So much of your life and your career is defined by your job and your position.
Speaker AWho are you going to be if you don't have that job and that role?
Speaker BJosh Willey, true veteran.
Speaker BHe's climbed the ranks from industrial engineer to CEO, weathered entrepreneurial storms, and emerged with a wealth of hard earned wisdom.
Speaker BWhen did you realize that people follow the example you set or in the direction you give them?
Speaker AThe last thing I want to do is micromanage people and undermine them and do things around them.
Speaker AThere's a message you're sending too, that you don't trust them or you don't think they're capable of operating.
Speaker AI'm where I am today because of them, not necessarily because of me.
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Speaker BHey there Lee, the team agent.
Speaker BWelcome back to another great episode.
Speaker BToday we're diving into the trenches of the protein industry with a true veteran.
Speaker BHe's climbed the ranks from industrial engineer to CEO, weathered entrepreneurial storms and emerged with a wealth of hard earned learn wisdom.
Speaker BWith 22 years of experience, a journey through Tyson Foods in Smithfield, and a relentless, consistent drive for operational excellence, he's here to share his insights on leadership, resilience and the future of food.
Speaker BPlease welcome the CEO of Allotrade Foods, Josh.
Speaker BWillie.
Speaker AAnd great to be here.
Speaker AThank you for reaching out to me and asking me to be on.
Speaker AYou've had a lot of great leaders on and I'm honored to be amongst the list.
Speaker BWell man, you are a star in this world and it's so cool also to have someone on that's living in the state of Alabama, not far from where I grew up.
Speaker BMy parents did so yeah, I, I Won't give you a roll Tide, because I know you're Arkansas, but.
Speaker BAll right, it's all SEC stuff here, so.
Speaker AThat's right.
Speaker BWhen did you realize that people follow the example you set more than the direction you give them?
Speaker AWell, so I've got to start by saying I've had a lot of really great leaders in my life and my career that have set great examples for me.
Speaker AAnd really, I'm where I am today because of them.
Speaker ANot necessarily because of me, but this particular story, quick one, easy one, that kind of resonates with me and I've used over the years.
Speaker ABut it was an example and a lesson that a leader taught me that I think is pretty powerful.
Speaker AAnd so a young leader seems like more is better and too much is never enough, and constantly working is the way you're going to get to the next level.
Speaker ASo I would take vacation.
Speaker ANot often, but when I did, I found myself with my computer working and trying to stay caught up and in tune with the business and making sure that I didn't miss anything.
Speaker AAnd so, of course, my.
Speaker AThis particular leader, my boss at the time, was wise to all this and didn't.
Speaker ADidn't reprimand me early on and didn't do it when I was on that particular vacation.
Speaker ABut when we got back, I was back in the office.
Speaker AAnd, you know, we're talking about vacation, telling the story, what we did, how the trip was.
Speaker AWe get to the end.
Speaker AHe says, josh, you've got to quit working when you're on vacation, because all you're doing is telling your people that it's okay.
Speaker AEverybody underneath you thinks that the expectation is when they're on vacation, that they need to stay plugged in and they need to be working.
Speaker AAnd you're setting a poor example.
Speaker AAnd so it still sticks with me today.
Speaker AAnd that was immediately what hit my.
Speaker AHit my mind that I call on often now.
Speaker AIt really liberated me, too, as a leader because I could take a vacation and not have to worry about being plugged in.
Speaker AAnd that took a little work to really release.
Speaker ABut I think it comes with time and maturity, and I'm big on making sure that we don't bother people when they're on vacation and that they're allowed time with their family to disconnect and come back recharged.
Speaker AAnd just a simple early leadership lesson for me that I think is.
Speaker AIs a great point.
Speaker BEverybody should live by that is not an easy thing to do.
Speaker BSo, number one, were you able to immediately execute that thing or did that take A lot of practice and discipline.
Speaker AYeah, it took a lot of practice.
Speaker AAnd luckily I had a manager, a leader that was willing to.
Speaker ATo take on any responsibility that might have needed my assistance.
Speaker AAnd I think I was a plant manager at this time, you know, early on.
Speaker AAnd, and so, no, yeah, I mean, it took some time, of course, but I think once I realized that I really needed a break, my, My, My family was being punished on some level because I was, you know, we're going.
Speaker ASpending some money, taking a trip, trying to disconnect and spend some time together because I'm also, you know, when I'm at home, I'm working hours, long days, weekends, and it's really hard to unplug.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker ABut I'm there now, and it's, you know, maybe it's a function of my position and where I'm at, my career, but I'd like to think it's just me being able to truly disconnect and set the example for other people that when they, when they go, they need to go and get away.
Speaker BSo when you implemented this, and it sounds like you've talked about, like, this personal challenge that and this advice that you've gotten that was impactful, did you notice that your team quickly got better at disconnecting, or did it take them a while to make that change?
Speaker BFor disconnecting on vacation, I think they.
Speaker AProbably were a little quicker than me, and I think, you know, they was probably already good at it.
Speaker AIt was just.
Speaker AIt was more about the optics and the example I was setting as a leader.
Speaker AYou know, I mean, there's, There's a message you're sending to that you don't trust them or you don't think they're capable of operating.
Speaker AAnd there's just so many, so many different ways you could approach it.
Speaker ABut I think they just probably appreciated it more than anything that, that, you know, I trusted them, I stepped away.
Speaker AI came back a better person, recharged.
Speaker AAnd that's, that's really what vacation is.
Speaker AAnd I always hated having to, you know, sometimes you have to call people back in on vacation.
Speaker AThat's.
Speaker AThat's not something you want to do ever.
Speaker AYou always want to get people the right basement ask for.
Speaker BAnd so, yeah, so many good messages.
Speaker BAnd there's like, the personal experience and knowing that everything you do, your actions speak louder than words and come through the vacation, but also, like, I'm experiencing, like, on another level too, of.
Speaker BAnd for the leaders listening, are you having the conversation about how to take vacation with your team and I think a lot of leaders kind of just leave it to chance, like, oh, they're taking vacation, okay.
Speaker BAnd then they left the person going on vacation say, well, I'm on vacation but I'm really available.
Speaker BOr I'll be checking my email once a day.
Speaker BAnd just like this, it almost, it sounds like you're proposing that, hey, this is a leadership conversation that leaders need to have with their teams and their people to kind of set the culture for vacation taking, to set the standard, kind of work that out.
Speaker AWhen somebody's on vacation, I make a point to tell everybody else that remains at work not to contact that person.
Speaker ACome to me, you know, don't, if something's wrong, don't reach out to them.
Speaker AAnd we've got some really good people in our organization that and our culture here.
Speaker ANot, not that the other cultures I was a part of were bad by any means at all.
Speaker ABut you know, we've got a culture here at Alitrade that is about a really good work life balance and promotes people being off and away.
Speaker AAnd we've cross trained and we've got leaders that step up and take roles but still have to say, do not bother them.
Speaker AWe can handle it.
Speaker AIf it gets really bad, we'll come together and figure it out and we'll make a decision on whether or not we call that individual.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BSo, so good.
Speaker BSo lesson there, prioritize it.
Speaker BRealize your actions speak louder than words.
Speaker BAnd if you're the CEO who's like, don't work on vacation, but yet I'm working on vacation.
Speaker BIt's, it's a mixed message and it dilutes it, it dilutes your leadership message so much.
Speaker BAnd I think about parenting too.
Speaker BIt's the same thing with, you know, like if you're telling your kids not to do something, but then you're doing it.
Speaker AIt's funny, there's, there's so many ways to use that example of setting the example versus words.
Speaker AI mean, children, you're right.
Speaker AI mean, they respond to what you're doing, not necessarily what you're saying or telling.
Speaker BSo you're known for saying people first, chicken second.
Speaker BSo what do you mean by leading with that adage?
Speaker AObviously, I'm in the chicken business in the protein industry, have been for a long time.
Speaker AAnd people, people are so important to our business and chicken is important too.
Speaker ABut the point is we're going to prioritize our people over chicken on the floor or getting chicken out the door.
Speaker AGetting chicken in the door, whatever it may be pertaining to the product, the safety and well being of our team members, our employees, our employee owners.
Speaker ANow at Alexrades and esop, the priority and, and they're going to come first in every decision we make.
Speaker ANow that's not to say that our customers are, our customers are very, very, very close second, but our people are a priority.
Speaker AAnd, and that's just, that's been my mantra for, for years and years through this, through my career and through this industry is what we got to do right by our people if we're going to expect to win every day.
Speaker BSo when's the time for you that, that really paid off because it's so easy to say, well it pays off when we look at the, get the protein out, you know, we do it well, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Speaker BYou know, everybody, everybody benefits when the product's great, but sometimes when you reverse it, it can be different.
Speaker BWell, they're taking, people want to take a vacation, but we're late so we got to get stuff out.
Speaker BAnd so we're balancing all that.
Speaker BSo curious from your standpoint, since you've been really focused on throughout your career, when's a time where maybe you double down on that in a surprising way that people didn't expect and it's still.
Speaker ADeliberate results with regards to safety.
Speaker AIn my plant manager role, we were not in a great spot at the location I was at in terms of safety.
Speaker AVery high social, recordable numbers, illnesses, first aids.
Speaker AWe weren't being proactive, we were being much more reactive to people getting hurt.
Speaker AAnd so I wish I could take full credit for the transformation, but it was really the organization I was with, their persistent, just fanatical approach to improving safety and really taking care of our people.
Speaker AAnd so fortunately I was, I was, I was a part of that as a, as a, as a leader in the company.
Speaker AAnd we were able to, to, you know, really rally the team we made, we made safety much more emotional to, to us and we start thinking about the fact that these people have been entrusted to you to run your business, but they're there to earn a living for their family and they go home to possibly three, four or five people and when they get hurt, it impacts their life.
Speaker ANot, not just at work, but at home.
Speaker AAnd so you know, when you really start thinking about the, the impact you have on people and the plants that we run and the work we do, that's when it really starts to hit home.
Speaker AAnd so we, we just, we just took safety to a new level in your plan and it has stayed with me through my career and, and I've changed a lot of things here at Alitrade.
Speaker AAgain, not that they will, not that they're bad, but we focus on weekly safety improvements to stay ahead of getting people or making sure that people don't get hurt.
Speaker ABut in this particular operation we really 60% in the first year and then we just continued to cascade down, down and down.
Speaker AI was there for about five years and every year, year after year we just reduced and, and really I think it, you know, when people come to work and they feel safe, their basic needs are met, they've got good leadership, you know, they're, they're generally going to perform and they're going to stay with you, you're going to retain them.
Speaker AAnd, and it just, it just really improves the entire industrial manufacturing ecosystem.
Speaker AAnd everything starts to work and click and, and so you know, it builds trust, it, it improves you know, performance obviously.
Speaker ASo, and just that caring, you know, when you, when you're working on safety and you're sincere about it, the people recognize it and it's, and it goes beyond safety into like they care about me as a person and as, as a, as a worker.
Speaker AAnd they're not just a number.
Speaker AAnd again that's where things just start to come along.
Speaker BSo to me ethically that makes a lot of sense.
Speaker BLike it's the right thing to do to focus on safety as a leader with, with pressure to have everybody perform.
Speaker BDid the numbers take a hit initially, performance wise?
Speaker BBecause when you hear safety you think about, well, there's more, it could slow production, more red tape, more meetings, more measuring and you're kind of doing it in the name of long term performance.
Speaker BOr did you, how did you navigate that?
Speaker ANo, there were no, it never hurt performance.
Speaker AI think if anything it might have costed us more money because we were spending money on fixing things that were broke and should have never been that way.
Speaker ABut you just, you start, you really start to prioritize it.
Speaker AYou look for things, you fix them, you spend the money, you get better knives, you get better tools, you put guards up.
Speaker AYou know, you just do all these things.
Speaker ASo it, there might be a short term financial impact, but it wasn't significant for any of us.
Speaker AAnd it never, that spin never outweighed the motivation to become a safer company and operation.
Speaker BPeople are moving.
Speaker BAnytime people are moving in a location, there could be like repetitive use injury.
Speaker BYou know, there could just be, you know, things can happen in our industry.
Speaker AIs in torch for that, right?
Speaker AWe're, we've got Knives, we've got variability, we've got, it's cold, it's wet.
Speaker AWe've got machines that are designed to cut flesh and, and a lot of repetitive motion.
Speaker ASo it's almost an inherent part of what we do every day.
Speaker AAnd so you just, you got to have people that are, they're constantly thinking about somebody lifting a 90 pound tub of chicken and trying to move it.
Speaker AWell, we can't do that.
Speaker AIt needs to be like £50, right.
Speaker AAnd then they can do it by themselves.
Speaker ASo I mean just you start putting systems in place that administrative controls, engineering controls if you can.
Speaker AAnd, but to answer your question, we spent money, it was well worth it and I would do it all over again.
Speaker AWe'll continue to spend money to improve safety.
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Speaker BWell, I want to reach back into the Josh archives for a second.
Speaker BSo you call out your quote MBA experience with a early food processing plant where you were investor.
Speaker BThis is a story I, I want to hear about this.
Speaker AWe actually bought this processing plant.
Speaker AMy wife and I, we had a one year old son at the time.
Speaker AOf course I was, I was 28 or 29, young and I thought I knew everything that was to know about the food business.
Speaker AAnd I just inherited a bit of money from a grandparent that passed away and, and felt like I wanted to put it, put it on me rather than in the, in the market.
Speaker AAnd I always had the entrepreneurial edge.
Speaker AI still do.
Speaker AI think that's one of the things that drives me towards business.
Speaker ABut so we bought this, we bought this small processing plant in North Carolina, loaded up our family.
Speaker AI left a six figure salary with Smithfield and director position and we went and did this.
Speaker AAnd so the first year, to make a long story short, first year was really, really great.
Speaker AI mean I was, I picked up additional retail establishments.
Speaker AI was distributing DSD to grocery stores.
Speaker AI gained additional spots and Cisco Warehouses and US Foods and we were growing.
Speaker BWow.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AI didn't know anything about sales, so I was learning all that.
Speaker AWe got a broker that helped us.
Speaker AI mean, we're doing good.
Speaker AIt felt really Good.
Speaker AAnd then the next year, the port market, and this was, this was 2009, 2010, the port market started to go up and I thought, well, you know, how high is it going to go?
Speaker AIt can't go too much higher.
Speaker AAnd it kept climbing and kept climbing and I was very resistant and slow at putting in price increases.
Speaker AIn fact, I never did it because I felt like if I did that, if I go raise my prices, the, you know, I'm a lose business, the velocity is going to slow down, they're going to, they're going to leave me.
Speaker BWhatever it may be.
Speaker AI felt like it was going to be a detriment to our business ultimately.
Speaker AThat's what just continued to erode our margins and put me in a really bad position.
Speaker AAnd then we started to have some regulatory issues which, you know, the food production, particular meat is very regulated by the usda.
Speaker AWound up getting in bad position there a couple times.
Speaker AAnd I learned a lot there about, you know, I had to reroute all my HACCP plans and SSOPs.
Speaker AAnd I mean, it just, it taught me so much about the food business and business in general.
Speaker AAnd I was, I was just buried in the business.
Speaker BMichael Gerber the ems But I don't know if all the listeners know it.
Speaker AWas that to a T.
Speaker AI had just buried myself in the business.
Speaker AI thought that hard work and, and just constant focus and being in it is going to get me to the, to where I need to be.
Speaker AAnd it did, did everything by that.
Speaker AAnd so, you know, that was one big learning.
Speaker AAnd then the other thing I would say is it really elevated my tolerance for failure or problems.
Speaker AYou know, like, it really helped me regulate my emotions when something happens big because it, you know, after being just constantly punched in the gut for like six months till we were able to exit that, it's like, how could anything possibly get worse than this?
Speaker AAnd so it really, once I got back into Tyson workforce, which they graciously let me in, and my leadership career really started to take off from there.
Speaker AAnd I attribute a lot of that to this business venture and wouldn't change it for anything, but it was a lot of work, really taught me a lot of great lessons about business and, and sales and customers and quality and I mean, you name it, just, just all kinds of stuff.
Speaker ASo lasted about two years and it was, it was a learning experience.
Speaker AMy mba.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BWhat, what an incredible experience.
Speaker BAnd so for listeners, if you haven't checked out the E myth that Josh mentioned, Michael Gerber Classic book, if you're thinking about starting your own business or you have your own business.
Speaker BBut my understanding is from reading it, I'm remembering back what most happen, what happens to most people when they start a business is they just create another job for themselves almost accidentally and there's no one left to sort of run the whole business from a strategic level because and I do, I look at that and I think about that business a lot and like who's working on the business when I'm doing the business.
Speaker BAnd it sounds like you got caught in that early on which is very normal.
Speaker BIt just happens and then we have to sort of fight to try to get up and we don't always get there sometimes right.
Speaker AWhat I could, what I couldn't get, I couldn't understand how I was going to pay myself and pay somebody else to come in and do what I was doing.
Speaker ABut if I was very short minded, shallow minded.
Speaker ASo I should have just been motivated to figure out how to get somebody in there to run the business so I could go grow the business and yeah and ultimately do more bigger things.
Speaker ASo but I, yeah, I've learned my lesson.
Speaker AI don't, I don't get buried and try not to get buried in day to day things.
Speaker BAnd you almost like people can tell you not to and watch out for it but the siren or the temptation is just there.
Speaker BAnd I was thinking about your career when you were jumping into that you have the curse of knowledge because your industrial engineer background, you understand so much about the business and then just catching yourself even as CEO, you know the business at so many levels, which is a gift but also you know how to do so many jobs.
Speaker BIt's like you could go spend all day on the floor.
Speaker BI mean it probably add value.
Speaker BBut who would do your CEO job?
Speaker ANobody.
Speaker AAnd we would probably wind up going backwards or shrinking as a result.
Speaker ABut just a quick story.
Speaker ASo I had a, again a lot of great leaders in my life but one of we had just done a big project at a plant and you know, almost like a complete shutdown for we turn it upside down, put on all kinds of new equipment and we were struggling to get going and get started.
Speaker AAnd me as a, I think I was either a complex manager VP at the time and you know, you just got everybody just pitching in, maintenance manager, everybody's working.
Speaker AHe said projects can be like vacuums and you will get sucked in to all the minutiae and the, you know, just trying to get this thing off the ground.
Speaker ABut you've got to get yourself up and out of that so that you can direct traffic and call some plays and, and redirect people because you're, you're stuck in the fourth.
Speaker ABut the, the key there is the word vacuum.
Speaker AI think you just, without even knowing it, you get sucked into the.
Speaker AYes, yes.
Speaker ASo vacuum.
Speaker AJust be careful.
Speaker AThe vacuum, whether you're watching.
Speaker BSo what are you doing with your team?
Speaker BI mean, do you, do you tell them, hey, if you see me getting too deep in something, let me know kind of deal, or how do you put up the guardrails?
Speaker BObviously you had that crazy experience, like you live the EMF and you're bringing that now to your role.
Speaker BBut what do you do?
Speaker BBecause I'm thinking about listeners, I'm thinking about myself too.
Speaker BWhat do we do to catch ourselves from going too deep and getting sucked in the vacuum?
Speaker AOne of the things that I learned through my journey as well is, is to, to get out of people's way.
Speaker AAnd if something needs to get done, you've got to understand how to, how to teach them, make sure they understand what you want, be clear about what the expectation is, and get out of their way.
Speaker AAnd fortunately, I've got really good people here at this organization today.
Speaker AThey're almost to the point of, of they, they don't, they won't allow me to get so deep into things because they feel compelled to do it themselves.
Speaker AI, I mean, I would say I'd rather do it that way, but just some really good leaders that didn't know that I don't need to be doing this, that that's their job or somebody else's job, and they take it.
Speaker ASo I do have that going for me right now.
Speaker AYou know, just a great executive team and management structure here that really allows me to stay elevated and not work down a level or two.
Speaker ABut, you know, I think for me, it's just, I've got no point where I think I can recognize the fact that I'm, I am working down a layer or two, and I try to pass those things off, make sure people understand and then get out of their way.
Speaker AI had a boss early on that just undermined me like crazy, and he's the, for me, one of the perfect examples of what not to do.
Speaker AAnd, you know, the administration of poor leadership.
Speaker AThe last thing I want to do is, is micromanage people and undermine them and do things around them.
Speaker AAnd so, you know, the best thing to do is just make sure everybody's clear on what the expectation is and get out of the way if they can't cut it then.
Speaker AThen have a conversation and a coaching about it.
Speaker AAnd you know, sometimes the tough conversations are where people struggle, but I can do that pretty well, I think.
Speaker BSuch a good topic and the leaders listening today.
Speaker BAnd if rising leaders take it to heart, one of the things that comes up for me is, I mean, you've worked for the sort of the juggernaut, so the protein industry with tights and Smithville.
Speaker BAnd my understanding is you've also been through a layoff and you've experienced that which for a leader can be a blow, a blow to the ego.
Speaker BIt can be hard in transition.
Speaker BAnd now you're CEO, and I'm curious, what was the most significant mindset shift that you had to make in that transition?
Speaker BGoing through the layoff, it feels a little like Shawshank Redemptionist, where, you know, like, you're, you're, you're like coming out through the pipe on the other side and like, wow, this was great.
Speaker BBut it's not always like that when you're going through the pipe, sewage pipe, or that experience.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAnd that was, that was tough for, for me and my family was really a big help in getting through that.
Speaker AI've been traveling for a year, so it was nice to come home and, and spend a little time and reconnect with them.
Speaker AAnd I've got no, you know, got no ill will towards Tyson Foods.
Speaker ALove them.
Speaker AThat was layoff.
Speaker ABut I think they quickly got into like a consultant consulting role with a really nice artificial intelligence company that does work in protein plants.
Speaker AThat really helped keep my mind occupied and kind of kept me working and centered, so to speak, and busy and.
Speaker ABut I think what was important for me is to, to keep my confidence up and just, just know that I still a lot of things that I could offer to somebody else.
Speaker AAnd those companies that you mentioned have taught me so much and about our particular industry.
Speaker AAnd, you know, I just, I get a lot of dead ends with interviews and recruiters like crazy.
Speaker AAnd, and, and I think it was just fortuitous that it happened when it did.
Speaker AAnd John Peter, who was here, Alitrade, was looking to retire soon.
Speaker AAnd I mean, it just, it really, it was almost too easy, you know, not to say that it wasn't a hard decision to, to pick me over somebody else or whatever.
Speaker ABut, you know, the board selected me and been blessed to be here.
Speaker AI think I fit in this team well.
Speaker AI know this industry.
Speaker AI know our big customers.
Speaker AAnd so it's, it's just really been a blessing for me.
Speaker ABut, yes, it was a blow, and it was just important for me to.
Speaker ATo keep my confidence up and, you know, had good friends that I work out with every day, and they were supportive, my family.
Speaker AAnd so it was tough, but, man, just.
Speaker AAnd the other thing, you know, that I was thinking about last night before coming on here is so much of your life and your career is defined by your.
Speaker AIn your position, and.
Speaker AAnd.
Speaker AAnd in an instant, it was gone.
Speaker BLike, who is.
Speaker AWho is Josh Whitley now?
Speaker AIs he.
Speaker AIs he the VP of Tyson Foods of Operations?
Speaker AAnd he's done all these.
Speaker ASo, like, in an instant, I'm nobody.
Speaker AAnd really, at that point, what defined me was my family, my friends, my faith, you know, all these things outside of work that I think any leader has got to put importance on and not be so consumed by the role and the work that you're doing every day, because it can happen to anybody.
Speaker AYour business can fail, which I've done as well, and be laid off and, you know, what other circumstances may be.
Speaker AYou can get sick and not.
Speaker ANot be at work anymore because of some illness, and.
Speaker AAnd you lose that definition.
Speaker AAnd so who are you going to be if you don't have that job and that role?
Speaker AI think that's an important question.
Speaker AIt was for me to answer, and I started thinking, okay, I've got.
Speaker AI've got to go make some more friends, and I got to make some more contacts and, you know, just improve my life outside of that career.
Speaker BWow.
Speaker BYou are not your job or your job title.
Speaker BYou the person.
Speaker BAnd I love that recognition.
Speaker BAnd if you'd been traveling around for a year, wearing that big brand on your shirt, it's easy to be like, well, that's.
Speaker BThat's who I am.
Speaker BWhen I.
Speaker BWhen someone.
Speaker BWhen someone asks you at a party what you do, and you're like, well, I'm an exact.
Speaker BI'm an executive for Tyson.
Speaker BAnd people like, oh, I know those guys.
Speaker BAnd all of a sudden, when you can't say that at the party anymore, and they're like, what do you do?
Speaker BYou're like, well, I'm a consultant.
Speaker BAnd they're like, what.
Speaker BWhat does that mean?
Speaker ARight?
Speaker BAnd it's like, what.
Speaker BWhat do you mean?
Speaker BSo I love that, and I love your reaction in terms of, hey, it.
Speaker BIt surfaced things that you could strengthen, like, your relationships, like, you're working out, right?
Speaker BIt's not like a call to action.
Speaker BAnd those things in your network growing that ultimately buoyed you and your confidence, and it might be like the universe at play.
Speaker BHere.
Speaker BBut the alaTrade President/CEO role wasn't available yet.
Speaker BThey might have to come calling if you hadn't been out there and available.
Speaker BSo it seems like it, it worked out.
Speaker AIt has.
Speaker BWhen you, you mentioned that you work out with a group of people, what, what is that like and what, how is that help?
Speaker BHow does that help your performance?
Speaker BI see.
Speaker AYeah, I attribute a lot of my success to it and, and confidence and, and it just, you know, performance, execution.
Speaker ABut this group of guys, so there's four of us in a group and you know, we, we all have different lives and walk out different doors every day, but we try to come together at least three or four days a week and a lot of us will go do things individually, but we come together and we follow routine.
Speaker AWe hold each other accountable and we've got a text string and you know, so just a great group of guys that, I mean, one of them, well, two of them reached out to me right after I got laid off and they knew a woman on the road.
Speaker ASo hey, come join us.
Speaker AWe picked up another guy and it's just really been this fabulous four of working out and, and again, I think the accountability is really the big thing.
Speaker AYou know, we all notice when we're not together and we go to the gym, we're not pushing ourselves as hard as we might if we're together.
Speaker AAnd so that, that really helps.
Speaker AAnd you know, we get up early.
Speaker AWe're generally at the gym about 4:45 early morning and working out.
Speaker ASo yeah, we, again, we're all on different schedules and we just found that early was what was going to work.
Speaker AAnd we get in early on Sunday morning so we get to church and just a great group of guys, so proud to have them beside me and as friends.
Speaker BSo you're touching on something we don't often get into in the show.
Speaker BBut we know from research that especially men as they get older get more isolated.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BOther than maybe their spouse or in their family.
Speaker BAnd that does not translate to long term good health.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BWe know having stronger social bonds as you get older is important.
Speaker BSo have you always.
Speaker BIt just sounds like from your story you kick that into high gear after you had the layoff experience and now you, it sounds like you've kind of created this community and I'm wondering if you have advice for other leaders.
Speaker BLooking around and they're like, yeah, I used to have a bunch of friends I used to hang out with about 20 years ago and now I'm an executive and like, I just have the people that report to me as my main social jam versus outside.
Speaker BSo how did you.
Speaker BHow you kickstart that process?
Speaker BWhat's your advice?
Speaker AI see the importance of it, of maintaining a personal brand and staying connected not just to people in my immediate, you know, community, but all the friends I had at Tyson and people I could only then.
Speaker AI don't know what the, what the key advice would be other than just the, the fact that you can't let your work consume you so much that you put yourself last and your relationships with your family is key and other friends.
Speaker ABut for me, I needed that to help disconnect me from work on some level, too.
Speaker AAnd it's good for me now that I'm back in work and those friends help keep me keep my mind, like, thinking about something other than business.
Speaker ASo not sure what the, what the advice would be exactly, but you need, you need friends outside of work.
Speaker AThe other thing about getting close to.
Speaker ASorry, the thing for me about getting close to people at work and then being your friend, so to speak, is it's hard to, to be objective with them and hold them accountable.
Speaker AAnd I've always been, you know, I've always had good relationship with people that work around me, for me, above me.
Speaker ABut I, I have tried to intentionally keep some distance, too, because if they ever need to hold me accountable, I wanted them.
Speaker AI didn't want it to feel like it's a friend thing and, and same thing with me.
Speaker AI want to keep the distance so that we've got a very objective relationship and I don't have to, you know, think about the fact that we're friends outside of work.
Speaker AAnd how's that relationship going to be?
Speaker AI can lose you as a friend.
Speaker AYou know, that's, that's just not the way to, to really run a business.
Speaker BAnd that's why it gets hard for CEOs as you rise.
Speaker BIt's more isolating at work, wouldn't you say?
Speaker BI mean, it's.
Speaker BThere's a reason that expression is lonely at the top.
Speaker BCame up in the world a long time ago.
Speaker AYes, yes, it is.
Speaker ABut, but it's.
Speaker AI think it's also what you make it.
Speaker AYou know, you got to be able to get out and play golf and have hobbies and do things that free your mind.
Speaker BSo, Josh, we're, we're, we're basically out of time here.
Speaker BBut this has been so cool and so fun, and I just love how you communicate your message authentically.
Speaker BAnd you're just like, hey, this is, this is what happened?
Speaker BThis is my perspective.
Speaker BIt's so refreshing.
Speaker BI want to turn over to you now like a party message or an idea that's burning for you that you want to share with the listeners and we'll wrap up.
Speaker AWell, you know, the thought that comes to mind is, is I've tried to leadership throughout my career a lot of different ways.
Speaker AI've, you know, been sessions and classes and, you know, everybody wants to know what is leadership to you and how would you define it?
Speaker AAnd you know, I, I think the, the key at the core and at the root leadership is, is, is leading other thousands.
Speaker ABut we can't lose sight of the fact that, that we are put in a place to, to in a position to improve people's lives.
Speaker AAnd that is, that is the, I mean, just the root core of leadership.
Speaker AAnd it's that simple.
Speaker AOur job, our responsibility, our commitment is to improve people's lives.
Speaker AAnd so again, I think if we keep that at the forefront as leaders, not lose sight of it, we can't go wrong.
Speaker AAnd it's that simple.
Speaker AImprove people's lives.
Speaker AThat's leadership.
Speaker BThanks for coming on.
Speaker BLead the team, Josh.
Speaker AGlad to be here.
Speaker AThank you, Ben.
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