In this episode, let's talk about the three things you
Speaker:need to do to avoid the artist boom and bust cycle in your
Speaker:business. Hi, I'm Katie McManus, business strategist and money
Speaker:mindset coach. And welcome to the Weeniecast!.
Speaker:As someone who has benefited from a gratitude practice many
Speaker:times in my life, I can tell you from lots of experience working
Speaker:with clients that sometimes you it actually you
Speaker:up. Going into your business and operating it from
Speaker:a position of I'm so grateful that I have work
Speaker:can be one of the worst things that happens to you,
Speaker:because when you become so enamored with the fact
Speaker:that you have work, you set yourself up for what I
Speaker:call the artist boom and bust cycle. Now, this is
Speaker:a business model that will burn you out, prevent
Speaker:you from ever saving for retirement, keep you
Speaker:constantly stressed and freaked out that you're going to go
Speaker:broke. And it's something that happens to a lot of people.
Speaker:So I want you to picture an artist. And they've spent the
Speaker:last three months creating a whole bunch of paintings. They're
Speaker:beautiful, spend a lot of time, they do a lot of detail. Their
Speaker:work is phenomenal. But in the last three months, they haven't been
Speaker:selling anything. So as you can imagine, they're a
Speaker:human that live in a human meat suit, that
Speaker:needs shelter and water and food
Speaker:and occasionally to go out and have fun with friends and might
Speaker:make the occasional impulsive purchase because they probably have
Speaker:adhd as well. Now, unless they are independently
Speaker:wealthy, all that costs money. And if they're not bringing money
Speaker:in, it means it's eating away at their savings.
Speaker:So the artist now has a lot of inventory, but they don't have a lot
Speaker:of money. So they go to market. They perhaps do a partnership with a
Speaker:gallery, and they start selling their pieces now because they're focused on
Speaker:selling. They have money coming in. It's really cool. They start being so grateful
Speaker:that people are interested in their work, and they get so
Speaker:invested in selling their pieces that what are they not doing?
Speaker:They're not producing more art.
Speaker:So they're so grateful. They're ecstatic that people
Speaker:are coming into the gallery, they're viewing their work, they're putting bids
Speaker:in pieces, are going out the door, money is coming into their bank
Speaker:account, but what happens? At a certain point, they run
Speaker:out of inventory, and so they have a full bank account,
Speaker:but they have nothing more to sell. So all that
Speaker:gratitude, all that excitement about, oh, my God, people actually want to buy what I
Speaker:make kind of fucked them up. Because they got so invested in it that
Speaker:they stopped creating art. So what do they have to do now?
Speaker:They have to go back into their studio. They have to start cranking out
Speaker:art like crazy. All the while they're living off the savings
Speaker:that they just made, and that money starts
Speaker:dwindling. And then again, they have to take all the inventory that they've
Speaker:created and they have to go and put it up in a gallery and start
Speaker:selling it. And this cycle can continue
Speaker:forever. And as
Speaker:you can imagine, it doesn't create a sustainable life.
Speaker:It's feast or famine. And if
Speaker:you're creative, which, I mean, most of us with ADHD have some element
Speaker:of creativity, even if we're not in the art space,
Speaker:it's really hard to be creative. When you're
Speaker:so stressed about surviving, when there's that
Speaker:massive money stress hanging over your head that you might not be able to afford
Speaker:rent next month, how are you supposed to come up with something creative
Speaker:that people actually want to buy? It creates way too much pressure. There's an
Speaker:author that people have either very strong opinions for or against.
Speaker:Elizabeth Gilbert. She wrote eat, pray, love. One of her books that I
Speaker:absolutely love is actually about her creative process. And the book is big
Speaker:magic. And in this book, she actually talks about
Speaker:how she waited tables until her third
Speaker:bestseller because she never wanted to put the
Speaker:pressure on her creative work to pay the
Speaker:bills because she knew that nothing would be more stifling to
Speaker:her creativity than having that pressure. Let's look at it
Speaker:from a pretty basic point of view. When you really enjoy being creative
Speaker:in your business, that's where you have the most juice, the most
Speaker:energy. That's where you attract people like crazy. When
Speaker:you're having fun, when you're invested, but when it
Speaker:starts feeling like really tough work,
Speaker:that's when things just become so much harder. That's when you
Speaker:stop having fun. That's when you feel like you're having to
Speaker:struggle for each new client, for each post
Speaker:that you put on social media, it takes so much more work, so
Speaker:much more energy, and it becomes exhausting. And
Speaker:sure, if you want to run your business like that, you
Speaker:absolutely can. But I think there's a better way.
Speaker:So to be able to break out of the artist boom and bust cycle,
Speaker:we need to look at three different areas of how you are
Speaker:managing your business. And some of these are logistical. Here's what
Speaker:you need to focus on in your day to day. And some of them are
Speaker:energetic, some of them are the inner work that you have to do as an
Speaker:individual to be able to run this business and have it be successful
Speaker:in a sustainable, fun way.
Speaker:The number one place that might seem like a backwards way to
Speaker:start is you have to work on your money story. Your
Speaker:relationship with money will either support your success
Speaker:or completely you up. On the more mild
Speaker:side of this, when you have a shitty relationship with money, you're not
Speaker:charging enough, so you're underselling your services.
Speaker:You're probably attracting clients who aren't your sole clients,
Speaker:who maybe don't respect your time as much as people who would
Speaker:be paying more would. And in the worst case scenario, you
Speaker:are so drastically undercharging that you are living at the poverty level.
Speaker:You're barely able to feed yourself and your family.
Speaker:And when I start working with clients and we talk through what their pricing is
Speaker:and how much they think they can get away with charging,
Speaker:there are a few things that come up. Now. There's a huge
Speaker:conversation around your belief in your personal worth
Speaker:and what you deserve to make
Speaker:and what your work is worth paying for.
Speaker:And to this, I would argue, there's no price that can be put on
Speaker:you. You cannot attach worth to yourself.
Speaker:You are priceless. There's no one
Speaker:like you. There's no one who does work the
Speaker:way you do work. And quite frankly, your
Speaker:clients, when they come to buy your service, to buy whatever it
Speaker:is that you're providing, they don't give a fuck. They
Speaker:genuinely do not care. What they care about is what your service
Speaker:is going to provide them. On the other side, at the basic level, let's talk
Speaker:about a service that people can actually pay for, right? It's
Speaker:bug killing. If you have termites in your house, chances
Speaker:are you've hired a company to come and terminate
Speaker:the termites. Now it's important to do this
Speaker:because termites can cause extensive damage to the
Speaker:structure of your home. And if there's extensive damage to the structure of your
Speaker:home, guess what? You're going to have to move out because it's not safe to
Speaker:live in. And what happens when a house is not safe
Speaker:to live in? The resale value plummets,
Speaker:because whoever is going to move into that house next has
Speaker:to either do extensive renovations and
Speaker:reinforcing, or they have to just tear it down and
Speaker:rebuild. Different value than moving into a house that is
Speaker:fully functional and move in ready. You're going to
Speaker:pay to have someone come and kill the bugs.
Speaker:Now, the same service, I want you to think of like the kids
Speaker:that will take a magnifying glass and burn ants on the sidewalk.
Speaker:Not saying I agree with them. Essentially, they're doing the same thing,
Speaker:but with different impact. The ants aren't harming anyone.
Speaker:The ants are just going about their day. They're enjoying the sunshine all
Speaker:of a sudden, like, wow, this spot is kind of warm. A little warmer than
Speaker:it was over there. Wow, it's really, really hot. This is my
Speaker:impersonation of an ant. I don't know if they're that articulate, but there
Speaker:you go. Now, you wouldn't go down the street and ask little Johnny
Speaker:if he was willing to come over and use a magnifying glass on your
Speaker:termite. That's not going to be the scale. So when you think about your service,
Speaker:I want you to think about what is the greater impact it has. Are you
Speaker:the equivalent of seven year old Johnny who's kind of a dick with a magnifying
Speaker:glass? Or are you actually protecting the
Speaker:integrity of someone's house? Are you saving them money? Are you saving them
Speaker:time? Are you saving them heartache? Maybe this house was built by their great great
Speaker:grandfather. It's been the family for a really long time. And it
Speaker:would be a failure on a massive level to their whole family
Speaker:if they were the one to let it disintegrate. Now,
Speaker:chances are, when you think about the terminator, the guy who's going to come around
Speaker:and kill the termites, you're not looking at him and being like,
Speaker:what's your inherent value as a person?
Speaker:What's your hour worth? What do you
Speaker:deserve? You're not asking the guy to sit down
Speaker:and tell you about all the good deeds he does and what organizations he volunteers
Speaker:for and how many kids he has and what his hobbies were growing
Speaker:up and genuinely like. Is he a funny person? Is he a kind
Speaker:person? Is he the kind of person that returns his shopping
Speaker:cart at the grocery store? Because we know those people are worth more. No,
Speaker:you're not asking that. You're asking how soon will the bugs be gone, and also
Speaker:how much damage is already done. How much are you saving me
Speaker:from? Your worth has nothing to do with
Speaker:the price of your services. And I know it
Speaker:feels like it does. I know it feels like you have to
Speaker:justify every dollar you charge your clients. If it
Speaker:feels that way, you have some serious money work to
Speaker:do. Now, this is one of the things that I do in all of my
Speaker:programs, to varying degrees. Because if you
Speaker:don't feel comfortable charging a certain amount
Speaker:for your work, then guess what? You're never going to be successful. There's
Speaker:nothing. There's no tactics, there's no strategy that is going
Speaker:to fix your business if you inherently don't believe
Speaker:that you deserve to make enough money to live. Now, the other side of
Speaker:this that can happen is when you think about
Speaker:raising your rates, you start feeling an immense amount
Speaker:of shame on behalf of your clientele.
Speaker:Because if you have a lot of experience of not being able to afford the
Speaker:things that you want and feeling a lot of shame around not
Speaker:being able to afford it, then guess what? You're going to project onto your ideal
Speaker:clients. You're going to project that awful, shameful bad
Speaker:feeling that bubbles up in your stomach every time you look at a
Speaker:price tag and think, oh, my God, I can't even afford this.
Speaker:I don't have enough money. I don't have enough resources to be able to get
Speaker:the thing that I really want. People think about this as if it's not a
Speaker:big deal when we can't afford something. It's actually a moment that
Speaker:can be incredibly traumatizing to the human spirit. Because when you're in a
Speaker:position financially, when you can't afford the things that you want and you look
Speaker:at a price tag and it's too much, and it makes you have to think
Speaker:about how few resources you have, what it actually
Speaker:activates for you is your survival mode. Because
Speaker:money and our access to money is survival in the here and
Speaker:now. If you don't have enough money for shelter, you don't have shelter. If
Speaker:you don't have enough money for food, you don't have food. And if you're
Speaker:a person who is living in the world, who wants things, which we all
Speaker:do, and you're bumping against these things that you want, and you're thinking,
Speaker:okay, well, I'd like to buy this, and you're seeing the price tag and it's
Speaker:beyond what you can afford. You're constantly being
Speaker:reminded that you barely have enough to live. You're
Speaker:constantly being reminded that you can't live life the way you
Speaker:want because you're not powerful enough to
Speaker:have the resources to do what you want. That is crushing to the human
Speaker:spirit. And also, it's not true for everyone. If you're
Speaker:running a business and you are selling something
Speaker:that you're spending time producing or
Speaker:providing, you do not owe anyone affordability.
Speaker:Just because you've had that experience of looking at a price tag and
Speaker:feeling that shame, just that sinking, hot feeling in your stomach
Speaker:of, oh, no, I can't have this, doesn't mean other people feel that.
Speaker:People when they see that they can't afford something, for some of
Speaker:them, it becomes a vision board item.
Speaker:I can't tell you how many times I've gotten off a sales call with someone
Speaker:and the call ended with them saying, oh, my God,
Speaker:this is so inspiring. I know. I want to work with
Speaker:you. I absolutely want to work with you one on one. It's outside of
Speaker:my budget right now, but this is my goal now. The fact that
Speaker:I can't work with you, that has lit a fire under my ass. I want
Speaker:to work with you in the next six months, and I'm going to make it
Speaker:happen. Just because you feel shame around not being able to
Speaker:afford something and just because you have some trauma tied in
Speaker:there doesn't mean that it happens for everyone else.
Speaker:If you've done the work and you've done the proper market research, and you know
Speaker:that there are buyers for what you do, there's always
Speaker:going to be a price range. There's always going to be the most affordable and
Speaker:also the most high end. The only thing that's keeping you
Speaker:from being high end is your pricing and your attitude
Speaker:towards it. And sure, it'll be so sad for someone if they really
Speaker:want to work with you or they really want to buy your thing if they
Speaker:can't afford to get it right now. But that's not your problem.
Speaker:That is not your responsibility. Your
Speaker:responsibility, first and foremost, is to fill your own damn
Speaker:cup. And if you can't fill your own damn cup
Speaker:first, why are you making your stuff so
Speaker:affordable to everyone else? We have this
Speaker:belief, especially in industries where we're helping other people, to
Speaker:actually offer, like, a spirit level transformation to people, that
Speaker:we also have to be poor. It happens in the creative industries as
Speaker:well. To be a true creative, to be a true artist, you have to
Speaker:starve. There's only honor in creating if you're also
Speaker:starving. I think we get this poverty mindset
Speaker:and this sense of it's honorable to be poor
Speaker:when you're helping other people from religious
Speaker:systems. If you were to look at the church throughout the middle
Speaker:ages in Europe, one of the requirements to be part of the church is you
Speaker:had to give up all of your earthly belongings if you wanted to be a
Speaker:priest, if you wanted to be a nun, if you wanted to be a monk,
Speaker:I'm sorry, you can't keep your family castle and all the
Speaker:horses and the art collection and all the silver and gold
Speaker:and be a priest at the same time. Or at least technically, you weren't
Speaker:supposed to. People did it. But we've been taught this model that you have to
Speaker:give up all of your earthly goods in order to do really good work.
Speaker:I mean, sure, if you want to make that noble, you can. But let's also
Speaker:look at the business of the church. It's a multi billion dollar
Speaker:company, essentially, okay? You're not going to be a priest or a nun or
Speaker:a monk in the catholic church, especially back then, and go starving.
Speaker:I mean, unless you were on a fast or something, which is something people did
Speaker:by choice. But it's not like the church is going to be like, oh, sorry,
Speaker:we just don't have any money to feed you right now. No,
Speaker:it's one of the reasons why people joined the church.
Speaker:They believed in the whole God thing, too. But that's an aside. It's a
Speaker:model. It's essentially a model to make sure that your needs are being met. And
Speaker:there's nothing wrong with that. But you looking at that and saying,
Speaker:okay, well, there's something noble about not having anything, about being broke,
Speaker:being poor and helping people.
Speaker:Unless you belong to a greater organization that's covering
Speaker:your basic needs of your meat suit, it's not noble, it's just
Speaker:stupid. At its heart, it's caring more about what other people
Speaker:think of you than about taking care of yourself.
Speaker:I know this sounds kind of pessimistic, but there's
Speaker:no one out there who's spending as much time worrying about you taking care of
Speaker:yourself than you. No one is going to make sure that you have food
Speaker:on the table like you will. No one is going to make sure that you
Speaker:have enough money for retirement. That's your job. If you choose to
Speaker:prioritize other people thinking you're noble and thinking you're this good
Speaker:person and all this stuff over having those things,
Speaker:that is on you. And if there's deeper money work to
Speaker:be done here, that is also on you. But the beautiful thing is
Speaker:you just heard this bit of this podcast, I just called you out on some
Speaker:bullshit and now you're aware of the problem, which means you can go fix the
Speaker:problem. Congratulations. And I know there are many coaches
Speaker:and consultants out there who genuinely want to help people who cannot
Speaker:afford to work with them at their current rate. You might think that you're
Speaker:being elitist by only working with people who can pay a higher amount.
Speaker:At its core, you don't have a greedy problem, you don't
Speaker:have an elitist problem. You have a business model problem.
Speaker:Especially when I work with coaches and they want to be able to work with
Speaker:people who can't afford like $1,000 a month or more
Speaker:on coaching. One of the things that we prioritize, first and foremost is their one
Speaker:on one business. Right. Your fastest path to cash is always going to be
Speaker:one on one clients who are paying out of their own pocket to work with
Speaker:you one on one. Once you have enough money coming in
Speaker:monthly from one on one clients, that's when you can start
Speaker:rolling out a group that is at a lower ticket, that's more
Speaker:affordable to people who can't afford to work with you one on one. Now, the
Speaker:reason we don't go there first is because if you're just starting out, you don't
Speaker:have the audience for it yet. Okay? Unless you're independently
Speaker:wealthy and you can manage to just kind of hang out and
Speaker:promote your list and post to TikTok and post to
Speaker:Instagram and to LinkedIn all the time and build that
Speaker:audience, you need to be making money along the way.
Speaker:But if you don't have enough followers, if you don't have enough people on your
Speaker:email list, you're never going to be able to fill up a group. It's just
Speaker:not going to happen. And I know some of you are probably thinking about that
Speaker:business grew that you saw online. That's like, well, what about creating a digital course?
Speaker:What about creating a PDF that I could sell on Instagram? Your
Speaker:fastest path to cash is always going to be one on one
Speaker:clients. Jumping to a digital course, jumping to a
Speaker:PDF that you're going to sell, sounds sexy, but
Speaker:the failure rate is extraordinary. There's no
Speaker:proof of concept when you jump into that. One of the best things that you
Speaker:can do to save time and money and frustration
Speaker:is to start off by building your one on one client list. Take the
Speaker:common lessons that you're working on with all of those clients. Turn
Speaker:that into a group program. Now, you want to run this group
Speaker:multiple times so you can test it, make sure there's actually a market
Speaker:for it. Understand frontwards, backwards and inside and
Speaker:out, what kinds of questions come up throughout the group.
Speaker:If there's anything you need to add to the curriculum, if there's anything you need
Speaker:to take away from it, and then, and only then, after you've done the one
Speaker:on one work and the group work, can you turn it into a successful
Speaker:course. And even then, you're going to have to change some things. You're going to
Speaker:have to tweak it. You're going to have to fine tune it along the way.
Speaker:You're going to have to also work on a different marketing plan because the marketing
Speaker:for a digital course is very different than it is for one on one coaching.
Speaker:The sales process is also different. There are a lot of things that you're going
Speaker:to have to figure out, but I'd rather you make money along the
Speaker:way than put all your eggs in a basket that is very
Speaker:highly likely to disintegrate and fall apart. You can
Speaker:absolutely offer affordable things in your business, but
Speaker:do it after you're already paying the bills. Do it after you've
Speaker:already created sustainable money coming in. So your money mindset
Speaker:is one of the most important things that you need to work on if
Speaker:you want to avoid that artist boom and bust cycle.
Speaker:The second one is a priority shift. And I know for those of us with
Speaker:ADHD, prioritizing things is one of the hardest
Speaker:things that we have to figure out every single day. So I'm going to make
Speaker:this so easy for you. Your mind is going
Speaker:to say, oh my God, I'm so grateful for these clients. I'm going to prioritize
Speaker:them above everything else. Your clients who are already signed
Speaker:up with you, who are already paying you are absolutely important. Of
Speaker:course you're going to prioritize them, but they do not hold the number
Speaker:one spot. You know what does?
Speaker:Visibility marketing. One of
Speaker:the reasons why the artist is constantly going broke is because they run
Speaker:out of inventory to sell. If you're a coach and you fill up
Speaker:your practice with ten clients and you're working on those ten clients
Speaker:and you kind of ignore your marketing, what happens when those clients start
Speaker:finishing? If you haven't been marketing the whole time, you start
Speaker:panicking. There's no pipeline. There's no list of people who are
Speaker:waiting to work with you. So you're kind of starting from scratch in your
Speaker:marketing and you're probably going to dip down into like four or
Speaker:five clients before you start backfilling them, which means you're
Speaker:going to dip below your cost of living and it's going to stop
Speaker:being fun. It's going to start being scary. Your number
Speaker:one priority every damn day is to be visible because
Speaker:people can't hire you if they don't know that you exist. And
Speaker:remember that you cannot have consistent cash flow
Speaker:or a consistent business without consistent
Speaker:marketing. One of the saddest parts about
Speaker:recessions is that a lot of companies go out of business. And
Speaker:I know you're probably thinking, well, duh, it's a recession. Of course they're going out
Speaker:of business, not necessarily it's how they
Speaker:react to the recession that actually puts them out of business. A lot of
Speaker:companies, when hard economic times fall on us, which
Speaker:happens fairly regularly because that's how the world works, they panic and they think, okay,
Speaker:cool, where can we cut money? Where can we cut expenditure within our budget?
Speaker:Oh, cool, marketing. We're going to cut marketing. It seems
Speaker:like kind of a fluffy thing. I mean, of course they know that marketing works.
Speaker:They wouldn't be spending money on it before if it didn't. But it's really hard
Speaker:to say, okay, well, this ad campaign or this marketing
Speaker:strategy is delivering x amount of dollars to us. There's
Speaker:no clear delineation between the two. And so
Speaker:executives in their panic mode will think, okay, anything that's not
Speaker:delivering a clear return on investment gets cut.
Speaker:Well, what happens? They cut the marketing and then the sales team starts
Speaker:struggling because they don't have as many leads. They don't have as many people coming
Speaker:in and buying their stuff. So then they have to start working harder and harder
Speaker:and harder and then they start not making quota. And then because they're not
Speaker:making quota, there's not as much cash coming into the business. The business starts having
Speaker:to lay other people off. Maybe in the product side or
Speaker:in the customer service side, the clients you have start getting unhappy
Speaker:because the quality of the products have gone down. Maybe the support has
Speaker:gone down. Getting through to someone to re up your plan
Speaker:or whatever it is you're buying starts getting harder and before
Speaker:you know it, you are flirting with bankruptcy.
Speaker:Like I said before, gratitude can fuck you up. Yes, be
Speaker:grateful for the people who are working with you, who've hired you, who are buying
Speaker:your stuff, and also, they are not going to
Speaker:quit. They are not going to ask for their money back. If you
Speaker:prioritize visibility, it's the difference between the
Speaker:mindset of a business owner and an employee. If you
Speaker:are constantly prioritizing serving the client
Speaker:as your number one and neglecting the greater needs of
Speaker:your business, you are not operating like a business owner. You are
Speaker:operating like an employee, which to your credit,
Speaker:you've only been trained to be an employee up until now. If you've worked any
Speaker:other job, that has been the training. Here's how you plug in and do the
Speaker:thing. No strategist thinking, you don't have to plan the greater
Speaker:path, but business owners have to do that. Your number
Speaker:one priority is always going to be visibility and never
Speaker:forget it. And of course, a close second is your paying clients.
Speaker:Now, the third thing that will help you overcome the
Speaker:artist boom and bust business model. Ooh, what am I going to say
Speaker:next? Well, you'll have to keep listening to find out. But first, squirrel, squirrel,
Speaker:squirrel, squirrel.
Speaker:Now, the third thing that will help you overcome the
Speaker:artist's boom and bust business model, that ugly cycle that
Speaker:will keep you constantly stressed out and freaking out about money, is
Speaker:that you need to scale, fail, and bail
Speaker:fast. And I know I made sure that that rhymed.
Speaker:I was really excited about the scale and fail
Speaker:because everyone knows about failing fast. And of course, scaling is important. But
Speaker:then I went through my brain hole of all the other things that rhyme with
Speaker:those things, and I figured out that bail fits in perfectly with this model.
Speaker:I'm inappropriately proud of this. Okay. Anyway, so,
Speaker:scaling fast, you need to set up your business
Speaker:in a way that you will be able to step away from the day to
Speaker:day running as fast as possible.
Speaker:You are a human. You exist in this meat suit. Meat suits
Speaker:are not consistent. Sometimes they get sick. Sometimes they get injured. Sometimes
Speaker:they get burnt out and tired and need a rest. Sometimes
Speaker:beings in other meat suits have demands on you, like
Speaker:children and spouses and family members. They need you
Speaker:to show up for shit. And that means you can't necessarily be in your business
Speaker:that day. So as soon as humanly possible, as
Speaker:you're growing this business, set it up so you're not the one
Speaker:who has to do every damn thing every single day. If you do
Speaker:that, you are literally setting your business up for failure because your business
Speaker:is solely dependent on your
Speaker:meat suit needing to show up and do the things every damn day. And that's
Speaker:just for people who don't have executive dysfunction. If you
Speaker:have adhd, like we talk about here a lot, your executive
Speaker:dysfunction can absolutely get in the way of you doing things every
Speaker:single day. Even if you're not sick, even if your kids aren't
Speaker:home with the flu or need you to come and pick them up from basketball
Speaker:practice. We all know that feeling of sitting at our
Speaker:desk with our eyes completely disassociated,
Speaker:thinking, I know what I need to do. Why can't I do it? Damn it,
Speaker:I'm going to fail. And just running
Speaker:ourselves ragged and exhausting ourselves by not even doing the thing.
Speaker:Set your business up so that can happen in the background so that other people
Speaker:can do that when you can't. You need to scale as fast
Speaker:as possible. Now, along with that, you're going to fail.
Speaker:One of the biggest red flags that I see with
Speaker:people who book a sales call with me, who talk about joining my programs or
Speaker:signing up to work with me one on one, is this immense
Speaker:fear that they have around failure. They're so terrified to fail. Those are
Speaker:the clients that I've started turning away. Because if you're so afraid to
Speaker:fail, you're never going to try anything. And if you never try anything, you're never
Speaker:going to succeed. Failure is the only thing that is guaranteed
Speaker:when you start a business. I failed a gazillion times. I fail every
Speaker:single day in a million different ways, and
Speaker:I have the choice of saying, oh, wow, I failed.
Speaker:Oh, well, I better just quit now, because failure sucks, and I don't
Speaker:want to do this anymore. If I'm going to fail, it's absolutely a choice I
Speaker:can make, or I could stick with my mindset and say, cool. That's one way
Speaker:not to do know kind of like how Edison, what did he do? He invented
Speaker:the light bulb, which, I mean, I have light bulbs all around me. I'm very
Speaker:grateful for this man, for inventing light bulbs. They make a lot possible for me
Speaker:and for you. But to get there, he failed a
Speaker:gazillion times, and his whole mindset was, I didn't fail. I found
Speaker:a thousand different ways to not make a working light bulb. You
Speaker:are on this massive adventure to find a gazillion different
Speaker:ways to not be successful. It is a wild ride, and
Speaker:it's one that you can either make fun, make part of the process,
Speaker:or you can have it be a big, scary forest that you don't want to
Speaker:step foot in. Totally up to you. But I can tell you what you'll be
Speaker:doing a year from now if you're not willing to fail and it's working for
Speaker:someone else. And, of course, bailing. No one wants to
Speaker:bail on a project. No one wants to bail on a business. No one wants
Speaker:to bail on an idea that you were convinced was going to work.
Speaker:But sometimes you have to. Sometimes we have to look
Speaker:at the definition of insanity, which is trying the same thing over and over
Speaker:and over again, expecting different results, especially in business.
Speaker:If you're trying to create a service and you have tried all the different ways
Speaker:to make work, and it's just not working, it's probably a sign that you need
Speaker:to bail. Now, of course, a lot of people bail too soon. This is
Speaker:one of the benefits of having a coach in your corner who can help you
Speaker:poke holes in all the stories you're telling yourself about why it's
Speaker:failing, who can help you really look at the data and see? Is there
Speaker:something wrong with your marketing? Is there something wrong with your sales process? Is there
Speaker:something wrong with the value proposition of what you're putting
Speaker:together? But one of the best qualities you
Speaker:can have as a business owner is knowing when to walk away,
Speaker:knowing when to quit. When I was in
Speaker:college, I lived in a basement apartment in this house, and the
Speaker:family that lived upstairs was so nice. And the mom was from Indonesia, and
Speaker:she was really into feng shui. And she'd always lend me books on feng shui.
Speaker:And she would tell me, like, if you want a boyfriend, you're going to have
Speaker:to clear out half of your closet, because in feng shui, if you want
Speaker:someone to come into your life, you need to have space for them in your
Speaker:life. Now, I had a lot of clothes that wasn't going to happen. I wasn't
Speaker:leaving half of my closet empty. But I want you to think about feng
Speaker:shui in your life, okay? If your life is full of
Speaker:something that's just not working, is there going to be room for
Speaker:a more profitable opportunity to come in? Probably
Speaker:not. If you are working and grinding 60
Speaker:hours a week on a business that isn't working, no one else can
Speaker:really understand that it's not working to that degree. So there may be
Speaker:people out there who are like, oh, my God, I would love to partner with
Speaker:this person, but they're too busy. They would never be able to be
Speaker:available for money making
Speaker:opportunities. You need to have space for those opportunities to come
Speaker:in. And sometimes that means you have to quit stuff that doesn't
Speaker:work. And I know
Speaker:as someone with ADHD who starts a lot of things
Speaker:and doesn't finish them and then holds a lot of
Speaker:guilt and shame around all the things that are left half done,
Speaker:like the 27 knitting projects that I'm still in the middle of that I probably
Speaker:will never finish, but I will continue to pack up every time
Speaker:I move and take it to my new place and then unpack them
Speaker:and put them in just the right spot in my apartment so that when I
Speaker:do feel like finishing them, because I am still convinced, even though I know
Speaker:better, that there's going to be, like, this magic moment where the motivation just kind
Speaker:of pops up and I'm like, yes, that scarf that I
Speaker:gave up on seven years ago, now is the time
Speaker:I'm going to finish this. I know we can have a little bit of shame
Speaker:around quitting things, because in our minds, we have this
Speaker:story that we're not finishers, and we get so latched on to
Speaker:this idea. Like, I got to finish this. I got to see it through. Because
Speaker:we don't want that story to be true. I know it can feel really icky
Speaker:for us to quit shit. Because every time we quit something,
Speaker:that voice just gets stronger and stronger. There's more evidence that we can't
Speaker:see things through, that we're not finishers. But that's the beauty of having
Speaker:ADHD, is our minds move so quickly. And
Speaker:sure, sometimes it means that you start a sweater and then you buy all the
Speaker:equipment for it and you don't finish it. And sure,
Speaker:that's unfortunate, but it's not the end of the world. Now, it
Speaker:might put you in the position where you own more yarn than your car is
Speaker:worth, kind of like where I am. But it doesn't diminish you as a
Speaker:person. It doesn't diminish your worth, doesn't diminish how
Speaker:much you deserve, and it's not proof that a business
Speaker:isn't going to be ultimately successful for you. So remember, scale
Speaker:fail and bail as fast as you can. Squirrel. Squirrel. If you're ready to
Speaker:stop being a weenie and actually run a business that makes money, then go
Speaker:ahead and book a generate income strategy call with me by going
Speaker:to
Speaker:weeniecast.com/strategycall.
Speaker:On this call, we will talk about your goals, your dreams,
Speaker:and your frustrations in getting there. And if it's a fit
Speaker:for both of us, then we can talk about different ways to work together.
Speaker:My hair is so staticy when I was a kid, so I have, like, fine
Speaker:hair, but I have a lot of it. And when I was a kid in
Speaker:our minivan, I used to walk in. All of a sudden, my hair would just
Speaker:be static, like, sticking into the roof. And I'd start screaming bloody murder
Speaker:and crying. Like, my hair is electrocuted and, like, freaking out.
Speaker:And my mom had to keep a squirt bottle in the the
Speaker:car, and she just turned around, like, squirt my head,
Speaker:and I feel like crying. My
Speaker:hair is electrocuted. Anyway.