Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

your host Aurora, and I'm very happy to be spending some time

with you today. It is Sunday. And yeah, the last couple weeks

the last episodes I interviewed, hard driven man who are very

inspiring and motivational and they share their story and give

us hope, on how we can find our purpose and our power one day,

even if we don't really see it right now. It is possible. And

I'm very proud and happy to be meeting with those people who

recklessly not recklessly sorry but fearlessly and fiercely

follow their passion and what is true to themselves and always in

mind to serve other people and support other people, I find it

incredibly inspiring and awesome. To know that there's so

many people out there who are on this path already, and there

will be more and more in the future.

Today, I felt the need to talk about the feminine again, I want

to make space for the feminine, too many of us are at war with

the feminine, the feminine is too loud, too wild untameable.

Unpredictable, the feminine can destroy, manipulate, hurt.

And it's a very powerful energy to be in.

And when

the feminine was hurt in the past and has not healed, then it

exhibits very toxic behavior.

And we have to be aware of this in order to heal in order to

understand why some of our relationships failed, because it

is not always the other person's fault. That a fall out has

happened.

The feminine, can nurture and create and give birth, the

feminine is the source of all creativity. And I feel at the

moment, the feminine has not much space in our society, it

doesn't really fit in. It is not convenient for us women to be on

our periods and our body telling us that we want to rest and

recharge No, we push through. We keep competing with man, we keep

being ego driven, and trying to prove to the world that we can

be so strong and

not distracted

by anything.

And I feel a lot of women live in that reactive state, we are

reacting to past disappointment and hurts. And it is not serving

us it is certainly not serving society, and men who want to

connect with us. But most importantly, it is not serving

ourselves we have to learn to embrace our femininity again.

And same goes for men. You know we talk a lot about how we all

have to be more vulnerable and show feelings and everything and

kind of getting a little bit tired of that word vulnerable

because yeah, it is true. We have to get back to our feelings

and emotions again. But I'd like to talk more about fierce

compassion and fierce self compassion. Especially, we have

to take our body serious. The signals that it sends us when we

feel tired when we feel we need to rest. We have to take it

serious and if we are too tired too often than half we have to

be little detectives and we have to find out what the cause is,

instead of just throwing medication and pills added and

hoping that it will pass. You know the feminine is very

connected and intuitive to the body and to nature. And I feel

we

have to learn to reconnect to our body to listen to our body

more attentively again. And to connect with nature, again.

People are so intimidated and fear driven by the news, the

media, and especially social media. We're like paradise,

little bunnies in front of screens, reacting to everything

having to have an opinion to everything, wanting to do our

research and being right and

ego driven. And it is not serving us, It tires us out, it

drains us, it doesn't make a sleep, safe and sound at night,

we push

Red Bull and coffee down our throat in order to be

functioning in society because we're just too tired, and then

we're over caffeinated, and try to pursue goals that are not

really awesome to pursue. So we have to come back, we have to

come back to silence, we have to come back to a very soft and

quiet way of living a way of living, where we are selective

of what goes in and out of our body. And I'm not talking only

about water and food. I'm talking about all the content

that we are consuming. Is it serving us what we consume on a

daily daily basis? I would just watching it, listening to it,

because we're waiting for the next argument have to be right,

and to have an opinion, when another person raises a concern,

or asks a question.

I feel we're shooting at each other with answers and opinions

and everybody wants to be right. Everybody wants to have

certainty. But the feminine is not scared of uncertainty, the

feminine embrace uncertainty, because she's very unpredictable

herself. She's very confident with her mood swings. And she's

okay. When things change. It is the masculine that is kind of

like a container and that gives structure. And that is very,

extremely important too. We need structure and life we need law

and order. But what I want to say here tonight is that we need

both. We need the wild untameable fear less people out

there who express themselves who express their creativity, who

are not in reactivity, all the time, but who dig deep inside of

themselves and let their creativity out. That is serving

people that is healing people that is making this planet a

better world

the feminine, I was at war with my feminine for so long for so

long. I hated her unpredictability, I hated her

loudness, her quietness, her mood swings her madness until I

started embracing her and healing the parts that got hurt

along the way, by men, by women.

And now I'm more and more myself. I'm more and more fierce

lessly compassionate with myself.

And I'm inviting you to do the same. I'm inviting you to come

onto this journey with me and to UNdeC your feminine creative

side. And I think and I hope and I know you understand me right

this is not a message to women only this is a message to men.

When you look at Keith Richards when you look at the Rolling

Stones when you look at

all the masculine artists out there who are successful, they

are able to tap into their femininity and into their

masculinity when ever they wish to.

And you can do the same you can start with

From today on, to embrace your creative side, to embrace your

expression of self, without fear of rejection, because you're

going to reject the people that are not meant to be in your life

anyways. And you're going to attract the people who are meant

to be in your life, and who will support your mission, and who

will lift you up, and you will do the same for them.

Thank you for listening to this episode. Very passionate, very

mad, very feminine. Feminine is not about not being able to

throw a ball or to cry in a corner. When something doesn't

go away. Right? We all have very set visions on what femininity

looks like. All I can say is feminine, as wild as mad as

creative is giving birth is destroying when things are meant

to be destroyed. But she's never resentful. She's never hurting

people in order to feel power. She's never making people feel

inferior. That is the toxic femininity that we have to

slowly become aware of and call people out

in order for us to heal in order for us to become more resilient

and stronger as a society.

I will be out there very soon again. Thanks for listening