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I have an aura ring.

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Do you know

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what that is?

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I promise I'm not

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giving you the finger.

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It is this little thing

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that is on my finger.

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It's basically

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a sophisticated

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health tracker.

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It tracks my sleep.

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It tracks my steps.

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It tracks my exercise,

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my resting heart

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rate, you name

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it it tracks it.

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What else

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does it track?

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Stress and resilience.

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Resilience is a pretty

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new feature on the ring

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and the contributors to

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the resilience pattern.

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Is your night time

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recovery, what that

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looks like, your

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daytime recovery, and

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also what your daytime

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stress load looks like.

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I love to track

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the data that's

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being measured.

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I don't use it as a

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reason as to why I

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feel a certain way, but

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it does give me some

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really good information

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and a hint As to why

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I might be feeling the

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way that I'm feeling.

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It tracks stress, but

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it also recognizes

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that stress can be good

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and stress can be bad.

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Prolonged periods

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of stress are not

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great for you.

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But if you think about

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going to the gym or

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doing a bit of cardio

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workout, that puts

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your body under stress.

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The heart rate goes

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up, You feel uneasy,

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but that feels good,

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especially at the end.

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Am I right?

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There is a lot of talk

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on social media about

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how stress is bad for

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us and how you need

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to minimise stress.

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But stress can also be

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very good for you in

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short bursts and it's

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also dependent on how

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you perceive stress.

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If we applied the same

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mindset to stress that

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you sometimes encounter

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in business and use

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it to our advantage in

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short bursts, how would

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this change the way

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you run your business?

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How can we use stress

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to our advantage

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in our business?

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This is the question

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that has been

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playing on my mind.

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And I've been

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thinking about what

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that looks like.

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And I thought I'd

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give you eight ways to

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think about stress and

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an example of each.

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Let me know if

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you think that

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they're useful.

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The worst thing

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I find about some

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podcasts is that

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they're not practical.

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So I've tried to make

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this super practical.

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All right.

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Our first one Trying

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to reframe stress as.

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So instead of viewing

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stress as a threat,

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see it as a challenge

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or an opportunity.

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This mindset shift

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can increase your

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motivation and

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make you feel more

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resilient to pressure.

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So for example, if

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you're facing a Tight

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deadline, which I

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am at the moment.

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I view it as an

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opportunity to showcase

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my efficiency and

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my problem solving

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skills, rather than it

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feeling like a burden.

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My second one is

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to channel stress

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into productivity.

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So stress can heighten

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your alertness

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and your energy.

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How do we use this

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to our advantage by

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channeling, channeling

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it, if I can get

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the word right,

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into productivity?

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Productive activities.

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My tip here is to

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break down large tasks

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into smaller

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manageable chunks.

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The adrenaline from

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stress can help you

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tackle these tasks

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way more efficiently.

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The third one is about

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setting clear goals.

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Stress often arises

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from uncertainty.

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And so by taking a

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step back, by setting

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clear achievable

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goals, you've reduced

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that uncertainty for

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yourself and you can

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create a beautiful,

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clear path forward.

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I personally

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love clarity.

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And so if I find

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myself in a bit of a

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tiz, I'll go back and

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I'll look at my goals

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and I'll make sure

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that they're clear.

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And if they're not

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clear, I work really

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hard to get them clear.

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And so my strategy

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here is to use

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stress as a signal

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to review my goals.

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Are they clear?

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Do you have a plan

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to achieve them?

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Or do you just kind

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of know the what,

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but don't really

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know the how?

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Sometimes having the

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plan puts you back

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in the driver's seat

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and makes you feel

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much more in control.

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Number four is

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about developing a

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resilient mindset.

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Stress can make

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us more resilient.

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If we choose to learn

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from it, reflecting on

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stressful experiences

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and identifying what

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helped you cope or

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what helped you succeed

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is so important.

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So something

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to do after a

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stressful event.

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So for us, it is

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an actual event

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in real life.

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After that event, I

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take time to reflect

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on what I learned.

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worked well and

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what we can improve.

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This builds mental

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toughness over time

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and also helps me stop,

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celebrate,

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and reflect.

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Number five, you

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can use stress

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to enhance focus.

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When you're stressed,

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your body is in a

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heightened state

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of awareness.

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Using this to your

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advantage by focusing

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on the most important

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tasks that you

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need to get done.

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The technique that I

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use here is to practice

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mindfulness or deep

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breathing exercises,

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just to help me

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harness and direct my

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stress induced energy

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toward focused work.

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I just take small micro

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breaks during the day.

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That's all it takes.

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So it might be just 10

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seconds of breathing

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just to bring that down

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and get me focused.

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I also do love the

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apps that have the

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cafe noises in the

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background that

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helps me to get

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more done as well.

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Number six is

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leveraging stress

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for creativity.

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Stress can push you to

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think outside the box.

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When faced with

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challenges, use

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it as a catalyst

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for innovation.

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Have you ever been

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really stressed, gone

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for a walk or a shower?

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And then boom, the

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answer appears.

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Me too.

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When I'm faced with

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a stressful problem,

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I brainstorm creative

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solutions or look for

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new approaches that I

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wouldn't consider in

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a more relaxed state.

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To do this for me, I

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have to leave my desk.

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I have to leave this

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room and I have to

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get out and get a

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new perspective and

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that really helps.

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Number seven for

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me is building a

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supportive network.

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sharing your trusted

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colleagues or

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mentors can provide

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you with different

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perspectives and also

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different solutions.

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Something to action

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from here is around

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creating a supportive

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business community

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where you can discuss

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challenging situations

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and collaborate

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on solutions.

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This might be a

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very tight knit

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group of people.

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I cannot spruik

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having a community of

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like minded people

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around you more.

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You all know, I

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love my community.

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I'm in a few

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different communities.

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I love my thriving

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women community.

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I love my business

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school community.

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I love my faculty roles

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for these reasons.

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Amazing people.

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Number eight is really

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around practicing

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stress management

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techniques, right?

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So regularly practicing

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stress management

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techniques like

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exercise, meditation,

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or hobbies that can

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help you maintain a

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healthy balance and

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use stress positively.

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If you've been

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following along for

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a while, you will

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know that I've been

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practicing meditation

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for years now.

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And it has been

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an absolute game

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changer for me.

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It's all guided.

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I can't do footloose

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and fancy free.

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It just doesn't

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work for me.

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You might not

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love that.

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You might go, I hate

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meditation, but what

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about some other

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mindful activities?

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One of my clients

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does colouring in.

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And she loves that.

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When I need a mindful

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activity, I'm a nerd.

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I go to declutter

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our wardrobes.

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Everyone knows mom's

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feeling a little bit

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stressed if she's

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going to declutter

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the wardrobes.

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But I also do Lego and

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I find that that's just

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the thing to help me

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wind down a little bit.

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I also incorporate

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daily activities that

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reduce stress so I

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can remain sharp and

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focus when business

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pressure arises.

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I'm an early bird,

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so I get up at five

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in the morning.

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I do my walk and

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then I meditate.

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It works for me.

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Find what

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works for you.

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I think that we need to

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reframe how

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we view stress

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and we view

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it as a tool

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rather than something

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to be avoided.

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We're all like, let's

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not get stressed.

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Let's keep calm

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and carry on.

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What happens if

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actually the stress

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helps us to harness its

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energy, which can help

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us in the long run.

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There is a caveat.

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There's always a

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caveat to these

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podcasts, isn't there?

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A gentle reminder

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that our bodies and

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our minds cannot sit

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in stress for long

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periods of time.

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So we need to

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manage it well.

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We need to use it when

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it comes and also make

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sure that we're getting

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downtime as well.

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This has been hard

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for me to learn.

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And it's also hard

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when we're juggling

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all the things.

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And a couple

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of weeks ago, I

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recorded an episode

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on the mental load.

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Go check that one out.

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There's a really

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good episode if you

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want some extra,

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education around this.

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There's a really

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good episode

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on, , Huberman Lab.

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So Andrew Huberman

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that talks about the

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stress response that

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you might like to

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listen, listen to.

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And we'll drop it in

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the show notes for you.

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So stress, stress

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ain't the enemy.

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It's how we manage it,

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how we leverage it,

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and how we use it

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to our advantage.

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What are you

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going to do next?

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Are you going to

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leverage it, or are

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you going to let

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it leverage you?