Stephanie Maas:

Hello, welcome to The Talent Trade. I am super

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excited to be here. I'm Stephanie Maas, partner with

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ThinkingAhead Executive Search, and today, my excitement level

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is through the roof because of the guest that we have today.

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She has been an all star with our firm since the minute she

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joined, although what I love about her story is it took her

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quite a few minutes to find her way with us. However, she showed

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tons of promise and potential and was just so dogged and

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professional and did so many things right, we knew that once

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she learned her niche, that it was going to be a okay. She has

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consistently been a top producer for us. I am super excited to

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have with us Elise Gay, part of our legal practice. Elise Gay.

Stephanie Maas:

Welcome.

Elise Gay:

Thank you so much. Stephanie, very glad to be here

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and like they say, if we have to live up to what our dog thinks

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we are, I'll have to live up to what you think I am every day.

Elise Gay:

So good challenge.

Stephanie Maas:

And I feel like somehow I just got called a dog.

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But anyway, moving right along. Okay, so one of the things I'm

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super excited about with you, Elise, is you have kind of

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coined a process with our firm, which is part of your immense

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impact since you've joined us, and I really want you to share

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that in detail, where it came from, how you execute it. You

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really implemented something kind of new to us, and I think

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this has really catapulted some of your success over the last

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couple of years. So share with us the how, what, where and when

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and why behind your process of the Roomba?

Elise Gay:

Yes, so I'll explain kind of where the Roomba term

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came from. But I would also like to point out my background. I

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came to executive search. I did have a sales background, but I

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also had an internal HR background, and and so I

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remember learning and training on this side of the house and so

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many recruiters will say, you know, I don't post jobs, or I

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don't post on LinkedIn, I don't share what I'm working on,

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because I'm supposed to only be calling or I'm supposed to only

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be going after passive candidates. And I really think

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of the Roomba number one as working smarter, but number two

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is like, almost like a business just turning on their open sign,

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right? You pull the string on that neon sign. That doesn't

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guarantee that you're going to be successful, or that you're

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going to get customers in the door, or that you're going to

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keep your business afloat, but it's a signal to the world that

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you're open for business. And I think a lot of the Roomba idea

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is really just in support of that. And so the idea of really

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talking about the Roomba, at thinking ahead and in business,

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literally came from when I first started here, a little over six

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years ago. My kids were much younger, and I don't know about

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you, but on Saturday morning, I'm like, I want to get my

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chores done because I want to be outside. I want to exercise. I

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want to go do fun things with my kid. I want to kick my feet back

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and enjoy time with family and friends. So it's like, how can I

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multitask in doing my household chores, right? To get done

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quicker and get to my fun stuff, right? And I think again, we're

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going to take this back to business. But I really started

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this because I used to have these little one pound hand and

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ankle weights that you would like Velcro on, and I would put

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those on, and I would fold my laundry so that I felt like I

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was getting exercise while I was folding laundry. And I would

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crank up some 80s music, or I would turn on a podcast for work

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that I'd been meaning to listen to, and I would listen to that

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while I'm folding my laundry with my weights on, and at the

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same time I was running my dishwasher, I'd be running my

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clothes washer and my dryer, and I would literally have my Roomba

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going on around my house. So I was like, All right, I'm getting

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these chores done. We're going to have some fun this weekend.

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And that's kind of the idea behind it. And work is deploy

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all of your resources so that you can have confidence in the

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hard work that you have to do to get stuff done for your clients

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and your candidates. So that's the background. The same

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mentality absolutely applies in executive search. You always

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have to work hard at this job, but you can still work hard and

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work smart. And again, when you serve other people's needs in

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this job, you always serve your own. So how can you serve people

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faster but also better and more thoroughly, and how can you

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serve more people? That's really the name of the game and being

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successful in executive search. So I think a big part of my

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mindset in this job is that you have to be confident and humble,

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you have to be patient and urgent. You just have to be

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organized. Period. There's really no and I think you. Have

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to be tunnel focused and adaptable, and I think you have

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to be both proud and polite and humble at the same time. So

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there's a lot of ands in this job. One thing that I've always

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thought about in this role is that you have to be a bit

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selfish with your time. Well, selfish on that surface level,

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sounds negative and sounds self serving. It's actually not,

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because I think when you come to this job, when you come to your

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desk every day, you really have to think about that efficiency

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and spending your time on tasks that are going to move the ball

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forward for your clients and candidates. And how can you take

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the same hours in the day that everybody else have and kind of

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get that job done. So we've talked about deploying

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resources. I think that we can think about those resources in a

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couple different buckets. When you're in executive search, we

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all have job postings. We can all post on LinkedIn. I call

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those things kind of the extras, or the icing on the cake, if you

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will. Again, that's that Roomba kind of working in the

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background. And what I want to challenge people to think about

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is that that's not a post and pray, if you will, kind of a

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situation. It's not always the and it's rarely, by the way, a

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one to one relationship. I'm going to post a job, the perfect

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candidates going to apply, and they're going to be the one that

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gets the job. But I would like to challenge people to think

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about posting or talking about what they're working on on

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LinkedIn or just kind of on some platform, whether it's a mass

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email, a newsletter, any tool that you're using to get your

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work out there really just does a lot for you. In the

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background, again, it's that Roomba running while you're

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making the calls, while you're prepping the candidates. You're

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really building presence and familiarity with candidates and

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clients. You're establishing yourself as that market master.

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I also try to think about, if I'm posting a job or I'm posting

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on LinkedIn. What's my goal for the week? And let me make my

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post about that. Let me make it intentional. What I'm posting

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and putting out there should almost be like a hey, this is my

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goal this week. I'm working on this particular search, and

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that's going to be very closely tied to goals and metrics that

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I'm measuring myself by. I also think publishing and posting and

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talking about on some kind of a platform what you're working on,

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it can get you referrals. It can get people talking in the

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marketplace. It can also get you candidates and connections that

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maybe aren't even on LinkedIn or social media, but they have a

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friend who is and the friend shares things along. So I think

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that there's just huge power in posting and sharing, whether it

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be videos, whether it be a blog that you do, but just having

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that presence can really be huge for your personal career, and

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again, for serving your clients and candidates. Well, I also

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think another bucket to think about when we think about that

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Roomba. Again, kind of vacuuming while you're folding your

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laundry is, you know, leveraging support of what some people call

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a project team. You know, if you have a team that sources for

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you, if you have a marketing team that helps you build job

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announcements, deploy those resources. Don't be afraid to

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delegate and to use that Roomba, but again, make sure that what

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you're delegating is directly helping you to meet your

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immediate and urgent goals. These, you know, research team

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sourcing teams, they're also great for just helping you to

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find candidates, but not only that, to find new clients, to

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find dream clients that you want to work with to help you connect

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more deeply with hiring managers in your space, or certainly with

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candidates in your space. Video is a huge platform. I have done

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a little bit of video. I have other colleagues I think that

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have really embraced video and gotten huge results again, just

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positioning themselves as a market master and positioning

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themselves as an expert in their space, and just building that

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network for today and for down the road.

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Walk us through newsletter and email campaigns.

Elise Gay:

Mmm hmm, making sure that you are either delegating,

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running newsletters in the backgrounds or running email

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campaigns in the backgrounds of your phone call, of that muscle

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on the phone, can get you some big results. I'm also a huge fan

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of marketing in the same space that I'm recruiting in. Some

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people call that show my work. But again, I think that gets you

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confidence. It gives you credibility. It can often get

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referrals. It can help you gain that market Intel. You're really

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also potentially finding new clients to take that same body

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of work that you're working on, if it's not exclusive, and kind

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of recycle it immediately and place more candidates and make

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more impact.

Stephanie Maas:

That's another thing you touch on there. I want

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to expand on this recyclability. Any top producer I've ever heard

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has been a top producer, consistently over time, is

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highly specialized in their niche to allow for this idea of

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recyclability. So can you expand on that a little bit for us?

Elise Gay:

Absolutely. So I think such a key to being

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successful in this business is pattern recognition. Is being

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able to look at the market and go, Okay, this is a consistent

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need in my market. Now, how can I be someone to help fill that

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need over and over again, whether it be for one client

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multiple clients, building a candidate base that is

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recyclable is so important. And again, I think on the surface,

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that might sound a little negative or maybe a little

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callous, but it really helps you to serve more people when you

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can build relationships in a space very like a very tunnel

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focused approach, almost you're building relationships in a very

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specific geography with a very specific job duty. And you can

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go and get more searches, more candidates, and it's almost like

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you're able to take people from one search, maybe that were the

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runner up and place them quickly with a different client that has

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a need in that space.

Stephanie Maas:

So I just want to clarify. Recyclability is not

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placing the same candidate over and over again every two years.

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It is taking the work that you do for any one search and taking

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those candidates who didn't get the job and continuing to serve

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them and other clients by working the same position with

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other clients. So we serve many at the same time.

Elise Gay:

Absolutely, absolutely.

Stephanie Maas:

Super exciting. So the other thing I want to

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talk about you specifically is you operate at such a high level

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of production, I know you have tremendously high standards for

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yourself, and yet, I also think one of the things you do really,

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really well, is combine this Roomba for work so you can be

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more efficient, serve more better, faster, etc, but then

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you also take it off the field, or you use the word, you have to

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be kind of selfish. But if it's the right kind of selfish, it's

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self care, especially someone that is so high producing,

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oftentimes and high functioning, there's this misconception that

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they've abandoned all else, and this is all that they do. And I

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think you're truly one of the most well rounded folks that

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perform at your level that we've ever seen. So can you talk me

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through that a little bit?

Elise Gay:

Absolutely, I do think the idea of Roomba is

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absolutely self care, and it is not selfish, and it's something

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I'm a huge believer in. I am a mom of two. I have a husband who

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travels pretty extensively for work, so we have two careers,

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and we are a dual income household, but as much as he is

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amazing and jumps in and helps when he's home, a lot of times,

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I am a little bit of a single parent, and I have a

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Labradoodle. But yes, I think you have to take care of

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yourself in this job. Is anyone's life perfectly

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balanced? Of course not, but I am just a staunch believer that

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if you don't take care of yourself outside of work, this

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job must become infinitely harder, and it's just harder to

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lift yourself off the ground, because the positive mentality

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is so huge in what we do, being able to sit down and talk to

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people and smile even through the hard days, is super

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important and what we do so I do believe that your personal

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habits truly fuel your professional success. And what I

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mean by that, you know, we all have different things that fill

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us up, but for me, I think exercise has just become so

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important, and it really has nothing to do with physical

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appearance, but it is purely mental stress relief, anxiety

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relief for me. I mean, exercise is just paramount for me. Sleep,

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although sometimes I don't get enough, I find I have to be

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pretty disciplined about my sleep habits, eating and just

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calendar management in general. How am I? You know, I try to

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look at my calendar as Okay, in this week, this is what I must

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accomplish professionally, and this is what I must accomplish

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personally. Are there things that I need to say no to in

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order to be laser focused on what I've got to get done for

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the week? Are there things I can turn down. I'm also the older or

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the more seasoned I've gotten, I'm just a big believer in

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having space for a little bit of silence and a little bit of

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stillness, and that really breeding creativity, I think, on

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and off the field in work and in life. Life. And sometimes that

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can be sitting with a cup of coffee and thinking about

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something like this on a Saturday morning, or sometimes

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it can be, let me just block off 30 minutes at the end of my day,

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and instead of making 10 more phone calls, there's something

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with work that I need to just let those creative juices flow a

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little bit. Let me turn myself on Do Not Disturb and let me

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just kind of think in a little bit of white space about what I

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need to get done. I feel that most of us in executive

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recruitment, we are urgent, we are fast, we are furious, but

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you can't always live in that fight or flight mode. I think

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you have to change over to arrest and recovery time. I've

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just realized, the longer I've done this, the importance of

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that for me, I am a big mind, body, connect person, and I

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think that having work habits that are working smarter, not

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harder, and giving myself this space is so important, and I

Elise Gay:

couldn't do this job without it.

Stephanie Maas:

So cool. Okay, just for a minute or two, just

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touch on again somebody at your level, dogged in their work

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efforts. Take care of yourself on and off the field. Talk about

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how you maintain your motivation and mindset of being Uber

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productive. Talk me through what works for you.

Elise Gay:

I think that a big part of this job is just picking

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up the phone and making like the first 10 or 15 calls. We can all

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get that call reluctance, or literally sit at our desk and

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go, I do not feel like it today. Maybe something you know has

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gone on at work that's discouraged us, or we've brought

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something in from our personal life that's making us feel down

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and giving us maybe some of that call reluctance that we can all

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get. I think that if you can just force yourself to get on

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the phone and start talking and have that mindset of being open

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to the possibility of what you're going to come up with

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that day that that gets me through a lot.

Stephanie Maas:

Yeah it's kind of like that eat the frog

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mentality.

Elise Gay:

Absolutely, absolutely.

Stephanie Maas:

Danny Cahill, what he talks about is, and you

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know you talk about this too, is, if you rely on willpower and

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discipline, that's only going to get you so far. But instead, I

Stephanie Maas:

loved his analogy about brushing your teeth. You know, brushing

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your teeth is not an emotional act. You don't have to get

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yourself hyped up for it. You don't have to convince yourself,

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he said, but somewhere in your conscious or subconscious, you

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make a decision that you want healthy teeth, so therefore you

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brush your teeth, hopefully twice a day, but most days, at

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least once a day. Do you even think about any kind of an

Stephanie Maas:

emotional response to brushing your teeth. No, it's just part

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of what you do. You know, if you weigh a certain length of time

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before you get on the phone, it's going to become emotional,

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because you're letting all these other parts of your psyche come

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in. So what I've observed with you is you just have a standard

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for performance. And for you, it's just, hey, I produce at

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this level. I do this kind of work. This is just what I do.

Stephanie Maas:

And as a part of doing that, you don't go in every morning and

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go, gosh, do I want to get on the phone? Do I not? You're

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like, Nope, okay, I want to make my 10, 15 calls. We'll see what

Stephanie Maas:

happens after that kind of thing. And I get for people who

Stephanie Maas:

are highly emotional, that's a hard perspective. And I think

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with somebody like yourself, where you've got this incredible

Stephanie Maas:

emotional intuition, and yet you've really figured out how to

Stephanie Maas:

take the emotional out of just doing the job. Kudos to you.

Elise Gay:

Thanks. Yeah. And I think if you, if you're trying

Elise Gay:

to build abs, the more crunches you if you, you know, set a

Elise Gay:

small goal, you do 10 a day, then you find yourself wanting

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more. You know, you're like, 10 was easy. I bet I could do 20.

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And then you look a year down the road and you're doing 100 or

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whatever it is, but you have to build that muscle, and you do

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have to push yourself. But I do think taking the emotional piece

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out of it is huge. And it's just, this is what we're going

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to do today. It's you have to talk to yourself like you talk

Elise Gay:

to your kids sometimes, like, Hey, this is the plan.

Stephanie Maas:

Yeah, I'm the grown up here. I set the agenda.

Stephanie Maas:

It's just happening

Elise Gay:

Exactly.

Stephanie Maas:

I think I had that conversation this morning.

Stephanie Maas:

Super delightful having you here. You're such an

Stephanie Maas:

inspiration, both because of what you have accomplished, but

Stephanie Maas:

also who you are.

Elise Gay:

Thank you so much, Stephanie.