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These are not more spiritual, less spiritual,

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they're ways for human beings to deal with understanding their lives and the

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meaning and their relationship to the cosmos.

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In my early twenties, 20, 21, 22,

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I was fascinated by comparative religion and philosophy.

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I was interested really since I was 17, about wanting to be a teacher,

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at 18 I wanted to master my life,

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and then I realized that there were seven areas of life, spiritual, mental,

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career, financial, family, social and physical areas of life.

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I wanted to master them all. But one of them was the spiritual path.

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And so that led me to study comparative philosophy and religion.

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And I literally went and found encyclopedias with a list of every form of

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religion,

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anybody that had 50,000 followers or more that were some sort of kind of cult to

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a religious understanding,

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I studied those and looked for common threads and differences

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and went to various churches and synagogues and temples and mosques,

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you name it, I was just curious, what is this thing that's called spirituality.

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And I found yogis and mystics and all different types and

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Buddhists and <laugh>.

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I had the opportunity to get an exploration of pretty well 3000 different

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religious organizations.

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3000 different religions I studied somehow through the encyclopedia of religions

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or individually going and traveling the world and interacting with people.

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And one thing I found that was a bit shocking to some people who were involved

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in a very particular religion is that it's all spiritual.

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I want everybody to write that down. It's all spiritual.

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Now,

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there was a very interesting thing because sometimes spirituality is associated

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with some sort of deification or deity and God.

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And if you study the evolution of God's,

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the anthropomorphic gods that they've had,

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you'll see that they're basically personifications

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personification of rain or thunder or lightning or light or the moon or the sun

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or behavior or animals that were attacking us or saving us.

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And you go and look at the entire evolution from animistic to

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shamanistic to the mystic,

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to eventually you get into metaphysics and philosophy,

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and then you eventually get into science, and then you get into mathematics,

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you'll see the entire evolution of the brain developing.

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And, but all of it has been part of the spiritual quest,

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from plants to animals, to humans, to all the above,

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you know, geomorphic stelas and stones and huacas

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and anthropomorphic deities of humans and zoomorphic animals.,

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they've all been worshiped and all appreciated and it's all been spiritual.

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And a lot of those older systems have gone extinct and they're not used so much

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anymore.

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There's a lot more gods that are gone than there are around if you want to use

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that. But, I've been fascinated by all that.

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And I realized that it's an expression of the human brain.

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And I started looking at how the amygdala,

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the subcortical areas of the brain and the executive center of the brain are

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involved in different religious understandings.

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And I looked at transmitters and regulators and different

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when you magnetically stimulate them on the cortex you literally can create

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religious experiences.

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So I just want to make a first statement that it's all spiritual.

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I define spirituality as that which inspires the individual. Now,

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I found out that some people were inspired by raising a beautiful family and

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children, and that was their spiritual path. Others running a great business,

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that was their spiritual path. Others intellectual pursuits,

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I had dinner with a neurologist the other day,

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his life has been neurology and he's an academic and he's,

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it's just his love and that's what inspires him and his spiritual path.

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And some people are actually religious and spiritual and they fall into some,

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you know, organized religious idea. That's spiritual.

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I see some people that want to grow wealth and they're inspired by creating

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massive companies and build fortunes. That's spiritual.

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I remember having a lady that came to me one time and she says, Dr. Demartini,

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what do you do when you have a husband that's not spiritual and you're dedicated

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to spirituality? And I said, I said when you say spirituality,

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what do you mean? And she says, Well, I do meditation, I do yoga,

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and I chant. And I read spiritual books. And I said,

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That's interesting. What does your husband do? Well,

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he owns an IT company in computers. And I said, And does he have employees?

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Yeah, he's got 200 employees. Does he have a global company? Yes,

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he has stuff that sells all over the world. And I said,

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So what you're saying is that he's inspired by his business? Yes.

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And he goes to work and he goes and helps people have jobs and helps people

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create families,

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and raise families and contribute to taxes and do something that's actually

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meaningful and serving millions of people with products? She goes, Yes.

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But that's not spiritual? Said, Well, no, he's into material things.

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He's focused on business and money. And I said, So are you working?

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And she goes, No.

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So is that money that he's doing and providing you a way so you can go and

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contemplate your naval and sit there and chant? She goes, Well, I guess. I said,

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Why is yours more spiritual if you're depending on his,

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why not just see all of it spiritual?

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And I got her to make a realization that that just because she's now fit

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into this little box that some people call spirituality,

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doesn't mean it's limited to that.

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The guy that's going in inspired by his work and making a difference in the

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world is just as spiritual as anybody else. Even if we,

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I like Guru Nanak from the Sikh movement who said you know,

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if you can tell me where God isn't, I'll point my feet there.

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It's an old story about being at Mecca, that Guru Nanak described.

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Now we go around and we say that we have an omnipresent divinity,

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and it's omniscient and omnipotent,

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and we use those terms and then we go around and say but it's not there,

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even though it's supposedly everywhere. You know,

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point your finger where the spirit isn't.

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I'm a firm believer that you can be inspired.

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Everybody's got a unique set of values and you can be inspired by whatever

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inspires you. I'm inspired by teaching and learning. I research, write,

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travel and teach, other people go, Well,

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that's a nut I would never want that life.

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They're uninspired looking at my life. Other people look at me and go, God,

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I wish I had that vitality and go.

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My spiritual path is researching and understanding human behavior and going out

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and sharing whatever it is that helps maximize human beings. That inspires me.

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That's my spiritual path.

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But that's not more spiritual than your spiritual path or less spiritual,

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you know, it's what inspires you. And we sometimes, again,

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we create anthropomorphic deities and we personify nature,

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personify the sun and make that a god or moon and make that a god or stars or

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galaxies. In the Vedic texts,

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sometimes they describe Brahma is the center of the galaxy and Krishna may be

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the sun. They've symbolized it that way. These are not more spiritual,

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less spiritual,

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they're ways for human beings to deal with understanding their lives and the

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meaning and their relationship to the cosmos. And if you look very carefully,

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we study religions, many of them were influenced by Aristotle,

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The Abrahamic religions, the Judaism, Christianity,

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and Islam had lots of influence by Aristotle.

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And Aristotle was living under the geocentric model that Plato had used and

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Anaximander had used and eventually Ptolemy had used.

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And that was revolutionized by Copernicus and centuries later,

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and then it went to more of a solar and then it finally a Milky way model

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and then it's now it's a vast cosmic big bang model,

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and now the models that we had that are spirituality there were just

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stages of awareness.

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So we don't want to get stagnant about something that's gone in the past.

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We want to keep evolving and keep growing and keep understanding and keep,

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you know, living congruently with what we value most if we want spirituality.

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So I'm a firm believer that it's all spiritual <laugh>.

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Because what somebody makes is a heaven,

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somebody else makes as a hell as John Milton said, you know, one person's,

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you know, poison is another person's food. So what inspires me?

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I have people that look at me and go, you know, I've had people come in says,

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Well, you're not spending time with your family. Well,

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they're projecting family onto me. And I go, Well, that's true.

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I'm dedicated to my work and I see my family and maybe less than you do,

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but your highest value is doing that, that's what inspires you. So they think,

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well I'm not spiritual cause I'm not doing what they think.

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Anytime we're out of our executive center and in our amygdala,

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our subcortical area,

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we tend to be addicted to our in-group bias and we tend to be proud and we tend

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to project onto other people that what they should be doing, ought to be doing,

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need to be doing, got to be doing, have to be doing, but must be doing.

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And then what we do is we think,

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well somehow ours is more spiritual than theirs and then we label them not

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spiritual or something. And this is illusion. It's all spiritual. If we study,

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there's no universally ascended value system ever found in science.

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So there's no right value system out there.

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Everybody thinks theirs is right and they give power to some book,

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or they give power to some leader or some authority or some research project.

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But these are just artificial.

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The universe has got all those things out there and point your finger in the

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universe that's not part of a higher ordered system, I don't know.

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I think that we'd be wiser to go and dig deeper and get broader and have a broad

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more overview effect and see things neither positive or negative than it is to

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be caught in a real rigid idea that things are, these are positive or negative,

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and get trapped in fundamental and isolated, you know,

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intolerant states of mind. Spirituality is basically all of the above.

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But if we sit down and we're not seeing the whole,

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we're being exclusive instead of inclusive,

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we're not going to maximize our potential and we're not going to inspire and

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exemplify a path of inspiration to other people. You know,

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Einstein said to me in his writings when I was 18,

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that the greatest teachers exemplification.

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To exemplify a spiritual path is to go through and do what you really love.

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And when you're doing something you're really inspired by and love that you

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can't wait to do it and you're grateful for your life, gratitude. Even the pope,

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Pope

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John Paul said that it was basically gratitude that was heaven and ingratitude

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was hell. I think if we look at our life, when we're ungrateful life is hell,

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and when we're grateful, life is heavenly. And again,

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we can turn and have something become hellish or heavenly in a matter of a

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second. So we can basically go in and out. And there's no one thing that said,

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this is it for everybody. So I'm a firm believer that there's,

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it's all spiritual <laugh>.

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And I teach a program called The Breakthrough Experience.

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And in there I've developed a methodology I've working on for 50 years called

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the Demartini Method. And I've had people come in there and they think,

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well this tragedy, this turmoil, this terrible, this traumatic,

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this torturous event has occurred in their life. And I go,

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Is it really a torturous event or is it an event?

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All events are neutral until somebody comes along with a subjective biases,

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makes a heaven or a hell out of it. They'll say, Well,

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but this thing happened to me. And I go, Okay, so what's the benefit? Well,

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how could it be benefit, it's bad. I said, According to who? Well,

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it's what I've been taught. So everything that somebody tells you is, is so?

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You know, Paul Dirac, the Nobel Prize winner said,

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It's not that we don't know so much, we know so much that it isn't so.

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We're bombarded by a bunch of belief systems that not necessarily great

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universal truths. So I said, This is a terrible event.

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Now what's the benefit to it? Well, I don't know. Well look.

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And then they start digging it and they find the upsides to what they thought

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there were downsides and they realize that they were thinking it was terrible

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because they were conscious of the downsides, unconscious of the upsides.

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They were not fully conscious.

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And most people think spirituality is full consciousness.

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But if you all of a sudden have a bias interpretation and you're in your

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amygdala and you're basically subjectively bias and you're in survival mode,

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you can skew things and see only one side of them be conscious of the downsides,

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not conscious of the upsides, and then think it's terrible.

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And then the fantasy of the opposite of that is now spiritual.

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And many people create fantasies of spirituality instead of the whole.

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And I try to help people realize that no matter what goes on in their life,

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if you see both sides of it, you can center yourself,

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you come to a state of gratitude, be objective and more resilient and neutral,

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and then all of a sudden you're back on the flow.

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It's nothing to do with what's out there. It's your perception,

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decision and action, which you have control over.

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You have control over your sensory neurons, interneurons and motor neurons.

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You can take whatever's happened and turn a heaven or hell out of it.The

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dialogues of Plato addressed that in his time 2,325 years ago,

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he was doing dialogues and showing people,

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spinning things with cognitive reappraisals from

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making a good or a bad out of it to show them that it's neither,

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it's just what they're choosing to see.

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And if you see that there's nothing but love, well then you got to,

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then you realize it's all spiritual.

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They are no events out there that are positive or negative until we choose to

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make them so. And one person's heaven is another person's hell.

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I've seen people go out and kill people because they think that they're

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terrorists. And then,

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but the people that were the family of that individual thought,

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well they were the father. They labeled him papa,

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and then they got killed and we labeled him a terrorist.

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And we sit there and go,

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Well these are just illusions of just biases that we get caught in.

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It's all spiritual, it's all basically love.

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I I teach people in the Breakthrough Experience there's nothing but love,

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all else is illusion. At first they don't understand it.

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But I have to redefine love.

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Most people think love is basically an infatuation and hate is its opposite.

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But love is a synthesis and synchronicity of all possible opportunities and all

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possible opposites out there.

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When you realize that they always come together as a pair,

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as Heraclitus and Parmenides described and Hegel described,

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you realize that there is nothing but love and that's why it's all spiritual.

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And you can take an event.

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I've had thousands of people come to the Breakthrough Experience,

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take an event they thought was terrible in a matter of minutes to hours,

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turn into a point of tears of gratitude,

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and realize that that was the turning point of my life. I made decisions,

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I met these people, I got these opportunities.

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And then they realized that that wasn't a terrible event after all.

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And the same thing on this thing that they think is terrific,

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there's downsides to it. To bring them back into balance, to see both sides.

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How you going to have a balanced physiology and a

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imbalanced mind? Even Pythagorus said that in his times 2,600 years ago nearly,

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he was basically saying that a balanced mind is what's wellness and an

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imbalanced mind is illness. Well, a balanced mind is also one that's grateful.

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An imbalanced mind is one that's basically trying to change others relative to

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you or you relative to others, and judging it.

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As Empedocles said 2,500 years ago, there's love and there's strife.

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And that really inside the strife is pairs of opposites.

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If you can see them simultaneously as Parmenides described, there's love.

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There was nothing but love and it's a synthesis of opposites.

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So it's basically all spiritual as far as I'm concerned.

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I've taken people through in the Breakthrough Experience

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thing. I always say, there's nothing the mortal body can experience,

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the immortal soul, the state of unconditional love, can't love.

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And if you have anything in your life that basically has been challenging to

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you, turmoil, terrible, tragedy, you know,

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you play victim of history over, you don't have to stay there.

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It's simply asking the right questions,

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the quality of your life's based on the quality of the questions you ask.

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If you ask amazing questions,

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you can turn that experience into something amazing.

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And then use it as fuel instead of baggage.

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Running your story and running your racket and blaming some

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false attribution bias out there as the thing is the cause of all your problems

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is never going to empower you. Even Epictetus, the Greek philosopher said,

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first you blame others, then you blame yourself,

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and then you finally come to a deeper realization there's nothing to blame,

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there's a hidden order there.

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I'd much rather go to that level and help people get to that so they can realize

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it's all spiritual, it's all something that's worth being inspired over.

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If you can take whatever happens in your life and you can find out how it's

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helping you fulfill what's most meaningful to you,

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you have no reason to be on anything but say thank you.

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It's all part of the perfection of it.

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But if all of a sudden you're sitting there and you're labeling it something

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because you're choosing not to see the other side,

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that's where the Demartini Method at the Breakthrough Experience comes in.

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Because I help you ask questions to make you cognizant of things you're

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unconscious of to make you fully conscious so you can love again.

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And liberate yourself from the baggage and bondage of the things of lopsided

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perception, which occupies space and time in your mind and runs your life.

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Everything you in infatuate or resent runs your mind and it reverberates in the

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mind is noise and it causes entropy in the body and it breaks you down.

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Most of the illness are epigenetic expressions of autonomics,

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which are a result of misperceptions and imbalances of perception and false

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moral hypocrisy labels that we posed on people. As a result of that,

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or on events. Once we balance those, we liberate,

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and then we realize there was a hidden order in the chaos.

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And helping people find the hidden order in the chaos is what inspires me.

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Helping people see the magnificence of their life and that it's all part of a

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spiritual path. It's all part of it.

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Everything is a feedback mechanism to guide you to your most authentic self,

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your essential self, your soul.

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If you want to use the theological language for it.

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Or if you want to call it the executive center neurologically.

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Or you want to call it the systems 2 thinking where you're most aware and most,

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you know, thinking before reacting, whatever you want to call it,

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they all work as far as I'm concerned. I can go in and out of philosophical,

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theological, scientific, psychological languages for the same thing,

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but it's all spiritual.

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And giving yourself permission to see that is a very liberating state.

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And knowing how to ask the questions to wake that up is extremely powerful.

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I've been doing it for many years.

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I've taught the Breakthrough Experience 1157 times. I've done it in many,

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many countries around the world, many thousands of people.

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I'm absolutely certain it can make a difference in your life and help you be

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inspired and grateful and have a spiritual experience.

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There's nothing in our life that we can't actually turn into a spiritual

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experience if we know how to ask the right questions.

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And that's where I teach you that in the Breakthrough Experience.

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So if you'd like to prioritize your life and live by your highest value where

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you have the most resilience, adaptability, and objectivity,

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where you have the least amount of emotional baggage and the most amount of

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gratitude.

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If you like to learn how to take whatever experience you've had in turn them

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back into something you can be grateful for and see the spiritual pathway,

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come to the Breakthrough Experience.

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Let me share the tools that I've been developing over the last 50 years that I

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know will make a difference because it works.

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I've made it as much of a science as I can to reproduce it, duplicate it,

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transfer it,

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I've got thousands of other people trained and using it out there and helping

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people,

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there's no reason why you couldn't come and go and learn that and put that into

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your life and get yourself an advantage.

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In the Breakthrough Experience I ask people at the end

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How many of you learned something this weekend you could have gone your entire

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life and never learned if you hadn't have been here? Every hand goes up.

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How many of you now know you have a tool to take no matter what happens in your

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life and transform it into something to be grateful for? The hands go up.

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How many of you realize that there is nothing but love now,

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all else was an illusion? The hands go up.

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So if you would like to have that awareness and be

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and overview instead of an underview and not a narrow mind,

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but a broader state of awareness and see how spirituality is universal,

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then come to the Breakthrough Experience. I'm certain it can make a difference.

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I'm going to spend 24,

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25 hours with you doing everything I can to help you see that realization.

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I've been working since I was 18 years old and finding the hidden order in

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apparent chaos, particularly in human behavior,

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studying physics and chemistry and quantum mechanics, you name every form,

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psychology, philosophy, physiology, neurology,

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everything I've been able to do to summarize and

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information to deliver something to you that you can be able to say thank you

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for, and something that can transform your life. So if you,

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for some reason are caught in the idea that spirituality is this thing in this

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particular book or it's this particular ritual,

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or this particular person or this particular guru,

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get out of the box and let's open up the doorway to seeing a bigger picture.

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Somewhere in the future, in the next hundred to 200 years,

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we're going to be traveling in other different parts of the solar system,

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habiting space,

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going off and living on possible moons and maybe the moon itself or maybe Mars

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or Jupiter's moons or Saturn's moons, maybe eventually interstellar.

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The stuff we call spirituality here is a stepping stone.

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Don't let it become a stumbling block. Come to the Breakthrough Experience.

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Let me help broaden that,

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prepare you for the future instead of holding you into the past.

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Don't get caught in some dogmatic narrow minded idea of what spirituality is and

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lopside your perceptions with polarized moral hypocrisies,

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and give yourself permission to put it the big picture together.

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All of that is a necessary part of, wherever you have that's the narrow,

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you end up with somebody playing the opposite.

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All pairs of opposites are playing together to show the hidden order in life.

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So no matter where you are, you're all part of the spirituality,

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but you might as well become aware of it consciously,

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and not be caught in the the polarities.

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So that was my little presentation, Come to the Breakthrough Experience.

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you can see that there's nothing but love, all else is illusion.

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