If you think that you've had setbacks and failures,
Speaker:that's because you don't really have the thing that's really on fire for you,
Speaker:because when you're really doing something you're really inspired to do you
Speaker:don't see failure, you see feedback.
Speaker:Today I'd like to talk about
Speaker:the genius that you may or may not be aware of that you have inside
Speaker:and how to awaken that genius and realize the things in your
Speaker:life that have led you to where you are today.
Speaker:And the components of it that can awaken this genius.
Speaker:And I'll share a little bit about my own journey,
Speaker:just so you can put it into context.
Speaker:Because I really believe that the things that you experience in your life
Speaker:throughout your life are ultimately on the way, not in the way,
Speaker:ultimately
Speaker:giving you exactly the experiences that you need in order to do something
Speaker:really extraordinary on the planet.
Speaker:So I'm going to start off with myself and then I'll apply it back into your own
Speaker:life. When I was born in 1954,
Speaker:I apparently was positioned in an awkward position in the
Speaker:womb, or maybe I was implanted in a side side position, I don't know,
Speaker:but when I came out, my arm and leg on the left side was turned inward.
Speaker:So when I was a child, I think from about age one and a half,
Speaker:I had to start wearing braces on my arm and leg.
Speaker:They called it pigeon foot, you know, pigeon arm. I
Speaker:did not like to wear braces. I didn't like the constraint.
Speaker:They were clunky, heavy things,
Speaker:made me kind of do a Forrest Gump kind of thing.
Speaker:The few kids in the neighborhood that would see these things would not, what's
Speaker:the word, they'd feel awkward being around it.
Speaker:I just wanted to be out of the braces.
Speaker:Now I didn't have to wear them 24 hours a day, but I did have to wear them.
Speaker:And in the process of doing that,
Speaker:I think I wanted to be free.
Speaker:I think that was a catalyst for me to want to be free and to
Speaker:not be constrained.
Speaker:So here's something that it seemed to be in the way,
Speaker:but it turned out to be exactly what I needed in my journey.
Speaker:I also had a speech problem.
Speaker:For some reason I could not pronounce things properly.
Speaker:And I remember going about a year and a half old,
Speaker:I remember going into a place with my mom in this building,
Speaker:where I used to do all these muscle exercises with strings and buttons and
Speaker:things in my mouth, and to try to use my mouth properly,
Speaker:to be able to do it because I would mispronounce things
Speaker:to speak. So I had to speaking issue.
Speaker:When I was four I got out of my braces,
Speaker:and by the time I was,
Speaker:and I also sucked my thumb so my front teeth were way forward.
Speaker:Kind of like, well you've seen people with buck teeth.
Speaker:And I later got,
Speaker:I ran into a tree on a horse and broke them and pushed them back.
Speaker:My dad said I saved him a fortune.
Speaker:When I got to first kindergarten class,
Speaker:I wanted to draw with the girls and I didn't want to draw with the boys.
Speaker:The boys were drawing army and cars and things. And I wasn't into that.
Speaker:And I wanted to draw a landscaping, landscapes.
Speaker:And my teacher said, 'You're not a girl. You can't play with the girls.
Speaker:You're supposed to play with the boys.' And she dragged me over to the boys side
Speaker:and I didn't want to draw that.
Speaker:So she finally sat me in the middle. She said,
Speaker:'If you're not going to play with the boys,
Speaker:I'm not going to let you play with the girls.
Speaker:You're going to have to sit and play with yourself in the middle of the room.'
Speaker:So I think that was a part of a perfection because I think everything I do is
Speaker:about the middle path between these two polarities of gender.
Speaker:And I want to be free and I want to be able to be heard
Speaker:because people, when I would speak, it wouldn't make sense.
Speaker:When I got to first grade, I
Speaker:was being told to talk to learn,
Speaker:big old book with a stick and going through all the letters and stuff and
Speaker:pronouncing letters and trying to make words and things like that.
Speaker:And I definitely had dyslexic symptoms and I
Speaker:could not do it, no matter what I tried to do,
Speaker:I just kept fumbling words and I didn't get meaning out of it,
Speaker:no matter what I would see letters and didn't grasp meaning,
Speaker:semantics didn't make any sense.
Speaker:And so I went from the normal reading class to a remedial reading and from a
Speaker:remedial reading to wearing a dunce cap with a guy named Dale Dalrymple.
Speaker:I don't know what ever happened to him,
Speaker:but we used to have to sit out and face the window,
Speaker:looking out into the outdoors until we decided we were going to read properly.
Speaker:That was the treatment, and wearing a dunce cap. And that dunce cap by the way,
Speaker:is conical,
Speaker:which I use in my diagrams today on my work on cones
Speaker:as conic sections.
Speaker:But my teacher finally had my parents come to the school
Speaker:and say, you know, I'm afraid your son's got learning problems,
Speaker:I'm afraid he's never going to be able to read.
Speaker:He's not going to be able to write. Cause I wrote backwards.
Speaker:I still have an awkward handwriting. It's still, you can see that today.
Speaker:And he's not gonna be able to read. He's not gonna be able to write.
Speaker:He can't seem to communicate.
Speaker:I don't think he's going to go very far in life nor amount to anything.
Speaker:And I remember that sitting in that little room when she said that,
Speaker:and that was the coolest thing to have to face.
Speaker:What I did is I got through school by befriending
Speaker:the smartest kids. There was a Martha Rose Scartozzi,
Speaker:a beautiful girl that I used to like to walk home, but I did it for two reasons.
Speaker:I'd walk her home because I liked looking at her, but I also would ask
Speaker:her what she got out of the class and she would tell me what she got.
Speaker:And as long as somebody would tell me things, auditorily,
Speaker:I seem to
Speaker:Be able to get enough information out to somehow be able to get through school.
Speaker:And I befriended Jerry Samson and Clinton Duvall and all these other individuals
Speaker:were the intelligent
Speaker:kids in the class and befriended them and constantly asked them about their,
Speaker:what they
Speaker:learned and what they did and how did they do it and how are they're so smart.
Speaker:And I think I figured out a strategy to ask questions,
Speaker:to get information from people, which by the way, is what I do today.
Speaker:What I do consulting with people.
Speaker:So that worked really fine until I got to
Speaker:about sixth grade. And when I turned 12 years old in sixth grade,
Speaker:I'd passed school with that strategy and become the clown of the class
Speaker:kind of thing. But that didn't work when my parents moved from Houston,
Speaker:Texas to Richmond, Texas. And there,
Speaker:we were in a kind of a low socioeconomic school system with a lot of racial
Speaker:issues. And there was no,
Speaker:really smart kids I could befriend and get information from.
Speaker:And I end up failing and I eventually left school.
Speaker:I kind of left home at 13, but I formally left school at 14.
Speaker:I tried to go to school till I was 14. I
Speaker:then became a street kid and I learned how to, you know, get by
Speaker:on the streets, which I think is sort of entrepreneurial. And I,
Speaker:you know, lived in a bowling alley, 24 hour bowling alley.
Speaker:I lived in a park area. I lived in a car. I lived in friends' houses. I,
Speaker:you know, I just kind of meander around,
Speaker:there was a diner that I used to hang out with and sometimes stay there all
Speaker:night. Cause it was a 24 hour diner just leaning on the table
Speaker:And did odd jobs that I could do.
Speaker:And by the time I was 14, I ended up leaving Texas.
Speaker:I lived at the beach for a while at 14, but then I moved out to California,
Speaker:and visited California and down into Mexico.
Speaker:And 15 going on 16 I made my way to Hawaii
Speaker:and I was into surfing. That was the thing I tried baseball,
Speaker:but baseball wasn't any fun in that small town. And so I went into surfing.
Speaker:And Texas wasn't a surf capital,
Speaker:but California and Hawaii was so I decided to go.
Speaker:So I first under a bridge,
Speaker:Kamehameha highway on the sunset beach.
Speaker:I lived in iakai beach park under a park bench.
Speaker:I then when it would rain would go into the bathrooms there,
Speaker:because it was protected from rain. I found an abandoned car,
Speaker:lived in an abandoned car.
Speaker:Eventually got to a guy who had to get rid of a tent and I got a tent and I made
Speaker:a tent in a jungle and a mixture of palm leaves and kind of
Speaker:a treehouse tent thing.
Speaker:And I was doing what I did, which was surfing at the time,
Speaker:pretty well every day.
Speaker:And then I ended up with strychnine and cyanide poisoning and almost died when I
Speaker:was 17.
Speaker:My 17th year was
Speaker:eventful, but I ended up having a Joe Cocker look,
Speaker:if you ever remember Joe Cocker the singer with Leon Russell.
Speaker:He had deformed movements and I was having those types of things from the
Speaker:strychnine. A week before, well,
Speaker:a few weeks before my 18th birthday,
Speaker:I really ended up unconscious in my tent for three and
Speaker:a half days and I couldn't breathe. My diaphragm stopped on me.
Speaker:It's a very interesting situation. As a result of that, luckily,
Speaker:a lady found me in my tent helped me recover from a cathartic
Speaker:experience, took me to a health food store,
Speaker:leaving the health food store I saw a flyer on the door,
Speaker:there was a special guest speaker at a recreational center
Speaker:called with Paul Bragg at a yoga class.
Speaker:Somebody told me that if I wanted to control my spasms in my arms and stuff,
Speaker:and legs would be a yoga class.
Speaker:So I went to a yoga class and that one night,
Speaker:with 35 young people sitting on a wooden floor and a little
Speaker:mats and towels, Paul C. Bragg did
Speaker:a presentation. Now I never went to presentations, school wasn't my thing,
Speaker:I didn't read at the time, and
Speaker:all of a sudden I'm at this class with this amazing teacher and he in
Speaker:45 minutes to an hour presentation just blew me away. What
Speaker:he said was that we have a body, we have a mind, and we have a soul.
Speaker:The body must be directed by the mind.
Speaker:The mind must be directed by the soul in order to maximize who we are as a human
Speaker:being and that we need to set goals for our ourselves, our family,
Speaker:our community, our city, our state, our nation, our world,
Speaker:and beyond for 120 years.
Speaker:And then what we think about and what we visualize and what we say to ourselves
Speaker:and how we feel about ourselves and what actions we take,
Speaker:determine our outcome and destiny in life.
Speaker:Kind of like the principles of 'The Secret' almost,
Speaker:and nobody had ever spoken to me like that.
Speaker:Nobody ever said that I had a potential inside.
Speaker:Nobody that I was aware of that really saw
Speaker:that in me. And I don't think he was pinpointing to me by any means,
Speaker:but the room was affected by his speech. He was a very animated,
Speaker:dynamic guy. And at the end of the presentation,
Speaker:he took us through a guided imagery meditation,
Speaker:what he called an alpha meditation technique. And in
Speaker:there I closed my eyes and after his speech,
Speaker:I was pretty inspired by what he had said.
Speaker:And I saw a vision that in that meditation,
Speaker:of me standing on a balcony,
Speaker:walking through an arched way area and coming out onto an edge or balcony,
Speaker:standing on a balcony, speaking to a million people. And that was like,
Speaker:Whoa. And I was in tears and I was inspired.
Speaker:And I had no idea that, where that came from,
Speaker:I think it was a dissociative identity disorder at the time.
Speaker:And it was so
Speaker:real I was in tears of inspiration and I must've been in that vision 15 -
Speaker:20 minutes. It was real to me. And when I came out
Speaker:I looked around the room and everybody in the room, in that room was in tears.
Speaker:So they must have had the similar type of experience, whatever It was for them.
Speaker:And I saw Paul Bragg in the front of the room with his eyes closed,
Speaker:sitting with his hands on his knees, looking up. You
Speaker:Thank you, dear Divine, for revealing to these young souls, their destiny,
Speaker:kind of thing.
Speaker:And I saw something there that I had not seen before. And at that
Speaker:moment I realized that I really wanted to overcome my learning problems.
Speaker:It was the first night
Speaker:I thought that maybe I could be intelligent.
Speaker:Maybe I could overcome my learning problems and learn how to speak and be
Speaker:intelligent some day. My sister, named Lynne, who was the smart one in the
Speaker:family, she could read. And she was great at that.
Speaker:I was sort of like her antiparticle,
Speaker:she's always been a great reader and always been very intelligent.
Speaker:And I thought, wow, I would like to be able to be intelligent.
Speaker:And so I,
Speaker:at the end of that experience he said, okay, that's our evening.
Speaker:And
Speaker:if anybody would like to join me on the other side of the Island in the mornings
Speaker:at six o'clock in the morning, I have an exercise and a lecture every morning.
Speaker:And so by God, at 5:45 in the morning,
Speaker:I hitchhiked out to the other side of the Island and joined him.
Speaker:And for the next few weeks I learned everything I could from this guy.
Speaker:And I never, you know, everybody that he had around him at the time,
Speaker:were much older, 50, 60, 70 and 80 year old people,
Speaker:I was the only teenager there. And finally, after doing that each morning,
Speaker:I mean, I would literally get up and go surfing after getting back,
Speaker:he
Speaker:made an announcement that he's going to Santa Barbara or to Mount Shasta area,
Speaker:whatever, and that he will, you know, hope to see you again, kind of thing,
Speaker:but he's leaving to go to California. And while he was there,
Speaker:it was inspiring because I thought, wow, this guy is really, you know,
Speaker:making me think.
Speaker:And he gave me a lot of great new information and
Speaker:and started making a belief that maybe I could do something with my life kind of
Speaker:thing.
Speaker:And I didn't know what to do if he's leaving.
Speaker:And I finally walked up to him on that last day. I said, 'Mr.
Speaker:Bragg you said a few weeks ago at your talk
Speaker:on the North shore that whatever we decided that night
Speaker:destiny.' And he said, 'That's exactly it young man.' I said, 'Well, sir,
Speaker:I saw that I wanted to be a teacher and I don't know how to read,
Speaker:I've got learning problems and speaking problems.' And he said,
Speaker:'That's not a problem. Is there any other problem?' And I said, 'Well, no,
Speaker:sir.' And he said, he says 'Well, here's what you do, every single day,
Speaker:every single day I want you to say to yourself,
Speaker:I am a genius. And I apply my wisdom.'
Speaker:Now, when he made me say that,
Speaker:that didn't make any sense to me.
Speaker:I didn't really know what a genius was exactly. But he said,
Speaker:I want you to say that statement. I'm a genius and I apply my wisdom.
Speaker:So I said it, and he made me say it again and again, and again and again,
Speaker:until my eyes closed. And then when I said it,
Speaker:and he could sense that there was some sort of meaning to it,
Speaker:and I could relate to it. He patted me on the shoulder and he says,
Speaker:'Now you never miss a day for the rest of your life, every day,
Speaker:you say that statement,
Speaker:if you do that every single day,
Speaker:sooner or later the cells of your body will tingle with it and so will the
Speaker:world.'
Speaker:So I've never missed a day, this morning I said it.
Speaker:I didn't know what a genius was, but I started saying it every day.
Speaker:Right after that, I never saw him again. But after that,
Speaker:I ended up going to the health food store and I pulled out on a rack of books,
Speaker:the first book I ever tried to read in my life really, from cover to cover,
Speaker:was Chico's Organic Gardening and Natural Living.
Speaker:I pulled out that book, looked at the pictures,
Speaker:the guy on the front cover looked like me.
Speaker:So I thought if that guy can write the book, I bet I can read it.
Speaker:That's why I picked it. And it was mostly pictures of gardens,
Speaker:but I got some just to that book and it gave me an encouragement to try to get
Speaker:another book. I tried to get that book and I got lost,
Speaker:I couldn't understand the words,
Speaker:but I made a determination that I was going to try to figure out how to learn to
Speaker:read.
Speaker:And there was a guy in the tent that I was staying there with named Jackie who
Speaker:used to read to me. I'd ask him to read for me, he always wondered why.
Speaker:I never told him until he was 50 something. We met up again.
Speaker:But he did that for me.
Speaker:But I then was in a meditation and in the meditation,
Speaker:a little prompt said it's time to go home and see your parents.
Speaker:So I ended up flying to Los Angeles, hitchhiking back to Texas.
Speaker:When I went back,
Speaker:I remember hitchhiking down the last road to get close to my parents' house.
Speaker:My sister and father drove right past me.
Speaker:Didn't even recognize me because I had long hair and a beard kind of thing.
Speaker:And I got home and my mom was inside cooking some prunes.
Speaker:And I walked in and I said, she turned around and she says, Oh my God,
Speaker:she didn't recognize me at first,
Speaker:she thought I was just a guy walking in the house. And she said, 'Oh my God,
Speaker:welcome home.' And days later, she said,
Speaker:'Why don't you take a GED test?
Speaker:Cause you never know when you might have to need a job and that what gives you a
Speaker:job.' Well, with their encouragement,
Speaker:I went down to the university of Houston I took a GED.
Speaker:A GED is a general education degree.
Speaker:It's the equivalent of a high school degree. All you do is take a test,
Speaker:if you pass it, you have high school education. Well,
Speaker:I went down there and I didn't know how to read half the questions there.
Speaker:And I just closed my eyes. I said to myself, I'm a
Speaker:and I put the pencil on the paper or whatever,
Speaker:little dot that I had to fill in I did.
Speaker:I figured I got nothing to lose If I don't pass, I'm not lost anything.
Speaker:If I pass, I got me a high school degree. In
Speaker:the process of doing that I passed.
Speaker:It was s a miracle.
Speaker:My parents were pretty astonished and I was blown away.
Speaker:And all of a sudden I have me a high school degree and I thought, wow,
Speaker:that's kind of cool. And I was thinking that there's power in this affirmation.
Speaker:So I was saying it more than once a day. And my parents said,
Speaker:'Why don't you take a college entrance exam in case you ever decide to go to
Speaker:college? The surf is not up until October. Why don't you take it,
Speaker:take it and try and do that?' So I went down to Wharton and
Speaker:I I took a three-day test and I guessed,
Speaker:when I said I'm a genius and I apply my wisdom and frigging somehow passed that
Speaker:test. And it was purely guessing. And I can't tell you how it was, something,
Speaker:some higher power working on it. But I passed the test.
Speaker:And then
Speaker:I decided I was going to try to take classes because now I have access to go to
Speaker:college. I decided I'll take a summer school class.
Speaker:And I took English and history. You had to take those as a basic.
Speaker:And I had a six week class. And when I tried to take that six week class,
Speaker:two weeks into that we had our first test.
Speaker:And I thought that my little tool of affirmation was going to do the job,
Speaker:but I got a 27 and I needed a 72 to pass. And I got a 27.
Speaker:I was the only kid that was down below 72.
Speaker:When I saw that I was devastated. I ran to my car, sunk in my car.
Speaker:Finally,
Speaker:I drove home crying and all of a sudden this dream of
Speaker:being a teacher and traveling the world was shattered.
Speaker:And I remember coming home and curling up in a fetal position under this Bible
Speaker:stand, in my parents' house.
Speaker:And I was really having a low moment. Cause I was thinking,
Speaker:I thought that I was going to go in this new trajectory,
Speaker:but if I can't even pass the test, then that's not going to work.
Speaker:This is never going to happen. I kept hearing my first grade teacher in my head.
Speaker:And my mom came home from shopping, what she did she said, 'Son,
Speaker:what's wrong? What happened?' And I said, 'Mom, I blew the test.
Speaker:I guess I don't have what it takes.
Speaker:I guess I'll never be able to read or write or communicate or never amount to
Speaker:anything, never go very far in life.
Speaker:I'm sorry.' I was apologizing to her because I felt she tried to
Speaker:encourage me. And she didn't know what to say.
Speaker:She just kind of stared for a minute.
Speaker:And finally she said something that only a mother could say that was deeply
Speaker:meaningful. She said, 'Son,
Speaker:whether you become a great teacher, healer and philosopher like you dream,
Speaker:whether you return to Hawaii and ride giant waves like you've done or you return
Speaker:to the streets and panhandle as a bum,
Speaker:I just want to let you know that your father and I are going to love you no
Speaker:matter what,
Speaker:we just love you.' When she said that I needed that.
Speaker:She gave me love with certainty,
Speaker:presence and gratitude, which I call the Cardinal pillars of mastery.
Speaker:When she said that my hand went into a fist,
Speaker:I looked up and I saw the vision of me standing on that balcony in front of a
Speaker:million people again. And it was clear and lucid for a moment.
Speaker:And I said to myself with my hand in my fist,
Speaker:I'm going to master this thing called reading and studying and learning.
Speaker:I'm going to master this thing called teaching and philosophy.
Speaker:And I'm going to do whatever it takes, I'm going to travel whatever distance,
Speaker:I'm going to pay whatever price to give my service of love.
Speaker:I'm not going to let any human being on the face of the earth stop me from this
Speaker:one. And I got up and I hugged my mom with tears in my eyes.
Speaker:I went into my room. I got a Funk & Wagnalls dictionary out.
Speaker:And I made a commitment that I was going to memorize that fricking dictionary.
Speaker:So I went in there and I took 30 words a day and I went through 30
Speaker:words a day, spelled them, wrote them out on a piece of paper,
Speaker:cause we had little pads of paper, 30 words a day, spelled it,
Speaker:pronounced it properly, put it in a sentence, until I understand its meaning.
Speaker:And my mom would test me on 30 words a day. And I would get those 30 words.
Speaker:And if I didn't get them,
Speaker:I would go back and I wouldn't go to bed at night until 30 words could be
Speaker:memorized, pronounced, spelled, et cetera.
Speaker:My mom cared enough to make sure that I did that.
Speaker:And I was determined to do that. And my vocabulary grew slowly but surely,
Speaker:which is why I have a great vocabulary today, I believe.
Speaker:And I ended up starting to pass school. I didn't give up.
Speaker:And once I did, I wanted to learn more than any of the other kids in the class.
Speaker:They took it for granted. They would go in there, parents told them to do it,
Speaker:everything else. I wanted to learn.
Speaker:So I lived in the library and I stayed in that library.
Speaker:If I wasn't in the class, I was in the library. If I wasn't in the library,
Speaker:I was driving home. And if I was driving home,
Speaker:I was reading a book while I was driving, turning the thing. And
Speaker:I was driving on the side of the road so I wouldn't interfere with traffic.
Speaker:And I would get home and I would read. And I'd read encyclopedias.
Speaker:I didn't stop. Literally a lap, an encyclopedia in my
Speaker:knees all the time. And I just wanted to learn.
Speaker:And that went on. And by the time a few months had gone by,
Speaker:I was now taking off. I was excelling.
Speaker:I was passing and then I was actually nailing it. I was working so hard on it,
Speaker:way more than most of the other kids. I started really doing well.
Speaker:And I started excelling and students started to come
Speaker:library and started asking me questions,
Speaker:which was absolutely inspiring at 18 years old,
Speaker:to have somebody ask you for information. And my teaching career began.
Speaker:I started teaching at 18 and I never stopped because it was one of the most
Speaker:inspiring things I got to do. Well,
Speaker:by the time I was turning 19, my mom asked me, right before my 19th birthday,
Speaker:my mom said, 'What do you want for your birthday and for Christmas?' I said,
Speaker:'Mom, I want the greatest teachings on the face of the earth.
Speaker:The greatest writings humanity's ever created by the greatest minds who ever
Speaker:lived.' And she said, 'You sure you don't want a t-shirt son?' I said,
Speaker:'No, I want the greatest teachings on earth.
Speaker:I just want to learn.' And my mom said, 'Well,
Speaker:let me see what I can do.' So she contacted her brother
Speaker:he was uncle Ralph to me,
Speaker:but professor at MIT and he was a chemist and physicist. And as a gift,
Speaker:I don't know where he got them. I don't know if it was his own library.
Speaker:He sent two giant six by six by six foot wooden crates on a flatbed truck to our
Speaker:home. And they literally loaded them on the ground. I took a crowbar,
Speaker:went out there and took all those books and filled up my room with books,
Speaker:just stacks and stacks of books.
Speaker:I had a little yoga mat in the center where I could do my sun salute in the
Speaker:morning to the sun. And I sat and I did my yoga and I read.
Speaker:Every moment I was not in class or driving to and from, I was reading.
Speaker:I was reading when I was home I was knocking out 18
Speaker:single day on every imaginable topic.
Speaker:Cause these books were on all different topics.
Speaker:And I remember reading Rene Descartes work and I thought, okay,
Speaker:I want to be a man of letters. I want to be a polymath. I want to understand.
Speaker:I want to have an encyclopedic mind now.
Speaker:I started reading eight encyclopedia sets, all of them 20, 25 volumes each.
Speaker:I just wanted to learn everything I could.
Speaker:I wanted to be knowledgeable about it.
Speaker:I want to find the most universal laws that would help me go and do something
Speaker:amazing as a teacher. I wanted to have the foundation,
Speaker:most powerful principles I could offer. So why am I saying this?
Speaker:Because today I'm living out the dream that I set out to do.
Speaker:I may be not be traveling except by zoom right now because of COVID.
Speaker:But I made a dream that I wanted to
Speaker:go around the world and I wanted to teach. I've been to 154 countries,
Speaker:traveling and speaking. I've done the Breakthrough Experience in 65 countries.
Speaker:And I can tell you right now that
Speaker:if you never give up on something that's deeply meaningful to you, It's yours,
Speaker:but you have to be willing to do whatever it freaking takes.
Speaker:When I said to my mom, I'll do whatever it takes, travle whatever distance,
Speaker:pay whatever price to give my service of love. That no
Speaker:turning back attitude is what gives you your result. Now,
Speaker:why am I saying this today?
Speaker:Because I didn't know what a genius was when I started,
Speaker:but my mom when I came back to Hawaii and I asked her what a genius was.
Speaker:She says, well, it's like people like Albert Einstein had Da Vinci. I said,
Speaker:well, then get me every book that's been written on those guys,
Speaker:let me start learning about them.
Speaker:I later learned that a genius is one who listens to their inner voice and
Speaker:follows their inner vision and lets the voice and the vision on the inside be
Speaker:greater and louder than all opinions on the outside.
Speaker:They're not living in conformity. They're living in enormity.
Speaker:They're living in a vision of what they want to create.
Speaker:And I believe that everyone who's sitting here right now,
Speaker:looking at this presentation has that inside you.
Speaker:I have been working,
Speaker:I used to do a little program called activating your genius, right?
Speaker:Awakening Your Genius.
Speaker:And I looked at all the common denominators of some of the most ingenious
Speaker:polymathic individuals through history,
Speaker:and what were the common threads to them.
Speaker:And one thing I'm absolutely certain is they're pursuing something that
Speaker:absolutely inspires them,
Speaker:that they see in the vision and they're innovating creative unborrowed,
Speaker:visionary information and new information that's cutting edge.
Speaker:That's an original novel that they don't,
Speaker:they don't subordinate they don't cite other people, they are just originators.
Speaker:Kind of like John
Speaker:Nash in 'A Beautiful Mind' when he's going out there looking at the pigeons and
Speaker:the algorithms of the pigeons, trying to find, you know,
Speaker:something original while everybody else's reciting other people and doing
Speaker:citations of other professionals and subordinating to their ideas and limiting
Speaker:their concepts. He's an original thinker.
Speaker:I have said since I was 18 to 20 years old, I said that, I'm original, you know,
Speaker:thinker, I create original ideas that serve humanity. I create original ideas.
Speaker:And I wanted to create original ideas. Something that no one's thought of.
Speaker:And I've done it. With the Demartini Method I've got it. I've created it,
Speaker:something that serves. The information
Speaker:I share in the Breakthrough Experience is original, it serves.
Speaker:So I'm a firm believer that if you set your mind to doing something that's
Speaker:deeply meaningful, that is really calling inside you, amazing
Speaker:doors of opportunity will keep doing if you persevere on it.
Speaker:I've always said that if I stay with something long enough,
Speaker:everybody else dies out you end up at the top.
Speaker:You just got to stay with it long enough. And perseverance is the key to that.
Speaker:If you stay persevered towards something that's deeply meaningful,
Speaker:nothing's going to stop you from that, if you have that much of a drive.
Speaker:In fact, if you think that you've had setbacks and failures,
Speaker:that's because you don't really have the thing, that's really on fire for you.
Speaker:Because when you are really doing something you're really inspired to do,
Speaker:you don't see failure, you see feedback.
Speaker:That's been proven now in neurological studies, you see feedback. You say, okay,
Speaker:refinement. No stopping, refinement.
Speaker:So in your life right now,
Speaker:if you scanned your life and looked at the voids that are determining your
Speaker:values, my voids of being constrained,
Speaker:wanted me to be free, which allowed me to now travel the world.
Speaker:My inability to speak made me want to articulate,
Speaker:now speak probably more voluminously than probably most ever speaker.
Speaker:My desire to want to not be constrained made me go travel extensively,
Speaker:20 frigging million miles a year. They said, I'd never read. Well,
Speaker:frigging over 30,500 books now. And somebody said I would never, she said,
Speaker:I would never communicate.
Speaker:We've reached millions of people through every friggin medium possible.
Speaker:So the very things that we're told we're not going to do,
Speaker:may be the very things we're going to do.
Speaker:So when somebody says you can't do something, it may be the very gift.
Speaker:Right now I wish that teacher in first grade was there, I'd give her a hug.
Speaker:Thank you for giving me exactly the voids I needed to help me get where I wanted
Speaker:to go in life. That was the most deeply meaningful path. She wasn't a mistake.
Speaker:She was on the way. The braces weren't a mistake.
Speaker:Every one of those components of my life were exactly what was needed to get
Speaker:me where I am today. And I'm certain
Speaker:after working with thousands of people in the Breakthrough Experience,
Speaker:I'm certain that the same thing's going on there.
Speaker:Because I see people that think, 'Well, my mama wasn't there.
Speaker:She abandoned me.' Or whatever. 'Great. Who became your mom?' 'Well,
Speaker:I got this mom and that was the lady that had more money and allowed me to go to
Speaker:school.
Speaker:And now I'm educated and I've done what I've done to do.' 'Well if you had your
Speaker:mom and you blaming your mom for not being there,
Speaker:but the truth is if she had been there,
Speaker:you might not have ever gotten to have that education.' 'Never thought about
Speaker:that.' We constantly compare our lives to fantasies on how it should have been
Speaker:instead of honoring the way it is and not honoring how those voids are giving us
Speaker:the gifts we need. So just know that everything in your life,
Speaker:if you look back at it and make an inventory of all
Speaker:been through in your life that you thought were errors or mistakes,
Speaker:or IN the way, or challenges,
Speaker:all those voids that you think are voids, may not be voids,
Speaker:they may be gifts. Anything you can't say thank you for is baggage.
Speaker:Anything you can say, thank you for is fuel.
Speaker:And I just wanted to share that story because hopefully that makes you look at
Speaker:your own life because there is a genius inside you. The
Speaker:genius is when you're authentic and integral to what is that's really deeply
Speaker:meaningful to you. All of your judgments,
Speaker:all the things you're too proud or too humble to admit you see in other people
Speaker:inside yourself are all determining your voids in life.
Speaker:All the things that you judge out there as extremely pleasureful or painful,
Speaker:are going to be stored in your subconscious mind as voids wanting to be
Speaker:neutralized and appreciated and loved.
Speaker:Everything that's going on in your life is actually part of the path.
Speaker:I always say that our highest value, our purpose in life is the most efficient,
Speaker:effective path to fulfill the greatest amount of voids with the greatest amount
Speaker:of values. So all of those things are on the way, not in the way.
Speaker:So anything you can't say thank you for is baggage,
Speaker:but anything you can say thank for is because you've seen how it's catalyzed
Speaker:exactly what you needed to go to the next step.
Speaker:And all the jobs you've had and all the careers that you've done and all the
Speaker:experiences and the boyfriends and girlfriends or whatever the relationships
Speaker:you've had, all of them are giving you exactly the pieces that you need.
Speaker:And to not
Speaker:look and extract meaning out of your existence and not see how all of them are
Speaker:giving you what you're wanting in life is crazy.
Speaker:There's two things you want to master in life,
Speaker:one you want to prioritize your life and fill your day with the highest priority
Speaker:actions, because when you live by high priority,
Speaker:you grow in self worth and confidence. And the second one is to ask yourself,
Speaker:whatever's perceived in your life,
Speaker:how is it helping you fulfill what's highest on your value?
Speaker:How's it helping you fulfill your mission?
Speaker:Anywhere in your life If you look back, if you think, well,
Speaker:that was in the way that that was a setback and I'm a victim of that,
Speaker:ask how'd that experience exactly the way it was,
Speaker:how has it helped me get what I am here to do,
Speaker:my purpose in life, my highest value? And you'll wake up your genius.
Speaker:Because when you're living by your highest value,
Speaker:you pursue challenges that inspire you. And that is the key to building genius.
Speaker:And a genius is simply the individual who's authentic with original ideas.
Speaker:And, you know,
Speaker:there's people out there jumping off bungee jumps and they're doing walking on
Speaker:coals, doing rope climbing,
Speaker:and they're doing metaphors for courage and this kind of thing,
Speaker:but those are totally insignificant,
Speaker:totally insignificant compared to the courage it takes to be yourself.
Speaker:And by finding out what all these things are,
Speaker:is guiding you to be yourself and willing to be yourself and not fit in,
Speaker:but just to actually stand out as a unique individual with your unique
Speaker:contribution is the key to your genius.
Speaker:So I just wanted to share my story on that. Some of you have heard this story.
Speaker:Some of you may not, but I want to share that
Speaker:story because I want you to look inside your own life and
Speaker:take a deep inspection, introspection,
Speaker:reflection of
Speaker:all the magnificent things that are necessary in your
Speaker:the way that you may not have seen.
Speaker:And just know that any one you don't see on the way, that you see in the way,
Speaker:is holding you back.
Speaker:But anything you see on the way is fueling you and no friction, but fuel.
Speaker:And I believe
Speaker:that inspiration and enthusiasm and certainty and presence and gratitude and
Speaker:love, these
Speaker:transcendental feelings are confirmations that you're perceiving things in a
Speaker:way that's helping you fulfill what's really meaningful to you.
Speaker:So I just wanted to take that time to share that story
Speaker:because I'm a genius and I apply my wisdom,
Speaker:that one statement impacted my life significantly. In fact,
Speaker:two years after I started saying that when I was at the Wharton college,
Speaker:I had a gathering of 17 students gathered around a table and
Speaker:they were asking me questions on helping
Speaker:for a test. You know, I was getting ready to take a test.
Speaker:And I heard this one kid say 'That Demartini is a frigging genius'.
Speaker:And I remember what Paul Bragg said immediately when I heard him say that,
Speaker:whispered it to another kid. When I heard him say that, I thought, wow,
Speaker:Paul Bragg said, if I said that statement every single day,
Speaker:sooner or later the cells of my body would tingle with it, so will the world.
Speaker:And that night I went home and I filled literally a 24
Speaker:hour day list of statements that I wanted to say to myself,
Speaker:because I thought if one statement could make a difference,
Speaker:why not fill my whole day with statements like that?
Speaker:And I realized that if I don't fill my day with high priority actions that
Speaker:inspire me, my day is going to fill up a low priority distractions that don't.
Speaker:So you might want to stop and reframe all the things that you've experienced in
Speaker:your past and see how they can be turned into statements about how you would
Speaker:love your life and recite those every day, as a reminder,
Speaker:a checkup from the neck up,
Speaker:a reminder of you really would love to do in your life.
Speaker:Because if you don't decide,
Speaker:nobody else is going to get up in the morning and decide.
Speaker:They're going to project their values onto your life.
Speaker:They're not going to decide what you want.
Speaker:They're going to decide what they feel is wise for you.
Speaker:So take command of your life. Any area of your life you're not empowering,
Speaker:any area of your life you're not empowered in, people are going to overpower.
Speaker:take command, recognize that it's all on the way,
Speaker:decide exactly how you want it. Prioritize your actions,
Speaker:prioritize your perceptions,
Speaker:and let's get on with going and releasing your genius onto the planet.
Speaker:So that's my message for this morning, I went a few minutes over,
Speaker:but I just wanted to share that in case that's a value to you,
Speaker:but do not let anybody on the outside interfere with
Speaker:your inspiration on the inside.
Speaker:That's one thing that I learned that day when my mom told me she loved me no
Speaker:matter what,
Speaker:I was not going to let anything on this planet interfere with my mission.
Speaker:Not even myself.
Speaker:Now to close I just wanted to share something.
Speaker:I had the opportunity to do a presentation called discover the hidden order that
Speaker:unites and empowers us all. I was a little wild and on fire. I think,
Speaker:I don't know, people thought, wow, their comments were 'wow, blown away',
Speaker:kind of thing.
Speaker:It may be something that's not inspiring to you. I don't know.
Speaker:But all I know is if you want to find out how the hidden order is in your life
Speaker:and see how things are on the way and discover the magnificence of your life and
Speaker:ask new sets of questions.
Speaker:So you're not letting the outside world and the apparent chaos interfere with
Speaker:what you really want in your heart. Please take advantage of this. It's free.
Speaker:Get this, take advantage of this is a very powerful presentation I did.
Speaker:I promise you it'll blow you away.
Speaker:It's about discovering the hidden order in the chaos.
Speaker:And I went down the rabbit hole. I went deeper than typical. So please get it.
Speaker:Even if you're not ready for it, just get it.
Speaker:You're going to say thank you for getting it. And,
Speaker:I just want you to listen to that maybe more than once.
Speaker:Cause if you're interested in waking up your genius,
Speaker:if you're wanting to find the hidden order,
Speaker:if you want to be individuals that are inspired by your life,
Speaker:I believe that that little presentation I did will be a very valuable.
Speaker:Pardon my sniffles a bit,
Speaker:but I sometimes when I share that it kind of gets to me.
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