I have an aura ring.
Speaker:Do you know
Speaker:what that is?
Speaker:I promise I'm not
Speaker:giving you the finger.
Speaker:It is this little thing
Speaker:that is on my finger.
Speaker:It's basically
Speaker:a sophisticated
Speaker:health tracker.
Speaker:It tracks my sleep.
Speaker:It tracks my steps.
Speaker:It tracks my exercise,
Speaker:my resting heart
Speaker:rate, you name
Speaker:it it tracks it.
Speaker:What else
Speaker:does it track?
Speaker:Stress and resilience.
Speaker:Resilience is a pretty
Speaker:new feature on the ring
Speaker:and the contributors to
Speaker:the resilience pattern.
Speaker:Is your night time
Speaker:recovery, what that
Speaker:looks like, your
Speaker:daytime recovery, and
Speaker:also what your daytime
Speaker:stress load looks like.
Speaker:I love to track
Speaker:the data that's
Speaker:being measured.
Speaker:I don't use it as a
Speaker:reason as to why I
Speaker:feel a certain way, but
Speaker:it does give me some
Speaker:really good information
Speaker:and a hint As to why
Speaker:I might be feeling the
Speaker:way that I'm feeling.
Speaker:It tracks stress, but
Speaker:it also recognizes
Speaker:that stress can be good
Speaker:and stress can be bad.
Speaker:Prolonged periods
Speaker:of stress are not
Speaker:great for you.
Speaker:But if you think about
Speaker:going to the gym or
Speaker:doing a bit of cardio
Speaker:workout, that puts
Speaker:your body under stress.
Speaker:The heart rate goes
Speaker:up, You feel uneasy,
Speaker:but that feels good,
Speaker:especially at the end.
Speaker:Am I right?
Speaker:There is a lot of talk
Speaker:on social media about
Speaker:how stress is bad for
Speaker:us and how you need
Speaker:to minimise stress.
Speaker:But stress can also be
Speaker:very good for you in
Speaker:short bursts and it's
Speaker:also dependent on how
Speaker:you perceive stress.
Speaker:If we applied the same
Speaker:mindset to stress that
Speaker:you sometimes encounter
Speaker:in business and use
Speaker:it to our advantage in
Speaker:short bursts, how would
Speaker:this change the way
Speaker:you run your business?
Speaker:How can we use stress
Speaker:to our advantage
Speaker:in our business?
Speaker:This is the question
Speaker:that has been
Speaker:playing on my mind.
Speaker:And I've been
Speaker:thinking about what
Speaker:that looks like.
Speaker:And I thought I'd
Speaker:give you eight ways to
Speaker:think about stress and
Speaker:an example of each.
Speaker:Let me know if
Speaker:you think that
Speaker:they're useful.
Speaker:The worst thing
Speaker:I find about some
Speaker:podcasts is that
Speaker:they're not practical.
Speaker:So I've tried to make
Speaker:this super practical.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Our first one Trying
Speaker:to reframe stress as.
Speaker:So instead of viewing
Speaker:stress as a threat,
Speaker:see it as a challenge
Speaker:or an opportunity.
Speaker:This mindset shift
Speaker:can increase your
Speaker:motivation and
Speaker:make you feel more
Speaker:resilient to pressure.
Speaker:So for example, if
Speaker:you're facing a Tight
Speaker:deadline, which I
Speaker:am at the moment.
Speaker:I view it as an
Speaker:opportunity to showcase
Speaker:my efficiency and
Speaker:my problem solving
Speaker:skills, rather than it
Speaker:feeling like a burden.
Speaker:My second one is
Speaker:to channel stress
Speaker:into productivity.
Speaker:So stress can heighten
Speaker:your alertness
Speaker:and your energy.
Speaker:How do we use this
Speaker:to our advantage by
Speaker:channeling, channeling
Speaker:it, if I can get
Speaker:the word right,
Speaker:into productivity?
Speaker:Productive activities.
Speaker:My tip here is to
Speaker:break down large tasks
Speaker:into smaller
Speaker:manageable chunks.
Speaker:The adrenaline from
Speaker:stress can help you
Speaker:tackle these tasks
Speaker:way more efficiently.
Speaker:The third one is about
Speaker:setting clear goals.
Speaker:Stress often arises
Speaker:from uncertainty.
Speaker:And so by taking a
Speaker:step back, by setting
Speaker:clear achievable
Speaker:goals, you've reduced
Speaker:that uncertainty for
Speaker:yourself and you can
Speaker:create a beautiful,
Speaker:clear path forward.
Speaker:I personally
Speaker:love clarity.
Speaker:And so if I find
Speaker:myself in a bit of a
Speaker:tiz, I'll go back and
Speaker:I'll look at my goals
Speaker:and I'll make sure
Speaker:that they're clear.
Speaker:And if they're not
Speaker:clear, I work really
Speaker:hard to get them clear.
Speaker:And so my strategy
Speaker:here is to use
Speaker:stress as a signal
Speaker:to review my goals.
Speaker:Are they clear?
Speaker:Do you have a plan
Speaker:to achieve them?
Speaker:Or do you just kind
Speaker:of know the what,
Speaker:but don't really
Speaker:know the how?
Speaker:Sometimes having the
Speaker:plan puts you back
Speaker:in the driver's seat
Speaker:and makes you feel
Speaker:much more in control.
Speaker:Number four is
Speaker:about developing a
Speaker:resilient mindset.
Speaker:Stress can make
Speaker:us more resilient.
Speaker:If we choose to learn
Speaker:from it, reflecting on
Speaker:stressful experiences
Speaker:and identifying what
Speaker:helped you cope or
Speaker:what helped you succeed
Speaker:is so important.
Speaker:So something
Speaker:to do after a
Speaker:stressful event.
Speaker:So for us, it is
Speaker:an actual event
Speaker:in real life.
Speaker:After that event, I
Speaker:take time to reflect
Speaker:on what I learned.
Speaker:worked well and
Speaker:what we can improve.
Speaker:This builds mental
Speaker:toughness over time
Speaker:and also helps me stop,
Speaker:celebrate,
Speaker:and reflect.
Speaker:Number five, you
Speaker:can use stress
Speaker:to enhance focus.
Speaker:When you're stressed,
Speaker:your body is in a
Speaker:heightened state
Speaker:of awareness.
Speaker:Using this to your
Speaker:advantage by focusing
Speaker:on the most important
Speaker:tasks that you
Speaker:need to get done.
Speaker:The technique that I
Speaker:use here is to practice
Speaker:mindfulness or deep
Speaker:breathing exercises,
Speaker:just to help me
Speaker:harness and direct my
Speaker:stress induced energy
Speaker:toward focused work.
Speaker:I just take small micro
Speaker:breaks during the day.
Speaker:That's all it takes.
Speaker:So it might be just 10
Speaker:seconds of breathing
Speaker:just to bring that down
Speaker:and get me focused.
Speaker:I also do love the
Speaker:apps that have the
Speaker:cafe noises in the
Speaker:background that
Speaker:helps me to get
Speaker:more done as well.
Speaker:Number six is
Speaker:leveraging stress
Speaker:for creativity.
Speaker:Stress can push you to
Speaker:think outside the box.
Speaker:When faced with
Speaker:challenges, use
Speaker:it as a catalyst
Speaker:for innovation.
Speaker:Have you ever been
Speaker:really stressed, gone
Speaker:for a walk or a shower?
Speaker:And then boom, the
Speaker:answer appears.
Speaker:Me too.
Speaker:When I'm faced with
Speaker:a stressful problem,
Speaker:I brainstorm creative
Speaker:solutions or look for
Speaker:new approaches that I
Speaker:wouldn't consider in
Speaker:a more relaxed state.
Speaker:To do this for me, I
Speaker:have to leave my desk.
Speaker:I have to leave this
Speaker:room and I have to
Speaker:get out and get a
Speaker:new perspective and
Speaker:that really helps.
Speaker:Number seven for
Speaker:me is building a
Speaker:supportive network.
Speaker:sharing your trusted
Speaker:colleagues or
Speaker:mentors can provide
Speaker:you with different
Speaker:perspectives and also
Speaker:different solutions.
Speaker:Something to action
Speaker:from here is around
Speaker:creating a supportive
Speaker:business community
Speaker:where you can discuss
Speaker:challenging situations
Speaker:and collaborate
Speaker:on solutions.
Speaker:This might be a
Speaker:very tight knit
Speaker:group of people.
Speaker:I cannot spruik
Speaker:having a community of
Speaker:like minded people
Speaker:around you more.
Speaker:You all know, I
Speaker:love my community.
Speaker:I'm in a few
Speaker:different communities.
Speaker:I love my thriving
Speaker:women community.
Speaker:I love my business
Speaker:school community.
Speaker:I love my faculty roles
Speaker:for these reasons.
Speaker:Amazing people.
Speaker:Number eight is really
Speaker:around practicing
Speaker:stress management
Speaker:techniques, right?
Speaker:So regularly practicing
Speaker:stress management
Speaker:techniques like
Speaker:exercise, meditation,
Speaker:or hobbies that can
Speaker:help you maintain a
Speaker:healthy balance and
Speaker:use stress positively.
Speaker:If you've been
Speaker:following along for
Speaker:a while, you will
Speaker:know that I've been
Speaker:practicing meditation
Speaker:for years now.
Speaker:And it has been
Speaker:an absolute game
Speaker:changer for me.
Speaker:It's all guided.
Speaker:I can't do footloose
Speaker:and fancy free.
Speaker:It just doesn't
Speaker:work for me.
Speaker:You might not
Speaker:love that.
Speaker:You might go, I hate
Speaker:meditation, but what
Speaker:about some other
Speaker:mindful activities?
Speaker:One of my clients
Speaker:does colouring in.
Speaker:And she loves that.
Speaker:When I need a mindful
Speaker:activity, I'm a nerd.
Speaker:I go to declutter
Speaker:our wardrobes.
Speaker:Everyone knows mom's
Speaker:feeling a little bit
Speaker:stressed if she's
Speaker:going to declutter
Speaker:the wardrobes.
Speaker:But I also do Lego and
Speaker:I find that that's just
Speaker:the thing to help me
Speaker:wind down a little bit.
Speaker:I also incorporate
Speaker:daily activities that
Speaker:reduce stress so I
Speaker:can remain sharp and
Speaker:focus when business
Speaker:pressure arises.
Speaker:I'm an early bird,
Speaker:so I get up at five
Speaker:in the morning.
Speaker:I do my walk and
Speaker:then I meditate.
Speaker:It works for me.
Speaker:Find what
Speaker:works for you.
Speaker:I think that we need to
Speaker:reframe how
Speaker:we view stress
Speaker:and we view
Speaker:it as a tool
Speaker:rather than something
Speaker:to be avoided.
Speaker:We're all like, let's
Speaker:not get stressed.
Speaker:Let's keep calm
Speaker:and carry on.
Speaker:What happens if
Speaker:actually the stress
Speaker:helps us to harness its
Speaker:energy, which can help
Speaker:us in the long run.
Speaker:There is a caveat.
Speaker:There's always a
Speaker:caveat to these
Speaker:podcasts, isn't there?
Speaker:A gentle reminder
Speaker:that our bodies and
Speaker:our minds cannot sit
Speaker:in stress for long
Speaker:periods of time.
Speaker:So we need to
Speaker:manage it well.
Speaker:We need to use it when
Speaker:it comes and also make
Speaker:sure that we're getting
Speaker:downtime as well.
Speaker:This has been hard
Speaker:for me to learn.
Speaker:And it's also hard
Speaker:when we're juggling
Speaker:all the things.
Speaker:And a couple
Speaker:of weeks ago, I
Speaker:recorded an episode
Speaker:on the mental load.
Speaker:Go check that one out.
Speaker:There's a really
Speaker:good episode if you
Speaker:want some extra,
Speaker:education around this.
Speaker:There's a really
Speaker:good episode
Speaker:on, , Huberman Lab.
Speaker:So Andrew Huberman
Speaker:that talks about the
Speaker:stress response that
Speaker:you might like to
Speaker:listen, listen to.
Speaker:And we'll drop it in
Speaker:the show notes for you.
Speaker:So stress, stress
Speaker:ain't the enemy.
Speaker:It's how we manage it,
Speaker:how we leverage it,
Speaker:and how we use it
Speaker:to our advantage.
Speaker:What are you
Speaker:going to do next?
Speaker:Are you going to
Speaker:leverage it, or are
Speaker:you going to let
Speaker:it leverage you?