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If you find yourself stuck in.

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Overanalyzing over planning perfectionism, you know, unable to

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switch off, then you may be spending way too much time in your left brain.

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And I wanna talk about why high performers need more time in the right brain and

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why it matters for your performance.

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I'm gonna talk about why high performers need more right brain time access

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so you would've heard about right side, left side hemispheres of the brain

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and they serve different purposes.

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And I was watching this interview with, Jill Bolty Taylor on the Diary of a CEO.

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It was a really great interview and I've seen her before.

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And in fact, I love her.

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And she did a TED Talk many years ago and it's like one

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of my favorite TED Talks ever.

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She.

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Is a neuroanatomist who had a stroke and she lost the left side of her brain

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and she had a really amazing experience by losing the left side of her brain,

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that left side that is involved with planning and analyzing that left side

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that recognizes I am and who, you know, who you are, your identity.

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Uh, that can be, you know, stuck in overthinking and

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seriousness, but we use it to.

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To plan our lives, like we use it a lot.

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And she'd lost that left side of her brain.

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So she had only had access to the right side of her brain and she noticed quite

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amazing things by being in that place.

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So, you know, she was saying that the left brain is important because

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it helps us to be productive, but it also creates a lot of pressure.

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And today we spend most of our time, if not all of our time, in the left

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side of the brain, which is creating burnout, stress, depression, violence,

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and all the problems that we see today.

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So the left side of the brain is responsible for planning, for analyzing

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time, tracking productivity, identity.

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It's kind of me versus the world separation, problem solving

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to-do list and structure.

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So you can imagine that's, that is what we.

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Uh, kind of pushed into right productivity, being productive.

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I did a podcast earlier where I talked about why that's so outdated now

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because I think as we start to evolve as human beings, and maybe with AI

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coming in, taking off a lot of those tasks from us, we have this potential

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now to spend more time in the right brain and why that matters, right?

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As you can imagine, it's important to be balanced.

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And when we are lopsided with using one area of the brain, of course

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we're gonna be in states of stress.

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Of course, we're gonna be in burnout, of course, we're

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gonna be unhappy with our life.

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We're spending all of our time in one side of the brain, which is

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never what we were designed to do.

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So here are some of the signs that you're stuck in left brain

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overdrive, and I think you might recognize some of these overthinking

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that constant problem solving mind.

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You've constantly got something to work out.

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You're feeling rushed, you're feeling pressured.

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You can't relax, you can't switch off.

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You're a perfectionist.

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You've got a very loud inner critic.

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You have difficulty accessing your intuition or your gut feeling, so you're

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really someone that goes to the thinking mind instead of your gut feeling.

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You feel disconnected from joy, you're not feeling joy, or you're

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not able to experience the moment and find the pleasure in the

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moment you feel like you're living in your head and not your life.

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You're burnt out and you're too serious.

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Right?

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Seriousness is an issue of left brain overdrive.

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So that's a left brain.

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What does the right brain give us?

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Because it's completely different, right?

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And this is a missing piece for women who are feeling really stretched

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because it would make sense logically when we are in the left brain to

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say, okay, I have so much to do.

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I need to be really productive to get it all done.

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Whereas the right brain.

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Is not about being productive, but the right brain is essential for helping us to

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get a lot more done with a lot more ease.

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Than anything else, the, for women who are feeling stretched, the right brain

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delivers that calm, that emotional regulation, the creativity, the

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intuition, that big picture vision.

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We feel peace, we feel joy, we feel connected, right?

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We can play, we have flow, embodiment, all those really nice.

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feelings that, we should be feeling on a daily basis and after we don't, right?

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We're caught up in the pressure and the urgency and the rush.

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Okay?

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So these feelings from the right brain are very important for

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nourishing, but they're also important for to move us through life.

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So being in the right brain can feel like you've got lots of time.

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Right.

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You can be in the moment.

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You're not thinking about the next one.

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You're not feeling rushed.

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Things aren't urgent.

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You've got capacity.

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You've got bandwidth, right?

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You've got lots of creativity, a lot of ideas.

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Without trying to force it or brainstorm it, you're

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emotionally, emotionally regulated.

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You've got a lot of energy.

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You've got that sense of connection with others.

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With the environment, with nature, you're seeing the possibility

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instead of the problems.

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And why does this matter?

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Okay, these are all nice feelings.

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Of course, we wanna feel calm in all of those things, but it's important

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because it helps you to expand your bandwidth, expand your capacity, your

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adaptability, your resilience, right?

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Your new, your intuition, which is a key for leadership and

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just life decisions, right?

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Lifesaving decisions is what?

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Intuition is key for.

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Creativity and emotional regulation.

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Important for our relationship.

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Important for our business, important for leadership.

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So with all that said, how do you access your right brain?

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Okay, so I guess it's completely opposite to the left.

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The right brain is when you slow down your pace, when you're not rushed,

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because when you are forcing the timeline, you are in left brain dominance.

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It's when you get into your body.

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Anything that, any kind of movement or breath work or sensations

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that help you to get into your body is a right brain dominance.

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Anything that you, where you are creative or you're playing, like drawing,

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dancing, uh, cooking, gardening, all of these are right brain activities.

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Being in nature, that should be the number one, right?

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That is a hundred percent a right brain activity, right?

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There is something that happens to us in nature.

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If you ever go hiking or for a bush walk, you'll notice that you just feel such

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a sense of connection, such a sense of calm, so switched off from everything

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that's going on in the other part of your world or in the left brain, right?

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So being in nature helps us to shift into right brain dominance.

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When we have deeper connection with people, we have, we spend

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time with our loved ones, with our family, with our friends.

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We have deep conversations.

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We connect with others and joy and humor, they should be pretty obvious.

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When we are laughing, we're doing things that bring us joy

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or we feel joy in the moment.

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So, like I said, when we spend more time in the right brain, it seems like being

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out in nature or drawing or dancing is not gonna help us in our leadership

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role or in our business, but you have to see what the right brain brings,

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So with bandwidth and capacity and intuition and creativity, those are the

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building blocks for our relationships.

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For our leadership and for our business.

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Right?

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It's not so much the thinking left brain that's so analytical because that

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part of our brain is only accessing the information that we've used before, right?

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It only goes back in the past and pulls up what we've done already.

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Whereas the right brain will give us access to ideas that

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we've never come up with before.

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You know, it'll help us to be more creative in areas that we.

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Never seen before.

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Right?

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So it gives us a whole new, uh, fresh thinking, whole new ideas, right?

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A whole new capacity.

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And so in order for us to evolve and grow and, you know, reach our highest

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potential and be better than yesterday, is like we need better thinking.

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We need higher level thinking.

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And that's what we are getting from the right.

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So one of the things that I've seen for myself, and I know you would

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have, is that for high performers, they fall into this trap of using

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their left brain for everything.

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And now you may be using chat GBT for everything, right?

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Still left brain.

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It's not right brain.

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Okay.

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The overanalyzing, using logic to solve your problems that are actually

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emotional or need creativity.

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Maybe you're using productivity that to solve problems that require

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presence or strategy to solve problems that require intuition.

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So like I said.

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We fall into this trap and we operate from this place, but there

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is so much more for us with this right brain access that we have.

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As Jill Baldy Taylor said, it gives us so much, so much of a better

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experience of our work and our families and our relationships when

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we spend more time in the right brain.

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So really, uh, for a lot of women who are burnt out, who are stretched

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thin, like I said, it looks like, well, I didn't have enough time.

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I need to be super productive in the time that I have.

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And so.

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90% of their life is this really analytical, task driven,

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stressed, left brain, right?

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It creates all of our stress, creates that urgency and that pressure, and it

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looks like it's a time problem, but it's really a consciousness problem, You spend

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more time in the right brain, you get bigger ideas, better ideas, faster way

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to do things that help us to move along much faster without all the burnout.

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So leave a comment below.

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Do you recognize that you're in left brain overdrive?

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Do you spend most of your time there?

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And what do you think about when I talk about the right brain, does

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it sound like a nice to have or can you see how it's essential?

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Leave me a comment below.