Hey everybody, welcome back.
Speaker:This is week 40 of Creative.
Speaker:Come follow me for the New Testament.
Speaker:And this week we are in the book of Ephesians.
Speaker:So we're going to cover those six chapters.
Speaker:I should warn you up front that there's a lot of debate among scholars about who
Speaker:wrote this book and who it was written to.
Speaker:I think it's clear that these are Paul's.
Speaker:It's intense and his thoughts.
Speaker:There's just some question about if a certain scribe wrote it down because
Speaker:there's different vocabulary sentences are a little different in Ephesians,
Speaker:but I think the heart is the same.
Speaker:I think these are Paul's goals and hopes for this group of people,
Speaker:whether it's just those saints in Ephesus or to a broader group.
Speaker:It's a little unclear, but I think it has a lot of application that
Speaker:stretches all the way to our day.
Speaker:Paul sees these people are on this.
Speaker:Brink, you know this precipice of apostasy that is coming their way
Speaker:and I think what he's trying to do is Strengthen them for what is coming.
Speaker:It felt a lot to me like the Book of Mormon when wars are coming
Speaker:you know how you get that stance of like We're going to be rooted.
Speaker:We're going to be grounded.
Speaker:We're going to be armored up and ready for The onslaught that's coming, you
Speaker:know Most of the time it's the nephites awaiting the lamanites who are coming
Speaker:into their town and they they're preparing themselves as much as possible
Speaker:That's how the ephesians feel to me.
Speaker:I think it's this preparation for hard times that are coming.
Speaker:What I particularly like is Paul's approach to how to prepare them.
Speaker:When you look in the Book of Mormon, you can see things like building
Speaker:fortresses and, you know, teaching the gospel and all these, you
Speaker:know, cool ways to fortify a city.
Speaker:But in Paul's situation, he's going to teach them To me, it
Speaker:sounds like temple language.
Speaker:There's a lot of parts in this week's study that felt like
Speaker:temple words or temple themes.
Speaker:You know, he's trying to help them remember who they are, especially
Speaker:to remember who they are in this grand, beautiful plan of God.
Speaker:They, he also wants them to strengthen themselves from within and from without.
Speaker:So he'll focus a lot on your own choices, your own discipleship, the repentance
Speaker:process in this small daily effort.
Speaker:He focuses in a slightly bigger level on families and how to strengthen each other
Speaker:in families and households and then in an even bigger way to strengthen from without
Speaker:as we put on the whole armor of God.
Speaker:What it does for us individually and what it can do for us as a people as we all
Speaker:armor up and prepare for what's coming.
Speaker:So it's got, it's got tendrils I feel like that slide all the way into our day and
Speaker:I think it's really valuable guidance.
Speaker:So grab your scriptures, grab your notes.
Speaker:It's time to get started.
Speaker:You get a lot of that temple feel in chapter one because I think
Speaker:he's trying to remind the Ephesian saints Who they are especially in
Speaker:this grand scheme of things first.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:He calls them saints We've seen paul use that term a few times But I found a quote
Speaker:this week from president nelson that I loved that saint isn't something that's
Speaker:you know Like a perfect person that does everything beautifully a saint is someone
Speaker:who is a an avid believer in Jesus Christ.
Speaker:Somebody who believes in his redeeming power and is is in this, you know,
Speaker:I think that's what a saint is.
Speaker:Someone who's grateful, someone who serves, that's who he's addressing.
Speaker:He's going to remind them who they are.
Speaker:So if you look in four, he says, according as he hath chosen us in him before the
Speaker:foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love.
Speaker:That to me is how you feel when you go to the temple, especially
Speaker:as you do an endowment session.
Speaker:I feel like that's the reminder.
Speaker:There is a great plan here and he knew you before this world ever came to be.
Speaker:He knows who you are and he intends to get you home.
Speaker:To me, that's the message of the temple and it's the message of Paul.
Speaker:He's going to talk about predestination.
Speaker:At least that's how it's phrased in the verses.
Speaker:But you'll notice in the chapter heading that they actually change
Speaker:it to foreordination because in our vernacular and the way we teach
Speaker:this, there's no predestination.
Speaker:Predestination assumes that there is no agency and that God has decided before
Speaker:you ever got here where you're going to end up and how your life is going to go.
Speaker:And that's not what we teach.
Speaker:What we teach is foreordination.
Speaker:What I liked this week that I studied, and you can find a lot of this in
Speaker:the notes, is I liked the concept of being foreordained to glory.
Speaker:Again, that's what the temple teaches, right?
Speaker:That each and every one of us is foreordained to become something glorious.
Speaker:That we all have been, we all have the potential and we have the tools
Speaker:at our disposal to become like him.
Speaker:We're all foreordained to a beautiful future.
Speaker:And that I love because oftentimes we talk about foreordination as just, you
Speaker:know, towards specific callings and roles.
Speaker:And that's a smaller fraction of the people.
Speaker:And I think all of us are foreordained to have all that the father hath
Speaker:and it doesn't get bigger than that.
Speaker:So I kind of, I kind of loved studying that this week.
Speaker:I also loved, there was a visual that Elder Maxwell cited that.
Speaker:Really helped me understand forwardination.
Speaker:So he was talking about how when the Savior was on the earth and he talked
Speaker:about casting your net on the right side of the ship, he said somehow he knew in
Speaker:that moment what fish would be there and that they would indeed swim into the net.
Speaker:If that's the case, then it shouldn't shake us too much that he knows The
Speaker:past, the present and the future simultaneously, I, we can go in the
Speaker:notes and read his full talk, but he's like, we get, um, kind of psyched out
Speaker:by this idea because we worry about our agency, but I just feel like it tells
Speaker:you something about the mind of God.
Speaker:Basically, what elder Maxwell said is as soon as you can settle it in
Speaker:your heart, that he is someone who has the past, the present and the
Speaker:future before him all at once, we don't understand how he can do that.
Speaker:In fact, even elder Maxwell doesn't understand how that works, but he
Speaker:said, if you can trust that he.
Speaker:can do that, then your heart can be settled about these
Speaker:concepts of fordination.
Speaker:In fact, I think your heart can be hopeful because the God who knows you
Speaker:yesterday and today also knows the forever you and he has profound hope for you.
Speaker:So I think there's beauty in that message.
Speaker:When you look at eight, he adds to it.
Speaker:He says, wherein he hath abounded toward us in all wisdom and prudence.
Speaker:And then in nine, having made known unto us the mystery of his will
Speaker:according to his good pleasure, which he hath purposed in himself.
Speaker:This, to me, is a marvelous work and a wonder, right?
Speaker:Paul's going to mention a few times these mysteries.
Speaker:This, again, to me, has a temple feel to it.
Speaker:Not because the temple is mysterious, but the temple is a place where
Speaker:you go to learn by revelation.
Speaker:Remember, it's a house of learning.
Speaker:That's what a mystery means.
Speaker:It means something that can be learned through revelation.
Speaker:And Paul's gonna weave in a few of these in this week's chapter.
Speaker:He's going to talk about the Jews and the Gentiles being intended
Speaker:to grow up together in faith.
Speaker:He's going to talk about the mystery of the restoration
Speaker:and all things coming in one.
Speaker:And that's what you see in this first chapter.
Speaker:This mystery of his will, that all things will come together.
Speaker:In 10, that's kind of the power punch verse.
Speaker:He says that in the dispensation of the fullness of times, that he might
Speaker:gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven
Speaker:and which are in earth, even in him.
Speaker:This is that incredible promise.
Speaker:that there will be a coming together of all the parts of his gospel,
Speaker:a restoration of all things.
Speaker:That's our time, you guys.
Speaker:There's this beautiful talk from B.
Speaker:H.
Speaker:Roberts.
Speaker:It's in the notes this week, but he basically talked about how you can
Speaker:picture this like streams that have been flowing into one great river.
Speaker:You know, they come from all different locations and different
Speaker:mountaintops, and they some have them.
Speaker:much longer path, some almost slow to a trickle at times.
Speaker:When you look at the history of the world, I think you can feel this.
Speaker:You know, you can see how all this goodness is flowing
Speaker:into one central location.
Speaker:And when it all flows together, it becomes this mighty force for good.
Speaker:That's the era that we were chosen to live in, that we were foreordained to come to.
Speaker:I just think it's.
Speaker:Motivating to see that this is something that Paul looked
Speaker:forward to and it's, it's our day.
Speaker:Then he tries to remind the saints of the tools they have at their disposal.
Speaker:So if you look in 13, he talks about the Holy Spirit.
Speaker:He says, In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth,
Speaker:the gospel of your salvation, in whom also after ye believed, ye were sealed
Speaker:with the Holy Spirit of promise.
Speaker:Now there's different ways to read that verse.
Speaker:The Holy Spirit promises that ratifying power of the Holy Ghost,
Speaker:the ability to seal ordinances, but I also think he's just trying to help
Speaker:them remember how they felt as they came in and made covenants with God.
Speaker:That they felt...
Speaker:Potential, you know, they felt cared for and necessary and that the Holy
Speaker:Ghost gave them those inclinations and they need to rest on those as they
Speaker:move forward on this covenant path.
Speaker:I also love what you see in 17 and 18, it says that the God of our Lord
Speaker:Jesus Christ, the father of glory may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and
Speaker:revelation in the knowledge of him, that the eyes of your understanding being
Speaker:enlightened, that you may know what is the hope of his calling and what the
Speaker:riches of the glory of his inheritance.
Speaker:is in the saints.
Speaker:This is Paul's prayer.
Speaker:If you look at the verses you can see he's praying for the
Speaker:saints and this is his big hope.
Speaker:What I really like about it is He's, his big prayer for them is that
Speaker:they will know for themselves, that they will be enlightened themselves.
Speaker:I think it's the same prayer that every parent has for their kids, that every
Speaker:teacher has for those who are under their watch care, that they, that these
Speaker:students who come to class or your kids who come with you to scripture study,
Speaker:that they will somehow receive their own understanding, that they'll stop pulling
Speaker:on yours and start to trust in their own Abilities to receive revelation.
Speaker:That's Paul's invitation.
Speaker:And then he promises Potential in 19 and what is the exceedingly
Speaker:exceeding greatness of his power to us word who believe According to the
Speaker:working of his mighty power to me.
Speaker:This is Paul's promise that God's eyes are looking us Ford
Speaker:I just kind of love that phrase.
Speaker:It's not something I would ever use It's in my speech, but I love the
Speaker:the implication is that he is, we are His work and His glory of all the
Speaker:incredible things that God has created and set in motion and is in control
Speaker:of in this mighty vast universe.
Speaker:His work and His glory is us.
Speaker:His focus is us word and he's given us all the tools we need to.
Speaker:accomplish all.
Speaker:In fact, when you go down, he speaks a little bit more of
Speaker:the Savior's redeeming role.
Speaker:And then I love how he kind of caps it off in 23, which is his body, the
Speaker:fullness of him that filleth all in all.
Speaker:The Savior has this fullness.
Speaker:that he offers to each of us.
Speaker:And remember, I've told you many times that I really love that Elder Maxwell
Speaker:quote where he talks about that the cavity that suffering carves into our heart
Speaker:will one day be this receptacle of joy.
Speaker:I love the visual of the Savior being the one who dispenses that joy.
Speaker:All of us have these.
Speaker:You know, craters in us, these carved out places where we've hurt
Speaker:or we've lost or we've sorrowed.
Speaker:And He will come and fill all of those cavities with joy.
Speaker:He has a fullness and He intends to give that fullness to each and every one of us.
Speaker:There will be, He will take rough places and He will make them smooth.
Speaker:He will take ashes and bring beauty from them.
Speaker:That's the message of the Savior and that's the message of Paul.
Speaker:One of the things that I love about the temple experience is that I feel like
Speaker:you get an understanding of The glory of God and the adversary, not his glory, but
Speaker:his smallness, his, his restrictedness.
Speaker:I just feel like that's part of what you learn in a temple experience.
Speaker:And I think that's what Paul's trying to teach here too.
Speaker:I think essentially when you go to the temple, you each get a chance to.
Speaker:have an experience similar to Moses in a fraction of a way.
Speaker:But I think remember when we talked about how Moses in the Pearl of
Speaker:Great Price encounters God and gets a view of who he is to God and how
Speaker:vast God's plan is and how Moses gets to play a critical role in it.
Speaker:And then he encounters the adversary and he's even though the adversary
Speaker:is full of pomp and he's loud and he's intimidating on the surface,
Speaker:Moses can see really clearly.
Speaker:I don't need to be afraid of you.
Speaker:In fact, I don't, I'm not going to obey you.
Speaker:I'm certainly not going to worship you.
Speaker:Like it's a, it's a very clear distinction that I feel like
Speaker:is what we get in the temple.
Speaker:Cause you get an understanding that the adversary is real.
Speaker:He is somebody we need to understand to some degree so that we can
Speaker:posture ourselves against him.
Speaker:But I don't think we have to worry too much about him.
Speaker:I don't think we have to fixate on him.
Speaker:I think we have to realize how small he is compared to the goodness and glory of God.
Speaker:That's sort of what Paul teaches in these first few verses, because
Speaker:he uses this interesting term.
Speaker:So in two, he says, we're in times past.
Speaker:He walked according to the course of this world's meaning.
Speaker:Like you used to, you used to be different men, your, your new creatures.
Speaker:Now you used to be different according to the Prince of the power of the
Speaker:air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience.
Speaker:That's his title for The Adversary, and I just love it.
Speaker:He's the prince of the power of the air.
Speaker:It's like, it's, you know, that paper mache looks big on the
Speaker:outside and has nothing within.
Speaker:There is no power there.
Speaker:The reason I especially like it in this chapter is because he now he gives us
Speaker:the counterpoint which is to remind us the glory of God and he does it in
Speaker:this beautiful way so if you look in four he says but God who is rich in
Speaker:mercy for his great love wherewith he loved us that's the contrast me where
Speaker:Satan is hollow and this prince of the air God the Father is It's rich.
Speaker:And not just rich meaning dense and full and powerful, but rich in
Speaker:mercy, rich in love for his children.
Speaker:It is deep and pure and everlasting.
Speaker:Those are descriptors that fit with our Father in heaven
Speaker:and the Savior Jesus Christ.
Speaker:And I think Paul's trying to show that contrast.
Speaker:So he's helping us understand the adversary is real and he's a force
Speaker:to be reckoned with to some degree.
Speaker:But here's who you have on your side.
Speaker:Someone who is rich in mercy.
Speaker:I just think the contrast of his language is powerful.
Speaker:If you look in 5, he talks about what, what this advocate
Speaker:on our side can do for us.
Speaker:Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ.
Speaker:By grace, ye are saved, and hath raised us up together, and made us sit together
Speaker:in heavenly places in Christ Jesus.
Speaker:This is, I think, Paul's emphasis on the value of the Gentiles.
Speaker:Remember, Paul is someone who came to preach to the Gentiles.
Speaker:And most people think, at least the scholars I read, think that his audience
Speaker:in this case is not so much people who were Jews who have converted to
Speaker:Christianity, but people who were Gentiles who have converted to Christianity.
Speaker:And I think what he's saying is, God is our center point.
Speaker:He's what brought us all together.
Speaker:Me as a sinner, you know, remember, Paul is somebody who worked against
Speaker:Christianity and fought against, when he was Saul, fought against good.
Speaker:So he, as a sinner, is coming to the table.
Speaker:And those who are Gentiles who had no knowledge of the truth and were
Speaker:worshiping pagan gods or were way off course, they get to come to the table.
Speaker:And he's saying like, he brings us all together.
Speaker:In fact, this center point for all people is a belief in Jesus Christ, because every
Speaker:single one of us, no matter who we are or what our past is or how we were raised,
Speaker:we all need the grace of the Savior.
Speaker:So that's where he's going to go next.
Speaker:It just can get a little bit confusing in this next block of
Speaker:verses because it talks a lot about grace and that we are saved by grace.
Speaker:You just want to make sure you give this its full, full context because I think
Speaker:the Savior himself taught about grace.
Speaker:We believe, like we've talked about the last few weeks, that absolutely the
Speaker:source of all salvation is Jesus Christ.
Speaker:It is not our works.
Speaker:It is not our, the laws of Moses.
Speaker:It is, it is through the Savior that we have access to grace and to salvation.
Speaker:But the Savior himself taught about works.
Speaker:He taught about being baptized, that that is something we must do, that he
Speaker:himself did and condescended and gave us an example so that we could follow it.
Speaker:He taught about Choosing to get on this covenant path and repenting and doing
Speaker:things that if we love him, we'll keep his commandments that there's works involved
Speaker:in all these, but there's, I think it's actually written in this block of verses.
Speaker:You just have to read them together.
Speaker:So, for example, in eight, he says, I think you have to read eight all the
Speaker:way through 10 together for by grace.
Speaker:You are saved through faith and that not of yourselves.
Speaker:It is the gift of God, not of works, lest any man should boast.
Speaker:So this makes it feel like it's just grace that gets you through,
Speaker:unless you read 10 with it.
Speaker:And then you start to get a fuller picture.
Speaker:It says, for we are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus unto good
Speaker:works, which God has before ordained that we should walk in them.
Speaker:He wants both right.
Speaker:Our, like we talked about last week with that fire and the match, our part.
Speaker:matters to the Lord.
Speaker:There's a great quote from President Oaks.
Speaker:In fact, you can go read the full talk where he talks about how
Speaker:we believe in what we believe.
Speaker:In fact, he even points out what other Christian faiths think we
Speaker:believe and how we should stand up for what is true because he essentially
Speaker:says that we believe in both.
Speaker:I only wrote a fraction of it in my margins, but he says to be
Speaker:cleansed, meaning to be cleansed by the Savior, to access that grace.
Speaker:It's conditioned on our faith, which must be manifested by obedience
Speaker:to commandments, like repent, be baptized, receive the Holy Ghost.
Speaker:All those things are at play.
Speaker:We need faith, and we need faith that is evidenced by our
Speaker:obedience to his commandments.
Speaker:That's, that's how we find the balance between them.
Speaker:But go and read his talk and you'll get a lot more out of it.
Speaker:I do love what you see in 14.
Speaker:This is when Paul's trying to help them see That he's,
Speaker:they're all being pulled in.
Speaker:To me, it's, Paul as an apostle is someone who has heard the
Speaker:symphony in its fullness.
Speaker:You know, we've talked about this a few times, that in God's symphony,
Speaker:he calls certain instruments into the playing at different points of time.
Speaker:For a season, the Jews and the Gentiles were not playing in
Speaker:this orchestra at the same time.
Speaker:There was a division occurring.
Speaker:The Jews have been playing for a season and now it's the time of the
Speaker:Gentiles to add in their instruments into this beautiful, rich sound.
Speaker:And that's what Paul's going to try and help them see.
Speaker:He's like, as an apostle, I think Paul has heard the music and he
Speaker:may even know a few measures ahead.
Speaker:And he's saying, look at what is coming.
Speaker:Look at what he's done so far to bring us all together.
Speaker:So that's what he says in 14.
Speaker:For he is our peace.
Speaker:who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall of
Speaker:partition between us, having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even the
Speaker:law of commandments contained in ordinances, for to make in himself of
Speaker:twain one new man, so making peace.
Speaker:This is what Christ does.
Speaker:He breaks down barriers.
Speaker:Barriers between Jew and Gentile, barriers between us and God.
Speaker:If you look in the footnotes, you can see that there's reference
Speaker:to the veil when you talk about these walls being broken down.
Speaker:I just...
Speaker:I think it's a powerful promise.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:It was interesting, interesting to me to think about the opposite.
Speaker:You know, when you think about, for example, I mean, it's October, you guys.
Speaker:So if you think about like a haunted house, what makes a haunted house
Speaker:scary is that there are all these partitions, there are all these walls
Speaker:and corners and I can't see around the corner, and I don't know what's
Speaker:coming at me, and I have to walk into these small rooms, and I feel trapped.
Speaker:Like, that's panic and fear to me, to be in those kind of walled off spaces.
Speaker:I think it's why when we walk into a house that we want to, like,
Speaker:purchase, my first instinct is like, maybe we could tear that wall down.
Speaker:Maybe we could tear that wall down, because I just want the light to
Speaker:flood in and have a big open space.
Speaker:That's the gospel of Jesus Christ, you guys.
Speaker:His gospel is a beautiful, transparent, Open gospel.
Speaker:There is nothing that is withheld from you.
Speaker:There are no mysteries that you can't access.
Speaker:This is his promise.
Speaker:He says, you have all before you, if you choose it.
Speaker:What I love is he teaches us how we can access it in the,
Speaker:in the subsequent verses.
Speaker:So for example, he recommends in 16 that we be reconciled.
Speaker:That's one big way I can, I can take advantage of these knockdown walls.
Speaker:As I come closer to Jesus Christ, I can see more clearly where I was
Speaker:afraid and isolated before he can knock down barriers and open up space.
Speaker:Another way is what you see in 19.
Speaker:Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners but fellow citizens with
Speaker:the saints and of the household of God.
Speaker:I can...
Speaker:step into this big, open space as I find community with people who are not like me.
Speaker:People who have different lifestyles and different backgrounds.
Speaker:I mean, think how different Paul is from these Gentile converts.
Speaker:He is someone who was raised a Jew as a Pharisee.
Speaker:He kept every law of Moses.
Speaker:He worked against the Christian faith.
Speaker:Like, he is coming from a very different point than these Gentile converts are.
Speaker:And he's saying, you know what brings us together?
Speaker:This faith in Christ, because I need salvation and you need salvation
Speaker:and none of us can get there by ourselves, so we need the Savior.
Speaker:That's what unites all of us.
Speaker:Then a big one that he offers for how to appreciate and see this big
Speaker:open gospel is what you see in 20.
Speaker:And are built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ
Speaker:himself being the chief cornerstone.
Speaker:In whom all the building fitly framed together groweth unto
Speaker:a holy temple in the Lord.
Speaker:A big way that we have access to this open, transparent understanding of
Speaker:who God is and how he feels about us is through prophets and apostles.
Speaker:When we align ourselves with them, we, walls knock down.
Speaker:We see ourselves more fully.
Speaker:That's one of the things I love about conferences and
Speaker:the temple for that matter.
Speaker:I feel like it's a time when we Break down those walls.
Speaker:So remember how we've talked about in the past, I love that visual
Speaker:of seeing like an old house.
Speaker:And like my, if I look at myself, I almost see myself as an old
Speaker:house that has like, in my mortal world, I'm in this middle room.
Speaker:And then there's a room over here, that's my premortal world.
Speaker:And there's a room over here, that's my future.
Speaker:And what What coming to conference and going to the temple does is
Speaker:it knocks those walls down, or at least puts big holes in them.
Speaker:You know, like you can almost picture a sledgehammer coming and knocking the
Speaker:wall down to understand who you were in the pre existence, to get a better
Speaker:feel for what God planned for you.
Speaker:When you knock this other wall down about who I can become I feel like that's what
Speaker:prophets and apostles do they teach me Who I can become and why it's worth the
Speaker:wrestle to fight for my conversion here.
Speaker:You know, like that's God's gospel is one of knocking down barriers so that
Speaker:we can see clearly and fully Who he is and why he loves us as much as he does.
Speaker:That's Paul's invitation.
Speaker:I love the way it ends in 22.
Speaker:In whom ye also are builded together for inhabitation of God through the Spirit.
Speaker:When we take all those components and fit them together.
Speaker:In fact, I love that term like fitly framed together.
Speaker:It reminds me of Legos.
Speaker:You know, like they're designed to click into place and to be solid.
Speaker:When we take all those components and all those All that potential,
Speaker:we have an opportunity to create a habitation for God.
Speaker:The conversion of my heart creates a space for God to dwell and to teach me
Speaker:and to help me see him even more clearly.
Speaker:We do it all through the Spirit, and I feel like you get all of that in verse 22.
Speaker:Most of the scholars I read said that Paul probably wrote this epistle to the
Speaker:Ephesians from house arrest, while he was awaiting his chance to have trial in Rome.
Speaker:That's where this message went out, but I don't think that's what he's referring to.
Speaker:And one when he calls himself a prisoner, because he calls himself
Speaker:a prisoner of Jesus Christ.
Speaker:To me, I think that's Paul's talking about the state of his heart.
Speaker:The same way when Peter was approached by the Savior who said,
Speaker:you know, will you also go away?
Speaker:And Peter said, Lord, to whom would we go?
Speaker:Like, I think this is Paul saying, like, I am bound to Jesus Christ.
Speaker:This is something that I am, I am a prisoner of my testimony.
Speaker:Like, I can't go anywhere else.
Speaker:I know the truth and here I, here I will stay.
Speaker:I think that's his message.
Speaker:What I love is where he goes next.
Speaker:It's actually the same thing we hear in conference.
Speaker:Basically, Paul, as an apostle, is a seer, right?
Speaker:He is someone who sees things when the Lord is going to teach something
Speaker:new, especially a great big mystery like the Jews and the Gentiles
Speaker:are going to be fellow heirs.
Speaker:They're going to be together in their worship.
Speaker:That's big new doctrine.
Speaker:When that comes to the earth, it will come through prophets and apostles.
Speaker:That's why we saw it go through Peter and his vision of the
Speaker:sheep with the animals on it.
Speaker:And then it comes.
Speaker:also in revelation to Paul.
Speaker:I think both of them receive this revelation.
Speaker:They just receive it in different ways.
Speaker:So Paul's going to reaffirm that knowledge that he has about this mystery.
Speaker:What I love about the way it's phrased in chapter three is that
Speaker:Paul also invites us to know.
Speaker:He especially invites his readers to know that this in fact is true.
Speaker:So this is how he says it in three.
Speaker:How that by revelation he made known unto me the mystery as I
Speaker:wrote afore in a few words, whereby when ye read ye may understand my
Speaker:knowledge in the mystery of Christ.
Speaker:Isn't that exactly what our apostles ask us to do today when
Speaker:we hear their words at conference?
Speaker:We hear that they are seers and this is the revelation that Lord, the
Speaker:Lord wants us to know and then we're supposed to go home and settle it in
Speaker:our hearts, get our own testimony that that's true for us and for our families.
Speaker:So that we can move forward in faith altogether.
Speaker:And then in five, he talks about how this process happened, which in other
Speaker:ages was not made known unto the sons of men, and it is now revealed unto his
Speaker:holy apostles and the prophets by the spirit that the Gentiles should be fellow
Speaker:heirs and of the same body and partakers of his promise in Christ by the gospel,
Speaker:this is big revolutionary doctrine that Jews and Gentiles are both fellow heirs.
Speaker:What I particularly love about this is I think he's saying the Gentiles
Speaker:are not getting some watered down version or what's left over after the
Speaker:Jews have had their pick of salvation.
Speaker:Like that's not the gospel.
Speaker:I am a daughter of, there's 10 in my family.
Speaker:My parents had 10 kids and there are seven girls right in a row.
Speaker:I am the seventh.
Speaker:So you guys, I know, hand me down, like I, I understand the desire to have.
Speaker:something that is new and fresh and just yours.
Speaker:And I think what Paul's trying to teach these saints is like, what you're
Speaker:getting is not a hand me down gospel.
Speaker:It's not, you're not getting what's left over.
Speaker:You are fellow heirs with the Jews.
Speaker:You are children of the promise, just like all those who are
Speaker:literal descendants of Abraham.
Speaker:You get all those blessings and all that potential.
Speaker:You also have all the same responsibilities, right?
Speaker:When you come into the covenant, you have the same responsibility to let
Speaker:his light shine out to the world and to take the gospel to all places and
Speaker:all those things come bundled together.
Speaker:But I think what he's saying is like, take pride in the fact
Speaker:that you are a fellow heir.
Speaker:When you come into this covenant, you are not a second class citizen.
Speaker:In fact, there are no.
Speaker:Second class citizens, Paul can testify of that because he is someone who
Speaker:could say something similar, right?
Speaker:He's someone who worked against the church.
Speaker:He's someone who has some, you know, sin in his past.
Speaker:And he's like, I have this settled in my heart that I am
Speaker:not a second class citizen.
Speaker:I, I came to this covenant.
Speaker:I've gone through the repentance process and here's where I am.
Speaker:We are all equal inheritors as we choose to follow him.
Speaker:I just think that's a powerful promise.
Speaker:Then he talks about what he's going to teach them.
Speaker:This to me is Paul defending his mission.
Speaker:I imagine there were some who questioned if Paul wanted this
Speaker:mission, to teach the Gentiles.
Speaker:Remember the children of Israel saw the Gentiles as unclean and someone you
Speaker:separated from for generations of time.
Speaker:So for Paul to be assigned to that mission would have been
Speaker:off putting to a lot of people.
Speaker:And this is Paul saying like, Oh, I love my mission.
Speaker:I just, this is how I read it.
Speaker:He says in eight unto me, who am less than the least of all
Speaker:saints is this grace given.
Speaker:Like I am the lowest of the low.
Speaker:That's his humble stance.
Speaker:Like, and look at what.
Speaker:Look at the mission that I got.
Speaker:This is what he says, that I should preach among the Gentiles, the
Speaker:unsearchable riches of Christ.
Speaker:And to make all men see is the fellowship of the mystery, which from the beginning
Speaker:of the world has been hidden God, who created all things by Jesus Christ.
Speaker:The reason I think Paul loves his mission to the Gentiles is because
Speaker:he gets to teach truths that are new.
Speaker:You know, I'm sure he would have loved mission to the Jews as well, but I think
Speaker:there's something different when you speak to the Jews who've been raised Looking
Speaker:forward to a messiah who've been raised with lots of ceremony and traditions
Speaker:that point your eyes towards a savior who would come and redeem his people.
Speaker:There are already an understanding there.
Speaker:When you go to someone like the Gentiles who've worshipped pagan gods and who have
Speaker:all these different false traditions that have clouded their view of what deity is.
Speaker:You get to, like, break open truth to help them see you are a child of God.
Speaker:In fact, you are going to grow up to be like God.
Speaker:You are divine and important and that's new, powerful doctrine.
Speaker:I think it's probably the same thing that the sons of Mosiah would have
Speaker:said about preaching to the Lamanites.
Speaker:You know, the Lamanites who had separated from the Nephites and had all these false
Speaker:traditions and false understandings, and when, when the sons of Mosiah
Speaker:got to teach them, it was like this.
Speaker:You know, light pierced the darkness and they could see for the first
Speaker:time who they were, who God really is, what his nature is and how
Speaker:they fit in this great big plan.
Speaker:That's an incredible mission to have.
Speaker:And so Paul is like, I am, I am thrilled to be here.
Speaker:I am unworthy, but I am thrilled to be here.
Speaker:I just think that's his stance.
Speaker:He loves to open up these mysteries to people who've never
Speaker:heard anything like it before.
Speaker:It's something I think a lot of us look forward to in the gospel
Speaker:whenever the gospel goes into, you know, parts of China or other places.
Speaker:I just think it's going to be this light bursting forth.
Speaker:So in 12 it says, In whom we have boldness and access with
Speaker:confidence by the faith of him.
Speaker:Wherefore, I desire that ye faint not at my tribulations
Speaker:for you, which is your glory.
Speaker:Paul's mission to the Gentiles is causing him to be in prison, you
Speaker:know, that he's teaching these things is getting him into trouble.
Speaker:And he's saying, don't worry about that.
Speaker:I am, I am overjoyed that I am here and that I get to do this great work.
Speaker:He also invites them to come with boldness.
Speaker:This is the same thing we're going to read in Hebrews, where he talks about
Speaker:coming boldly to the throne of grace.
Speaker:It's this invitation to not treat the atonement casually.
Speaker:I certainly don't think Paul is inviting you to sin on purpose,
Speaker:knowing that God will fix it later.
Speaker:You know, he's saying, come boldly.
Speaker:I know you're coming from different backgrounds.
Speaker:I know you Feel like you've been separated from the children of Israel all this time
Speaker:and that you you were different you're the same come boldly ask for the help
Speaker:you need use the power of the Atonement in your everyday life and Watch what
Speaker:the Lord can do with you and then in the next little chunk of verses He talks
Speaker:about what to ask for once you get there.
Speaker:This is to me Sometimes I think because we teach the Atonement the way we do it's
Speaker:it sounds almost like hard to to access.
Speaker:It's so big and so vast that it's hard to know what to do with it.
Speaker:And this is Paul's practical tips on how to put the atonement
Speaker:at work in their lives.
Speaker:So if you see in 16 he says that you he would grant unto you according to the
Speaker:riches of his glory to be strengthened with might by his spirit in the inner man.
Speaker:That's one of the ways we can access the gift of the atonement of Jesus
Speaker:Christ is to say I'm struggling with My inner man, there are temptations and
Speaker:weaknesses in me that I want to change.
Speaker:I can access the atonement of Jesus Christ I can come boldly to the throne
Speaker:of grace and say I need help here.
Speaker:I'm struggling to do this on my own Please help me to overcome these weaknesses
Speaker:and Paul's witnessing that he can help you the atonement is can be used in
Speaker:that way 17 he gives you another angle He says that Christ may dwell in your
Speaker:hearts by faith that ye being rooted and grounded in love This is Paul
Speaker:saying Another thing you can do when you come boldly to the throne of grace
Speaker:is to ask that he be in your heart that you're Rooted and grounded in his love.
Speaker:I love that phrasing especially because I was just studying recently Jacob 5 You
Speaker:know I was teaching my YSAs about this the idea of being rooted is not so much
Speaker:like he talks about how he like you expose the roots how you Dig about the roots.
Speaker:And one of the things I learned was that that process of digging about the
Speaker:roots is so that the roots grow down.
Speaker:Instead of spreading wide, they grow down and deep into the soil.
Speaker:They're rooted deeper.
Speaker:That's what I think he's inviting them to do.
Speaker:He's saying one of the ways you can come to the Lord and use the atonement of Jesus
Speaker:Christ is to say, I want my heart rooted.
Speaker:I want to trust in you better.
Speaker:I want to richly and fully.
Speaker:Can the atonement help me there?
Speaker:And what Paul's saying is, yes, that's what it's for.
Speaker:Come boldly to the throne of grace and ask for your heart
Speaker:to be rooted in this gospel.
Speaker:18, he gives you another one.
Speaker:May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth and length and
Speaker:depth and height, and then it continues in 19, and to know the love of Christ
Speaker:which passeth knowledge that ye may be filled with all fullness of God.
Speaker:I can come boldly to the throne of grace so that I can know the breadth and
Speaker:depth and expanse of the love of God.
Speaker:If I feel insecure in my relationship to God, or I feel like He doesn't see me, or
Speaker:He doesn't know my trials, or He doesn't understand, He's not giving me the relief
Speaker:I want, I can come boldly to the throne of grace and say, I need to feel your love.
Speaker:I need to understand it better.
Speaker:I need depth to who you are.
Speaker:I need to know that and feel that.
Speaker:I really like that, because sometimes I feel like we almost...
Speaker:Wait passively for that to happen to us.
Speaker:What Paul's inviting you to do is, you know, come and ask for it.
Speaker:You know, the same way Moroni taught us that we could come
Speaker:and ask for the gift of charity.
Speaker:If we're struggling to love our fellow men the way the Lord wants us to,
Speaker:because of circumstances and agency and that's hard, you can actually
Speaker:ask for that gift to be given to you.
Speaker:I think that's what Paul's saying.
Speaker:Don't wait until you feel loved by God.
Speaker:Go to God and say, I need to use the atonement of Jesus Christ
Speaker:to help me feel God's love.
Speaker:Feel the depth of it, the breadth of it.
Speaker:I want to understand it.
Speaker:I also really love how he ends that verse where he talks about that you might be
Speaker:filled with all the fullness of God.
Speaker:So I know I've used this quote so many times, but it's one of my, you know,
Speaker:like I go to it over and over again.
Speaker:That quote from Elder Maxwell, where he talks about that the cavity that
Speaker:suffering carves into our heart will one day be the receptacle of joy.
Speaker:Sometimes I see us all as these people who have these big cavities, you know, carved
Speaker:out of us, these craters of rough places.
Speaker:And the promise is that the Savior, especially through the
Speaker:Atonement, the gift that He gives us, that He can fill all those.
Speaker:cavities.
Speaker:He can fill all those empty carved out places that suffering created
Speaker:and he will fill them with joy.
Speaker:He, that's what you can come boldly to the throne of grace with.
Speaker:I have these holes in me.
Speaker:I have this, this carved out part of me because of this pain or because of
Speaker:these choices of others or my choices in the past, there are these holes
Speaker:and you can come to the throne of grace and say, could you fill them?
Speaker:And what he promises is he's not going to fill them with what was there before.
Speaker:He's going to fill them with what will give you joy and peace and rest.
Speaker:I think that's one of the.
Speaker:Most beautiful parts of coming boldly to the throne of grace
Speaker:is that you always walk away.
Speaker:If you trust him, you will come away full.
Speaker:And then in 20.
Speaker:Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think
Speaker:according to the power that worketh in us.
Speaker:There's this incredible talk from Matthew Holland that I loved this week.
Speaker:It talks a lot about suffering and trusting in God.
Speaker:And he referenced this verse where he said he can do exceedingly abundant things.
Speaker:Better than you can think, better than you can ask, like he can give you far
Speaker:more than you can even anticipate.
Speaker:Come boldly to his throne and ask for the grace you need.
Speaker:This week in my institute class we were talking about 3rd Nephi
Speaker:and when the Savior comes.
Speaker:And I found it really fascinating that one of the very first things he does when he
Speaker:comes is he teaches about baptism and he asks them to have no more disputations.
Speaker:He basically says, Here's the direction.
Speaker:It's very clear.
Speaker:Let me tell you how this is going to go.
Speaker:And now I want you to have no more contention, no more disputation.
Speaker:I think his motivation is the same as what Paul is trying to teach here in
Speaker:Ephesians four, that there is one gospel there, especially in Paul's day, there
Speaker:are going to be countless splintering off.
Speaker:groups, right?
Speaker:People who take a portion of the gospel of Christ and cater it to their desires.
Speaker:And that's where you're gonna get all these fractions of the gospel
Speaker:that become different churches.
Speaker:And what Paul's trying to get across is, no, there is one.
Speaker:All of us need to come to be one, not split away.
Speaker:So that's what he says in three.
Speaker:Endeavoring to keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace, there
Speaker:is one body, one spirit, even as year called in one hope of your calling, one
Speaker:Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and father of all who is above all and
Speaker:through all and in you all, but unto every one of us is given grace according
Speaker:to the measure of the gift of Christ.
Speaker:Just like you saw in the previous chapters, Christ is that central figure.
Speaker:He is why we all have one gospel, one faith, one spirit,
Speaker:because we all need His grace.
Speaker:And the only way to access His grace is to abide by His gospel,
Speaker:to follow His commandments.
Speaker:That's what He's trying to help them understand.
Speaker:The don't, Don't section off.
Speaker:Don't follow after certain apostles.
Speaker:Don't stay focused on this one gospel.
Speaker:And then he teaches us a little bit more about Christ.
Speaker:So he says in 8 and 9, Wherefore he saith, when he ascended up on high, he led
Speaker:captivity captive and gave gifts unto men.
Speaker:And now that he ascended, what is it that he also descended first into the lower
Speaker:parts of the earth that he might fill all things his way see by the end of 11.
Speaker:I think this is similar to what we read in the Book of Mormon,
Speaker:where they talk about him.
Speaker:Ascending and descending that God condescended to come among men.
Speaker:In fact, one of the things I love about reading through Nephi this
Speaker:week is you see condescension in his return visits to the Americas too.
Speaker:I always think of him condescending when he was born and being baptized
Speaker:and all those things, but I think it's interesting that when he comes back to
Speaker:visit the Nephites, he also condescends.
Speaker:His immediate...
Speaker:stance to them is come and feel me.
Speaker:Come touch my wounds one by one.
Speaker:Come and come close to me.
Speaker:I think that's a condescension.
Speaker:You know, that's him saying like, you can handle me.
Speaker:You can be right here.
Speaker:That's what Paul's teaching of.
Speaker:He is someone who has suffered all things so that he can sucker you so that he
Speaker:can be the savior that You specifically need we can access his grace and then
Speaker:he talks about How we can tap into that understanding a big piece of it
Speaker:comes from the structure of the church So that's what you're gonna see in the
Speaker:next few verses like at 11 It says and he gave some apostles and some prophets
Speaker:and some evangelists and some pastors and some teachers for the perfecting of
Speaker:the Saints for the work of the ministry for the edifying of the body of Christ
Speaker:till we all come in unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God
Speaker:unto a perfect man unto the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ
Speaker:What I like about this is I feel like he's basically describing the scaffolding
Speaker:that the church is and We also need not just our one on one relationship
Speaker:with the Savior, but we need that that scaffolding We need the structure of the
Speaker:church to come and gather as Saints that we're gonna learn and gain pieces of our
Speaker:testimony and gain understandings about Jesus Christ through our connections
Speaker:that we have at church, you know through the different leaders you have and The
Speaker:guidance you get and the lessons you hear you'll get a fuller picture of
Speaker:who Christ is through that structure.
Speaker:I just think we have to remember that the structure isn't the gospel.
Speaker:There's a great talk from Sister Roberto about this, where she basically, she
Speaker:used the example of Relief Society, and she said, Relief Society isn't
Speaker:a class that we go to on Sunday.
Speaker:Relief Society is us.
Speaker:It's covenant keeping women who are in this together and who
Speaker:are followers of Jesus Christ.
Speaker:Like, you can go and read her full quote in the notes, but I think
Speaker:that's, that's what the gospel is.
Speaker:That's what the church is.
Speaker:It's this scaffolding around the family.
Speaker:I think it's, President Benson who said it that way, but he basically said
Speaker:the church is the structure We need to build eternal families and at some point
Speaker:We won't need this church structure that we currently have right now that
Speaker:that won't be around forever But the family stays forever and you kind of
Speaker:need both in this mortal fallen world.
Speaker:So I think you'll see a piece of that in chapter four.
Speaker:This, this need for the ecclesiastical structure that helps
Speaker:us create things that are eternal.
Speaker:So when you look in 15 it says, but speaking the truth in love may grow up
Speaker:unto him in all things, which is the head, even Christ, from whom the whole
Speaker:body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supply.
Speaker:To me, this is him talking about the various callings and positions
Speaker:that we all, when we perform our best efforts in our callings, we are
Speaker:this fitly framed together building.
Speaker:You know, it is something that because we are all doing our part,
Speaker:we are knit, we are tight there.
Speaker:I was, as I was studying for object lessons, I really wanted to do some
Speaker:wood joints, you know, like a dovetail joint or a box joint, or those different
Speaker:joints that you can do to show that when things are Fitly framed together.
Speaker:There is like structural integrity there.
Speaker:It was too complicated to make one out of paper I found, but that, that's
Speaker:the visual that comes into my mind.
Speaker:In fact, I saw this cool, somebody calls it a Japanese joint.
Speaker:I'm not sure why it has that reference, but there were these three pieces
Speaker:of wood that were cut in a certain way that as you tapped one, all
Speaker:three of them, joined together.
Speaker:It was just this really amazing thing to watch, but I think that's the gospel.
Speaker:As we each do our part and serve in our callings and, you know, do the
Speaker:best we can where we are, the whole body of Christ becomes joined together.
Speaker:That's why I love what it says in the middle of 16, that as we come
Speaker:together and according to the joint that, sorry, for whom the whole body
Speaker:fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth.
Speaker:As we each come together in our areas, we become.
Speaker:Compressed and tight and strong, especially as we do it on this
Speaker:foundation of prophets and apostles with Christ as that chief
Speaker:cornerstone, it is a strong building.
Speaker:And that's what he says in 17, This I say therefore and testify in the Lord
Speaker:that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk in the vanity of the mind.
Speaker:He's saying, you're gonna, in order to be a part of this structure,
Speaker:you've got to set all that old self down and pick up something new.
Speaker:So if you look in 22, that you put off concerning the former conversion
Speaker:of the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lust and
Speaker:be renewed in the spirit of your mind.
Speaker:This is his invitation to repentance.
Speaker:What I really like.
Speaker:So if you look from 24 to 32, for me, this is almost like for the strength
Speaker:of the youth, but in New Testament because he's basically saying like,
Speaker:here's the ways you can do that.
Speaker:Putting off the natural man is not this giant project you do all at once.
Speaker:It is.
Speaker:A whole bunch of small daily choices to repent and turn
Speaker:to God, to see yourself anew.
Speaker:And that's, he gives you some guidance on those.
Speaker:So for example, in 24 he says, And that ye put on the new man,
Speaker:which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
Speaker:You're not just putting away what you used to be, you're putting on something better.
Speaker:You're putting on strength.
Speaker:It's that same verb choice that means like to endow, to put on things.
Speaker:And then he tells you how in small little ways.
Speaker:So 25, for example, he encourages you to be honest.
Speaker:What I think is interesting is in all these verses, like these next
Speaker:five or six verses, he'll tell you to put down something, an old
Speaker:habit and pick up something new.
Speaker:And I think there's power in that guidance, especially as a parent,
Speaker:that it's one thing to ask our kids to stop doing something that we know
Speaker:is destructive for them, either for their testimony or them physically.
Speaker:But there needs to be something that they pick up in the process.
Speaker:They need to pick up something new and good that will fill that space.
Speaker:And you'll see that pattern in Paul.
Speaker:So he says, Wherefore putting away lying, put down lying, and speak
Speaker:every man truth with his neighbor, for we are members one to another.
Speaker:Same pattern in 26, be angry and sin not.
Speaker:If you look in Joseph Smith's translation, you can get a
Speaker:better understanding of that.
Speaker:He's saying, don't get angry, don't let the sun go down on your wrath,
Speaker:neither give place to the devil.
Speaker:Then in 28, let him that stole, steal no more.
Speaker:Set down that habit of taking things that are not yours, or coveting things
Speaker:that are not yours, and pick up labor.
Speaker:Let him labor, working with his hands, the thing which is good, that he
Speaker:may have to give him that need it.
Speaker:If you want to be able to have a charitable heart, you have to work.
Speaker:Like, you need to have things that you can offer to this equation.
Speaker:So that's what the invitation is, like, set down coveting that thing
Speaker:that causes so many sins, that causes you to steal and to want things
Speaker:that aren't yours and to look after other people's stuff and, and work.
Speaker:And then you'll have things that you can give.
Speaker:I think it's just this constant trade off of, Set down this part of the
Speaker:natural man and pick up this renewed version, this righteous version, and
Speaker:see what the Lord can do with that.
Speaker:29.
Speaker:Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth.
Speaker:Set down all the negative things you used to say, and the gossip, and the lies, and
Speaker:the profanities, and the whatever it was.
Speaker:Set all that down.
Speaker:And, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may
Speaker:minister grace unto the hearers.
Speaker:This is why we pick up the ability to speak kindly.
Speaker:Remember, President Nelson talked about this in the last conference, where we need
Speaker:to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker:We need to speak as kindly as we can about people.
Speaker:The reason we do that is not just so that we become a better person, but the result
Speaker:is what we see at the end of 29, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
Speaker:It's a way for grace to flow to other people when we choose to be
Speaker:generous and kind with our words.
Speaker:And then he kind of wraps it all up in 31 and 32.
Speaker:Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and evil speaking
Speaker:be put away from you with all malice.
Speaker:And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving
Speaker:one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Speaker:Set down all those negative natural man emotions one day at a time.
Speaker:You know, just do a little bit better today than you did yesterday and be kind.
Speaker:Don't just set down old habits.
Speaker:Pick up these new ones.
Speaker:Be kind, be forgiving, be tender hearted.
Speaker:As you do that, you get a better picture of how Christ feels about you.
Speaker:That's his promise.
Speaker:In chapter 5,
Speaker:Paul continues that for strength of the youth message where
Speaker:we can change the inner man.
Speaker:And then he's gonna expand it to be how we can find strength.
Speaker:Through families through households.
Speaker:So you can see both of those in chapter 5 where it begins in one He says be
Speaker:there for followers of God as dear children and walk in love as Christ
Speaker:Also hath loved us and hath given himself for us as an offering and a
Speaker:sacrifice to God for a sweet smelling saver This actually is gonna set the
Speaker:precedent for the rest of the chapter.
Speaker:He's basically inviting us to show our love through sacrifice There's this great
Speaker:devotional from Anthony Sweat where he talked about meeting his wife for the
Speaker:first time and when they were dating and he asked her what the definition of love
Speaker:was and she said she thinks it's sacrifice and that made him love her all the more.
Speaker:I think that's what you feel in this, throughout this chapter, that as you
Speaker:choose to sacrifice and to willingly set down these Natural man parts of you.
Speaker:You show love for God.
Speaker:You show an appreciation for how he sacrificed for you.
Speaker:It is a, it is something that ties you to him.
Speaker:And then he tells you how to do it in four.
Speaker:Neither filthiness nor foolish talking nor jesting which are not
Speaker:convenient but rather giving of thanks.
Speaker:This is his same guidance about how to interact with your fellow men.
Speaker:What I like about this one is I really think that showing gratitude
Speaker:is like an antidote to coveting.
Speaker:Remember how we talked about in the Old Testament how coveting is sort of the
Speaker:root of so many other sins that if I just stop looking at other people's stuff and
Speaker:other people's talents and other people's possessions, I will I won't steal.
Speaker:I won't commit adultery.
Speaker:I won't, like, there's so many other sins.
Speaker:I won't lie.
Speaker:I won't cheat.
Speaker:All those things kind of feed off of that coveting.
Speaker:I think showing gratitude for what you've been given, especially the spiritual
Speaker:things you've been given, the forgiveness you've been extended, the mercy you've
Speaker:been granted, it, it is an antidote that as soon as it comes into the bloodstream,
Speaker:it, it neutralizes all of those coveting feelings and helps you come to him.
Speaker:That's why I think gratitude is so pivotal.
Speaker:I think it's why President Nelson taught us about it during COVID.
Speaker:It is a way for us to stop looking out and instead have peace within.
Speaker:Paul says the same thing.
Speaker:In 8, he says, For ye were sometimes darkness, but now are
Speaker:ye, now are ye light in the Lord.
Speaker:Walk as children of the light.
Speaker:To me, this is for the strength of the youth as well.
Speaker:He's saying these are the old ways, the old tendencies in you.
Speaker:This is not you.
Speaker:This mortal part of you is not you.
Speaker:Remember, he knocks down the walls so that both youth and
Speaker:adults can see themselves fully.
Speaker:That you are not this mortal shell.
Speaker:You are, this is a piece of who you are, but you are much bigger and more vast.
Speaker:And that's what he's saying.
Speaker:Walk as children of the light.
Speaker:You know more.
Speaker:You understand better.
Speaker:So, Act in that way and then 11 and have no fellowship with the unfruitful works
Speaker:of darkness, but rather reprove them to me This is Paul's invitation to not
Speaker:just walk away from what is evil, but to stand up against it Like you don't have
Speaker:to just shy away from hard conversations.
Speaker:You can stand boldly and declare truth I think you have to do it compassionately I
Speaker:think you have to do it with sensitivity to the spirit to know boundaries, but
Speaker:you should stand for what you believe and In that process often can help others
Speaker:along the way wills had some interesting experiences with this lately where he's
Speaker:he's had some debates at school About his beliefs and where he stands and
Speaker:it's been powerful to see him Wrestle through those and try to find answers.
Speaker:And I think that's what happens when you stand up for what you know, you don't
Speaker:have to know all things to stand boldly.
Speaker:You just have to have a stance of like, this is how I know, this is what I know.
Speaker:And there's a lot more, I don't know, but this is what I know so far.
Speaker:And I think there's, I think other people hearing that stance
Speaker:has a big impact on hearts.
Speaker:And that's his invitation.
Speaker:When you flip the page, you see his guidance about Christ.
Speaker:I love in 14, he says, Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest,
Speaker:and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.
Speaker:That's his invitation, is there is no end to the fullness that Christ can give you.
Speaker:Stand up, wake up, and get back in this game.
Speaker:Like, get back on this track to learn and, you know, walk
Speaker:further down this covenant path.
Speaker:I do love the phrase he uses in 16.
Speaker:He says, Redeeming the time because the days are evil.
Speaker:It's redeeming the time.
Speaker:I thought was kind of fascinating.
Speaker:It's this idea of how can I use the time as that I have
Speaker:left to the best of my ability.
Speaker:Oftentimes I'm looking at my week or my month or even my year and saying
Speaker:like, where do you need me the most?
Speaker:What's the best way to redeem my time?
Speaker:I think we have to constantly be asking that.
Speaker:Where are my priorities supposed to be?
Speaker:How do you need my time?
Speaker:Because I will consecrate it to you.
Speaker:Show me where I need to, how I can use my time.
Speaker:Best, and that's what Paul invites them to do.
Speaker:And then in 21, submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Speaker:That's sacrifice.
Speaker:That's love.
Speaker:It's a willful submission, taking my comforts and putting someone
Speaker:else's comfort ahead of them.
Speaker:I like focusing on that verse first before you go into the second half of
Speaker:chapter five, because the second half is where you see guidance about families
Speaker:and that wives should submit to husbands and husbands should love their wives.
Speaker:And it can get really sticky.
Speaker:I put a lot of things in the notes because of the word choices in
Speaker:Paul's day to our modern ears.
Speaker:It feels harsh, or it feels off putting, maybe is the right word for it.
Speaker:But I really think what he's inviting both husbands and wives to do is to sacrifice.
Speaker:To make sacrifices to show your love to others.
Speaker:Remember, that's how he's couched this.
Speaker:He's talked about it with the Savior and how he offered himself as a
Speaker:sacrifice to show his love for us and that we, as husbands and wives, should
Speaker:do the same thing for each other.
Speaker:We should make sacrifices and evidence our love for each other.
Speaker:And he gives directions to both wives and husbands.
Speaker:You can go in the notes and learn more about that.
Speaker:But I just think this is his way of saying we are expanding our ability
Speaker:to be strong in the face of adversity.
Speaker:Where in the last couple chapters, he's focused on the inner man and how we can
Speaker:make daily choices to come closer to God.
Speaker:Now he's saying you're not alone in this.
Speaker:In addition to prophets and apostles, you also have each other.
Speaker:He placed us in families.
Speaker:on purpose so that we could strengthen each other and sacrifice for each other
Speaker:and come to know God in the process of sacrificing our comfort for someone
Speaker:else so that there can be joy and happiness in another person's life.
Speaker:That's what family is all about.
Speaker:So I feel like you see a lot of that at the end of chapter five.
Speaker:He's going to continue that theme of finding strength in a group in a family
Speaker:in particular in chapter 6 because he'll Talk about how no matter what
Speaker:station we're in in a household in this household of faith We need to do our
Speaker:best to follow the teachings of God So for example in one he talks to children
Speaker:children obey your parents if this family unit is going to be strong There needs
Speaker:to be obedience and there needs to be humility to learn so children obey your
Speaker:parents Honor thy father and thy mother it talks about how that will There is
Speaker:an attached blessing to that commandment that your days will be long in the land.
Speaker:So, that gives our family...
Speaker:structural integrity when children honor their parents and obey.
Speaker:You also see an invitation to, for parents to take care of each other.
Speaker:I love in four, it says, and ye fathers provoke not your children
Speaker:to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Speaker:This is an invitation to be a certain kind of father, right?
Speaker:It's a father that admonishes, but that also nurtures.
Speaker:Sometimes I think we see nurturing as a female word exclusively.
Speaker:And I think this is an invitation to be both.
Speaker:In fact, one of the things I loved is that when I was studying in Enos
Speaker:this week, that same phrase comes up.
Speaker:This is how he refers to his dad, Jacob, that he is someone who was nurturing and
Speaker:admonished him in the ways of the Lord.
Speaker:That's the kind of dad.
Speaker:We should seek for right a Jacob to Enos kind of father situation because
Speaker:in that Relationship when Enos needs help, it's his father's words that come
Speaker:to mind It's his father's teachings that come back to his mind the same
Speaker:way Alma the younger when he was Point of struggle his father's words came to
Speaker:his mind That's the kind of dads we're seeking and I think he guides you there
Speaker:in verse 4 then he talks to servants and masters This is something that's
Speaker:really specific to Paul's day, right?
Speaker:Because in the Greco Roman world like 20 percent of the population was in servitude
Speaker:of some kind it wasn't necessarily based on race it was just how their
Speaker:society and economy worked and Basically what his advice is is no matter which
Speaker:situation you're in Choose to be good.
Speaker:I like to this when you think back on Joseph in Egypt So remember the story
Speaker:of Joseph with his brothers and his brother Selim and he goes through all
Speaker:these different stages He's in Potiphar's house and he's a servant and he's in
Speaker:prison for a while And he's he's right next to Pharaoh for a while and no
Speaker:matter what circumstance he's in he's the same man He's the same, he has the same
Speaker:character, the same guideposts in his life, no matter what his situation is.
Speaker:In prison, he helps people by interpreting dreams.
Speaker:When he's finally out of prison, he helps people, he, when he's up on the
Speaker:throne and his brothers come and they don't recognize him and they ask for
Speaker:food, he helps them, he forgives them.
Speaker:He has the same heart, no matter what his circumstances are.
Speaker:And I think that's Paul's big message in this chapter.
Speaker:Whether you're a child, or a parent, or a servant, or a master, whatever
Speaker:your circumstances are, be good.
Speaker:Listen to the promptings that you're getting to come closer to Christ,
Speaker:and in your circumstances, no matter what they are, He can help you.
Speaker:The same way, no matter what Joseph's circumstances were, he
Speaker:could advance in his connection to God, and in his peace and his joy.
Speaker:That was not based on his circumstances.
Speaker:It was based on his focus.
Speaker:So that's, I think, where he's going.
Speaker:The second half of Ephesians 6 is the armor of God.
Speaker:And there's a lot of ways to read this.
Speaker:We cited this in the Doctrine and Covenants together.
Speaker:I particularly love this, reading it towards fathers.
Speaker:Maybe this is just my own bias, but I think when you read these verses
Speaker:and you think about a dad's hopes and goals to defend and protect his
Speaker:family, not just against physical things coming at them, but spiritual
Speaker:things that are coming at them.
Speaker:I just.
Speaker:Loved visuals that came to mind as I thought of this as guidance to fathers
Speaker:because he invites you in 11 Well in 10, he says finally my brethren
Speaker:be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might Put on the whole
Speaker:armor of God that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
Speaker:His invitation is to set down the armor of the world.
Speaker:Choose to walk away from what you think will make you strong and powerful
Speaker:and mighty, and instead choose to put on what the Lord recommends.
Speaker:And then he'll walk you through what those things are.
Speaker:So in 12, he says, For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but
Speaker:against principalities, against powers, against rulers of the
Speaker:darkness of this world, and against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Speaker:Wherefore, take unto you the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to withstand
Speaker:in the evil day, and having done all.
Speaker:to stand.
Speaker:This is his invitation to do what you can.
Speaker:You know, the same way we talk about Second Nephi and we say,
Speaker:like, after all you can do, grace may be saved after all you do.
Speaker:I think that's kind of the invitation here.
Speaker:He's saying, like, do all you can to armor yourself up with what God has
Speaker:offered you in this life with faith and righteousness and steadfastness and All
Speaker:those things that we're going to talk about when it associates with the armor.
Speaker:Put all that on and then turn to God and trust that he can take care of the rest.
Speaker:That he will fill the gaps in your armor as you try to
Speaker:defend and protect your family.
Speaker:This is what you need.
Speaker:So this is where he says in, uh, 14, he starts to break down
Speaker:the actual pieces of armor.
Speaker:Stand therefore having your loins girt about with truth and having on
Speaker:the breastplate of righteousness.
Speaker:And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace.
Speaker:Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all
Speaker:the fiery darts of the wicked, and take the helmet of salvation and the sword
Speaker:of the spirit, which is the word of God.
Speaker:He's asking you to take not a part of the armor.
Speaker:You don't need just a little bit here and there.
Speaker:You need the whole armor of God to protect and defend.
Speaker:In order to do that, you need to take it piece by piece and put it on there.
Speaker:You can go in the notes and learn more about each of these
Speaker:specific pieces of armor, but a few things I love about these, I.
Speaker:First off, I really love the reference to the fiery darts of the adversary.
Speaker:I think you see this in the Book of Mormon a couple times too.
Speaker:In fact, when I was teaching my YSAs, we were studying the Book of Mormon.
Speaker:We were talking about the fiery darts and we talked about why it's a dart, you
Speaker:know, like I, and I don't know the exact answer, but here's my interpretation.
Speaker:When I think about fiery darts, I think of You know in the Indiana Jones movies
Speaker:where they're, they'll be like this jungle background and these little tiny darts
Speaker:come out of nowhere and they'll hit like the back of their neck and they think
Speaker:it's a mosquito or something and they just like swat it away and they don't realize
Speaker:in the moment that there's like this poison coursing through their veins that's
Speaker:this slow moving poison and then within you know 10 or 20 steps they drop down.
Speaker:That's what I think of when I think of The fiery darts of the adversary.
Speaker:He's saying like the, I really feel like these are references to doubt,
Speaker:to despair, to discouragement, all those heavy tactics of the adversary
Speaker:that he tries to hit us with.
Speaker:And what his promises is, if you use the shield of faith, you can quench them.
Speaker:Meaning it's almost this.
Speaker:Antidote like property.
Speaker:When you use faith, when you build up your ability to believe in Christ
Speaker:and to actively move forward, then you are able to quench those darts.
Speaker:Almost like an inoculation of sorts, or an antidote that gets injected into
Speaker:you after you get those fiery darts of doubt and despair and discouragement.
Speaker:It is something that will...
Speaker:that will neutralize all those effects.
Speaker:I just think that's a powerful understanding because I don't think
Speaker:we can avoid all the fiery darts.
Speaker:I think the shield of faith helps us avoid a lot of them, but some will come out
Speaker:of nowhere and come out of left field.
Speaker:And as we continually increase our faith, we have this promise that it will quench
Speaker:whatever managed to get through our armor, whatever doubt or discouragement
Speaker:or despair worked its way into our heart.
Speaker:The promises as you increase in faith.
Speaker:It will be quenched by, by your faith.
Speaker:I just think there's power in that promise.
Speaker:I also really love where he goes next.
Speaker:First, he talks about the sword, you know, the only offensive weapon, like
Speaker:we talked about in the Doctrine and Covenants when we made those swords.
Speaker:I just think this is part of the reason why we made the Discipleship Dojo,
Speaker:because I really see the sword of truth as something that is That's the only
Speaker:offensive weapon the Savior needs and he has such a sharp sword that like
Speaker:a samurai he can like slice through.
Speaker:Remember when we were talking about his fruit ninja abilities to like
Speaker:slice through the lies or the hypocrisy or the false doctrine that You know,
Speaker:the scribes and the pharisees would throw at him, like, he could just
Speaker:slice through it with truth to the point where he didn't even seem fazed
Speaker:like a great samurai does in a movie.
Speaker:That's, that's his imitation.
Speaker:He's like, as a valiant man of God.
Speaker:And again, I think all these apply to women as well, but
Speaker:I love the visual of fathers.
Speaker:If you're trying to defend your family, what you need more than
Speaker:anything else is a sword of truth.
Speaker:You need to know the gospel, and you need to know it solidly, so that you can
Speaker:slice through all that is coming at you.
Speaker:I think that's his invitation, to be that kind of...
Speaker:Be that kind of valiant disciple of Christ who knows solidly what he believes
Speaker:and why so that he can slice through and then I Love what you get in 18
Speaker:because to me, this is the last piece of the armor He says praying always
Speaker:with all prayer and supplication in the spirit and watching thereunto with all
Speaker:perseverance and supplication for all Saints the last piece of armor similar
Speaker:to what we see with the stripling warriors and Captain Moroni when he puts
Speaker:on his armor and goes out to you know, share the title of Liberty he Praise.
Speaker:The sons of Helaman pray for help.
Speaker:All you can do is putting on all these parts, right?
Speaker:Putting on the breastplate of righteousness, holding up that sword
Speaker:of truth, doing all you can, and then you pray for him to fill the gaps.
Speaker:Wherever I am vulnerable, wherever I am weak, I need your help.
Speaker:Help me.
Speaker:What I love is the armor comes from God, too.
Speaker:So it's not like I got all this armor and did it myself and now
Speaker:I need God to fill in the gaps.
Speaker:What I'm saying is From you, I got all this strength.
Speaker:I got all this truth.
Speaker:I got all this understanding and this preparation.
Speaker:And now I also need you to fill in wherever I am still vulnerable.
Speaker:So they pray for help, and then they watch.
Speaker:In fact, at the end of 18 when he says, he watches with all perseverance
Speaker:and supplication for all saints.
Speaker:His stance is that once you've armored up and you've done all you can and you've
Speaker:prayed for help, you watch steadfastly.
Speaker:You don't take your eyes off the targets.
Speaker:You don't take your eyes off the perimeter.
Speaker:You watch, not just for yourself, but for all who are under your care.
Speaker:Don't you think that just feels like a dad, you know, or maybe
Speaker:a bishop, or like, that is...
Speaker:That is their posture.
Speaker:It's, I can picture that Captain Moroni type image of a man armored up in
Speaker:the strength of the Lord, praying for strength, and then watching steadfastly
Speaker:for anything that is coming our way.
Speaker:I just think there's power in that visual, and I love how it wraps up in 19.
Speaker:And for me, the utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly
Speaker:to make known the mystery of the gospel.
Speaker:Paul, I think, is that armored.
Speaker:Man, he is, his job is to defend these saints, to protect them from
Speaker:what is coming, and he is armored.
Speaker:He has gathered up all these pieces of armor, and he has prayed, and
Speaker:he is watchful, and now he will let them know what is on the horizon,
Speaker:and when they need to get ready, and how they need to prepare.
Speaker:That's his role as an apostle, and so he is, my visual for Paul is now different.
Speaker:You know, I picture him like a Captain Maroon.
Speaker:I picture him.
Speaker:As a vulnerable man in his mortal form, but armored up with.
Speaker:The strength of God and he promises that it will offer what you need.
Speaker:So in 23, Peace be to the brethren and the love with faith from God the
Speaker:Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Speaker:Grace be with all them that love our Lord Jesus Christ in sincerity.
Speaker:That's his promise.
Speaker:When you do all you can, when you've armored up, when you've prayed for
Speaker:help, when you watch steadfastly, you can have a position of peace.
Speaker:You can find rest as President Nelson promised.
Speaker:That's a pretty powerful promise to offer to those who are valiant saints of God.
Speaker:Welcome back, everybody.
Speaker:This is the creative side of week 40.
Speaker:So my goal here, like every week, is to give you three simple, meaningful ideas.
Speaker:So that you can tie the principles Paul's been teaching in the
Speaker:verses to our everyday life.
Speaker:And there's some cool ways to do that.
Speaker:I'm going to walk you through the preview for those of you who
Speaker:are watching on YouTube or maybe listening on the free podcast.
Speaker:And then if you're in the course, I'll take you through each one individually
Speaker:so that you know how to pull them off in your classes, in your kitchens,
Speaker:wherever you do these object lessons.
Speaker:I'll give you the tools, the printables, and the tips you need to.
Speaker:Pull that off.
Speaker:But let me give you an introduction.
Speaker:So you have an idea of where things could go as you're teaching.
Speaker:First off, since we're at the beginning of a new quarter this week, we are kicking
Speaker:things off with a focus on our goals.
Speaker:So once a quarter at the very beginning, we always touch on goals.
Speaker:Last time we talked about smash cubes.
Speaker:And this time I'm trying to add to that by giving you an additional tool.
Speaker:I really liked how Paul taught us about.
Speaker:How we are chosen by God.
Speaker:We are foreordained for great things.
Speaker:I think goals are one of the ways we actually accomplish that.
Speaker:What gets hard about goals is it's really hard to make time for what matters most.
Speaker:So the tools I'm providing are some printable planning sheets to help
Speaker:you take your kids ideas for their goals and then actually get them on
Speaker:the calendar, put them on their daily plans, their weekly plans, or their
Speaker:monthly plans, and help them figure out how they can actually accomplish them.
Speaker:So I'll walk you through that in just a second.
Speaker:The second one is the most delicious.
Speaker:So all three, we are going to make these awesome Halloween y caramel apples.
Speaker:Mostly because I just thought they sounded delicious and I wanted to do
Speaker:this with my kids, but also because I think they teach us something really
Speaker:cool about the atonement of Jesus Christ.
Speaker:This week, Paul's going to teach the people in the
Speaker:Ephesians that he's teaching.
Speaker:That they are going to change that this process of daily coming to Christ and
Speaker:setting down old habits and picking up new good ones, they change from being
Speaker:what they were to being so much better.
Speaker:And I actually think that's the exact same process that an apple goes through.
Speaker:You take something that's pretty good.
Speaker:Granny Smith apple.
Speaker:It's not bad.
Speaker:It's a little tart.
Speaker:It's not my favorite.
Speaker:But when you put it through this process of this covering and this coating,
Speaker:it becomes something so much better.
Speaker:So we're going to apply the two together and make these awesome
Speaker:Halloweeny apples at the same time.
Speaker:The third one is a game that you guys requested to come back.
Speaker:So since we're talking about the armor of God, again, like we did in the Doctrine
Speaker:and Covenants, I'm bringing back the game.
Speaker:It's been updated a little bit and tweaked for the New Testament, but
Speaker:This is a dice game that your kids are going to play all together.
Speaker:It is one of the most popular ones from the doctrine covenants course.
Speaker:Loads of you played it and loved it.
Speaker:The only thing you need to play this game is the printable itself, which will give
Speaker:you the box and all the cards inside.
Speaker:And then also dice.
Speaker:So you need eight colored dice for each player.
Speaker:For us, we use a Tenzi pack to get, you know, you'll have
Speaker:everything you need from that.
Speaker:If you don't have that many dice on hand, you could also play in teams and
Speaker:accomplish something really similar.
Speaker:You just need.
Speaker:eight colored dice for each team or each player that's playing, and
Speaker:then you'll be all set for that one.
Speaker:Gather your supplies, you guys, and let's get started.
Speaker:Thank you so much for being here, you guys.
Speaker:That is it for week 40.
Speaker:Thank you again for your kind words.
Speaker:I've had so many sweet comments on podcast reviews and course reviews
Speaker:and even comments on YouTube.
Speaker:Dorothy, if you're out there watching, just know I appreciate every
Speaker:single comment you make on YouTube.
Speaker:Thank you to those of you who've Who said kind things and ask good questions.
Speaker:I, I have thoroughly enjoyed reading them for those of you who
Speaker:have questions about this week.
Speaker:I hope you'll join me on Instagram.
Speaker:So Monday's at 10 a.
Speaker:m.
Speaker:Mountain time.
Speaker:I pop on for about an hour and we talk through some of the insights I couldn't
Speaker:quite fit into the podcast or just forgot to say, and then also talk through the
Speaker:object lessons in a little more detail.
Speaker:So if you have questions for tips and tricks on.
Speaker:How to melt your caramel or how to get that perfect mummy.
Speaker:Look, then come join me on Instagram and I'll walk you through it,
Speaker:but otherwise enjoy your week.
Speaker:You guys, I know this is, um, a lot to study.
Speaker:Six chapters can feel like a lot, but I think there's, there's richness there.
Speaker:If you need extra help, don't forget about the notes.
Speaker:There are.
Speaker:40 plus pages of notes that you can look through to figure out how to
Speaker:take these principles that Paul is teaching and filter them through
Speaker:the lens of modern revelation.
Speaker:On every point, I try to find a prophetic commentary of some kind from prophets,
Speaker:from apostles, from the women leaders of the church to help you understand
Speaker:these verses just a little bit better and see how they apply to our day.
Speaker:So hopefully that will help you.
Speaker:If you're looking for those, you can find those listed under both the insights video
Speaker:and the creative video in the course.
Speaker:It's a Google doc that will link you out so that you can.
Speaker:Link to all the talks and read them for yourselves, but
Speaker:hopefully that will help you.
Speaker:All right, you guys enjoy Ephesians and I will see you next week for week 41.