Welcome back to another episode of health hacks,
Melissa Deally:and today I'm talking to you about behavior, because all
Melissa Deally:behavior comes from somewhere in your programming, whether it's
Melissa Deally:procrastination, self sabotage, overreacting to situations, and
Melissa Deally:it doesn't mean you're broken, it's just literally triggered by
Melissa Deally:a program that's running in the background. And so in our work,
Melissa Deally:we don't shame the behavior. We literally teach you how to meet
Melissa Deally:it, and we can rewire what's needed in order to shift the
Melissa Deally:behavior. If that behavior is causing problems in your life,
Melissa Deally:every behavior is based on the movie playing in your mind, and
Melissa Deally:that the thoughts that are triggering that movie to play
Melissa Deally:are impacted by your filters, your beliefs, your attitudes,
Melissa Deally:your language, your Meta programs, the basis of your
Melissa Deally:personality, your memories, etc, etc, and so that causes you to
Melissa Deally:have certain thoughts run the movie. Is it the love story? Is
Melissa Deally:it the horror show that then triggers a biochemical response
Melissa Deally:in your body? If it's the horror show, your body starts pumping
Melissa Deally:out adrenaline, cortisol, and that results in a certain type
Melissa Deally:of behavior. Now on the flip side, if the movie that you're
Melissa Deally:running is the love story, you get different neurotransmitters.
Melissa Deally:You get serotonin, you get dopamine, and your behaviors are
Melissa Deally:very different. And so here's the thing, if you want to shift
Melissa Deally:your behaviors, because these behaviors might have served you
Melissa Deally:as a young child, you know, having a temper tantrum, and
Melissa Deally:they're not serving you now as an adult, we need to rewire the
Melissa Deally:programming so that the new behavior happens automatically,
Melissa Deally:and we can absolutely do that. And the reason that's so
Melissa Deally:important is that we pre program it in the unconscious mind,
Melissa Deally:which is where the behaviors were programmed in the first
Melissa Deally:place, in the first seven to nine years of life, when you
Melissa Deally:were living entirely in your unconscious mind, when you work
Melissa Deally:with conscious coaching, and you start with shifting the behavior
Melissa Deally:as the starting point of your work, your resources are
Melissa Deally:limited. You're working with willpower, which is housed in
Melissa Deally:your conscious mind, which is only 10% of your mind. You are
Melissa Deally:working with tasking and habit change and accountability, and
Melissa Deally:over time, you can create change Absolutely. It takes time and it
Melissa Deally:takes hard work, and when life happens, guess what? Boom,
Melissa Deally:you're back where you were before, because that programming
Melissa Deally:is still running when you work with unconscious coaching and
Melissa Deally:you learn the tools of the unconscious mind, that's when
Melissa Deally:you can literally rewire the neurology so that you simply
Melissa Deally:cannot do the old behavior. You rewire it to produce the
Melissa Deally:behavior that you want now for the person you are becoming. And
Melissa Deally:so when life happens, guess what? The new program is
Melissa Deally:running. You don't end up back where you were frustrated,
Melissa Deally:annoyed, thinking you'd made all this progress, and now you're
Melissa Deally:been landed back on your you know what rear end. When you
Melissa Deally:reprogram the behavior, life happens, and guess what? That
Melissa Deally:behavior continues happening too. So if you are interested in
Melissa Deally:learning more about the power of your unconscious mind, if
Melissa Deally:everything I've said here today makes total sense, and you're
Melissa Deally:going that's why it keeps happening, then you definitely
Melissa Deally:want to come and check out our next meet your unconscious mind
Melissa Deally:workshop. I'll drop the link in the show notes. Come join us.
Melissa Deally:It's two hours of your time to learn about the power that you
Melissa Deally:hold within for your body to heal. Free to show up as your
Melissa Deally:best self, be the leader, the parent, be the person that
Melissa Deally:you've always wanted to be. It's all within you. You just need to
Melissa Deally:learn how to access it, and we will show you how.