I think we should all do that kind of thing, is be a little more positive.
Speaker:And if you want to extend it, you could be more positive to your friends, too.
Speaker:So when you hear them say that in whatever environment, whether it's online
Speaker:or in person, just stop them and say, hey, you know what you just said is not true. You're fine.
Speaker:There's nothing wrong with you. And just begin to have that conversation because
Speaker:people don't notice when they say these things.
Speaker:Hi, and welcome to 5 Random Questions, a show of unexpected questions and unfiltered answers.
Speaker:I'm your host, Danny Brown, and each week I'll be asking my guests 5 questions
Speaker:created by a random question generator.
Speaker:The guests have no idea what the questions are, and neither do I,
Speaker:which means this could go either way.
Speaker:So sit back, relax, and let's dive into this week's episode.
Speaker:Today's guest is Deb Brown. Deb is a dynamic, small-term advocate and community
Speaker:development expert with extensive experience empowering rural communities.
Speaker:Deb is also the author of From Possibilities to Reality.
Speaker:Save your small term with these uniquely doable ideas, projects, and success stories.
Speaker:A comprehensive workout filled with practical strategies and real-world examples
Speaker:for small-town revitalization.
Speaker:So, Deb, cuz, welcome to Five Random Questions.
Speaker:Thank you, and I'm so happy to be here. I'm super happy to have you here.
Speaker:And I mentioned cuz there. Obviously, we're not related, but we have this on.
Speaker:We've known each other for years now.
Speaker:We've got this sort of ongoing, which I think you initiated, actually.
Speaker:Probably. We've got the same initials, same last name, obviously.
Speaker:So there's a lot of, you know, a lot of overarching connection there, I feel.
Speaker:And because it's just like, it seems funny to say because to a guest on the podcast.
Speaker:And she's not really your cousin, but that's okay. You feel like a cousin,
Speaker:you know, we're in touch with each other, follow what each other's doing.
Speaker:You know, like cousins would do. We just don't get together very often in person.
Speaker:Exactly. Which we should try and remedy in 2026. Good idea. And as I mentioned
Speaker:in your bio there in the introduction, obviously, you're a huge advocate for small towns.
Speaker:And as someone who moved back in 2019 from a very large city to a small rural
Speaker:village in Ontario, Canada, I know myself the difference of mindset that we had to adopt as family.
Speaker:So for you, because obviously you're very passionate about small towns,
Speaker:what is it? And this isn't part of your random questions. I'm just really curious.
Speaker:What is about small towns in particular that makes you so passionate?
Speaker:Well, I was born and raised on a farm in Iowa, and I'm just a rural advocate
Speaker:because I live there and I do the kind of work that involves making our rural towns more powerful.
Speaker:It's so great to know your neighbors, to be able to do things together.
Speaker:There's good and bad to that, of course, but you got to look for the good,
Speaker:right? And most small towns are close enough to a larger city that you can still
Speaker:experience those huge symphonies and those great art things.
Speaker:There's benefits to both, right? But I'm going to tell you to live in a small
Speaker:town because you are a bigger fish in a smaller pond.
Speaker:And you have the opportunity to be more involved and to make a difference in
Speaker:the community that you live in much more than you do in a big city.
Speaker:I know when we first moved here, and like I say, it took us,
Speaker:we'd always lived in a big city.
Speaker:My wife and I lived in Toronto for a bit, and then a city just a little bit
Speaker:smaller than Toronto when the kids came along until they got a little bit older,
Speaker:which, you know, made us want to move to a quieter place.
Speaker:And we first moved up here, it was in the winter, so it was like completely
Speaker:unexpected for us, really cold.
Speaker:But one of the neighbours on Christmas Eve went round the whole village,
Speaker:handing out a homemade putty jam, which I thought was amazing.
Speaker:And she does that every year now you know we expect to see
Speaker:sharon now she'll come and sharon's amazing she's like so
Speaker:community minded as well um if someone's got an accident
Speaker:she'll take care of the yard or more you know below the
Speaker:snow all that kind of stuff so yeah it feels like
Speaker:there's um and like you say there's good and bad but it feels like
Speaker:there's a you have to look out for each other in a small term because
Speaker:you're you can you can't be cut off i guess at times yeah you
Speaker:do and you know you have children and the
Speaker:opportunities for them to be more involved in their
Speaker:activities at school but also in the community are
Speaker:greater and it's safer
Speaker:generally small towns are safer than your bigger cities so
Speaker:you don't feel so bad telling the kids yeah go ahead and play with the neighbor
Speaker:across the street and worry about them being kidnapped right those things matter
Speaker:yeah and I agree that's one of the reasons we moved was you know the city we
Speaker:lived in felt safe but We knew that when two young kids.
Speaker:You know, we appreciate where we are now and they appreciate it now.
Speaker:They didn't at first, they hated it because we were taken away from their school
Speaker:friends and everything.
Speaker:But they're really, they're super glad where we live now to be like that because of that very reason.
Speaker:And speaking of very reasons, there's a very specific reason that you're on
Speaker:the show today. And that's to answer five random questions.
Speaker:So, Deb, are you ready for the random question generator to be brought up on
Speaker:screen? I am. I sure hope so. Yeah.
Speaker:Alrighty, let's have a look and bring it up for us.
Speaker:Okay. Here we go then, Deb. Question number one. If you're in a circus, what would your job be?
Speaker:Oh, I'd be in charge of marketing. In charge of marketing?
Speaker:Yep. I'd be in charge of marketing because I'm not going to play with lions
Speaker:or climb high ropes or swing from something.
Speaker:But I'm really pretty good at doing advance notice for small towns along the way.
Speaker:Circuses travel usually and everything.
Speaker:People want to go, but they have to know about it. And, you know,
Speaker:the old way in doing it, of course, is newspapers and press releases, that kind of thing.
Speaker:But there's so much more opportunity by using online tools to let people know
Speaker:about the things that you're doing and how they can participate.
Speaker:So, yeah, I'd be in charge of marketing.
Speaker:And one of the things, I mean, we don't really see circuses where we live.
Speaker:Like I say, we're really rural. so it's probably too much effort to try to bring
Speaker:that amount of equipment etc to us.
Speaker:There's towns nearby that have fairs but I don't think I've seen circus do you
Speaker:think circuses are still,
Speaker:like a valid entertainment, if that's the right word entertainment thing with
Speaker:obviously there's the pushback about treatment of animals and you know how it's
Speaker:not quite for whatever reason not quite the thing it used to be maybe 10, 20,
Speaker:30 years ago I guess So the Cirque du Soleil has made a huge difference on how
Speaker:people look at circuses.
Speaker:It's more acrobatics than it is animals, yet they're still animals.
Speaker:Barnum and Bailey are, I think, in Florida. They travel from the Midwest down to Florida till winter.
Speaker:And I remember going to see them
Speaker:from my little small town the folks took us to see
Speaker:them along the way the trains going through I don't
Speaker:know if they still do that or not but the masons and the different organizations
Speaker:will often sponsor a small circus to help raise money for kids so for that yeah
Speaker:I think they're valuable and it is great entertainment it's you know always money right?
Speaker:How can they pay for it? So that's the question to resolve.
Speaker:Yeah. And I think maybe, I don't know, I was probably a teen,
Speaker:I believe. I don't think our kids have ever been to a circus.
Speaker:That's how, you know, unusual it is, I guess. When the question popped up,
Speaker:they were thinking, oh, circuses, that's cool.
Speaker:It's unusual because I don't think our kids, our son's 15, our daughter's 13.
Speaker:And I don't think they've been to a circus, been to a zoo, and they've been
Speaker:to like wildlife resorts, but not a circus.
Speaker:And again, I don't know if that's because of where we live, or it's just,
Speaker:it's one of these things, like you say, it's changed so much now that what you
Speaker:might have thought of circuses back in the day isn't quite what would be expected today, right?
Speaker:And I don't know enough about how circuses are viewed in Canada.
Speaker:So now you've given me something to think about and go check out as well.
Speaker:I would imagine they still have them.
Speaker:Get your kids to a circus. Absolutely, if you can get close to one, right?
Speaker:Yeah yeah well and that's it i mean like i said i went to
Speaker:one when i was younger much younger than i am now a long time
Speaker:ago um and i did i really enjoyed it it was amazing it's
Speaker:like the sights the sounds the noises and going
Speaker:up to the animals afterwards you know meeting the people it was just really it
Speaker:was amazing so yeah it'd be great i know like our kids are
Speaker:my daughter especially so into animals
Speaker:and adventures and nature um i
Speaker:think she'd love it my son's a bit more techie and
Speaker:sports oriented so he might enjoy it less
Speaker:but I feel my daughter would have could you know find one like you say and you
Speaker:mentioned obviously because of you you wouldn't want to face on a lion or a
Speaker:tiger you wouldn't want to ride elephants or anything would you want to be maybe
Speaker:the person that shoots someone out the cannon no no you still don't trust yourself to.
Speaker:I'm opposed to using any kind of firearm personally.
Speaker:What people make on their own decisions about hunting or legal things is,
Speaker:you know, that's on them.
Speaker:It's just not something I would want to do.
Speaker:Okay, well, that's fair enough. I mean, I know I'd like to, you know,
Speaker:there's some choice people I'd like to fire out a cannon, but I hear you on that.
Speaker:So I feel that's a nice, easy way to ease into the five questions today, Deb.
Speaker:So let's have a look and see what comes up for question number two.
Speaker:Question two. Yeah, let's go with this one, Deb. Question two.
Speaker:Do you ever talk to yourself?
Speaker:And as a sort of bonus question to this, what do you say? All the time.
Speaker:Of course I do. I recently injured my arm by falling on it.
Speaker:So now when I take the dog out for a walk, the first thing I say is, pick up your feet, Deb.
Speaker:Pick up your feet, Deb. So I can't remember to pick them up.
Speaker:And I do have a little chihuahua, Shirley. You may or may not hear her later.
Speaker:I now just talk to her, but I'm really talking to myself.
Speaker:You know, So we process so much negative talk to ourselves without even thinking about it.
Speaker:So I believe it's important to listen to the things that you do say to yourself
Speaker:and stop that negativity and just say, hey, no, no, you're okay.
Speaker:Like some women will look in the mirror and go, gosh, I'm fat. That's not good.
Speaker:Look in the mirror and say, you know, I'm looking pretty good today, right?
Speaker:It does something to your brain
Speaker:when you focus on the positive and it's good for your health as well.
Speaker:So, yeah, keep talking to yourself. I bet you do too. Oh, yeah,
Speaker:lots because no one will speak to me otherwise.
Speaker:Maybe we are related. No, just kidding. No, no, because of where we are.
Speaker:I work 100% remote. My wife does as well. The kids are at school,
Speaker:et cetera. So I think when I speak to myself, it's more about confirming that
Speaker:I've done something right.
Speaker:So I've been doing something for work or whatever, or I've made a decision that
Speaker:affects the kids and their opportunities to go to college down the years or
Speaker:whatever that might look like. I think it's more about validation that I did
Speaker:the right thing. Excellent.
Speaker:But it's an interesting point you raised about the positivity aspect,
Speaker:because it's easy, like online especially, it's easy to get sucked into toxic and negativity.
Speaker:In our traits and arguments and all that stuff,
Speaker:and that can take obviously an impact on us as people and if no one's telling
Speaker:you positive things it can take you down a dark path and I think it's like you say,
Speaker:it's important but do you feel it's because we're so used to negativity and
Speaker:people saying you must have something wrong with you if you're talking to yourself
Speaker:do you think that puts us off being more open to personal inner dialogue?
Speaker:Well, I think age has something to do with it.
Speaker:When I was in my 20s, you didn't talk to yourself because people thought you were crazy.
Speaker:And then the advent of the cell phone, when we first started seeing people walking
Speaker:down the street talking to themselves because they had earbuds in, right?
Speaker:Everybody's like, who's he talking to? What? And that took a minute to get used to.
Speaker:So we're familiar with having conversations with other people.
Speaker:But it turns into conversations with yourself, right?
Speaker:Facebook is notorious for having spammers or whatever.
Speaker:They want to stir the pot and talk about politics, for example.
Speaker:So I'll read a post and then I go right by it and I tell myself,
Speaker:look at that. You went right by it and you didn't respond to it. Good for you, Deb.
Speaker:Because I'd like to respond, but it doesn't do me any good.
Speaker:So just giving myself a pat on the back helps me more than it helps anybody.
Speaker:But I think we should all do that kind of thing, is be a little more positive.
Speaker:And if you want to extend it, you could be more positive to your friends too.
Speaker:So when you hear them say that in whatever environment, whether it's online
Speaker:or in person, just stop them and say, hey, you know what you just said is not true.
Speaker:You're fine. There's nothing wrong with you.
Speaker:And just begin to have that conversation because people don't notice when they say these things.
Speaker:It's really true. I watched, there's a really good snippet, and I'll try to
Speaker:find the link to it, like a YouTube video.
Speaker:It's just like a short one, and I'll drop it in the show notes so listeners can check it out.
Speaker:There's a basketball player, Nate Riggs, maybe, I think. I don't know.
Speaker:I don't know basketball.
Speaker:His first name is Nate. But anyway, so seemingly this basketball player has
Speaker:a lot of people that don't like him for whatever reason.
Speaker:So he was getting interviewed after a game and a female reporter asked him about the game.
Speaker:But the way she approached it was she was paying him compliments about what
Speaker:he was doing and how he was doing it, which was, you could tell he wasn't used
Speaker:to hearing that because he sat up and his immediate attention was on the lady reporter.
Speaker:And it's like you say, I feel we get so much negativity thrown at us by the by.
Speaker:When someone takes the time, like you just mentioned, Deb, about sending it
Speaker:to your friends or even a professional athlete who you're talking to,
Speaker:when you put kindness and positivity out of the way, it does make them stop and take notice.
Speaker:And I feel that has been lost a little bit because of, you know,
Speaker:we know negative news stories get all the clicks online, for example.
Speaker:Yeah. And people like you and me that do work from home and we're alone often. Right.
Speaker:It's very easy to get lost in that avenue
Speaker:of negativity and not taking care of yourself you know learning positive thinking
Speaker:and and putting index cards around the house with something positive on it why
Speaker:not because you have that's that's personal health you you want to take care
Speaker:of your own health first and we we're not very good at that either.
Speaker:Yeah, no, I know we used to put little notes, little post-it notes in the kids' lunchboxes.
Speaker:So they go to school and get just like a little message, like you say.
Speaker:And we stopped that when they got a bit older because they asked us to stop
Speaker:it. But I feel that's, you know, just something like that, right?
Speaker:It's just, it can make a big difference with like a tiny, it didn't take us,
Speaker:it took us, what, 10 seconds to write a little message and stick it in a lunchbox.
Speaker:Put it on their mirror in the bathroom that they see when they wake up.
Speaker:Don't stop it. stop you know they're embarrassed at school i
Speaker:bet right god my dad put another note in
Speaker:my lunchbox oh lord but in
Speaker:the bathroom at home it's a safe space that's true
Speaker:that is true my daughter does love the bathroom she's like she's a
Speaker:competitive cheer athlete so she's in there a lot doing her makeup and
Speaker:hair and getting ready for competitions etc so yeah i
Speaker:think i'll do that and i do like the the the
Speaker:mindset of putting personal post-it notes as well deb um
Speaker:just for yourself because it's easy for us to get sucked into not feeling good
Speaker:about ourselves and just a reminder hey you know what you got up today and you
Speaker:made someone smile you know something like that i guess yeah those little tiny
Speaker:steps i talk about small steps all the time in my work but they're very important.
Speaker:For ourselves but the people we share them with
Speaker:too it takes you nothing to make a
Speaker:comment or say hey you're looking great today um
Speaker:i have been known if i see a woman with great
Speaker:shoes i'll say man i like your shoes where'd you get them those
Speaker:kind of thing i do it to strangers because i like her shoes and i want to know
Speaker:where she got them not afraid to talk to anybody about anything but it creates
Speaker:a moment of relationship with someone that sends them off towards a better day
Speaker:and it gives me an answer i wanted,
Speaker:Win-win. 100%. There's a really good YouTube channel.
Speaker:I'll try to find the link to that as well. And I'll send you.
Speaker:You'd really enjoy it, Deb, where people just drive by and they just shout out
Speaker:random compliments to strangers.
Speaker:Like say, hey, you, do you mind not being so handsome? Leave some for the rest
Speaker:of us and all that kind of stuff. It's just really nice. It's a really sweet.
Speaker:I would love to see that. Yes, please.
Speaker:So I will try to find that channel. I'll definitely send it over to you.
Speaker:And I think, yeah, that's a really nice, important message for question two.
Speaker:So I appreciate that, Deb.
Speaker:Thank you. I love your random generator.
Speaker:Well, speaking of random generator, let's have a look at question number three.
Speaker:And I'm curious about this one, knowing you as I do for the last few years.
Speaker:If you were asked to teach a class, question number three, what class would you teach?
Speaker:Okay, so work-related, I would teach how to fill empty buildings.
Speaker:It's something I'm asked about often. I've done a TEDx on it.
Speaker:I work with entrepreneurs and one of the things that they're great at is we
Speaker:want to get them out of their basements and garages into a small booth where
Speaker:they can test and try their idea out.
Speaker:And if you follow it directly.
Speaker:When you start small, that's an opportunity. So say I'm doing woodworking and
Speaker:making cool things. I am not going to go from my basement directly to an empty building. I'm just not.
Speaker:I mean, because that's $100,000 for the building and another $100,000 to fix it up.
Speaker:And it's insane the amount of money that you need to start a business in a brick and mortar building.
Speaker:And you haven't even built your market. You don't know if you have a product that people want.
Speaker:So taking small steps along the way is all that part of how to fill an empty building.
Speaker:And small towns are great at this because they have a lot of events and fairs
Speaker:and festivals where vendors can set up and sell their wares and try things out.
Speaker:So that's another small step. And then if you've found, hey,
Speaker:this is really working and people like my product, maybe you can go into a building
Speaker:with three or four other people and have a shared building opportunity.
Speaker:So there's a small town, Washington, Iowa. They took it. It was an old J.C.
Speaker:Penney's department store.
Speaker:And it's filled with all different kinds of vendors.
Speaker:And they have small tables. One woman makes jewelry and she only has a small table.
Speaker:That's her spot. there's a bookstore at the back
Speaker:whole wall for books for kids and
Speaker:it looks like just a store when you walk in with all this cool stuff
Speaker:right but it's a group of people that are trying out their ideas and seeing
Speaker:what works and being able to grow and many of those people have gone on then
Speaker:to get their own building and create their own larger building can you tell
Speaker:i get excited about filling empty buildings, right?
Speaker:And it works in cities too. It's not just small towns. That's something that works everywhere.
Speaker:So I'd be happy to teach that kind of thing.
Speaker:And I have learned that sharing stories and talking about what other communities
Speaker:have done is a much more valuable teaching opportunity than just lecturing and saying,
Speaker:if you do this, then you got to do that, then you got to do that.
Speaker:And you have no examples. You have no proof it's real.
Speaker:Where if you're sharing a story and pictures and making it interesting to listen
Speaker:to, now you've got a class that people want to take and want to do something
Speaker:when they get out on their own.
Speaker:Well, it's interesting as well, you mentioned that it can be done in cities.
Speaker:I mean, obviously, small towns are a perfect environment because supportive,
Speaker:like people know each other and want to help each other succeed.
Speaker:And when I think of, say, similar examples in a city, I might think of like
Speaker:co-working experiences like office sharing opportunities like that.
Speaker:But when you mention, you know, almost like a craft fair, almost.
Speaker:But different businesses coming together, different small businesses coming
Speaker:together in an empty building and now creating almost like a mall, like a mini mall.
Speaker:Do you feel it's like, obviously you're a bit biased because you're such a passionate
Speaker:advocate for small towns,
Speaker:but do you feel small towns have more options to do what you're mentioning about
Speaker:coming together as opposed to larger cities where it's more expensive,
Speaker:maybe people less willing to take risks, etc.?
Speaker:So I lived in Chicago about 25 years, so I'm very familiar with living in large cities.
Speaker:And our circle of influence, which is the number of people that will come to
Speaker:your funeral, is usually between 100 and 150 people.
Speaker:So think of those 100 people, how many are friends, and it might be only 20
Speaker:that you can count as friends. Not close friends, but friends.
Speaker:What if you brought all those people together and say, hey, you know,
Speaker:I know about this empty building.
Speaker:Um what can we do that what kind
Speaker:of businesses could all of us participate in you're able
Speaker:to do that in a big city too because you
Speaker:have that many contacts and people you know so don't don't don't let the idea
Speaker:of big cities being cold at least in chicago chicago is a group of neighborhoods
Speaker:all it's really a bunch of small towns all connected um so depending on which area you live in,
Speaker:that's something you can easily do.
Speaker:I know the, um, the Korean people that I remember in Chicago,
Speaker:they sponsor each other to come over and start their own businesses.
Speaker:So they often have two or three people in a building learning how to run a business,
Speaker:you know, from people that have already come over here.
Speaker:And then when it's their turn, they contribute to bring somebody else back over. So, um.
Speaker:I used to do that. I was just at Ellis Island. My grandparents came through in 1922.
Speaker:And it was, wow, what an experience, Ellis Island in New York City.
Speaker:I got to stand where they stood when they got off that boat.
Speaker:And I got to see the ship manifest and their names and had this really cool feeling.
Speaker:And they were sponsored by a cousin out in Iowa.
Speaker:So a lot of the immigrants that came through, at least from Germany,
Speaker:had that same experience. Somebody sponsored them to come.
Speaker:You can do that kind of thing with the business, too, if you really think about it.
Speaker:And then make sure that business is an experience. It's not just a room full of things for sale.
Speaker:Make sure people have fun and can explore and try products.
Speaker:And if you're, my friend sells furniture for a living. He's got his own design
Speaker:business and furniture store.
Speaker:But he also, every Christmas time, teaches people how to make Christmas wreaths.
Speaker:And he does that class twice a year. And his class is always full.
Speaker:He does it in his store because he sells Christmas products.
Speaker:You know, and for $45, you get a wreath and you get a few products.
Speaker:And if you want to buy more products from him, you can. Or if you want to bring
Speaker:yours from home, you can do that too.
Speaker:That's an experience that store owners can do more of.
Speaker:Boy, I just really went on a tangent, didn't I? No, no. And this is what I love about this show.
Speaker:It's like it does go on different tangents because of the, you know,
Speaker:the questions that can arise that are generally not even attached to each other.
Speaker:So no, no, no, not at all. But it did make me think, and you kind of answered
Speaker:it there as well, about having the experience in these empty buildings that are now not empty.
Speaker:As a quick little bonus follow-up to that question, let's say you can put four
Speaker:small businesses or four local businesses into an empty building that really
Speaker:complement the whole experience to anybody that's visiting that building now.
Speaker:What four it doesn't have to be names just the kind of businesses I guess what
Speaker:four would you choose maybe to really offer something cool.
Speaker:So, tell me the name of the size of the town we're working in, in our imaginary town.
Speaker:All right, let's go with my little village, 800 families. So,
Speaker:what's that, 3,000 people on average, maybe? Okay, so 800 families.
Speaker:And how many other businesses do you have downtown?
Speaker:Do you have a downtown? Yeah, we don't really have a downtown.
Speaker:We've got a small little mini mart.
Speaker:We've got a little grocery store, like a local store, and then a little tiny
Speaker:little restaurant, and that's it.
Speaker:Okay. Do you have an empty building?
Speaker:We have the community hall, which is kind of... That's perfect. That's perfect.
Speaker:So we're in the holiday season right now, and you wouldn't start it right now.
Speaker:You'd start it for next year, right?
Speaker:So what's coming up? Valentine's Day.
Speaker:So let's use the community hall from the middle of January to the middle of February,
Speaker:every Friday and Saturday to give people to try out their ideas with product
Speaker:that is related to Valentine's Day.
Speaker:So you might want a hairdresser that also does nails and pedicures.
Speaker:You may wish to have clothing, someone that's making really cool clothing, either for men or women.
Speaker:Gift cards, that's another great one. Maybe an artist can be in there and one
Speaker:of their products is gift cards and they might be able to teach you how to make
Speaker:your own gift card. That's a little workshop they can do.
Speaker:And jewelry is always a big winner. Now, if you can find someone that's making jewelry, that's cool.
Speaker:Because they're making their own jewelry, right? And it's a one-of-a-kind thing.
Speaker:It's not mass-produced and it's not coming from China.
Speaker:It's coming from one of your neighbors that's doing cool things.
Speaker:Now, in your town, 800 people, there might be a high school student or two that
Speaker:have some ideas of what could go in there as well.
Speaker:And I would definitely talk to them and see how they'd want to be involved.
Speaker:I think you've just given me some plans for the local community center.
Speaker:That's awesome and i like the way that that you mentioned
Speaker:you it's all interconnected um and you're
Speaker:getting the people involved as well you're getting like the customers if you like
Speaker:involved because now you could have the person that makes the jewelry
Speaker:here's how you can make your own jewelry now you've got this like very
Speaker:custom design that's unique to you because you put your own little
Speaker:stamp on it um so i like that i like that
Speaker:a lot and and so i guess that the
Speaker:idea would be to to then continue building that so
Speaker:if you're thinking seasonal for example you could look what are do
Speaker:in the summer well there's a lake here so people go uh
Speaker:jet ski and they go kayak and they go um surfboard and stuff like that so i
Speaker:guess you can build a whole bunch of stuff around that as well to you know for
Speaker:once once the tourists and the cottagers start coming up to our little village
Speaker:you know in the warmer weather as well well you would probably need a bike repair shop,
Speaker:you might be able to convert that into renting out skis and toboggans and that
Speaker:kind of thing in the wintertime.
Speaker:And why couldn't you do that from your community center? Of course you could.
Speaker:Yep. I like, I might have to put you in touch with our local Lions group,
Speaker:Deb, and get them up to speed on all these cool plans.
Speaker:So I like that. I like that a lot. And that answered my question perfectly.
Speaker:So speaking of questions, let's have a look at question number four.
Speaker:Who is the most famous person you have met? Oh, good Lord.
Speaker:Met and talked to or just met? Both, if you wish, or either are.
Speaker:Up to you. Your question.
Speaker:Gosh, I don't pay attention to famous people, frankly. Um...
Speaker:I'm stuck. I'm never stuck. I'm trying to think of the director.
Speaker:I met a film director who, whoever it was that directed JFK was the movie he
Speaker:was working on at the time.
Speaker:We went to a rave in Chicago, sitting at the bar.
Speaker:And at the time I liked tequila. So I was drinking tequila.
Speaker:And before you drink it, you got to throw your salt over your shoulder first,
Speaker:right? And then you put it on your hand?
Speaker:So I'm sitting facing my husband and we're drinking shots of tequila and I'm
Speaker:throwing salt over my shoulder.
Speaker:The director was sitting next to me. He never said a word because he knew I
Speaker:was throwing salt on him over my shoulder.
Speaker:He finally turned around and said, hey, I'm so-and-so, nice to meet you.
Speaker:And I'm like, oh my God, I covered you in salt. And he just laughed.
Speaker:And then I turned back around because it was totally embarrassed.
Speaker:That's a fun story. I intend to have those.
Speaker:And that was, so JFK, I think, JFK, was that Oliver Stone?
Speaker:That's it. It's Oliver Stone, yep. So you're throwing salt on Oliver Stone.
Speaker:I was throwing salt on Oliver Stone at three o'clock in the morning in a rave bar.
Speaker:That is amazing. So there's so many questions there.
Speaker:I know, right? Like, A, what were you doing in a rave bar? B,
Speaker:what was Oliver Stone doing in a rave bar?
Speaker:And then I love the fact that he didn't react negatively.
Speaker:Because I guess when you've got that position of power and you're not used to
Speaker:people just being normal around you, I don't know, but I love the fact that
Speaker:he didn't react, he just says, hey, you know, it's all good it's all good,
Speaker:it's three o'clock, we're on a rave bar, we're having fun Yeah, he could have been a,
Speaker:real God, I can't say that word, a real asshole about it, there we go,
Speaker:that's as close as I'll get to swearing today, but he wasn't, but who knows?
Speaker:He might've been a little tipsy himself, right?
Speaker:At three o'clock in the morning in a rave bar. Well, yeah.
Speaker:So now I'm curious if he's ever, you know, I have to go through all his back
Speaker:catalogue from JFK onwards and see if there's any little tidbits there.
Speaker:You know, certainly a throwback to that time, you know, when I got salt thrown over. That's amazing.
Speaker:Like, not everybody's got a story like that. That's kind of cool.
Speaker:So what did your husband think?
Speaker:Did he say anything, you know, did you guys recognise Oliver Stone or was it
Speaker:just after him? Yeah, once he turned around, we knew who he was.
Speaker:Kevin didn't care. I'm sure he was giggling inside watching me do it every single
Speaker:time, waiting for the guy to turn around and turn into something, a madman, right?
Speaker:And that didn't happen. And my husband was as excited as I was to be in the
Speaker:realm of this famous person, right?
Speaker:And we never talked to him. That was an opportunity where I could have had a
Speaker:great conversation and I didn't do it.
Speaker:And normally I'm pretty good about talking to anybody about anything.
Speaker:So I kind of feel it's not a good story because I didn't do what I normally do and talk to him.
Speaker:Though I guess that could have been a bit different. I'm going to assume there
Speaker:was loud music when it would be in a rave.
Speaker:So the music, I've only been to one rave many, many years ago and it's very loud.
Speaker:I could have only assumed it was loud. Well, it was a private party,
Speaker:and we were invited by a friend.
Speaker:My husband sold cars and had some pretty famous customers, and we were invited
Speaker:by the owner of the car dealership.
Speaker:So it was louder music, of course, but not traditional rave music. It wasn't house music.
Speaker:And you really, you know, you were there to drink and dance, of which we did both.
Speaker:Yeah. So in that respect, mission accomplished. But yeah, I would have loved
Speaker:to have heard, you know, what possible conversation may have happened then.
Speaker:If you're a click in the morning, a few tequilas down with Oliver Stone.
Speaker:Could have been interesting.
Speaker:Well, if this show ever takes off superstar internationally,
Speaker:I will try to get him on and I will ask him that question. Hey,
Speaker:do you remember that time?
Speaker:Way back when, when you were doing JFK.
Speaker:Yep. I doubt if he does. But who knows, right? We'll get his version of the story. But I like that.
Speaker:That's definitely a famous person's story I've never heard before,
Speaker:obviously, for obvious reasons.
Speaker:So I like that a lot, Deb. I will keep that in mind.
Speaker:I've ever run a bar myself at that time of night and wondering who's behind me.
Speaker:But we're doing well here. We're reaching the end of the road almost for your
Speaker:time in the random question hot seat.
Speaker:So let's have a look and see what question number five is.
Speaker:I'm going to skip this one because we just had a drink question. Oh, but let me answer it.
Speaker:Let me answer it. Okay, you know what? Let's go. Let's answer it then. That's fine.
Speaker:Question number five, Deb. What is your favorite drink?
Speaker:I don't know if this is my favorite, but it's one I've always liked.
Speaker:And I learned about it in a little Greek island called Paros in the Cyclades area.
Speaker:So tequila, normally you drink it and follow it with lime and salt.
Speaker:And the bartender in this tiny, tiny island looks at me and he says,
Speaker:do you want to learn how to drink tequila the right way?
Speaker:And at the time, I was a bartender in Chicago, and I'm thinking I'm hot shit, right?
Speaker:That I should know how to do it the right way. Well, I learned in that environment
Speaker:how to do it the right way.
Speaker:So you take your tequila, and you take a slice of orange, and you put cinnamon on it.
Speaker:Drink your shot, bite into the orange and cinnamon. It's like a Jolly Rancher,
Speaker:like you've taken a bite out of a Jolly Rancher piece of candy.
Speaker:So now you have to go home and try that.
Speaker:Well, I do because, like yourself, I guess, prior to telling that just now,
Speaker:I always believed it was like a slice of lemon and the salt, right?
Speaker:So you took the, was it the salt and then the lemon?
Speaker:I can't remember the order. Yeah, salt first.
Speaker:Lick it off and then bite into the lime. Yeah. But orange and cinnamon.
Speaker:Yeah, because I would far prefer orange to a lemon.
Speaker:Any day of the week, every day of the week. Cinnamon. I do like cinnamon. in.
Speaker:So that would be an interesting experience.
Speaker:But I'm guessing the tequila's got to be nice too because you can get really harsh tequila.
Speaker:Yeah, no white tequila. It cannot be a white tequila.
Speaker:Generally that's your bar tequila, your low level tequila.
Speaker:But you know, Jose Crabbeau, Patron, those kind of tequilas.
Speaker:Okay, so you get the tequila, obviously, you've got just a slice of orange and
Speaker:then you just put like, what is that, like a sprinkle in it?
Speaker:Yeah, just a little sprinkle on it. You can take a pinch and put on it.
Speaker:And then you take the tequila first and then the fruit. Drink the shot,
Speaker:bite into the orange piece. Okay.
Speaker:And this gentleman that taught you how to do it in the Greek island, what's his background?
Speaker:Was he in the industry? Does he make tequila? What's his background?
Speaker:He was just a bartender. And it wasn't even the owner of the bar because I had
Speaker:asked to meet the owner because I was in the industry.
Speaker:Just a guy that bartended there, lived on the island. He was a local,
Speaker:which is important to note because a lot of tourists in small Greek islands, right?
Speaker:And just was a great conversational on the list. And we just had a really good time with him.
Speaker:I have no idea what he did during the day, but at night he bartended.
Speaker:And he passed out wisdom about how to drink tequila, which is obviously awesome.
Speaker:And funny thing, the reason I'm remembering this, I was coming back from New
Speaker:York and my seatmate is one of the, what's the word I'm looking for?
Speaker:Higher ups at Jose Cuervo Company.
Speaker:And I can't give out his name or position, but I was sharing that story with
Speaker:him. and he was on his way to Cape Town and he said, I can't wait to land because
Speaker:I'm going to have to try it.
Speaker:So I'm waiting to hear back to see if he's tried it yet.
Speaker:That's like the ultimate validation of the method, right? Yeah.
Speaker:You've got the high ups of like a world famous tequila, you know,
Speaker:distiller. Company, yeah. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:So yeah, it'd be really bad. Not bad. It'd be disappointing maybe.
Speaker:I don't know. Maybe that's the wrong word. If he comes back and says, no, no, that was awful.
Speaker:Don't even contact me again I promise he won't say that I no longer drink but
Speaker:if you do have that opportunity I encourage you to try it not to get drunk but
Speaker:to try something different I will try that on New Year's Eve that tends to be
Speaker:the only time that I'll sort of have spirits is New Year's Eve,
Speaker:I'll try that, I'll raise a glass to your honor and I will let you know probably
Speaker:a few days after how it went But yeah, I will definitely try that.
Speaker:You know how to catch me, cause.
Speaker:Exactly. So Deb, as mentioned, appreciate your time on the random questions
Speaker:hot seat and being open with your answers and sharing some really cool,
Speaker:fun stories that I wasn't expecting, obviously.
Speaker:But this is only fair because I've put you in the hot seat for the last 30, 40 minutes or so.
Speaker:It is now time to hand over the question baton to you.
Speaker:So here's what I want to know from you. What advice would you give new podcasters
Speaker:that live in small towns in communities of under 5,000 people?
Speaker:Ooh. So funnily enough, there's a really big movement, I guess,
Speaker:if you want to call it that, for hyper local podcasting.
Speaker:So most podcasters or many podcasters are all like global.
Speaker:So you go for global audiences and you're trying to grow your show no matter
Speaker:what country the listener's in. But there's a lot of movement in the last 12
Speaker:months about hyper-local podcasting.
Speaker:So you create a podcast for your community, for your town, for your village, for your school even.
Speaker:You know, you get really niched then because you've got almost like a warm audience
Speaker:to start with because people want to know about, if I started a podcast about
Speaker:where I live now, for example,
Speaker:people might want to know or hear me talking to locals and how they came to live here.
Speaker:Have they always lived here? Were they like me? did they come afterwards um
Speaker:what was the mindset change if they did have to do that uh what's
Speaker:it like surviving in the winter because the winters here are brutal um
Speaker:so a lot of things like that and and they're really taking and picking up steam
Speaker:um and that if you get into that like real niche where it's somewhere that you
Speaker:know well and it could be a business could be a village like me it could be
Speaker:your local uh athletics community whatever it looks like, Deb.
Speaker:Like I say, you've already got a warm audience, so that can help you with the growth side.
Speaker:And you've always got topics to talk about because there's always,
Speaker:always, always something different happening that you can expand on.
Speaker:So you mentioned some great examples with the empty buildings, for example.
Speaker:So if there were, I mentioned the community hall earlier, if there was things
Speaker:going on in the community hall, can I speak to people that come in and that
Speaker:keep coming back each year to do craft shows and stuff like that?
Speaker:Why do they keep coming back?
Speaker:What's the and what do they think of the area, all the kind of stuff like that.
Speaker:So I guess, again, rambling, you just mentioned rambling there when you're on a tangent.
Speaker:I guess it would be go local and really...
Speaker:You know knuckle down onto the locality of where you are so if you're a a freshman in high school,
Speaker:what was the difference in moving from your comfort zone
Speaker:in elementary school to this new high school that's in a different area
Speaker:different kids and all that so there's a whole bunch of things like that i would
Speaker:say use the locality and use the people use their stories to build your own
Speaker:awareness and get local news you know people local businesses to be part of
Speaker:that to share why they invest in that village, why they invest in that town, that kind of thing.
Speaker:So I guess that would probably be where I'd maybe go for a local podcaster on a small town or village.
Speaker:So, and I want to know, do you, where can I tell my clients to learn more about
Speaker:you and to follow your podcast?
Speaker:Oh, well, now you're getting me to promote myself and it's not meant to be like that way, Deb.
Speaker:Oh, but I want to know. Yeah, yeah. For me, it's simple. I created a really
Speaker:custom, a straightforward custom URL.
Speaker:It's dannypod.com, D-A-N-N-Y-P-O-D.com. It's got all the cool stuff there.
Speaker:But that was a sneaky one that you got in there because I'm going to hold you
Speaker:to that as a sneaky booger.
Speaker:But yeah, great question. I love it. I always love talking podcast anyway,
Speaker:and I love the fact that you kept it local, which is great, which I'm not surprised
Speaker:about knowing you and your passion.
Speaker:So speaking of passion, Deb, I really enjoyed having you in the five random questions hot seat.
Speaker:Now it's my turn to get you to promote yourself. So for people that want to
Speaker:know more about what you do and how you do it for maybe their own small towns,
Speaker:etc., to find out more about your book or just connect with you,
Speaker:where's the best place to connect, follow you, buy the book, etc.
Speaker:A couple of places. The first place is at saveyour.town.
Speaker:So it's S-A-V-E-Y-O-U-R dot T-O-W-N, not dot com, dot town.
Speaker:And if you put a slash in the
Speaker:word sign up behind that you can sign up for a free
Speaker:email that we send out every week that talks about world
Speaker:challenges and different ways to address them my speaker site and where there's
Speaker:more info on my book is buildingpossibility.com exactly like it sounds buildingpossibility.com
Speaker:my email dev at savior.town please shoot me an email i like talking to people.
Speaker:Unless they're in a tequila bar at three o'clock in the morning when you
Speaker:just ignore them just throw salt on them instead but that's
Speaker:awesome i will be sure to leave the links to those in the show notes as
Speaker:always so whatever rap you're listening to this episode on or if you're listening
Speaker:to on the website just check out the show notes as usual and the links will
Speaker:be there for both deb speaking and deb's community site as well the small business
Speaker:site so i get small towns not small business my bad my bad we almost got through
Speaker:without a fluff and i had to mess it up right at the end there.
Speaker:So again, Deb, I really appreciate you coming on five random questions today. Thank you very much.
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Speaker:You.