These are not more spiritual, less spiritual,
Speaker:they're ways for human beings to deal with understanding their lives and the
Speaker:meaning and their relationship to the cosmos.
Speaker:In my early twenties, 20, 21, 22,
Speaker:I was fascinated by comparative religion and philosophy.
Speaker:I was interested really since I was 17, about wanting to be a teacher,
Speaker:at 18 I wanted to master my life,
Speaker:and then I realized that there were seven areas of life, spiritual, mental,
Speaker:career, financial, family, social and physical areas of life.
Speaker:I wanted to master them all. But one of them was the spiritual path.
Speaker:And so that led me to study comparative philosophy and religion.
Speaker:And I literally went and found encyclopedias with a list of every form of
Speaker:religion,
Speaker:anybody that had 50,000 followers or more that were some sort of kind of cult to
Speaker:a religious understanding,
Speaker:I studied those and looked for common threads and differences
Speaker:and went to various churches and synagogues and temples and mosques,
Speaker:you name it, I was just curious, what is this thing that's called spirituality.
Speaker:And I found yogis and mystics and all different types and
Speaker:Buddhists and <laugh>.
Speaker:I had the opportunity to get an exploration of pretty well 3000 different
Speaker:religious organizations.
Speaker:3000 different religions I studied somehow through the encyclopedia of religions
Speaker:or individually going and traveling the world and interacting with people.
Speaker:And one thing I found that was a bit shocking to some people who were involved
Speaker:in a very particular religion is that it's all spiritual.
Speaker:I want everybody to write that down. It's all spiritual.
Speaker:Now,
Speaker:there was a very interesting thing because sometimes spirituality is associated
Speaker:with some sort of deification or deity and God.
Speaker:And if you study the evolution of God's,
Speaker:the anthropomorphic gods that they've had,
Speaker:you'll see that they're basically personifications
Speaker:personification of rain or thunder or lightning or light or the moon or the sun
Speaker:or behavior or animals that were attacking us or saving us.
Speaker:And you go and look at the entire evolution from animistic to
Speaker:shamanistic to the mystic,
Speaker:to eventually you get into metaphysics and philosophy,
Speaker:and then you eventually get into science, and then you get into mathematics,
Speaker:you'll see the entire evolution of the brain developing.
Speaker:And, but all of it has been part of the spiritual quest,
Speaker:from plants to animals, to humans, to all the above,
Speaker:you know, geomorphic stelas and stones and huacas
Speaker:and anthropomorphic deities of humans and zoomorphic animals.,
Speaker:they've all been worshiped and all appreciated and it's all been spiritual.
Speaker:And a lot of those older systems have gone extinct and they're not used so much
Speaker:anymore.
Speaker:There's a lot more gods that are gone than there are around if you want to use
Speaker:that. But, I've been fascinated by all that.
Speaker:And I realized that it's an expression of the human brain.
Speaker:And I started looking at how the amygdala,
Speaker:the subcortical areas of the brain and the executive center of the brain are
Speaker:involved in different religious understandings.
Speaker:And I looked at transmitters and regulators and different
Speaker:when you magnetically stimulate them on the cortex you literally can create
Speaker:religious experiences.
Speaker:So I just want to make a first statement that it's all spiritual.
Speaker:I define spirituality as that which inspires the individual. Now,
Speaker:I found out that some people were inspired by raising a beautiful family and
Speaker:children, and that was their spiritual path. Others running a great business,
Speaker:that was their spiritual path. Others intellectual pursuits,
Speaker:I had dinner with a neurologist the other day,
Speaker:his life has been neurology and he's an academic and he's,
Speaker:it's just his love and that's what inspires him and his spiritual path.
Speaker:And some people are actually religious and spiritual and they fall into some,
Speaker:you know, organized religious idea. That's spiritual.
Speaker:I see some people that want to grow wealth and they're inspired by creating
Speaker:massive companies and build fortunes. That's spiritual.
Speaker:I remember having a lady that came to me one time and she says, Dr. Demartini,
Speaker:what do you do when you have a husband that's not spiritual and you're dedicated
Speaker:to spirituality? And I said, I said when you say spirituality,
Speaker:what do you mean? And she says, Well, I do meditation, I do yoga,
Speaker:and I chant. And I read spiritual books. And I said,
Speaker:That's interesting. What does your husband do? Well,
Speaker:he owns an IT company in computers. And I said, And does he have employees?
Speaker:Yeah, he's got 200 employees. Does he have a global company? Yes,
Speaker:he has stuff that sells all over the world. And I said,
Speaker:So what you're saying is that he's inspired by his business? Yes.
Speaker:And he goes to work and he goes and helps people have jobs and helps people
Speaker:create families,
Speaker:and raise families and contribute to taxes and do something that's actually
Speaker:meaningful and serving millions of people with products? She goes, Yes.
Speaker:But that's not spiritual? Said, Well, no, he's into material things.
Speaker:He's focused on business and money. And I said, So are you working?
Speaker:And she goes, No.
Speaker:So is that money that he's doing and providing you a way so you can go and
Speaker:contemplate your naval and sit there and chant? She goes, Well, I guess. I said,
Speaker:Why is yours more spiritual if you're depending on his,
Speaker:why not just see all of it spiritual?
Speaker:And I got her to make a realization that that just because she's now fit
Speaker:into this little box that some people call spirituality,
Speaker:doesn't mean it's limited to that.
Speaker:The guy that's going in inspired by his work and making a difference in the
Speaker:world is just as spiritual as anybody else. Even if we,
Speaker:I like Guru Nanak from the Sikh movement who said you know,
Speaker:if you can tell me where God isn't, I'll point my feet there.
Speaker:It's an old story about being at Mecca, that Guru Nanak described.
Speaker:Now we go around and we say that we have an omnipresent divinity,
Speaker:and it's omniscient and omnipotent,
Speaker:and we use those terms and then we go around and say but it's not there,
Speaker:even though it's supposedly everywhere. You know,
Speaker:point your finger where the spirit isn't.
Speaker:I'm a firm believer that you can be inspired.
Speaker:Everybody's got a unique set of values and you can be inspired by whatever
Speaker:inspires you. I'm inspired by teaching and learning. I research, write,
Speaker:travel and teach, other people go, Well,
Speaker:that's a nut I would never want that life.
Speaker:They're uninspired looking at my life. Other people look at me and go, God,
Speaker:I wish I had that vitality and go.
Speaker:My spiritual path is researching and understanding human behavior and going out
Speaker:and sharing whatever it is that helps maximize human beings. That inspires me.
Speaker:That's my spiritual path.
Speaker:But that's not more spiritual than your spiritual path or less spiritual,
Speaker:you know, it's what inspires you. And we sometimes, again,
Speaker:we create anthropomorphic deities and we personify nature,
Speaker:personify the sun and make that a god or moon and make that a god or stars or
Speaker:galaxies. In the Vedic texts,
Speaker:sometimes they describe Brahma is the center of the galaxy and Krishna may be
Speaker:the sun. They've symbolized it that way. These are not more spiritual,
Speaker:less spiritual,
Speaker:they're ways for human beings to deal with understanding their lives and the
Speaker:meaning and their relationship to the cosmos. And if you look very carefully,
Speaker:we study religions, many of them were influenced by Aristotle,
Speaker:The Abrahamic religions, the Judaism, Christianity,
Speaker:and Islam had lots of influence by Aristotle.
Speaker:And Aristotle was living under the geocentric model that Plato had used and
Speaker:Anaximander had used and eventually Ptolemy had used.
Speaker:And that was revolutionized by Copernicus and centuries later,
Speaker:and then it went to more of a solar and then it finally a Milky way model
Speaker:and then it's now it's a vast cosmic big bang model,
Speaker:and now the models that we had that are spirituality there were just
Speaker:stages of awareness.
Speaker:So we don't want to get stagnant about something that's gone in the past.
Speaker:We want to keep evolving and keep growing and keep understanding and keep,
Speaker:you know, living congruently with what we value most if we want spirituality.
Speaker:So I'm a firm believer that it's all spiritual <laugh>.
Speaker:Because what somebody makes is a heaven,
Speaker:somebody else makes as a hell as John Milton said, you know, one person's,
Speaker:you know, poison is another person's food. So what inspires me?
Speaker:I have people that look at me and go, you know, I've had people come in says,
Speaker:Well, you're not spending time with your family. Well,
Speaker:they're projecting family onto me. And I go, Well, that's true.
Speaker:I'm dedicated to my work and I see my family and maybe less than you do,
Speaker:but your highest value is doing that, that's what inspires you. So they think,
Speaker:well I'm not spiritual cause I'm not doing what they think.
Speaker:Anytime we're out of our executive center and in our amygdala,
Speaker:our subcortical area,
Speaker:we tend to be addicted to our in-group bias and we tend to be proud and we tend
Speaker:to project onto other people that what they should be doing, ought to be doing,
Speaker:need to be doing, got to be doing, have to be doing, but must be doing.
Speaker:And then what we do is we think,
Speaker:well somehow ours is more spiritual than theirs and then we label them not
Speaker:spiritual or something. And this is illusion. It's all spiritual. If we study,
Speaker:there's no universally ascended value system ever found in science.
Speaker:So there's no right value system out there.
Speaker:Everybody thinks theirs is right and they give power to some book,
Speaker:or they give power to some leader or some authority or some research project.
Speaker:But these are just artificial.
Speaker:The universe has got all those things out there and point your finger in the
Speaker:universe that's not part of a higher ordered system, I don't know.
Speaker:I think that we'd be wiser to go and dig deeper and get broader and have a broad
Speaker:more overview effect and see things neither positive or negative than it is to
Speaker:be caught in a real rigid idea that things are, these are positive or negative,
Speaker:and get trapped in fundamental and isolated, you know,
Speaker:intolerant states of mind. Spirituality is basically all of the above.
Speaker:But if we sit down and we're not seeing the whole,
Speaker:we're being exclusive instead of inclusive,
Speaker:we're not going to maximize our potential and we're not going to inspire and
Speaker:exemplify a path of inspiration to other people. You know,
Speaker:Einstein said to me in his writings when I was 18,
Speaker:that the greatest teachers exemplification.
Speaker:To exemplify a spiritual path is to go through and do what you really love.
Speaker:And when you're doing something you're really inspired by and love that you
Speaker:can't wait to do it and you're grateful for your life, gratitude. Even the pope,
Speaker:Pope
Speaker:John Paul said that it was basically gratitude that was heaven and ingratitude
Speaker:was hell. I think if we look at our life, when we're ungrateful life is hell,
Speaker:and when we're grateful, life is heavenly. And again,
Speaker:we can turn and have something become hellish or heavenly in a matter of a
Speaker:second. So we can basically go in and out. And there's no one thing that said,
Speaker:this is it for everybody. So I'm a firm believer that there's,
Speaker:it's all spiritual <laugh>.
Speaker:And I teach a program called The Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:And in there I've developed a methodology I've working on for 50 years called
Speaker:the Demartini Method. And I've had people come in there and they think,
Speaker:well this tragedy, this turmoil, this terrible, this traumatic,
Speaker:this torturous event has occurred in their life. And I go,
Speaker:Is it really a torturous event or is it an event?
Speaker:All events are neutral until somebody comes along with a subjective biases,
Speaker:makes a heaven or a hell out of it. They'll say, Well,
Speaker:but this thing happened to me. And I go, Okay, so what's the benefit? Well,
Speaker:how could it be benefit, it's bad. I said, According to who? Well,
Speaker:it's what I've been taught. So everything that somebody tells you is, is so?
Speaker:You know, Paul Dirac, the Nobel Prize winner said,
Speaker:It's not that we don't know so much, we know so much that it isn't so.
Speaker:We're bombarded by a bunch of belief systems that not necessarily great
Speaker:universal truths. So I said, This is a terrible event.
Speaker:Now what's the benefit to it? Well, I don't know. Well look.
Speaker:And then they start digging it and they find the upsides to what they thought
Speaker:there were downsides and they realize that they were thinking it was terrible
Speaker:because they were conscious of the downsides, unconscious of the upsides.
Speaker:They were not fully conscious.
Speaker:And most people think spirituality is full consciousness.
Speaker:But if you all of a sudden have a bias interpretation and you're in your
Speaker:amygdala and you're basically subjectively bias and you're in survival mode,
Speaker:you can skew things and see only one side of them be conscious of the downsides,
Speaker:not conscious of the upsides, and then think it's terrible.
Speaker:And then the fantasy of the opposite of that is now spiritual.
Speaker:And many people create fantasies of spirituality instead of the whole.
Speaker:And I try to help people realize that no matter what goes on in their life,
Speaker:if you see both sides of it, you can center yourself,
Speaker:you come to a state of gratitude, be objective and more resilient and neutral,
Speaker:and then all of a sudden you're back on the flow.
Speaker:It's nothing to do with what's out there. It's your perception,
Speaker:decision and action, which you have control over.
Speaker:You have control over your sensory neurons, interneurons and motor neurons.
Speaker:You can take whatever's happened and turn a heaven or hell out of it.The
Speaker:dialogues of Plato addressed that in his time 2,325 years ago,
Speaker:he was doing dialogues and showing people,
Speaker:spinning things with cognitive reappraisals from
Speaker:making a good or a bad out of it to show them that it's neither,
Speaker:it's just what they're choosing to see.
Speaker:And if you see that there's nothing but love, well then you got to,
Speaker:then you realize it's all spiritual.
Speaker:They are no events out there that are positive or negative until we choose to
Speaker:make them so. And one person's heaven is another person's hell.
Speaker:I've seen people go out and kill people because they think that they're
Speaker:terrorists. And then,
Speaker:but the people that were the family of that individual thought,
Speaker:well they were the father. They labeled him papa,
Speaker:and then they got killed and we labeled him a terrorist.
Speaker:And we sit there and go,
Speaker:Well these are just illusions of just biases that we get caught in.
Speaker:It's all spiritual, it's all basically love.
Speaker:I I teach people in the Breakthrough Experience there's nothing but love,
Speaker:all else is illusion. At first they don't understand it.
Speaker:But I have to redefine love.
Speaker:Most people think love is basically an infatuation and hate is its opposite.
Speaker:But love is a synthesis and synchronicity of all possible opportunities and all
Speaker:possible opposites out there.
Speaker:When you realize that they always come together as a pair,
Speaker:as Heraclitus and Parmenides described and Hegel described,
Speaker:you realize that there is nothing but love and that's why it's all spiritual.
Speaker:And you can take an event.
Speaker:I've had thousands of people come to the Breakthrough Experience,
Speaker:take an event they thought was terrible in a matter of minutes to hours,
Speaker:turn into a point of tears of gratitude,
Speaker:and realize that that was the turning point of my life. I made decisions,
Speaker:I met these people, I got these opportunities.
Speaker:And then they realized that that wasn't a terrible event after all.
Speaker:And the same thing on this thing that they think is terrific,
Speaker:there's downsides to it. To bring them back into balance, to see both sides.
Speaker:How you going to have a balanced physiology and a
Speaker:imbalanced mind? Even Pythagorus said that in his times 2,600 years ago nearly,
Speaker:he was basically saying that a balanced mind is what's wellness and an
Speaker:imbalanced mind is illness. Well, a balanced mind is also one that's grateful.
Speaker:An imbalanced mind is one that's basically trying to change others relative to
Speaker:you or you relative to others, and judging it.
Speaker:As Empedocles said 2,500 years ago, there's love and there's strife.
Speaker:And that really inside the strife is pairs of opposites.
Speaker:If you can see them simultaneously as Parmenides described, there's love.
Speaker:There was nothing but love and it's a synthesis of opposites.
Speaker:So it's basically all spiritual as far as I'm concerned.
Speaker:I've taken people through in the Breakthrough Experience
Speaker:thing. I always say, there's nothing the mortal body can experience,
Speaker:the immortal soul, the state of unconditional love, can't love.
Speaker:And if you have anything in your life that basically has been challenging to
Speaker:you, turmoil, terrible, tragedy, you know,
Speaker:you play victim of history over, you don't have to stay there.
Speaker:It's simply asking the right questions,
Speaker:the quality of your life's based on the quality of the questions you ask.
Speaker:If you ask amazing questions,
Speaker:you can turn that experience into something amazing.
Speaker:And then use it as fuel instead of baggage.
Speaker:Running your story and running your racket and blaming some
Speaker:false attribution bias out there as the thing is the cause of all your problems
Speaker:is never going to empower you. Even Epictetus, the Greek philosopher said,
Speaker:first you blame others, then you blame yourself,
Speaker:and then you finally come to a deeper realization there's nothing to blame,
Speaker:there's a hidden order there.
Speaker:I'd much rather go to that level and help people get to that so they can realize
Speaker:it's all spiritual, it's all something that's worth being inspired over.
Speaker:If you can take whatever happens in your life and you can find out how it's
Speaker:helping you fulfill what's most meaningful to you,
Speaker:you have no reason to be on anything but say thank you.
Speaker:It's all part of the perfection of it.
Speaker:But if all of a sudden you're sitting there and you're labeling it something
Speaker:because you're choosing not to see the other side,
Speaker:that's where the Demartini Method at the Breakthrough Experience comes in.
Speaker:Because I help you ask questions to make you cognizant of things you're
Speaker:unconscious of to make you fully conscious so you can love again.
Speaker:And liberate yourself from the baggage and bondage of the things of lopsided
Speaker:perception, which occupies space and time in your mind and runs your life.
Speaker:Everything you in infatuate or resent runs your mind and it reverberates in the
Speaker:mind is noise and it causes entropy in the body and it breaks you down.
Speaker:Most of the illness are epigenetic expressions of autonomics,
Speaker:which are a result of misperceptions and imbalances of perception and false
Speaker:moral hypocrisy labels that we posed on people. As a result of that,
Speaker:or on events. Once we balance those, we liberate,
Speaker:and then we realize there was a hidden order in the chaos.
Speaker:And helping people find the hidden order in the chaos is what inspires me.
Speaker:Helping people see the magnificence of their life and that it's all part of a
Speaker:spiritual path. It's all part of it.
Speaker:Everything is a feedback mechanism to guide you to your most authentic self,
Speaker:your essential self, your soul.
Speaker:If you want to use the theological language for it.
Speaker:Or if you want to call it the executive center neurologically.
Speaker:Or you want to call it the systems 2 thinking where you're most aware and most,
Speaker:you know, thinking before reacting, whatever you want to call it,
Speaker:they all work as far as I'm concerned. I can go in and out of philosophical,
Speaker:theological, scientific, psychological languages for the same thing,
Speaker:but it's all spiritual.
Speaker:And giving yourself permission to see that is a very liberating state.
Speaker:And knowing how to ask the questions to wake that up is extremely powerful.
Speaker:I've been doing it for many years.
Speaker:I've taught the Breakthrough Experience 1157 times. I've done it in many,
Speaker:many countries around the world, many thousands of people.
Speaker:I'm absolutely certain it can make a difference in your life and help you be
Speaker:inspired and grateful and have a spiritual experience.
Speaker:There's nothing in our life that we can't actually turn into a spiritual
Speaker:experience if we know how to ask the right questions.
Speaker:And that's where I teach you that in the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:So if you'd like to prioritize your life and live by your highest value where
Speaker:you have the most resilience, adaptability, and objectivity,
Speaker:where you have the least amount of emotional baggage and the most amount of
Speaker:gratitude.
Speaker:If you like to learn how to take whatever experience you've had in turn them
Speaker:back into something you can be grateful for and see the spiritual pathway,
Speaker:come to the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:Let me share the tools that I've been developing over the last 50 years that I
Speaker:know will make a difference because it works.
Speaker:I've made it as much of a science as I can to reproduce it, duplicate it,
Speaker:transfer it,
Speaker:I've got thousands of other people trained and using it out there and helping
Speaker:people,
Speaker:there's no reason why you couldn't come and go and learn that and put that into
Speaker:your life and get yourself an advantage.
Speaker:In the Breakthrough Experience I ask people at the end
Speaker:How many of you learned something this weekend you could have gone your entire
Speaker:life and never learned if you hadn't have been here? Every hand goes up.
Speaker:How many of you now know you have a tool to take no matter what happens in your
Speaker:life and transform it into something to be grateful for? The hands go up.
Speaker:How many of you realize that there is nothing but love now,
Speaker:all else was an illusion? The hands go up.
Speaker:So if you would like to have that awareness and be
Speaker:and overview instead of an underview and not a narrow mind,
Speaker:but a broader state of awareness and see how spirituality is universal,
Speaker:then come to the Breakthrough Experience. I'm certain it can make a difference.
Speaker:I'm going to spend 24,
Speaker:25 hours with you doing everything I can to help you see that realization.
Speaker:I've been working since I was 18 years old and finding the hidden order in
Speaker:apparent chaos, particularly in human behavior,
Speaker:studying physics and chemistry and quantum mechanics, you name every form,
Speaker:psychology, philosophy, physiology, neurology,
Speaker:everything I've been able to do to summarize and
Speaker:information to deliver something to you that you can be able to say thank you
Speaker:for, and something that can transform your life. So if you,
Speaker:for some reason are caught in the idea that spirituality is this thing in this
Speaker:particular book or it's this particular ritual,
Speaker:or this particular person or this particular guru,
Speaker:get out of the box and let's open up the doorway to seeing a bigger picture.
Speaker:Somewhere in the future, in the next hundred to 200 years,
Speaker:we're going to be traveling in other different parts of the solar system,
Speaker:habiting space,
Speaker:going off and living on possible moons and maybe the moon itself or maybe Mars
Speaker:or Jupiter's moons or Saturn's moons, maybe eventually interstellar.
Speaker:The stuff we call spirituality here is a stepping stone.
Speaker:Don't let it become a stumbling block. Come to the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:Let me help broaden that,
Speaker:prepare you for the future instead of holding you into the past.
Speaker:Don't get caught in some dogmatic narrow minded idea of what spirituality is and
Speaker:lopside your perceptions with polarized moral hypocrisies,
Speaker:and give yourself permission to put it the big picture together.
Speaker:All of that is a necessary part of, wherever you have that's the narrow,
Speaker:you end up with somebody playing the opposite.
Speaker:All pairs of opposites are playing together to show the hidden order in life.
Speaker:So no matter where you are, you're all part of the spirituality,
Speaker:but you might as well become aware of it consciously,
Speaker:and not be caught in the the polarities.
Speaker:So that was my little presentation, Come to the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:Let me show you this tools that is amazing,
Speaker:that can make a difference and give you the information
Speaker:you can see that there's nothing but love, all else is illusion.
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