Hey, it's David. Welcome back to A Changed Mind, a sanctuary for your spirit, a place where each and every episode, I remind you of the certainty of goodness future. I am your friend, your host, your guide, David Bayer. Many people have been studying the Law of Attraction, how your thoughts create your reality. Only a handful are creating extraordinary wealth and creating the life of their dreams. Why is it? It's because they know something about Law of Attraction that you don't. And over the last 10 years, I've gone from struggling financially and addicted to drugs and alcohol to building a $30 million transformation coaching company and helping hundreds of thousands of people. And in this video, I'm going to show you number one, how thoughts actually become things. Number two, why your reality isn't changing, even though you think you understand how Law of Attraction works. And number three, the one thing that once I understood it, allowed me to manifest ever I wanted, no matter what it was, 100% time. Now I wish someone had shared these things with me way sooner because every year of me not knowing this cost me more money and time than I'd like to admit. Now first things first, your thoughts are creating every aspect of your reality. You may have heard the story of Bill Buckner. Bill Buckner played in the World Series for the Boston Red Sox. And on October 26, 1986, Mookie Wilson hits a routine ground ball in Game 6 of the World Series that goes through Buckner's legs, forcing a Game 7 that the Mets would win. 19 days before the game, he's interviewed by WBZ-TV's Don Shane about the pressures of playing in the World Series. And he says this, The dreams are that you're going to have a great series and win. The nightmares are that you're going to let the winning run score on a ground ball through your legs. Those things happen, you know. I think a lot of it is just fate. Now it isn't fate. It's an understanding of how your thoughts and your beliefs become your reality. And this works in two different ways. Now the first way this works is what we call the internal way that thoughts become things. And the internal way is explained by behavioral psychology. And what behavioral psychology says is, whatever it is that you believe, the beliefs that were formed at a very early age, let's say it's that money was hard to make, or you're not good enough, or you can't trust people. As an adult, you will have thoughts in perfect alignment with those beliefs. Your beliefs create your thoughts. Your thoughts create emotion or feeling. So as you're thinking these thoughts of not being good enough, or worrying about whether or not you're going to have enough money end of the month, or about to make a sales call but concerned that you're not going to do it right or you might bother someone, you actually start to experience a future that has not happened yet. You start to feel the emotions as if it's occurring right there, right now, even though it isn't. Because that's what your thoughts do. Your thoughts create an electro-conductivity in your brain that is then transmitted through the nervous system and you experience that thought as a feeling or emotion. Your beliefs create your thoughts. Your thoughts create your feeling. Your feelings determine what action you do or do not take. When you're feeling fantastic, and when you're curious, and when you're excited, you're more likely to do the things that you know you should be doing in order to create more wealth, improve your health, or create better relationships. But when you're feeling stress, anxiety, or overwhelm, as a result of thoughts created by limiting beliefs, you're more likely to either hustle or grind and be very unproductive in your activity, be coming from a desk place, or worse yet, procrastinate, self-sabotage, or move into indecision. Your actions produce your results. And so, ultimately, depending upon the action you are or are not taking, you get results. And those results are always 100% in alignment with the beliefs or the thoughts that started with them. So, for example, if you're feeling like you're not good enough, and you're feeling not good enough, and therefore you're not taking the proper action, or you're showing up from a place of personal insecurity, you're more likely to not produce the results that you're trying to produce. And then when you observe yourself not producing those results, you go, see, I didn't know how to do it right, or there's something wrong with me. This is what's called a psychocybernetic loop. There's nothing actually wrong with you, it's just that your thoughts are creating your reality. What you believe is producing thoughts, those thoughts create emotions, those emotions turn into action, those actions produce results, and those results, 100% of the time, reinforce the belief that actually created them. And we make the big mistake of thinking that the results in our life are determining how we feel or what we think, when in reality, how we think and what we feel is the root cause of the results that we are or are not producing in our life. Now, this is internal mechanism. Again, based in behavioral psychology, there's nothing woo-woo about this, what you believe, you will then become the instrument of producing in your life. Now, what's also happening, and this gets into the idea of law of attraction and vibration and resonance, is that as you're thinking these thoughts, which are determined by your core beliefs that you established when you were younger, you're actually activating electricity in your brain. Your brain consists of a lot of different things, but the piece that's of interest for us is neurons in synapse. You have these electrically excitable cells in your brain, and you have these connections between them. And whenever you have a thought, you're activating these neurosynaptic connections in your brain, and there's actually an electrical or vibrational phenomenon that occurs. That, as I mentioned before, is then sent through the nervous system so that you experience the thought as an emotion, which is also an electrical phenomenon. And so, you're having over 60,000 thoughts a day. All of your thoughts are manufacturing emotions, and you're essentially an electrical, vibrational, mechanical being walking around putting off a vibe every single moment of your day. And the quality of the vibration or the resonance that you're putting off is determined by the quality of your thought or emotion. And so, we live in a vibrational reality. Now, this is a metaphysical perspective. And what that means is that while everything seems very separate and everything seems very physical, science actually tells us that when we look deeply at the physical world, it's not that physical at all. I remember my third grade science teacher explaining to me that the world is composed of molecules, and molecules are made of atoms, and atoms are made of a nucleus that consists of neutrons and protons and a series of electrons that rotate around the nucleus of the atom, and you have an atom. And that, metaphorically speaking, the size of the atom would be like putting the nucleus of the atom the size of a basketball in the middle of a football field, and the electron would be the size of a tennis ball rotating in the park. And so, what that tells us is that the physical building blocks of the material world are 99.99999 space. And what we're learning through the quantum mechanical model and being able to look even more closely at the physical stuff is that the physical stuff, the particles, the protons, the electrons, photons, are only physical sometimes. Sometimes they're physical, sometimes they're energetic waves. And so, really what we live in is this energetic soup, very much like when Neo sees the Matrix in a bunch of zeros and ones. It's this shimmering, fluctuating ocean of energy. And we've been given these extraordinary energetic interpretation devices, which are known as our five senses. Now, it's very interesting as well that they're called senses. They're not called actualities. They're called senses. We sense something physical. We sense something through our sense of sight, through our sense of smell, our sense of taste, our sense of touch, and our sense of hearing. But really what's happening is we've got these vibrational interpretation devices built into our human being body suit that are interpreting energy or waveform into a physical experience. Now, why is this important to understand? It's important to understand because the misunderstanding that we're living in a physical reality may disallow you from realizing that you're connected to all things. Einstein said this. He said, reality is an illusion, albeit a persistent one. And so, when you're walking around with that voice in your head, criticizing yourself, judging other people, comparing yourself to others, or an indecision, those mental concepts and those emotional experiences are becoming translated into a vibrational output. And now all of life is receiving this vibrational output. And life is organizing in incredibly intelligent and sophisticated ways to manufacture experiences that you will meet in your future that are designed to invoke the same beliefs and the same emotions and the same thoughts that actually created them. So again, there's this idea of a psychocybernetic loop. You're worried that you're not going to have enough money at the end of the month. And then all of a sudden you get a bill from the doctor because the insurance didn't cover the expenses. And now that's becoming a reality. You're sending off a signal or a vibration that's being received by all of life itself. And life is organizing to create coincidences and synchronicities to manufacture experiences that will invoke the same thoughts and emotions from you that you had when you started the experience in the first place. So again, this is the external mechanism of how thoughts become things. Napoleon Hill talked about this in his book, Think and Grow Rich, where he studied the most successful people in the history of the world at that time and discovered a pattern, 13 things that came down to really one unifying concept, which is the wealthiest, most successful people in the world thought differently. And what he discovered was their thoughts were creating their reality and that most of humanity was caught up with thought suffering, thoughts of personal insecurity, thoughts of financial insecurity. And so that's what they were creating. Whereas a handful of people had learned how to master their mindset, create new thoughts and new empowered beliefs, and were creating extraordinary results. So this is how thoughts become things. So why isn't your reality changing, even though you think you understand how Law of Attraction works? Now, this reminds me of about a decade ago when I first started getting into these concepts and I recorded myself doing a bunch of affirmations and incantations. Money is easy to make. Money flows to me. I am rich and abundant. Every day in every way I'm getting better and I'm getting wealthier. And not only did I record it, but I would listen to it in my car and I would basically scream in unison with these incantations and affirmations that I had created. And yet nothing was changing. The reason why nothing changes, even though you may understand Law of Attraction, is because your unconscious mind still has limiting beliefs or resistance in it. See, it's not that Law of Attraction doesn't work or it only works in some area of our life, but not others. The challenge is that most people simply don't understand how they think. So it's important, if you want to start creating change in your external reality, if you want to become wealthier, if you want to become healthier, if you want to develop more clarity around your purpose or your spiritual vision, if you want to be able to attract your soulmate or transform the relationship currently in into the relationship of dreams, what's important to understand is that you have to become aware of the limiting beliefs or the resistance that we're thinking at an unconscious level if we want to create transformation in our life. Now, this begs the next question. How do I become aware of some resistance that I'm not aware of? We teach a very, very helpful distinction called the two states of being. And the two states of being basically says there are two states of being. Powerful states of being, primal states. Powerful states of being are when you are feeling or you are in a state of emotion that feels good. States like joy, curiosity, excitement, passion, passion, calm, and peace. States of being that feel good. Primal states are states of being that don't feel good. These are states of being like boredom, anxiety, anger, jealousy, overwhelmment, depression. States of being that don't feel good. Now, what's important to understand is number one, there's only two states of being and you're always in one state of being or the other. In fact, you could check in with yourself right now. If you're following along on YouTube, you can drop it in the comment box. What state of being are you in right now? A powerful state or a primal state. So, you're always in one state of being or the other. And the other important thing to understand is you are never in two states being at the same time. You are never in two states of being at the same time. Now, what determines what state of being you're in are the thoughts that you're having about an experience. The experience itself is not determining whether you're in a powerful state or a primal state. What determines the state of being that you're in and whether you feel good or whether you don't feel good is the meaning that you're giving an experience. And so, if what we're looking for are our limiting belief, then there's an opportunity to actually start paying attention to the experiences that you're having that don't feel good, that you're having a negative reaction to, that you're moving into the sympathetic expression of your nervousness, fight, flight, or free. If you want to become more aware of the limiting beliefs or the resistance that are actually creating your reality that you're not aware of, pay attention to the experiences of your life that you don't like and your reaction to them. So, let's say, for example, you're in a relationship and it's not going the way that you want it to. And you notice when you get triggered and you move into a primal state, pay attention to the thoughts that you're having. Those are the limiting beliefs or the resistance that must be transformed if you want to change the dynamic of your relation. If you're having challenges with financial abundance and you feel like you're living in financial insecurity, pay attention to the thoughts that you're having when you think about the fact that you don't have as much money as you would like. They might be thoughts like, I may not have enough. I don't have enough. I may run out of money. Those are the beliefs that you want to pay attention to. Now, I understand that you could look at those beliefs and say, but Dave, that's my reality. But what I want you to understand is that's your reality because of the beliefs you have. If you transform your beliefs, your reality must transform as well. So, a great way to become aware of the limiting beliefs that are still informing and creating the results that you don't want in your life is to pay attention to the things that are bothering you and notice you're thinking your beliefs about. That is the opportunity for you to create massive transformation and change in your life. Now, even though you may have a positive attitude doing cantations and affirmations, you have to change your limiting beliefs if you want to create more wealth, health, and joy in your life. Now, there's one simple formula I learned that changed everything for me, that has allowed me to create whatever I want, no matter what it is, no matter how long I've been going without. I want to tell you a quick story first, and that was back in 1543. Scientists believe that the earth was the center of the solar system. And they were basing all of their mathematics and physics off of this idea that earth was the center of the solar system. And in 1543, a guy by the name of Copernicus came along and said, look, your math is all wrong. And they all acknowledged the math is wrong. And he said, the reason why the math is wrong is because the sun is actually the center of the solar system. And as soon as they did all of the recalculations, all of a sudden, all of the mathematics made sense. Well, what we've all been operating according to up until now is bad mathematics. See, people who came before us, or as we watch other people in the way that they're achieving quote unquote success, they taught us some bad equations. Equations like desire plus hustle and grind equals desired result or desire plus have enough money and have enough resources equals desired result or desire plus be born to the right family or have all of the luck or catch some lucky breaks equals desired result. And that's why we see so few people actually achieving their full potential and why so many people are not living in financial prosperity in abundance. We've been going about creating the results that we want to create according to bad mathematics desire plus find the perfect magic pill strategy or get smarter equals desired result. The good mathematics is this and this equation absolutely changed the game for me and allowed me to integrate this idea of mastering law of attraction in a much deeper level. The equation is desire plus non-resistance equals desired result. If you can have a desire or a dream, and I know you do, your work is not to figure out how to actually create the result that you want. Your work is not to figure out how to overcome your autoimmune disease or chronic health condition. Your work is not to figure out how to get men or women more attract to you by having the perfect profile on a dating app. Your work is not to figure out the perfect lead generation strategy to acquire more high qualified prospects to grow your business. Your work is to have a desire and then to identify the resistance you have to that desire. See, if you didn't have any resistance to what you want, you'd either be highly confident that you're going to be producing the result in the very near future or you would have already produced the result already. There's a gap between what you want and the materialization of what you want in your life, and that gap is some form of resistance. Therefore, desire plus non-resistance equals desired result. What's the resistance? Well, it's some form of think because your thoughts are creating your reality. It's some unresolved limiting belief from your child. See, when a sculptor wants to sculpt a masterpiece, the sculptor doesn't take a bunch of clay and start smashing it together like a Mr. Potato Head, finding the perfect nose, finding the perfect eyes, finding the perfect mouth, and pushing a bunch of clay together to create the masterpiece sculpture. The sculptor takes a raw block of clay and removes what doesn't belong. And after he or she removes what doesn't belong, what remains is the masterpiece. You have a masterpiece inside of you, right? And the only thing that's covering up that masterpiece is unnecessary clay, is resistance. How do you become more aware of the resistance? Notice your negative reactions that move you into a primal state conditions of your life and then use the tools that you have access to. So many that I've taught on other episodes on this channel, once you've identified the resistance to let it go and transform. Because the name of the game is desire plus non-resist. That's how you produce the desired result. And the beautiful thing is you've already got the desire piece down. You've already been asking for money, haven't you? You've already been asking for a change in your life, haven't you? You've already been asking for better health or better relationships or more clarity or more spiritual connection. You do the desire piece automatically. A lot of people make the mistake of thinking they have to do all these vision boards or visualize every single morning. No, you've already placed your order with the divine mechanism. You've already told the system what you want and you have emitted that vibration and that communication has been received. You don't have to ask anymore. Your work now is the non-resist. In fact, sometimes incessant asking is an indication that there's some resistance going on. That maybe you don't believe that this is how the system works. And then all you need to do is follow the thoughts, the inspirations and the opportunities that show up on your pathway. And if you do that without resistance, you will 100% of the time consistently and predictably produce the desired result no matter how big, no matter how long the absence of the desired result has been going on in your life, no matter what your personal history is or your traumas are, you will leave those all behind and produce the vision you have for your business, your relationships, your health or your life. If you can just get into the practice of non-resist. Got some other great videos on this channel around how to actually do that. And I want to thank you for allowing me to share this with you. If you love this video, do me a favor. If you're listening on the podcast platforms, leave me a rating and review. If you're here on YouTube, subscribe and make sure you smash that bell icon because we're on this journey together. And you called forth this video. I know you've been asking. And so at some level, you've actually been practicing this non-resistance because this answer has shown up. You love this video. Share it with somebody else. I love you so much. I know that there's a masterpiece that is in the process of emerging from inside of you. And we're going to do this together. I'll see you in the next.