Hello, welcome to The Talent Trade. I am super
Stephanie Maas:excited to be here. I'm Stephanie Maas, partner with
Stephanie Maas:ThinkingAhead Executive Search, and today, my excitement level
Stephanie Maas:is through the roof because of the guest that we have today.
Stephanie Maas:She has been an all star with our firm since the minute she
Stephanie Maas:joined, although what I love about her story is it took her
Stephanie Maas:quite a few minutes to find her way with us. However, she showed
Stephanie Maas:tons of promise and potential and was just so dogged and
Stephanie Maas:professional and did so many things right, we knew that once
Stephanie Maas:she learned her niche, that it was going to be a okay. She has
Stephanie Maas:consistently been a top producer for us. I am super excited to
Stephanie Maas:have with us Elise Gay, part of our legal practice. Elise Gay.
Stephanie Maas:Welcome.
Elise Gay:Thank you so much. Stephanie, very glad to be here
Elise Gay:and like they say, if we have to live up to what our dog thinks
Elise Gay:we are, I'll have to live up to what you think I am every day.
Elise Gay:So good challenge.
Stephanie Maas:And I feel like somehow I just got called a dog.
Stephanie Maas:But anyway, moving right along. Okay, so one of the things I'm
Stephanie Maas:super excited about with you, Elise, is you have kind of
Stephanie Maas:coined a process with our firm, which is part of your immense
Stephanie Maas:impact since you've joined us, and I really want you to share
Stephanie Maas:that in detail, where it came from, how you execute it. You
Stephanie Maas:really implemented something kind of new to us, and I think
Stephanie Maas:this has really catapulted some of your success over the last
Stephanie Maas:couple of years. So share with us the how, what, where and when
Stephanie Maas:and why behind your process of the Roomba?
Elise Gay:Yes, so I'll explain kind of where the Roomba term
Elise Gay:came from. But I would also like to point out my background. I
Elise Gay:came to executive search. I did have a sales background, but I
Elise Gay:also had an internal HR background, and and so I
Elise Gay:remember learning and training on this side of the house and so
Elise Gay:many recruiters will say, you know, I don't post jobs, or I
Elise Gay:don't post on LinkedIn, I don't share what I'm working on,
Elise Gay:because I'm supposed to only be calling or I'm supposed to only
Elise Gay:be going after passive candidates. And I really think
Elise Gay:of the Roomba number one as working smarter, but number two
Elise Gay:is like, almost like a business just turning on their open sign,
Elise Gay:right? You pull the string on that neon sign. That doesn't
Elise Gay:guarantee that you're going to be successful, or that you're
Elise Gay:going to get customers in the door, or that you're going to
Elise Gay:keep your business afloat, but it's a signal to the world that
Elise Gay:you're open for business. And I think a lot of the Roomba idea
Elise Gay:is really just in support of that. And so the idea of really
Elise Gay:talking about the Roomba, at thinking ahead and in business,
Elise Gay:literally came from when I first started here, a little over six
Elise Gay:years ago. My kids were much younger, and I don't know about
Elise Gay:you, but on Saturday morning, I'm like, I want to get my
Elise Gay:chores done because I want to be outside. I want to exercise. I
Elise Gay:want to go do fun things with my kid. I want to kick my feet back
Elise Gay:and enjoy time with family and friends. So it's like, how can I
Elise Gay:multitask in doing my household chores, right? To get done
Elise Gay:quicker and get to my fun stuff, right? And I think again, we're
Elise Gay:going to take this back to business. But I really started
Elise Gay:this because I used to have these little one pound hand and
Elise Gay:ankle weights that you would like Velcro on, and I would put
Elise Gay:those on, and I would fold my laundry so that I felt like I
Elise Gay:was getting exercise while I was folding laundry. And I would
Elise Gay:crank up some 80s music, or I would turn on a podcast for work
Elise Gay:that I'd been meaning to listen to, and I would listen to that
Elise Gay:while I'm folding my laundry with my weights on, and at the
Elise Gay:same time I was running my dishwasher, I'd be running my
Elise Gay:clothes washer and my dryer, and I would literally have my Roomba
Elise Gay:going on around my house. So I was like, All right, I'm getting
Elise Gay:these chores done. We're going to have some fun this weekend.
Elise Gay:And that's kind of the idea behind it. And work is deploy
Elise Gay:all of your resources so that you can have confidence in the
Elise Gay:hard work that you have to do to get stuff done for your clients
Elise Gay:and your candidates. So that's the background. The same
Elise Gay:mentality absolutely applies in executive search. You always
Elise Gay:have to work hard at this job, but you can still work hard and
Elise Gay:work smart. And again, when you serve other people's needs in
Elise Gay:this job, you always serve your own. So how can you serve people
Elise Gay:faster but also better and more thoroughly, and how can you
Elise Gay:serve more people? That's really the name of the game and being
Elise Gay:successful in executive search. So I think a big part of my
Elise Gay:mindset in this job is that you have to be confident and humble,
Elise Gay:you have to be patient and urgent. You just have to be
Elise Gay:organized. Period. There's really no and I think you. Have
Elise Gay:to be tunnel focused and adaptable, and I think you have
Elise Gay:to be both proud and polite and humble at the same time. So
Elise Gay:there's a lot of ands in this job. One thing that I've always
Elise Gay:thought about in this role is that you have to be a bit
Elise Gay:selfish with your time. Well, selfish on that surface level,
Elise Gay:sounds negative and sounds self serving. It's actually not,
Elise Gay:because I think when you come to this job, when you come to your
Elise Gay:desk every day, you really have to think about that efficiency
Elise Gay:and spending your time on tasks that are going to move the ball
Elise Gay:forward for your clients and candidates. And how can you take
Elise Gay:the same hours in the day that everybody else have and kind of
Elise Gay:get that job done. So we've talked about deploying
Elise Gay:resources. I think that we can think about those resources in a
Elise Gay:couple different buckets. When you're in executive search, we
Elise Gay:all have job postings. We can all post on LinkedIn. I call
Elise Gay:those things kind of the extras, or the icing on the cake, if you
Elise Gay:will. Again, that's that Roomba kind of working in the
Elise Gay:background. And what I want to challenge people to think about
Elise Gay:is that that's not a post and pray, if you will, kind of a
Elise Gay:situation. It's not always the and it's rarely, by the way, a
Elise Gay:one to one relationship. I'm going to post a job, the perfect
Elise Gay:candidates going to apply, and they're going to be the one that
Elise Gay:gets the job. But I would like to challenge people to think
Elise Gay:about posting or talking about what they're working on on
Elise Gay:LinkedIn or just kind of on some platform, whether it's a mass
Elise Gay:email, a newsletter, any tool that you're using to get your
Elise Gay:work out there really just does a lot for you. In the
Elise Gay:background, again, it's that Roomba running while you're
Elise Gay:making the calls, while you're prepping the candidates. You're
Elise Gay:really building presence and familiarity with candidates and
Elise Gay:clients. You're establishing yourself as that market master.
Elise Gay:I also try to think about, if I'm posting a job or I'm posting
Elise Gay:on LinkedIn. What's my goal for the week? And let me make my
Elise Gay:post about that. Let me make it intentional. What I'm posting
Elise Gay:and putting out there should almost be like a hey, this is my
Elise Gay:goal this week. I'm working on this particular search, and
Elise Gay:that's going to be very closely tied to goals and metrics that
Elise Gay:I'm measuring myself by. I also think publishing and posting and
Elise Gay:talking about on some kind of a platform what you're working on,
Elise Gay:it can get you referrals. It can get people talking in the
Elise Gay:marketplace. It can also get you candidates and connections that
Elise Gay:maybe aren't even on LinkedIn or social media, but they have a
Elise Gay:friend who is and the friend shares things along. So I think
Elise Gay:that there's just huge power in posting and sharing, whether it
Elise Gay:be videos, whether it be a blog that you do, but just having
Elise Gay:that presence can really be huge for your personal career, and
Elise Gay:again, for serving your clients and candidates. Well, I also
Elise Gay:think another bucket to think about when we think about that
Elise Gay:Roomba. Again, kind of vacuuming while you're folding your
Elise Gay:laundry is, you know, leveraging support of what some people call
Elise Gay:a project team. You know, if you have a team that sources for
Elise Gay:you, if you have a marketing team that helps you build job
Elise Gay:announcements, deploy those resources. Don't be afraid to
Elise Gay:delegate and to use that Roomba, but again, make sure that what
Elise Gay:you're delegating is directly helping you to meet your
Elise Gay:immediate and urgent goals. These, you know, research team
Elise Gay:sourcing teams, they're also great for just helping you to
Elise Gay:find candidates, but not only that, to find new clients, to
Elise Gay:find dream clients that you want to work with to help you connect
Elise Gay:more deeply with hiring managers in your space, or certainly with
Elise Gay:candidates in your space. Video is a huge platform. I have done
Elise Gay:a little bit of video. I have other colleagues I think that
Elise Gay:have really embraced video and gotten huge results again, just
Elise Gay:positioning themselves as a market master and positioning
Elise Gay:themselves as an expert in their space, and just building that
Elise Gay:network for today and for down the road.
Stephanie Maas:Walk us through newsletter and email campaigns.
Elise Gay:Mmm hmm, making sure that you are either delegating,
Elise Gay:running newsletters in the backgrounds or running email
Elise Gay:campaigns in the backgrounds of your phone call, of that muscle
Elise Gay:on the phone, can get you some big results. I'm also a huge fan
Elise Gay:of marketing in the same space that I'm recruiting in. Some
Elise Gay:people call that show my work. But again, I think that gets you
Elise Gay:confidence. It gives you credibility. It can often get
Elise Gay:referrals. It can help you gain that market Intel. You're really
Elise Gay:also potentially finding new clients to take that same body
Elise Gay:of work that you're working on, if it's not exclusive, and kind
Elise Gay:of recycle it immediately and place more candidates and make
Elise Gay:more impact.
Stephanie Maas:That's another thing you touch on there. I want
Stephanie Maas:to expand on this recyclability. Any top producer I've ever heard
Stephanie Maas:has been a top producer, consistently over time, is
Stephanie Maas:highly specialized in their niche to allow for this idea of
Stephanie Maas:recyclability. So can you expand on that a little bit for us?
Elise Gay:Absolutely. So I think such a key to being
Elise Gay:successful in this business is pattern recognition. Is being
Elise Gay:able to look at the market and go, Okay, this is a consistent
Elise Gay:need in my market. Now, how can I be someone to help fill that
Elise Gay:need over and over again, whether it be for one client
Elise Gay:multiple clients, building a candidate base that is
Elise Gay:recyclable is so important. And again, I think on the surface,
Elise Gay:that might sound a little negative or maybe a little
Elise Gay:callous, but it really helps you to serve more people when you
Elise Gay:can build relationships in a space very like a very tunnel
Elise Gay:focused approach, almost you're building relationships in a very
Elise Gay:specific geography with a very specific job duty. And you can
Elise Gay:go and get more searches, more candidates, and it's almost like
Elise Gay:you're able to take people from one search, maybe that were the
Elise Gay:runner up and place them quickly with a different client that has
Elise Gay:a need in that space.
Stephanie Maas:So I just want to clarify. Recyclability is not
Stephanie Maas:placing the same candidate over and over again every two years.
Stephanie Maas:It is taking the work that you do for any one search and taking
Stephanie Maas:those candidates who didn't get the job and continuing to serve
Stephanie Maas:them and other clients by working the same position with
Stephanie Maas:other clients. So we serve many at the same time.
Elise Gay:Absolutely, absolutely.
Stephanie Maas:Super exciting. So the other thing I want to
Stephanie Maas:talk about you specifically is you operate at such a high level
Stephanie Maas:of production, I know you have tremendously high standards for
Stephanie Maas:yourself, and yet, I also think one of the things you do really,
Stephanie Maas:really well, is combine this Roomba for work so you can be
Stephanie Maas:more efficient, serve more better, faster, etc, but then
Stephanie Maas:you also take it off the field, or you use the word, you have to
Stephanie Maas:be kind of selfish. But if it's the right kind of selfish, it's
Stephanie Maas:self care, especially someone that is so high producing,
Stephanie Maas:oftentimes and high functioning, there's this misconception that
Stephanie Maas:they've abandoned all else, and this is all that they do. And I
Stephanie Maas:think you're truly one of the most well rounded folks that
Stephanie Maas:perform at your level that we've ever seen. So can you talk me
Stephanie Maas:through that a little bit?
Elise Gay:Absolutely, I do think the idea of Roomba is
Elise Gay:absolutely self care, and it is not selfish, and it's something
Elise Gay:I'm a huge believer in. I am a mom of two. I have a husband who
Elise Gay:travels pretty extensively for work, so we have two careers,
Elise Gay:and we are a dual income household, but as much as he is
Elise Gay:amazing and jumps in and helps when he's home, a lot of times,
Elise Gay:I am a little bit of a single parent, and I have a
Elise Gay:Labradoodle. But yes, I think you have to take care of
Elise Gay:yourself in this job. Is anyone's life perfectly
Elise Gay:balanced? Of course not, but I am just a staunch believer that
Elise Gay:if you don't take care of yourself outside of work, this
Elise Gay:job must become infinitely harder, and it's just harder to
Elise Gay:lift yourself off the ground, because the positive mentality
Elise Gay:is so huge in what we do, being able to sit down and talk to
Elise Gay:people and smile even through the hard days, is super
Elise Gay:important and what we do so I do believe that your personal
Elise Gay:habits truly fuel your professional success. And what I
Elise Gay:mean by that, you know, we all have different things that fill
Elise Gay:us up, but for me, I think exercise has just become so
Elise Gay:important, and it really has nothing to do with physical
Elise Gay:appearance, but it is purely mental stress relief, anxiety
Elise Gay:relief for me. I mean, exercise is just paramount for me. Sleep,
Elise Gay:although sometimes I don't get enough, I find I have to be
Elise Gay:pretty disciplined about my sleep habits, eating and just
Elise Gay:calendar management in general. How am I? You know, I try to
Elise Gay:look at my calendar as Okay, in this week, this is what I must
Elise Gay:accomplish professionally, and this is what I must accomplish
Elise Gay:personally. Are there things that I need to say no to in
Elise Gay:order to be laser focused on what I've got to get done for
Elise Gay:the week? Are there things I can turn down. I'm also the older or
Elise Gay:the more seasoned I've gotten, I'm just a big believer in
Elise Gay:having space for a little bit of silence and a little bit of
Elise Gay:stillness, and that really breeding creativity, I think, on
Elise Gay:and off the field in work and in life. Life. And sometimes that
Elise Gay:can be sitting with a cup of coffee and thinking about
Elise Gay:something like this on a Saturday morning, or sometimes
Elise Gay:it can be, let me just block off 30 minutes at the end of my day,
Elise Gay:and instead of making 10 more phone calls, there's something
Elise Gay:with work that I need to just let those creative juices flow a
Elise Gay:little bit. Let me turn myself on Do Not Disturb and let me
Elise Gay:just kind of think in a little bit of white space about what I
Elise Gay:need to get done. I feel that most of us in executive
Elise Gay:recruitment, we are urgent, we are fast, we are furious, but
Elise Gay:you can't always live in that fight or flight mode. I think
Elise Gay:you have to change over to arrest and recovery time. I've
Elise Gay:just realized, the longer I've done this, the importance of
Elise Gay:that for me, I am a big mind, body, connect person, and I
Elise Gay:think that having work habits that are working smarter, not
Elise Gay:harder, and giving myself this space is so important, and I
Elise Gay:couldn't do this job without it.
Stephanie Maas:So cool. Okay, just for a minute or two, just
Stephanie Maas:touch on again somebody at your level, dogged in their work
Stephanie Maas:efforts. Take care of yourself on and off the field. Talk about
Stephanie Maas:how you maintain your motivation and mindset of being Uber
Stephanie Maas:productive. Talk me through what works for you.
Elise Gay:I think that a big part of this job is just picking
Elise Gay:up the phone and making like the first 10 or 15 calls. We can all
Elise Gay:get that call reluctance, or literally sit at our desk and
Elise Gay:go, I do not feel like it today. Maybe something you know has
Elise Gay:gone on at work that's discouraged us, or we've brought
Elise Gay:something in from our personal life that's making us feel down
Elise Gay:and giving us maybe some of that call reluctance that we can all
Elise Gay:get. I think that if you can just force yourself to get on
Elise Gay:the phone and start talking and have that mindset of being open
Elise Gay:to the possibility of what you're going to come up with
Elise Gay:that day that that gets me through a lot.
Stephanie Maas:Yeah it's kind of like that eat the frog
Stephanie Maas:mentality.
Elise Gay:Absolutely, absolutely.
Stephanie Maas:Danny Cahill, what he talks about is, and you
Stephanie Maas:know you talk about this too, is, if you rely on willpower and
Stephanie Maas:discipline, that's only going to get you so far. But instead, I
Stephanie Maas:loved his analogy about brushing your teeth. You know, brushing
Stephanie Maas:your teeth is not an emotional act. You don't have to get
Stephanie Maas:yourself hyped up for it. You don't have to convince yourself,
Stephanie Maas:he said, but somewhere in your conscious or subconscious, you
Stephanie Maas:make a decision that you want healthy teeth, so therefore you
Stephanie Maas:brush your teeth, hopefully twice a day, but most days, at
Stephanie Maas:least once a day. Do you even think about any kind of an
Stephanie Maas:emotional response to brushing your teeth. No, it's just part
Stephanie Maas:of what you do. You know, if you weigh a certain length of time
Stephanie Maas:before you get on the phone, it's going to become emotional,
Stephanie Maas:because you're letting all these other parts of your psyche come
Stephanie Maas:in. So what I've observed with you is you just have a standard
Stephanie Maas:for performance. And for you, it's just, hey, I produce at
Stephanie Maas:this level. I do this kind of work. This is just what I do.
Stephanie Maas:And as a part of doing that, you don't go in every morning and
Stephanie Maas:go, gosh, do I want to get on the phone? Do I not? You're
Stephanie Maas:like, Nope, okay, I want to make my 10, 15 calls. We'll see what
Stephanie Maas:happens after that kind of thing. And I get for people who
Stephanie Maas:are highly emotional, that's a hard perspective. And I think
Stephanie Maas:with somebody like yourself, where you've got this incredible
Stephanie Maas:emotional intuition, and yet you've really figured out how to
Stephanie Maas:take the emotional out of just doing the job. Kudos to you.
Elise Gay:Thanks. Yeah. And I think if you, if you're trying
Elise Gay:to build abs, the more crunches you if you, you know, set a
Elise Gay:small goal, you do 10 a day, then you find yourself wanting
Elise Gay:more. You know, you're like, 10 was easy. I bet I could do 20.
Elise Gay:And then you look a year down the road and you're doing 100 or
Elise Gay:whatever it is, but you have to build that muscle, and you do
Elise Gay:have to push yourself. But I do think taking the emotional piece
Elise Gay:out of it is huge. And it's just, this is what we're going
Elise Gay:to do today. It's you have to talk to yourself like you talk
Elise Gay:to your kids sometimes, like, Hey, this is the plan.
Stephanie Maas:Yeah, I'm the grown up here. I set the agenda.
Stephanie Maas:It's just happening
Elise Gay:Exactly.
Stephanie Maas:I think I had that conversation this morning.
Stephanie Maas:Super delightful having you here. You're such an
Stephanie Maas:inspiration, both because of what you have accomplished, but
Stephanie Maas:also who you are.
Elise Gay:Thank you so much, Stephanie.