors, the two of us lugging

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couches, lugging everything up, that one sold for $10,000 over asking as soon as

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we took new pictures and got it staged.

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So that guy at every meeting was yelling from the rooftops, okay

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guys, I said, this is foo foo.

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I didn't believe in it either.

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I'm a believer now, so that was helpful to have some of the big

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dogs, you know, yelling from the rooftops because a lot of,

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John and Connie: Yes.

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Andrea and Ray: of flippers don't believe in it.

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Well, they do now because it's, it's this time, this a time of real estate is tough.

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It's hard to sell houses right now, so you have to pull out all your bag

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of tricks, staging's one of them.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Well, good job.

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Yeah.

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I mean, gosh, we could talk about the, the, the psychology of it is huge, and

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both from the, the seller's point of view and from the buyer's point of view.

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Right.

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We used to watch all those, uh, shows on HGTV, you know, and, and

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you'd see somebody walk into a house and look around and say, oh, and,

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and we saw this in real life too.

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I, I could never buy this house.

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I don't like this color.

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It's like, wait, what?

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It's a, it's a, you repaint, it's it's a room.

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Andrea and Ray: this.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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But it, it just, that really impressed upon me how much people, they,

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they lock into a first impression.

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And so that first impression is, is pretty powerful and, and you

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need to make it where they can imagine themself in your space.

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That was the, the, the big thing I, I learned, we learned about decluttering

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from, again, life experience.

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His, his mother is selling her own house, selling woman had

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a 10,000 square foot house.

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Oh my God.

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It was packed to the gills.

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Andrea and Ray: Oh boy, my gosh, that's a

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John and Connie: Yeah, she, she was a collector.

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She, yeah, she was a collector and she was really proud of

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her stuff, and, and that's,

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Andrea and Ray: got

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John and Connie: know, yes, she was.

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I called her the keeper of the dead people stuff.

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Andrea and Ray: Well, that's the problem.

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Once the people die who

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: keeps their photo albums and their yearbooks, you feel bad

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throwin' it away, but, but guess what?

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You didn't feel that bad, did you?

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John and Connie: Yeah, no, I, you know, it was quite, uh, it was quite liberating,

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but when you're, when you're buying it, looking at a house to try to decide if

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you want to buy it, you, you know, you see a bunch of, you know, a wall of

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family photos of somebody else's family.

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It's, that doesn't work.

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It's off-putting.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: Exactly.

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You have to be able to picture your own family in there.

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Even we tell people, 'cause we also do a consultation that we'll

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go in when somebody's staying in the house, not just a vacant.

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A house that we do all the furniture, but when people are staying in the house

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and going to live there during the sales process, we'll go in and tell them all the

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things they can do to get more money for their house and you know, sell it faster.

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And even when people have a big S on the wall for Smith or

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whatever, like we don't want them thinking of the Smiths living here.

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We want them thinking of the Joneses living here.

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So take all of that down and, and

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Andrea and Ray: hard for people to understand that like, oh, people can

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: that.

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John and Connie: No, they can't.

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Andrea and Ray: time.

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John and Connie: No.

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People have a hard time seeing past this right here.

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That's right.

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Well, and even his mother on the second house that we sold for them, same thing.

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I finally had to get the realtor in there going, you gotta save me here

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because I can't get her to do this.

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And she finally looked at her and said, look, it's not gonna sell

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unless you do this, this, and this.

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Andrea and Ray: And that's

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John and Connie: I had the U-Haul truck.

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Andrea and Ray: the bad guy.

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Yeah, we could

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: guy for you.

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Let us

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: the things like that.

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They listen to

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Andrea and Ray: says stager, so they think that I know more about it than a

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realtor, whatever gets them to do it and

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John and Connie: Doesn't matter,

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Andrea and Ray: this.

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John and Connie: right?

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: I didn't care.

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Andrea and Ray: when they do it once, say they're happy.

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John and Connie: Right.

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I didn't care how it happened because it, it needed to happen and because we

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did that one so well, the people that were buying it bought all the furniture.

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Andrea and Ray: Oh really?

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: That

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: bunch of problems, didn't it?

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John and Connie: It did it.

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I mean, they kept everything in the kitchen and air.

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It was like, whoa, I like this.

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Because they were moving in with us, so we, we had, so it was good.

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Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: That was win, win, win.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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And an extra $10,000 in their pocket.

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Andrea and Ray: Triple, quadruple win.

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John and Connie: Exactly.

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Exactly.

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So, so this is gonna be one of those questions that's not on our standard

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list, but Ray, you very quickly said to Andrea, why don't you buy it?

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What did you know about her that made that, you know, come

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outta your mouth so quickly?

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Andrea and Ray: Well, I mean, she's, she's a super hard worker.

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She's always been a really hard worker.

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Um, and when she taught, um, her and her girlfriends, the teachers

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would come around and that they just complained all the time.

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It was always complaints about the kids and the teachers and the Yeah, they just

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all seemed like, all, but they all seemed like hated in their own way and, um.

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So when we were gonna buy her business, the money we were gonna put down for

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that, um, you know, then after being with her for, I was only with her for

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a day and I told her, I said, I can't, I just can't be around her the way she

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talks to me and I'm, we're trying to buy her business and the way she was

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talking to her employees, I said, I just can't, I just can't be around her.

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So I told her for, for the money we were gonna pay down, we could have bought

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our own furniture and done it ourself.

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So, um, so that's why I was like, why, why are we doing this?

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And, you know, to stroke her a check for three years, that she

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was gonna have her hands in it, um, and just be the way she was.

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I just, it wasn't the route I wanted to go, and I don't, she didn't either.

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So, um, so it really worked out well, you know, um, doing it that way.

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I think teaching, you know, you, no matter how hard you work, you're making

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the same money, so that gets a little, a little annoying after a while.

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Yeah.

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He's like, I'm, I'm working so hard and not making any more money.

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Right.

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Your own business is nice because you, the harder you

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: the more money you make.

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It's,

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John and Connie: Right.

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Andrea and Ray: yeah.

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And she's much

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John and Connie: But financing it or buying it from.

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So buying it from that other person would've, would that have been sort

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of like staying on and teaching?

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Sure.

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Andrea and Ray: Well, I, I, I don't, well, she, I don't think she would've

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stayed on teaching, but I think it just would've, um, it would've

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killed us to, to write her a check.

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Just knowing, um, that for three years.

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She was always gonna be kind of meddling in the business.

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so, um, just to, just to do that, I'm like, let's just do it

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ourselves and, and cut her out.

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John and Connie: So how do you two work together?

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What's the division of power, so to speak?

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Andrea and Ray: So I still have a W2 job.

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Um, so I still, uh, I still insurance.

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We need insurance somewhere.

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Yeah.

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I've been with my company

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25 years, so, um, you know, I'm, I'm kind of established and not going anywhere.

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Um, for now.

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Um.

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Uh, but I, you know, on the weekends or at nights, I mean, a lot of times after work,

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she'll just, the other night she needed to go do something at a house and her and

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I ran and, you know, move some furniture.

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Did, did a couple things.

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So I help her on the weekends and, um, other ways I can, um, and around the

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house and, you know, things like that.

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John and Connie: So you listen real well.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah, try.

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I

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John and Connie: Good job.

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Andrea and Ray: ruler and hits me all the hand, right?

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The ruler.

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I gotta get that teacher ruler out.

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John and Connie: There you go.

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So did you have, uh, kids still at home, uh, during the, when you started,

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you know, made the transition from teaching into this business or, or from

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Andrea and Ray: I

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John and Connie: flipping into this?

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Andrea and Ray: I have a 17-year-old.

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He has a 28-year-old, and so he's out and be adulting, but yeah, my

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17 year old's still here, so, yeah, and it was an interesting time.

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It was COVID, it was, you know, starting a business during COVID is a little wacky.

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John and Connie: Wow.

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Andrea and Ray: but it all, it all worked out.

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It all fell into place the way it was supposed to.

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John and Connie: Nice.

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So what have you learned that you wish you had learned before you started this?

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Andrea and Ray: I wish I would've done this a long time ago.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: I, I didn't, it's funny when I told my dad I was

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gonna be a teacher, he didn't talk to me for three months.

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He was so mad.

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He is like, oh my God.

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You are working.

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My dad has his own business.

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My mom has her own business.

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Like this is not what we do.

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I'm from Pennsylvania.

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I don't think teachers have a great reputation.

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They're always striking.

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They're always this, they're always that.

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And they kind of have that feeling of them.

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And I just thought he knew, oh God, so you're gonna be stuck.

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You're gonna start making 25,000 a year.

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And I was making 50,000 at the end of 20 years of teaching after

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20 years of experience, 50,000.

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I knew he knew I could do more than that.

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Um, and and is it a wonderful profession?

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Absolutely.

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Do I have really good, warm, fuzzy feelings from it.

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Um, he always tells a story when I, we go out to eat and the server will be.

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I think you were my second grade teacher and now they're grown up and

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it's, that's lovely, lovely to stay

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John and Connie: Hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: that I did teach in.

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So I do have wonderful feelings about it, but I just aren't, it just, it,

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it got it, you know, it kind of has gotten not the same as it used to be.

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And, um, we used to be able to do, when Gasparilla time came, we would

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do make Pirate Punch and we'd turn it into a math lesson and do fractions

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and all of that kind of went away.

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It, it's, uh, if we catch you doing fun Friday, don't do Oh.

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God, it's the last 45 minutes on a Friday.

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They're seven.

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They're seven.

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Like if they, we, I felt like our job as second grade little kid

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teachers, we make them love learning.

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Then

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: and it gets harder, they already have the love of learning.

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If are beating them up in kindergarten, first grade, and second grade, guess what?

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They're never gonna love it.

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John and Connie: Oh.

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Andrea and Ray: I felt like.

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I was like, I'm part of the problem.

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So yeah.

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So I feel like I, that's what I learned.

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I really wish I would've done it earlier.

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I wish I would've had the nerve.

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I had girlfriends that were not in teaching and, and I'd complain

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about it he said, they're like, why don't you do something else?

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I go, there's nothing else I can do.

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I am a teacher inside of me.

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I am a teacher and that's all I can do.

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And they're like, no, you can't.

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You can be a corporate trainer.

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You can be.

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I was like, no, I can't do any of that.

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Like that's, other people can do that, but not me.

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I'm a teacher and that's it.

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So that's the big lesson.

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I wish I would've more confidence in myself, um, to, to branch out and do it.

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So, but I

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John and Connie: Well, at the right time.

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At the right place.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: That's That's right.

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Andrea and Ray: Yep.

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John and Connie: Another question we'd like to ask is, so what's something

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you've learned about the other person?

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You guys have been together for a while, you've known each other a long time.

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What's something you've learned about each other from the staging business working

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together that you didn't know before?

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Andrea and Ray: Well, for me, I, I always knew she was a hard worker.

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Um, but since she's got her own business, I mean, she is

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like really a gritty worker.

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Um, and I tell people, I mean, she, she gets out there, she'll lift couches.

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She doesn't just fluff pillows.

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She's in there at night, uh, giving bids.

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And I mean, she really is a hard worker.

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Um, I really haven't seen a, another female like that work as hard as she does.

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Aw, thanks.

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She really is.

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Um, I come from a long line of coal miners in Pennsylvania.

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Like my, everybody was a coal miner.

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They're, they're hard workers and she does correct me when I don't spell things.

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And that's one of the things she liked about when we first got together.

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When I was texting her.

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She goes, your spelling is one point.

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I know he was a good speller.

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I like that.

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Yeah.

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John and Connie: Sometimes it's those little things, isn't it?

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Andrea and Ray: Right.

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I didn't have to get my red marker out and circle

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anything.

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Uh, what I

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learned about him, let's see.

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So I really appreciate how much he'll help me and like, you know,

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anytime things come and he'll help me.

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You know, like the other night when we, didn't feel like after

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work going to a house and moving things around, but he still did it.

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So I'm, I'm very appreciative of, of how much he'll chip in, um, when I

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need him to, so it's, it's awesome.

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Very giving and, and considerate of me and I appreciate that.

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John and Connie: Cool.

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What would you tell a a another couple that was either considering

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going into business together or already in business together?

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What advice would you give them about the, uh, you know, working together, balancing

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the family and, and the business?

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Andrea and Ray: It's hard, hard to balance.

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It, it, it's, I mean, for her

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: her son's younger.

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Mine's older.

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I mean, but I, you know, I love Chase, like he's my own.

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Um, um.

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And, and we work well together with that.

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But, um, it's, uh, you just have to, you just have to work together

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and have a very good balance.

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You like balance, you know, trying to, it's, it's hard to have a

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balance having your own business.

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It's, it's

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John and Connie: Hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: I'm kind of, my plan isn't to do this forever.

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It's to go balls to the wall for like as long a few years and then sell it.

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I'm not planning to work like this forever.

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I kind of just, I feel like I have catching up to do since I

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didn't make a lot of money so I can catch up, sell the business,

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and start doing some other things.

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So I. And do something you love.

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I mean, like I said, you know, the, the house flipping was, was fun times.

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'cause we were like, oh, we make good money, then we lose money.

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But doing the staging for her, um, she loves it.

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I'll try to throw my 2 cents.

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Like, what about this picture?

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She's like, no, it doesn't match.

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Looks good.

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I mean, I, I got actually one thing here at the house that's like, it's

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my flavor and everything else is hers.

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So I'm like, whatever, whatever, whatever you want.

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But you know, just a couple that, you know, just find something

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you like to do, uh, and do it.

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And work hard at it, it does make our lives a lot easier when I'm happy.

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I was pretty grum grumpy with teaching.

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Pretty grumpy.

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So, um, yeah, it, this is,

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John and Connie: And exhausted.

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Andrea and Ray: Exhausting.

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Yes.

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I mean, you know, I get to go to Home Goods and shop and, and it's a write off.

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John and Connie: There you go.

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Andrea and Ray: yeah, it's fun.

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This is definitely a fun profession.

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And, and it's funny because every woman, he always says that every time

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we go to yard sales, because I'm a big yard sailor, thrift shopper, all that.

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Um, every woman I tell, tell what I do like, oh, that sounds

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like the most fun job ever.

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John and Connie: yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: They really, if I had a quarter for every time, oh yeah,

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I'd be retired by now, because it really, it, and it's, it's a blast.

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Like, you go in and you help people get their houses sold faster, they're happy

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John and Connie: Hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: you know, making more money on their house.

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And, and it's great.

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I, I love it.

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John and Connie: Well, and you also not just do it for sales purposes.

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Correct.

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You also help, like if somebody has been in their house a while and can't seem to

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get what it is, their vision out of their head into their room, you help with that.

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Correct.

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Andrea and Ray: Yes.

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That's kind of a new thing that came from lots of realtors would, when

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we'd go in and do those walk and talks and tell people what to do.

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The realtors, a couple of realtors afterwards would say, um, I'm not

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moving outta my house, but can you come over and do that for my house?

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And I'm not even leaving.

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I'm like.

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Yeah, I guess I could.

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So we, and I have other stagers that do it too, and so they, yeah,

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everybody's loves that too, so I'm kind of starting to spread the word about

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that, that it's a fairly new service.

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But yeah, people sometimes just have a hard time.

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They just, well, staging, they can't figure out, like if it's a blank

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: cannot do it themselves.

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They just don't have the imagination to figure out

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: to put it.

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They're good at other stuff.

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Let handle this.

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Just tell you what to do.

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She also does, uh, she probably won't tell you, she does, uh,

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some work with some charities.

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Um, like the Joshua House.

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She gave some furniture and, and

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John and Connie: Great.

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Andrea and Ray: of that, the woman's shelter.

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So, um, which is, I think that's really dear and dear to her heart.

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Do some charity work.

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Yeah, that makes me happy to do that.

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Yeah, because

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John and Connie: Sure.

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Sure.

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Andrea and Ray: you know what Joshua House is.

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It's a children's home in Lutz.

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That

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John and Connie: Yep.

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Andrea and Ray: You know, the, the worst of the worst has happened to these kids.

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They've been taken out of their homes for a million different horrible reasons.

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And so when I was teaching in Lutz, the kids that went to Joshua

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House would come to our classrooms.

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So, you know, they'd leave with a garbage bag full of their stuff,

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and that's how they would get there.

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I really always felt good about helping those kids.

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And then now I'm like, oh, now I can still help them just in a different way, bring

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them dressers and beds and, and whatever.

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So, um, that really makes me happy to be able to help them in some way

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rather than just decorate houses, but make their lives, um, a little happier.

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Because they've never probably had furniture that matched or

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had maybe not even a comfy bed.

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So now they do.

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John and Connie: No.

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And their own space.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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That's awesome.

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And I, but I, I also wanna bring up something that you said, uh, on the

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business side of things recently.

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I, I heard you at a meeting that we both attended where you introduced what

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you do, and you were proud, rightfully so, that, you had just this year, this

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summer, been able to take a month vacation away from the business, out of state,

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and the business ran fine without you.

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And, and first of all, I wanna celebrate that and salute that.

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That's huge.

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There's an author, in case you or our listeners don't know.

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There's an author named Mike Michalowicz, who wrote a book called Clockwork.

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And it's one of a series of six books that he's written about

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in entrepreneurship and, and in Clockwork, one of the things that he

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gets business owners set up to do is they put it on the calendar

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plan for that four or six week vacation and then make it happen.

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It may take a year, it may take 18 months, but, but put it on the

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calendar and then that's the goal.

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And you mentioned selling your business.

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The reason I'm bringing this up, 'cause you know, one of the things that, you

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know, I hear business brokers talk about, I've, I've read books about it.

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It's if you wanna sell a business, it's gotta be able to run without you.

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If you are the business, you can't sell it.

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Right.

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'cause you can't sell yourself and leave.

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Andrea and Ray: Yep.

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Right.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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If you're the keeper.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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You become the bottleneck.

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So being able to do what you did, I mean, that's like a huge step

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towards building that; showing that that business can, can run,

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Is saleable.

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That you've, you've set up systems and so forth.

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So, uh, is, is there anything that you would share about how, how you made that

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happen that others could learn from?

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Andrea and Ray: Sure.

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Um, I am definitely still working on those systems.

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I didn't go and never get a call.

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I, but I definitely could go on a hike and I didn't have to worry

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that things were falling apart.

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So, I have been working really hard to get things in place.

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Now, do I have an incredible team?

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Oh my God, absolutely.

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Bobby that I stole is still with me, you know, almost five years later and

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he tells me he is not going anywhere until, you know, they're putting them

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in the ground, is what he tells me.

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And he's 62, so he's not super young, but he is still, he, he loves it.

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We have a great time.

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He's a graduate too, for sure.

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Yeah.

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Um, so yeah, I, I definitely had to get a lot of things in place.

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I had to that, that's it.

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The number one thing was that great crew that I could depend on you know.

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And I don't really stage myself much anymore.

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The crew goes every day.

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I send them the list, take this furniture outta this house, put it in

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here, and I don't even really check to make sure that that dining room

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table will fit in the next house.

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My crew looks at the house they're taking it out of.

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They make sure everything's good.

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Then they make sure that the, you know, if they have to stop at the warehouse

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and get a smaller table or a bigger table or whatever, they handle all that.

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I don't have to micromanage them.

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I don't have to do any of that.

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They're real live adults that handle it, and it's absolutely wonderful.

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Um, I definitely wanna get a lot better at automating things.

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Uh, you know, I've kind of.

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Listen to podcasts and things like that, that say to, you know, get a, a answering

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service that'll answer the calls.

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I don't think that's the best idea for me because I feel like when a new flipper

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calls me and I, they tell me this is their first flip and they found me on Google,

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I'm like your first flip, good for you.

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I'm so excited.

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Like I make a big deal outta it because I know it's a big deal.

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John and Connie: It is

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Andrea and Ray: an answering service is gonna care about that.

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John and Connie: no.

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Andrea and Ray: then I tell them, Hey, do you know about some of

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the investor meetings in town?

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They're like, no, I haven't gone to any of those.

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I was like, well, I'm gonna send you a list.

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I have a list of investor meetings I send to them.

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So I feel like that kind of stuff, I feel like I just need to answer the phone.

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I don't think I can farm that one out.

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which is fine with me because I like that.

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I like talking to.

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You know, the realtors, I, I like the whole real estate,

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wild, wild west of real estate.

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It's a crazy world and I like it.

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So, um, yeah, so I, I, I've gotten some things in place.

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I'm still, well, every business is a work in progress, right?

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That we're all, we're all trying to get the right systems in place.

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So I'm, I'm now expanding and doing more of those walk and talks.

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I'm kind of thinking about expanding it a lot, like Sarasota,

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Orlando kind of get that.

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So I definitely need to get things in place to have that, because I

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can't answer every call for that one.

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So, yeah, so I'm, I'm, a work in progress

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John and Connie: All right.

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It sounds it, it

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Andrea and Ray: big

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John and Connie: sounds like the big piece of that was you trained

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people so that you could trust them.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah.

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John and Connie: I mean, you must have hired trustworthy people, first of all.

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Or figured out a way to, you know, manage that: who stays and who goes.

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But then you're trusting them, you're turning it over to

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them and letting them do it.

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So it's not, you're not a micromanager.

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Micromanager.

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Andrea and Ray: Nope.

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Right.

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I I'm definitely not.

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They handle

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John and Connie: had a lot of those in our lives.

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Andrea and Ray: They're trying to control every single little thing that's hard.

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That,

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John and Connie: It is hard.

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Andrea and Ray: fun for anybody, not fun

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John and Connie: No,

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Andrea and Ray: not fun for the

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John and Connie: no,

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Andrea and Ray: fun for anybody.

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John and Connie: no.

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So that was never a challenge for you to, to overcome that, that

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tendency to, to, it's my business.

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I need to have my hand on everything.

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Andrea and Ray: A little bit at the beginning when I was stewing

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all the staging, it was two movers and me, two movers and me.

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Um, and then, you know, I'm a big universe believer and it, I think at

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the exact right time a girl came to me that I was actually buying something

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from her on Facebook marketplace.

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I, when we were going back and forth and she told me where she lives, I was like,

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God, that's like a half an hour away.

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I said, do you ever come over by the outlet mall?

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I live right there.

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She goes, oh yeah, my son lives around the corner.

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I said, can I pay you $10 extra and you bring it to my house?

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She goes, yeah, sure.

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So I had, I, I went to the door, got it.

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And I had my shirt on and she said, are you a stager?

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I said, yeah.

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She goes, I just retired and I would love, do you ever need any help?

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And she's been with me now for three years.

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so you just never know where the exact right

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John and Connie: Exactly.

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Andrea and Ray: the universe is gonna bring them to you

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at exactly the right time.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: is fantastic.

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I am, oh God.

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So, so lucky to have the people that I have.

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yeah, I, I, the hiring, I don't, didn't even seek out the people.

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They kind of came to me like, like magic, but

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John and Connie: because you are open and you were, and you're

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willing to work with people.

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'cause a lot of people, they wanna be the boss instead of

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it being a, A collaborative.

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Yeah.

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Andrea and Ray: yeah, no, I'm good with not.

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They, they are so wonderful.

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I don't need I, feel like I am kind of controlling.

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John and Connie: that also special way.

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Andrea and Ray: you see, I didn't say a word.

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John and Connie: Well done, Ray.

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See, right there is a trick, right?

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There is a secret observe if somebody's listening to this on audio.

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Andrea and Ray: They've proven that they can do it and I don't need to be there

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John and Connie: Exactly

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Andrea and Ray: So

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John and Connie: right.

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Andrea and Ray: know, probably a little bit of me and a little bit of them.

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We, we all just, we all just really click very, very

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John and Connie: Right.

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Andrea and Ray: It's a great crew.

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John and Connie: Good.

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Good job.

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Andrea and Ray: Thanks.

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John and Connie: job.

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Is there anything you, you would like to pass on to somebody that's

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either considering being a stager or just having their own business?

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Andrea and Ray: Um, I would say you can do more than you think you can do.

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I think that was my big thing was, darn it, why did I not think I could do this?

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And I could, and so.

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John and Connie: Mm-hmm.

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Andrea and Ray: Yeah, and you get, I think your over your lifespan,

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you're taught to be a good worker, pay taxes and they don't really teach

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you to kind of be an entrepreneur.

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So, um, I think

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John and Connie: No,

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Andrea and Ray: in her, she had it, um, and just the opportunity

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arose and then she just took it by the horns and ran with it.

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My dad knew I had it, but.

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I didn't know I had it, so

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And luckily, I feel like my son has it too.

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He's, he's working on buying laptops.

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He fixes 'em up and flips 'em and flips 'em, and I'm like, right, he's gonna be,

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John and Connie: Fabulous.

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Andrea and Ray: footsteps.

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I'm really excited about that too.

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Yeah, I

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John and Connie: Good job.

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Andrea and Ray: in his eye, I guess.

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Really excited about it.

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John and Connie: Oh, that's wonderful.

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Good job.

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Something else to celebrate.

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Awesome.

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Well thank you so much.

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Yes.

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Thank you for spending this time with us.

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This has been great.

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And uh, we.

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We will make sure that we put, you know, contact information in our show notes for,

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you know, how to reach you if somebody's local or, you know, if I, I don't know,

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you could wind up going into consulting if somebody called you from outta state

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and said, Hey, I need some help with this.

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Andrea and Ray: If I have to fly there and help them, I'll do it.

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John and Connie: Yeah.

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You know,

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and, and I could go along with you and carry your bags.

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Andrea and Ray: I might need help.

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I might need

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John and Connie: Here we go.

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Andrea and Ray: Okay,

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John and Connie: right.

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Glad we got that settled.

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That's right.

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Thank you so much.

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Thanks.

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We appreciate it.