Foreign.
Blair:Ladies and gentlemen, hello.
Blair:Hello.
Blair:Welcome to episode 102 of the Secular Foxhole podcast.
Blair:Martin,
Blair:we're going to have to mind our P's and Q's.
Blair:You know why?
Blair:We have a professional speaker on with us today.
Martin:Yes, we have.
Martin:And you started out nice.
Blair:Well, thank you.
Blair:Thank you.
Blair:Robert Begley is a keynote speaker, certified world class speaking coach,
Blair:author of Voices of Reason.
Blair:As founder of Speaking with Purpose llc,
Blair:he has helped executives enter entrepreneurs and other leaders find their voice and speak
Blair:with courage, clarity and conviction.
Blair:Robert has spoken to audience acclaim across the United States and internationally.
Blair:His mission is simple, to help people speak boldly and lead effectively.
Blair:Today we're going to talk to Robert about his speaking career and his new book.
Blair:Robert, how are you?
Robert:I am wonderful, absolutely wonderful.
Robert:Been on this show several times.
Robert:But as an author,
Robert:you know what it's like to have this looming over your head forever.
Robert:I've been threatening to write a book since the 80s.
Robert:Holy cow.
Robert:Anyway,
Robert:thank you gentlemen.
Robert:It is really important to me to be with the
Robert:two of you because when you are an author,
Robert:you can't be an authority,
Robert:okay.
Robert:Without having the word author in there and
Robert:subject of public speaking, presentation skills, whatever,
Robert:however you want to use the expression,
Robert:it changes lives.
Robert:And my book is about seven famous speeches throughout history.
Robert:I walk the audience through, I break down these famous speeches from the perspective of
Robert:Aristotle.
Robert:We've talked about Aristotle in the past, but
Robert:his rhetoric is his book of rhetoric,
Robert:the art of rhetoric.
Robert:He mentions persuasion, how do we persuade people?
Robert:And he has three pillars, Ethos, Logos, pathos.
Robert:And so what I do in my book is analyse Patrick Henry,
Robert:Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King Jr.
Robert:Winston Church, Aline Rand, Maga Wade,
Robert:Frederick Douglass.
Robert:Seven magnificent.
Robert:I call them the magnificent seven.
Robert:I guess.
Robert:My notebook.
Robert:Seven speakers, it's not all,
Robert:you know, exhaust.
Robert:It's not an exhaustive list, but they're
Robert:speeches that have, have influenced me.
Robert:And using them through,
Robert:viewing them through the lens of Aristotle, Sithos, logos, pathos.
Robert:I want to show today's leaders,
Robert:hey, you can use these principles and you have a voice and you need to use that voice because
Robert:unlike the two of you gentlemen, a lot of people are afraid to speak out.
Robert:They silence themselves, they self censor.
Robert:And I want people to speak boldly so they can lead effectively.
Blair:I'm still guilty of that, sadly in some, some circumstance.
Blair:But you know,
Blair:not on here you're not.
Blair:No,
Blair:no, no.
Blair:I constantly strive to, you know,
Blair:erase that.
Blair:But yeah, there's still, there is a challenge
Blair:of that.
Blair:Now just for the audience.
Blair:When, when you say ethos, pathos and.
Robert:And logos.
Robert:What?
Robert:Yes.
Blair:What does that mean in English?
Robert:Yeah, you're right, you're right.
Martin:Also, if you want.
Robert:I'm sorry, you could say it in.
Martin:Greek also, if you want.
Robert:So ethos,
Robert:I'll give you the famous the public speaking example, and then the what Aristotle meant.
Robert:I've studied.
Robert:I've been a professional speaker for decades,
Robert:and I've studied the science of public speaking.
Robert:And by ethos,
Robert:most speakers mean the credibility of the speaker.
Robert:But guess what?
Robert:Credibility is important.
Robert:But Aristotle is more precise.
Robert:He. He says the moral character.
Martin:Like the word ethics.
Robert:Yes,
Robert:the eth. Ethos, ethics.
Robert:Same. Yeah, the same ballpark.
Robert:So credibility is an offshoot,
Robert:but the moral character of the speaker.
Robert:And I'll give you, after I finish the three,
Robert:I'll give you a little backstory, a little history on the sophist.
Robert:So that's ethos, which I think is the most important of the three logos.
Robert:That's what most speakers focus on.
Robert:That's the logical.
Robert:That's the argument.
Robert:Okay, this leads to.
Robert:This leads to this conclusion.
Robert:All right,
Robert:Most speakers, most presenters.
Robert:And let me just clarify the difference between public speaking.
Robert:Not that many people comparatively do public speaking.
Robert:A lot more people do what we call presentations.
Robert:So public speaking, it kind of.
Robert:You think of Tony Robbins on this big stage
Robert:with hundreds of, you know, thousands of people.
Robert:No,
Robert:not that many of us get that opportunity, but we're often much more.
Robert:Often we're in front of a small group,
Robert:whether it's a board meeting,
Robert:whether it is a local chapter of community event or something.
Robert:And my point in the book, one of the points in the book is use your voice for any audience,
Robert:any setting.
Robert:So the logos is what most people focus on.
Robert:And then the third one, the pathos,
Robert:that is the emotion, the emotional connection between the speaker and the audience.
Robert:Now,
Robert:audiences, the speaker needs to be aware that audiences come with their own baggage to a
Robert:presentation,
Robert:and an effective speaker needs to recognise that.
Robert:So we should not be behind a wall saying, I have this content.
Robert:I'm going to rush through this content no matter what.
Robert:You gave me 45 minutes.
Robert:I'm going to use all 45 minutes.
Robert:I got to get through this.
Robert:I'm not even going to look up from my notes.
Robert:No, that's no path.
Robert:There's no pathos there.
Blair:Right?
Robert:Pathos.
Robert:Seeing them watching the head nod,
Robert:asking reflective questions, establishing a connection.
Robert:And there's a f. Famous quote which the two of you probably have heard.
Robert:To trust someone,
Robert:it's like we don't care how much you know until we know how much you care.
Robert:Okay. And that is where the pathos comes in.
Robert:And Aristotle.
Robert:So it's not just pure emotion,
Robert:it's seeing the direction that the audience is in, the state of mind they're in, and trying
Robert:to bring them towards your position, trying to persuade them to.
Robert:Through your position.
Robert:So jump in on that and then I'll get to this office if you have any responses.
Martin:So how could we do it as a podcaster, then?
Martin:Because you have the listener out there listening.
Martin:But now with new Podcasting 2.0 features,
Martin:we could even have in the future, live streaming and getting feedback and reactions
Martin:thanks to technology.
Martin:Live item tags.
Robert:Yes.
Martin:How could we think as podcasters?
Robert:Okay, so as podcasters, address the audience.
Martin:Yeah.
Robert:So guess what, Blair and Martin,
Robert:I think your audience can learn a lot about ethos, logos and pathos by listening to your.
Robert:Your podcast, particularly this programme.
Robert:Here's why it's important to them.
Robert:So the way Martin knows, the way I coach, it's very you focused.
Robert:You will benefit, you will discover if you listen to this programme on September 2nd,
Robert:that's what we're aiming for, right? Yes.
Robert:You will get these benefits.
Robert:So do you hear that? Instead of saying,
Robert:I have the answers,
Robert:listen to me.
Robert:End of discussion.
Martin:Making it for me, like, yeah, good.
Martin:Like a listener.
Martin:What's in it for me? Why should I listen?
Robert:That's right.
Robert:Zig Ziglar, one of the most famous speakers,
Robert:says,
Robert:most famous radio station wiffm.
Robert:What's in it for me?
Robert:And when you're sitting, when you're sitting in the audience or listening to a podcast,
Robert:my coach, Ed Tate, he has he.
Robert:This is what's going on in the mind of the
Robert:person sitting in the audience or maybe listening to the podcast,
Robert:the speakers droning, right?
Robert:All the, all the audience members thinking is,
Robert:so what?
Robert:Who cares?
Robert:What's in it for me?
Robert:It's all about me.
Blair:Okay?
Robert:We know on this programme that's an egoistic.
Robert:So we as listeners go there for the egoistic benefit.
Robert:It's not that we want to see a famous speaker.
Robert:We want to.
Robert:We want to see what we can get from that famous speaker.
Robert:So by integrating ethos, logos and pathos,
Robert:having a beautiful balance between the two,
Robert:that's the way a presenter, a speaker can set up the audience to be persuaded to take that
Robert:action after the speech is over, a day after, a week after, a month after.
Robert:Because the other issue that I'm.
Robert:That I'm battling in the book is most speeches are forgotten by the next day.
Robert:Okay.
Robert:Most and I have data on that and the reasons
Robert:why our brain isn't wired to sit down.
Robert:45 minutes sitting passively while someone is droning on.
Robert:And so we tune out quickly.
Robert:18 minutes.
Robert:That's why TED talks tend to be eight minutes maximum.
Robert:This day and age, it's even shorter because young people are desperately hooked to their
Robert:smartphones and looking for any reason to be distracted.
Robert:So speakers need to be aware of.
Martin:That and they need not be bored.
Martin:And thanks Robert, and you will continue here.
Martin:But you gave me argument for podcasting now.
Martin:So when you have listened, you could pause,
Martin:you could rewind and you could listen again.
Robert:Yes.
Martin:And then if you find this podcast episode value for you, then you could give
Martin:value back voluntarily in different ways.
Martin:You could spread it to a friend,
Martin:you could help us out in different ways.
Martin:And you could also stream satoshis or send a
Martin:booster gramme, real money, bits of bitcoin.
Martin:So. And we take silver also and other things like that.
Martin:So it's all good.
Robert:There's one other aspect if I want to get to.
Robert:And I want to hear from you.
Martin:Yep.
Robert:Carrie Ann, this is what she would do.
Robert:She's not going to sit down and listen to
Robert:this.
Robert:She'll print out the transcript.
Martin:Yes, it's included.
Robert:She's a reader.
Martin:Good.
Robert:She doesn't like.
Robert:She is a reader and so she doesn't do audiobooks.
Robert:She doesn't listen to podcasts.
Robert:She doesn't even want how good looking I am.
Robert:You know,
Robert:so. But the point is there's that segment of the audience that they just want to read the
Robert:transcript.
Martin:And that's a good, good point, Varen.
Martin:And now it's a feature with that you can get
Martin:transcripts.
Martin:And we included that in the work to put up
Martin:transcripts.
Robert:Right.
Martin:So that's, it's accessibility thing.
Martin:But it's also for your matter of, you know,
Martin:how you take in or how do you say, how do you process things?
Martin:So that was very interesting note there.
Robert:And you know something,
Robert:Martin? I'll say I, I'll mention that because one of
Robert:the things I cover in the book is the fact that people absorbed in absorb information by
Robert:different.
Robert:There is not a one size fits all.
Robert:And speakers need to be aware of that.
Robert:Some are visual, some, some actually visuals.
Robert:Having visuals leads to much greater retention
Robert:afterwards than someone standing at a lectern gripping it with, you know, gripping the
Robert:edges.
Robert:And so.
Robert:But we need to be aware of that.
Robert:How does our audience absorb information?
Blair:Now a couple of things popped in my head, while you were talking.
Blair:And Aristotle,
Blair:difficult to read.
Blair:And so. And you.
Blair:You. You picked up a book about his rhetoric.
Blair:Is that a. Is that an interpreter that you would recommend, you know, or if you know,
Blair:John.
Robert:John Lewis?
Robert:Yes,
Robert:this was his copy.
Robert:This was actually.
Robert:This was his copy with some of his notes in it.
Robert:Carrion and I, we spent more than a year going through.
Robert:Aristotle's Rhetoric by Joseph Sacks is a different translation,
Robert:so I'm looking at different ones.
Robert:Sacks is the one that.
Robert:Carrie Ann, who is an interpreter,
Robert:she translates herself, can read it in the Greek.
Robert:And so in my book, I actually have a hundred.
Robert:100 in the index, 100 citations.
Robert:This is like a.
Robert:You know, it's a thin book, but it's scholarly.
Robert:And there is.
Robert:So I'll just go on a slight tangent.
Robert:There's so much junk out there.
Robert:There's so much garbage.
Robert:And Carrie Ann, as the editor, she's like, holds my feet to the fire.
Robert:How do you know this number of people are afraid of speaking?
Robert:Well, the citation here.
Robert:No, someone just threw that number out there.
Robert:And if I can't find an actual source,
Robert:I had to take out.
Robert:I had to rewrite.
Martin:How much time did you spend on that when.
Blair:On your book?
Robert:On the book itself,
Robert:more than a year.
Robert:It was late July last year that I carved out
Robert:roughly 90 minutes to two hours a day on the book, despite running a business, despite
Robert:giving presentations and coaching and all that.
Robert:So it was from August through,
Robert:I think, April.
Robert:I think I finished it in April.
Robert:And then back and forth with the.
Robert:With the publisher.
Robert:Okay, so.
Robert:But a lot of it hearkens to my past.
Robert:A lot of it are stories from.
Robert:From my past.
Robert:And so.
Robert:But, Blair, I just.
Robert:Coming back to Aristotle, he is tough to read.
Robert:He is tough to read, especially on your own.
Robert:I'm fortunate in having.
Robert:Carrie Ann,
Robert:we have a small group who's going through his entire corpus slowly, very slowly.
Robert:Now we're on his metaphysics,
Robert:which is a.
Robert:His.
Robert:His metaphysics is a night to say that.
Robert:Anyway, so just coming.
Robert:Coming back to his impact with the.
Robert:With his rhetoric, I'll just say this.
Robert:Why did he write his rhetoric? Because back then, there was a group called
Robert:the Sophists,
Robert:and they were all about using tricks.
Martin:Yes.
Robert:They wanted to win an argument.
Robert:They wanted to grab the loot, grab the.
Robert:They were like snake oil salesmen, but they
Robert:were good at getting people emotionally stoked.
Robert:And Aristotle.
Robert:So the term rhetoric had, like, a negative
Robert:connotation.
Robert:Still does today, right? Yes.
Blair:Yeah.
Robert:In that interim, Aristotle said No, there's a science to persuasion here.
Robert:And I'm going to methodically go through these principles.
Robert:Ethos, logos, pathos.
Robert:So my, one of my goals, I have billion goals with the book, but one of them is to restore
Robert:the value of the term rhetoric.
Robert:Okay, now this.
Blair:Thank you, thank you.
Robert:Rhetoric tips that I'm.
Robert:Once a week I'm putting out a different tip
Robert:using rhetoric, but go ahead.
Martin:Yeah.
Blair:I can't tell you how, how sick I am if every once in a while I'll hear,
Blair:you know, read.
Blair:Trick your mind into this, this, you know,
Blair:this or this is how you trick your mind.
Blair:How to do, you know, to psych yourself up or
Blair:whatever.
Blair:It's not a trick,
Blair:it's.
Blair:There's a certain method.
Blair:Yes, you know,
Blair:but I'm. And I, I'm just everyone,
Blair:whenever I see that I just, I get, I start to boil.
Blair:But my other question, when I. Again,
Blair:sorry, Martin, let me.
Blair:And then you can jump in.
Blair:Jeffrey Sachs is S, A C K S. Joseph Joseph.
Robert:S A C H, S. Okay, Jeff.
Blair:Joseph Sachs.
Blair:All right, thank you.
Blair:I'll look for his books.
Blair:Or has he got more than one?
Blair:Or just one?
Robert:Yeah, so we,
Robert:so for instance, we're doing his meta.
Robert:He's the translator of metaphysics.
Robert:He has the rhetoric.
Robert:We, we did Nicomachean ethics is his best, is
Robert:a good one.
Robert:His politics.
Robert:So we've done several of his translations.
Robert:A few like the categories he didn't do and I think physics he didn't do but most of them
Robert:were going through Joseph Stacks, his translations.
Blair:All right, thank you, thank you for that because I'll be looking those up.
Robert:What.
Blair:Since you've been a speaking for a professional speaker for quite a while, who
Blair:were your teachers, your heroes, your mentors?
Robert:My heroes? Yeah, my all time favourite.
Robert:His name is Les Brown.
Blair:Oh my.
Blair:Yeah, sure.
Robert:His laughter, he cracks jokes and his laughter is like infectious.
Robert:And he says one of my favourite, my favourite quotations.
Robert:He's the first.
Robert:When you open the book, it's actually.
Robert:Let's go to the videotape as they say.
Robert:Right, right.
Robert:Okay.
Robert:Chapter one, the joy of speaking and why it matters.
Robert:Okay.
Robert:Okay,
Robert:first quote.
Robert:One of my greatest joys in life is speaking.
Robert:Can you identify with that?
Robert:And then I go into why people have the joy of it and then I flip the.
Robert:Flip it of why people are afraid of it.
Robert:Okay.
Robert:And the value of overcoming that.
Robert:I have several different ways to overcome
Robert:different types of fear of speaking.
Robert:So Les Brown,
Robert:I quote him so often when I'm speaking one of my favourites.
Robert:He says if information,
Robert:when we go to a presentation or listen to a podcast, we get information.
Robert:And he says if information was enough,
Robert:everybody would be skinny, rich and happy.
Robert:Look around.
Robert:Is everybody skinny, rich and happy?
Blair:No, normally I don't have the camera.
Martin:It's only for audio part there, so you're safe.
Robert:So the point here is that if from the stage or from the front of the room, if
Robert:presenters simply divulged information and audiences grasped it and acted on it,
Robert:then that, and that was enough.
Robert:Then we'd have a different culture.
Robert:So the point is we need to connect with the audience.
Robert:We need to pull them from where they are here to where we want them to be.
Robert:Now, is that manipulation?
Robert:The sophists thought it was, but Aristotle is a man of reason and he's like, let.
Robert:How do we persuade them? Well, we combine these three ethos, logos,
Robert:pathos.
Robert:So that's one example of Les Brown, like his
Robert:geniusness for me is that my goal is to not just give information.
Robert:It is.
Robert:And another coach of mine,
Robert:Mark Brown, who I have regular sessions with,
Robert:met many times.
Robert:He says,
Robert:don't deliver a lecture,
Robert:bring an experience.
Robert:Now, a week from today, a month from today, what do you, you go to an event,
Robert:see the speaker.
Robert:What are you more likely to remember in a week or a month or a year?
Robert:A lecture or an experience?
Blair:Hopefully the experience.
Robert:Yeah.
Robert:Well, yeah, you don't want to get stabbed at it.
Robert:And that's an experience.
Robert:And that's.
Robert:There are, there is that kind of thing.
Robert:But no,
Robert:an experience means you're engaging all the senses.
Robert:You're getting them to raise their hand, you're getting them to involved.
Robert:And it's not, you're, it's not the audience just sitting there passively,
Robert:somewhat absorb, somehow absorbing this information and retaining it sometime after.
Robert:So that's why I say I'm not a lecturer, I'm a presenter who gives it, who delivers an
Robert:experience instead of giving a lecture.
Robert:Okay, now, there are contexts.
Robert:I will,
Robert:I will say this.
Robert:Carrie Ann, who comes from the academic world
Robert:and she's gone to these conferences, these academic conferences,
Robert:and they do give lectures and the professors take notes and I understand.
Robert:So my method is not optimal there.
Robert:And it took me, it took me a while to get her
Robert:to even change her thinking on this.
Robert:But there's even, even in the lecture format, there's a more effective way and a less
Robert:effective way.
Robert:The more effective way is asking reflective questions, prompting the audience,
Robert:getting that buy in telling stories,
Robert:things like that, that, that turn what we can consider like a dry academic paper into
Robert:something more alive and more retainable.
Robert:More sticky is the term that I like to use.
Robert:So a speech, a presentation, that's sticky.
Robert:And this is where one of, one of the books I refer to, it's called Made to Stick Chip Heat.
Robert:And Danny and I know Martin's heard about it.
Robert:Who.
Robert:And their point is presenters.
Robert:One reason most speakers have forgotten.
Robert:Presenters have what is called the curse of
Robert:knowledge.
Robert:What's the source of knowledge? Speaker knows what's in his or her head.
Robert:What they want to say doesn't mean the audience does.
Robert:So they use these acronyms, they use these terms that are way over.
Robert:So you right on the dime, Blair, you called me out.
Robert:What is ethos, logos, pathos? Guess what I'm talking about so much.
Robert:But I need to define it and clarify it so it's.
Robert:Everybody knows early on.
Robert:If I'm going to use this term 20 times, let's
Robert:get it straight from the get go.
Robert:And I have a lot, a few pages explaining what
Robert:those three pillars are in the book before you advance.
Blair:All right, excellent.
Blair:Now tell us about some of your speaking
Blair:engagements.
Blair:You don't have to reveal unless you want to.
Blair:I mean, who you've spoken to.
Blair:I mean, corporations or associations or.
Blair:Yes,
Blair:go ahead.
Robert:Yeah. So last year,
Robert:Last year I was invited to Nairobi, Kenya.
Robert:Last year was a big year for speaking.
Robert:I spoke in Tbilisi, Georgia, while there were
Robert:riots going on.
Robert:And then in Kenya there was.
Robert:They had shot protesters like two weeks before.
Robert:They were.
Robert:They were having these scheduled planned
Robert:protests and the authorities were just shooting them.
Robert:So Carrie Ann and I went.
Robert:We went to give a presentation and then also to grade.
Robert:The culmination was 100 students from all over the world.
Robert:And there was a debate contest on the relationship between political principles and
Robert:moral morality and political principles,
Robert:objective morality.
Robert:And we were the judges of that.
Robert:So first we presented and then a few days later we coached the students.
Robert:And for me as a coach, it was like a dream come true.
Robert:And a lot of the testimonials, a lot of the book itself came out of that because my
Robert:presentation was on.
Robert:It was called Voices of Reason and it was
Robert:analysing, it was showing excerpts from famous speeches.
Robert:And then I would have the audience.
Robert:In fact, I even went over time because the audience was so engaged.
Robert:I was like, okay, what is that? Ethos, logos or pathos?
Robert:And just everyone's raising their hands.
Robert:And so.
Robert:So that was the most important speech I gave last year.
Robert:This year I'm running events for businesses.
Robert:One of them is for engineers,
Robert:communication for engineers.
Robert:Because guess what?
Robert:Engineers speak engineer ease and they need to know anyone who's seen office space.
Robert:You know, I'm a people person.
Robert:You know, like what do you do?
Robert:You need someone between the engineers and the actual people, the vendors.
Robert:All right, well, I'm that guy.
Robert:I get them.
Robert:I've never been smart enough to be an engineer.
Robert:And yesterday I coached a guy who's naval officer engineer.
Robert:And I was like, no, I, I was a technician.
Robert:I wasn't smart enough, but I know what they
Robert:were aiming for and I'm a communicator, I'm a communication, communication coach.
Robert:So I've been helping this one.
Robert:I have a 12 session series.
Robert:Part of what Martin attended because one of
Robert:my,
Robert:one of my friends is he's a partner in a firm and he knows the value of what I'm doing.
Robert:So he's got his whole team signed up and so we're doing a 12 session over 24 weeks
Robert:programme on communication.
Robert:And so that's actually via Zoom.
Robert:And I anticipate getting more of those kinds
Robert:of gigs because I really like the business atmosphere.
Robert:One of the things that troubles me,
Robert:including in business, particularly in business, you have a good product, you have a
Robert:good service,
Robert:but it's poorly delivered,
Robert:it's boring.
Robert:You don't, you're, you yourself are not even excited about it.
Robert:How can you excite your audience?
Robert:Your.
Robert:And so that's where the spoken word ramping up the impact.
Robert:So my goal is to be like doing businesses.
Robert:You know, down here in Orlando, there's a
Robert:couple of businesses that, that I'm in touch with, a couple of chambers of commerce.
Robert:But in New York,
Robert:I have a gig in New York, a speaking gig to business people about, guess what, the value
Robert:of capitalism.
Robert:Okay?
Robert:The relationship between capitalism and prosperity and having them speak out about
Robert:that value as opposed to feeling ashamed of it.
Robert:No, that's word that, you know, that's a word I don't want to use.
Robert:So I have that coming up in September in New York and I'm really excited about that.
Robert:And the thing is that like I'm going to be using examples from my book.
Blair:Good.
Robert:And then the last I'll say before I open it back to you is on two, two days ago,
Robert:one of the Africans who I quote in the book, Edgar McKenzie from Burundi, he has an
Robert:organisation out there in Africa and I coach more than 50 of his,
Robert:his network,
Robert:50 people via.
Robert:It wasn't even Zoom, it was Google Meets.
Robert:And they have power outages going on and there's shady thing.
Robert:But all 50 of them were riveted to the content.
Robert:And this is going to model going forward for the book because not only it's not just, it's
Robert:not just content.
Robert:There are a lot of exercises on how good
Robert:improve your speaking.
Robert:So it's a workbook and a book where if you read the material and you do the exercises,
Robert:you will be better.
Robert:It's just that simple.
Robert:And to have a willing group in Africa,
Robert:which I loved my trip there, I got to see elephants, real life elephants.
Robert:Even though the hotel was saying, don't leave the hotel, there's armed guards were
Robert:everywhere.
Robert:And I was like, hey man, this is my chance.
Robert:I, I, I gotta see elephants.
Robert:And we're here.
Robert:It's like,
Robert:and, and so a lot of exciting things,
Robert:guys.
Blair:Again,
Blair:I've never been to Africa, but I, you see movies and you see documentaries.
Blair:Some of it is just staggeringly gorgeous land and everything.
Blair:It's just,
Blair:and it's a shame.
Blair:They, I would, I'm hoping that, yeah, they'll get their act.
Blair:A lot of those nations there will get their act together.
Martin:Yeah.
Robert:And ideas change the culture.
Robert:We know that, right?
Blair:Yes, yes, that's right.
Robert:And it's usually a minority, it's a small segment who are committed.
Robert:That's what we have right now.
Robert:That's one reason Magatt Wade, who is the
Robert:seventh speaker, the only one who's alive, who I cover in, in my book,
Robert:she has a great TED talk and I analyse her TED Talk.
Robert:And she's born in Senegal and she's an entrepreneur over there.
Robert:And now she's in, I think Austin,
Robert:Texas.
Robert:And her thing is open it up to entrepreneurs.
Robert:Don't give us aid, don't give Africa aid.
Robert:That's a waste of time.
Robert:It just goes to the pockets.
Blair:Pockets of the crooks.
Robert:Yeah,
Robert:she's like, open it up to entrepreneurs, take out the regulations, and you will see Africa
Robert:flourish.
Robert:And my goal, that's one of my purposes with my
Robert:book, is to have those ideas as well, setting them up for some kind of,
Robert:you know, success in the future.
Robert:But,
Robert:you know, you reminded me, I used to brag that I'd been to six continents and I had been to
Robert:Africa to, yeah, to the African continent, the north.
Robert:I went more than 10 years ago.
Robert:I wasn't with Carrie Ann.
Robert:A town called Ceuta, which is in Morocco.
Robert:14, 15. This was a pivotal moment in Western civilization.
Robert:Prince Henry the Navigator, Portuguese from nobility in Portugal, he went to this town,
Robert:Ceuta.
Robert:They conquered it because the Muslims, the
Robert:Moors controlled the Mediterranean at the time.
Robert:And he opened it up and that's where the Portuguese started be shipbuilding.
Robert:The whole age of discovery.
Robert:I wrote a long article on that.
Robert:So when I went there, I went to Ceuta just to see where Prince Henry was from.
Robert:You know, as I'm walking down, it's now Spanish.
Robert:It's part of Spain, so everyone speaks Spanish, which I can fake my Spanish, you
Robert:know.
Robert:And I'm walking down and in Greek mythology, that was one of the towns that Hercules.
Robert:They were.
Robert:There's Gibraltar on one side of the
Robert:Mediterranean and Ceutis on the other.
Robert:And according to Greek mythology, there was a slingshot that he would shoot, you know,
Robert:into the Mediterranean. So I see these Greek columns and Greek figures, and I'm like, I
Robert:didn't expect this.
Robert:Then I see one of Aristotle.
Robert:I'm like, what is Aristotle doing in Africa right now?
Robert:It's Northern Africa.
Robert:Never.
Robert:Nevertheless.
Robert:And it wrote about him at Estoteles in
Robert:Spanish.
Robert:It had like a little plaque.
Robert:And I remember Alan Gotthelf was like the.
Robert:The aristotle authority, like 15, 20 years ago.
Robert:And I asked him, I was like, alan, is that.
Robert:Do you know of a statue in.
Robert:Of Aristotle on the African continent? And he's left.
Robert:Maybe Alexandria might, but I don't.
Robert:I'd never been there.
Robert:But last year I went to the sub, you know, the
Robert:subcontinent, where.
Robert:So the northern part doesn't just like kind of South Africa.
Robert:Does it really count as Africa? Or as you said, the image of Africa is like
Robert:Lion King and it's, you know,
Robert:something in our minds and.
Robert:But give them freedom and you will see things,
Robert:you know, like any other culture.
Robert:Just take the chains off and they will flourish.
Blair:So what.
Blair:What is your ultimate vision or your ultimate
Blair:goal, your ultimate dream about why you wrote that book?
Blair:What do you want to see happen?
Robert:What I want to see happen, why I wrote the book is, guess what?
Robert:You would not know this, but I used to be afraid of speaking.
Blair:No, I don't believe that.
Robert:So I know how it feels,
Robert:okay? I was a singer in a rock band,
Robert:all right? And I saw this movie, Gimme Shelter, where
Robert:Mick Jagger controlled the crowd that was on the verge of a riot.
Robert:And in Altamont, California, 10 years old.
Robert:And I said, I want to be like that.
Robert:I want to have that kind of control over the crowd.
Robert:So a couple of years later, I'm singing in a band,
Robert:and after every song,
Robert:I almost had my back to the.
Robert:I could.
Robert:I could sing the words of someone else.
Robert:But when there was silence in between songs, I was just scared to death.
Robert:I'm actually saying something.
Robert:Okay. And then in class, you know, okay, give a speech.
Robert:I was nervous and then I walk away from.
Robert:In fact,
Robert:you guys know, I'm a bit of a ham.
Robert:I like the spotlight.
Robert:So I'm thinking, well, how can I perform without having to speak?
Robert:Oh, I know what I'll do.
Robert:I'll become a ballet dancer.
Robert:Because that's what they do.
Robert:They dance, but they don't have to speak.
Robert:And then sure enough,
Robert:that for several years.
Robert:But then I got hired by Merrill lynch and I became a manager.
Robert:And I had to present.
Robert:I had to.
Robert:I was.
Robert:I had to get up in front of people and do a
Robert:turnover shift and report to upper management, things like that.
Robert:I needed to speak with authority.
Robert:You know, this Blair Wright, data centre.
Robert:I was a data centre manager.
Robert:If there's an outage,
Robert:you can't get on the phone weekly.
Robert:And.
Robert:And traders cannot trade.
Robert:You need to be authoritative on the phone.
Robert:And so I went to Dale Carnegie courses and I
Robert:went to Toastmasters, and I learned the science of speaking as a result.
Robert:So my point here, this is 30 something years ago, is let me take this knowledge,
Robert:boil it down and show people who are afraid to speak.
Robert:Now there's.
Robert:There's a few ways.
Robert:There are people who are afraid to speak and then there are others who are simply blabber
Robert:mouths and don't know when to shut up.
Robert:Okay. They also coaching because being succinct, a professional speaker knows how to
Robert:be succinct.
Robert:You get to the point and then you shut up and
Robert:you let person absorb the material.
Robert:So my goal, ultimately, my goal is letting people own their own voice.
Robert:Because I've seen this and Martin, I've seen this over and over again.
Robert:Someone is slumped over and they're timid and they're nervous and after a few sessions,
Robert:they stand.
Robert:There's this confidence that comes out of them and they're a different person.
Robert:And the best dramatisation, if we look at film history,
Robert:this movie, I always recommend it.
Robert:The King's Speech with.
Robert:It's one of those colons.
Robert:Yeah.
Blair:First.
Robert:Yeah,
Robert:yeah.
Robert:Anyway,
Robert:what happens in the king? The king himself has a stuttering problem.
Robert:Yeah.
Robert:So he goes to a coach, a speech coach,
Robert:and you see the evolution.
Robert:You see his confidence the entire movie.
Robert:He slumped over.
Robert:He's a tall man, but he slumped over.
Robert:Only at the end, he nails that speech and he walks out like a king.
Martin:Yes.
Robert:Yeah,
Robert:yeah.
Robert:That's what I do.
Robert:Okay. That's. That's what I enjoy doing, seeing that evolution in the So I want CEOs to
Robert:have that.
Robert:I want entrepreneurs to have that confidence
Robert:when they're in front of their staffs because they have so much power that they're not
Robert:necessarily aware of.
Robert:Their words carry a lot of weight.
Robert:But if they're, if they're caving in to the
Robert:pressure of what someone is telling them or the wrong word, you can't use these words.
Robert:So they self censor.
Robert:And my point here is no, speak up,
Robert:speak up.
Robert:Defend your company, defend your profits that
Robert:you're making the value that you're creating so that everyone can be better off.
Robert:We can move towards a fl, you know, a flourishing society.
Robert:Ultimately it's for, for the purpose of a freedom and flourishing society is what my and
Robert:I think my book is a path toward that end.
Martin:Yeah. For the defenders of liberty, as you wrote in the foreword there.
Robert:Yes. Yes.
Blair:And liberty.
Robert:Thank you for saying that.
Robert:Yes.
Robert:Lessons for liberty's leaders.
Robert:And liberty here is not simply political, it's the freedom.
Robert:Frederick Douglass was a slave.
Robert:I go into his story.
Robert:But he taught himself how to read.
Robert:In fact, he would have gotten punished.
Robert:He would have gotten, he did get whipped.
Blair:Yeah.
Robert:Because he was caught reading.
Robert:Imagine somebody getting whipped today because
Robert:they're caught reading.
Robert:So he.
Robert:But his point was I have a mind and I'm going
Robert:to use it.
Robert:And then when he escaped slavery, he had a
Robert:voice and he put that voice to use.
Robert:And so Self Made Men is the speech that his, that I analyse in his book and he talks about
Robert:become.
Robert:The chapter title is Becoming Self Made.
Robert:How do we become self made?
Robert:We use our voice.
Blair:You know, we tell you just,
Blair:just yesterday the CEO of Bed Bath and Beyond told California to shove it nice.
Blair:He's not put, he's not putting any more stores in California.
Blair:And I think he said he's closing the ones that are there because they're just not taking that
Blair:**** anymore.
Robert:This is.
Robert:And we've seen, we're starting to see this more and more but two, three years ago it was
Robert:really dangerous to speak out.
Robert:There were punished, there were repercussions.
Robert:And I talk in the book about Edward Snowden
Robert:and James Damore from Google.
Robert:I mentioned them by and they're not, they're
Robert:not trying to cause havoc.
Robert:They just, they're just giving evidence of what they observed and speaking out and they
Robert:get vilified.
Robert:And so but the more the pendulum has swung a little bit in the direction of people speaking
Robert:out and not being punished for that.
Robert:So My goal is giving people a voice, giving them a platform, giving them the confidence,
Robert:the courage and the,
Robert:and the confidence to say what's on their mind.
Martin:That's what I like with podcasting, because that is freedom of expression.
Martin:And we, it's.
Martin:We could run our own show, you.
Blair:Know, Martin, I'm assuming.
Blair:Martin, we're still.
Blair:We have an audience in over 90 countries.
Martin:Yes. So.
Robert:So invite Robert to come and speak in your country.
Robert:Let's go.
Blair:That's right.
Robert:Yeah.
Martin:So if they reach out to us, we could, could arrange that.
Blair:Robert, if you have anything to add, please do.
Martin:Yes, I have.
Blair:We can wrap it up.
Martin:We have an important thing.
Martin:If everything goes smoothly, it will be published on September 2nd or on, around or
Martin:before that.
Martin:It's. It's a symbolic date.
Martin:Right.
Martin:This.
Martin:So I, I'm looking at something.
Martin:Do you know what I'm looking at right now
Martin:behind my computer?
Blair:I do, yes.
Martin:Do you know, Robert?
Robert:No, I don't.
Martin:It's an artwork, you could say, or a poster or.
Martin:How do you say it? It's a, It's a piece of.
Blair:Yeah, a poster.
Martin:A poster, yeah, by Bosch Foston, with 9-2-sign.
Robert:Oh, that's right.
Robert:The dark.
Robert:Yes, yes, yes.
Martin:In original there.
Martin:So I'm always looking at that, but.
Robert:I'm, that's a. I'm actually looking at the Brian Larson called First First Heat, I
Robert:think you know that one where it's kind of like Hank Reardon pouring that.
Martin:Yeah. Reed and Steve.
Robert:Yeah. It's pretty much based on the Hank Reardon.
Martin:So for the, for the listener out there that don't know the importance.
Martin:September 2nd, do you want to say why you want to have the book published there?
Robert:And if you know Atlas shrugged, it is September 2nd.
Robert:It's called Atlas Shrugged Day because the novel starts September 2nd, and there's a four
Robert:year timeline in real time going forth in the novel.
Robert:There's a backstory,
Robert:but four year.
Robert:And every September 2nd there's an incident,
Robert:there's some kind of shakeup that happens on that day because Ayn Rand herself started
Robert:writing it.
Robert:September 2, 1947, I believe.
Robert:So that's the referent there.
Robert:And I'm hoping you don't air it before then because for the week of September 2nd to the
Robert:9th,
Robert:the book will be available on Kindle for 99 cents.
Martin:Yeah. So that's why we want.
Martin:So you, you name, you name it when you want it
Martin:published and we will.
Martin:I will get it done.
Robert:So, yeah.
Robert:Yes. September 2nd.
Robert:And I even have a book launch party.
Robert:And yeah, so I'm grateful for that because this is,
Robert:this is the kind of book people need,
Robert:I will say.
Robert:And there's no book like this that gives you
Robert:philosophy, history,
Robert:presentation skills, heroism and self development all packed up into 180 something
Robert:pages with tonnes,
Robert:tonnes of stories, tonnes of citations and a lot of,
Robert:lot of fun.
Martin:Great.
Blair:All right.
Blair:A lot of references maybe too.
Martin:Yeah.
Blair:Well, ladies and gentlemen, we've been talking to Robert Begley, author, speaker,
Blair:entrepreneur.
Blair:Robert, tell people where they can find you on
Blair:the web.
Robert:So my name,
Robert:Robert at Begley, is my email, but Speaking With Purpose is llc, is my company.
Robert:So. And the website is Speaking With Purpose llc.
Robert:You'll find all my info up there.
Robert:And there's even a pull down for the book, Voices of Reason.
Robert:You can even pull down from that website if you want a free chapter of the book,
Robert:the opening chapter I have right now available and the table of contents, things like that.
Robert:So I want to say thank you gentlemen for having me again.
Robert:Did we,
Robert:did we escape the foxhole? Did we, did we,
Robert:yet again, like three for three with this foxhole thing.
Blair:I was just about to say thank you for manning the foxhole with it.
Blair:Okay.
Robert:Manning it, yeah.
Martin:Thanks, Robert.
Blair:That's my signature line.
Robert:I. Yeah, I think.
Blair:Anyway, Robert, been a great.
Blair:It's been a great pleasure.
Martin:Yep.
Blair:And we will hopefully see you again.
Robert:Yes, you will.
Blair:Very good.
Blair:That's a wrap.
Martin:Yep. Thanks.
Robert:Sam.