Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Hello everyone.
Speaker:Welcome to YouTube Success.
Speaker:We are here doing a YouTube podcast with a LinkedIn expert!
Speaker:Who knew you could just change your mind and do something
Speaker:ridiculous on your own podcast.
Speaker:Here we are, and we were just talking about ridiculousness of podcasts.
Speaker:So here I am.
Speaker:Look, you know, the thing is, it's called YouTube success, and we're
Speaker:talking about growing YouTube channels and all of that kind of stuff.
Speaker:But what I wanted to do and what, the reason why I have this
Speaker:podcast in the first place is 'cause I have a great network of
Speaker:wonderful people around the world.
Speaker:And of course, when I created my list of people, Judi was one of
Speaker:those people that I was hoping would say yes to come on the podcast.
Speaker:And here she is.
Speaker:So yes, it's not specifically a YouTube thing, but there's so much value here.
Speaker:We're gonna be talking about personal branding.
Speaker:We are gonna be talking about the epic speed at which Judi has
Speaker:grown on LinkedIn back in 2018.
Speaker:But, you know, loads more stuff has happened since then, and
Speaker:a few other things as well.
Speaker:So, if you're in my world, and maybe you've not heard of somehow you've missed
Speaker:Fox Rocks and you've not heard of Judi yet, then Judi, I'd love you to do your
Speaker:own intro and tell us a little bit about you and what people need to know really.
Judi Fox:Well, all they have to know is #FoxRocks and that I got started really
Judi Fox:actively posting videos on LinkedIn in around 2017, 2018, and definitely hit
Judi Fox:several million views very quickly.
Judi Fox:It is an amazing platform.
Judi Fox:I doubled down there.
Judi Fox:We'll talk about how LinkedIn's the only platform I used for four years straight.
Judi Fox:That's it.
Judi Fox:The only social media platform, so that is the power of focus and really getting in
Judi Fox:on a platform and doubling down and I have now been listed as a top voice on LinkedIn
Judi Fox:by LinkedIn, and they've given me the top voice of social media strategy and sales.
Judi Fox:I love sales, so I have been working with clients since 2018 with my LinkedIn
Judi Fox:Business Accelerator and bing bing bing.
Judi Fox:Boom, I'm done with my intro.
Judi Fox:Let's hit the ground running.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: There you It's always, I dunno about you,
Judi Fox:but it's always awkward when someone asks you to do your own intro.
Judi Fox:'cause people do it and they tell you your intro and you're like,
Judi Fox:oh my God, that sounds amazing.
Judi Fox:Who wrote that?
Judi Fox:It weren't me.
Judi Fox:so I like to put people on the spot because actually, you know, it's
Judi Fox:funny, you kind of forget what you've done until people ask you about it.
Judi Fox:And then you start to think about, oh yeah, I did that thing, I did that
Judi Fox:thing, and we'll talk about some of this as we go through these questions,
Judi Fox:but the first thing I wanted to talk about most importantly, is how we met.
Judi Fox:Well, how, look, let's be honest.
Judi Fox:Let's tell the people really how I think we met because it's been quite
Judi Fox:a while since that time, but it's really about community because in 20..
Judi Fox:September 2018, I decided at that point that I wanted to start a YouTube channel.
Judi Fox:I looked at something like September the 17th of 2018, and about a week later, I
Judi Fox:booked a ticket to go to VidSummit in LA.
Judi Fox:So it was kind of a big deal for me because I decided, and I was absolutely
Judi Fox:pouring myself because I was gonna go to the other side of the world where
Judi Fox:there's a whole bunch of YouTubers that as far I could tell they were the best
Judi Fox:YouTubers in the world, but I thought if I'm gonna go and learn from anybody
Judi Fox:I should go to something like that.
Judi Fox:Right?
Judi Fox:It seemed really reasonable price-wise.
Judi Fox:So it goes there and I did what I normally do before events,
Judi Fox:and this is a tip for anyone that's going to events.
Judi Fox:Like go on Twitter, go on Instagram, go on LinkedIn, all of the socials, and
Judi Fox:find the hashtags and find like the event hashtag or search for the event name.
Judi Fox:And you'll find a bunch of people.
Judi Fox:Say, if you've never, you've never been to an event before and you don't know anyone,
Judi Fox:like I didn't know anyone there, just go.
Judi Fox:And the best place for me, strangely enough was Twitter.
Judi Fox:I found Rob and a bunch of other people.
Judi Fox:I wanna add something.
Judi Fox:I'm gonna add.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah, go for it.
Judi Fox:Yeah, go for it.
Judi Fox:I'd love to.
Judi Fox:Go find all the speakers and your comments because the speakers
Judi Fox:are kind of a bit of a hub of they want visibility on the event and
Judi Fox:that they're speaking, so you know they're gonna be posting about it.
Judi Fox:Find some content to grab onto without knowing who's gonna be there yet,
Judi Fox:that's a good place to start too.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:I love that.
Judi Fox:Actually, when I was looking back for the stories of how we met, I did
Judi Fox:find some of the old 2018 stuff, and I found loads of things that I've not
Judi Fox:seen, you know, when you're at the event and the feeds are going really
Judi Fox:crazy, like loads pictures of stuff, of me in drinking positions in photos.
Judi Fox:So like, you know, yeah, definitely the comments.
Judi Fox:That's how I found people.
Judi Fox:I would see announcements from VidSummit, they would say so and so speaking and
Judi Fox:then a bunch of people that would come and saying, I'm going, can't wait to be there.
Judi Fox:And I would connect with 'em and that kind of thing.
Judi Fox:So, yeah, brilliant advice.
Judi Fox:But for me, the thing is I was really nervous, right?
Judi Fox:At 2018, I was 35.
Judi Fox:I'd been public speaking around the world, so there was no problem
Judi Fox:being on stage, anything like that.
Judi Fox:But going to an event and not knowing anybody, especially the
Judi Fox:other side of the world, was really, I was really nervous about it.
Judi Fox:But what happened is when I met Rob and I met yourself and a few other people there
Judi Fox:is I found that everybody was welcoming.
Judi Fox:There's nothing better than going to an event where someone says
Judi Fox:to you, Hey, come and join me for a coffee, or come to dinner.
Judi Fox:And as I said to you before, I think that's where we ended up meeting is we
Judi Fox:went for dinner and there was like 30 people and you've just gotta be really
Judi Fox:brave about it and just say, you know, What are you doing after the event?
Judi Fox:Is anybody going for a drink or anyone going for dinner?
Judi Fox:And you'll find yourself invited to these great events.
Judi Fox:And personally for me, one of the things I loved is just how
Judi Fox:friendly people like you were.
Judi Fox:You know, we can build up this picture that, oh, it's Judi, you
Judi Fox:know, she says, had all these millions of views on LinkedIn and
Judi Fox:feel a little bit standoff-ish.
Judi Fox:So, I guess what I'd ask you is how do you feel when someone comes
Judi Fox:up to you and they're in that, like, how do you help them out?
Judi Fox:What would you do for them?
Judi Fox:So we all have our, either if it's coping with feeling awkward
Judi Fox:or maybe let's call it the art of just standing around, because standing
Judi Fox:around and not necessarily rushing to do something, because guess what?
Judi Fox:I don't know where I'm going to dinner sometimes at these events, I don't
Judi Fox:know what the next kind of gathering thing will be, not necessarily,
Judi Fox:and that's kind of that art of not rushing away from maybe a circle.
Judi Fox:If you're standing in a circle and you feel really awkward, nobody's
Judi Fox:paying that much attention to you.
Judi Fox:It's called the spotlight effect.
Judi Fox:While we think the spotlight's on us, but actually people are
Judi Fox:engrossed in their conversation.
Judi Fox:You may feel really awkward standing there.
Judi Fox:But if you keep standing there and you keep kind of popping in or being, you
Judi Fox:know, smiling and just nodding along with whatever conversation's happening and
Judi Fox:you don't totally get weird, I guess, you'll end up being there long enough
Judi Fox:for them to go, Hey, we're headed here.
Judi Fox:Like, or you'll be naturally part of the conversation as it keeps rolling.
Judi Fox:But yeah, it feels awkward sometimes standing there, especially when you
Judi Fox:feel like you don't really know everyone in this circle or what's happening.
Judi Fox:So
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: And I love the art of standing
Judi Fox:around 'cause I've definitely been that position plenty of times.
Judi Fox:You don't look as awkward as you think you look.
Judi Fox:I think.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: And I think other people are the same, right?
Judi Fox:And there a lot of people are in the same position.
Judi Fox:I met a lady called Christina at the time when I got there, I was standing in the
Judi Fox:queue and she happened to have a, in the line, sorry, that's the American term.
Judi Fox:I like queue.
Judi Fox:All good.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Good.
Judi Fox:And she, we happened to have a channel.
Judi Fox:Her, her name was Make Video Greece and mine was Make Video UK.
Judi Fox:It was like really weird that we happened to be standing together and
Judi Fox:she traveled all the way from Greece.
Judi Fox:She knew nobody as well.
Judi Fox:And we ended up hanging out, hanging out together for like the two,
Judi Fox:three days, you know, and I would introduce her to people, she would
Judi Fox:introduce me to people, those we met.
Judi Fox:So just finding buddies, I think as you go into these events is so important.
Judi Fox:And actually, finding these little dinners where you're not planning what
Judi Fox:you're doing for dinner and you end up somewhere where some of the best
Judi Fox:connections and community is created.
Judi Fox:So definitely get involved in that stuff.
Judi Fox:Oh, I really like holding things so I feel less awkward.
Judi Fox:So I have a bag that's a fox, obviously 'cause "Hello, my last
Judi Fox:name is Fox" if you can't tell.
Judi Fox:And the bag that I hold now just has random fox stickers.
Judi Fox:I now have what I call a networking prop.
Judi Fox:Anyone can have a networking prop.
Judi Fox:You don't have to have like a fun last name called Fox.
Judi Fox:You could have don't even know, like a little Rubik's cube.
Judi Fox:Like you could have anything and it's something you're holding
Judi Fox:onto that's like a little conversation starter or something.
Judi Fox:I'm just given some ideas here.
Judi Fox:And then the last thing is have a buddy have a friend that even when you're in
Judi Fox:these groups and you're doing the art of looking awkward, standing around, you
Judi Fox:could, if you can't tip over to that yet, you could buddy up with somebody that
Judi Fox:also is like, Hey, I'm also new here.
Judi Fox:I don't really know anyone.
Judi Fox:And you can look awkward together in a group, which actually makes
Judi Fox:neither of you look that awkward.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah, totally.
Judi Fox:I love that.
Judi Fox:And having a prop is a good thing.
Judi Fox:That now.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: What I'm about to say is maybe not true,
Judi Fox:but I don't think anything's that awkward if you take something, I've
Judi Fox:seen people with American footballs that they'll pass to help people chat
Judi Fox:around, you know, sort of, standard sort of things or something they'll throw
Judi Fox:at someone and see if they catch it.
Judi Fox:You see those videos on YouTube and stuff all the time.
Judi Fox:Okay.
Judi Fox:Wicked.
Judi Fox:So that was just a thing I wanted to talk about community and going
Judi Fox:to events because I think events are where the magic happens.
Judi Fox:So we're gonna move to the actual talking to you about you now.
Judi Fox:When I looked, it said, and then it's really funny because
Judi Fox:I love this about you as well.
Judi Fox:It said that you were a CV writer and career coach.
Judi Fox:Is that right?
Judi Fox:Before?
Judi Fox:I did get started with that.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:My first thoughts for LinkedIn all the way back in around 2008,
Judi Fox:2009 was it's for your resume.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Back then you could not become a content creator on LinkedIn.
Judi Fox:I know that sounds like a funny thing to say, but you couldn't
Judi Fox:post the way that you post now.
Judi Fox:The only that could were like Richard Branson, or Sarah Blakely could
Judi Fox:post or something, but like, they couldn't let the ordinary people post.
Judi Fox:I'm being kind of tongue in cheek there.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:It only really tipped over when LinkedIn allowed everyone to start posting
Judi Fox:and everyone could get a newsletter.
Judi Fox:Not everyone could even have a newsletter all the way up
Judi Fox:until two or three years ago.
Judi Fox:They didn't even let people have a newsletter.
Judi Fox:So the idea that LinkedIn was for content strategy and posting is
Judi Fox:pretty brand new in the world of social media, which I think is why
Judi Fox:LinkedIn gets a bad rep a little bit because it wasn't known for that.
Judi Fox:And that's okay.
Judi Fox:It's okay to change you are.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah, it took a while and that's
Judi Fox:why there's still that a weird view that people can't be social on
Judi Fox:LinkedIn, which just blows my mind.
Judi Fox:What interested me the most is I think the people that are listening to
Judi Fox:this podcast, my audience, the target audience, is really like people that
Judi Fox:wanna start a YouTube channel or people that want to grow their YouTube channel.
Judi Fox:And a lot of those people are people that have jobs at the moment and they
Judi Fox:want to move into being a creator of full-time, creator of some sort.
Judi Fox:And whether you were doing it full-time or not, at the time as your own business,
Judi Fox:it still feels like something that could have been a side hustle that you moved and
Judi Fox:you, you went full creator mode in 2018.
Judi Fox:And you seem to have a time where you decided that was gonna be the case.
Judi Fox:So can you just talk us through how did you decide that you were
Judi Fox:really gonna go and you said right at the start about focus?
Judi Fox:So how did you decide you were gonna focus on this and make it a big thing?
Judi Fox:Well, I would say the best thing to think about for any creator
Judi Fox:that you follow for inspiration or advice is I think the best ones
Judi Fox:are the ones that maybe have a bit of a rollercoaster or not, just a,
Judi Fox:just a straight path and that's it.
Judi Fox:'cause that is not the reality for pretty much anyone.
Judi Fox:So I did
Judi Fox:have my first job out of college and I stayed with that job, climbing the
Judi Fox:good old corporate ladder for 10 years.
Judi Fox:Very happy.
Judi Fox:I was not looking to become anything other than a chemical engineer
Judi Fox:meets a sustainability expert.
Judi Fox:'cause that's what I was doing in corporate America for Fortune 500 company.
Judi Fox:And I got laid off during that, I got let go during that economic
Judi Fox:crisis of 2008, the housing crisis.
Judi Fox:So that was my first experience with going, oh wait, it
Judi Fox:isn't just a straight line.
Judi Fox:I have to take charge of my career.
Judi Fox:And the very first thing I did was I was like, oh, I'll get my own website.
Judi Fox:I'll launch my own business.
Judi Fox:I will get my own business setup with all the business, like, you know,
Judi Fox:whether that be, I don't know what to call it, like all the different
Judi Fox:like, legal elements in place
Judi Fox:and make sure that I own for the rest of my life.
Judi Fox:Judy Fox and the brand Judy Fox 'cause that is something no one in my mind at
Judi Fox:that moment could ever take away from me.
Judi Fox:I think it's slightly traumatising when you lose your job for the very first time.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah, totally it.
Judi Fox:But you know, the thing is that, that realisation is actually because you at
Judi Fox:school and assuming the American education system is the same, you are almost bred
Judi Fox:to be a worker bee of some description.
Judi Fox:And so you think that a career means, yeah, you might jump a couple of
Judi Fox:times, but you just never consider that actually someone could lay you off
Judi Fox:and then you've gotta find a new job.
Judi Fox:Or maybe even during a crisis like that, there's not as many jobs.
Judi Fox:And then you've gotta be resourceful and do something yourself.
Judi Fox:And so this idea of like 'security doesn't exist', maybe how school and university
Judi Fox:sold it to us as the dream, you know?
Judi Fox:So that sounds great.
Judi Fox:So you decided to do that stuff then.
Judi Fox:And then what
Judi Fox:but I did go back to corporate.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Okay.
Judi Fox:So yes, I will say it took me all the way until 2018.
Judi Fox:So it took me 10 more years.
Judi Fox:So between that period of time, I went to corporate, back full-time
Judi Fox:in my business, went back to corporate, full-time in my business.
Judi Fox:I did that cycle twice because two things.
Judi Fox:Number one, I had major life changes that affected my decisions
Judi Fox:of what I wanted to do full time.
Judi Fox:And I will say the whole time though, it made me realize you
Judi Fox:should always hold onto whatever business you have because there is no
Judi Fox:guarantee in the corporate world, but again, I came back to the mindset.
Judi Fox:There will always be a guarantee that I have Judi Fox, I have me, myself, and I.
Judi Fox:So as long as I'm kicking here on this planet, I have myself.
Judi Fox:So I am beyond grateful for that because I could hold that.
Judi Fox:When you think about the resume world in that concept, I was able to
Judi Fox:continuously leverage the fact that I was running my own business no matter
Judi Fox:what was a part of that business.
Judi Fox:I was able to keep growing and keep my skills up in any kind of perceived gap.
Judi Fox:And I never had a gap on my resume ever again because I just had my own business.
Judi Fox:So I kind of wanna put that out there 'cause that was, looking back in
Judi Fox:hindsight, that is the best decision I ever made because when I had a major
Judi Fox:life event, I ended up as a single mom in 2014, I was able to immediately, because
Judi Fox:I'd been networking on LinkedIn, growing my LinkedIn, I think at that point I
Judi Fox:was maybe up to just 2014, maybe about two or 3000 followers and connections.
Judi Fox:It wasn't crazy, but it was, that is a lot of people, when you really
Judi Fox:think how that work.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: It's enough
Judi Fox:could work,
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah, it is.
Judi Fox:It is like a side hustle or whatever you need at that point.
Judi Fox:I was able to pull the trigger.
Judi Fox:I made one.
Judi Fox:I was able to make a post in 2014 because when I found myself,
Judi Fox:I had been, what's that word?
Judi Fox:I had been feeding and supporting my community and whether I knew I was
Judi Fox:growing a community or not, I didn't know.
Judi Fox:I just knew I was able to make a post on LinkedIn saying I needed an opportunity.
Judi Fox:I had a life change and need to go back to corporate.
Judi Fox:Because of that, I was no longer gonna be able to run this business.
Judi Fox:I had started full time and I kept my business on the side
Judi Fox:while I went back to corporate.
Judi Fox:But I was able to find a corporate position at that time very quickly
Judi Fox:because I made a post on LinkedIn and it just flooded my opportunities.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: So you could almost say that the
Judi Fox:foundations and the stars were there ready to be taken because you
Judi Fox:cause didn't ask from them until that moment.
Judi Fox:I had just been giving, I had been in that world of . . Hey, I have a lot of
Judi Fox:things going well for me right now and I was running my business full-time, so
Judi Fox:I went full-time somewhere around again.
Judi Fox:Again, it went like this.
Judi Fox:So it around 2011, 2012, I was full-time in my business and I was
Judi Fox:traveling the world and I was living that online creators dream of..
Judi Fox:I went to New Zealand, I went to Kingdom of Tonga, I lived in Germany.
Judi Fox:I was loving it.
Judi Fox:I was location independent in 2012.
Judi Fox:It was beautiful.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Good.
Judi Fox:So, you made the change then.
Judi Fox:You did the corporate thing and I think a lot of people, myself included, can
Judi Fox:appreciate what that's like and going through that kind of natural cycle as you
Judi Fox:leave education, but then you decided to go full focus, full steam ahead in 2018.
Judi Fox:So it was 2018 really that things really changed, right?
Judi Fox:Yes, I was doing that kind of like one foot in, one foot out.
Judi Fox:I actually part-time in corporate.
Judi Fox:I negotiated a new contract and that lasted for a while.
Judi Fox:But I also saw the writing on the wall that I was like, have to decide
Judi Fox:and I'm gonna take a bet on me.
Judi Fox:And I wanted to throw up.
Judi Fox:It had that moment of, that uncertainty, kind of like jumping off the cliff,
Judi Fox:like kind of like going to an event where you 'don't know anybody' feeling,
Judi Fox:it's that, just that overwhelming sense of I have zero concept of what's
Judi Fox:gonna really happen next, like zero.
Judi Fox:And I think to me, that also was exciting.
Judi Fox:That also made me feel really alive and excited.
Judi Fox:So I was leaning into it.
Judi Fox:I definitely read books like when to jump and you know, all these
Judi Fox:kind of like, how do you know?
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:But I think the number one thing that is key is that I had already started
Judi Fox:learning how to kind of jump in 2008.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:You'd set some of the seed, you'd laid some of the seeds by the sounds of it,
Judi Fox:you were building the personal brand.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:And I suppose from my perspective in the UK, I did some of
Judi Fox:the same in the IT world.
Judi Fox:I used to fix computers as a side hustle.
Judi Fox:The only issue I got to is one company I worked for said it
Judi Fox:was a conflict of interest.
Judi Fox:So I think the caveat to all of this is, if you are building a personal
Judi Fox:brand at the same time as having a corporate role, just make sure
Judi Fox:there's no conflict of interest,
Judi Fox:'cause trust me, that was not a nice experience I went through.
Judi Fox:But if you can do that, and if you can build your personal brand at the
Judi Fox:same time, I think that's the seeds, that's the foundations that you laid.
Judi Fox:And then maybe the jump is less of a jump then if, you know, you've been through
Judi Fox:that in and out process, you know.
Judi Fox:And I had already started making content.
Judi Fox:And here's the real kicker that I would take away too, the key in that
Judi Fox:experience of having one foot in the corporate world, one foot out and doing
Judi Fox:part-time for a period of time and having the side hustle, it was taking
Judi Fox:the pressure off the content strategy.
Judi Fox:So a lot of people will start their content strategy and underneath, there
Judi Fox:is a feeling of this has to work, this has to get views, this has to convert.
Judi Fox:And I didn't have that.
Judi Fox:I And that is the beauty of having income that was coming in at a very solid
Judi Fox:level that I had negotiated, at least at the part-time level, that I could
Judi Fox:create content from a space of freedom and that it was not easy to do both.
Judi Fox:I will admit, it took a lot of effort to run two things concurrently.
Judi Fox:But the ability to content create was literally one of the my best moments of
Judi Fox:just having such good energy, not caring.
Judi Fox:I went to VidSummit I think in that moment in 2018 was a little bit
Judi Fox:of that moment where I was like, I don't need anything from Vid Summit.
Judi Fox:I just need to have a great time, create good content, but I don't
Judi Fox:need income to come from this.
Judi Fox:It's being covered because I have this part-time and steady
Judi Fox:income that I can count on.
Judi Fox:It wasn't my full income, so I knew I needed to start building it up and
Judi Fox:build up my business, but it took so much of the pressure off, which
Judi Fox:did allow me to convert business.
Judi Fox:And it's like that thing that everyone, the more you want it, you think,
Judi Fox:why am I not converting business?
Judi Fox:And sometimes you have to like stop acting like you need it to happen 'cause we can
Judi Fox:read the, we can see the desperation,
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:I totally understand that.
Judi Fox:And I've been in that position and, and I've spoke to one of the previous
Judi Fox:episodes is Jesse, the first interview actually that's been published, and
Judi Fox:Jesse, I remember his journey was like when they got to 10,000 subscribers or
Judi Fox:something like that, I remember there was a point where he put a post in the
Judi Fox:group we were both in and he said, I think YouTube's just about to pay me the
Judi Fox:same amount of money as my corporate job.
Judi Fox:You know, I can leave now, what should I do?
Judi Fox:And everyone was like, jump, gotta get outta there.
Judi Fox:You know?
Judi Fox:But that is, the lesson
Judi Fox:there really is just the fact that by maintaining what they already
Judi Fox:had, or in your case, cutting your hours back just to give you a bit
Judi Fox:more freedom and space to create.
Judi Fox:But without that, desperation is huge and it kind of goes against a
Judi Fox:little bit about what a lot of mentors and business people say and they're
Judi Fox:like, oh, you need to focus and you need to go all in on this thing.
Judi Fox:And it's like, yeah, you can say that, but you don't have my bills
Judi Fox:and my family to look after.
Judi Fox:You can't just say, and I really hate that people just say that and they say
Judi Fox:it out loud and think it's okay, but you don't understand the people's position.
Judi Fox:So it needs to be like really caveated with, if you are in a
Judi Fox:position to fully focus on the thing.
Judi Fox:But until you are at that point, do what Judy did or do what
Judi Fox:Jesse did and just do both.
Judi Fox:And that might mean that sometimes, like now for me, it's a podcast
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Judi Fox:Yeah, I nostalgically look back on some of that content and the freedom
Judi Fox:and the not having to even worry where the hell that content was gonna go.
Judi Fox:Like I think that is kind of why I look at different channels and it
Judi Fox:almost makes people's head scratch because they go, 'but I see success'.
Judi Fox:But the success you see potentially now there, you have to scroll back
Judi Fox:to see where were they having an amazing time and they possibly weren't doing
Judi Fox:all the 'this needs to, this needs an opt-in, this needs a downloadable,
Judi Fox:you need to be collecting emails'.
Judi Fox:Oh my gosh.
Judi Fox:The focus on acting like early days of whatever it is you're creating, you
Judi Fox:need to constantly collect everyone's emails and you need to have that funnel
Judi Fox:set up and it needs to be perfect.
Judi Fox:That is crap sometimes.
Judi Fox:That can
Judi Fox:hurt you.
Judi Fox:That can hurt your growth and slow down your trajectory because you're
Judi Fox:not focusing on the actual thing is people want to get to know you.
Judi Fox:People want the thing you're trying to show them or entertain them
Judi Fox:with and now you're just trying to put all these elements into place
Judi Fox:and it's looking really janky, I don't know how else to say it.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah, and I feel it more now coming
Judi Fox:from a place of not desperation.
Judi Fox:I feel it more when I meet someone that is desperate and they
Judi Fox:immediately want to talk about work.
Judi Fox:And for me, when I make choices, my choices are emotional and they're
Judi Fox:about people I connect with.
Judi Fox:If there's 10 people that do the same service of you as you, which
Judi Fox:woman am I go, gonna go for the one that puts a billboard out
Judi Fox:there and says, this is what I do.
Judi Fox:Or the person that I've had dinner with, or that we've had a chat about
Judi Fox:our dog or pets or whatever, you know.
Judi Fox:They're the human connections that really make you go, well, you know what?
Judi Fox:I know that guy bit more expensive than the one over here.
Judi Fox:But actually we went for dinner.
Judi Fox:Really?
Judi Fox:Like what they said or the pace, how, the way they introduced me to people,
Judi Fox:how they made me feel, you know.
Judi Fox:That makes a difference.
Judi Fox:So, yeah.
Judi Fox:I totally understand that.
Judi Fox:Right.
Judi Fox:So let's talk about moving away from that,
Judi Fox:'cause I do agree on those fronts, but I want to talk a little bit
Judi Fox:more about being strategic then.
Judi Fox:That we can disagree on.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: I'm sure we'll find something in there.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:So I think you did that and it was fun and you was enjoying it.
Judi Fox:Is it still fun?
Judi Fox:Just as a side note, is it still fun?
Judi Fox:You still enjoying it as much?
Judi Fox:Yes, some.
Judi Fox:Again, everything has a different part that you
Judi Fox:enjoy though too.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Good.
Judi Fox:For professional contractual reasons.
Judi Fox:Yes, it is.
Judi Fox:Yes.
Judi Fox:Still love it.
Judi Fox:I would say it evolves to different things and it evolves all
Judi Fox:your life impacts that happen to you.
Judi Fox:Like I just had a house fire, which is super random to share.
Judi Fox:It changes what you put out into the world or how you show up, but to me,
Judi Fox:it becomes where did you put your boundaries and how did you set things up?
Judi Fox:And I think for me, that's important to keep asking yourself every single year
Judi Fox:that you do this so you don't burn out.
Judi Fox:You don't feel like you've extended your boundaries to a place where it isn't
Judi Fox:fun anymore, and you're being forced.
Judi Fox:That's going back to being an employee of your own making.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah, totally.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:I don't wanna be an employee of my business.
Judi Fox:I wanna own it.
Judi Fox:I want to own my life experience.
Judi Fox:So yeah, I have to constantly ask and answer myself.
Judi Fox:What do I what?
Judi Fox:What is the result?
Judi Fox:What's happening next?
Judi Fox:So, I'll just share, I don't believe being a consistent content creator.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Okay.
Judi Fox:Ooh.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Good.
Judi Fox:Well, so this is really funny 'cause on the way here, I was on the train back, Mr.
Judi Fox:Beast said something recently, or so unto the TubeBuddy's channel.
Judi Fox:It was a quote and he was saying about, don't worry about being
Judi Fox:consistent, just create great content.
Judi Fox:What in whatever schedule.
Judi Fox:And I was like, great.
Judi Fox:I can talk about that because it's something I disagree with.
Judi Fox:But with context.
Judi Fox:So tell me.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:I'll give you my context.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah go for it.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:Because consistency is definitely..
Judi Fox:We'll do rock, paper, scissors who goes first.
Judi Fox:I'm kidding.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: You go for it.
Judi Fox:You go for it.
Judi Fox:I would say there, it's not a matter of if something's gonna happen
Judi Fox:in your life, it's a matter of when.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:So if you've trained your brain think that success is linked to
Judi Fox:consistent content creation, and then you have to create this consistent stream of
Judi Fox:content, whatever it is you've decided.
Judi Fox:A YouTube video channel, there you go.
Judi Fox:And it has to always consistently come out at Tuesday, 8:00 AM.
Judi Fox:That is setting yourself up potentially for future failure, that
Judi Fox:you've linked that so closely that it will not give you freedom for
Judi Fox:any life changes that will happen.
Judi Fox:And it is not a matter of if they're gonna happen, a matter of when they're happen.
Judi Fox:I've been through enough things.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:I had no idea lightning was gonna strike house.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Wow.
Judi Fox:I'm really glad that I don't believe in, I didn't set my
Judi Fox:mind up to link my success in my business to constant content creation.
Judi Fox:And here's what I believe is the thing you should be constant about,
Judi Fox:is be constantly networking with the people you have relationships with.
Judi Fox:So, I may not be consistent in other things and I may not, I
Judi Fox:haven't posted a podcast and there's a lot of reasons for that.
Judi Fox:But it comes down to I can consistently network with someone amazing like
Judi Fox:you and be on your podcast and that can replace what may have been
Judi Fox:something that I can't do right now.
Judi Fox:And be instead, here's instead, be craveable Netflix show.
Judi Fox:A craveable Netflix show is something that I don't care if it needs to take
Judi Fox:a break and a breather, it'll come back and I'm there for season 5, season 10.
Judi Fox:I never want it to go off the air, and I'd rather be a craveable Netflix
Judi Fox:show that never goes off the air.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:So in that context, totally understand and totally agree with you.
Judi Fox:Who knew after just saying something we'd disagree with, we'd find immediately.
Judi Fox:That's called manifestation, I think.
Judi Fox:So I totally agree with that.
Judi Fox:From my perspective, when I heard what Mr.
Judi Fox:Beast was saying, it was like, well, actually, now, you talked about it now
Judi Fox:being like year five of where he's at.
Judi Fox:When you look at it that way and having a team of producers who come up with
Judi Fox:like content ideas and then they decide and they've got a month, you know, month
Judi Fox:long schedules of when things gonna go.
Judi Fox:Plus having the demand of being the craveable Netflix person.
Judi Fox:You do have demand.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: That you have more freedom to not be consistent
Judi Fox:because actually what they're waiting for is the next big video of yours.
Judi Fox:You know, the squid thing is, is Mr.
Judi Fox:Beast's big thing at the time, right?
Judi Fox:And he is always looking to improve that.
Judi Fox:So, but for my people that are just getting started, what we
Judi Fox:do is we build a bank of content before we start publishing.
Judi Fox:So I say to them, build like four to eight or maybe even 12 videos ahead of time.
Judi Fox:So when life does get in the way, then you've got something to put in there and
Judi Fox:you continue your consistent schedule.
Judi Fox:So it's more about batch filming and, and that kind of thing.
Judi Fox:Same as what I'm doing with the podcast.
Judi Fox:We, we are creating like eight, maybe 12 episodes before we launch the thing.
Judi Fox:So it's just context and it's about like your part of the journey.
Judi Fox:Like if you are in year five and you have that freedom, you have the
Judi Fox:financial income and all that kind of stuff that's going on, fine.
Judi Fox:You can be less consistent because you have got that demand, you know,
Judi Fox:the Fox Rocks hashtag that you've got.
Judi Fox:If you go and I mean, you're there endlessly on that hashtag because
Judi Fox:I feel like we're
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: We are saying the same thing.
Judi Fox:We are, yeah.
Judi Fox:I agree that you just shouldn't marry those two.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yes.
Judi Fox:Yeah, totally.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:I don't want you, I don't, this mantra that is so loud out there that
Judi Fox:the only success because you're con..
Judi Fox:They link the word success with I was a consistent content
Judi Fox:creator and I'm like, oh God.
Judi Fox:Stop marrying those two.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: And actually when people get..
Judi Fox:for future failure.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:And when people get disappointed by the views or whatever they get in,
Judi Fox:they're like, well, I've consistent, so why, why is that not happening?
Judi Fox:And it's like, well, but you forgot about all the other elements that come in.
Judi Fox:It's not, there's a compounding effect that happens with consistency.
Judi Fox:There's promotion, there's algorithms, there's SEO, there's
Judi Fox:all the other things that happen.
Judi Fox:And consistency, like you say, consistency and success.
Judi Fox:Those two things are not the only things.
Judi Fox:So you've gotta, you've gotta think about the bigger picture.
Judi Fox:So I think we are agreeing.
Judi Fox:And I agree.
Judi Fox:If you're early in your career, I think here's what gets me.
Judi Fox:Some of these big creators are on these amazing panels and they're sharing
Judi Fox:some great advice from stage, but consistent sounds so loud from the stage.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:and it's so loud.
Judi Fox:It fills the auditorium of the echo of what works.
Judi Fox:I'm like, I wanna like say there's other things to be consistent at, like,
Judi Fox:maybe you're a consistent call mentor and a consistent community member, a
Judi Fox:consistent collaborator, a consistent behind the scenes DM supporter.
Judi Fox:I don't know what you're consistent at, but there's other things.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Well, tell me this then.
Judi Fox:So in 2018, we were talking at some metrics.
Judi Fox:You've got these on your website, so we'll just take, take 'em straight off there.
Judi Fox:5 million views in two years, million views in six weeks.
Judi Fox:2000 to 35,000 followers from your LinkedIn Pro.
Judi Fox:This is all 2018, right?
Judi Fox:So, what my question to you is, were you consistent during that
Judi Fox:time and what did you strategically do at that time on LinkedIn?
Judi Fox:Do you think that made the difference?
Judi Fox:And maybe this links well to your accelerator as well, but is
Judi Fox:there anything you can share with us that you think immediately
Judi Fox:I was,
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: you?
Judi Fox:I was not.
Judi Fox:I never focused on a strategy of consistently posting.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Okay.
Judi Fox:I was just having the time of my life, so I just never had to sit down
Judi Fox:and make myself think that way, which is a privilege, I guess, and it's a space
Judi Fox:that I could be in, 'cause I was working that part-time situation and I was just
Judi Fox:having a really freaking good time.
Judi Fox:So I just wanted to post.
Judi Fox:I was so excited.
Judi Fox:I couldn't wait to get back to the computer to like put it all
Judi Fox:together, put the video together, like it was just such a fun outlet.
Judi Fox:I will say the number one thing that I was mentally saying I wanted to
Judi Fox:be consistent at was commenting.
Judi Fox:Really, really growing the energy of how I showed up and
Judi Fox:just publicly went out there.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: So we're talking about engagement really, right?
Judi Fox:Yeah, engaging on LinkedIn is a lot different than..
Judi Fox:So imagine, to be honest, LinkedIn and TikTok remind me of each other when it
Judi Fox:comes to commenting, and I'll explain.
Judi Fox:I will watch a TikTok video I'll go to the comments, and then the
Judi Fox:comments even crack me up even more.
Judi Fox:And we can also see how much the comments are getting upvoted.
Judi Fox:There's like comments.
Judi Fox:I've had comments get almost a hundred thousand likes on a comment on TikTok.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:'cause it's hilarious.
Judi Fox:The comments can be thoughtful.
Judi Fox:They continue the conversation, they are context for that video.
Judi Fox:Sometimes like, love the comments.
Judi Fox:I even have channels I follow on TikTok that are literally
Judi Fox:like, let's go to the comments.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: yeah, yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:It's a strategy it it's a well-known strategy as well, right?
Judi Fox:It's leveraging other people's audience.
Judi Fox:You want to find your audience, you know who your audience are.
Judi Fox:Go and find the big creators, go to the comments.
Judi Fox:All those people commenting are commenting because they like the creators.
Judi Fox:So if that's your audience as well, they're gonna probably
Judi Fox:like your content as well.
Judi Fox:So it's a great strategy.
Judi Fox:I learned that strategy for LinkedIn, not on my content,
Judi Fox:on other people's content.
Judi Fox:If I was an early content writer, if I wrote a "Let's put Gary
Judi Fox:Vaynerchuk in the hot seat".
Judi Fox:If I wrote a comment within the first 10 minutes of Gary putting up a post
Judi Fox:on LinkedIn, his audience saw my post and he has 4 million or some, I don't
Judi Fox:even know back then how many he has now.
Judi Fox:It doesn't matter.
Judi Fox:But I got the attention of the audience following Gary because my comment
Judi Fox:became top comment, that makes sense.
Judi Fox:There's no official top comment, but when I'm getting hundreds of likes on
Judi Fox:a comment on LinkedIn, that grew me on LinkedIn, that allowed me to not
Judi Fox:just have to create content, but also just pop and take advantage of being
Judi Fox:right there, right in the moment.
Judi Fox:And I literally would hover on some big accounts just for the moment when
Judi Fox:I thought they post and I would track.
Judi Fox:When I thought Gary's team was gonna post and march down the time of day and put
Judi Fox:it in my calendar, that is a strategy.
Judi Fox:And did it work?
Judi Fox:Yes.
Judi Fox:I got attention, I got invited into VaynerMedia.
Judi Fox:I got to have Claude Silver on my podcast because the team recognised me.
Judi Fox:It's a valuable comment.
Judi Fox:You can't comment some crap.
Judi Fox:Like, you can't be like, good post Gary.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Well, thing is, Gary talks
Judi Fox:about it himself, right?
Judi Fox:He says, you know, I respond to all my comments.
Judi Fox:I dunno if that is still the case now, but when I think about like, these
Judi Fox:people are telling you the answers, you know, people really think, oh, well,
Judi Fox:you know, maybe that won't work for me.
Judi Fox:Whatever.
Judi Fox:It's like.
Judi Fox:Look, just, do what you're being told.
Judi Fox:So far you've told us you're having fun on LinkedIn, which everybody says
Judi Fox:you can't have fun on LinkedIn 'cause
Judi Fox:it's a boring platform, right?
Judi Fox:It's just for, you know, corporate people.
Judi Fox:No, it's just totally rubbish.
Judi Fox:If you change who you're following, find the right people to follow
Judi Fox:that are just like you, people that you love being around you.
Judi Fox:Find that it's a really fun platform.
Judi Fox:Hang out.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Exactly.
Judi Fox:And then, commenting on those people and that engagement.
Judi Fox:But, you know, the problem with commenting, Judi, of course,
Judi Fox:is that it takes effort.
Judi Fox:And is effort what people want to put in, when they want to
Judi Fox:post a video and it go viral.
Judi Fox:And it's just not the only answer.
Judi Fox:There's gotta be more to it.
Judi Fox:I would say the skill that I built up a really good
Judi Fox:quality comment and it's a skill.
Judi Fox:I wasn't born with it.
Judi Fox:I mean, hello.
Judi Fox:I wasn't born like knowing how to comment on social media.
Judi Fox:But yeah, it's such an amazing hack and when I say hack, it's like
Judi Fox:I noticed when Threads launched.
Judi Fox:I said, why don't I try out my early commenting on large
Judi Fox:creator concept on Threads?
Judi Fox:And it worked because there's an art to it, and really powerful to just start it
Judi Fox:so you can actually start to get better.
Judi Fox:It's like anything, you don't come out of the gate writing the most
Judi Fox:amazing comment that gets you a thousand likes comments and whatever,
Judi Fox:but I've done that on TikTok.
Judi Fox:I've done it on every channel because it works.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: I can hear when you said that,
Judi Fox:like you don't come out the gate.
Judi Fox:Right.
Judi Fox:I can hear all the people that, that are saying in their head, I'm not funny.
Judi Fox:I have nothing funny to say.
Judi Fox:I don't know what to say.
Judi Fox:You can add you can data.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Absolutely.
Judi Fox:Like you can do anything, right.
Judi Fox:It is just, the reason why I talk to people about creating.
Judi Fox:It is, and the thing I get people to do is create a video,
Judi Fox:any video, whatever it is, right?
Judi Fox:It's because the process of creating something opens your brain up.
Judi Fox:So it's only then do you discover that some people do find you funny.
Judi Fox:And actually, there is a lot you have to know about that expertise
Judi Fox:that you've got in your brain, it falls out of you, you know?
Judi Fox:But it is just an unused muscle, right?
Judi Fox:Like commenting, it's a skill that you've just gotta learn over time.
Judi Fox:I'm trying to think of the dates, but I think it was around 20..
Judi Fox:2017 that I realized, whoa, if I start commenting, if I comment on Gary, if I
Judi Fox:comment, it was 2017 that I started that and I really honed in on Gary 'cause
Judi Fox:I just liked it and his posts lended themselves to kind of easy comments that
Judi Fox:I could kick out really, really fast.
Judi Fox:And by the time it was around 2019 is when I got to go into Vayner and do that
Judi Fox:and record that podcast, record content.
Judi Fox:So it took two years.
Judi Fox:But that again, that's the power of being consistent on that.
Judi Fox:He wasn't paying attention to my posts.
Judi Fox:He was coming to me.
Judi Fox:No, his team was.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: his team
Judi Fox:his team was.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:'cause I got to meet his team.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:And of course, and then of presumably now, you don't have to comment as much.
Judi Fox:You get comments organically.
Judi Fox:You've got a team that will help you with some of that stuff as well.
Judi Fox:So it's not like you have to do it forever, but you do
Judi Fox:have to do it for a while.
Judi Fox:And in your case, you know, well, you got to that point in two years, but
Judi Fox:actually 2018, if you started in 2017, 2018 was when it really took off.
Judi Fox:So you you had a learning phase almost like the algorithms have a learning phase.
Judi Fox:And then once you'd learn the phase, during that period, you
Judi Fox:saw the compounding impact.
Judi Fox:And I wonder if actually it wasn't like a big post that actually got you the views.
Judi Fox:It was just the algorithm seeing, hey, this is a big engager.
Judi Fox:We should give her more focus, give her more reach, you know?
Judi Fox:LinkedIn.
Judi Fox:Okay, how do I say this?
Judi Fox:I like to think of some things in life, like I'm just playing a board game and
Judi Fox:I'm just moving my little character.
Judi Fox:So if I think of my points that I'm gonna get each time I get to roll and I get
Judi Fox:to do my thing, so I'm like landing on the square of commenting and I'm like,
Judi Fox:I got a hundred comments, I get 10, $10 or 10 points back, or whatever it is.
Judi Fox:I get my little tickets.
Judi Fox:From the machine of ski ball or whatever.
Judi Fox:I don't know.
Judi Fox:I'm mixing my game analogies, but I love gamification in my mind of what I'm doing.
Judi Fox:So yes, I will say though that LinkedIn rewards my account that's specific to
Judi Fox:LinkedIn, they will reward my account based on how much I'm commenting, period.
Judi Fox:So for all of you, if you really did wanna get active on LinkedIn, it's not
Judi Fox:just a funding I'm saying, commenting in general on LinkedIn gets your
Judi Fox:content more points to be visible.
Judi Fox:I think of it as like a point system because it's easy for me to go.
Judi Fox:I got lots of points on my game board today.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:And, and it is absolutely every platform - YouTube, Facebook, Instagram.
Judi Fox:You talked about TikTok being the same.
Judi Fox:You know, like you'll notice the viral videos are the ones with
Judi Fox:the most comments, the most likes.
Judi Fox:It is just true, and it doesn't matter.
Judi Fox:Austin Armstrong and another one of the guests, he talks about it doesn't matter
Judi Fox:whether it's good or bad engagement.
Judi Fox:Like if someone hates the post or is pointing out a spelling mistake
Judi Fox:that you've got, like, it's still engagement, so it is just gonna..
Judi Fox:Same thing on LinkedIn.
Judi Fox:I love that says that but when you do something on LinkedIn, you
Judi Fox:need to make it a clear statement so people can agree and disagree.
Judi Fox:If you have a wishy-washy post with 10 million caveats and trying to cover
Judi Fox:everyone's perspective, nobody is like, okay, that covered everything
Judi Fox:I could have said in the comments.
Judi Fox:You kind of have to make it a bit of a strong statement.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:and it's like you said about, it's great to have a disagreement, right?
Judi Fox:Because it is just like, how boring would be if, yeah.
Judi Fox:How boring would it be if we didn't find different ways of view?
Judi Fox:Like neither of us can be right?
Judi Fox:And neither of us can be wrong.
Judi Fox:Like it's just our opinions, but
Judi Fox:If we rewind and we go back to that moment, I literally said consistent
Judi Fox:content is not like I said something strong 'cause I wanted to get a reaction.
Judi Fox:'cause I know that's how we operate.
Judi Fox:It's not that I am slow obnoxiously married to that, that I couldn't I agree.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:There's a way to receive the response to it as well.
Judi Fox:And I think that's the point where people go wrong is 'cause they try to
Judi Fox:prove people wrong in their response.
Judi Fox:And in fact, actually just being okay with somebody saying, oh, I don't
Judi Fox:agree with that and this is why.
Judi Fox:And you can just say, okay, cool.
Judi Fox:Well thanks so
Judi Fox:much for commenting, or whatever, you know.
Judi Fox:So I did make a quote wall when I started content online.
Judi Fox:I made a wall of quotes to keep and I didn't know I was doing.
Judi Fox:Now I can look in hindsight and go, that wall quote kept me sane
Judi Fox:and one of the quotes on that wall is you do not have to attend every
Judi Fox:argument that you're invited to.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:I love that quote 'cause every day I look and I'm like, if you're
Judi Fox:a content creator, you're gonna be technically invited to a lot of arguments.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:You are opening..
Judi Fox:You're invited to arguments.
Judi Fox:don't have to join them all.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Totally, totally, totally agree.
Judi Fox:And I think it's a good point to make completely.
Judi Fox:Look, we could talk forever.
Judi Fox:Judi,
Judi Fox:Yes, we.
Judi Fox:Don't
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: wanna take all of your time.
Judi Fox:Thank you so much.
Judi Fox:Oh, the one thing I wanted you to tell me is about, just the last thing just
Judi Fox:to finish on the consistency thing, is we talked just off air about the fact
Judi Fox:that I messaged you two years after I originally messaged you about the podcast
Judi Fox:and you said, and I felt really bad 'cause I sent the message and I said,
Judi Fox:will you still be a guest on my podcast?
Judi Fox:You said yes.
Judi Fox:And I said, it's been a year since I messaged you.
Judi Fox:And then I looked, and it had been two years, so I was like, so sorry, it's
Judi Fox:been two years and then I just laughed.
Judi Fox:And you said something about what permission it had given you for your
Judi Fox:own podcast, so I just want you to talk about that a little bit because
Judi Fox:often when we do stuff and we, like I'm really a big believer in just trying
Judi Fox:stuff out and sometimes it's crap and it doesn't work and you can just
Judi Fox:move on like nobody's coming to go.
Judi Fox:The consistency piece are not gonna come in and say, oh my God, you didn't do
Judi Fox:the thing you said you were gonna do.
Judi Fox:Like, just give it a go.
Judi Fox:But in this case, I didn't give it a go at all.
Judi Fox:So talk about that for us for a second.
Judi Fox:Yeah.
Judi Fox:No, I, I, you, you've made my inspiration quote wall that I literally have, which is
Judi Fox:this idea that there's this overwhelming feeling that connects us to moments in
Judi Fox:our life that we didn't follow through, we didn't respond, we didn't, we messed up.
Judi Fox:Like there's this feeling that I messed up, like I didn't do the thing
Judi Fox:I said I was gonna, I don't know.
Judi Fox:Whatever it is, we've all experienced it.
Judi Fox:And if you're online, you're being asked to connect and talk and network probably
Judi Fox:to an unsustainable amount of people.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Yeah, totally.
Judi Fox:It's a mind blowing amount of people sometimes that
Judi Fox:you can get into conversation with.
Judi Fox:No matter what your audience is, there's so much activity online that
Judi Fox:there's no way you can follow up and be perfect everywhere online,
Judi Fox:but I still feel like we want to.
Judi Fox:And so this feeling is released when I recognised my own response to getting that
Judi Fox:message from you, which was just pure joy.
Judi Fox:Like joy.
Judi Fox:And I was like, wait, I don't care that it was two years.
Judi Fox:There's no like angst, there's no, I'm actually just happy that
Judi Fox:I'm on his radar that he asked me again when it was time and that you
Judi Fox:were very just practical about it.
Judi Fox:Like it's just a fact, like whatever.
Judi Fox:It is not something to be shamed about, living in shame and carrying
Judi Fox:that shame and which then doesn't allow you to move forward to create
Judi Fox:the next thing you might actually create, which is now this recording.
Judi Fox:So it releases me when I looked at that, I was like, wow.
Judi Fox:I should just follow up with somebody that I, maybe I left them hanging
Judi Fox:because I've left plenty of, I just have.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: There's many people that want you to follow up.
Judi Fox:They're not sitting there waiting for you to potentially, but like, just the
Judi Fox:fact that you are going to follow up, it's a good way to kind of close the
Judi Fox:shame, if there is shame in yourself.
Judi Fox:You know, like, and when I looked at it, I was like, you know, my list had
Judi Fox:changed over the two years, of course, but when I went to all the people I'd
Judi Fox:asked, 'cause I'd asked about 20 people.
Judi Fox:I was like, a lot has changed for those people.
Judi Fox:Maybe they won't wanna do it anymore.
Judi Fox:Maybe they're too big or whatever.
Judi Fox:But I just thought, I'll just go for it.
Judi Fox:The worst thing that someone says is no, and then you've not lost anything.
Judi Fox:'cause they, it was a no before you know, an unknown answer is a no before anyway,
Judi Fox:so yeah, I just thought that was important to talk about, especially because we all
Judi Fox:have the best intentions when it comes to consistency and creating content.
Judi Fox:Like if you fall off the wagon, just get back on even if it's two years later.
Judi Fox:Wicked.
Judi Fox:Last thing I'll ask you just before we go, of course, how can people reach you?
Judi Fox:Tell us a little bit about any products or anything that you wanna
Judi Fox:talk about that you've got to offer.
Judi Fox:Yay.
Judi Fox:You can go to J-U-D-I, that is the judifox.com or just
Judi Fox:go to LinkedIn, Judi Fox.
Judi Fox:I'm always grateful for a follow on #FoxRocks on LinkedIn.
Judi Fox:I think it's fun have a hashtag on that platform, and you will be in an elite
Judi Fox:a group of people because there's about 1000, I'm trying to think how many
Judi Fox:followers on that hashtag, but you'll be part of the early 1000 true fan vibe.
Judi Fox:I will say will mail out Fox like little, oh my gosh, I mail these out
Judi Fox:to people based on literally being fans of following my hashtag Fox Rocks.
Judi Fox:When it comes to my business, I will say, I am headed in the direction
Judi Fox:of putting out some videos that people can level up on LinkedIn.
Judi Fox:The number one thing I'm focused on that I'm getting a lot of people
Judi Fox:connected to is earning them a top voice badge now on LinkedIn that has
Judi Fox:been opened up beyond just the top few.
Judi Fox:It's being rolled out and now I'm a Top Voice, so I am gonna release that
Judi Fox:'cause I was working with Doc Rock with Ecamm and he got a top voice
Judi Fox:as a content creator with my advice.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: Excellent.
Judi Fox:Amazing.
Judi Fox:We'll stick the links.
Judi Fox:If you send me the links to those things, I'll stick them in the
Judi Fox:show notes afterwards as well.
Judi Fox:Thanks so much for your time.
Judi Fox:It's absolute pleasure, after all this time to see you again
Judi Fox:and for you to be on the podcast.
Judi Fox:I loved it.
Judi Fox:Matthew Hughes - King Of Video: So I really appreciate it.
Judi Fox:Thank having me.
Judi Fox:Bye.