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Imagine getting up every day full of energy is

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if you were in your 20s. Again, what would that be like? What

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would that be worth

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to you? What is your health worth to you? Think about it.

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Your health isn't everything. But without it, everything else

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is nothing. And yet too many of us are taking it for granted

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until something goes wrong. No one wakes up hoping to be

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diagnosed with a disease or chronic illness. And yet, we've

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never been taught how to be proactive in our health through

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our school system, or public health. As a registered health

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coach and integrative health practitioner, I believe it is

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time this information is made available to everyone. Combining

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will allow you to optimize your health for today and all your

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tomorrow's don't wait for your wake up call.

Melissa Deally:

Welcome back to the don't wait for your wake up call podcast. I

Melissa Deally:

am your host, Melissa dealey and very excited to be sharing with

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you today another special guest Janet Olmstead. Welcome, Janet.

Janet Omstead:

Hi. Nice to be here.

Melissa Deally:

I'm super excited to have you here. And I

Melissa Deally:

just want to introduce you a little bit and then let you

Melissa Deally:

share your story with the audience. But Janet is Canada's

Melissa Deally:

play expert. How fun does that sound. She's also an author and

Melissa Deally:

executive health coach, she is on a mission to reignite

Melissa Deally:

people's passion for play to help fight lifestyle related

Melissa Deally:

disease while improving their quality of life as they age.

Melissa Deally:

With over 20 years of experience in the health and wellness

Melissa Deally:

industry. Janet strength as a play expert lies in working with

Melissa Deally:

habit based change behavior psychology, allowing individual

Melissa Deally:

and corporate clients to make sustainable progress towards

Melissa Deally:

optimal health. Ultimately, Janet helps her clients thrive

Melissa Deally:

through a deep health methodology. Most importantly,

Melissa Deally:

Janet guides people as they change their habits and have

Melissa Deally:

fun. And so I love that you're looking at using Play to fight

Melissa Deally:

these lifestyle related diseases. And that's why I

Melissa Deally:

wanted you on the show because it aligns so beautifully with

Melissa Deally:

the work that I'm doing to also fight those same lifestyle

Melissa Deally:

related diseases. And so please jump in and share with the

Melissa Deally:

audience what brought you into this life of play?

Janet Omstead:

Well, I've always been a huge kid at heart. You

Janet Omstead:

know, all all fun aside, I really am passionate about

Janet Omstead:

health and wellness. And it comes from a deep sense of well,

Janet Omstead:

understanding how life is short. And the reason I got became a

Janet Omstead:

health coach, after years and years and years of having an

Janet Omstead:

interest in health and wellness is because my body gave me a

Janet Omstead:

sign in my 20s which almost took my life. It was my body was

Janet Omstead:

screaming at me and I wasn't paying attention. And I nearly

Janet Omstead:

died from a ruptured ovarian torsion. Six weeks before I got

Janet Omstead:

married, and I made it down the aisle. And that experience made

Janet Omstead:

me promise to myself, I would never take my health for

Janet Omstead:

granted. I would always look after myself. And ironically,

Janet Omstead:

when I wrote my book, on Play, play also stands for please look

Janet Omstead:

after yourself. In my book, I have some across sticks. And

Janet Omstead:

that's a huge one for me. So play is a double meaning, please

Janet Omstead:

look after yourself, which I promised at 24. I would. And

Janet Omstead:

also the act of you know, understanding life is short. And

Janet Omstead:

we do get to take care of ourselves ourselves. We don't

Janet Omstead:

have to we do get too. And I think it's really Yeah, it's

Janet Omstead:

it's a it's a choice, and it's a gift. And, you know, we are so

Janet Omstead:

lucky to live in an age where we have lots of options to take

Janet Omstead:

care of our health. But finding the most sustainable way really

Janet Omstead:

matters to me too, because I know there's a lot. There's a

Janet Omstead:

lot of quick fixes and magic potions that are sold to us. But

Janet Omstead:

you know, sustainable habit based change and the psychology

Janet Omstead:

that goes with it making deep changes to that our behaviors

Janet Omstead:

reflect our values and our, our own beliefs. That's how things

Janet Omstead:

last and that's what makes you show up every day and be able to

Janet Omstead:

take care of yourself the best way you can.

Melissa Deally:

And as hard as it was to go through that at the

Melissa Deally:

age of 24. Just before getting married, again, where we always

Melissa Deally:

look back at these things with 2020 vision and we know that

Melissa Deally:

things happen for us, not to us, right. And you were able to

Melissa Deally:

recognize that this happened for you because you needed to learn

Melissa Deally:

that lesson that it was a choice to look at After yourself, and

Melissa Deally:

you wanted to step into that, and you needed to listen to your

Melissa Deally:

body. And I love that, because again, it's so much about what I

Melissa Deally:

teach in the work that I do. And my regular listeners will have

Melissa Deally:

heard me say this many times. But at first, our body whispers

Melissa Deally:

to us with a gentle touch of a feather. If we don't listen, it

Melissa Deally:

might scream, some bus with a break. And if we still don't

Melissa Deally:

listen, then watch out for the wrecking ball. Right. And

Melissa Deally:

unfortunately, that is the reality for too many people.

Melissa Deally:

Because society teaches us to suck it up and push through and

Melissa Deally:

keep going. Right? Yeah,

Unknown:

work through the pain. Exactly. Yeah,

Melissa Deally:

as opposed to our symptoms truly are our

Melissa Deally:

body's way of talking to us and asking us to do something

Melissa Deally:

differently.

Unknown:

Yeah, and you know what, it's really served my own

Unknown:

personal life well, outside of my, like, a my first health

Unknown:

scare then. But as you know, I am a mom and I have had, I have

Unknown:

kids that have all had their challenges. And they, they all

Unknown:

started from their bodies talking to them. And I was able

Unknown:

to say to them, you know, you have to pay attention to these

Unknown:

signs, because they aren't fake, they're real. And you may want

Unknown:

to brush them aside. But, in fact, my husband, most recently

Unknown:

was his body was talking weird to him. And he luckily went to

Unknown:

the doctor and was able to capture really serious medical

Unknown:

condition early and get the treatment he needed. And thank

Unknown:

God, he listened to his body. Like, it's really important. I

Unknown:

can't I don't know how much the like else just to tell people,

Unknown:

please look after yourself. Yeah, it really matters.

Melissa Deally:

And listen to your body, like you say, right?

Melissa Deally:

And, you know, get to the bottom of it. Don't just mask it. Oh,

Unknown:

again, don't wait, you know, a lot of people are

Unknown:

scared. And often what happens to me as a coach, you know, I

Unknown:

will get referred to by a medical professional or another

Unknown:

client who's worked with me. And often because they like your

Unknown:

line of work in mind, they've had a wake up call, or they're

Unknown:

scared about something. And even if someone comes to me, and

Unknown:

they're kind of suffering from something, I'll say, please go

Unknown:

to your doctor, let's let's get this diagnosed on the one hand,

Unknown:

and then let's bring in all the other magic that is available to

Unknown:

us to help you, you know, be healthier. And yeah, it's never

Unknown:

too late to get the help you need. And I think it's crucial

Unknown:

that more people do. And

Melissa Deally:

the earlier you do it, the better. Oh, yeah, it

Melissa Deally:

is right. I'm always talking about the body being in balance,

Melissa Deally:

right? Yeah, exactly. It's just a little out of balance. It's

Melissa Deally:

just a little tweak to bring it back into balance. But when is

Melissa Deally:

way out of balance over here, it's gonna, you know, take more

Melissa Deally:

effort and more work and take longer. Yeah, the other thing

Melissa Deally:

that I like to share with people is, you didn't just get here

Melissa Deally:

overnight. So why are you expecting to be better?

Melissa Deally:

Overnight? This Oh, and building in your body for weeks, months?

Melissa Deally:

In some cases, years? Exactly. So if working with me, or

Melissa Deally:

working with you is a six month process that's still, in most

Melissa Deally:

cases, much less time than what you've already been?

Unknown:

For sure. And, you know, and especially in my line

Unknown:

of work to with habit based change, you know, the the secret

Unknown:

really, is you may not have paid attention to all those little

Unknown:

changes you were making to get that out of balance. But when

Unknown:

you start making little changes consistently over time. Yeah,

Unknown:

they're manageable. it's manageable. It's doable. It's

Unknown:

and like you said, it's, it will eventually come back. You just

Unknown:

have to give it time.

Melissa Deally:

Exactly. Yeah. So I have your book here, which

Melissa Deally:

I've thoroughly enjoyed reading, and I see your background there.

Unknown:

And I have a copy here. Yeah, and I

Melissa Deally:

highly recommend people pick up this book because

Melissa Deally:

it is such so much great information in it, some

Melissa Deally:

worksheets etc. And what I also really love that you have in

Melissa Deally:

here is your list, your list of 150 different things to get

Melissa Deally:

people moving, for those watching on video 150 ways to

Melissa Deally:

move more so I don't know if you want to maybe share your

Melissa Deally:

favorites from this list. Just to kind of inspires some people

Melissa Deally:

for some things that they haven't thought of. I certainly

Melissa Deally:

know I love moving my body but yeah, what are your maybe it's

Melissa Deally:

your favorites or maybe it's the easiest ones for many of your

Melissa Deally:

clients to step into when you get them moving again.

Unknown:

Yeah, you know, I there's two things about that

Unknown:

list. 150 is is a kind of a double meaning 150 minutes a

Unknown:

week is the minimum amount of time people need to invest to

Unknown:

keep healthy, which is if you break it into time, it's 20

Unknown:

minutes A day, right? And 20 minutes a day. The magic here is

Unknown:

it doesn't have to all be done at once right to break it up. So

Unknown:

coming up with 150 ways to move. I think that's, you know,

Unknown:

something that comes very naturally to me. I can be

Unknown:

outside and look at a sidewalk crack and think, oh my gosh, I

Unknown:

could jump over the sidewalk crack. I could do squats on the

Unknown:

sidewalk crack. Like there's lots of ways we're skipping

Melissa Deally:

over it as children like.

Unknown:

One, there's lots of wrong rhymes. Yeah, they're

Unknown:

really

Melissa Deally:

good. And don't step on the line or your break

Melissa Deally:

or father's fine. I mean, I hope in Japan, and we did that for

Melissa Deally:

air you go,

Unknown:

there you go. So the 150 so the the 150 minutes a

Unknown:

week, and then 150 ways because I honestly think people deserve

Unknown:

the option to find what works for them. And one of the

Unknown:

assessments, personal assessments, I didn't want to

Unknown:

actually call them worksheets, because I don't want people to

Unknown:

think of working out as this like, negative, right when you

Unknown:

you get to move your you don't have to but you get to play. So

Unknown:

the personal assessment on what did you like to do as a kid?

Unknown:

Because that is still available to us. You just because you know

Unknown:

we Yes, we grow and age. But those things that brought us joy

Unknown:

as a kid are still available. And often just as good as if not

Unknown:

better than especially for people that don't like to go to

Unknown:

the gym. There. The world is your playground. So my

Unknown:

favorites. Well, I love skipping rope. I love hula hooping. It's,

Unknown:

I love to Hulu, I love to stand in line. Yeah, I love to stand

Unknown:

in line and balance on a leg one leg, or, you know, I love to

Unknown:

airbox if I'm at a stop sign, like I just think of, you know,

Unknown:

I actually also don't care what people think when I'm doing

Unknown:

public. But I want to do some functional movement, because we

Unknown:

all need to keep strong and functional as we age functional

Unknown:

is just how we move our body naturally, like getting in and

Unknown:

out of a chair or on and off of a toilet or in another car. All

Unknown:

of those movements need to be practiced so we can still do

Unknown:

them. So you know, in my book, I even refer to stalking a habit

Unknown:

that you may have, you may not want to go do squats somewhere,

Unknown:

but boy, you go to the bathroom, you can do five squats after

Unknown:

you've done gone to the bathroom very easily. And so every time

Unknown:

you go to the bathroom, you can add that habit on. And yeah, it

Unknown:

just simple ways to put more movement in your day and make it

Unknown:

fun and playful. And then you can get those 150 minutes pretty

Unknown:

easily. It's not that hard.

Melissa Deally:

Yeah. And it comes from choosing or

Melissa Deally:

recognizing it's a choice. And then as you say, just figuring

Melissa Deally:

out how you can fit it in, in small different places through

Melissa Deally:

the day. Yeah, so I'd love to share with you a couple of

Melissa Deally:

stories. I recently bought the mirror. Are you familiar? Like

Melissa Deally:

it? Oh my goodness, I cannot say how much I love my mirror

Melissa Deally:

enough. Because it's right, you know, 10,000 workouts to choose

Melissa Deally:

from. Right, right. It's right downstairs in the living room

Melissa Deally:

kind of behind the couch. So I can do like stretching in the

Melissa Deally:

evening and my husband's watching TV and I'm on the other

Melissa Deally:

side of the couch. She doesn't even know I'm there doing my

Melissa Deally:

stretching. So AI stretch way more, which is really important

Melissa Deally:

after my days on the mountain skiing. But with 10,000

Melissa Deally:

workouts, I do something on that every single day. Sometimes it's

Melissa Deally:

two, sometimes it's three classes because they have five

Melissa Deally:

minute classes, they have 15 minute classes, right. And I've

Melissa Deally:

tried all these new things that I wasn't doing before. So I was

Melissa Deally:

spending about $1,400 a year on my yoga and my gym membership.

Melissa Deally:

Now I've bought this and the ROI is like within a year, and I pay

Melissa Deally:

$50 A month membership for it. But for all of these different

Melissa Deally:

classes now so I've tried boxing, I never did boxing

Melissa Deally:

before but now I'm learning how to box write and write. I've got

Melissa Deally:

cardio strength, I just found foam roller stretching the other

Melissa Deally:

day, which I needed after we had 70 centimeters of snow on the

Melissa Deally:

mountain last Monday and my thighs were killing me. So I've

Melissa Deally:

been doing foam roller stretching. I did Tai Chi with

Melissa Deally:

my kids when they were home at Christmas. We were laughing

Melissa Deally:

there's kickboxing, there's bar, there's Pilates, there's yoga,

Melissa Deally:

there's toning, there's sculpt, there's bar, I mean, there's so

Melissa Deally:

many different workouts on there. You can do competitions

Melissa Deally:

with other people. So they'll go together and for 30 seconds, you

Melissa Deally:

work out as hard as you can and you get a squat. So it's super

Melissa Deally:

fun. And again, it makes you union makes me feel like I'm

Melissa Deally:

playing and it's really convenient.

Unknown:

Right? That's a big piece for people really is

Unknown:

because

Melissa Deally:

even going to the gym is still for me I'm if I

Melissa Deally:

walk, it's a 20 minute walk. And then I do an hour workout and

Melissa Deally:

then it's a 20 minute walk home says a big chunk of my day. Or

Melissa Deally:

if I drive it's still a five minute drive and dadadada da

Melissa Deally:

right and then just to be able to go downstairs for Five

Melissa Deally:

minutes and just do something for five minutes. Right? Yeah,

Melissa Deally:

absolutely. So I really love that they've come out with that.

Melissa Deally:

And

Unknown:

yeah, the pandemic really did serve us well, on

Unknown:

that front because it brought the option to a lot more people.

Unknown:

I mean, even if you don't have a mirror, there are, you know,

Unknown:

YouTube has 1000s and 1000s. Exactly. And, you know, peloton,

Unknown:

you don't have to own a peloton bike, you can use the app, you

Unknown:

know, they don't have to have a bike. Just, you know, I think

Unknown:

that's a you bring up a really important point, convenience,

Unknown:

fun. And if you'll use it, then you'll do it. So and there's no

Unknown:

right or wrong, right? You're experimenting, you're a perfect

Unknown:

example of you're trying stuff on and wow, I really liked that.

Unknown:

And who knew and it just opens up a whole world that I think as

Unknown:

we age, and as life evolves, we deserve that. Because why

Unknown:

wouldn't you try? There's no reason not to. Exactly.

Melissa Deally:

And it has opened up a whole new world

Melissa Deally:

because before all I did was cardio classes and stretch

Melissa Deally:

strength classes at the gym, and Emily yoga classes, different

Melissa Deally:

kinds of yoga classes, but I didn't have access to bar and

Melissa Deally:

pilates and kickboxing, and boxing and tie all of these

Melissa Deally:

other things. Right. And I certainly wasn't stretching as

Melissa Deally:

much as I should share five minutes at the end of every

Melissa Deally:

class, but not like I should be right. Yeah, yeah, sure. What I

Melissa Deally:

also love too, is the whole family can do it. And like I

Melissa Deally:

said, they have classes from five minutes to an hour from

Melissa Deally:

beginner to advanced. So there's something for everyone. There's

Melissa Deally:

even chair workouts, which is fabulous. And I've done some

Melissa Deally:

chairs stretching, which is just as good as not doing you know,

Melissa Deally:

like, it's there's all sorts of things. So doesn't matter where

Melissa Deally:

you're at, you can get started.

Unknown:

You can also I do want to point out, you said something

Unknown:

really, really valuable there is that there's five minutes,

Unknown:

there's 10 minutes, the only reason that people think they

Unknown:

need an hour is because that's how trainers get paid. Right?

Unknown:

It's a huge fallacy to think that that is a necessity. You

Unknown:

don't need an hour at all. If you have an hour, awesome. Go

Unknown:

for an hour walk or whatever. But you know, just that all

Unknown:

movement matters. In the end the time you have, like you said,

Unknown:

it's fantastic.

Melissa Deally:

And in fact, and you can correct me if I'm wrong,

Melissa Deally:

but I've heard from other trainers that you're better off

Melissa Deally:

actually moving multiple times through the day then doing a

Melissa Deally:

whole hour long workout first thing in the morning and then

Melissa Deally:

not moving all day. Right? Absolutely. If that is your

Melissa Deally:

answer to those little five minute work workouts is better.

Melissa Deally:

Have you heard

Unknown:

of non exercise Activity Thermogenesis? It's

Unknown:

called neat. I have not. Okay, so neat is exactly what you're

Unknown:

talking about. It's a fancier word. But neat stands for non

Unknown:

exercise Activity Thermogenesis which means you are doing

Unknown:

yourself a disservice by doing your workout and sitting for the

Unknown:

rest of the day you almost cancel out the benefits. Versus

Unknown:

Yes, please still keep up your strength in your cardio on those

Unknown:

things. But be intentional about how you're moving throughout the

Unknown:

day set timers to get up. You absolutely that movement is as

Unknown:

good as if not better than a full long workout. All that's

Unknown:

why all movement matters. And that's why Yeah, it throughout

Unknown:

the day. It's everything. It's kind of the thing that people

Unknown:

don't talk about, but really everybody should know.

Melissa Deally:

And for me, I live in a two storey home. So

Melissa Deally:

after each call that I do with my clients, I'm always up and

Melissa Deally:

down the stairs, right just on purpose, I need more tea or

Melissa Deally:

something else. And then I sit on a ball. And I love my this is

Melissa Deally:

I can wiggle right. And I'm just always moving. You

Unknown:

got things going on there, girl. I love it.

Melissa Deally:

I love all of this. And what I do want to say

Melissa Deally:

too, about the mirror that I really loved is they give you a

Melissa Deally:

30 day money back guarantee. Right? You can't lose. You can

Melissa Deally:

buy it and try it. And if it's really not for you, you can

Melissa Deally:

return it. But I bought it and I tried it and I just loved it. So

Melissa Deally:

four months later, I'm still rocking my mirror.

Unknown:

Again, find something you love to do, and you'll stick

Unknown:

with it. Exactly. And if it doesn't work, there are 1000s of

Unknown:

other ways to move your body 100% And get outside. Yeah,

Melissa Deally:

something else that I also want to share with

Melissa Deally:

you. You were talking about, you know, what did you do when you

Melissa Deally:

were a kid? Right? Yeah. So I recently did some training and I

Melissa Deally:

did NLP and timeline therapy and hypnotherapy training. And we're

Melissa Deally:

tapping into the unconscious mind. And I know you're all very

Melissa Deally:

familiar with that with habit change. I'm actually reading

Melissa Deally:

atomic habits right now to Oh, what a great well, a lot so

Melissa Deally:

aligned here. But you know, understanding that our

Melissa Deally:

unconscious mind is a toddler, right? It just wants to play and

Melissa Deally:

have fun and it only communicates in signs and you

Melissa Deally:

know, numbers and single words because it's a toddler. So I

Melissa Deally:

went out for a walk during the day that we were doing

Melissa Deally:

hypnotherapy and it was just a beautiful sunny day, and I just

Melissa Deally:

let my phone just start playing music and I just wanted to dance

Melissa Deally:

and I'm on the valley trail I live in Whistler, so Oh, no one

Melissa Deally:

was around me at the point of that point. And when music comes

Melissa Deally:

on, I just have to move my body dancing across the bridge across

Melissa Deally:

the waterfall and eyes are closed, and I'm twirling, and

Melissa Deally:

I'm thinking, I'm just like a little kid and I start skipping,

Melissa Deally:

and it takes me back to being seven years old. I can't

Melissa Deally:

remember my skips, right. And then I see a man walking up the

Melissa Deally:

path the other way. And I'm like, he probably thinks I'm a

Melissa Deally:

nutcase. But I don't care, maybe he'll just see my pure joy. And

Melissa Deally:

maybe that was it for today. I kept on skipping past and

Melissa Deally:

enjoying my music. And I literally felt like I was seven

Melissa Deally:

years old again. And it was amazing. But so often we create

Melissa Deally:

ourselves back, right? Because we think, Well, an adult can't

Melissa Deally:

behave like that.

Unknown:

Yes, we can. Why not? I know, you know, it's true.

Melissa Deally:

We all get so serious.

Unknown:

Well, there's, that's the thing, becoming an adult

Unknown:

does take on a level of seriousness that also sheds the

Unknown:

light on the fact that, you know, we think these playful

Unknown:

moments aren't available to us anymore. I mean, imagine if

Unknown:

your, your spouse or your friend said, Hey, let's go play in the

Unknown:

woods. Or instead of going to the gym, it's so much easier to

Unknown:

say, Okay, I'm just gonna have to play for a while I'll be

Unknown:

right back, then I have to go do this serious thing, because I

Unknown:

know why it's good for me, but I actually hate it. And it's

Unknown:

really bothering me. And, you know, those kinds of things.

Unknown:

Being, being giving yourself permission to getting back to

Unknown:

being a kid feels way more fun and achievable, then, you know,

Unknown:

not it's, it's a state of mind, really, Melissa, you know, plays

Unknown:

a state of mind and exercise is playing. And that, that

Melissa Deally:

that is the state of mind, I totally agree.

Unknown:

Yeah, if people can switch the, their thinking and

Unknown:

understand that, you know, play is exercise, exercise is play,

Unknown:

then their whole world can open up

Melissa Deally:

100%. And I love what you said about let's go

Melissa Deally:

play in the woods, because I know, you've mentioned that play

Melissa Deally:

is nature's therapy. Oh, it is nature's therapy

Unknown:

on so many levels. And you know, the mind body

Unknown:

connection is so powerful and you really can feel it. Big time

Unknown:

when you're outside in nature. You know, the the mental and

Unknown:

physical benefits of being outside is, is really next

Unknown:

level. And again, it doesn't take a lot of time. But it does

Unknown:

take and I also like to say there's no bad weather. There's

Unknown:

only bad cooling down here. Yeah, I'm gonna guide leader I

Unknown:

know about what to do. Where I got it from, I was never a Girl

Unknown:

Guide leader. But you know, i No matter the weather, play is

Unknown:

still available to us. Yes. Yeah. As long as you're safe, of

Unknown:

course. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And because it boosts your mood, it

Unknown:

improves your memory. It helps fight disease. You know, there's

Unknown:

chronic diseases that are preventable. If you spend more

Unknown:

time moving your body and enjoying nature. That's why it's

Unknown:

nature's therapy.

Melissa Deally:

Well, and because we know that nature

Melissa Deally:

helps us drop out of our chronic stress state and into our rest

Melissa Deally:

and digest parasympathetic nervous system. And in our

Melissa Deally:

world, today, too many of us are living stuck in that chronic

Melissa Deally:

stress, state, fight or flight. We're in that fight or flight

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right in order for the body to be producing the cortisol, the

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adrenaline that it thinks we need in order for us to get away

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from the lion or tiger that it thinks is chasing us. It shuts

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down other systems, one of which is our immune system, because

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the immune system takes energy. And right now the brain thinks

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we need all the energy we can to get to safety. And so that's why

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it's so therapeutic. And I mean, I'm so fortunate I live in

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Whistler, I've got nature all around me. It was a choice to

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live here. I only ever came for one season. And two years later,

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I'm still here you are at 22 Somehow I knew to make that

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choice. But I remember just a couple summers ago, I went to

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Vancouver for the day, right? So driving around in the city and I

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was doing appointments and things and so that can be

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stressful when you don't do it all the time. Right?

Unknown:

And on the way home and all those cars on the road.

Unknown:

Exactly.

Melissa Deally:

Where's your money going? Where am I going to

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find a parking spot right? And why is it so grounded in this

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line because I have five minutes to get to my next appointment

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anyway. So I'm driving home and I stopped in at Alice Lake one

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of our camping sites in Squamish where my sister and her family

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were camping for the week and it was my niece's birthday and I

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pulled into their spot and I parked and I needed to go to the

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washroom so I walked over to the little outhouse there. And as I

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walked back towards their sight, like I had not been there two

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minutes, and I physically felt the stress just leave my body

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Yeah. And it was just again, another reminder of I'm fully

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aware of the benefits of this, but to feel it so. You know, I

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don't know viscerally. I guess in my body, I'm just that Aha of

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Gee, I did kind of had a stressful day to day for it to

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leave my body like that. Within two minutes of being back in

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nature. Love it, right. So by an outhouse. Wow, that's a lot.

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There's a lot of relief happening. Yeah. Oh, yeah. So

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talk to me more about, I know, there's studies that show the

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benefit of, you know, nature and the benefit to the brain, at

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cetera, et cetera, and benefit to health. So share a little bit

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more of these studies with me?

Unknown:

Well, sure, you know, there is a recent study found

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that moderate physical activity thickened parts of the brain in

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beneficial ways to that led 60 year olds who had been sedentary

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scoring as though they were 20 years younger, which is kind of

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phenomenal onyx, with executive function, which is the ability

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to pay attention and organize and achieve goals. So you know,

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that in itself, the having that happen, but also, you know, the

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other medicinal benefits of play are, it can help manage

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arthritis. In fact, it can improve arthritis symptoms by up

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to 40%. And even that 150 minutes a week, the moderate

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physical activity can reduce your risk of developing type two

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diabetes by 26%. And that's huge in today's world. 26%. Yeah,

Unknown:

with moderate intensity, right. And that's what people have to

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really understand that one in four adults globally, do not get

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150 minutes a week of exercise, because there's this stop gap

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between what they think they need to do to get in shape

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versus really what's available to them. And that's where I'm,

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you know, bringing this whole play message back to is that,

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that 150 minutes, is seriously easy to get, when you give

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yourself more permission to be playful, and find the things

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that you'd like to do. Right.

Melissa Deally:

And you've got a whole list of 150 things to

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start sparking ideas.

Unknown:

Oh, that and, you know, also, I didn't want to write my

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book, too, I didn't want to write another exercise book, I

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didn't want to write a book that says, This is what you have to

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do. And this is the way you have to do it. Right? I come in at

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this as truly, as a coach, here are some tools you can use to

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start understanding how much time you're moving every day,

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the kinds of things you'd like to do your vision of what being

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healthy as you age looks like, you know, having a I even

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actually did a vision board specifically for this book,

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which I have as a screensaver on my computer. And you know, it's

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literally it's fresh fruits and vegetables and playing in the

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woods and being in nature and those things, they really speak

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to me and still to this day. And also things in my book, you

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know, really what you value and believe. And really, you know,

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what you're willing, able and able to do all helps paint the

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right picture, as an individual to find the way to move a little

Unknown:

more and play every day.

Melissa Deally:

And I love that you made a vision board around

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it and just to create that future plan for yourself.

Unknown:

Yeah, well, you know, we deserve some inspiration. And

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we all imagine, you know, it's this is not about getting cut

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for competition, you know, play, it's not about, you know, always

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building and, and goal achieving and those type of things. And

Unknown:

it's it's also not about fitting in a dress from when you were

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15. This is about like achieving manageable, sustainable change,

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and movement. Play is the most positive catalyst for change.

Unknown:

Once you start moving more, you feel better. Once you feel

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better, you'll probably sleep better, because you're a little

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more tired. Like your body's working for you, not against

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you. When you're sleeping better, you actually eat better.

Unknown:

Those all those ways to manage our health, as we age are

Unknown:

available. And I believe the lowest barrier to entry and the

Unknown:

most fun way to do it is playing 100%

Melissa Deally:

I totally agree with you there. I totally agree

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with you. And you also mentioned just there we all need a little

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inspiration. And so I just want to let the audience know that if

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you're tuning into this episode for the first time that this is

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coming out in my theme of play for the month of May 2022. But

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my April episodes were all about inspirations So if you're also

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looking for inspiration in your life go check out those episodes

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as well. So I agree that the lowest barrier to entry is play

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like there's almost no barrier at all. And we can just walk

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outside our front door and find ways to play when we open our

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mind too that something again I'm grateful for through this

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pandemic is I bought a paddleboard because I figured,

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well, if I can't travel anywhere, I'm going to be home

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more, and I absolutely love my paddleboard. In fact, last year,

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April 16, was my first day on my paddleboard, Oh, I did it for

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seven days in a row because we had this sudden week of gorgeous

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blue skies, sunny weather. Yeah, I won't be on my paddleboard

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this year on April 17 16th. Because a the mountain is still

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open for the first few years is usually open but the last two

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years it closed early. But secondly, we still have a lot of

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snow this year, and the weather isn't as warm. So I will keep

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skiing. And then in May, I will I'm looking forward to getting

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my paddleboard out. But the other thing that I started was

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backcountry hiking with my oldest daughter, nice, and we

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have absolutely loved getting out into nature, you know,

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hiking up taking everything with us, exploring different

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dehydrated food options, et cetera, et cetera, you know,

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having our tent. And we're again planning this summer, more

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backcountry camping trips, because we just enjoy the time

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together the memories, where we're taking devices, but we

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can't really use them, we're having them for one more like on

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the way back and forth, et cetera. But we're out of self

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range, right? So we're leaving the world behind. Love that just

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getting into nature.

Unknown:

You know what I love about that. And I use the I

Unknown:

share this a lot with my clients in that, that in itself, what

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you're doing is a wonderful role modeling opportunity to help you

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know you, I know you're a guided health professional, but you

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truly are guiding your own child and helping them explore and

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understand those wonderful ways that nature can really

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decompress us, and really help us tune into our world. I think

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it's great, you know, there's a lot of people that struggle with

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their kids on devices, or their grandchildren, or it's a real

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issue. But having the opportunity to be in a role

Unknown:

model position to introduce other people that we love to

Unknown:

other ways of getting outside and moving. It's wonderful. So I

Unknown:

applaud you for that.

Melissa Deally:

Well, thank you. And we both really love it. And

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in fact, it was she that last October. Before we went, she

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looked up the time of sunrise, and she made me get up at 430 in

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the morning, because I think I think Sunrise was at five, but

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we wanted to see all the beautiful change of the colors

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in the sky. Right? I hope we have to first get out when it's

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pitch black.

Unknown:

Yeah, did you take pictures?

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We took a lot of pictures. Out there in complete

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silence, we found an empty platform that we just went lay

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on in our sleeping bags and looked up at the sky. And then

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when it started getting lighter, we actually sat up and took tons

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of pictures. And it was just magically we barely talked we

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didn't need to talk. We were so in awe.

Unknown:

Of what how and wonder. Yeah, no, we all deserve more

Unknown:

awe and wonder. And it again, like nature, it's available to

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us. You have to be intentional. Be exactly and when your

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intention matches what you really desire. That's, I'm so

Unknown:

glad you had that experience together. That's wonderful.

Melissa Deally:

Yeah, it was it was super, super fun. And I

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absolutely love what you're doing. And not only bringing

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this to individuals, but also into the corporate workplace.

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Because that's often where we can feel like we have to be

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serious, we're being paid to do a job, right. And, you know,

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that is a little bit bred into us in terms of society,

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especially in the corporate world. I know from my experience

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in my past life, being in the corporate world, that it's

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serious. And I think

Unknown:

the industrial revolution really set the tone

Unknown:

for that, that, you know, productivity over fun. And I

Unknown:

believe that it doesn't have to be like that. In fact, when I

Unknown:

talk to corporate groups, my the favorite topic I talk about is

Unknown:

how to add more play into your workday. And people are often

Unknown:

surprised by that. But it's it's not that hard. You just have to

Unknown:

find a way and again, role modeling as leaders. I think

Unknown:

it's important that leaders take the time to model that behavior

Unknown:

to their employees, because because you can you know, you

Unknown:

can It's simple. It's not easy, but it's simple.

Melissa Deally:

Exactly. And I was, I heard a stat, I don't

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remember the exact stat recently, but I know, you know,

Melissa Deally:

employee engagements are at all time lows, right? Like, like 80%

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disengagement, right. But when they see the CEO or the

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leadership step into caring for themselves, so this was more

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about encouraging CEOs to look after their health, looking

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after everybody else's, and then they're not looking after their

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own. But what they saw was when the CEO started looking after

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their health, then everybody else started doing it too,

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because it gave them permission to do that. So maybe if the CEO

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went for a walk at lunchtime, will Oh, he if he can do that, I

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can do that. Right. But if he's in his office working all

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through lunch, then the rest of the employees think that that's

Melissa Deally:

what they have to do to

Unknown:

Yeah, it comes back to that role modeling, whether you

Unknown:

are a CEO, being intentional with leading your healthy

Unknown:

behaviors and your healthy habits around others that see

Unknown:

it, it makes a huge, huge difference on how people will

Unknown:

show up for you, as a parent, or as a leader, for sure. Well,

Unknown:

parents are leaders. So let's just put that all in the same

Unknown:

category.

Melissa Deally:

And the reality is, is when we're playing, we

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are getting out of that stress state. And so ultimately, you

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might be thinking you're taking time away from doing something

Melissa Deally:

to play. But yes, actually get more done. Because when you get

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out of that stress state, your frontal lobe will function

Melissa Deally:

better. And you will be able to be more focused, when you come

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back to your work. And your mind just won't be in this overwhelm

Melissa Deally:

of ping, ping, ping, ping, ping getting nothing.

Unknown:

And not to mention, all that play time, adds up to

Unknown:

reducing the other big, big thing that's come out of this

Unknown:

pandemic, which is anxiety and depression, you know, getting

Unknown:

people to understand those movement habits, the play habit,

Unknown:

can reduce their help to reduce it. Absolutely. There's a whole

Unknown:

I mean, I speak to Dr. John Ratey, and my book who is like

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the preeminent psychiatrist on movement, and play, and, you

Unknown:

know, just it can be as good as not necessarily replace

Unknown:

medication, but as good as taking medication. Not that

Unknown:

anybody should ever stop taking their medication with their

Unknown:

doctor. But those regular exercise can work wonders for

Unknown:

your mental health, and, therefore also lead to

Unknown:

productivity at the office. So

Melissa Deally:

100% agree. Well, I've totally love laughing

Melissa Deally:

with you throughout this episode. Because it's been fun,

Melissa Deally:

and we've been playing. So I always love to ask my episode

Melissa Deally:

guests. What does? Now I can't even say it. What does don't

Melissa Deally:

wait for your wake up call mean to you?

Unknown:

Oh, yeah. You know, the wait, don't wait for a wake up

Unknown:

call means be as proactive about your health as you can. You are

Unknown:

the CEO of your health, you are the person in charge. And

Unknown:

having, you know, stuff happens in life. But the more prepared

Unknown:

we are and the better we take care of ourselves proactively.

Unknown:

When those Wake Up Calls happen, like we talked about at the

Unknown:

beginning. They're way less scary, because you have things

Unknown:

in place to help you through, manage through and come out the

Unknown:

other side, on the positive end. Because Wake Up Calls will

Unknown:

happen to everybody. They just do at some point. So the more

Unknown:

prepared like a girl guy, the more prepared you are, the

Unknown:

better off you'll be, because health through health as well.

Melissa Deally:

Exactly. I love that. And I'm so happy to hear

Melissa Deally:

that your husband has just experienced exactly that. So and

Melissa Deally:

that he's doing really well. So that's awesome. So if people are

Melissa Deally:

interested in learning more about you, your work your book,

Melissa Deally:

how can they find you and reach out to

Unknown:

you. So everything anybody needs to reach out to me

Unknown:

is on my website, which is Janet Olmstead. So no l no, H O M S, T

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E, D homestead.com. And over there, you'll find links to find

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my book, I have free downloads. Those assessment sheets, we were

Unknown:

talking about the free first chapter of my book, if you'd

Unknown:

like to get a preview, and also, you know, speaking or coaching,

Unknown:

it's all there. So perfect Instagram, I'm on Instagram, I'm

Unknown:

on LinkedIn, and I think those notes will be in.

Melissa Deally:

Yes. So I will make sure all of that is in the

Melissa Deally:

show notes for the listeners. And yes, thank you very much for

Melissa Deally:

the gift to the audience as well of the first chapter of your

Melissa Deally:

book because I know when people read that they will definitely

Melissa Deally:

want more. And as we finish up, what is one tip that you would

Melissa Deally:

like to leave with the audience so they can listen to this and

Melissa Deally:

then go out and just start playing today? The tip

Unknown:

of this moment, I would say is, the mindset is, I get to

Unknown:

play, I don't have to work out, I get to play. And when you

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change your mindset, it will make a big difference to how you

Unknown:

show up. And I'd love to hear how you're playing. So let me

Unknown:

know if you found something fun. Reach out to me, because it'd be

Unknown:

great to know how you determine that.

Melissa Deally:

I love that. So yes, start playing and email

Melissa Deally:

Janet and let her know what you have started doing in your life.

Melissa Deally:

Well, thank you again for joining us here today. Janet.

Melissa Deally:

It's been so much fun. And thank you to my audience for tuning in

Melissa Deally:

every week. And we will be here again next week. So have a

Melissa Deally:

wonderful week out there everyone.

Melissa Deally:

Bye. Thanks so much. Bye. Thank you for investing this time with

Melissa Deally:

me on the don't wait for your wake up call Podcast. I'm so

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