Welcome to Love Notes from Rhonda.

And today I want to tell you and remind you about the truth of who you really are.

See, what I know to be true is that you have everything you need in order to succeed, that you have everything you need in order to become the person you were born to be.

You have everything you need in order to live the life your soul intended.

Now, you might be thinking to yourself, well, Rhonda, but I need money.

And I need more confidence.

And I need.

Yes, I understand there are tools that could support you.

There are skills you could use.

There are insights that could awaken.

Yes, all of that is true.

But what I want you to hear, besides the skills and the tools and the awakening, is that inside, inside, already you have everything you need in order to become who you were born to be.

And yes, in order to become that person, in order to claim that person, in order to own the truth of who you really are, you must ask yourself, what skills do I need?

What tools could I use?

Where have I been lying to myself?

Where do I need to wake up?

Where do I have to admit the truth?

See, this is what I know to be true is that sometimes a lie is so seductive that the truth seemed so hard to swallow that we choose the lie over the truth.

And today I'm asking you to contemplate, to think about, where have you lied to yourself?

Where have you believed a belief?

Where have you been indulging that victim consciousness?

So what do I mean by that?

And Jezebel is agreeing with me, if you can hear her.

So what do I mean by that?

Indulging?

Right.

Well, it's a lot easier to stay as we are than to change.

It's just easier to stay as we are than to change.

Because in order to change, we must admit that we need more support, more guidance, more tools, more skills, more awakening, more of the things to unleash our true potential, unleash the true essence of who we really are.

I know for most of my life, I wanted to believe the lie.

I wanted to believe the lie that, you know, watching my parents die would cause me to be a certain type of person the rest of my life.

That that was the punishment that I had to take on.

The shame, the guilt, all of that was mine to deal with, right?

Or mine to car.

And when I started realizing, when I started having the awakening of the realization of knowing that I could decide who I wanted to be, that I could decide how I wanted to show up in this world, that my past no longer dictated my future, that my past was no longer the decision maker for me.

That I could decide.

The awakened me, the real me, the true me, the loving me, the kind me, the powerful me, the empowered me, the awakened me could decide.

That was when everything changed.

But I had to be willing to tell myself the truth.

The truth that I was sleeping.

That I was sleeping in this world, wanting to change, wanting to move forward, but not necessarily knowing how to do it.

And it came with the first thing I had to do is decide.

So today I ask you to think about what you want to decide.

How, how you wanna decide, how you want your decisions to be.

Do you want your decisions to keep reinforcing?

That the past is the truth of who you are?

That everything that you've done that you don't like, don't appreciate, wish you could change, that is who you are.

Do you wanna keep believing and validating those negative self talk is who you are.

Do you wanna keep validating and affirming that the feelings that I don't have enough or the feeling of if I could only be better, the feeling that I'm just desperate, the feeling of lack and limitation, do you want that to make decisions for you?

Now all of those things are meant to inspire, motivate and move you into a new place.

Yet they can also keep you stuck.

So you get to decide today.

You get to decide today.

So I invite you, decide.

Decide who is going to run your life today.

Decide.

Is it the truth of who you are, the real you, the truth of who you really are?

Or is it the past that's going to decide what's going to decide?

It's all in your power and all in your hands.

Until next time, be fearless.

I love you.