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Hey, yesterday we talked about needs versus wants Today.

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Let's zoom in on a super common want.

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That daily trip to the coffee shop.

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Think it's just a few bucks.

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Let's run the numbers and see the surprising impact

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it might be having for you.

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Hey there, and welcome back to Your Daily Ask Ralph.

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I'm Ralph and I'm so glad you're here.

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As we continue exploring the joy of living below your means, we're working

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to break that cycle of financial shame.

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With confidence, we're getting into some specific actionable spending

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changes now, so I hope yesterday's needs versus once exercise was eyeopening.

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So maybe as you looked at your lunch yesterday, that daily, $4, $5, or maybe

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even $6 or, or coffee or fancy tea popped up, do you sometimes justify

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it thinking, well, it's just a small treat, or I, I need it to get going,

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or, it's my one little indulgence?

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Maybe you dismiss it as insignificant in the grand scheme of your budget.

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Or perhaps, you know, it all adds up, but the habit feels too ingrained.

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A convenience, too appealing or the idea of giving it up feels

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like too much of a sacrifice.

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Well, that tendency to overlook that cumulative cost of small daily want

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purchases, or the resistance to changing those convenient habits, even when

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we know they drain our resources.

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That's the single item we're tackling today.

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Here's the thing, small leaks can sink big ships while one $5

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coffee might not seem like much consistency adds up incredibly fast.

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Listen, about $5 a day, five days a week, guess what?

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That's a hundred dollars a month.

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That's $1,200 a year, and suddenly that small habit has

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a significant financial impact.

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Look at the book of Luke chapter 16, verse 10.

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It reminds us one who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much.

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See, part of good stewardship is paying attention to those very little things

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'cause they demonstrate our discipline and impact our overall financial health.

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Sometimes convenience culture tricks us into thinking these little daily

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luxuries are needs when really.

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They are truly once and we can control them.

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So how do we combat this death by a thousand cuts

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spending on small daily wants?

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How do we prove to ourselves that small changes do make a huge difference?

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Well, the single powerful solution is to conduct what I

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call a short term experiment.

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I want you to commit to brewing your coffee or tea at home instead of

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buying it and just do it for one month, thinking it as the 30 day challenge.

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Because it achieves two things.

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First thing it's gonna achieve is immediate savings.

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You instantly keep that $3, $5, $7, whatever it is in your pocket each day.

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The second thing it does is it demonstrates impact, and by tracking

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that savings for a month, you see tangible proof of how small consistent

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changes add up over time, and it builds up your discipline muscle.

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It's not necessary about giving it up forever, unless of course

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you want to, but about proving the principle and seeing the potential.

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Making your own at home cost pennies compared to the coffee shop.

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So the solution is this.

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It's a focused experiment.

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Skip the shop and brew it home for a month.

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So, okay, are you ready for that one action step today?

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It's a commitment for the next month.

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First thing I want you to do is calculate your habit.

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I want you to be honest.

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Ask yourself how often do you buy coffee or tea while you're out?

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And what's the average cost?

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Just multiply it out for a month.

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For example, if you do a $4 a day, times 20 work days, that equals $80

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a month, and I want you to write down that potential savings number.

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Second thing I want you to do is make that commitment.

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Decide today that starting tomorrow morning and for the next 30 days,

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you're gonna brew your coffee or tea at home or, or maybe even get

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that free coffee at work if it's available instead of out and buying it.

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And third thing I want you to do is plan your alternative.

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You wanna make sure you have a plan with coffee, tea, cream, or whatever

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you do at home, so that you're ready for tomorrow morning and fourth.

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And this one's optional.

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I want you to earmark those savings, decide what you'll do with that

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extra 80 bucks in your budget, what, whatever your number is, or

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how much you'll save this month.

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Maybe you decide to put it towards debt or maybe help you build that emergency fund.

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Or maybe you've got that specific savings goal in mind.

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Because here's the truth, having a purpose fuels motivation.

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See, might be asking Ralph, why this 30 day challenge?

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I. Because it directly fights that pain of dismissing small expenses

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and it battles that resistance to changing convenient habits.

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See, it makes the savings concrete and it makes them visible.

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It builds your confidence that you can make changes, and it highlights

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the real financial power hidden in seemingly small daily choices.

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Well, let's pray together.

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Father God, thank you for simple pleasures, like a warm drink.

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Lord, help us also to have discipline and wisdom in how we spend those

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resources, even those small things.

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Lord, I pray for my friend listening as they commit to this 30 day

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challenge starting tomorrow.

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Lord, grant them the strength to break the routine, the discipline to follow

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through each day, and the contentment with the alternative they make at home.

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Lord, we ask that this experiment reveal the power of small changes

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and encourage them in their journey towards better stewardship.

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Thank you for your daily strength, Lord, and we ask this in Jesus' name.

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Amen.

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Alright, you can do this.

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It's just 30 days.

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Calculate those savings, make the commitment, and

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then see just what happens.

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You might even surprise yourself.

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I. So we've tackled the morning beverage.

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How about that midday meal?

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Well be sure to join me back here tomorrow on Ask Ralph.

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We're gonna talk about another potentially huge money saver.

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I'm gonna cover that on tomorrow's show.

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And if this episode sparked a thought about your own daily habits,

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please share it with somebody.

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You can find resources and links in the show notes and@askralph.com.

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So until tomorrow, brew Strong at home and keep seeking him first.

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Stay financially savvy and may God bless you.

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You have a great day today.