Here's why you should never trust somebody whose entire brand is about manifestation. I'm
Speaker:So many coaches at the moment are pitching that they have
Speaker:all the answers and that they've been through all of this and that they've
Speaker:When a woman is in a position where you have your goals, you
Speaker:have your aspirations, you have your dreams, so forth and so on, you are
Speaker:Eh, I'm on the fence here. Welcome to Krystal Rowe Impacts, a
Speaker:space dedicated to empowering you to be the change that
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Speaker:inspire change. Today I'm going to be reviewing
Speaker:some videos that the podcast team have put together and
Speaker:I'm going to be giving you my take on these. Some
Speaker:of them could be great and some of them could be rubbish. So we'll
Speaker:Show me an alpha man that is in his true alpha,
Speaker:not in his wounded masculine, but his full on masculine and
Speaker:watch me become a sweet, soft little girl. Right. I
Speaker:need a man that is fully in his energy, masculine
Speaker:energy, and when a man gives that woman that feeling, that
Speaker:safety, that energy, that love, you can
Speaker:feel it. Then a woman deassembles her
Speaker:masculine energy and she falls into her feminine and she becomes a child with
Speaker:I actually love the feeling of being in my
Speaker:soft feminine when my
Speaker:husband is in his masculine. It's the one thing that attracted me
Speaker:to him the most. Despite what society says, I absolutely love
Speaker:this because the alpha male's dominating and
Speaker:If you or someone you love has ever experienced trauma, I'm a psychologist
Speaker:and I want you to imagine for a moment you have this wound and
Speaker:the pain is unbearable. So the most natural response is
Speaker:to keep it covered. Keep it covered. Hide
Speaker:it away. But inevitably, people brush past that wound and
Speaker:they have no idea the pain that it causes. I'm feeling
Speaker:what she's saying. All they see are these intense emotional
Speaker:responses. And to them, it just seems like an overreaction. And
Speaker:so to try and fit in and feel normal, you
Speaker:numb it. maybe with drugs, alcohol, staying
Speaker:busy. And that works for now, but it
Speaker:doesn't let the wound heal. Part of healing is to recognize how
Speaker:that sensitivity and the intense emotions that come
Speaker:with it are not a fault in your personality, they're a
Speaker:reaction to that past trauma. And healing happens best
Speaker:when we're safe to open things up and take a look at
Speaker:I love that, actually. She gave a
Speaker:really good visual explanation
Speaker:on that. For so long, I used to cover up my
Speaker:wounds as well. And I was getting so hurt all
Speaker:the time by everybody brushing past me. And now it's kind of
Speaker:I'm talking psychics, healers, and coaches. If you attracted $1,000 once,
Speaker:but it never happened again, or you spent it all really fast, you didn't manifest it,
Speaker:you just got lucky. They come to me all the time asking for a job, and my question
Speaker:is, why are you trying to teach something that you have not yet mastered or embodied?
Speaker:True manifestation is like true abundance or wealth. It should have staying power.
Speaker:It should stick. Also, saying that people should pay you because you can teach them how to manifest
Speaker:is like circular reasoning. It's like chicken or the egg situation. And I understand
Speaker:that in this space, it's really sexy to talk about manifesting money or wealth,
Speaker:and I'd be lying to you if I told you I've never done that. Yes, I have. But I've also always
Speaker:been transparent that you first have to focus on your strengths and weaknesses and
Speaker:your skills and the value that you bring to the table. There is a price to everything. And
Speaker:the issue with the manifestation people is that they act like there is no price. There's
Speaker:definitely a price. The price is that maybe you don't go out on Friday nights or
Speaker:you just stop digging around with losers. If you want more transparent tips like
Speaker:It is true. Manifesting wealth is so popular
Speaker:at the moment, but you have to really do your research and make sure
Speaker:that the person you're going to listen to is actually living
Speaker:a life that you would want to live too. So many coaches at
Speaker:the moment are pitching that they have all
Speaker:the answers and that they've been through all of this and that
Speaker:they've done this and you can overcome this, but then they're 20. Or
Speaker:like, they're giving you parenting advice and they don't have kids. Or
Speaker:they're giving you relationship advice and they haven't got a relationship, they're
Speaker:not married. They're not projecting what
Speaker:they're actually preaching. So you need to really be mindful and follow up
Speaker:and really, truly see if the person that you're listening to is living
Speaker:If you want to change your life, then you have to change your identity. Think
Speaker:of it this way. Your current identity and the way you are
Speaker:now has got you to where you currently are. But if you
Speaker:want to experience something new, then that version of you is
Speaker:And you're going to use that as a blueprint for what beliefs you need
Speaker:to adopt and what actions you're going to take. Once you take
Speaker:on the mindset of the person you want to become, things are
Speaker:going to start changing. Because remember, if you want to change, then
Speaker:I love what she's saying because it's 100% true.
Speaker:You have to like visualize into the future. She's
Speaker:on point. She's just really specific and it's actually true
Speaker:information. So when she's saying like how, like
Speaker:changing your life, it's not just saying, oh yeah, I want
Speaker:to do that. You have to specifically actually take action.
Speaker:And she's got some really good points. Let's check out the last one for
Speaker:this episode. Masculine energy looks like this. Oh, masculine
Speaker:Like, I'm going, I am thinking, I am
Speaker:providing, I am determined, I am planning, I
Speaker:I do like what he's saying. But
Speaker:the energy that he's giving off is kind of dominating
Speaker:vibes. So I don't know if that's really masculine or
Speaker:Now, I want you to pay close attention to because so many women
Speaker:So true. We do live in a society where we have to
Speaker:be these things, where we're forced into situations, especially
Speaker:single mums, we're forced into our
Speaker:masculine energy because of the circumstance and the situation that
Speaker:When a woman is in a position where you have your goals, you
Speaker:have your aspirations, you have your dreams, so forth and so on, there is
Speaker:absolutely nothing wrong with that. As a matter of fact, I think that's very sexy. But
Speaker:you cannot lose sight of why you're
Speaker:doing it. If you're doing it to build an empire, you
Speaker:So I don't 100% agree with building an empire and
Speaker:having to be in your masculine energy, because there is
Speaker:a certain element to feminine energy that
Speaker:can actually grow and nurture. So when we're trying to
Speaker:grow a business and empire, you do have to nurture it.
Speaker:So feminine energy is about nurturing. I'm
Speaker:on the fence here. Thanks for watching, guys. It was something different.
Speaker:It was really interesting and quite new. But
Speaker:I encourage you, if you want me to review any of the videos online,
Speaker:just send them through in the chat and comment below. And I