Welcome to the Elevated Edit Podcast.
Blakely RamseyI'm your host, Blakely Ramsey, and the goal of this podcast is to discuss all things personal development, wellness, and the art of editing your life in an elevated way.
Blakely RamseyFrom mastering morning routines to mastering your mindset, we're going to sift through the noise and empower you to take elevated action.
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Blakely RamseyHello and welcome back to the Elevated Edit Podcast.
Blakely RamseyI hope y'all are gearing up for an amazing new year, whatever that looks like for you.
Blakely RamseyWe are probably going to be going to bed early because the thought of staying up until midnight is just not feasible anymore in my life.
Blakely RamseyBut if you are like me, you're probably overwhelmed with your social media right now and your email and your text from different companies, because everything is about new Year, new you.
Blakely RamseyEveryone is trying to sell you some kind of organizational system to help you have your best year ever and be the best version of yourself.
Blakely RamseyAnd you're probably making all of these to do list with all the things you want to accomplish in the year and all the things you didn't get done the last year, and you're probably super overwhelmed.
Blakely RamseyAnd I think that today's topic is probably going to trigger a couple of people.
Blakely RamseyIf I had listened to this podcast a couple of years ago, I would have laughed and been like, okay, I'm glad that works for you, but please stick with me until the end because I promise you it will make sense and you'll be like, okay, maybe she hasn't completely lost all of her marbles, at least when it comes to this.
Blakely RamseyBut how many times have you written a to do list only to feel more overwhelmed by the end of the day?
Blakely RamseyTo do lists seem like they should help, but often they're the very thing that is holding us back.
Blakely RamseySo today we're diving into why to do lists can hurt your productivity and how systems can simplify your life and help you focus on what truly matters.
Blakely RamseyI don't often share quotes on here, even though I am such a quotes girl.
Blakely RamseyI know people get tired of them, but I found this amazing quote from the Australian Prime Minister Bob Hawke that said, the things which are most important don't always scream the loudest.
Blakely RamseyAnd I loved that because I feel like when we look at a to do list, at least the way I used to look at a to do list, everything was equal, everything was a priority.
Blakely RamseyAnd often the things that I would gravitate towards first were things that were either easy or things that didn't push me outside of my comfort zone.
Blakely RamseyWhatever it was, I was automatically doing those things first.
Blakely RamseyAnd then I was getting to the end of the day and wondering why I wasn't making big progress in my life.
Blakely RamseyBut when I really sat down and analyzed things, I was like, oh, it's because I am tending to the things that are screaming the loudest.
Blakely RamseyI'm tending to things that people need from me.
Blakely RamseyI just got another email about this.
Blakely RamseySomebody text me and reminded me.
Blakely RamseySo all those loud things were what was getting done first and the things that I actually needed to do to move the needle in my life and make progress in my life.
Blakely RamseyThose things were falling to the wayside.
Blakely RamseySo let's talk for a second about why to do lists don't work at least to do lists in the traditional sense.
Blakely RamseySo the problem with traditional to do list is they are just an inventory.
Blakely RamseyThey don't actually give you a clear path forward.
Blakely RamseyAnd what's worse is trivial tasks hover over us because they're on the list and they make us feel like we have to do them even when they aren't important.
Blakely RamseySo I was thinking of some examples when I was walking earlier, and a great example would be like if you have a couple things on your to do list and one of them is you need to get new fingernail clippers and the other one is you need to schedule a call with your accountant to go over your taxes for 2024.
Blakely RamseyIf you have them on the same to do list, they are going to have the same priority in your mind.
Blakely RamseyObviously, consciously, you know that making that appointment with your accountant is way more important.
Blakely RamseyBut when you were on autopilot during the day and you're just checking things off and you just look at that list, you're going to get the same dopamine hit from checking off buying new nail clippers as you are checking off, I need to make an appointment with my CPA or my accountant or whoever it is.
Blakely RamseyAnd that is where we often end up in trouble.
Blakely RamseyBecause technically we check things off of our to do list.
Blakely RamseyBut are we actually doing the things that are the most important?
Blakely RamseyAre we actually truly being productive?
Blakely RamseyOr are we just staying busy and convincing ourselves that we're doing a great job because we're mindlessly checking things off.
Blakely RamseySo let's go through a few more examples of why to do lists fail.
Blakely RamseySo number one Overwhelm and decision fatigue.
Blakely RamseyWe only have a finite amount of decision making in a day.
Blakely RamseyThat's why routine is so important.
Blakely RamseyAnd systems are so Important because if we take up the majority of our decision making skills on minuscule tasks that we have to do every day, when it comes to really important things like prioritizing a to do list, we often drop the ball.
Blakely RamseyAnd things that really need to get done tend to fall to the wayside over things that are shiny and loud and fun and things for other people.
Blakely RamseyIt all just tends to pile up and we get super overwhelmed because of the sheer length of a to do list.
Blakely RamseyIt overwhelms our brain and it leaves us unsure of where to even start.
Blakely RamseySo instead of making progress, we freeze the decision.
Blakely RamseyFatigue sets in and we often end up getting nothing done.
Blakely RamseyOr we only focus on the things that are quick and give us a quick dopamine hit.
Blakely RamseyAnother example of why to do lists fail is tasks that aren't actionable are on our to do list.
Blakely RamseySo I used to be the world's worst at this.
Blakely RamseyI would have things on my to do list and they'd be on there for weeks at a time.
Blakely RamseyAnd I was like, why can I not get this thing done?
Blakely RamseyAnd it would be such a simple task.
Blakely RamseySo I put an example on my outline.
Blakely RamseyIt's something I need to do right now.
Blakely RamseySo I'm giving y'all a real example of how I am not perfect at this.
Blakely RamseyI need new curtains for our living room because my cats have just absolutely destroyed them.
Blakely RamseyI mean, that's the only way to put it.
Blakely RamseyThey are ripped to shreds.
Blakely RamseyAnd on my list, even though I've got a very organized trello board that I put this in on my list, I just have new curtains.
Blakely RamseyAnd in theory it's like, okay, yeah, I do need new curtains.
Blakely RamseyBut new curtains is not an action item.
Blakely RamseyBreaking it down into clear steps would help me actually get this done faster.
Blakely RamseySo instead of every time I look at new curtains, I get overwhelmed and I'm like, oh, I'll do that later.
Blakely RamseyIf I put measure windows, that's an action item.
Blakely RamseyIf I put choose a color, that's an action item.
Blakely RamseyIf I put choose a fabric, that's an action item.
Blakely RamseySo instead of putting these essentially end goals on our list, we need to put these small action items so that we can actually create a path to completion.
Blakely RamseyBut most traditional to do lists don't have that.
Blakely RamseyThey just have new curtains.
Blakely RamseyAnd then we get overwhelmed because that's not the next step that we actually need to take.
Blakely RamseyAnd it never gets done.
Blakely RamseyHence why it's been probably six months and still don't have curtains.
Blakely RamseySo I'm still working on this with y'all.
Blakely RamseyAnd then another example of why they fail is lack of prioritization.
Blakely RamseyTo do lists don't distinguish between urgent, important or irrelevant tasks.
Blakely RamseySo you might spend time on what's easiest and not what truly moves the needle.
Blakely RamseyLike I said, that's going back to the nail clippers and a call with your CPA if you don't ever buy the nail clippers.
Blakely RamseyYeah, you probably need to work on your hygiene a little bit, but it's not going to be a huge ordeal if you don't get your taxes sorted out.
Blakely RamseyYou're probably going to have to pay penalties, you're going to get letters in the mail.
Blakely RamseyIt's going to bring all kinds of stress on your life.
Blakely RamseyIt's going to end up costing you more money.
Blakely RamseyIt's going to end up turning into a really big deal.
Blakely RamseyAnd if you have both of those things on the quote unquote traditional to do list, you technically are prioritizing both of those items as having the same amount of importance.
Blakely RamseyAnd yes, obviously if y'all are like me, I do not want to talk to my cpa.
Blakely RamseyI don't want to know anything about taxes because just the thought of it stresses me out.
Blakely RamseyBut it's something that is very important.
Blakely RamseyIt's something that needs to get done.
Blakely RamseyAnd if I am truly looking at a list of things I need to get done, that needs to be a priority.
Blakely RamseyWay above nail clippers and buying new shampoo and all these things that I love to fill my to do list with because it makes me feel like I'm getting things done, but I'm not actually making big progress towards my big goals.
Blakely RamseySo what is the answer to this?
Blakely RamseyIf traditional to do lists are failing us, what can we do?
Blakely RamseyAnd y'all know I love a good system.
Blakely RamseyI love systems.
Blakely RamseyI think that they're so important and I think they're kind of the answer to our modern day overwhelm problem.
Blakely RamseyBut systems are so important because systems provide structure, turning a long inventory into manageable, prioritized actions.
Blakely RamseyThey help you break tasks into actionable steps and actually focus on what really matters.
Blakely RamseyAnd I'm sure everyone knows Pareto's principle.
Blakely RamseyIf you have never heard of it before, maybe do a little side research into where it actually came from.
Blakely RamseyUm, it's actually pretty fascinating how the principle came to be, but Pareto's principle is essentially the 8020 rule.
Blakely RamseyAnd I love this rule because I feel like it gives our minds some relief and it lets us know that we don't need to do it all.
Blakely RamseyWe just need to do the 20% of tasks that will drive 80% of the results.
Blakely RamseySo I'm going to repeat that one more time.
Blakely RamseyYou just need to do the 20% of tasks that will drive 80% of your results.
Blakely RamseySo instead of feeling like you have to do everything all the time, if you don't do everything, results will never happen.
Blakely RamseyYou can really look at your days, your weeks, your months, everything that you're responsible for, all the things that you have to do, and ask yourself, okay, what are the 20% of the things that I have to do in order to get 80% of the results in my life?
Blakely RamseyAnd systems are so important because they help you identify and focus on that crucial 20%.
Blakely RamseySo this is how systems work.
Blakely RamseyThey help you break down tasks.
Blakely RamseySo instead of feeling stuck, you can ask yourself, what is the first step?
Blakely RamseyWe can go back to the curtain example that I talked about earlier.
Blakely RamseySo if new curtains is on your list, your first step is going to be measuring your windows.
Blakely RamseyThat is what I need to do today.
Blakely RamseyI don't need to install my curtains.
Blakely RamseyI don't need to do all this stuff, all the things, pick out a curtain, all the things.
Blakely RamseyToday I need to measure my windows.
Blakely RamseyTomorrow I can sit down and choose a color.
Blakely RamseyThe next day I can sit down and choose a fabric.
Blakely RamseyAnd look, you don't have to break it down into, I do one thing a day.
Blakely RamseyBut for me that really helps because I do get overwhelmed very easily, especially with tasks like that.
Blakely RamseyAnd it helps me to go, okay, I don't have to do this whole thing today.
Blakely RamseyToday I can just measure my windows.
Blakely RamseyOkay, I've got the measurements.
Blakely RamseyTomorrow I can sit down and look at different color options.
Blakely RamseyThe next day I can look at different fabrics.
Blakely RamseyI can narrow down which companies that I want to use.
Blakely RamseyI might put on there.
Blakely RamseyAsk Hunt, ask husband's opinion.
Blakely RamseyProbably not going to put that on there because he would not know the difference between custom ordered curtains and curtains that I got from the Dollar General.
Blakely RamseyAnd I'm not hating on Dollar General.
Blakely RamseyThey have some really, really cute curtains.
Blakely RamseyActually, the curtains that we have currently in the living room are from Dollar General.
Blakely RamseyBut maybe that's why the cat destroyed them as quickly as she did.
Blakely RamseyBut you catch my drift.
Blakely RamseySystems help you break down your tasks.
Blakely RamseySo instead of having this quote unquote to do list of essentially end goals, you can break it down into tasks that are actionable and that your brain can understand.
Blakely RamseyLike, okay, this is my actual next step.
Blakely RamseyThis is the actual thing that I need to do.
Blakely RamseyNew curtains is not an action.
Blakely RamseyMeasuring your windows is an action.
Blakely RamseySo it kind of helps you break things down into manageable tasks that you can actually get done.
Blakely RamseyAnd I want to emphasize this next portion.
Blakely RamseyScream it from the rooftops.
Blakely RamseyStart simple.
Blakely RamseyThe best system is one that you will actually use.
Blakely RamseyStart small and refine over time.
Blakely RamseySo if you are completely overwhelmed, your to do list right now is just a piece of paper on a refrigerator.
Blakely RamseyThe thought of buying a planner and doing all the things, it's completely overwhelming to you.
Blakely RamseyStart with what feels good.
Blakely RamseyI have a ton of organized friends in my life that get a lot of things done and they all have different systems.
Blakely RamseyI have different systems from them and I also have different systems based on the seasons I kind of bounce between.
Blakely RamseyI love a paper planner for daily action steps.
Blakely RamseyI love Google Calendar for breaking down my weeks.
Blakely RamseyI don't love to put like little tiny tasks in Google Calendar, but I do like to put my big tasks that I'm needed in a certain place or if I need to be on a zoom call.
Blakely RamseyAnything that has a time constraint on there, I love to put in Google Calendar.
Blakely RamseySo that way when somebody says, hey, can you do lunch on February 16?
Blakely RamseyI can look at my Google Calendar and let them know yes or no right in that moment, I can say, yes, I am free.
Blakely RamseyOr I can say, actually, you know what, I'm coming back from a trip the day before and I will not be good conversation.
Blakely RamseySo why don't we move it to the week after?
Blakely RamseyAnd for me, that works.
Blakely RamseyI also use trello.
Blakely RamseyI use Trello more for checklist.
Blakely RamseyAs far as this is how I plan my week, this is how I plan my month, just so I don't drop the ball on things.
Blakely RamseyAnd then ChatGPT, I use, I don't use it to store action items necessarily, but I have used ChatGPT before to help me break down a project.
Blakely RamseySo back to the curtains example.
Blakely RamseyAnd I should have thought of more examples, but I like sitting here.
Blakely RamseyI'm like trying to think of something and there's a thousand things in front of me I could probably use, but my brain is just not comprehending that.
Blakely RamseyOh, let's starting a podcast.
Blakely RamseyThat's a great example.
Blakely RamseyIf you want to start a podcast, start a podcast is not an action item.
Blakely RamseyIf you have that on your to do list, you will never start a podcast.
Blakely RamseyTrust me, I know because I had started a podcast on my to do list for like, I don't know A year, maybe a little less, Maybe six months.
Blakely RamseyI think a year's a bit extreme.
Blakely RamseyProbably about six months.
Blakely RamseyAnd I, of course, never did it because Start a podcast is on an action item.
Blakely RamseyAnd so I put it in Chat GPT and I was like, I need help with starting a podcast.
Blakely RamseyCan you let me know my next step that I need to do?
Blakely RamseyBreak it.
Blakely RamseyAnd I tell Chat GPT break it down into the smallest step that you possibly can.
Blakely RamseyAnd I use ChatGPT for that all the time because I feel like, especially when we are personally connected to something, we have a hard time breaking things down into what actually needs to get done.
Blakely RamseyBecause for me, my first task would have been, oh, I need to come up with my brand colors.
Blakely RamseyI need to book a photo shoot, because that is what is fun and exciting to me.
Blakely RamseyBut when I actually looked at it, I needed to narrow down my niche, figure out my topics, figure out my SEO keywords and things like that that kind of make my eyes glaze over.
Blakely RamseyBut those were the tasks that actually needed to get done in order for me to start a podcast.
Blakely RamseySo that's kind of a perfect example of using technology to break down a project into the next actionable step.
Blakely RamseyAnd I am someone that used to be stuck in the cycle of unending to do list.
Blakely RamseyI was constantly overwhelmed by tasks that never seemed to get done.
Blakely RamseyI was kind of, I'm not going to say famous, because that's so arrogant, but a lot of people in my life would comment because I would take a picture of my to do list at the end of the day and post it on my Instagram stories.
Blakely RamseyAnd I would carry around this legal pad, and I still have legal pads everywhere, but now they're more of just like a brainstorm session versus.
Blakely RamseyI used to carry a legal pad around, and that would be my, quote, unquote, to do list.
Blakely RamseyEverything went on this legal pad.
Blakely RamseyIf I needed to buy groceries, whatever grocery it was went on there.
Blakely RamseyIf I was planning an event, all of my event stuff was on there.
Blakely RamseyAll of my stuff for work was on there.
Blakely RamseyIf I was doing marketing for another company, all of the marketing stuff was on there.
Blakely RamseyI mean, like, literally everything that I needed to do, I wanted to do, somebody asked of me, was on this legal pad.
Blakely RamseyAnd I would lug it around all day.
Blakely RamseyAnd oftentimes I would sit in front of my computer for hours, hours, hours, hours at a time, and I would check things off my list and I would feel this pride in myself, and I would get to the end of the list and check the last thing off and take a picture and put it on social media.
Blakely RamseyAnd then I'd get home and I'd be like, what did I do today?
Blakely RamseyLike, did I even get anything done?
Blakely RamseyAnd in my head, I kept telling myself, oh, well, I just don't have time to do X, Y and Z.
Blakely RamseyOr maybe one day when I have time, I'll have a hobby or I'll start working out or whatever it is.
Blakely RamseyBut I was stuck in this endless cycle that I was never going to get out of if I didn't make a change.
Blakely RamseyAnd so for me, switching to systems was an absolute game changer.
Blakely RamseyAnd now, and I don't want to overwhelm you with what I do, but I am gonna.
Blakely RamseyI'm all about transparency.
Blakely RamseyAnd I do want y'all to see, like, kind of the behind the scenes of how I do things.
Blakely RamseyThis is how I simplify and turn my quote unquote to do list into an action list.
Blakely RamseyBecause inevitably, as life progresses, as we're at work, people ask things of us.
Blakely RamseyWe are going to end up with a list, and that's perfectly fine.
Blakely RamseyBut it's what we do with that list that really matters.
Blakely RamseySo usually once a week, sometimes I have to do it daily, just depending on what is needed of me in the week.
Blakely RamseyWith December, I've been able to do it monthly and probably January as well, because they're a little bit slower.
Blakely RamseyBut back in August, I was having to run this system.
Blakely RamseyI'd say once or twice a week because it was obviously a lot busier.
Blakely RamseyBut I will brain dump everything into a list.
Blakely RamseyAnd people get really overwhelmed when they hear about a brain dump.
Blakely RamseyBecause putting everything that pops into your head on a piece of paper can be super overwhelming.
Blakely RamseyAnd I think a lot of people think, well, if I brain dump everything that I have to do, I will be more overwhelmed than ever before.
Blakely RamseyAnd it will stress you out at first.
Blakely RamseyLike the first time.
Blakely RamseyThe first time I did this, I had three or four pages of things that I needed to do and I was like, why did I do that to myself?
Blakely RamseyWhy did I write everything down?
Blakely RamseyNow it makes it look so much worse than when it was just stuck in my head.
Blakely RamseyBut a, it'll get easier as you go on.
Blakely RamseyYou'll stop dropping the ball on things, you'll stop forgetting things, and your brain dump won't end up as long.
Blakely RamseyBut the biggest reason and the biggest benefit from this is that if it's not on paper and your brain doesn't feel like it has a system that it can trust.
Blakely RamseyYour brain is constantly remembering all that stuff constantly on replay.
Blakely RamseyEven if you aren't consciously constantly remembering it, you are subconsciously constantly remembering it.
Blakely RamseySo as you are carrying on about your day and you go, oh, shoot, I need to call so and so, oh, shoot, I need to pick up this.
Blakely RamseyThat thought didn't just come to you.
Blakely RamseyYour brain has been remembering it this whole time.
Blakely RamseyAnd so imagine the overwhelm of, yeah, it's overwhelming to look at four pages of things that you have to do, but imagine those four pages of things being stuck in your head and your head constantly feeling like it needs to remember that all the time.
Blakely RamseyAnd that goes back to when your brain is having to remember all of that.
Blakely RamseyIt does not prioritize things for you.
Blakely RamseyYour brain doesn't know the difference.
Blakely RamseySo in your head, buying new nail clippers, buying a new vase for the hallway, ordering socks for the kids, soccer is all in the same category as meeting with your cpa, getting your oil changed.
Blakely RamseyThat's one that I tend to drop the ball on.
Blakely RamseyI'm trying to think of, like, really important things that need to get done.
Blakely RamseyPicking up insulin, like things that need to get done that are high priorities in your brain.
Blakely RamseyIf you're not writing things down, it is just remembering everything is one in the same.
Blakely RamseyIt is not prioritizing like, okay, this is the most important and this is the least important.
Blakely RamseyIt is just a running to do list in your head constantly.
Blakely RamseySo, yes, a brain dump is going to feel overwhelming at first, but I promise you, it is going to be a game changer for you.
Blakely RamseySo once you brain dump, categorize it, and this is where you can have fun and create systems for yourself.
Blakely RamseySo I do have a book recommendation here.
Blakely RamseyIt's called Getting Things Done by David Allen.
Blakely RamseyI wish I could say it was a really fun and interesting book, but it is the most boring book you will ever read in your whole entire life.
Blakely RamseyAnd if David Allen ever listens to my podcast, which if he did, I would just fall out on the floor.
Blakely RamseyI apologize for calling your book boring, even though it really is.
Blakely RamseyBut it is such an impactful book.
Blakely RamseyIt is so good.
Blakely RamseyIt will teach you so many things about prioritizing and creating action lists.
Blakely RamseyBut the biggest thing that I took from it, and this is how I categorize, is the delete, defer, and delegate.
Blakely RamseySo once you brain dump, you can go through and delete.
Blakely RamseyAnd this is my absolute favorite part.
Blakely RamseyIt used to give me some anxiety, but with these new boundaries I've got.
Blakely RamseyI'll be deleting everything.
Blakely RamseyDelete.
Blakely RamseySo a lot of the things that you carry around that you feel like are your responsibility, that need to be your priority probably either don't need to get done or they don't need to get done by you.
Blakely RamseySo delete them.
Blakely RamseyScratch them off the list.
Blakely RamseyTake it off.
Blakely RamseyTake it off.
Blakely RamseyTake it off.
Blakely RamseyTake it off.
Blakely RamseyI can usually knock down about half of my brain dump just by deleting things.
Blakely RamseyJust take it off of the list.
Blakely RamseyIf it's not something that is going to move the needle for you, is important to you, is going to truly give you any kind of progress in any area of your life, just delete it.
Blakely RamseyIf it's meant for you and it's something exciting, it'll come back around the second one that I love.
Blakely RamseyEspecially like I said, now that I have boundaries, delegate.
Blakely RamseyIf it is something that needs to get done, but it doesn't have to be done by you, delegate it.
Blakely RamseyAnd if you know me in real life, you know that this has not always been my strong suit.
Blakely RamseyBut I read a book at the beginning of the year and he said, if someone else does a task to 80% completion, it is always better than you doing it to 100%.
Blakely RamseyAnd in the book is Buy Back youk Time by Dan.
Blakely RamseyI think his last name is Dan Founder.
Blakely RamseyAnd when I first heard that, I was like, why would I ever be okay with anything being done to 80%?
Blakely RamseyLike I am 100% above.
Blakely RamseyI always strive for excellence.
Blakely RamseyLike that's not okay with me.
Blakely RamseyBut I have learned with my assistant and it's been a work in progress, that her doing something to 80% completion is way better than me doing it to 100%.
Blakely RamseyTypically, 80% is all that we need.
Blakely RamseyPeople usually don't Notice the missing 20% is one thing I've noticed and learned is I always felt like in order to be excellent and in order to be respected and in order to be a professional, I always had to give everything 100%.
Blakely RamseyBut I'm learning that getting things done to 80% is good.
Blakely RamseyIt doesn't.
Blakely RamseyI don't have to go over the top all the time.
Blakely RamseyI don't always have to be striving and pushing things.
Blakely RamseyGetting done to 80% checks them off to completion.
Blakely RamseyThey are done well.
Blakely RamseyThey might not be perfect, they might not be over the top.
Blakely RamseyIt might not have that extra little pizzazz, but that's okay.
Blakely RamseyAnd allowing someone else to do something to 80% frees up my time to knock out the 20% of the things that are going to make an even bigger difference for me.
Blakely RamseySo if someone is doing my tiny task at 80%, I can then turn around and focus on the things that are actually going to move the needle.
Blakely RamseyInstead of me trying to do all these minuscule tiny tasks that don't actually need to be done by me to 100%, I'm able to use my time more efficiently and actually get things done and move the needle.
Blakely RamseyAnd then defer is the last one.
Blakely RamseySo defer is going to be a little difficult if you don't have a system in place yet because your brain is not going to feel comfortable deferring things.
Blakely RamseyIf you go, okay, I'll do this later, I'll do this next month, I'll do this six months from now.
Blakely RamseyAnd you write it on a piece of paper and you stuff it in a drawer.
Blakely RamseyThat's where I use trello.
Blakely RamseyI have a, literally, it's called a maybe one day board.
Blakely RamseyAnd it's things that are not a priority for me right now.
Blakely RamseyThey are things that I don't have the capability to do right now because I've got other priorities.
Blakely RamseyBut there are things that maybe one day I would love to do.
Blakely RamseyAnd I'm going to give my brain the peace and the just relaxation that it is stored somewhere and I put it on my maybe one day board.
Blakely RamseyYou can put this in a journal, whatever it is.
Blakely RamseyI used to be really bad about constantly keeping things on my to do list that I either didn't have time for right then or I didn't even maybe want to do right then.
Blakely RamseyLike, I was like, I'd love to do that one day, but not right now.
Blakely RamseyBut I would just keep it on that same to do list.
Blakely RamseyPut it on your for later list, put it on your defer list, whatever you want to call it.
Blakely RamseyMine is maybe one day.
Blakely RamseyAnd that makes me feel good because it's like, I don't ever have to do it, but if I want to do it, I certainly can.
Blakely RamseyAnd then from there you can break down your categorized list into actionable time block steps.
Blakely RamseySo instead of having all these big end goals on your list, you have the next right step, the next actionable step, and then you can time block it in your calendar if you feel comfortable.
Blakely RamseyTime blocking.
Blakely RamseyI have recently started time blocking and I absolutely love it.
Blakely RamseyAnd for me, when I say, quote, unquote, time blocking, I'm not time blocking my morning from every single minute in the morning to every single minute at night.
Blakely RamseyBut I'm like, okay, if I'm going to sit down and email so and so, why don't I go ahead and email these other six people and that way I can spend 30 minutes in my email and I'm done.
Blakely RamseyInstead of, oh, I need to email this person in the morning.
Blakely RamseyOh, I need to make sure I email so and so back and I'll hop on email at 11.
Blakely RamseyWell then I checked my email and something else came in and you know, it's a back and forth cycle all day.
Blakely RamseyI'm like, okay, at 11:00, I'm gonna turn on my timer, I'm gonna sit down in my email and I'm gonna give it 30 to 45 minutes of dedicated time.
Blakely RamseyThen I can actually get things done.
Blakely RamseyI put a window around it, I give myself a time limit and I knock things out.
Blakely RamseyAnd then I can not check my email the rest of the day or not check it for a couple of hours.
Blakely RamseyBecause email for me is a time suck.
Blakely RamseyIt kind of turns into its own to do list.
Blakely RamseyAnd then all of a sudden I'm doing things for other people and not once again getting my own things done.
Blakely RamseySo.
Blakely RamseySo by focusing on the 20% that matters most, I have been able to free up my time and energy for not only being more productive, but for things that bring me joy and are fun.
Blakely RamseyAnd it's just been such a game changer for me this year.
Blakely RamseySo y'all know I'm all about practical, actionable steps.
Blakely RamseySo let's talk about practical steps to replace place to do list with systems.
Blakely RamseyNumber one, brain up everything.
Blakely RamseyWe just talked about this, but I'm going to say it again because it's so important for you to clear your head and write down every task, every idea, every commitment.
Blakely RamseyAnd then number two, you're going to categorize and prioritize, sort tasks into urgent, important, or can wait.
Blakely RamseyAnd this is, you can organize this however you want.
Blakely RamseyI love delete, delegate and defer.
Blakely RamseyAnd then prioritize the 20% that will have the biggest impact.
Blakely RamseyNext, break down tasks into actions.
Blakely RamseySo turn vague items into actionable steps.
Blakely RamseyOnce again, y'all are going to be so sick of me.
Blakely RamseyAnd these curtains, like, y'all are going to be like, do I need to come over and order these curtains for you?
Blakely RamseyBut once again, for example, new curtains, which is totally something that I would put on my to do list, becomes measure the windows, choose a color, research options.
Blakely RamseyThose are tasks that your brain can comprehend.
Blakely RamseyThose are tasks your brain's like, oh, I can do that.
Blakely RamseyI can measure a window, I can choose a color.
Blakely RamseyNew curtains, your brain, like, instantly paralyzes because it's like, what do I need to do next?
Blakely RamseyLike, new curtains.
Blakely RamseyThere's too many steps involved.
Blakely RamseyNext time, block your day.
Blakely RamseyLike I said, this is something I've started doing in the last year.
Blakely RamseyI'm not super strict about it, but I do try to time block my tasks so that I am taking all my calls at one time.
Blakely RamseyI am on emails at one time.
Blakely RamseyI do all of my showings on two days a week.
Blakely RamseyI just try to categorize everything as closely as I can.
Blakely RamseyOf course, there's always going to be outliers to this because life happens.
Blakely RamseyClients have things come up.
Blakely RamseyI have things come up.
Blakely RamseyY'all have kids that have a thousand things come up.
Blakely RamseyBut what this will do is it will reduce decision fatigue and keep you focused.
Blakely RamseyNext, you're going to want to set deadlines.
Blakely RamseyAvoid procrastination by assigning clear deadlines for each task.
Blakely RamseyRemember Parkinson's law?
Blakely RamseyTasks expand to fill the time you give them.
Blakely RamseySo if you give yourself two weeks to get something done, whatever it is, you say, okay, I'm going to get this done in two weeks.
Blakely RamseyTwo weeks from now, I'm going to put it on my calendar.
Blakely RamseyI'm going to have this completed.
Blakely RamseyIt's going to take you two weeks to do it.
Blakely RamseyIf you take that same thing and say, okay, on Saturday, I'm going to dedicate three hours to this.
Blakely RamseyIt'll take you three hours to get it done, and you cannot.
Blakely RamseyBelieve me, I didn't believe this for a long time, but it works.
Blakely RamseyWe expand tasks to the time that we give them.
Blakely RamseySo be reasonable, but sit down and really analyze before you give yourself a deadline.
Blakely RamseyHow long is this actually going to take me?
Blakely RamseyHow long is it going to take me to get really good and really do the 20% that's going to make an 80% impact.
Blakely RamseyAnd I promise you the time that you are going to give yourself, you need, you can cut it in at least half.
Blakely RamseySo just remember that Parkinson's law task, tasks.
Blakely RamseyThat is really difficult for me to say.
Blakely RamseyTasks expand to fill the time you give them and then the last one.
Blakely RamseyReview and adjust weekly schedule time to evaluate your systems, what's working and what needs tweaking.
Blakely RamseyI have been working on these systems, my personal systems, for I'd say maybe like six, seven years is kind of when I got into all of this stuff.
Blakely RamseyAnd I still adjust constantly.
Blakely RamseyDon't feel pressured to Buy the newest, fanciest thing.
Blakely RamseyDon't feel pressured to do what your friend is doing.
Blakely RamseyDon't feel pressured to do what I do.
Blakely RamseyStart with something that feels comfortable and every week you'll be like, oh, that really worked for me.
Blakely RamseyOr that did not work at all.
Blakely RamseyDo whatever will work for you.
Blakely RamseyThe system, the best system is a system you will actually use.
Blakely RamseyYou don't have to have Trello, you don't have to use ChatGPT, you don't have to have a fancy planner.
Blakely RamseyAlthough I'm gonna have to post a picture on Instagram.
Blakely RamseyMy planner this year, a friend recommended it to me and it is the most gorgeous thing I've ever held in my hands.
Blakely RamseyIt is leopard print, it is leather, it is gorgeous.
Blakely RamseyThe font is beautiful, it's got gold and oh, it is a stunning planner and I want to carry it around and show it off to everybody.
Blakely RamseyBut you don't.
Blakely RamseyYou don't have to have that.
Blakely RamseyGo down to the DG and get you a $5 planner.
Blakely RamseyWhatever system you will use is the best system.
Blakely RamseyAnd one more.
Blakely RamseyAs if all of this wasn't enough of a reason to start using systems versus traditional to do lists.
Blakely RamseySystems are great because they build your confidence.
Blakely RamseyConsistency and momentum come from sticking to systems.
Blakely RamseySystems help you see yourself as someone who actually get things done, and that momentum is going to build even more confidence and more motivation.
Blakely RamseySo each week as you review, you're going to be like, wow, I actually stuck to that system and I got all these things done versus, oh, I checked all my things off of a to do list and I still didn't finish anything like, what's wrong with me?
Blakely RamseyYour mindset about yourself, your vision about yourself is going to start changing and you're going to look at yourself as someone who gets things done, who isn't constantly in a rush, who doesn't drop the ball, who doesn't procrastinate, who doesn't whatever it is, you're going to feel good and feel confident and be like, okay, if I tell myself I'm going to do something, I'm going to get it done.
Blakely RamseyI am someone who does hard things.
Blakely RamseyI am someone who does things well.
Blakely RamseyI am someone who doesn't feel the urge to do everything, to 100%.
Blakely RamseyI make sure things are done at 80% and I feel okay with that.
Blakely RamseyAnd that is going to be such a different mindset.
Blakely RamseyIt's going to be so freeing.
Blakely RamseyI'm positive it will for you.
Blakely RamseyAt least it did for me and other people.
Blakely RamseyThat I've talked to about this.
Blakely RamseyThey feel the exact same way.
Blakely RamseyAnd one more thing I want to talk about with systems, because I've heard so many people say this as kind of like a rebuttal.
Blakely RamseyWhen I talk about how important systems are, they say, oh well, I don't want systems because systems will restrict me.
Blakely RamseyBut systems actually do the opposite.
Blakely RamseyThey free you up mentally, emotionally.
Blakely RamseyThey free up your calendar, your free time.
Blakely RamseyBy focusing on the 20% that truly matters, you reduce overwhelm across the board and you find more time for the things that you actually love and you actually have joy doing.
Blakely RamseyAnd all of this wrap up comes back to traditional to do lists just don't work.
Blakely RamseyThey are overwhelming.
Blakely RamseyThey lack structure.
Blakely RamseyAnd systems simplify your life by giving you clear actions, priorities and time to focus.
Blakely RamseySo I want you to start today, brain dump your tasks, break them into actions and time.
Blakely RamseyBlock your day.
Blakely RamseyFocus on the 20% that makes the biggest difference.
Blakely RamseyIt does not have to be perfect.
Blakely RamseyJust get started.
Blakely RamseyAnd if you start this this week, if you do a brain dump and you're overwhelmed, I want you to find some joy in it and be like, okay, there's other people that are going through this too.
Blakely RamseyPost it on Instagram, motivate other people and tag me in it because I want to hear your results.
Blakely RamseyAnd if you have a friend who you think might benefit from this, maybe they're in the same space where they just have all of these never ending to do list and they are not ever actually getting anything done.
Blakely RamseySend them this episode and share it with them and be like, hey girl, I think you might benefit from this, but I hope you got a ton of amazing information out of this episode and I will see you in the next one.
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