Every time I experience envy of another business owner doing something like working fewer hours or being a digital nomad in Bali, I remind myself, you're self employed.
Samantha HartleyYou can do whatever you want.
Samantha HartleyThat's why today I'm preparing to leave on an indefinite sabbatical.
Samantha HartleyIf you've ever wondered what's a sabbatical and how do I get me one of those, this episode is for you.
Samantha HartleyWelcome to Profitable Joyful Consulting where you'll discover how to multiply your revenues without exhaustion working with pro perfect clients on transformational engagements.
Samantha HartleyI'm your host, Samantha Hartley.
Samantha HartleyIf you're a woman consultant ready to increase your profits and enjoy your business more, you're in the right place.
Samantha HartleyHi, this is Samantha with the finale of season 20.
Samantha HartleyOver the years, I've talked about dozens of topics related to being a profitable and joyful consultant.
Samantha HartleyNuts and bolts like marketing, sales and delivering work to clients, and also the important mindset work that's required to sustain yourself in self employment.
Samantha HartleyAnd that's where sabbatical comes in.
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Samantha HartleyAs I often do, I'm sharing an assignment, a journal prompt, and an affirmation for you.
Samantha HartleySo spend the next few minutes with me.
Samantha HartleyI once heard a fellow business owner talk about taking a sabbatical.
Samantha HartleyIt was the kind of thing that I knew was too soon for me, but I definitely felt a little bookmark activate in my brain.
Samantha HartleyThat'll be me someday, I thought.
Samantha HartleyIf you're a growth oriented person like me, and we both know you are, you are accustomed to being in an almost constant state of transition.
Samantha HartleyTransition feels like being in a place of no longer and not yet.
Samantha HartleyThe things that used to work for us don't anymore, but the things that are going to don't yet.
Samantha HartleyIt's a really uncomfortable place.
Samantha HartleyBut if you're going to be a growth oriented person, and we both know you are, it's important to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Samantha HartleyWhen women consultants first come to me, they are in this place.
Samantha HartleyThey've gotten to some amazing accomplishments in their businesses, but their vision of how they really want it to be has remained elusive.
Samantha HartleyA couple weeks ago, a client shared with me that she was earning $11,000 a month when she hired me.
Samantha HartleyAlmost two years later, it's now over 50,000.
Samantha HartleyThat kind of thing is hard to do on your own.
Samantha HartleyMore often, female founders come to me doing between 200 and 500,000 a year.
Samantha HartleyBut unsustainably, they know that what got them here won't get them there.
Samantha HartleyThey're also working just about as hard as humanly possible, so they know that doubling down on the work isn't the answer.
Samantha HartleyAnd that takes me back to my first sabbatical.
Samantha HartleyAn unintentional one.
Samantha HartleyI can choose to call it that now, but really it was a one year detox that was required after I left corporate.
Samantha HartleyMy work there was extremely unfulfilling and the culture was typical corporate.
Samantha HartleyBy the time I finally left on what was intended to be a leave of absence but turned out to be forever, my physical and mental health were in real danger.
Samantha HartleyI spent that year healing in therapy, working with a physical trainer, taking classes in literature, art history, and something called life goals from the adult education program at Emory University.
Samantha HartleyI met up with a college buddy I hadn't seen in several years.
Samantha HartleyHe's my husband now.
Samantha HartleyBy the time I was getting serious about my job search, former colleagues from corporate contacted me to come and consult for them.
Samantha HartleyAnd that was the launch of my consulting career.
Samantha HartleyMy second, also unintentional sabbatical was in 2013, when we moved halfway across the country.
Samantha HartleyThat big physical transition was accompanied by my realizing that the massive growth I'd experienced in my business wasn't sustainable.
Samantha HartleyWell, the growth might be, but the way of working wasn't.
Samantha HartleyFor months, again, I rested.
Samantha HartleyMoving to a place as remote as an island meant I wouldn't see in person clients regularly anymore.
Samantha HartleyLuckily, I had built a remote business.
Samantha HartleySo what changed was transitioning those who'd stayed with me to remote only that one change meant I had no negative financial impacts from the pandemic on my business.
Samantha HartleySo if those were unintentional sabbaticals, what's an intentional one?
Samantha HartleyLiterally, a sabbatical is a rest or break from work.
Samantha HartleyYou can hear the word Sabbath or Shabbat in it, and we associate the Sabbath with the idea of resting every seventh day.
Samantha HartleyBut it's also related to Shemitah, the idea of leaving fields fallow every seven years so the soil can rest and renew.
Samantha HartleyIn past episodes, I've talked about allowing yourself fallow time during the year, often during the winter months, while others are jumping up and raring to go on January 1st.
Samantha HartleyI usually find myself taking it easy until the start of Spring and March.
Samantha HartleyI'll talk more about that in a minute.
Samantha HartleyTo be all you can be as a consultant, business owner and growth oriented person, it's important to know how you function best and provide yourself with everything you need.
Samantha HartleyRecognizing when you work best, how much rest you need Giving your inner child the tools to be creative and to flourish Protecting yourself from energy vampires and ensuring that clients, team members and colleagues align as perfect fits for your gifts and growth earlier this year I heard the call to take a sabbatical for a change.
Samantha HartleyA huge change.
Samantha HartleyI'm not burned out.
Samantha HartleyInstead, the next iteration of my work and life is coming through to me in divine downloads.
Samantha HartleyBut I can't hear what it is with all the activity around me.
Samantha HartleySo I'm taking a hiatus from everything except my one on one clients.
Samantha HartleyWhile I would love to tell you and I would love to know what the ultimate future is, that's not how the universe works.
Samantha HartleyWe are on a need to know basis from the universe.
Samantha HartleyI was once told in a download.
Samantha HartleyOur job is to know our next step and take it.
Samantha HartleyI don't know how long the sabbatical will last, so I'm calling it indefinite.
Samantha HartleyThis is a creative sabbatical for me, which is also necessarily about spiritual connection.
Samantha HartleyI don't have a specific project to pursue during this time, like writing a book, which many people do while on sabbatical.
Samantha HartleyWhat I'm clear I'll be doing is two Immersing myself in creativity and nothing as an enneagram three and a modern woman in the west slowing down and doing nothing is actually much harder than getting 20 things done during the day.
Samantha HartleyNowadays, business owners are also marketers, and marketers are necessarily content creators.
Samantha HartleyEverything in our businesses and much of what happens in our lives ends up being content for consumption by our target audiences.
Samantha HartleyIt's important for our health and well being to have parts of our lives that are for ourselves only.
Samantha HartleyCreative output made for its own sake and not for any audience's.
Samantha HartleyI'm deeply aware of the privilege that allows me to take an indefinite sabbatical.
Samantha HartleyI recognize both the decades of hard work I've invested in building a sustainable business and the advantages of race, class and societal structures that have supported this path.
Samantha HartleyI'm also fortunate to have an incredible family and community who stand by me offering everything I need at every step.
Samantha HartleySo what about you?
Samantha HartleyWhere in your life do you need rest and renewal?
Samantha HartleyRemember that I took two long breaks from my business due to burnout and illness.
Samantha HartleyYou don't want to wait until you're forced to take this time.
Samantha HartleyIf stepping back from almost everything feels impossible, here are some thoughts.
Samantha HartleyCan you realistically plan for a sabbatical at some point in the future?
Samantha HartleyWhat's the longest duration that feels possible for you?
Samantha HartleyIt can be difficult to spontaneously take time away, but page through your calendar and see if there isn't an unbooked week maybe six months from now that you can plan for yourself and look forward to.
Samantha HartleyAre you honoring the concept of a Sabbath in your own business?
Samantha HartleyDo you make sure to rest completely rest at least once a week?
Samantha HartleyHow about an unplugged day?
Samantha HartleyWriter Elizabeth Gilbert mentioned recently on a podcast that she does phone free Thursdays, which I'm going to try out.
Samantha HartleyAnd lastly, do you make time for a rest and renewal within each workday?
Samantha HartleyTime to step outside a few minutes for meditation, prayer or journaling?
Samantha HartleySchedule yourself as you would an employee you value and care about.
Samantha HartleyShe doesn't thrive when she's over scheduled back to back meetings drain her life force.
Samantha HartleyHelp her to rest and renew each day, week and month.
Samantha HartleySo here's your assignment.
Samantha HartleyLook at your calendar for the next year.
Samantha HartleyFind a time period that could be a candidate for your personal sabbatical again.
Samantha HartleyMake it far enough in the future that you can prepare your business, your family and yourself to take it.
Samantha HartleyAnd consider adding weekly and daily breaks too.
Samantha HartleyA journal prompt.
Samantha HartleyThink about the last time you returned to work truly refreshed and excited.
Samantha HartleyWhat made that feeling possible?
Samantha HartleyAnd finally, an affirmation Sometimes the most productive thing I can do is rest.
Samantha HartleySometimes the most productive thing I can do is rest.
Samantha HartleyThank you lovely listener for your attention.
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