John and Connie: Hi, and welcome to another episode of Celebrating
Speaker:Small Family Businesses where we celebrate passion in action.
Speaker:Today we are celebrating Staged Right LLC, with Andrea and Ray Bryant.
Speaker:Hi Andrea.
Speaker:Hi Ray.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: How
Speaker:John and Connie: Welcome to our podcast!
Speaker:So we always like to, to start with like how you got here and.
Speaker:Uh, you know, I think it's, uh, from what I've learned quite a, a, a journey.
Speaker:So, but how did you get to Staged Right?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Well, um, I was a second grade teacher for 20 years
Speaker:and I kind of had enough of, um, teaching things I don't believe in
Speaker:and ways I don't believe in, and just.
Speaker:You know, kind of beating kids up with testing that I felt like
Speaker:we were doing to second graders.
Speaker:So, um, you know, Ray said, why don't you stop teaching and do something else?
Speaker:I said, oh, you said it, you can't take it back now.
Speaker:So I started flipping houses, and I, we did a few and they were okay.
Speaker:It was kind of like this, make some money.
Speaker:Oops.
Speaker:Lose some money.
Speaker:Oh.
Speaker:You know, just kind of a little bit of a rollercoaster like that.
Speaker:And the girl that was staging my houses when we flipped them, I was talking
Speaker:to her one day on the phone and she said, Hey, I, I'm moving to Savannah.
Speaker:I said, what are you doing with your business?
Speaker:Because I knew she had enough furniture to stage 60 houses.
Speaker:I said, whatcha doing with your business?
Speaker:She said, oh, I'm gonna sell it.
Speaker:I said, she goes, well wait a minute.
Speaker:Why don't you buy it?
Speaker:I said, me buy it.
Speaker:I don't know anything about that.
Speaker:I can teach kids how to read, but I dunno anything about that.
Speaker:I've seen your flips.
Speaker:They're beautiful.
Speaker:You can do it.
Speaker:It's not rocket science.
Speaker:I was like, Hmm.
Speaker:So I went into him and I said, um, he said, who was on the phone?
Speaker:I said, oh, the stager who stages for us?
Speaker:he, he said, what's she up to?
Speaker:I said, well, she's selling her business.
Speaker:And he said, why don't you buy it?
Speaker:I said, well, you're the second person in 10 minutes to say that.
Speaker:Maybe I need to think about it.
Speaker:So I called her back and said, could I follow you around and, you
Speaker:know, see, see what it entails?
Speaker:And she said, sure.
Speaker:So I followed around for a couple of days and I was like, oh.
Speaker:This looks like fun.
Speaker:This is a fun job.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So I'm gonna buy it.
Speaker:So I followed her around for a couple of months.
Speaker:Um, we were gonna kind of end the year with my books and her books, you know,
Speaker:make it a little easier on the books.
Speaker:And so we, you know, I followed her around and I have to say she was maybe
Speaker:the meanest person I've ever met.
Speaker:I can attest to that.
Speaker:She was just, just nasty and nasty to her employees and huh?
Speaker:They couldn't wait for me to take over pretty much, right?
Speaker:So we got near the end of the year and she said, um, she just
Speaker:happened to say, oh, last week I sold $30,000 worth of furniture.
Speaker:And I said, sold furniture.
Speaker:I said, why did you sell furniture?
Speaker:She said, because it's still my business and I'll do what I want.
Speaker:I said, yikes.
Speaker:So I came home and told him, and I called my lawyer and he said, the
Speaker:lawyer's like, oh, I don't like that.
Speaker:I said, me neither, because how do I know what else she was selling behind my back?
Speaker:So I called her the next day.
Speaker:Well, it took me two hours to call her.
Speaker:I had to get up the nerve to call her because remember she's scary
Speaker:called her and she said, what?
Speaker:You don't want it anymore?
Speaker:I said, I do want it, but I can't pay the same price.
Speaker:If you know, if you're selling furniture.
Speaker:And she said, well, the price is firm.
Speaker:I said, okay.
Speaker:She goes, okay, bye.
Speaker:I was like, and he's like, oh, I bet she's gonna call you back.
Speaker:You know, you spent two months with her.
Speaker:There's no way she's gonna just let this die.
Speaker:I said, I don't know about her.
Speaker:She might just burn that furniture before she calls me back.
Speaker:And she never did.
Speaker:And I was, Hmm.
Speaker:After I licked my wounds for a minute, I said, think I can do this by myself.
Speaker:I don't think I need, you know, I think we can do it.
Speaker:We, so that's what we did.
Speaker:We started our own.
Speaker:And you know, I always used to laugh his, I pull in the yard and his
Speaker:truck looked like Sanford and Son.
Speaker:He'd be singing the Sanford and Son song to me, because every his pickup truck
Speaker:was always loaded down with furniture from here and there and everywhere.
Speaker:And that's kinda how we started it.
Speaker:It just, it was.
Speaker:It's supposed to be a little differently, but it worked out great.
Speaker:I'm, I'm thrilled with how it worked because I was gonna have to
Speaker:pay her payments for three years and then I didn't have to do that.
Speaker:I would've had instant customers, but.
Speaker:This was better.
Speaker:This was better.
Speaker:And then, uh, one of her employees called me after I didn't buy,
Speaker:and he said, what happened?
Speaker:Oh God, what happened?
Speaker:Why didn't, why didn't you buy it?
Speaker:well, I couldn't, you know, I told him the story.
Speaker:He said, well, if you ever need help on the weekends, or, you know, when I'm not
Speaker:working with her, I'm, I'm happy to help.
Speaker:So my first, the first few houses we did, Ray and I, and, and Bobby
Speaker:did the houses and, you know, the pickup truck and the U-Haul.
Speaker:um, then she found out that he was working with me and she fired him.
Speaker:So I was like, uh oh, we gotta get a lot busier because now
Speaker:I'm responsible for Bobby.
Speaker:So that's what happened.
Speaker:So it lit a little fire under us, and that's how it, how it all happened.
Speaker:John and Connie: So did when she didn't sell it to you, did she also not move
Speaker:out of the area like she was planning?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: She'd already bought a house in Savannah, so
Speaker:she was already planning to move.
Speaker:And I've heard from other stagers that they, she asked them if they wanted
Speaker:to buy things, but the problem was her furniture wasn't in great shape.
Speaker:It was rough.
Speaker:I mean it, and so they were like, they didn't want it either.
Speaker:And then after I didn't buy it, people had said, you know,
Speaker:she has a terrible reputation.
Speaker:I'm glad you didn't buy her business, because I would've been
Speaker:digging myself out of a hole.
Speaker:I'm glad to have had zero reputation rather than a negative one.
Speaker:So
Speaker:John and Connie: So you dodged a bullet there.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: to.
Speaker:John and Connie: Wow, that's cool.
Speaker:So you started as a, basically as a customer of staging the,
Speaker:the concept of staging right?
Speaker:When you were flipping houses.
Speaker:So you learned the value of it from the other side
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Absolutely.
Speaker:It makes a humongous
Speaker:difference.
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:And then I would think that would, did that make it easier to sell?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: What's that?
Speaker:John and Connie: Did that make it easier to sell to your customers when
Speaker:you, you could say, look, I've been flipping houses and staging made all the
Speaker:difference, or whatever your story was.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Absolutely, because my, the main customers of our business is
Speaker:they're flippers and real estate agents.
Speaker:Um, flippers.
Speaker:Flippers are a hard sell because they, they are pinching every single penny.
Speaker:I understand that.
Speaker:And, and then I think when they call me and they understand,
Speaker:oh, she's a flipper too.
Speaker:She, she gets me.
Speaker:I think that's really helpful, and I think I was in the right
Speaker:place at the right time going.
Speaker:I, I'd been, he, we'd both been going to meetings, real estate meetings and
Speaker:real estate investor meetings and the, you know, a lot of the flippers already
Speaker:knew they knew us, so they weren't Then when I said, Hey, I'm doing this, oh,
Speaker:at first they'd say, oh, that's Foo foo.
Speaker:What does putting some pillows in a couch in a house do?
Speaker:Well, we, I said, you know what?
Speaker:A couple of the.
Speaker:Big players.
Speaker:I said, lemme just do one.
Speaker:Lemme do one for it really cheap.
Speaker:Let's see what happens.
Speaker:So we did it, and I remember one of them, the one, one guy had a
Speaker:little condo over in Madeira Beach.
Speaker:Couldn't sell it, couldn't sell it.
Speaker:Ray and I staged it by ourselves.
Speaker:I don't think Bobby was available.
Speaker:Then we staged it by ourselves.
Speaker:That was a chore.
Speaker:The, the elevator upstairs could, the elevator couldn't fit the couch.
Speaker:So three floors.
Speaker:The good thing, I got muscles here, but three floors, the two of us lugging
Speaker:couches, lugging everything up, that one sold for $10,000 over asking as soon as
Speaker:we took new pictures and got it staged.
Speaker:So that guy at every meeting was yelling from the rooftops, okay
Speaker:guys, I said, this is foo foo.
Speaker:I didn't believe in it either.
Speaker:I'm a believer now, so that was helpful to have some of the big
Speaker:dogs, you know, yelling from the rooftops because a lot of,
Speaker:John and Connie: Yes.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: of flippers don't believe in it.
Speaker:Well, they do now because it's, it's this time, this a time of real estate is tough.
Speaker:It's hard to sell houses right now, so you have to pull out all your bag
Speaker:of tricks, staging's one of them.
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Well, good job.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I mean, gosh, we could talk about the, the, the psychology of it is huge, and
Speaker:both from the, the seller's point of view and from the buyer's point of view.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:We used to watch all those, uh, shows on HGTV, you know, and, and
Speaker:you'd see somebody walk into a house and look around and say, oh, and,
Speaker:and we saw this in real life too.
Speaker:I, I could never buy this house.
Speaker:I don't like this color.
Speaker:It's like, wait, what?
Speaker:It's a, it's a, you repaint, it's it's a room.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: this.
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:But it, it just, that really impressed upon me how much people, they,
Speaker:they lock into a first impression.
Speaker:And so that first impression is, is pretty powerful and, and you
Speaker:need to make it where they can imagine themself in your space.
Speaker:That was the, the, the big thing I, I learned, we learned about decluttering
Speaker:from, again, life experience.
Speaker:His, his mother is selling her own house, selling woman had
Speaker:a 10,000 square foot house.
Speaker:Oh my God.
Speaker:It was packed to the gills.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Oh boy, my gosh, that's a
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah, she, she was a collector.
Speaker:She, yeah, she was a collector and she was really proud of
Speaker:her stuff, and, and that's,
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: got
Speaker:John and Connie: know, yes, she was.
Speaker:I called her the keeper of the dead people stuff.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Well, that's the problem.
Speaker:Once the people die who
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: keeps their photo albums and their yearbooks, you feel bad
Speaker:throwin' it away, but, but guess what?
Speaker:You didn't feel that bad, did you?
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah, no, I, you know, it was quite, uh, it was quite liberating,
Speaker:but when you're, when you're buying it, looking at a house to try to decide if
Speaker:you want to buy it, you, you know, you see a bunch of, you know, a wall of
Speaker:family photos of somebody else's family.
Speaker:It's, that doesn't work.
Speaker:It's off-putting.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Exactly.
Speaker:You have to be able to picture your own family in there.
Speaker:Even we tell people, 'cause we also do a consultation that we'll
Speaker:go in when somebody's staying in the house, not just a vacant.
Speaker:A house that we do all the furniture, but when people are staying in the house
Speaker:and going to live there during the sales process, we'll go in and tell them all the
Speaker:things they can do to get more money for their house and you know, sell it faster.
Speaker:And even when people have a big S on the wall for Smith or
Speaker:whatever, like we don't want them thinking of the Smiths living here.
Speaker:We want them thinking of the Joneses living here.
Speaker:So take all of that down and, and
Speaker:John and Connie: Yep.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: hard for people to understand that like, oh, people can
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: that.
Speaker:John and Connie: No, they can't.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: time.
Speaker:John and Connie: No.
Speaker:People have a hard time seeing past this right here.
Speaker:That's right.
Speaker:Well, and even his mother on the second house that we sold for them, same thing.
Speaker:I finally had to get the realtor in there going, you gotta save me here
Speaker:because I can't get her to do this.
Speaker:And she finally looked at her and said, look, it's not gonna sell
Speaker:unless you do this, this, and this.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: And that's
Speaker:John and Connie: I had the U-Haul truck.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: the bad guy.
Speaker:Yeah, we could
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: guy for you.
Speaker:Let us
Speaker:John and Connie: Yep.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: the things like that.
Speaker:They listen to
Speaker:John and Connie: Yep.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: says stager, so they think that I know more about it than a
Speaker:realtor, whatever gets them to do it and
Speaker:John and Connie: Doesn't matter,
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: this.
Speaker:John and Connie: right?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yeah.
Speaker:John and Connie: I didn't care.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: when they do it once, say they're happy.
Speaker:John and Connie: Right.
Speaker:I didn't care how it happened because it, it needed to happen and because we
Speaker:did that one so well, the people that were buying it bought all the furniture.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Oh really?
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: That
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: bunch of problems, didn't it?
Speaker:John and Connie: It did it.
Speaker:I mean, they kept everything in the kitchen and air.
Speaker:It was like, whoa, I like this.
Speaker:Because they were moving in with us, so we, we had, so it was good.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: That was win, win, win.
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:And an extra $10,000 in their pocket.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Triple, quadruple win.
Speaker:John and Connie: Exactly.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:So, so this is gonna be one of those questions that's not on our standard
Speaker:list, but Ray, you very quickly said to Andrea, why don't you buy it?
Speaker:What did you know about her that made that, you know, come
Speaker:outta your mouth so quickly?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Well, I mean, she's, she's a super hard worker.
Speaker:She's always been a really hard worker.
Speaker:Um, and when she taught, um, her and her girlfriends, the teachers
Speaker:would come around and that they just complained all the time.
Speaker:It was always complaints about the kids and the teachers and the Yeah, they just
Speaker:all seemed like, all, but they all seemed like hated in their own way and, um.
Speaker:So when we were gonna buy her business, the money we were gonna put down for
Speaker:that, um, you know, then after being with her for, I was only with her for
Speaker:a day and I told her, I said, I can't, I just can't be around her the way she
Speaker:talks to me and I'm, we're trying to buy her business and the way she was
Speaker:talking to her employees, I said, I just can't, I just can't be around her.
Speaker:So I told her for, for the money we were gonna pay down, we could have bought
Speaker:our own furniture and done it ourself.
Speaker:So, um, so that's why I was like, why, why are we doing this?
Speaker:And, you know, to stroke her a check for three years, that she
Speaker:was gonna have her hands in it, um, and just be the way she was.
Speaker:I just, it wasn't the route I wanted to go, and I don't, she didn't either.
Speaker:So, um, so it really worked out well, you know, um, doing it that way.
Speaker:I think teaching, you know, you, no matter how hard you work, you're making
Speaker:the same money, so that gets a little, a little annoying after a while.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:He's like, I'm, I'm working so hard and not making any more money.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Your own business is nice because you, the harder you
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: the more money you make.
Speaker:It's,
Speaker:John and Connie: Right.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: yeah.
Speaker:And she's much
Speaker:John and Connie: But financing it or buying it from.
Speaker:So buying it from that other person would've, would that have been sort
Speaker:of like staying on and teaching?
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Well, I, I, I don't, well, she, I don't think she would've
Speaker:stayed on teaching, but I think it just would've, um, it would've
Speaker:killed us to, to write her a check.
Speaker:Just knowing, um, that for three years.
Speaker:She was always gonna be kind of meddling in the business.
Speaker:so, um, just to, just to do that, I'm like, let's just do it
Speaker:ourselves and, and cut her out.
Speaker:John and Connie: So how do you two work together?
Speaker:What's the division of power, so to speak?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: So I still have a W2 job.
Speaker:Um, so I still, uh, I still insurance.
Speaker:We need insurance somewhere.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I've been with my company
Speaker:25 years, so, um, you know, I'm, I'm kind of established and not going anywhere.
Speaker:Um, for now.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:Uh, but I, you know, on the weekends or at nights, I mean, a lot of times after work,
Speaker:she'll just, the other night she needed to go do something at a house and her and
Speaker:I ran and, you know, move some furniture.
Speaker:Did, did a couple things.
Speaker:So I help her on the weekends and, um, other ways I can, um, and around the
Speaker:house and, you know, things like that.
Speaker:John and Connie: So you listen real well.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yeah, try.
Speaker:I
Speaker:John and Connie: Good job.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: ruler and hits me all the hand, right?
Speaker:The ruler.
Speaker:I gotta get that teacher ruler out.
Speaker:John and Connie: There you go.
Speaker:So did you have, uh, kids still at home, uh, during the, when you started,
Speaker:you know, made the transition from teaching into this business or, or from
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I
Speaker:John and Connie: flipping into this?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I have a 17-year-old.
Speaker:He has a 28-year-old, and so he's out and be adulting, but yeah, my
Speaker:17 year old's still here, so, yeah, and it was an interesting time.
Speaker:It was COVID, it was, you know, starting a business during COVID is a little wacky.
Speaker:John and Connie: Wow.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: but it all, it all worked out.
Speaker:It all fell into place the way it was supposed to.
Speaker:John and Connie: Nice.
Speaker:So what have you learned that you wish you had learned before you started this?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I wish I would've done this a long time ago.
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I, I didn't, it's funny when I told my dad I was
Speaker:gonna be a teacher, he didn't talk to me for three months.
Speaker:He was so mad.
Speaker:He is like, oh my God.
Speaker:You are working.
Speaker:My dad has his own business.
Speaker:My mom has her own business.
Speaker:Like this is not what we do.
Speaker:I'm from Pennsylvania.
Speaker:I don't think teachers have a great reputation.
Speaker:They're always striking.
Speaker:They're always this, they're always that.
Speaker:And they kind of have that feeling of them.
Speaker:And I just thought he knew, oh God, so you're gonna be stuck.
Speaker:You're gonna start making 25,000 a year.
Speaker:And I was making 50,000 at the end of 20 years of teaching after
Speaker:20 years of experience, 50,000.
Speaker:I knew he knew I could do more than that.
Speaker:Um, and and is it a wonderful profession?
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:Do I have really good, warm, fuzzy feelings from it.
Speaker:Um, he always tells a story when I, we go out to eat and the server will be.
Speaker:I think you were my second grade teacher and now they're grown up and
Speaker:it's, that's lovely, lovely to stay
Speaker:John and Connie: Hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: that I did teach in.
Speaker:So I do have wonderful feelings about it, but I just aren't, it just, it,
Speaker:it got it, you know, it kind of has gotten not the same as it used to be.
Speaker:And, um, we used to be able to do, when Gasparilla time came, we would
Speaker:do make Pirate Punch and we'd turn it into a math lesson and do fractions
Speaker:and all of that kind of went away.
Speaker:It, it's, uh, if we catch you doing fun Friday, don't do Oh.
Speaker:God, it's the last 45 minutes on a Friday.
Speaker:They're seven.
Speaker:They're seven.
Speaker:Like if they, we, I felt like our job as second grade little kid
Speaker:teachers, we make them love learning.
Speaker:Then
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: and it gets harder, they already have the love of learning.
Speaker:If are beating them up in kindergarten, first grade, and second grade, guess what?
Speaker:They're never gonna love it.
Speaker:John and Connie: Oh.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I felt like.
Speaker:I was like, I'm part of the problem.
Speaker:So yeah.
Speaker:So I feel like I, that's what I learned.
Speaker:I really wish I would've done it earlier.
Speaker:I wish I would've had the nerve.
Speaker:I had girlfriends that were not in teaching and, and I'd complain
Speaker:about it he said, they're like, why don't you do something else?
Speaker:I go, there's nothing else I can do.
Speaker:I am a teacher inside of me.
Speaker:I am a teacher and that's all I can do.
Speaker:And they're like, no, you can't.
Speaker:You can be a corporate trainer.
Speaker:You can be.
Speaker:I was like, no, I can't do any of that.
Speaker:Like that's, other people can do that, but not me.
Speaker:I'm a teacher and that's it.
Speaker:So that's the big lesson.
Speaker:I wish I would've more confidence in myself, um, to, to branch out and do it.
Speaker:So, but I
Speaker:John and Connie: Well, at the right time.
Speaker:At the right place.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yeah.
Speaker:John and Connie: That's That's right.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yep.
Speaker:John and Connie: Another question we'd like to ask is, so what's something
Speaker:you've learned about the other person?
Speaker:You guys have been together for a while, you've known each other a long time.
Speaker:What's something you've learned about each other from the staging business working
Speaker:together that you didn't know before?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Well, for me, I, I always knew she was a hard worker.
Speaker:Um, but since she's got her own business, I mean, she is
Speaker:like really a gritty worker.
Speaker:Um, and I tell people, I mean, she, she gets out there, she'll lift couches.
Speaker:She doesn't just fluff pillows.
Speaker:She's in there at night, uh, giving bids.
Speaker:And I mean, she really is a hard worker.
Speaker:Um, I really haven't seen a, another female like that work as hard as she does.
Speaker:Aw, thanks.
Speaker:She really is.
Speaker:Um, I come from a long line of coal miners in Pennsylvania.
Speaker:Like my, everybody was a coal miner.
Speaker:They're, they're hard workers and she does correct me when I don't spell things.
Speaker:And that's one of the things she liked about when we first got together.
Speaker:When I was texting her.
Speaker:She goes, your spelling is one point.
Speaker:I know he was a good speller.
Speaker:I like that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:John and Connie: Sometimes it's those little things, isn't it?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Right.
Speaker:I didn't have to get my red marker out and circle
Speaker:anything.
Speaker:Uh, what I
Speaker:learned about him, let's see.
Speaker:So I really appreciate how much he'll help me and like, you know,
Speaker:anytime things come and he'll help me.
Speaker:You know, like the other night when we, didn't feel like after
Speaker:work going to a house and moving things around, but he still did it.
Speaker:So I'm, I'm very appreciative of, of how much he'll chip in, um, when I
Speaker:need him to, so it's, it's awesome.
Speaker:Very giving and, and considerate of me and I appreciate that.
Speaker:John and Connie: Cool.
Speaker:What would you tell a a another couple that was either considering
Speaker:going into business together or already in business together?
Speaker:What advice would you give them about the, uh, you know, working together, balancing
Speaker:the family and, and the business?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: It's hard, hard to balance.
Speaker:It, it, it's, I mean, for her
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: her son's younger.
Speaker:Mine's older.
Speaker:I mean, but I, you know, I love Chase, like he's my own.
Speaker:Um, um.
Speaker:And, and we work well together with that.
Speaker:But, um, it's, uh, you just have to, you just have to work together
Speaker:and have a very good balance.
Speaker:You like balance, you know, trying to, it's, it's hard to have a
Speaker:balance having your own business.
Speaker:It's, it's
Speaker:John and Connie: Hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I'm kind of, my plan isn't to do this forever.
Speaker:It's to go balls to the wall for like as long a few years and then sell it.
Speaker:I'm not planning to work like this forever.
Speaker:I kind of just, I feel like I have catching up to do since I
Speaker:didn't make a lot of money so I can catch up, sell the business,
Speaker:and start doing some other things.
Speaker:So I. And do something you love.
Speaker:I mean, like I said, you know, the, the house flipping was, was fun times.
Speaker:'cause we were like, oh, we make good money, then we lose money.
Speaker:But doing the staging for her, um, she loves it.
Speaker:I'll try to throw my 2 cents.
Speaker:Like, what about this picture?
Speaker:She's like, no, it doesn't match.
Speaker:Looks good.
Speaker:I mean, I, I got actually one thing here at the house that's like, it's
Speaker:my flavor and everything else is hers.
Speaker:So I'm like, whatever, whatever, whatever you want.
Speaker:But you know, just a couple that, you know, just find something
Speaker:you like to do, uh, and do it.
Speaker:And work hard at it, it does make our lives a lot easier when I'm happy.
Speaker:I was pretty grum grumpy with teaching.
Speaker:Pretty grumpy.
Speaker:So, um, yeah, it, this is,
Speaker:John and Connie: And exhausted.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Exhausting.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:I mean, you know, I get to go to Home Goods and shop and, and it's a write off.
Speaker:John and Connie: There you go.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: yeah, it's fun.
Speaker:This is definitely a fun profession.
Speaker:And, and it's funny because every woman, he always says that every time
Speaker:we go to yard sales, because I'm a big yard sailor, thrift shopper, all that.
Speaker:Um, every woman I tell, tell what I do like, oh, that sounds
Speaker:like the most fun job ever.
Speaker:John and Connie: yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: They really, if I had a quarter for every time, oh yeah,
Speaker:I'd be retired by now, because it really, it, and it's, it's a blast.
Speaker:Like, you go in and you help people get their houses sold faster, they're happy
Speaker:John and Connie: Hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: you know, making more money on their house.
Speaker:And, and it's great.
Speaker:I, I love it.
Speaker:John and Connie: Well, and you also not just do it for sales purposes.
Speaker:Correct.
Speaker:You also help, like if somebody has been in their house a while and can't seem to
Speaker:get what it is, their vision out of their head into their room, you help with that.
Speaker:Correct.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yes.
Speaker:That's kind of a new thing that came from lots of realtors would, when
Speaker:we'd go in and do those walk and talks and tell people what to do.
Speaker:The realtors, a couple of realtors afterwards would say, um, I'm not
Speaker:moving outta my house, but can you come over and do that for my house?
Speaker:And I'm not even leaving.
Speaker:I'm like.
Speaker:Yeah, I guess I could.
Speaker:So we, and I have other stagers that do it too, and so they, yeah,
Speaker:everybody's loves that too, so I'm kind of starting to spread the word about
Speaker:that, that it's a fairly new service.
Speaker:But yeah, people sometimes just have a hard time.
Speaker:They just, well, staging, they can't figure out, like if it's a blank
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: cannot do it themselves.
Speaker:They just don't have the imagination to figure out
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: to put it.
Speaker:They're good at other stuff.
Speaker:Let handle this.
Speaker:Just tell you what to do.
Speaker:She also does, uh, she probably won't tell you, she does, uh,
Speaker:some work with some charities.
Speaker:Um, like the Joshua House.
Speaker:She gave some furniture and, and
Speaker:John and Connie: Great.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: of that, the woman's shelter.
Speaker:So, um, which is, I think that's really dear and dear to her heart.
Speaker:Do some charity work.
Speaker:Yeah, that makes me happy to do that.
Speaker:Yeah, because
Speaker:John and Connie: Sure.
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: you know what Joshua House is.
Speaker:It's a children's home in Lutz.
Speaker:That
Speaker:John and Connie: Yep.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: You know, the, the worst of the worst has happened to these kids.
Speaker:They've been taken out of their homes for a million different horrible reasons.
Speaker:And so when I was teaching in Lutz, the kids that went to Joshua
Speaker:House would come to our classrooms.
Speaker:So, you know, they'd leave with a garbage bag full of their stuff,
Speaker:and that's how they would get there.
Speaker:I really always felt good about helping those kids.
Speaker:And then now I'm like, oh, now I can still help them just in a different way, bring
Speaker:them dressers and beds and, and whatever.
Speaker:So, um, that really makes me happy to be able to help them in some way
Speaker:rather than just decorate houses, but make their lives, um, a little happier.
Speaker:Because they've never probably had furniture that matched or
Speaker:had maybe not even a comfy bed.
Speaker:So now they do.
Speaker:John and Connie: No.
Speaker:And their own space.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yeah.
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:That's awesome.
Speaker:And I, but I, I also wanna bring up something that you said, uh, on the
Speaker:business side of things recently.
Speaker:I, I heard you at a meeting that we both attended where you introduced what
Speaker:you do, and you were proud, rightfully so, that, you had just this year, this
Speaker:summer, been able to take a month vacation away from the business, out of state,
Speaker:and the business ran fine without you.
Speaker:And, and first of all, I wanna celebrate that and salute that.
Speaker:That's huge.
Speaker:There's an author, in case you or our listeners don't know.
Speaker:There's an author named Mike Michalowicz, who wrote a book called Clockwork.
Speaker:And it's one of a series of six books that he's written about
Speaker:in entrepreneurship and, and in Clockwork, one of the things that he
Speaker:gets business owners set up to do is they put it on the calendar
Speaker:plan for that four or six week vacation and then make it happen.
Speaker:It may take a year, it may take 18 months, but, but put it on the
Speaker:calendar and then that's the goal.
Speaker:And you mentioned selling your business.
Speaker:The reason I'm bringing this up, 'cause you know, one of the things that, you
Speaker:know, I hear business brokers talk about, I've, I've read books about it.
Speaker:It's if you wanna sell a business, it's gotta be able to run without you.
Speaker:If you are the business, you can't sell it.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:'cause you can't sell yourself and leave.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yep.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:If you're the keeper.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You become the bottleneck.
Speaker:So being able to do what you did, I mean, that's like a huge step
Speaker:towards building that; showing that that business can, can run,
Speaker:Is saleable.
Speaker:That you've, you've set up systems and so forth.
Speaker:So, uh, is, is there anything that you would share about how, how you made that
Speaker:happen that others could learn from?
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Sure.
Speaker:Um, I am definitely still working on those systems.
Speaker:I didn't go and never get a call.
Speaker:I, but I definitely could go on a hike and I didn't have to worry
Speaker:that things were falling apart.
Speaker:So, I have been working really hard to get things in place.
Speaker:Now, do I have an incredible team?
Speaker:Oh my God, absolutely.
Speaker:Bobby that I stole is still with me, you know, almost five years later and
Speaker:he tells me he is not going anywhere until, you know, they're putting them
Speaker:in the ground, is what he tells me.
Speaker:And he's 62, so he's not super young, but he is still, he, he loves it.
Speaker:We have a great time.
Speaker:He's a graduate too, for sure.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, so yeah, I, I definitely had to get a lot of things in place.
Speaker:I had to that, that's it.
Speaker:The number one thing was that great crew that I could depend on you know.
Speaker:And I don't really stage myself much anymore.
Speaker:The crew goes every day.
Speaker:I send them the list, take this furniture outta this house, put it in
Speaker:here, and I don't even really check to make sure that that dining room
Speaker:table will fit in the next house.
Speaker:My crew looks at the house they're taking it out of.
Speaker:They make sure everything's good.
Speaker:Then they make sure that the, you know, if they have to stop at the warehouse
Speaker:and get a smaller table or a bigger table or whatever, they handle all that.
Speaker:I don't have to micromanage them.
Speaker:I don't have to do any of that.
Speaker:They're real live adults that handle it, and it's absolutely wonderful.
Speaker:Um, I definitely wanna get a lot better at automating things.
Speaker:Uh, you know, I've kind of.
Speaker:Listen to podcasts and things like that, that say to, you know, get a, a answering
Speaker:service that'll answer the calls.
Speaker:I don't think that's the best idea for me because I feel like when a new flipper
Speaker:calls me and I, they tell me this is their first flip and they found me on Google,
Speaker:I'm like your first flip, good for you.
Speaker:I'm so excited.
Speaker:Like I make a big deal outta it because I know it's a big deal.
Speaker:John and Connie: It is
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: an answering service is gonna care about that.
Speaker:John and Connie: no.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: then I tell them, Hey, do you know about some of
Speaker:the investor meetings in town?
Speaker:They're like, no, I haven't gone to any of those.
Speaker:I was like, well, I'm gonna send you a list.
Speaker:I have a list of investor meetings I send to them.
Speaker:So I feel like that kind of stuff, I feel like I just need to answer the phone.
Speaker:I don't think I can farm that one out.
Speaker:which is fine with me because I like that.
Speaker:I like talking to.
Speaker:You know, the realtors, I, I like the whole real estate,
Speaker:wild, wild west of real estate.
Speaker:It's a crazy world and I like it.
Speaker:So, um, yeah, so I, I, I've gotten some things in place.
Speaker:I'm still, well, every business is a work in progress, right?
Speaker:That we're all, we're all trying to get the right systems in place.
Speaker:So I'm, I'm now expanding and doing more of those walk and talks.
Speaker:I'm kind of thinking about expanding it a lot, like Sarasota,
Speaker:Orlando kind of get that.
Speaker:So I definitely need to get things in place to have that, because I
Speaker:can't answer every call for that one.
Speaker:So, yeah, so I'm, I'm, a work in progress
Speaker:John and Connie: All right.
Speaker:It sounds it, it
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: big
Speaker:John and Connie: sounds like the big piece of that was you trained
Speaker:people so that you could trust them.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yeah.
Speaker:John and Connie: I mean, you must have hired trustworthy people, first of all.
Speaker:Or figured out a way to, you know, manage that: who stays and who goes.
Speaker:But then you're trusting them, you're turning it over to
Speaker:them and letting them do it.
Speaker:So it's not, you're not a micromanager.
Speaker:Micromanager.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Nope.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:I I'm definitely not.
Speaker:They handle
Speaker:John and Connie: had a lot of those in our lives.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: They're trying to control every single little thing that's hard.
Speaker:That,
Speaker:John and Connie: It is hard.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: fun for anybody, not fun
Speaker:John and Connie: No,
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: not fun for the
Speaker:John and Connie: no,
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: fun for anybody.
Speaker:John and Connie: no.
Speaker:So that was never a challenge for you to, to overcome that, that
Speaker:tendency to, to, it's my business.
Speaker:I need to have my hand on everything.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: A little bit at the beginning when I was stewing
Speaker:all the staging, it was two movers and me, two movers and me.
Speaker:Um, and then, you know, I'm a big universe believer and it, I think at
Speaker:the exact right time a girl came to me that I was actually buying something
Speaker:from her on Facebook marketplace.
Speaker:I, when we were going back and forth and she told me where she lives, I was like,
Speaker:God, that's like a half an hour away.
Speaker:I said, do you ever come over by the outlet mall?
Speaker:I live right there.
Speaker:She goes, oh yeah, my son lives around the corner.
Speaker:I said, can I pay you $10 extra and you bring it to my house?
Speaker:She goes, yeah, sure.
Speaker:So I had, I, I went to the door, got it.
Speaker:And I had my shirt on and she said, are you a stager?
Speaker:I said, yeah.
Speaker:She goes, I just retired and I would love, do you ever need any help?
Speaker:And she's been with me now for three years.
Speaker:so you just never know where the exact right
Speaker:John and Connie: Exactly.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: the universe is gonna bring them to you
Speaker:at exactly the right time.
Speaker:And
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: is fantastic.
Speaker:I am, oh God.
Speaker:So, so lucky to have the people that I have.
Speaker:yeah, I, I, the hiring, I don't, didn't even seek out the people.
Speaker:They kind of came to me like, like magic, but
Speaker:John and Connie: because you are open and you were, and you're
Speaker:willing to work with people.
Speaker:'cause a lot of people, they wanna be the boss instead of
Speaker:it being a, A collaborative.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: yeah, no, I'm good with not.
Speaker:They, they are so wonderful.
Speaker:I don't need I, feel like I am kind of controlling.
Speaker:But
Speaker:John and Connie: that also special way.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: you see, I didn't say a word.
Speaker:John and Connie: Well done, Ray.
Speaker:See, right there is a trick, right?
Speaker:There is a secret observe if somebody's listening to this on audio.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: They've proven that they can do it and I don't need to be there
Speaker:John and Connie: Exactly
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: So
Speaker:John and Connie: right.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: know, probably a little bit of me and a little bit of them.
Speaker:We, we all just, we all just really click very, very
Speaker:John and Connie: Right.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: It's a great crew.
Speaker:John and Connie: Good.
Speaker:Good job.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Thanks.
Speaker:John and Connie: job.
Speaker:Is there anything you, you would like to pass on to somebody that's
Speaker:either considering being a stager or just having their own business?
Speaker:S
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Um, I would say you can do more than you think you can do.
Speaker:I think that was my big thing was, darn it, why did I not think I could do this?
Speaker:And I could, and so.
Speaker:John and Connie: Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Yeah, and you get, I think your over your lifespan,
Speaker:you're taught to be a good worker, pay taxes and they don't really teach
Speaker:you to kind of be an entrepreneur.
Speaker:So, um, I think
Speaker:John and Connie: No,
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: in her, she had it, um, and just the opportunity
Speaker:arose and then she just took it by the horns and ran with it.
Speaker:My dad knew I had it, but.
Speaker:I didn't know I had it, so
Speaker:And luckily, I feel like my son has it too.
Speaker:He's, he's working on buying laptops.
Speaker:He fixes 'em up and flips 'em and flips 'em, and I'm like, right, he's gonna be,
Speaker:John and Connie: Fabulous.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: footsteps.
Speaker:I'm really excited about that too.
Speaker:Yeah, I
Speaker:John and Connie: Good job.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: in his eye, I guess.
Speaker:Really excited about it.
Speaker:So
Speaker:John and Connie: Oh, that's wonderful.
Speaker:Good job.
Speaker:Something else to celebrate.
Speaker:Awesome.
Speaker:Well thank you so much.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Thank you for spending this time with us.
Speaker:This has been great.
Speaker:And uh, we.
Speaker:We will make sure that we put, you know, contact information in our show notes for,
Speaker:you know, how to reach you if somebody's local or, you know, if I, I don't know,
Speaker:you could wind up going into consulting if somebody called you from outta state
Speaker:and said, Hey, I need some help with this.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: If I have to fly there and help them, I'll do it.
Speaker:John and Connie: Yeah.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:and, and I could go along with you and carry your bags.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: I might need help.
Speaker:I might need
Speaker:John and Connie: Here we go.
Speaker:Andrea and Ray: Okay,
Speaker:John and Connie: right.
Speaker:Glad we got that settled.
Speaker:That's right.
Speaker:Thank you so much.
Speaker:Thanks.
Speaker:We appreciate it.