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Here's why you should never trust somebody whose entire brand is about manifestation. I'm

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So many coaches at the moment are pitching that they have

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all the answers and that they've been through all of this and that they've

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When a woman is in a position where you have your goals, you

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have your aspirations, you have your dreams, so forth and so on, you are

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Eh, I'm on the fence here. Welcome to Krystal Rowe Impacts, a

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space dedicated to empowering you to be the change that

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your bloodline has been waiting for. Join me and together, let's

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inspire change. Today I'm going to be reviewing

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some videos that the podcast team have put together and

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I'm going to be giving you my take on these. Some

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of them could be great and some of them could be rubbish. So we'll

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Show me an alpha man that is in his true alpha,

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not in his wounded masculine, but his full on masculine and

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watch me become a sweet, soft little girl. Right. I

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need a man that is fully in his energy, masculine

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energy, and when a man gives that woman that feeling, that

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safety, that energy, that love, you can

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feel it. Then a woman deassembles her

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masculine energy and she falls into her feminine and she becomes a child with

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I actually love the feeling of being in my

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soft feminine when my

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husband is in his masculine. It's the one thing that attracted me

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to him the most. Despite what society says, I absolutely love

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this because the alpha male's dominating and

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If you or someone you love has ever experienced trauma, I'm a psychologist

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and I want you to imagine for a moment you have this wound and

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the pain is unbearable. So the most natural response is

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to keep it covered. Keep it covered. Hide

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it away. But inevitably, people brush past that wound and

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they have no idea the pain that it causes. I'm feeling

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what she's saying. All they see are these intense emotional

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responses. And to them, it just seems like an overreaction. And

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so to try and fit in and feel normal, you

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numb it. maybe with drugs, alcohol, staying

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busy. And that works for now, but it

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doesn't let the wound heal. Part of healing is to recognize how

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that sensitivity and the intense emotions that come

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with it are not a fault in your personality, they're a

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reaction to that past trauma. And healing happens best

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when we're safe to open things up and take a look at

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I love that, actually. She gave a

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really good visual explanation

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on that. For so long, I used to cover up my

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wounds as well. And I was getting so hurt all

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the time by everybody brushing past me. And now it's kind of

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I'm talking psychics, healers, and coaches. If you attracted $1,000 once,

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but it never happened again, or you spent it all really fast, you didn't manifest it,

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you just got lucky. They come to me all the time asking for a job, and my question

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is, why are you trying to teach something that you have not yet mastered or embodied?

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True manifestation is like true abundance or wealth. It should have staying power.

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It should stick. Also, saying that people should pay you because you can teach them how to manifest

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is like circular reasoning. It's like chicken or the egg situation. And I understand

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that in this space, it's really sexy to talk about manifesting money or wealth,

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and I'd be lying to you if I told you I've never done that. Yes, I have. But I've also always

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been transparent that you first have to focus on your strengths and weaknesses and

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your skills and the value that you bring to the table. There is a price to everything. And

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the issue with the manifestation people is that they act like there is no price. There's

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definitely a price. The price is that maybe you don't go out on Friday nights or

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you just stop digging around with losers. If you want more transparent tips like

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It is true. Manifesting wealth is so popular

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at the moment, but you have to really do your research and make sure

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that the person you're going to listen to is actually living

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a life that you would want to live too. So many coaches at

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the moment are pitching that they have all

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the answers and that they've been through all of this and that

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they've done this and you can overcome this, but then they're 20. Or

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like, they're giving you parenting advice and they don't have kids. Or

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they're giving you relationship advice and they haven't got a relationship, they're

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not married. They're not projecting what

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they're actually preaching. So you need to really be mindful and follow up

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and really, truly see if the person that you're listening to is living

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If you want to change your life, then you have to change your identity. Think

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of it this way. Your current identity and the way you are

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now has got you to where you currently are. But if you

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want to experience something new, then that version of you is

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And you're going to use that as a blueprint for what beliefs you need

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to adopt and what actions you're going to take. Once you take

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on the mindset of the person you want to become, things are

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going to start changing. Because remember, if you want to change, then

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I love what she's saying because it's 100% true.

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You have to like visualize into the future. She's

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on point. She's just really specific and it's actually true

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information. So when she's saying like how, like

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changing your life, it's not just saying, oh yeah, I want

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to do that. You have to specifically actually take action.

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And she's got some really good points. Let's check out the last one for

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this episode. Masculine energy looks like this. Oh, masculine

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Like, I'm going, I am thinking, I am

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providing, I am determined, I am planning, I

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I do like what he's saying. But

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the energy that he's giving off is kind of dominating

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vibes. So I don't know if that's really masculine or

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Now, I want you to pay close attention to because so many women

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So true. We do live in a society where we have to

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be these things, where we're forced into situations, especially

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single mums, we're forced into our

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masculine energy because of the circumstance and the situation that

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When a woman is in a position where you have your goals, you

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have your aspirations, you have your dreams, so forth and so on, there is

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absolutely nothing wrong with that. As a matter of fact, I think that's very sexy. But

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you cannot lose sight of why you're

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doing it. If you're doing it to build an empire, you

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So I don't 100% agree with building an empire and

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having to be in your masculine energy, because there is

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a certain element to feminine energy that

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can actually grow and nurture. So when we're trying to

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grow a business and empire, you do have to nurture it.

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So feminine energy is about nurturing. I'm

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on the fence here. Thanks for watching, guys. It was something different.

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It was really interesting and quite new. But

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I encourage you, if you want me to review any of the videos online,

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just send them through in the chat and comment below. And I