Hey, yesterday we talked about needs versus wants Today.
Speaker:Let's zoom in on a super common want.
Speaker:That daily trip to the coffee shop.
Speaker:Think it's just a few bucks.
Speaker:Let's run the numbers and see the surprising impact
Speaker:it might be having for you.
Speaker:Hey there, and welcome back to Your Daily Ask Ralph.
Speaker:I'm Ralph and I'm so glad you're here.
Speaker:As we continue exploring the joy of living below your means, we're working
Speaker:to break that cycle of financial shame.
Speaker:With confidence, we're getting into some specific actionable spending
Speaker:changes now, so I hope yesterday's needs versus once exercise was eyeopening.
Speaker:So maybe as you looked at your lunch yesterday, that daily, $4, $5, or maybe
Speaker:even $6 or, or coffee or fancy tea popped up, do you sometimes justify
Speaker:it thinking, well, it's just a small treat, or I, I need it to get going,
Speaker:or, it's my one little indulgence?
Speaker:Maybe you dismiss it as insignificant in the grand scheme of your budget.
Speaker:Or perhaps, you know, it all adds up, but the habit feels too ingrained.
Speaker:A convenience, too appealing or the idea of giving it up feels
Speaker:like too much of a sacrifice.
Speaker:Well, that tendency to overlook that cumulative cost of small daily want
Speaker:purchases, or the resistance to changing those convenient habits, even when
Speaker:we know they drain our resources.
Speaker:That's the single item we're tackling today.
Speaker:Here's the thing, small leaks can sink big ships while one $5
Speaker:coffee might not seem like much consistency adds up incredibly fast.
Speaker:Listen, about $5 a day, five days a week, guess what?
Speaker:That's a hundred dollars a month.
Speaker:That's $1,200 a year, and suddenly that small habit has
Speaker:a significant financial impact.
Speaker:Look at the book of Luke chapter 16, verse 10.
Speaker:It reminds us one who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much.
Speaker:See, part of good stewardship is paying attention to those very little things
Speaker:'cause they demonstrate our discipline and impact our overall financial health.
Speaker:Sometimes convenience culture tricks us into thinking these little daily
Speaker:luxuries are needs when really.
Speaker:They are truly once and we can control them.
Speaker:So how do we combat this death by a thousand cuts
Speaker:spending on small daily wants?
Speaker:How do we prove to ourselves that small changes do make a huge difference?
Speaker:Well, the single powerful solution is to conduct what I
Speaker:call a short term experiment.
Speaker:I want you to commit to brewing your coffee or tea at home instead of
Speaker:buying it and just do it for one month, thinking it as the 30 day challenge.
Speaker:Because it achieves two things.
Speaker:First thing it's gonna achieve is immediate savings.
Speaker:You instantly keep that $3, $5, $7, whatever it is in your pocket each day.
Speaker:The second thing it does is it demonstrates impact, and by tracking
Speaker:that savings for a month, you see tangible proof of how small consistent
Speaker:changes add up over time, and it builds up your discipline muscle.
Speaker:It's not necessary about giving it up forever, unless of course
Speaker:you want to, but about proving the principle and seeing the potential.
Speaker:Making your own at home cost pennies compared to the coffee shop.
Speaker:So the solution is this.
Speaker:It's a focused experiment.
Speaker:Skip the shop and brew it home for a month.
Speaker:So, okay, are you ready for that one action step today?
Speaker:It's a commitment for the next month.
Speaker:First thing I want you to do is calculate your habit.
Speaker:I want you to be honest.
Speaker:Ask yourself how often do you buy coffee or tea while you're out?
Speaker:And what's the average cost?
Speaker:Just multiply it out for a month.
Speaker:For example, if you do a $4 a day, times 20 work days, that equals $80
Speaker:a month, and I want you to write down that potential savings number.
Speaker:Second thing I want you to do is make that commitment.
Speaker:Decide today that starting tomorrow morning and for the next 30 days,
Speaker:you're gonna brew your coffee or tea at home or, or maybe even get
Speaker:that free coffee at work if it's available instead of out and buying it.
Speaker:And third thing I want you to do is plan your alternative.
Speaker:You wanna make sure you have a plan with coffee, tea, cream, or whatever
Speaker:you do at home, so that you're ready for tomorrow morning and fourth.
Speaker:And this one's optional.
Speaker:I want you to earmark those savings, decide what you'll do with that
Speaker:extra 80 bucks in your budget, what, whatever your number is, or
Speaker:how much you'll save this month.
Speaker:Maybe you decide to put it towards debt or maybe help you build that emergency fund.
Speaker:Or maybe you've got that specific savings goal in mind.
Speaker:Because here's the truth, having a purpose fuels motivation.
Speaker:See, might be asking Ralph, why this 30 day challenge?
Speaker:I. Because it directly fights that pain of dismissing small expenses
Speaker:and it battles that resistance to changing convenient habits.
Speaker:See, it makes the savings concrete and it makes them visible.
Speaker:It builds your confidence that you can make changes, and it highlights
Speaker:the real financial power hidden in seemingly small daily choices.
Speaker:Well, let's pray together.
Speaker:Father God, thank you for simple pleasures, like a warm drink.
Speaker:Lord, help us also to have discipline and wisdom in how we spend those
Speaker:resources, even those small things.
Speaker:Lord, I pray for my friend listening as they commit to this 30 day
Speaker:challenge starting tomorrow.
Speaker:Lord, grant them the strength to break the routine, the discipline to follow
Speaker:through each day, and the contentment with the alternative they make at home.
Speaker:Lord, we ask that this experiment reveal the power of small changes
Speaker:and encourage them in their journey towards better stewardship.
Speaker:Thank you for your daily strength, Lord, and we ask this in Jesus' name.
Speaker:Amen.
Speaker:Alright, you can do this.
Speaker:It's just 30 days.
Speaker:Calculate those savings, make the commitment, and
Speaker:then see just what happens.
Speaker:You might even surprise yourself.
Speaker:I. So we've tackled the morning beverage.
Speaker:How about that midday meal?
Speaker:Well be sure to join me back here tomorrow on Ask Ralph.
Speaker:We're gonna talk about another potentially huge money saver.
Speaker:I'm gonna cover that on tomorrow's show.
Speaker:And if this episode sparked a thought about your own daily habits,
Speaker:please share it with somebody.
Speaker:You can find resources and links in the show notes and@askralph.com.
Speaker:So until tomorrow, brew Strong at home and keep seeking him first.
Speaker:Stay financially savvy and may God bless you.
Speaker:You have a great day today.