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Speaker AWelcome to the Rap Report with your host, Andrew Rappaport, where we provide biblical interpretation and application.
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Speaker BFor more content or to request a speaker for your church, go to strivingforeternity.org welcome to another edition of the Rap Report.
Speaker BI'm your host, Andrew Rapoport, the executive director of Striving for Eternity and the Christian podcast community of which this podcast is a proud member.
Speaker BWe are here to, to give you basically biblical interpretations and applications for the Christian life.
Speaker BAnd what we have on the episode today is we're going to have a guest who has written a book on a topic.
Speaker BNow, I'm going to give you the topic, but I'm just going to tell you right up front, this is a topic.
Speaker BI don't know that I've ever attended a conference ever dealing with this topic.
Speaker BIn fact, I think that if there was a conference on this topic, it would be empty.
Speaker BI, I think that people, almost every Christian I know says that they struggle in this one area of their Christian life, and yet no one will have a conference on it.
Speaker BNo one wants to talk about it.
Speaker BAnd yet our guest was bold enough to write a book about it.
Speaker BAre you intrigued?
Speaker BI hope so.
Speaker BSo today we're going to talk about a book called Does God Really Answer Our Prayers.
Speaker BI am going to be joined by, well, a voice that you may think you recognize if you're a longtime listener of this podcast and if you're a regular listener of the Christian podcast community, especially our theology throwdowns, you may say, boy, that voice sounds familiar.
Speaker BAnd it won't be who you think it is.
Speaker BNot going to be Daniel Minick of Truth Espresso, but his twin brother, John Minick, who they sound a lot alike.
Speaker BI can never tell them apart when they're both on the same podcast.
Speaker BWhen Daniel interviews his brother, but John, welcome to the Rap Report.
Speaker AHey, Andrew, how's it going, dude?
Speaker BSo let's, we want to talk about your book.
Speaker BLet me first ask, you know what brought you to writing this book?
Speaker BI know you and your brother worked on a book together as you guys seem to like to have different religious cults visit you dialogue, whether Mormon, Jehovah Witness, but.
Speaker BAnd you, you and your brother had done some work on, on that, on a book on some of those experiences and more personal story.
Speaker BAnd this one is again similar.
Speaker BIt's, it's a personal story, but that also helps to make it intriguing.
Speaker BWhat caused you to want to Write a book on prayer.
Speaker AWell, I think I just, like Daniel Minick, weren't really ever expecting to write any books at all.
Speaker ABut it's one of those things where when something happens your life and you want to express it to other people, but then you.
Speaker AThe only way you can express it is in a book form.
Speaker AAnd so even though writing books are hard, I'm sure you know that because you've written a lot of books, but somehow you just do it because you all of a sudden find the motivation to get it out.
Speaker AAnd everybody day you work on it is a day closer to getting it done.
Speaker ABut this was a story that for about 10 years I've been wanting to get out because it seemed like such an amazing answer to a prayer that especially because it happened to me and I never thought something like that could happen to me.
Speaker ASo I had been writing it on and off for over about a decade and I finally got the motivation the last two years to try to get it written before I forgot a lot of the story.
Speaker ABut yeah, I mean, it.
Speaker AThe title sounds like it's just about prayer, but it's.
Speaker AThe subtitle is more descriptive.
Speaker AMy Divine Appointment Story.
Speaker ASo I'm asking the question, does God really answer prayers?
Speaker AAnd I kind of like to use that in a way to get the attention of not just devout Christians, but maybe anyone of any belief who might be doubting, even if there is God.
Speaker AAnd then when they see My Divine Appointment Story as a subtitle, they might think, okay, this is actually, this isn't just a textbook on prayer and Bible verses about it.
Speaker AThis is someone's actual story.
Speaker AAnd, and I want to read basically a human story about someone's life and think, wow, did God really intervene?
Speaker ABasically?
Speaker BWell, this is, this is what a lot of Christians do struggle with, though, John.
Speaker ARight?
Speaker BThey.
Speaker BThere's people who, and for those in the audience, think about it, how many of you have a lost family member that you stopped praying for?
Speaker BYou just gave up?
Speaker BYou think God can't save that person?
Speaker BAnd I think many of us, especially with lost family that you've been praying for for decades, just really wonder, is God really going to answer that?
Speaker BYou know, could God answer that?
Speaker BAnd it's a thing where I think many of us struggle because we, when praying for something for so long, start to think, well, this can't happen.
Speaker AYes, exactly.
Speaker AI mean, I, I did have an uncle who passed away a couple weeks ago, but I remember growing up we would assume he wasn't saved.
Speaker ALike he supposedly gave the profession of faith as a teenager.
Speaker ABut then he lived like an atheist for, like, I think, the first.
Speaker AAt least I remember the first 20 to maybe 25 years of my life.
Speaker AAnd every, Every prayer we give before a meal, we'd always include him and pray that he gets.
Speaker AHis wife gets saved.
Speaker AAnd then just, I think somehow he got a stroke.
Speaker AAnd then his brother or uncle, who's also a pastor, visited him.
Speaker AAnd maybe I'm not, I. I wasn't there, but I think I've heard this, like, try to get, like, ask him if he believes in Jesus.
Speaker AAnd he confessed that he does.
Speaker AAnd he seemed to have changed.
Speaker AAnd then I think, I think he's saved.
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker AI haven't seen him that much recently since I moved to Colorado, but that's what people are claiming, that he's in heaven right now.
Speaker ABut, yeah, Yeah, I know the feeling of praying every day for someone in the family to get saved and just thinking, am I just rattling off words into the abyss?
Speaker AYou know, is it really even matter?
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BSo how.
Speaker BLet's talk about your book.
Speaker BWhat.
Speaker BGive folks an overview.
Speaker BWhat is the prayer that you were referring to in your story that you didn't think would be answered?
Speaker AYeah, When I was 17, I went to a Wednesday evening service at my old country church in northeastern Pennsylvania and just expecting a typical sermon, like, to step on my toes or whatever, that's how I was thinking as a teenager.
Speaker ABut we have this guest speaker.
Speaker ADon't even remember his name, but he was an elderly guy with a Texan accent.
Speaker AAnd he just came up to the pulpit and he said, let me tell you about divine appointments.
Speaker AAnd then I like, what's a divine appointment?
Speaker AI don't remember all of his examples, but it seemed like over and over he's tell all these stories about how people would end up meeting him in seemingly random and chaotic situations.
Speaker AAnd then he would, when they explained how they ended up meeting him, he would just say, you see, you have a divine appointment with the Lord and then immediately share the gospel with them and say that they.
Speaker AThey believed and prayed along with him.
Speaker AAnd at the time, I had, I tried to witness the people.
Speaker AI'd never seen anyone even come close to believing the gospel.
Speaker AAnd like, okay, seems like so many people just claim they can win all these people to Jesus and I can't for some reason.
Speaker ASo then at the end of the sermon, he said, divine appointments.
Speaker AWill you see them when they come?
Speaker AAnd when they come, will you be ready to take them on.
Speaker AAnd that sermon was in my mind all night.
Speaker AI was thinking about it and I just, I just asked God, look, I know I've never led anyone to the Lord, but these divine appointments sound really interesting.
Speaker ACould you give me one?
Speaker AI mean, wasn't one of those moments where I fell on my face and prayed for hours.
Speaker AIt was just a moment of thinking the words in my mind and then fell asleep.
Speaker AAnd then I, through the years I would remember that prayer and thinking okay, did I just spew words out?
Speaker AWas it just a moment?
Speaker ALike does it even mean anything?
Speaker AAnd I just kind of shrug it off and live my life.
Speaker AAnd then it seemed like that for the next 16 years, all the decisions I was making, everything that was happening to me, whether I knew it or not, were somehow leading up to what seemed like a divine appointment.
Speaker AAnd after seeing this so called divine appointment happen, it's all of a sudden I'm like, that must have been the answer to my prayer.
Speaker AI mean that's what it seems like.
Speaker ABut it just seems, it, it boggles my mind.
Speaker AI mean almost every day or every other day, I just keep thinking about that.
Speaker AI'm just like, wow.
Speaker BSo what was the, the incident that, that everything led up to?
Speaker AIt was there was a little 8 year old girl who see who got and hurt.
Speaker AShe and her seven year old sister got dropped off at a ministry we're having in the, in a park every Saturday morning in Pensacola, Florida called, it was called Bible Club.
Speaker AWe'd have children go there and then we'd have people like we'd sing Christmas.
Speaker ANo, not Christian songs.
Speaker AWe'd have Bible verse memorization game and then teach a Bible lesson.
Speaker AAnd it was just, that's just the way it would go.
Speaker AWe wouldn't really see any like dramatic salvation conversions happen there.
Speaker ABut I mean there's a lot of details in the book.
Speaker ASo I mean you'd have to read them to see how, you know, incredibly chaotic, like a Rube Goldberg machine and how everything is set up.
Speaker ABut like it was a three month period in this Bible Club where I had to get a three month contract extension to my work contract before I can leave and move to Colorado, which wasn't even a thing that would happen at Pensacola Christian College, at least that I knew of at the time that I was living and working in staff there.
Speaker AAnd somehow I got that three month contract granted.
Speaker AAnd the very first Saturday at Bible Club, during that three month contract, a car comes by, drops off these two girls who've never seen before.
Speaker AThey come up to us, start playing Frisbee with us and they get to know us and how Amy, as I call her in the story, she would say, like, we didn't actually hear about this Bible club.
Speaker AOur mom was just going on some air and she looked over, saw this park full of kids and decided to drop us off so that she can go do her errand.
Speaker AAnd then they decided to come every Saturday since.
Speaker AAnd within that three month period, my contract extension got to know her.
Speaker AI end up teaching a Bible lesson, which of course even the day I taught it versus the day I was scheduled to teach, like that was important.
Speaker AAnd she ended up getting saved.
Speaker ABut even after I taught it, there was some chaos going on.
Speaker AAnd there's even a detail where a little boy needing to use the restroom made sure that happened for, so that she can hear the gospel.
Speaker ASo it seemed like there was something going on trying to keep her from hearing the gospel.
Speaker AAnd then if you, you know, I've heard people say God has a sense of humor.
Speaker AHaving a boy need to use the restroom.
Speaker AEnds up bringing her to my friend Rachel to share the gosp with her.
Speaker BYou know, I think there a lot of people share the gospel.
Speaker BAnd I mean I, I teach a, often I teach a, you know, evangelism training that people sit and they, they hear me tell all these accounts that happen, right?
Speaker BAnd a lot of times people will be like, I wish I could have something like that.
Speaker BAnd my answer usually is go and practice it more.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BI mean, part of the issue is we, we realistically, we're not going and evangelizing.
Speaker BWe want, we want, like you're saying, we want that occasion where we get to, you know, someone gets saved and we see someone come to Christ.
Speaker BIt doesn't happen if we don't actually evangelize.
Speaker BNow I know you and your brother, you, you guys evangelize a lot, but the more that we evangelize, the more you're to going, going to have things like this happen.
Speaker AYeah, yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker AI mean, I, I wouldn't, I don't know if I'd call my experience as a, as someone of who goes out and evangelize a lot.
Speaker AI mean, I had a couple examples in my book of when I, when people asked me to or when I saw I had the chance.
Speaker ABut I, I guess, you know, I wasn't me, I, we could all do better in that, in that aspect.
Speaker ABut, but it seemed like anytime I would share the gospel, it would just go over people's head or they make fun of it.
Speaker AOr, or just ignore it.
Speaker ABut yeah, and so I mean, like in the book, in the conclusion of the book, I kind of say that, like, maybe every thing we do could be a piece of a divine appointment.
Speaker AWhether we realize it or not is because like, okay, yeah, at the end of my story, I'm like, man, that really seemed like a divine appointment.
Speaker ABut all these other examples were.
Speaker ASeem like failures.
Speaker AI, I just throw in the idea, well, you know, we're trying, you know, even if we didn't see the person get saved, maybe we're a piece of the path that got them or someone else saved along the line and how, maybe how God orchestrates things, but never know.
Speaker BWell, yeah, this is, you bring up a really good point with that because a lot of times we think we know what God may be doing, right?
Speaker BYeah, but we, we really behind the scenes, I mean, it's, I think it's going to be interesting when we go to heaven and get to see what's really was going on.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BBecause there's, there's things that we're not aware of and God lines things up.
Speaker BAnd I, I do always want to caution, you know, there are those, especially in the charismatic word of faith circles that get really into looking for divine appointments where everything is a divine appointment, where everything is, look, everything's matching.
Speaker BAnd we have to be careful because if we're trying to make something look like it, like, oh, see, God's working this way because I got a blessing.
Speaker BI remember a pastor, he got a, he had bought a car off this guy and he was telling me, he's like, oh, God's blessing me, because I got a, I got a great deal on this car.
Speaker BAnd he was just like, not bragging me, but he was just saying how he thought he got a good car at a great price.
Speaker BAnd, and all that was supposedly evidence of God's blessing in his life.
Speaker BAnd I remember looking at him and saying, you know, if the car is a lemon, it's still God's blessing in your life.
Speaker BAnd he thought about was like, yeah, yeah, you're right, I should, you know, like, he realized he was, he was actually arguing for like the word of faith type of argument that, well, God wants you healthy, wealthy, wise, everything should go the way you want.
Speaker BAnd here he's, you know, he's basically saying God's blessing is proof in him getting a good deal.
Speaker BWell, about two weeks later, he was like, I, I guess I was still blessed even though you were right.
Speaker BI said, what do you mean he's like, yeah, the car's falling apart.
Speaker BThe guy had it.
Speaker BLike, he, he had put it together in such a way that it looked like a great deal.
Speaker BBut then all of a sudden, everything started falling apart on him.
Speaker BHim.
Speaker BAnd he's like, so you know what I had said to him?
Speaker BHe said I had to remember it was still a blessing.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BIt's just not the way he expected.
Speaker ALike, yeah, he.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BSo you ring.
Speaker BYou bring up a really good point because a lot of us do struggle with this.
Speaker BWe think, like, it's God's blessing in our life when everything goes smoothly, goes our way.
Speaker BAnd we think we're looking for God working in everything.
Speaker BAnd, and we have to be cautious with that because if we're trying, if we're looking to make something come true, right.
Speaker BWe can.
Speaker BWe can manufacture enough to say, well, if it's this, this look, look, see, that's God's working.
Speaker BAnd it's.
Speaker BI go back to my college days where there was a girl who.
Speaker BShe had very into the horoscopes, like, very much so.
Speaker BAnd the way that I got her to.
Speaker BTo break her of that, because she would tell me, I'm like, this stuff is garbage.
Speaker BWhy are you reading this?
Speaker BShe goes, it's always comes true.
Speaker BSo I made her read all 12 horoscopes every day, and she realized that all 12 were coming true every day because they're so general that she's like, see, this happened and this happened and this happened.
Speaker BIt's like.
Speaker BBut they're all so general that, oh, what do you know?
Speaker BThey're all true every day.
Speaker BAnd that's, that's what broker of believing the horoscopes were, that there was anything to them.
Speaker BBut there are Christians that go.
Speaker BAnd they do that, right?
Speaker BThey're.
Speaker BThey're traveling around looking for, oh, God's working here, God's working there.
Speaker BGod's.
Speaker BAnd, And a lot of.
Speaker BI think what God is, how God is working is not in these ways that seem really radical and crazy or supernatural, but in Can.
Speaker BCould we say the simple things, the everyday things.
Speaker BI mean, it seems that's what your book was really bringing out.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAnd I.
Speaker AIf, you know, for the audience, if they're.
Speaker AIf.
Speaker AIf you're, if you go to books.
Speaker AChristian bookstores, and you pick up these Christian books and they're all.
Speaker AAll seem to be about like, oh, then the Holy Spirit came mightily upon me and I saw light coming down from heaven and God was using me and God this and got that.
Speaker AAnd I'm like, Like, if you want to read something that sounds a lot more human and you know, my book, does God Really Answer Our Prayers?
Speaker AActually would resonate with you.
Speaker ABecause the way I portrayed myself in the book, I'm almost like this.
Speaker AI mean, maybe I'm exaggerating when I say this, but I'm almost like this bumbling idiot just, just bumbling around in life and not just wanting to do my thing.
Speaker AAnd then when I see a witnessing opportunity, I'm just kind of of in a goofy way, hey, let me try that.
Speaker ADidn't go the way I wanted.
Speaker ABut then I'm just going back to my own thing, not thinking a whit about my prayer that I prayed a while ago until I see it coming right at the last moment.
Speaker AI'm like, whoa, could this be it?
Speaker AAnd I'm like, I don't even portray myself as a confident, charismatic person, but just someone going, what's going on here?
Speaker AI'm just doing my thing and this stuff's happening.
Speaker AIs it of God?
Speaker AI'll let the reader decide.
Speaker BYeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker BI mean, I, I did.
Speaker BIt is kind of funny because you're, you're saying that is the it.
Speaker BThe thing was, I think that you came across because it was a personal story because, well, like you said, I mean, most people, when they write stories about themselves, like on social media, everything's great and they're the, they're the hero of the story.
Speaker BAnd you, you're more, I think, open and honest, transparent with the audience in your book.
Speaker BAnd I think that really helps to come through.
Speaker BAnd I think for me, at least from reading it, it helped to say, yeah, I can identify with you.
Speaker AYeah, like, yeah, like even my introduction, I talk about a pastor at the college claiming like, he prayed that his tuition, like, he needed money for his tuition.
Speaker AAnd like, well, this kind of stuff just doesn't happen to me.
Speaker AI'm not special.
Speaker AWhen he gets the check in the mail for the exact dollar amount covers tuition, he's like, I'm nothing special.
Speaker AAnd then when I'm hearing him say that, I'm like, well, yeah, you are.
Speaker AAt least now you're, you're a pastor.
Speaker AYou have, you preach a lot of messages and you probably get a lot of people saved.
Speaker ALike, what about me?
Speaker AI'm just a guy is in my mind just some guy.
Speaker AAnd, and then like, you know, people say, like, you hear pastors talk about these amazing conversion experiences they have with people, and then people like me who just not like, not a full time pastor, be like, well, yeah, Maybe that's expected of you.
Speaker AWell, does God do anything at all, like for something, someone like me and this, I mean, maybe the story can encourage people.
Speaker ALike, well, hey, you, you prayed a prayer about having a divine appointment and didn't get answered immediately.
Speaker AIt took 16 years, but you're just portrayed as some guy and it looked like your prayer got answered.
Speaker ASo does God really answer our prayers?
Speaker AYou know, just think about it, basically.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BWell, a lot of people, like we said at the beginning, they really question that, whether God's answering prayers.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BAnd so prayer is, like I said in the beginning, I don't know anyone who is really comfortable with their prayer life as a Christian.
Speaker BLike, hey, I got my prayer.
Speaker BLife is perfect as good.
Speaker BIt's great.
Speaker BI've never heard anyone say that.
Speaker AYeah, I know it like, you know, even with the average Christian, even like me, sometimes we just don't even feel comfortable praying to God.
Speaker ALike if we're not, if we don't feel spiritual at the moment, like, like, am I really doing anything?
Speaker ASometimes we might even forget there is a God.
Speaker ABut nevertheless, like praying to God.
Speaker AAnd I mean, in this book, you know, I could.
Speaker AYou see other books about prayer in general, then they're going to be just preaching at you with all these verses about, oh, you gotta get on your face and you gotta pray for hours and you just gotta pour out the tears.
Speaker AAnd like, like some of us might think, I, I'm not like that.
Speaker AI don't, can't identify with that kind of person.
Speaker AMaybe I'm not emotional like that or maybe I don't know if there's a formula, how to pray.
Speaker AAnd maybe they can identify with me as I'm portraying this book.
Speaker ALike the prayer I gave at the beginning.
Speaker AI wasn't on my face for hours.
Speaker AI just, just looked up in the ceiling and said, God, if divine appointments are real, could you give me one of these?
Speaker AAnd then it just kind of slipped my mind.
Speaker ABut somehow it's like, even if there isn't a formula for this, it seems like God answered that prayer.
Speaker AAnd the same when I had that dream about Amy getting saved a couple days before I was going to do the teach the Bible lesson, I prayed a couple minutes.
Speaker AIf this dream is means anything, could I claim this is a promise that this is what's going to happen?
Speaker AAnd then I went back into, back to sleep and seemed like even those prayers were answered.
Speaker AI'm not trying to tell people you don't have to spend much time in prayer, but you know, you can't put a formula on prayers and how.
Speaker AAnd whether or not God answers them.
Speaker AAnd maybe more people can identify with me and what, how this happened in my book.
Speaker BYeah, I mean, I, I do want to caution.
Speaker BI mean, just people sometimes think, especially, especially in charismatic circles, people put too much weight in a dream they have, and they start thinking, well, I had a dream.
Speaker BSo is that a promise?
Speaker BIs that something?
Speaker BAnd I think dreams are typically just maybe 99 of the time.
Speaker BIt's nothing more than just the thoughts that we had throughout the day coming back in our.
Speaker BIn as we're sleeping, the way that our brain works.
Speaker BAnd so it's something where I think people put a lot of weight in, in, oh, I had a dream.
Speaker BSo it means something.
Speaker BBecause there are a few times in the Bible when a dream meant something.
Speaker BAnd I say that that way to point out the fact that it's very rare.
Speaker BI mean, if you really look at the number of dreams that occur in the Bible that have some divine meaning, there's less than a handful of them.
Speaker BAnd so, But a lot of Christians are running around going, oh, I had a dream, I had a dream.
Speaker BI, I just want to caution people with that is just because we have a dream that a.
Speaker BThat doesn't mean it's going to come true.
Speaker BIt doesn't mean it's a promise as, as John said.
Speaker BAnd it's also something, we have to recognize that it, it could be nothing more than, well, a dream, you know?
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BI mean, even if it's like, in your case, you had a dream about something, you may.
Speaker BYou're thinking about someone.
Speaker BYou know, I have dreamt about sharing the gospel, and I find it interesting that you dream you.
Speaker BWhen I'm out evangelizing a lot more, I dream about handing out tracks and evangelizing more than when I'm not.
Speaker BWhy?
Speaker BBecause that's what I'm doing.
Speaker BThat's what I'm thinking about more of the time.
Speaker BAnd so the more that we're thinking about things, we might think about a person.
Speaker BAnd then, you know, you think about sharing the, the gospel with someone, and you do share the gospel with someone and they get saved.
Speaker BDoes that mean it was a promise?
Speaker BNo, it means you had a dream because that's what you were thinking about.
Speaker AYeah, exactly.
Speaker BBut yet, as your, as your book lays out, you had all these things happening that were leading up to something that you were not expecting.
Speaker BIt wasn't like you were going, oh, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna make this happen.
Speaker AYes.
Speaker BAnd so when, when we have that, you know, first off, I guess the question would be is, should we be looking for that in your opinion?
Speaker BAnd when that happens, should we be like, oh, well, that was a promise from God, or should we just say that's God's providence working in our life?
Speaker AYes, I totally agree with you on that.
Speaker AI've never tried to push anyone to think that this, that dream I had, that moment was actually a vision from God.
Speaker ABut just thinking about at the moment when I was.
Speaker AAll I was thinking of was, I need to leave on a good note in teaching a Bible lesson before I moved to Colorado, because the one other time I taught a Bible lesson was an absolute failure.
Speaker AAnd then I had my newfound friend Amy there rooting for me, and I'm like.
Speaker AAnd she hadn't seen me preach that or, I mean, teach that other Bible lesson to know as a failure.
Speaker AAnd so at the time, all I was thinking of was, I just want to make this sound good and make her happy before I moved to Colorado.
Speaker AAnd then suddenly on Wednesday when I had a dream, I was.
Speaker AI don't know why, but when I taught the lesson, I did one of those, like, bow your head and close your eyes, and if anyone wants to, you know, not sure you're saying, raise your head.
Speaker AI don't even know why I said that.
Speaker ABut then, you know, there were 50 kids there and Amy raised her hand and then I just woke up and it was just.
Speaker AAnd it felt like, like very real, like where it didn't feel surreal like other dreams.
Speaker AAnd then at the moment, like, you know, suppose you had that happen to you.
Speaker AWhat would you think?
Speaker ALike, I had a dream that this girl was actually going to get saved after I teach my Bible lesson.
Speaker AAnd then you just teach the Bible lesson and nothing happens.
Speaker AIt's almost.
Speaker AI look more, not as a prophecy, but as a motivation and say, oh, I need to change this lesson to be more evangelistic because just I want that to happen.
Speaker AI want her to get saved.
Speaker AAnd I don't know, like, because even if, if that was something supernatural in God, I don't, I just take it as a dream.
Speaker ABut like, when, like, even in the book, when Rachel said, sounds like you got a vision from God.
Speaker AAnd my reply was, I really don't know because I, I'm not one of those people who ever wants to claim that God spoke to me or directly at all.
Speaker AI, I strongly caution people claiming that in front of other people.
Speaker ALike, maybe you think that happened, but don't start.
Speaker ABe careful about like claiming God spoke directly because.
Speaker ATo you.
Speaker ABecause then others can look to you as some kind of mediator between God and man.
Speaker AAnd we know that Jesus is the mediator between God and man, not us.
Speaker ABut.
Speaker AYeah, that's my take.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BAnd that's the thing, too, that we have to consider.
Speaker BYou know, I.
Speaker BLook, I think that there's a lot of people that when it comes to our prayer life, it comes to things that happen to us, we're.
Speaker BWe're not fully, I think, aware of God's providence all the time.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BGod is working through things and bringing things about in not just our life, but everyone's life that we're in contact with.
Speaker BAnd sometimes I think he's doing that for as.
Speaker BAs you mentioned in the book, these divine appointments.
Speaker BI think I'm going to give you what I think then I want to know your thoughts on this.
Speaker BBut I think that one reason why people don't have what maybe you want, you're.
Speaker BYou're referring to as a divine appointment is because they're too busy doing their own thing.
Speaker BThey're not out really doing what the Lord.
Speaker BThe Lord's work, what the Lord's called us to do, a ministry reconciliation.
Speaker BAnd they're not seeing these things because, well, they're just taking too much time for themselves.
Speaker BWhat would you think about that?
Speaker AAbout people not having a divine appointment?
Speaker AWell, because they're not going out and seeking it.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BWell, not that they're not seeking it.
Speaker BSome people are seeking it, but they're not.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker BYou know, but it's.
Speaker BBut really, they're not doing God's work.
Speaker BThey're.
Speaker BThey're trying to create an experience.
Speaker BI'm talking about people that are just so busy doing things.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BI mean, we got to work.
Speaker BWe got to take care of kids.
Speaker BWe got to take the kids to soccer.
Speaker BWe got to take.
Speaker BWe got to go and do this and do that.
Speaker BLike, I mean, as I travel across the country, every pastor I know tells me how busy his flock, like, as if it's only their area.
Speaker BYou got to understand this area, Andrew.
Speaker BEveryone's just so busy.
Speaker BAnd I'm like, it's not your area.
Speaker BIt's.
Speaker BIt's the.
Speaker BIt's everywhere in the U. S. People are so busy, but then they want to have an experience like you're.
Speaker BYou're writing about.
Speaker BAnd I would argue, I personally would argue that maybe they're not having those experiences because they're too busy doing things that are not the Lord's work.
Speaker BI mean, they're doing things that might be good, but should they expect to see God?
Speaker BDo these divine give divine appointments when they're just going about their day, busy doing their job and family and watching TV and who knows, you know, being on social media and what else, you know.
Speaker AYeah, no, I think at least the way I tried to conclude my book, I don't, I didn't try to claim anything special at all that, that, that so called divine appointment was because I was doing, I was like spiritual or anything like that.
Speaker AI was like kind of surprised at how amazing it was to someone like me.
Speaker ABut I didn't claim, hey, if you pray like this or that or seek God, blah blah, then you too could have a divine appointment.
Speaker ALike nothing like that.
Speaker AJust like I, I concluded with maybe a thought experiment on divine appointments to try to say hey, anytime you, maybe anytime you try to share the gospel or things you do, it could be a piece of the divine appointment, whether you actually see the end of it or die.
Speaker ATo kind of expand the definition of divine appointments behind what I showed in my story is what looked like a divine appointment.
Speaker ABut yeah, like you say about maybe we're not seeing stuff like that is because we're not, we're too busy with things and, and not going out and witnessing or whatever.
Speaker ABut yeah, I mean in, in my story there's a lot of where I was just too busy bumbling around.
Speaker AI don't know how that, that so called divine appointment happened.
Speaker ABut like I don't, I don't claim anything special at all.
Speaker AI think this is just a story of encouragement for people to say look, there really, maybe there is a God out there and he does answer prayers but doesn't have to be in the, the exact same way for that it was for me or for anyone else just kind of an encouragement to pray to God and believe in him and.
Speaker BAnd that should be the encouragement.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker BBecause I think ultimately we, we've been talking about this but there, there is an issue people Christians have with prayer.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BSo you know, encourage folks.
Speaker BWhy, why should we pray?
Speaker BWhy should we spend the time talking to a God we don't see?
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAnd yeah, in a lot of my story I don't even, it doesn't even look like they're, is anything going like me, it's just me deciding to do this and this and that.
Speaker AAnd then once you look at the end, you're like, I wonder if everything was pieced together like was God doing there Was just that a coincidence or what?
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker ABut it's pretty interesting.
Speaker ABut yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker AYou see, you're trying to balance like the stuff we do for, because we think it's important versus the stuff we do for God and how to balance that.
Speaker AIt's can be kind of hard, a chaotic, I guess you want to think, or how to, how do we balance that out?
Speaker AYeah, I mean, well, let me take.
Speaker BLet me ask this.
Speaker BAnd after the, after the break, I want you to ask this question is, you know, you, you talk about how God kind of puts these things together and we don't even see it.
Speaker BWe could look at the, the case of biblical individual of Joseph and you look at his life, you look at everything that happened in his life.
Speaker BAnd it's at the end of the book of Genesis that we see he saw at the end.
Speaker BObviously he didn't see it going through it, but he saw how God was working through all these choices, even choices that would be evil against him to bring them together.
Speaker BSo, so the question I'm going to have after this break will be, you know, how.
Speaker BHow can we not, not necessarily be looking for a Joseph like experience?
Speaker BAnd yet you had something like that in your, in your life where you can look back and see how God was working through it.
Speaker BBut how could we move forward in life doing our everyday things and yet see, hey, look, as I look back, I see how God was orchestrating that.
Speaker BSo let's talk about that right after this break.
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Speaker BSo let us now get back to John.
Speaker BThe book we're talking about is does God really answer our prayers?
Speaker BAnd John throughout the book, you're talking a personal experience where by the end of the book, sorry, folks, I'm going to ruin the end.
Speaker BNot really, because John already kind of told you some of the end, but at the end of the book or you know, John's going to say, hey, look, I look back and I see how God was working through a lot of choices he made.
Speaker BAnd looking back, he could see God was working.
Speaker BAnd we could look at Joseph.
Speaker BJoseph had that experience.
Speaker BAnd so John, like in Joseph's life, in your life, you weren't looking to say, oh, God is doing this.
Speaker BYou weren't expecting the outcome, no different than Joseph was.
Speaker BBut how could we go about our, our everyday life not necessarily thinking like, oh, God is doing something.
Speaker BGod's gonna do something big here.
Speaker BGod's gonna.
Speaker BBut how is everyday life just allowing God to work through us and having his providence in our life?
Speaker BHow can we live and, and be mindful that God might be working through us?
Speaker BAnd, and then how can we look back to see, oh, look, God was working.
Speaker BLook what he was doing here and here and here.
Speaker AYeah, I mean, you did kind of COVID it with the idea that when we look back.
Speaker ASo, you know, like the, the, the expression hindsight is 20 20, in a sense, you, you can look back and see how God has been involved in your life looking back.
Speaker ABut then it's like you mentioned looking in the present.
Speaker AIt's kind of be careful when you say God is using this.
Speaker AYou can say that, but not in a care.
Speaker AI mean, the charismatic sense of, well, he.
Speaker AI know the Holy Spirit is doing, around doing this and he's going to answer it in the, in my prayers in the way that I think he should answer them.
Speaker ASo, I mean, we know that was that verse about, we know that all things work together for good to them that love God to them who are the called according to his purpose.
Speaker ASo work together.
Speaker ASometimes we don't see it working together, but when we look back, we can see how it worked together.
Speaker AI, I don't know if that's.
Speaker BYeah, no, I mean, explanation, but it's a good point because, you know, we always have to have that hindsight in mind.
Speaker BI think of, you know, George Mueller, who wrote a autobiography, and a lot of people know him for his autobiography, and they go, wow, he was just such a great man of faith.
Speaker BAnd look at how this guy was doing so much.
Speaker BAnd they look at him as a man who just trusted God for everything.
Speaker BAnd yet when you read the intro to his book, which most people don't, he says that the whole reason he put his, his diary to book form is so people realize there was nothing special about George Mueller.
Speaker BThere was no great faith that he had.
Speaker BIt was just that he started recording a diary because he knew that if he took steps of faith, God would give her greater things.
Speaker BBut each step, he didn't notice it.
Speaker BAnd so he actually did his journaling so that he could see what God was doing in his life as he looked back and toward the end of his life where everyone's talking about what a great man of faith he is.
Speaker BAnd now here look at my journal.
Speaker BI wasn't a great man of faith.
Speaker BAnd yet what do you see in it?
Speaker BThat he actually was.
Speaker BIt was just every step, even though it looked like a small step, maybe to him, and he didn't notice the step of faith, it just grew and grew and grew his faith.
Speaker BAnd I think that's a good point of, of your book with your account, where it's just taking the Next step.
Speaker BIt's not looking for some great thing for God to do, but just seeing what God's going to do in, in the, in the little, the mundane things.
Speaker BWould that be fair?
Speaker AYeah, I still think it, yeah.
Speaker ALike the looking back, it was to see what God has done and working things together versus looking in the, the future.
Speaker ALike when you, like when you read my book, it's, it's a lot of it.
Speaker ALike you're just, you're just blabbing about things you were doing, you're choosing to doing your things you're struggling with and even stuff like when my friend asked me to help him out at Bible Club, I'm just thinking at the moment all I'm thinking is man, I got all this homework in my doctorate right now, like I don't want to do this and, and then I just do it because he needs the help.
Speaker AAnd even stuff like that where I'm like not wanting to go out somehow that is move building it up into the divine appointment.
Speaker AAnd, and then when I look back I'm like, okay, I understand why all of that happened and even my faults and my unwillingness and my selfishness and somehow worked together to make the so called divine appointment happen.
Speaker ALike even, you know, even one of the steps, my district doctoral dissertation took me two years longer than, than expected to finish because of different issues.
Speaker AAnd then that kept me in Pensacola longer and then with that, working with everything else with my needing to get the three month contract extension at that exact time, that's when the so called divine appointments start happening.
Speaker ASo with all of my human flaws and my lack of faith and stuff like that, when looking back it seems like it's almost like I don't want to speak for God, but if I could I'd seem like God would be like saying you didn't know why that happened, but now you do.
Speaker ABecause hindsight is 20 20.
Speaker ABut I don't.
Speaker BYeah, yeah, yeah, no, and I think that's a really good point for folks to, to be aware of is the fact that, you know, God is working all the time.
Speaker BWe just may not see it, we may not, we may not recognize what's going on.
Speaker BAnd looking back helps us to see what God's doing as we look forward.
Speaker AYes.
Speaker ALike when you think of, you know, like the perseverance of the saints or sanctification, however you want to describe it, like sometimes we can think, am I being sanctified?
Speaker ASometimes I don't feel like I am.
Speaker AAnd, and then, but then maybe the answer could be Will, if you look back, did you see what God did in your life?
Speaker AAnd then you could be like, oh, yeah, yeah.
Speaker ABut that doesn't mean, like, oh, well, he already did everything he needs.
Speaker AI don't have to worry about it.
Speaker ALike, no, just, you know, keep persevering.
Speaker ABut don't worry as much about, am I really being sanctified?
Speaker AAm I really persevering?
Speaker ABecause as you keep going and you look back and the hindsight about, wow, God did stuff, and I didn't even realize it at the time, but now when I look back, I can see how, what he was doing in my life.
Speaker ABecause the hindsight is 20 20.
Speaker BCorrect?
Speaker BYeah, correct.
Speaker BSo, so let folks know where they could get a copy of your book.
Speaker BAnd, and then what if, what is the, the one thing you'd want to leave people with to encourage them to maybe consider picking up a copy?
Speaker AOkay, you can, you can get my book on Amazon.
Speaker AYou can get the paperback.
Speaker AAnd, and finally, it actually has the paperback with the prime shipping to two day shipping, which I was hoping would happen before I had the interview.
Speaker ABut yeah, it's.
Speaker ASo you can actually order it and maybe in two days get it instead of needing to wait like a week or two.
Speaker AIf, if you order it from Whip and Stock, but you can order it from Whip and Stock's site as well.
Speaker AAnd then, and if you go to whipfinstock.com and you search for my book, you can search for does God really answer a prayer?
Speaker AOr even like John Minick or even Andrew Rapp before.
Speaker ABecause guess who wrote the forward of the book?
Speaker BWho wrote the forward?
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AWho did?
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ASo those of you who are.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AIn the audience, guess who wrote the forward to this book?
Speaker BI think, I think his name is Andrew Rapoport, but.
Speaker AOh, really?
Speaker AWow, that's a coincidence.
Speaker ABut yeah, hey, if you all want to read Andrew's forward to my book, you can buy the book.
Speaker ABook.
Speaker ABut I mean, maybe I shouldn't say this, but in Amazon, if you find my book and you click the Kindle edition and then you click the Read sample, you can see his forward for free.
Speaker BOops.
Speaker AWow.
Speaker AMy bad.
Speaker AWhy did I say that?
Speaker ABut hey, it doesn't matter.
Speaker AYou can read his forward and then if you want to read the book that he was forwarding, writing the forward about, don't you want to buy it?
Speaker BYeah, well, let's, let's put this, I'll put it this way to entice people.
Speaker BI gave you two forwards, right?
Speaker BI gave you a serious, more serious Forward.
Speaker BI gave you a more light hearted, more comical maybe forward.
Speaker BFolks, you're gonna have to go read the book to see which one he chose.
Speaker AI liked originally.
Speaker AI was gonna, I was going to go with one of the forwards and then, and then you change your mind.
Speaker AI actually read both of them to Daniel Minick on time and then he seemed more interested in the other ones.
Speaker AI'm like, okay, I'll pick the other one.
Speaker AAnd then I think the other one actually goes well with the, the style of the, of the book.
Speaker BYeah, well, so folks, you'll just have to go and, and get the book so you can see.
Speaker BSo again, the book is Does God really Answer Prayer?
Speaker BAnd by John Minick.
Speaker BJohn, what's one thing you want to leave folks with?
Speaker BWhat, what is the one thing you would like to see people get out of this book?
Speaker AWell, I can, I would like, I would like to show people in this book that I'm.
Speaker AYou can relate to me.
Speaker AAnd this is a Christian book where if you want someone you can relate to in a Christian book, this might be something you would definitely want to read.
Speaker AEspecially if it's about a true story that tries to answer the question, does God really answer our prayers?
Speaker AAnd if he does, even doesn't directly say yes he did or yes, he does, it might imply that.
Speaker AAnd you, you as the reader get to be the judge of whether my story is coincidence or if God was involved.
Speaker AAnd I like, I think people like that kind of thing in the story if it doesn't directly state it.
Speaker AIt's like my English 101 teacher said, don't, don't state, explain.
Speaker AAnd that's what I was thinking of when I wrote the book.
Speaker ABut anyways, I can also make a plug for mine and Daniel Minick's other books if that's okay.
Speaker BSure.
Speaker ASo we, you talked earlier about another book we wrote and it's called when the Watchtower Knocks, discussing an encounter with Jehovah's Witnesses.
Speaker AThat's one that Daniel Minick and, and I both wrote together and you can get that on Amazon as well.
Speaker AAnd then a book, Daniel Minick Row in 2011, it's called Freedom to Give the Biblical Truth about Tithing.
Speaker ASo if you're curious about the subject of tithing and in the Bible and everything that the Bible says and doesn't say about it, or also the history of how tithing, New Testament tithing was brought into churches and whether we should or shouldn't tithe the way a lot of people claim it, we do.
Speaker AAnd how a church can survive even without preaching.
Speaker AThat's the so called tithe.
Speaker AIf you want to read 500 plus pages on that subject, you can get Daniel Minick's book Freedom to Give the Biblical Truth About Tithing.
Speaker ABut yep.
Speaker BWell, thanks for coming on.
Speaker BI hope that folks will pick up the book and get a lot of it.
Speaker BMaybe it'll help you in your not just your prayer life, but your Christian walk.
Speaker BAnd with that, that's a wrap.
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