Imagine getting up every day full of energy is
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Melissa Deally:tomorrow's don't wait for your wake up call.
Melissa Deally:Welcome back to the don't wait for your wake up call podcast. I
Melissa Deally:am your host, Melissa dealey and very excited to be sharing with
Melissa Deally:you today another special guest Janet Olmstead. Welcome, Janet.
Janet Omstead:Hi. Nice to be here.
Melissa Deally:I'm super excited to have you here. And I
Melissa Deally:just want to introduce you a little bit and then let you
Melissa Deally:share your story with the audience. But Janet is Canada's
Melissa Deally:play expert. How fun does that sound. She's also an author and
Melissa Deally:executive health coach, she is on a mission to reignite
Melissa Deally:people's passion for play to help fight lifestyle related
Melissa Deally:disease while improving their quality of life as they age.
Melissa Deally:With over 20 years of experience in the health and wellness
Melissa Deally:industry. Janet strength as a play expert lies in working with
Melissa Deally:habit based change behavior psychology, allowing individual
Melissa Deally:and corporate clients to make sustainable progress towards
Melissa Deally:optimal health. Ultimately, Janet helps her clients thrive
Melissa Deally:through a deep health methodology. Most importantly,
Melissa Deally:Janet guides people as they change their habits and have
Melissa Deally:fun. And so I love that you're looking at using Play to fight
Melissa Deally:these lifestyle related diseases. And that's why I
Melissa Deally:wanted you on the show because it aligns so beautifully with
Melissa Deally:the work that I'm doing to also fight those same lifestyle
Melissa Deally:related diseases. And so please jump in and share with the
Melissa Deally:audience what brought you into this life of play?
Janet Omstead:Well, I've always been a huge kid at heart. You
Janet Omstead:know, all all fun aside, I really am passionate about
Janet Omstead:health and wellness. And it comes from a deep sense of well,
Janet Omstead:understanding how life is short. And the reason I got became a
Janet Omstead:health coach, after years and years and years of having an
Janet Omstead:interest in health and wellness is because my body gave me a
Janet Omstead:sign in my 20s which almost took my life. It was my body was
Janet Omstead:screaming at me and I wasn't paying attention. And I nearly
Janet Omstead:died from a ruptured ovarian torsion. Six weeks before I got
Janet Omstead:married, and I made it down the aisle. And that experience made
Janet Omstead:me promise to myself, I would never take my health for
Janet Omstead:granted. I would always look after myself. And ironically,
Janet Omstead:when I wrote my book, on Play, play also stands for please look
Janet Omstead:after yourself. In my book, I have some across sticks. And
Janet Omstead:that's a huge one for me. So play is a double meaning, please
Janet Omstead:look after yourself, which I promised at 24. I would. And
Janet Omstead:also the act of you know, understanding life is short. And
Janet Omstead:we do get to take care of ourselves ourselves. We don't
Janet Omstead:have to we do get too. And I think it's really Yeah, it's
Janet Omstead:it's a it's a choice, and it's a gift. And, you know, we are so
Janet Omstead:lucky to live in an age where we have lots of options to take
Janet Omstead:care of our health. But finding the most sustainable way really
Janet Omstead:matters to me too, because I know there's a lot. There's a
Janet Omstead:lot of quick fixes and magic potions that are sold to us. But
Janet Omstead:you know, sustainable habit based change and the psychology
Janet Omstead:that goes with it making deep changes to that our behaviors
Janet Omstead:reflect our values and our, our own beliefs. That's how things
Janet Omstead:last and that's what makes you show up every day and be able to
Janet Omstead:take care of yourself the best way you can.
Melissa Deally:And as hard as it was to go through that at the
Melissa Deally:age of 24. Just before getting married, again, where we always
Melissa Deally:look back at these things with 2020 vision and we know that
Melissa Deally:things happen for us, not to us, right. And you were able to
Melissa Deally:recognize that this happened for you because you needed to learn
Melissa Deally:that lesson that it was a choice to look at After yourself, and
Melissa Deally:you wanted to step into that, and you needed to listen to your
Melissa Deally:body. And I love that, because again, it's so much about what I
Melissa Deally:teach in the work that I do. And my regular listeners will have
Melissa Deally:heard me say this many times. But at first, our body whispers
Melissa Deally:to us with a gentle touch of a feather. If we don't listen, it
Melissa Deally:might scream, some bus with a break. And if we still don't
Melissa Deally:listen, then watch out for the wrecking ball. Right. And
Melissa Deally:unfortunately, that is the reality for too many people.
Melissa Deally:Because society teaches us to suck it up and push through and
Melissa Deally:keep going. Right? Yeah,
Unknown:work through the pain. Exactly. Yeah,
Melissa Deally:as opposed to our symptoms truly are our
Melissa Deally:body's way of talking to us and asking us to do something
Melissa Deally:differently.
Unknown:Yeah, and you know what, it's really served my own
Unknown:personal life well, outside of my, like, a my first health
Unknown:scare then. But as you know, I am a mom and I have had, I have
Unknown:kids that have all had their challenges. And they, they all
Unknown:started from their bodies talking to them. And I was able
Unknown:to say to them, you know, you have to pay attention to these
Unknown:signs, because they aren't fake, they're real. And you may want
Unknown:to brush them aside. But, in fact, my husband, most recently
Unknown:was his body was talking weird to him. And he luckily went to
Unknown:the doctor and was able to capture really serious medical
Unknown:condition early and get the treatment he needed. And thank
Unknown:God, he listened to his body. Like, it's really important. I
Unknown:can't I don't know how much the like else just to tell people,
Unknown:please look after yourself. Yeah, it really matters.
Melissa Deally:And listen to your body, like you say, right?
Melissa Deally:And, you know, get to the bottom of it. Don't just mask it. Oh,
Unknown:again, don't wait, you know, a lot of people are
Unknown:scared. And often what happens to me as a coach, you know, I
Unknown:will get referred to by a medical professional or another
Unknown:client who's worked with me. And often because they like your
Unknown:line of work in mind, they've had a wake up call, or they're
Unknown:scared about something. And even if someone comes to me, and
Unknown:they're kind of suffering from something, I'll say, please go
Unknown:to your doctor, let's let's get this diagnosed on the one hand,
Unknown:and then let's bring in all the other magic that is available to
Unknown:us to help you, you know, be healthier. And yeah, it's never
Unknown:too late to get the help you need. And I think it's crucial
Unknown:that more people do. And
Melissa Deally:the earlier you do it, the better. Oh, yeah, it
Melissa Deally:is right. I'm always talking about the body being in balance,
Melissa Deally:right? Yeah, exactly. It's just a little out of balance. It's
Melissa Deally:just a little tweak to bring it back into balance. But when is
Melissa Deally:way out of balance over here, it's gonna, you know, take more
Melissa Deally:effort and more work and take longer. Yeah, the other thing
Melissa Deally:that I like to share with people is, you didn't just get here
Melissa Deally:overnight. So why are you expecting to be better?
Melissa Deally:Overnight? This Oh, and building in your body for weeks, months?
Melissa Deally:In some cases, years? Exactly. So if working with me, or
Melissa Deally:working with you is a six month process that's still, in most
Melissa Deally:cases, much less time than what you've already been?
Unknown:For sure. And, you know, and especially in my line
Unknown:of work to with habit based change, you know, the the secret
Unknown:really, is you may not have paid attention to all those little
Unknown:changes you were making to get that out of balance. But when
Unknown:you start making little changes consistently over time. Yeah,
Unknown:they're manageable. it's manageable. It's doable. It's
Unknown:and like you said, it's, it will eventually come back. You just
Unknown:have to give it time.
Melissa Deally:Exactly. Yeah. So I have your book here, which
Melissa Deally:I've thoroughly enjoyed reading, and I see your background there.
Unknown:And I have a copy here. Yeah, and I
Melissa Deally:highly recommend people pick up this book because
Melissa Deally:it is such so much great information in it, some
Melissa Deally:worksheets etc. And what I also really love that you have in
Melissa Deally:here is your list, your list of 150 different things to get
Melissa Deally:people moving, for those watching on video 150 ways to
Melissa Deally:move more so I don't know if you want to maybe share your
Melissa Deally:favorites from this list. Just to kind of inspires some people
Melissa Deally:for some things that they haven't thought of. I certainly
Melissa Deally:know I love moving my body but yeah, what are your maybe it's
Melissa Deally:your favorites or maybe it's the easiest ones for many of your
Melissa Deally:clients to step into when you get them moving again.
Unknown:Yeah, you know, I there's two things about that
Unknown:list. 150 is is a kind of a double meaning 150 minutes a
Unknown:week is the minimum amount of time people need to invest to
Unknown:keep healthy, which is if you break it into time, it's 20
Unknown:minutes A day, right? And 20 minutes a day. The magic here is
Unknown:it doesn't have to all be done at once right to break it up. So
Unknown:coming up with 150 ways to move. I think that's, you know,
Unknown:something that comes very naturally to me. I can be
Unknown:outside and look at a sidewalk crack and think, oh my gosh, I
Unknown:could jump over the sidewalk crack. I could do squats on the
Unknown:sidewalk crack. Like there's lots of ways we're skipping
Melissa Deally:over it as children like.
Unknown:One, there's lots of wrong rhymes. Yeah, they're
Unknown:really
Melissa Deally:good. And don't step on the line or your break
Melissa Deally:or father's fine. I mean, I hope in Japan, and we did that for
Melissa Deally:air you go,
Unknown:there you go. So the 150 so the the 150 minutes a
Unknown:week, and then 150 ways because I honestly think people deserve
Unknown:the option to find what works for them. And one of the
Unknown:assessments, personal assessments, I didn't want to
Unknown:actually call them worksheets, because I don't want people to
Unknown:think of working out as this like, negative, right when you
Unknown:you get to move your you don't have to but you get to play. So
Unknown:the personal assessment on what did you like to do as a kid?
Unknown:Because that is still available to us. You just because you know
Unknown:we Yes, we grow and age. But those things that brought us joy
Unknown:as a kid are still available. And often just as good as if not
Unknown:better than especially for people that don't like to go to
Unknown:the gym. There. The world is your playground. So my
Unknown:favorites. Well, I love skipping rope. I love hula hooping. It's,
Unknown:I love to Hulu, I love to stand in line. Yeah, I love to stand
Unknown:in line and balance on a leg one leg, or, you know, I love to
Unknown:airbox if I'm at a stop sign, like I just think of, you know,
Unknown:I actually also don't care what people think when I'm doing
Unknown:public. But I want to do some functional movement, because we
Unknown:all need to keep strong and functional as we age functional
Unknown:is just how we move our body naturally, like getting in and
Unknown:out of a chair or on and off of a toilet or in another car. All
Unknown:of those movements need to be practiced so we can still do
Unknown:them. So you know, in my book, I even refer to stalking a habit
Unknown:that you may have, you may not want to go do squats somewhere,
Unknown:but boy, you go to the bathroom, you can do five squats after
Unknown:you've done gone to the bathroom very easily. And so every time
Unknown:you go to the bathroom, you can add that habit on. And yeah, it
Unknown:just simple ways to put more movement in your day and make it
Unknown:fun and playful. And then you can get those 150 minutes pretty
Unknown:easily. It's not that hard.
Melissa Deally:Yeah. And it comes from choosing or
Melissa Deally:recognizing it's a choice. And then as you say, just figuring
Melissa Deally:out how you can fit it in, in small different places through
Melissa Deally:the day. Yeah, so I'd love to share with you a couple of
Melissa Deally:stories. I recently bought the mirror. Are you familiar? Like
Melissa Deally:it? Oh my goodness, I cannot say how much I love my mirror
Melissa Deally:enough. Because it's right, you know, 10,000 workouts to choose
Melissa Deally:from. Right, right. It's right downstairs in the living room
Melissa Deally:kind of behind the couch. So I can do like stretching in the
Melissa Deally:evening and my husband's watching TV and I'm on the other
Melissa Deally:side of the couch. She doesn't even know I'm there doing my
Melissa Deally:stretching. So AI stretch way more, which is really important
Melissa Deally:after my days on the mountain skiing. But with 10,000
Melissa Deally:workouts, I do something on that every single day. Sometimes it's
Melissa Deally:two, sometimes it's three classes because they have five
Melissa Deally:minute classes, they have 15 minute classes, right. And I've
Melissa Deally:tried all these new things that I wasn't doing before. So I was
Melissa Deally:spending about $1,400 a year on my yoga and my gym membership.
Melissa Deally:Now I've bought this and the ROI is like within a year, and I pay
Melissa Deally:$50 A month membership for it. But for all of these different
Melissa Deally:classes now so I've tried boxing, I never did boxing
Melissa Deally:before but now I'm learning how to box write and write. I've got
Melissa Deally:cardio strength, I just found foam roller stretching the other
Melissa Deally:day, which I needed after we had 70 centimeters of snow on the
Melissa Deally:mountain last Monday and my thighs were killing me. So I've
Melissa Deally:been doing foam roller stretching. I did Tai Chi with
Melissa Deally:my kids when they were home at Christmas. We were laughing
Melissa Deally:there's kickboxing, there's bar, there's Pilates, there's yoga,
Melissa Deally:there's toning, there's sculpt, there's bar, I mean, there's so
Melissa Deally:many different workouts on there. You can do competitions
Melissa Deally:with other people. So they'll go together and for 30 seconds, you
Melissa Deally:work out as hard as you can and you get a squat. So it's super
Melissa Deally:fun. And again, it makes you union makes me feel like I'm
Melissa Deally:playing and it's really convenient.
Unknown:Right? That's a big piece for people really is
Unknown:because
Melissa Deally:even going to the gym is still for me I'm if I
Melissa Deally:walk, it's a 20 minute walk. And then I do an hour workout and
Melissa Deally:then it's a 20 minute walk home says a big chunk of my day. Or
Melissa Deally:if I drive it's still a five minute drive and dadadada da
Melissa Deally:right and then just to be able to go downstairs for Five
Melissa Deally:minutes and just do something for five minutes. Right? Yeah,
Melissa Deally:absolutely. So I really love that they've come out with that.
Melissa Deally:And
Unknown:yeah, the pandemic really did serve us well, on
Unknown:that front because it brought the option to a lot more people.
Unknown:I mean, even if you don't have a mirror, there are, you know,
Unknown:YouTube has 1000s and 1000s. Exactly. And, you know, peloton,
Unknown:you don't have to own a peloton bike, you can use the app, you
Unknown:know, they don't have to have a bike. Just, you know, I think
Unknown:that's a you bring up a really important point, convenience,
Unknown:fun. And if you'll use it, then you'll do it. So and there's no
Unknown:right or wrong, right? You're experimenting, you're a perfect
Unknown:example of you're trying stuff on and wow, I really liked that.
Unknown:And who knew and it just opens up a whole world that I think as
Unknown:we age, and as life evolves, we deserve that. Because why
Unknown:wouldn't you try? There's no reason not to. Exactly.
Melissa Deally:And it has opened up a whole new world
Melissa Deally:because before all I did was cardio classes and stretch
Melissa Deally:strength classes at the gym, and Emily yoga classes, different
Melissa Deally:kinds of yoga classes, but I didn't have access to bar and
Melissa Deally:pilates and kickboxing, and boxing and tie all of these
Melissa Deally:other things. Right. And I certainly wasn't stretching as
Melissa Deally:much as I should share five minutes at the end of every
Melissa Deally:class, but not like I should be right. Yeah, yeah, sure. What I
Melissa Deally:also love too, is the whole family can do it. And like I
Melissa Deally:said, they have classes from five minutes to an hour from
Melissa Deally:beginner to advanced. So there's something for everyone. There's
Melissa Deally:even chair workouts, which is fabulous. And I've done some
Melissa Deally:chairs stretching, which is just as good as not doing you know,
Melissa Deally:like, it's there's all sorts of things. So doesn't matter where
Melissa Deally:you're at, you can get started.
Unknown:You can also I do want to point out, you said something
Unknown:really, really valuable there is that there's five minutes,
Unknown:there's 10 minutes, the only reason that people think they
Unknown:need an hour is because that's how trainers get paid. Right?
Unknown:It's a huge fallacy to think that that is a necessity. You
Unknown:don't need an hour at all. If you have an hour, awesome. Go
Unknown:for an hour walk or whatever. But you know, just that all
Unknown:movement matters. In the end the time you have, like you said,
Unknown:it's fantastic.
Melissa Deally:And in fact, and you can correct me if I'm wrong,
Melissa Deally:but I've heard from other trainers that you're better off
Melissa Deally:actually moving multiple times through the day then doing a
Melissa Deally:whole hour long workout first thing in the morning and then
Melissa Deally:not moving all day. Right? Absolutely. If that is your
Melissa Deally:answer to those little five minute work workouts is better.
Melissa Deally:Have you heard
Unknown:of non exercise Activity Thermogenesis? It's
Unknown:called neat. I have not. Okay, so neat is exactly what you're
Unknown:talking about. It's a fancier word. But neat stands for non
Unknown:exercise Activity Thermogenesis which means you are doing
Unknown:yourself a disservice by doing your workout and sitting for the
Unknown:rest of the day you almost cancel out the benefits. Versus
Unknown:Yes, please still keep up your strength in your cardio on those
Unknown:things. But be intentional about how you're moving throughout the
Unknown:day set timers to get up. You absolutely that movement is as
Unknown:good as if not better than a full long workout. All that's
Unknown:why all movement matters. And that's why Yeah, it throughout
Unknown:the day. It's everything. It's kind of the thing that people
Unknown:don't talk about, but really everybody should know.
Melissa Deally:And for me, I live in a two storey home. So
Melissa Deally:after each call that I do with my clients, I'm always up and
Melissa Deally:down the stairs, right just on purpose, I need more tea or
Melissa Deally:something else. And then I sit on a ball. And I love my this is
Melissa Deally:I can wiggle right. And I'm just always moving. You
Unknown:got things going on there, girl. I love it.
Melissa Deally:I love all of this. And what I do want to say
Melissa Deally:too, about the mirror that I really loved is they give you a
Melissa Deally:30 day money back guarantee. Right? You can't lose. You can
Melissa Deally:buy it and try it. And if it's really not for you, you can
Melissa Deally:return it. But I bought it and I tried it and I just loved it. So
Melissa Deally:four months later, I'm still rocking my mirror.
Unknown:Again, find something you love to do, and you'll stick
Unknown:with it. Exactly. And if it doesn't work, there are 1000s of
Unknown:other ways to move your body 100% And get outside. Yeah,
Melissa Deally:something else that I also want to share with
Melissa Deally:you. You were talking about, you know, what did you do when you
Melissa Deally:were a kid? Right? Yeah. So I recently did some training and I
Melissa Deally:did NLP and timeline therapy and hypnotherapy training. And we're
Melissa Deally:tapping into the unconscious mind. And I know you're all very
Melissa Deally:familiar with that with habit change. I'm actually reading
Melissa Deally:atomic habits right now to Oh, what a great well, a lot so
Melissa Deally:aligned here. But you know, understanding that our
Melissa Deally:unconscious mind is a toddler, right? It just wants to play and
Melissa Deally:have fun and it only communicates in signs and you
Melissa Deally:know, numbers and single words because it's a toddler. So I
Melissa Deally:went out for a walk during the day that we were doing
Melissa Deally:hypnotherapy and it was just a beautiful sunny day, and I just
Melissa Deally:let my phone just start playing music and I just wanted to dance
Melissa Deally:and I'm on the valley trail I live in Whistler, so Oh, no one
Melissa Deally:was around me at the point of that point. And when music comes
Melissa Deally:on, I just have to move my body dancing across the bridge across
Melissa Deally:the waterfall and eyes are closed, and I'm twirling, and
Melissa Deally:I'm thinking, I'm just like a little kid and I start skipping,
Melissa Deally:and it takes me back to being seven years old. I can't
Melissa Deally:remember my skips, right. And then I see a man walking up the
Melissa Deally:path the other way. And I'm like, he probably thinks I'm a
Melissa Deally:nutcase. But I don't care, maybe he'll just see my pure joy. And
Melissa Deally:maybe that was it for today. I kept on skipping past and
Melissa Deally:enjoying my music. And I literally felt like I was seven
Melissa Deally:years old again. And it was amazing. But so often we create
Melissa Deally:ourselves back, right? Because we think, Well, an adult can't
Melissa Deally:behave like that.
Unknown:Yes, we can. Why not? I know, you know, it's true.
Melissa Deally:We all get so serious.
Unknown:Well, there's, that's the thing, becoming an adult
Unknown:does take on a level of seriousness that also sheds the
Unknown:light on the fact that, you know, we think these playful
Unknown:moments aren't available to us anymore. I mean, imagine if
Unknown:your, your spouse or your friend said, Hey, let's go play in the
Unknown:woods. Or instead of going to the gym, it's so much easier to
Unknown:say, Okay, I'm just gonna have to play for a while I'll be
Unknown:right back, then I have to go do this serious thing, because I
Unknown:know why it's good for me, but I actually hate it. And it's
Unknown:really bothering me. And, you know, those kinds of things.
Unknown:Being, being giving yourself permission to getting back to
Unknown:being a kid feels way more fun and achievable, then, you know,
Unknown:not it's, it's a state of mind, really, Melissa, you know, plays
Unknown:a state of mind and exercise is playing. And that, that
Melissa Deally:that is the state of mind, I totally agree.
Unknown:Yeah, if people can switch the, their thinking and
Unknown:understand that, you know, play is exercise, exercise is play,
Unknown:then their whole world can open up
Melissa Deally:100%. And I love what you said about let's go
Melissa Deally:play in the woods, because I know, you've mentioned that play
Melissa Deally:is nature's therapy. Oh, it is nature's therapy
Unknown:on so many levels. And you know, the mind body
Unknown:connection is so powerful and you really can feel it. Big time
Unknown:when you're outside in nature. You know, the the mental and
Unknown:physical benefits of being outside is, is really next
Unknown:level. And again, it doesn't take a lot of time. But it does
Unknown:take and I also like to say there's no bad weather. There's
Unknown:only bad cooling down here. Yeah, I'm gonna guide leader I
Unknown:know about what to do. Where I got it from, I was never a Girl
Unknown:Guide leader. But you know, i No matter the weather, play is
Unknown:still available to us. Yes. Yeah. As long as you're safe, of
Unknown:course. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And because it boosts your mood, it
Unknown:improves your memory. It helps fight disease. You know, there's
Unknown:chronic diseases that are preventable. If you spend more
Unknown:time moving your body and enjoying nature. That's why it's
Unknown:nature's therapy.
Melissa Deally:Well, and because we know that nature
Melissa Deally:helps us drop out of our chronic stress state and into our rest
Melissa Deally:and digest parasympathetic nervous system. And in our
Melissa Deally:world, today, too many of us are living stuck in that chronic
Melissa Deally:stress, state, fight or flight. We're in that fight or flight
Melissa Deally:right in order for the body to be producing the cortisol, the
Melissa Deally:adrenaline that it thinks we need in order for us to get away
Melissa Deally:from the lion or tiger that it thinks is chasing us. It shuts
Melissa Deally:down other systems, one of which is our immune system, because
Melissa Deally:the immune system takes energy. And right now the brain thinks
Melissa Deally:we need all the energy we can to get to safety. And so that's why
Melissa Deally:it's so therapeutic. And I mean, I'm so fortunate I live in
Melissa Deally:Whistler, I've got nature all around me. It was a choice to
Melissa Deally:live here. I only ever came for one season. And two years later,
Melissa Deally:I'm still here you are at 22 Somehow I knew to make that
Melissa Deally:choice. But I remember just a couple summers ago, I went to
Melissa Deally:Vancouver for the day, right? So driving around in the city and I
Melissa Deally:was doing appointments and things and so that can be
Melissa Deally:stressful when you don't do it all the time. Right?
Unknown:And on the way home and all those cars on the road.
Unknown:Exactly.
Melissa Deally:Where's your money going? Where am I going to
Melissa Deally:find a parking spot right? And why is it so grounded in this
Melissa Deally:line because I have five minutes to get to my next appointment
Melissa Deally:anyway. So I'm driving home and I stopped in at Alice Lake one
Melissa Deally:of our camping sites in Squamish where my sister and her family
Melissa Deally:were camping for the week and it was my niece's birthday and I
Melissa Deally:pulled into their spot and I parked and I needed to go to the
Melissa Deally:washroom so I walked over to the little outhouse there. And as I
Melissa Deally:walked back towards their sight, like I had not been there two
Melissa Deally:minutes, and I physically felt the stress just leave my body
Melissa Deally:Yeah. And it was just again, another reminder of I'm fully
Melissa Deally:aware of the benefits of this, but to feel it so. You know, I
Melissa Deally:don't know viscerally. I guess in my body, I'm just that Aha of
Melissa Deally:Gee, I did kind of had a stressful day to day for it to
Melissa Deally:leave my body like that. Within two minutes of being back in
Melissa Deally:nature. Love it, right. So by an outhouse. Wow, that's a lot.
Melissa Deally:There's a lot of relief happening. Yeah. Oh, yeah. So
Melissa Deally:talk to me more about, I know, there's studies that show the
Melissa Deally:benefit of, you know, nature and the benefit to the brain, at
Melissa Deally:cetera, et cetera, and benefit to health. So share a little bit
Melissa Deally:more of these studies with me?
Unknown:Well, sure, you know, there is a recent study found
Unknown:that moderate physical activity thickened parts of the brain in
Unknown:beneficial ways to that led 60 year olds who had been sedentary
Unknown:scoring as though they were 20 years younger, which is kind of
Unknown:phenomenal onyx, with executive function, which is the ability
Unknown:to pay attention and organize and achieve goals. So you know,
Unknown:that in itself, the having that happen, but also, you know, the
Unknown:other medicinal benefits of play are, it can help manage
Unknown:arthritis. In fact, it can improve arthritis symptoms by up
Unknown:to 40%. And even that 150 minutes a week, the moderate
Unknown:physical activity can reduce your risk of developing type two
Unknown:diabetes by 26%. And that's huge in today's world. 26%. Yeah,
Unknown:with moderate intensity, right. And that's what people have to
Unknown:really understand that one in four adults globally, do not get
Unknown:150 minutes a week of exercise, because there's this stop gap
Unknown:between what they think they need to do to get in shape
Unknown:versus really what's available to them. And that's where I'm,
Unknown:you know, bringing this whole play message back to is that,
Unknown:that 150 minutes, is seriously easy to get, when you give
Unknown:yourself more permission to be playful, and find the things
Unknown:that you'd like to do. Right.
Melissa Deally:And you've got a whole list of 150 things to
Melissa Deally:start sparking ideas.
Unknown:Oh, that and, you know, also, I didn't want to write my
Unknown:book, too, I didn't want to write another exercise book, I
Unknown:didn't want to write a book that says, This is what you have to
Unknown:do. And this is the way you have to do it. Right? I come in at
Unknown:this as truly, as a coach, here are some tools you can use to
Unknown:start understanding how much time you're moving every day,
Unknown:the kinds of things you'd like to do your vision of what being
Unknown:healthy as you age looks like, you know, having a I even
Unknown:actually did a vision board specifically for this book,
Unknown:which I have as a screensaver on my computer. And you know, it's
Unknown:literally it's fresh fruits and vegetables and playing in the
Unknown:woods and being in nature and those things, they really speak
Unknown:to me and still to this day. And also things in my book, you
Unknown:know, really what you value and believe. And really, you know,
Unknown:what you're willing, able and able to do all helps paint the
Unknown:right picture, as an individual to find the way to move a little
Unknown:more and play every day.
Melissa Deally:And I love that you made a vision board around
Melissa Deally:it and just to create that future plan for yourself.
Unknown:Yeah, well, you know, we deserve some inspiration. And
Unknown:we all imagine, you know, it's this is not about getting cut
Unknown:for competition, you know, play, it's not about, you know, always
Unknown:building and, and goal achieving and those type of things. And
Unknown:it's it's also not about fitting in a dress from when you were
Unknown:15. This is about like achieving manageable, sustainable change,
Unknown:and movement. Play is the most positive catalyst for change.
Unknown:Once you start moving more, you feel better. Once you feel
Unknown:better, you'll probably sleep better, because you're a little
Unknown:more tired. Like your body's working for you, not against
Unknown:you. When you're sleeping better, you actually eat better.
Unknown:Those all those ways to manage our health, as we age are
Unknown:available. And I believe the lowest barrier to entry and the
Unknown:most fun way to do it is playing 100%
Melissa Deally:I totally agree with you there. I totally agree
Melissa Deally:with you. And you also mentioned just there we all need a little
Melissa Deally:inspiration. And so I just want to let the audience know that if
Melissa Deally:you're tuning into this episode for the first time that this is
Melissa Deally:coming out in my theme of play for the month of May 2022. But
Melissa Deally:my April episodes were all about inspirations So if you're also
Melissa Deally:looking for inspiration in your life go check out those episodes
Melissa Deally:as well. So I agree that the lowest barrier to entry is play
Melissa Deally:like there's almost no barrier at all. And we can just walk
Melissa Deally:outside our front door and find ways to play when we open our
Melissa Deally:mind too that something again I'm grateful for through this
Melissa Deally:pandemic is I bought a paddleboard because I figured,
Melissa Deally:well, if I can't travel anywhere, I'm going to be home
Melissa Deally:more, and I absolutely love my paddleboard. In fact, last year,
Melissa Deally:April 16, was my first day on my paddleboard, Oh, I did it for
Melissa Deally:seven days in a row because we had this sudden week of gorgeous
Melissa Deally:blue skies, sunny weather. Yeah, I won't be on my paddleboard
Melissa Deally:this year on April 17 16th. Because a the mountain is still
Melissa Deally:open for the first few years is usually open but the last two
Melissa Deally:years it closed early. But secondly, we still have a lot of
Melissa Deally:snow this year, and the weather isn't as warm. So I will keep
Melissa Deally:skiing. And then in May, I will I'm looking forward to getting
Melissa Deally:my paddleboard out. But the other thing that I started was
Melissa Deally:backcountry hiking with my oldest daughter, nice, and we
Melissa Deally:have absolutely loved getting out into nature, you know,
Melissa Deally:hiking up taking everything with us, exploring different
Melissa Deally:dehydrated food options, et cetera, et cetera, you know,
Melissa Deally:having our tent. And we're again planning this summer, more
Melissa Deally:backcountry camping trips, because we just enjoy the time
Melissa Deally:together the memories, where we're taking devices, but we
Melissa Deally:can't really use them, we're having them for one more like on
Melissa Deally:the way back and forth, et cetera. But we're out of self
Melissa Deally:range, right? So we're leaving the world behind. Love that just
Melissa Deally:getting into nature.
Unknown:You know what I love about that. And I use the I
Unknown:share this a lot with my clients in that, that in itself, what
Unknown:you're doing is a wonderful role modeling opportunity to help you
Unknown:know you, I know you're a guided health professional, but you
Unknown:truly are guiding your own child and helping them explore and
Unknown:understand those wonderful ways that nature can really
Unknown:decompress us, and really help us tune into our world. I think
Unknown:it's great, you know, there's a lot of people that struggle with
Unknown:their kids on devices, or their grandchildren, or it's a real
Unknown:issue. But having the opportunity to be in a role
Unknown:model position to introduce other people that we love to
Unknown:other ways of getting outside and moving. It's wonderful. So I
Unknown:applaud you for that.
Melissa Deally:Well, thank you. And we both really love it. And
Melissa Deally:in fact, it was she that last October. Before we went, she
Melissa Deally:looked up the time of sunrise, and she made me get up at 430 in
Melissa Deally:the morning, because I think I think Sunrise was at five, but
Melissa Deally:we wanted to see all the beautiful change of the colors
Melissa Deally:in the sky. Right? I hope we have to first get out when it's
Melissa Deally:pitch black.
Unknown:Yeah, did you take pictures?
Melissa Deally:We took a lot of pictures. Out there in complete
Melissa Deally:silence, we found an empty platform that we just went lay
Melissa Deally:on in our sleeping bags and looked up at the sky. And then
Melissa Deally:when it started getting lighter, we actually sat up and took tons
Melissa Deally:of pictures. And it was just magically we barely talked we
Melissa Deally:didn't need to talk. We were so in awe.
Unknown:Of what how and wonder. Yeah, no, we all deserve more
Unknown:awe and wonder. And it again, like nature, it's available to
Unknown:us. You have to be intentional. Be exactly and when your
Unknown:intention matches what you really desire. That's, I'm so
Unknown:glad you had that experience together. That's wonderful.
Melissa Deally:Yeah, it was it was super, super fun. And I
Melissa Deally:absolutely love what you're doing. And not only bringing
Melissa Deally:this to individuals, but also into the corporate workplace.
Melissa Deally:Because that's often where we can feel like we have to be
Melissa Deally:serious, we're being paid to do a job, right. And, you know,
Melissa Deally:that is a little bit bred into us in terms of society,
Melissa Deally:especially in the corporate world. I know from my experience
Melissa Deally:in my past life, being in the corporate world, that it's
Melissa Deally:serious. And I think
Unknown:the industrial revolution really set the tone
Unknown:for that, that, you know, productivity over fun. And I
Unknown:believe that it doesn't have to be like that. In fact, when I
Unknown:talk to corporate groups, my the favorite topic I talk about is
Unknown:how to add more play into your workday. And people are often
Unknown:surprised by that. But it's it's not that hard. You just have to
Unknown:find a way and again, role modeling as leaders. I think
Unknown:it's important that leaders take the time to model that behavior
Unknown:to their employees, because because you can you know, you
Unknown:can It's simple. It's not easy, but it's simple.
Melissa Deally:Exactly. And I was, I heard a stat, I don't
Melissa Deally:remember the exact stat recently, but I know, you know,
Melissa Deally:employee engagements are at all time lows, right? Like, like 80%
Melissa Deally:disengagement, right. But when they see the CEO or the
Melissa Deally:leadership step into caring for themselves, so this was more
Melissa Deally:about encouraging CEOs to look after their health, looking
Melissa Deally:after everybody else's, and then they're not looking after their
Melissa Deally:own. But what they saw was when the CEO started looking after
Melissa Deally:their health, then everybody else started doing it too,
Melissa Deally:because it gave them permission to do that. So maybe if the CEO
Melissa Deally:went for a walk at lunchtime, will Oh, he if he can do that, I
Melissa Deally:can do that. Right. But if he's in his office working all
Melissa Deally:through lunch, then the rest of the employees think that that's
Melissa Deally:what they have to do to
Unknown:Yeah, it comes back to that role modeling, whether you
Unknown:are a CEO, being intentional with leading your healthy
Unknown:behaviors and your healthy habits around others that see
Unknown:it, it makes a huge, huge difference on how people will
Unknown:show up for you, as a parent, or as a leader, for sure. Well,
Unknown:parents are leaders. So let's just put that all in the same
Unknown:category.
Melissa Deally:And the reality is, is when we're playing, we
Melissa Deally:are getting out of that stress state. And so ultimately, you
Melissa Deally:might be thinking you're taking time away from doing something
Melissa Deally:to play. But yes, actually get more done. Because when you get
Melissa Deally:out of that stress state, your frontal lobe will function
Melissa Deally:better. And you will be able to be more focused, when you come
Melissa Deally:back to your work. And your mind just won't be in this overwhelm
Melissa Deally:of ping, ping, ping, ping, ping getting nothing.
Unknown:And not to mention, all that play time, adds up to
Unknown:reducing the other big, big thing that's come out of this
Unknown:pandemic, which is anxiety and depression, you know, getting
Unknown:people to understand those movement habits, the play habit,
Unknown:can reduce their help to reduce it. Absolutely. There's a whole
Unknown:I mean, I speak to Dr. John Ratey, and my book who is like
Unknown:the preeminent psychiatrist on movement, and play, and, you
Unknown:know, just it can be as good as not necessarily replace
Unknown:medication, but as good as taking medication. Not that
Unknown:anybody should ever stop taking their medication with their
Unknown:doctor. But those regular exercise can work wonders for
Unknown:your mental health, and, therefore also lead to
Unknown:productivity at the office. So
Melissa Deally:100% agree. Well, I've totally love laughing
Melissa Deally:with you throughout this episode. Because it's been fun,
Melissa Deally:and we've been playing. So I always love to ask my episode
Melissa Deally:guests. What does? Now I can't even say it. What does don't
Melissa Deally:wait for your wake up call mean to you?
Unknown:Oh, yeah. You know, the wait, don't wait for a wake up
Unknown:call means be as proactive about your health as you can. You are
Unknown:the CEO of your health, you are the person in charge. And
Unknown:having, you know, stuff happens in life. But the more prepared
Unknown:we are and the better we take care of ourselves proactively.
Unknown:When those Wake Up Calls happen, like we talked about at the
Unknown:beginning. They're way less scary, because you have things
Unknown:in place to help you through, manage through and come out the
Unknown:other side, on the positive end. Because Wake Up Calls will
Unknown:happen to everybody. They just do at some point. So the more
Unknown:prepared like a girl guy, the more prepared you are, the
Unknown:better off you'll be, because health through health as well.
Melissa Deally:Exactly. I love that. And I'm so happy to hear
Melissa Deally:that your husband has just experienced exactly that. So and
Melissa Deally:that he's doing really well. So that's awesome. So if people are
Melissa Deally:interested in learning more about you, your work your book,
Melissa Deally:how can they find you and reach out to
Unknown:you. So everything anybody needs to reach out to me
Unknown:is on my website, which is Janet Olmstead. So no l no, H O M S, T
Unknown:E, D homestead.com. And over there, you'll find links to find
Unknown:my book, I have free downloads. Those assessment sheets, we were
Unknown:talking about the free first chapter of my book, if you'd
Unknown:like to get a preview, and also, you know, speaking or coaching,
Unknown:it's all there. So perfect Instagram, I'm on Instagram, I'm
Unknown:on LinkedIn, and I think those notes will be in.
Melissa Deally:Yes. So I will make sure all of that is in the
Melissa Deally:show notes for the listeners. And yes, thank you very much for
Melissa Deally:the gift to the audience as well of the first chapter of your
Melissa Deally:book because I know when people read that they will definitely
Melissa Deally:want more. And as we finish up, what is one tip that you would
Melissa Deally:like to leave with the audience so they can listen to this and
Melissa Deally:then go out and just start playing today? The tip
Unknown:of this moment, I would say is, the mindset is, I get to
Unknown:play, I don't have to work out, I get to play. And when you
Unknown:change your mindset, it will make a big difference to how you
Unknown:show up. And I'd love to hear how you're playing. So let me
Unknown:know if you found something fun. Reach out to me, because it'd be
Unknown:great to know how you determine that.
Melissa Deally:I love that. So yes, start playing and email
Melissa Deally:Janet and let her know what you have started doing in your life.
Melissa Deally:Well, thank you again for joining us here today. Janet.
Melissa Deally:It's been so much fun. And thank you to my audience for tuning in
Melissa Deally:every week. And we will be here again next week. So have a
Melissa Deally:wonderful week out there everyone.
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