Dis you, hun?
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It's stupid o'clock in the morning,
you've just finished editing an episode,
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and instead of feeling good about
it, you're laying there staring at
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the ceiling with one horrible little
thought doing laps of your brain.
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Do I have to do this forever?
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And there it goes.
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The excitement curdles.
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The thing you were buzzing about an
hour ago suddenly feels like a life
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sentence handed down by a judge you'll
never, ever meet. And there's a thing
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that nobody flogging you a podcast
course will ever admit to, and that
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is that feeling right there at stupid
o'clock in the morning isn't a flaw in
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your brain, it's a feature which they
installed, and I'm going to delete it.
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This is Podmastery: Podcasting
Insights, the podcast for people
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who've actually had a bit of a go
at this and are a bit sick of being
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told they're doing it wrong by people
who've never properly done it at all.
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I'm Neal Veglio, the Podmaster, and
today the biggest lie in podcasting,
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the one that's got you convinced
that starting a podcast means
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signing your life away in blood.
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We're gonna take that apart and
you're gonna walk out of here
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about a stone lighter and a good
deal less obedient, hopefully.
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Let's do that naff quote of every
LinkedIn influencer relying on
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AI for their genius these days.
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Let me say the quiet bit
out loud, because you won't.
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It's that, "Do I have to
do this forever?" feeling.
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You're not being weak or commitment
avoidant or whatever that same
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LinkedIn hustle goblin told you between
posts about their morning routine.
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Nearly everyone gets it.
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I get it, and I've been at this 25 years.
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But here's where it comes from, and this
is the bit that should truly wind you up.
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Somewhere along the way, an entire
industry of podcast gurus decided that
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the holy commandment of podcasting
is surface-level consistency.
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That means show up every week, never
miss an episode, publish on the same
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day at the same time for all eternity
until you keel over at the microphone
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like a good little content machine.
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Miss one, and you've broken trust.
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Miss two, and you're not
serious about your brand.
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It gets drummed into you from day
one, usually by someone whose entire
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business model is selling you the cure
for the anxiety they've just given you.
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Funny that
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And I watch this doing
real damage in my day job.
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Someone will rock up buzzing about
doing a podcast, they're full of the
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enthusiasm and good intentions, and
then three conversations later, the
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light's gone out of them and they mumble,
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"Maybe
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I'll just do a season, see how it goes."
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Forget that.
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That's never strategy.
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That is fear buying an RSS feed.
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What they actually mean is, "Please can
I have permission to not ever do this
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forever?" They're begging for parole
before they've even committed the crime.
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So let me get one thing
dead straight with you here.
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The podcast has never been the trap.
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Say that back to me right now.
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The podcast is not the thing with the
bars across it. The trap is a belief that
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got welded into your head by people who
profit from your guilt, that once you
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start, you're never allowed to stop.
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That any kind of content
gap makes you a failure.
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That walking away makes you a quitter.
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That is the cage, and the genuinely insane
part of this, the bit that should make
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you laugh and swear in equal measure as
it does I, is that you built it yourself
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from their marketing and then sentenced
yourself to it. The door was never locked.
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You have been sat in an open cell
doing someone else's PR for them.
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So let me give you the thing that they
will never, ever put into their online
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podcast guru course because you can't
sell a monthly subscription to it.
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You only ever commit to the next episode.
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That's it.
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That's the whole bloody contract.
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Not a podcast, not a season, not
the next five years of sodding
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Tuesdays, just the next episode.
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And the second that is
published, you're free again.
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You can walk.
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There's no finale, no teary apology in
the show description, no explanation
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owed to a single living soul.
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I want you to ponder on that for a moment
because honestly, that is the complete
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truth, and it's the exact opposite of how
my competitors have trained you to feel.
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And now here's the really
crazy bit about this.
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It is properly backwards.
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Are you ready for this?
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The freedom to walk out whenever you like
is the very thing that lets you stay.
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The people who know, I mean really
know, deep down in their gut,
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that they can quit tomorrow are
the ones still going years later.
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It's the poor sods white-knuckling
their upload schedule out of pure
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guilt who burn out and vanish
somewhere around episode nine.
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It's like anything, a run you
fancied going on is a nice afternoon.
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That same identical run ordered by
some bloke with a whistle holding
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a clipboard is a punishment.
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You're wearing the same damn trainers.
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You're running the same damn distance.
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But take the have to out, and
the want to comes right back in.
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Which brings me to seasons.
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And yeah, I think seasons for most
indie shows are one of the stupidest
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ideas going, and any guru that is
so desperate for any cash from you
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that they encourage you to do seasons
should be struck off from the
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podcast management register forever.
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They should hit some sort of creepy list.
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Some activists on TikTok should turn up on
their doorstep and hound them forevermore
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and wait for the police to arrive.
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But my reason for saying that is
not what you expect, and I want to
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be fair to you if you've done one.
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The thing is, publishing
in seasons isn't strategy.
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It's a coping mechanism dressed up
in a delivery method, in a format.
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It's a frightened person trying
to schedule a bit of freedom they
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already own outright for nothing.
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It's bolting a fire escape
onto a door that was never,
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ever locked in the first place.
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And here's the real punchline on this.
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It doesn't even work because instead
of freeing you, it just kicks the
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dread down the road to, "Oh my God, am
I actually gonna come back for season
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two?" And that bit there, that breezy
little, "Back in the autumn, guys," is
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nine times out of 10 precisely where
the show wanders off and then dies
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in a ditch, never heard from again.
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You never needed a season
finale to be allowed to stop.
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You had that the whole time.
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Nobody was gonna arrest you if
there wasn't a next episode.
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Now, I'm not gonna hand you a warm
cup of lies because that's the guru
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move, and it makes my skin crawl.
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The flip side of you can stop
any time is that you might.
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Most shows do stop in the end.
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Yours may well do, and that has to be
actually fine with you in your brain.
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Not brave-face fine, genuinely
fine, or none of this works.
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Because if the only way you can
keep going with your podcast is by
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convincing yourself that stopping
would be some sort of tragedy, then
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you're actually not permitted, mate.
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You're just scared.
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Real permission has to include the version
of you where one day you go, "Yeah.
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Do you know what?
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I've done eight years.
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I think I'm done."
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And allowing yourself a
proper, dignified full stop.
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And that's not failure.
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That's not you giving up.
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That is you imposing an ending.
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Grown-ups are allowed those.
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Let's put this into a real-world analogy.
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Imagine you're invited to a party, and
you turn up at the party, and when you
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get there, the party host says, "Oh, okay.
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You're here now for the next eight weeks."
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How would you feel at that party?
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Would you want to stay forever?
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No, you'd be ticking days off the
calendar, watching the door, and
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yearning for the day that you can walk
through it again. And that is literally
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the mentality that you're imposing
yourself in your podcast production
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when you approach it as seasons.
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Versus the person that turns up at
the party, knows they can leave at any
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time, makes a bunch of friends, has
lots of fun, and then just walks out
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thinking, "Do you know what? That was
such a great party. I can't wait to go
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back to that one again." That is it.
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That's the whole deal.
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And weirdly, it's the exact method
that lets you begin in the first place.
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Anyway, speaking of people who just
keep choosing to make the next one
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and sod the five-year plan. After
this short break, I'd love to play
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you a podcast trailer from one of
our Podmastery Community Members.
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We will be opening the
doors to the public soon.
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If you'd like to join the founding
members, go to podmastery.co/waitlist.
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There you go.
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Someone who made one episode, then
on the day decided to make another.
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That's the entire game.
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No master plan.
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There's no blood oath.
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They're not trapped.
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They're not handcuffed to their show.
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They just want to keep making it.
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So here's something for you.
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It's not a checklist, it's
not a framework, it's not a
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seven-part signature system.
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I would rather chew glass
than give that to you.
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Here is what you need to do.
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You need to stop committing to a
podcast that's too big a thing to
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fathom. It isn't real, and it's the
exact thing that's crushing your spirit.
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Commit to the next episode.
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Only ever the next one.
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And next time that you're laying in
bed at stupid o'clock and that voice
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in your head pipes up, "Oh my God, do I
have to do this forever?" stare at the
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ceiling and think to yourself, "No, I
only ever have to do exactly one more."
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That's the whole commitment.
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Can I make one more episode?
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And of course, the
answer is you bloody can.
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So go and make it.
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And when it's out, you're free again.
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Properly, genuinely free.
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And you'll wander back in behind
that microphone again, and
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you'll choose to make another.
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Not because some LinkedIn goon guilted you
into it, because you actually wanted to
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create, you wanted to share, you wanted
to spread what you're here to spread.
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Forever was never the contract.
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Just the next episode as it feels
right to you was, and that's the only
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thing you ever have to say yes to.
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I hope that's removed the proverbial boot
from the back of your neck a little bit.
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You never signed up for forever.
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Nobody did.
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You signed up for one more.
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And if you want a hand working out
what your podcast's next episode
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should actually look like, that's
a conversation I love having
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Get yourself to podmastery.co and
get your next podcasting challenge
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solved in a one-to-one with me.
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I'm Neal Veglio, the Podmaster.
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Go and make your next episode, just the
next one for now, and good luck with your
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continuing journey towards pod mastery.