Stephanie Maas:

Okay, so I have to ask this is just totally random. It's got nothing to do with

Stephanie Maas:

anything. So on your chair, is that a blanket?

Steven Kotler:

It is a blanket.

Stephanie Maas:

Is it to protect the chair?

Steven Kotler:

It's literally to protect the chair, mainly because my dog. Well, the dog who's

Steven Kotler:

in the office with me is 120 pounds. He's very big. His claws are significant. And he will at

Steven Kotler:

least once a day come over, like try to pull me and he destroyed the previous desk chair. So I've

Steven Kotler:

learned.

Stephanie Maas:

Okay, well, so you want to actually dive into some things?

Steven Kotler:

I'll go wherever you guys want to go.

Stephanie Maas:

Rockin. Okay, one of the things I think's worth noting is in your group of advisors,

Stephanie Maas:

you have 14 advisors on your website, 11 of the 14 are doctors. And a lot of what you focus on is not

Stephanie Maas:

just these concepts, and the research that you've done to prove them, put them into action hone

Stephanie Maas:

them, whatever is they are backed by this idea of science, medicine.

Steven Kotler:

Okay. So at the heart of most of my career, as a first journalist than as an author of

Steven Kotler:

writing books about these topics. Then, as a neuroscientist leading international team of

Steven Kotler:

researchers into these topics, the progression has been focused on peak human performance. And by

Steven Kotler:

peak human performance, I only mean getting our biology to work for us rather than against us.

Steven Kotler:

That's all the definition of peak performance is it's getting our biology to work for us rather

Steven Kotler:

than against us. And at the heart of that biology at the heart of my work is a state of

Steven Kotler:

consciousness, known to researchers as low, you may call it runner's high or being in the zone or

Steven Kotler:

you play basketball as being unconscious, you're a jazz musician, you're in the pocket, the lingo is

Steven Kotler:

endless. Flow is technically defined as an optimal state of consciousness, a state of consciousness

Steven Kotler:

where we feel our best and we perform our best, more specifically refers to any of those moments

Steven Kotler:

that we're all familiar with rapt attention, total absorption just gets so focused on the task at

Steven Kotler:

hand, so focused on what you're doing that everything else just starts to melt away and

Steven Kotler:

disappear. Sense itself self consciousness, the inner critic voice in your head that's always on,

Steven Kotler:

it's always telling you, you're too fat, too dumb, too ugly, right? It shuts up. Finally, thank God,

Steven Kotler:

time passes strangely, most commonly, just get so sucked into what you're doing that five hours go

Steven Kotler:

by, and like five minutes. Occasionally, sometimes it's slow, it'll slow down, you're gonna freeze

Steven Kotler:

for impact. And throughout all aspects of performance, both mental and physical, go to the

Steven Kotler:

roof. So at the flow research collective, what we do is we study, I'll tell you about why this is

Steven Kotler:

the answer to like the science questions, the neurobiology of peak human performance, what's

Steven Kotler:

going on in the brain and the body when people are performing at their very best, and flow is a big

Steven Kotler:

part of that equation. So the reason, there's so many sort of neuroscientists on my board and that

Steven Kotler:

sort of stuff, and the reason we do all this work is this psychology of flow, which was very well

Steven Kotler:

established over the course of the 20th century, but the end of the 20th century, they were

Steven Kotler:

starting to train people using the psychology. And the problem with training from psychology is

Steven Kotler:

psychology is very, very individual. Right? It's shaped by nurtured, shaped by nature, and really

Steven Kotler:

fundamental things to peak performance. Like, where are you on the introversion extroversion

Steven Kotler:

scale, meaning like, if you're super introverted, I can't teach you anything if there are other

Steven Kotler:

people around because you're handicapped, right? Those kinds of things, where what are your risk

Steven Kotler:

tolerance is like, and what are they like in different situations, right? People have one level

Steven Kotler:

of physical risk tolerance and other level of emotional risk tolerance or sexual or

Steven Kotler:

intellectual, take your pick, right? Those are very individual psychology is very individual. But

Steven Kotler:

if you go one level down, you go to the neurobiology, neurobiology is shaped by evolution

Steven Kotler:

and its constant volume. And so if you're looking to make things reliable, and repeatable

Steven Kotler:

neurobiology is your tool. I got very lucky in my career, I started as a journalist, and I was

Steven Kotler:

interested in interesting performance. I was also interested in neuroscience, it was a language I

Steven Kotler:

sort of spoke, and I probably the psychology I always felt like when I was trying to just improve

Steven Kotler:

myself as a writer, as an athlete, as a whatever, I was getting so confused, and they're decent

Steven Kotler:

things. nitpicking arguments over crazy little details. And I'm like, none of this is practical.

Steven Kotler:

I don't know what to do with this. And when I got into the neurobiology and figured out you could

Steven Kotler:

train from it, it really worked. And we, you know, at the flow research collective, teamed up with

Steven Kotler:

folks at Stanford and USC, and UCLA and et cetera, et cetera, and study that neurobiology that stuff

Steven Kotler:

and then we use it to train people in 103. Ready countries, which are intensive 1000s of people

Steven Kotler:

every month. And this is everything from like just individuals, right? Soccer moms and soccer, dads

Steven Kotler:

and insurance brokers and you know, podcasters, and take your pick all the way to professional

Steven Kotler:

athletes, members, Special Forces, and then companies or with like Facebook or center

Steven Kotler:

audience, blah, blah. The point I'm trying to make is wildly diverse group of people. It's an intense

Steven Kotler:

training, you go through with it like a PhD psychologist, as a coach, we see us a 70 80%

Steven Kotler:

increase in flow on the back end. And the reason I'm telling you all this stuff is the reason you

Steven Kotler:

see so many doctors The reason the neurobiology matters so much as we want this liable and

Steven Kotler:

repeating over anyone, anywhere. That's the benefit of all the science. And we're also really

Steven Kotler:

big fans of the collective of what I like to call cognitive literacy. If you are interested in V

Steven Kotler:

performance, understand what's going on in your brain in your body, when you're actually

Steven Kotler:

performing at your best. You're just I'm just arming you with information, right? Like, it's

Steven Kotler:

really important to us. And you can actually, it's also fun to teach people neuroscience, because

Steven Kotler:

most people think neuroscience is an incredibly difficult thing that they're never going to be

Steven Kotler:

able to learn and it's scary and all that stuff. And so it's very empowering to people not only

Steven Kotler:

like when you start, you know, hey, this is how your brain works. And people start getting it

Steven Kotler:

using neuroscience, this thing that they didn't think they could learn to actually massively

Steven Kotler:

improve their performance on a day to day basis. It's a very sort of empowering to watch people go,

Steven Kotler:

Oh, my God, I can learn something like this. And I can use it. And I can, you know, impact by day to

Steven Kotler:

day life. It's cool. When I came into flow signs, my goal was to put it on a hard science footing.

Steven Kotler:

This is what I wanted to do with my life. Because I came in as a journalist, I didn't specialize

Steven Kotler:

when I first started looking at the puzzle. And people were having trouble solving. And I was

Steven Kotler:

like, that's because the answers are in all these different disciplines. And scientists don't talk

Steven Kotler:

to one another. They're like everybody else, they're balkanized in their disciplines, and

Steven Kotler:

people don't actually realize how like even neuroscience how balkanized it is into like tiny

Steven Kotler:

micro disciplines, and they don't talk to each other, they talk to journalists, who talk to

Steven Kotler:

everybody, or, you know, now in our approach, we take a very multidisciplinary approach to

Steven Kotler:

neuroscience for this very reason, because I want people from all these different disciplines, so

Steven Kotler:

people who don't think like me, people who have wildly outside perspectives, who can, you know,

Steven Kotler:

come hammer on my ideas, our ideas, and our research and all that stuff. So long answer.

Stephanie Maas:

You commented on something in there, I think is super true. You mentioned the

Stephanie Maas:

idea of this biology, neuroscience. You know, some people just have fears around it. I think a lot of

Stephanie Maas:

it's intimidation, you know, it just seems so foreign. It's almost like it's so language. So

Stephanie Maas:

specifically, when you talk about, hey, getting our biology to work for us, not against us, can

Stephanie Maas:

you put some legs under that table for me.

Steven Kotler:

Let me give you a bunch of really simple examples. So flow states have triggers,

Steven Kotler:

preconditions that lead in more flow, you will more flow in your life triggers or your toolkit,

Steven Kotler:

there are 26 known triggers, there are probably way more, that's just what we've discovered. So

Steven Kotler:

far, they all have one thing calm, flow can only show up when all of our attention is in the right

Steven Kotler:

here, the right now on the task at hand. That's what all the triggers do. They were a bunch of

Steven Kotler:

different ways neurobiologically, but they drive our attention into the now on to the task at hand.

Steven Kotler:

So this tells you that one of the first triggers the most obvious trigger is complete

Steven Kotler:

concentration. So when we train this, some of how we teach people about concentration is manicuring.

Steven Kotler:

The environment, part of our biology is that we have a salience detection system, when novelty

Steven Kotler:

shows up in the world, we notice it, right, this kept us alive. The problem is, we have cell phones

Steven Kotler:

that are literally designed to abuse this, right. They've been built, designed to resemble slot

Steven Kotler:

machines and how they try to get your attention. They use novelty to try to get your attention. We

Steven Kotler:

are not more powerful than this is hardwired biology, we're not going to win that fight. So we

Steven Kotler:

teach people to practice distraction management, turn everything off ahead of time, right? Manicure

Steven Kotler:

the space because you're not your biology is going to win, you're not going to win this war, you

Steven Kotler:

literally are not going to win this war. How long should you completely concentrate on the task at

Steven Kotler:

hand? There's another question, right? And there's an actual precise answer to this. You gotta start

Steven Kotler:

by starting right. If you can get 10 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, it's fine. And let me

Steven Kotler:

emphasize something here. When we talk about flow is peak performance. One of the things that goes

Steven Kotler:

through the roof is productivity. And we know this so McKinsey giant business consultancy went around

Steven Kotler:

the globe, they spent 10 years trying to figure out how much more productive executives are in

Steven Kotler:

flow than out of flow, on average was 500% more productive. So this means you get to work on

Steven Kotler:

Mondays, but Monday in a flow state to Tuesday through Friday off, you get as much done as your

Steven Kotler:

steady state peers two days a week in flow old days, which is difficult, but you're 1,000% more

Steven Kotler:

productive than the competition's huge boost in productivity, okay. So you will get time back for

Steven Kotler:

your life by I've manicuring a space for complete concentration. I'm asking you for time, we're all

Steven Kotler:

busy, right? Everybody is busy, you're gonna end up being so productive in this time that you'll

Steven Kotler:

end up with getting time back. But research shows that you want 90 minutes to 110 minutes for

Steven Kotler:

complete concentration. Why 90 To 110 minutes? Well, it turns out, as I said, you want to start

Steven Kotler:

by starting, you get 10, if you can get 20. But the brain has a built in focusing slot, that's

Steven Kotler:

nine out of 10 minutes long. Well, that's weird. No, it's not. Why because we know we go through

Steven Kotler:

sleep cycles, sleeping cycles, they're 90 to 110 minutes long, that's a REM cycle, that's a full

Steven Kotler:

sleep cycle, just like we have a sleep cycle, we have a focus wake alert cycle, it's the same line.

Steven Kotler:

So it turns out that as you train yourself to kind of focus and Biller, it's very easy to build up to

Steven Kotler:

this 19 or 20 minutes, you have to get longer, there's all kinds of stuff you have to kind of

Steven Kotler:

sort of do to extend beyond that. But to learn how to focus that long, it sort of built in. So these

Steven Kotler:

are just simple flow examples of getting our biology work for us, rather than against us.

Steven Kotler:

Another one is you want to start your work session, your complete concentration session. And

Steven Kotler:

of course, with your circadian rhythms. This is a no Duff for most people. But like, I wake up at

Steven Kotler:

four o'clock in the morning, that's when my brain does its best work. I'm married to a night owl,

Steven Kotler:

we're all a little bit different. And if you can, if your job permits it, you want to start your

Steven Kotler:

work session in accordance with your circadian rhythms, practicing distraction management on the

Steven Kotler:

front end, and with this 90 minute slot.

Stephanie Maas:

Fantastic examples and super relevant, which brings me to another thought. And

Stephanie Maas:

I think based on your tenure in this industry, it seems like please correct me if I'm wrong, it

Stephanie Maas:

seems like in the beginning, there was so much of this studied around especially athletes, you know,

Stephanie Maas:

really getting them to get to the next level. And then I would say over the last 30 years, maybe...

Steven Kotler:

It was athletes, and it was artists, and the fault lies with both myself and

Steven Kotler:

were probably the two great popularizers of flow ideas. And Mike checks me I started out as an

Steven Kotler:

studying rock climbers in his initial study group, and he dancers and artists. And so that got into

Steven Kotler:

the literature. And then I made it worse because I wrote it on about athletes and flow. And when we

Steven Kotler:

heard about it the most, it was also, like Jimmie Johnson in the 90s co opted chicks and the idea to

Steven Kotler:

bring the Dallas Cowboys a couple of Super Bowl victories and got a lot of attention. A couple

Steven Kotler:

other things happen in sports. So like, it got the attention. But you're absolutely right. In fact,

Steven Kotler:

if you go back to the early research on flow, early research, who gets the most flow? In the

Steven Kotler:

early research, there were two things that showed up. One most common flow state on Earth is reading

Steven Kotler:

period. So reading is the most conflict in earth. And let me give it let me take it a second one

Steven Kotler:

because this is even crazier. Is it going to the bathroom? No. Flow examples, these will say, like

Steven Kotler:

I meet people on you know about airports, they're like, oh, yeah, the executive director, the flow

Steven Kotler:

research collective, we're obviously an organization of plumbers. So okay, bad joke is

Steven Kotler:

side. Second most common flow said in this early research, I don't know if it's still true. So

Steven Kotler:

there's two versions of the flow, there's individual flow me and a flow state you and a flow

Steven Kotler:

state or this group flow, it's a shared collective virtual flow state could be interpersonal flow to

Steven Kotler:

people lost in a great conversation, group flow to flow fourth quarter comeback in basketball, or

Steven Kotler:

football, or a great rock concert band is totally comes together, or Communitas. This is flow, it

Steven Kotler:

scales huge when you go to a rock concert, and everybody merges with the music near all clapping

Steven Kotler:

and sank. And that's Communitas. Right? It's float scale. So the most common besides reading is

Steven Kotler:

interpersonal flow to middle managers in an office environment, have a conversation at work, they get

Steven Kotler:

so sucked into the conversation that a couple hours go by. So neither of those examples, as you

Steven Kotler:

can imagine, involve artists or athletes. And it was so hard until we got a language around into

Steven Kotler:

that all the neurobiology until all this stuff came up. You know, whose flow mystical experience

Steven Kotler:

was. I mean, that was the first question. I looked at it my very first book on flow. I was talking to

Steven Kotler:

surfers, and they kept saying yeah, every time I'm in a tube, I become one with the ocean. I just one

Steven Kotler:

with the ocean, which like, that just sounds like a wild ass Misool experience. And today we can

Steven Kotler:

talk about these things out loud. Go back to the 80s and 90s and try talking about like, among

Steven Kotler:

serious people, right? You're just gonna get laughed out of the room. But Dr. Andrew Newberg,

Steven Kotler:

my first mentor had just done the very first brain imaging to image Tibetan Buddhists and Franciscan

Steven Kotler:

nuns during ecstatic meditation when they felt the nones would feel one with Jesus and the Buddhists

Steven Kotler:

were one with the universe. And I called him because I saw his research I registration was

Steven Kotler:

like, dude, am I what we're seeing with the surfers in this like state that I think we're

Steven Kotler:

calling flow is that the same thing is going on? And he to his amazing credit, said, Well, I don't

Steven Kotler:

know, but it sure sounds similar. So let's find out together. And that was my sort of gateway. It

Steven Kotler:

wasn't just that I was curious about this and I was working on this stuff he was that one of the

Steven Kotler:

best neuroscientists in the world said, I don't know. But that's a good question. And I'll help

Steven Kotler:

you figure it out. And so that was sort of how all this started. But it was really in the beginning,

Steven Kotler:

it was really complicated to try to be looking at mystical experiences, are we looking at biological

Steven Kotler:

experiences, or the psychological of what's going on? Not all these were questions that were have

Steven Kotler:

been answered over the past 30 years, but 30 years ago, when I got started, we didn't have a clue. As

Steven Kotler:

to scientists, we spent the 90s. With a whole community of people, we had to prove that

Steven Kotler:

spiritual experiences were good for people before anybody would take this seriously. So there's all

Steven Kotler:

these studies that go back to the 90s that discovered religious affiliation produces health

Steven Kotler:

and longevity. And you know, now we know why and where that comes from, and everything else. But

Steven Kotler:

literally, like there's tons of studies where you had to in the 90s, you act before anybody size

Steven Kotler:

would take it seriously had to prove that like spirituality, mysticism, immune flow was good for

Steven Kotler:

people before you even take it seriously. So it's been a long, slow kind of process.

Stephanie Maas:

But I think what is so great, though, yes, but your process to it, and the way

Stephanie Maas:

you've done your research, legitimizes it. And I think that's where you get this buy in? I mean,

Stephanie Maas:

one, I think human curiosity, people start looking for it.

Steven Kotler:

It was also really important to me, you can't do peak performance without flow you

Steven Kotler:

cannot like, so if you're at the top of your field, I don't care what your field is, if your

Steven Kotler:

top 30%, for example, you're doing this stuff, like I've spent my career around the world with

Steven Kotler:

the most exceptional, extraordinary people who've done the impossible, right? That was my focus as a

Steven Kotler:

journalist, is those moments in time where impossible game possible? How did it happen? Flow

Steven Kotler:

is always part of the equation. So I bet all these people who have done the extraordinary, none of

Steven Kotler:

them, not any of them started out extraordinary. Scary. I like you and me. They're average people,

Steven Kotler:

what they figured out is how their biology work. And they did it over and over and over and over

Steven Kotler:

again. And across the boards across the boards. This is true with every everybody I've met. And I

Steven Kotler:

say that I went out of my way, for three and a half decades to meet the most extraordinary people

Steven Kotler:

on the planet. It was my job. And so I did it for a living for a really long time. Who are you? What

Steven Kotler:

did you do? How did you do it? I started to realize I was like, Well, wait a minute, these

Steven Kotler:

people are just like us. So I want I want flow, I want to bring it into the mainstream. I want

Steven Kotler:

everybody to have access to this. Because a world where we're all performing at our best. The other

Steven Kotler:

thing they said of this is when we're in flow state automatically expands empathy and

Steven Kotler:

environmental awareness. We could talk about why that happens if you want, but so do I really care

Steven Kotler:

if insurance broker number 99 are salesman or saleswoman number 237 is really better at their

Steven Kotler:

job? Not a ton. But do I really think the world is better place if they're more empathetic and wise

Steven Kotler:

and environmentally aware? Yes. So like, my trade is like, every wants flow, you can have it I want

Steven Kotler:

a more apathetic, environmentally aware, wise world. And so to me, like my desire to break into

Steven Kotler:

the mainstream is not about performance, it was more about but the mainstream also, I'm interested

Steven Kotler:

in what people can do, right? Like, these are just ordinary people who did extraordinary things in

Steven Kotler:

their life over and over and over, because they understood how flow work and how to get into this

Steven Kotler:

state, and how to utilize the properties, some of the other components of peak performance. So I'm

Steven Kotler:

always interested in that when I meet people, I'm always like, Okay, well, what's possible in your

Steven Kotler:

life? What could you what might you be able to do? So flow makes us 500% more productive, it doubles

Steven Kotler:

learning rates to soldiers in flow. This is studies done by the US Department of Defense,

Steven Kotler:

learn to enter 40 to 500% faster than normal creativity, we did some of this work that it's not

Steven Kotler:

Harvard University is Sydney, spikes 400 to 700%. Depending on how you're measuring that you've got

Steven Kotler:

to stop and ask yourself, like, what kind of impossible challenges aren't you going after? What

Steven Kotler:

would you go after, if you could be 500% more productive if you cut learning times and a half or

Steven Kotler:

600%, more creative? And innovative? Those are huge numbers. I think that that's those are real

Steven Kotler:

questions. So just scientifically accurate questions that we add. That's what the science,

Steven Kotler:

performance is possible for all of us. So those are the questions that you have to sort of start

Steven Kotler:

to ask yourself that I'm real to you or to me, it's really exciting and fun. And when I said when

Steven Kotler:

I said I wanted to smuggle this stuff into the mainstream, I want empathy. I want environmental

Steven Kotler:

awareness. I want wisdom, but I also want to see what everybody can do with this stuff. I mean,

Steven Kotler:

really tired of meeting people who are dead before they're dead, really bugs me. I always tell people

Steven Kotler:

like look, aging is sort of a fact of life old is a mindset and for biologic reasons that mindset

Steven Kotler:

sets up in October. Want ease, and it has a massive impact on performance and our ability to

Steven Kotler:

access flow on all this stuff. And so anything that I can do to explode those ideas and make us

Steven Kotler:

make people understand how much more they're actually capable of, to me, that's good. That's

Steven Kotler:

fun. I like that.

Stephanie Maas:

Yeah. Do you mind I want to give you my dad's phone number, would you give him a

Stephanie Maas:

call and talk to him about this age as a mindset, guess what he's getting for Christmas, your book?

Stephanie Maas:

I just want to comment on one thing, and there's something I think that is so human to what you

Stephanie Maas:

just said, because I heard in the beginning some of your journey of how and why and this and that,

Stephanie Maas:

but it's such an incredibly lovely side to you. Yes, you do want to see what people are capable

Stephanie Maas:

of. But I want to see more empathy and environmental awareness to me. And I think to a

Stephanie Maas:

lot of us, that's your why then that's lovely.

Steven Kotler:

Well, that's I animals have always been my wife, my wife and I run a dog sanctuary to

Steven Kotler:

hospice care for dogs now for 20 years.

Stephanie Maas:

But you obviously care about humans, too. Yeah. I'm pretty introverted. And I'm

Stephanie Maas:

like, I did you make a living off trying to make people better?

Steven Kotler:

No, and I do I do. I, I don't like people as much as people think. All right. I don't

Steven Kotler:

I don't I like animals much more than I like people I'm really open about that. I find it very

Steven Kotler:

difficult to convince people that like, ecosystems are more important than their needs, which is a

Steven Kotler:

lot of the job. But if I can get you into flow, the states sort of start to do that automatically.

Steven Kotler:

That's easier. This sales job or out environmental awareness is too hard. It's too big of a lift,

Steven Kotler:

I've been tried for 40 years, you should end up shouting at the rain. So I've sticky This is the

Steven Kotler:

backdoor.

Stephanie Maas:

But that's great. By making people better. You get your end goal

Steven Kotler:

By making people better, they become better, right? Like, you want peak

Steven Kotler:

performance. That's cool. I want to see what you do with the peak performance. Because if I'm just

Steven Kotler:

training you up in flows, you can like sell more widgets in your you know, widget sale light, like,

Steven Kotler:

okay, really, I mean, like, I'm interested in like, not blow my frickin mind when I started

Steven Kotler:

this. The other thing that's really important here, Stephanie. So when I started out my career,

Steven Kotler:

I was interested in neuroscience, I was interested in peak performance, I started an action sports,

Steven Kotler:

right. And I was living in these communities. And this was during the 90s, the 90s, and action

Steven Kotler:

sports and surfing, skiing, rock climbing, snowboarding, all of it, it's talked about as like

Steven Kotler:

the era of possible more impossible feats got accomplished stuff that never been done before. We

Steven Kotler:

didn't think it was ever gonna be done than ever before. But I was in these communities. I was

Steven Kotler:

seeing it firsthand, talking to them, flow was always in the mix of like how they did it, right.

Steven Kotler:

But he was these people. So if you know anything at all about peak performance, or how do you raise

Steven Kotler:

a good kid, right, forget the right what matters. Well, Mom matters, nature inviter good

Steven Kotler:

environment, the right schools, the right blood, all that stuff matters. And yet everybody I knew

Steven Kotler:

these acts were athletes like that in the communities I was in. They came from broken homes,

Steven Kotler:

they had bad childhoods, they have very little money, it very little education, there's a lot of

Steven Kotler:

risk taking these communities, there's much substance abuse. And normally you put those things

Steven Kotler:

together in a community, people die young go to jail, they do not reinvent what's possible for the

Steven Kotler:

human species. And that's what I was seeing a fraud an in person all the time. So when I say

Steven Kotler:

that anybody can use flow to do the extraordinary. I'm not like talking about I'm talking about the

Steven Kotler:

people who started so far. You know what I mean? before they ever you hear a lot about people

Steven Kotler:

talking about how people started second base with third base, these people were starting so far

Steven Kotler:

beyond what before hopefully, it was a miracle that they even got an app that and yet it was

Steven Kotler:

these people who reinvented what was possible for our species. And that was what really caught me.

Steven Kotler:

In fact, actually, what I've discovered over time is, you know, who has a really tough time with

Steven Kotler:

peak performance. It's not people who are really, really poor people who don't have a lot of

Steven Kotler:

education or people who you know, all that stuff. It's folks who had a really easy time in high

Steven Kotler:

school. If you were really popular if you were naturally smart, or naturally athletic and

Steven Kotler:

naturally, really pretty in high school was really easy for you. And you didn't actually have to

Steven Kotler:

learn how to be ready. And like all how to regulate your emotions and do all that stuff.

Steven Kotler:

Those are the people that are very hard to train in peak performance. Actually, it turns out that

Steven Kotler:

the more you got your ass kicked earlier on, it's almost it works for you later in life a lot.

Stephanie Maas:

Okay, now I'm gonna have to have you talk to my high school senior. We literally

Stephanie Maas:

were just having the conversation yesterday. That Don't worry, high school sucks. It sucks for most

Stephanie Maas:

people. It's okay. It gets better than this life gets better.

Steven Kotler:

One other thing I wanted to tell you since you have a high school senior because

Steven Kotler:

this is something nobody tells kids nobody tells anybody. It's so important. So flow states have

Steven Kotler:

cycles. They're not a binary it's not in the zone out of zones, a four stage cycle and you got to

Steven Kotler:

move all the way through all four stages to get back into flow. You can't live in a flow state

Steven Kotler:

there's no permanent always on flow state because the cycle, the front end Have a flow state is

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called struggle. It is a loading phase, you are learning you are loading and overloading the brain

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with information. And here's a couple things that we don't tell our children that are really

Steven Kotler:

important one, when you're in this struggle phase and this loading phase, frustration is literally

Steven Kotler:

built into how it works. You will get frustrated by design, you're going to we have working memory

Steven Kotler:

it holds about four cusps wants to struggle properly, you have to overload it, you're

Steven Kotler:

literally going to be frustrated. And most people and most kids are taught that frustration is a

Steven Kotler:

sign that you're doing something wrong. Stop. This is failure. This is an in peak performance

Steven Kotler:

actually signing, moving in the right direction, you're exactly where you need to be, doesn't feel

Steven Kotler:

any better. But literally, this is how it's supposed to feel. And we don't teach that to kids.

Steven Kotler:

And so they get these bad feelings that they think that doing something wrong and being kids. They're

Steven Kotler:

self conscious, they're like it starts right it does all that other stuff, right? So you end up

Steven Kotler:

with this spiral off of this negative feeling. And that negative feeling is actually a positive

Steven Kotler:

feeling. It's a sign that you're moving in the right direction, because it helps us reframe

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frustration. And it turns out, the more we struggle, the more frustrated we are, the better

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chance we actually have of solving the problem in the end and learning the thing we're trying to

Steven Kotler:

learn the more frustrated, the better. I've what I like to tell people is like take it to the point

Steven Kotler:

that your head's about to explode in them walk away and just know that that feeling of my head's

Steven Kotler:

gonna explode. I feel like a failure and it's actually a sign that you're doing exactly what you

Steven Kotler:

want to do.

Stephanie Maas:

Okay, I know you really are trying too hard to fight this. You're pretty much a humanitarian

Steven Kotler:

Shut up.

Stephanie Maas:

Did you just tell me to shut up?

Steven Kotler:

I said out loud.