1 00:00:00,270 --> 00:00:06,360 I live with ADHD and I have since I was a little kid back then, it was 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:11,070 something that I was really ashamed of that was untreated, unaddressed, 3 00:00:11,550 --> 00:00:15,690 and affected me in a myriad of ways. 4 00:00:16,620 --> 00:00:21,270 I look back at that time and I recognize that the adults in my life 5 00:00:21,270 --> 00:00:23,700 didn't really know what to do with me. 6 00:00:24,210 --> 00:00:25,500 They didn't know how. 7 00:00:27,010 --> 00:00:33,270 Approach ADHD in a way that was positive and I feel like there 8 00:00:33,270 --> 00:00:34,830 was a real disservice around it. 9 00:00:34,830 --> 00:00:40,920 Certainly a lot of stigmas internalized and otherwise it translated into 10 00:00:41,070 --> 00:00:46,110 behavioral issues, into anxiety and coupled with the adverse childhood 11 00:00:46,110 --> 00:00:52,356 experiences, that I had resulted in a, a pretty traumatic educational experience. 12 00:00:53,166 --> 00:00:59,736 Certainly primary and secondary school were not positive and led 13 00:00:59,736 --> 00:01:04,326 largely to my decision not to continue formal education after high school. 14 00:01:04,566 --> 00:01:11,466 I love to learn and have found ways to help myself learn over the 15 00:01:11,471 --> 00:01:17,496 years and as an adult, but I still have challenges around ADHD now. 16 00:01:17,496 --> 00:01:21,756 However, I see it more as my super. 17 00:01:22,596 --> 00:01:30,726 And as a really fantastic opportunity for me to engage my brain on a lot of 18 00:01:30,726 --> 00:01:36,456 different levels, I've had to learn strategies for this, and I wanna 19 00:01:36,456 --> 00:01:40,566 share some of them with you in the hopes that whether or not you have 20 00:01:40,596 --> 00:01:48,186 adhd, you'll be able to find more effective ways of getting more done 21 00:01:48,726 --> 00:01:52,116 and hopefully understanding better. 22 00:01:52,521 --> 00:01:56,361 Those, maybe yourself and those who have ADHD in your life. 23 00:01:59,241 --> 00:02:01,311 Welcome to Passion and Profits Without Burnout. 24 00:02:01,641 --> 00:02:02,871 I'm your host, Jacob Moore. 25 00:02:03,501 --> 00:02:08,361 I'm a speaker, coach, childhood suicide loss survivor and filmmaker who left 26 00:02:08,366 --> 00:02:10,791 Hollywood to follow my heart of service. 27 00:02:11,351 --> 00:02:15,011 I've helped tens of thousands of people find the balance in their 28 00:02:15,011 --> 00:02:18,251 life between passion and profits. 29 00:02:18,281 --> 00:02:22,631 On the show, I'm gonna teach you how to build a trauma responsive, 30 00:02:23,361 --> 00:02:28,691 resilient, and impactful community and organization, all without burning out. 31 00:02:29,441 --> 00:02:30,491 Let's get started. 32 00:02:35,961 --> 00:02:40,971 I just want to preface this by saying that I'm not a, a medical doctor, 33 00:02:41,781 --> 00:02:43,101 not a healthcare professional. 34 00:02:43,161 --> 00:02:44,541 I'm not a mental health professional. 35 00:02:44,961 --> 00:02:47,631 I come from a lived experience perspective. 36 00:02:47,691 --> 00:02:53,560 I offer peer support and mentorship and, I'm also unmedicated as 37 00:02:53,565 --> 00:02:54,890 far as pharmaceuticals go. 38 00:02:54,890 --> 00:02:55,835 when it comes to a d h. 39 00:02:56,509 --> 00:03:01,189 However, my, you know, wife takes pharmaceuticals for D H D and that's 40 00:03:01,189 --> 00:03:06,589 something that is a really positive experience for her and I think is, 41 00:03:06,608 --> 00:03:08,018 the right choice for a lot of people. 42 00:03:08,438 --> 00:03:13,178 Today we're gonna be talking about strategies that are related to 43 00:03:13,568 --> 00:03:20,078 focus and productivity to help you regardless of how you are addressing 44 00:03:20,408 --> 00:03:23,258 your attention or lack thereof. 45 00:03:24,533 --> 00:03:30,805 If you find it difficult to figure out tasks, which ones to pick. 46 00:03:31,105 --> 00:03:35,995 If you get anxious about making the right choice, if you feel like 47 00:03:35,995 --> 00:03:40,945 you're always procrastinating, if it's normal for you to do a dozen 48 00:03:40,945 --> 00:03:44,395 different tasks at once and feel like you're not getting anything done, if 49 00:03:44,395 --> 00:03:47,635 you feel like you get overwhelmed a. 50 00:03:48,285 --> 00:03:56,321 Then you are experiencing a lot of, the symptoms of ADHD and these 51 00:03:56,321 --> 00:03:58,301 things can make you feel frustrated. 52 00:03:58,301 --> 00:03:58,691 I know. 53 00:03:58,691 --> 00:03:59,081 It does. 54 00:03:59,081 --> 00:04:04,541 For me, I have a lot of irritation with myself and, you know, over the 55 00:04:04,546 --> 00:04:08,381 years have felt really disappointed in myself and there's a lot of shame 56 00:04:08,381 --> 00:04:15,011 that sometimes comes with this, this idea or this inability to focus. 57 00:04:15,011 --> 00:04:15,431 Like I'd like. 58 00:04:16,371 --> 00:04:23,691 But being hard on myself doesn't get things done, and being hard on yourself 59 00:04:23,721 --> 00:04:26,721 isn't going to help you get more done. 60 00:04:27,401 --> 00:04:34,221 In fact, it will lead to possibly a shame spiral where it in fact has the 61 00:04:34,221 --> 00:04:36,171 inverse effect of getting things done. 62 00:04:36,681 --> 00:04:38,495 And, that, well, that's not helpful for anybody. 63 00:04:38,555 --> 00:04:40,235 So put together this list. 64 00:04:41,405 --> 00:04:44,285 These strategies to help you get more done. 65 00:04:44,585 --> 00:04:48,215 Again, regardless of whether or not you live with a d h, adhd. 66 00:04:48,455 --> 00:04:56,454 So the first one, may sound pretty simple and intuitive, but getting back 67 00:04:56,454 --> 00:05:02,784 to the basics I find can be a really helpful place to start when feeling this 68 00:05:02,784 --> 00:05:07,194 frustration or overwhelm or just having a. 69 00:05:07,814 --> 00:05:10,364 Challenge with deciding where to begin. 70 00:05:10,964 --> 00:05:17,324 And that is breaking down big tasks into smaller tasks. 71 00:05:17,534 --> 00:05:22,184 When you have adhd, it can be difficult to focus on the big picture. 72 00:05:22,574 --> 00:05:25,094 That can be fun and ideation is great. 73 00:05:25,154 --> 00:05:28,694 but when it comes down to actually productivity, it can be challenging. 74 00:05:28,699 --> 00:05:33,254 So when you start to feel that overwhelm coming on, and, and this 75 00:05:33,254 --> 00:05:35,474 is even for people without adhd. 76 00:05:37,179 --> 00:05:40,689 Leads to your brain actually shutting down and making you feel 77 00:05:40,689 --> 00:05:42,129 like you want to run and hide. 78 00:05:43,089 --> 00:05:44,349 I e procrastination. 79 00:05:44,349 --> 00:05:48,909 Have you ever pushed your list off to the point or ditched 80 00:05:48,914 --> 00:05:50,139 something at the last minute? 81 00:05:50,379 --> 00:05:54,279 This often happens, you know, with things that are, you know, 82 00:05:54,609 --> 00:05:59,289 large projects or tasks where you just throw it away all together. 83 00:06:00,159 --> 00:06:04,029 That's definitely a sign that overwhelm is happening. 84 00:06:04,269 --> 00:06:10,104 So, For people who don't have ADHD or HA who have great organizational 85 00:06:10,104 --> 00:06:12,204 skillsets, it's a pretty simple process. 86 00:06:12,204 --> 00:06:19,944 You have a to-do list on one side, and you move the block from the 87 00:06:19,944 --> 00:06:22,534 to-do list over to a done list. 88 00:06:23,124 --> 00:06:27,294 You take one thing and you move it over, and you take one thing and 89 00:06:27,294 --> 00:06:29,814 you move it over and you get it done, and you get it done right. 90 00:06:30,144 --> 00:06:32,964 It's just a, a simple, straightforward process. 91 00:06:33,489 --> 00:06:40,239 So I hear for those of us who have adhd, when you are looking at this to-do 92 00:06:40,239 --> 00:06:46,839 list, it's not these individual blocks that are tasks that are broken down. 93 00:06:47,589 --> 00:06:50,379 It, the entire list is. 94 00:06:50,934 --> 00:06:54,054 One thing, one big thing. 95 00:06:54,054 --> 00:06:59,724 So even if you have multiple things on a to-do list, the the list itself is one big 96 00:06:59,784 --> 00:07:07,464 overwhelming thing and oftentimes there's this feeling of you have to do all of it. 97 00:07:08,154 --> 00:07:09,954 or else you have failed. 98 00:07:10,134 --> 00:07:15,654 If you don't get everything done on a list, then you have failed and that all 99 00:07:15,654 --> 00:07:21,954 or nothing mentality is very overwhelming and a lot of time leads to shutdown. 100 00:07:21,959 --> 00:07:27,984 So when you break down, A big task into smaller tasks and you, you 101 00:07:28,424 --> 00:07:31,494 actually go through the process of imagining yourself completing them. 102 00:07:31,584 --> 00:07:38,274 Then you start to start to see them not as this big nebulous thing, but 103 00:07:38,694 --> 00:07:40,704 as the individual tasks that they are. 104 00:07:41,034 --> 00:07:45,984 If it's a time sensitive project, it can be really helpful to estimate 105 00:07:45,989 --> 00:07:52,674 how long it will take you to do each of the smaller tasks that make up. 106 00:07:53,289 --> 00:08:00,009 This larger task and assigning a planned time to each one. 107 00:08:00,549 --> 00:08:06,369 It's important though to keep some, you know, room in there for the inevitable 108 00:08:06,999 --> 00:08:11,439 time expansion that happens as you're working on tasks, because certainly 109 00:08:11,619 --> 00:08:14,829 distraction is a big part of this process. 110 00:08:15,834 --> 00:08:20,484 So if you feel like something is going to take you 20 minutes to get 111 00:08:20,484 --> 00:08:26,184 done, schedule 30 minutes just to be safe, just to give your yourself that 112 00:08:26,184 --> 00:08:32,274 buffer, because under planning time can also lead to that sense of failure, 113 00:08:32,279 --> 00:08:34,134 and that's not helpful for anyone. 114 00:08:34,809 --> 00:08:38,319 And, and generally people are going to underestimate the time that, 115 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,509 that it takes to get stuff done. 116 00:08:40,509 --> 00:08:45,279 So if you set the bar really low, each time you check something 117 00:08:45,284 --> 00:08:46,959 off a list, that's a win. 118 00:08:47,739 --> 00:08:52,149 And that is reinforcing the fact that like, hey, you can get things done, you 119 00:08:52,149 --> 00:08:54,579 can win, you can accomplish these things. 120 00:08:54,579 --> 00:08:59,441 And that's, that's really great for, from a positive psychology perspective. 121 00:08:59,966 --> 00:09:04,586 Dopamines and you know, just reinforcing the fact that like, Hey, you're good. 122 00:09:04,586 --> 00:09:05,216 You can do this. 123 00:09:05,546 --> 00:09:10,766 So, you know, each of these tiny tasks can be a single element of a 124 00:09:10,766 --> 00:09:17,126 larger project, and it can, that in and of itself can lead to overwhelm. 125 00:09:17,126 --> 00:09:23,786 So putting those, the rest of the list away and out of your site, out of your. 126 00:09:24,716 --> 00:09:29,636 Your line site can be helpful so that you can literally just focus 127 00:09:29,636 --> 00:09:31,316 on this one thing that you're doing. 128 00:09:31,946 --> 00:09:39,413 I use a tool called samma, which is, a computer program that is both on 129 00:09:39,413 --> 00:09:41,213 my, on my computer and on my phone. 130 00:09:41,693 --> 00:09:46,918 And I, I use it for, I started out with objectives that I want to accomplish 131 00:09:46,918 --> 00:09:49,318 for, a week or longer periods of time. 132 00:09:49,738 --> 00:09:53,383 And, Break that objective down into tasks. 133 00:09:53,413 --> 00:09:58,753 And then each week I'm able to, to spread those tasks out through 134 00:09:58,753 --> 00:10:00,898 the week during, time blocks. 135 00:10:01,258 --> 00:10:06,005 And that is really helpful for me to just focus on that, and I can actually 136 00:10:06,010 --> 00:10:11,165 put it on my calendar so that each one shows up when I need to address it. 137 00:10:11,285 --> 00:10:16,085 And not looking at the entire list at once is really helpful. 138 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:21,530 And again, crossing things off that to-do list one by one really gives you the 139 00:10:21,530 --> 00:10:23,900 motivation to then work on the next thing. 140 00:10:23,930 --> 00:10:29,853 I'll leave a link for Sun Samma in my, show notes here so you can check it out. 141 00:10:30,243 --> 00:10:34,307 It's a really fantastic program and, really relatively inexpensive for 142 00:10:34,307 --> 00:10:36,437 a lot of those types of programs. 143 00:10:36,647 --> 00:10:39,941 So, the second strategy for getting more done with A D H D 144 00:10:40,301 --> 00:10:43,391 is to work in short time bursts. 145 00:10:44,501 --> 00:10:50,171 . When we manage A D H D during a time when there's so much information coming 146 00:10:50,171 --> 00:10:55,691 at us with our phones and our computers and families and TV and everything going 147 00:10:55,691 --> 00:11:00,611 on, it can feel impossible to focus when there's so many distractions all the time. 148 00:11:01,721 --> 00:11:09,851 The trick is to schedule time for both productivity and distractions so that 149 00:11:10,331 --> 00:11:16,646 when your mind wants to wander, You can just remind it that like, hey, I have a, 150 00:11:16,806 --> 00:11:20,246 an actual scheduled time of distraction coming up, so if you just hang on 151 00:11:20,246 --> 00:11:22,286 just one more minute, we'll be good. 152 00:11:22,291 --> 00:11:27,026 We can actually go and do that thing that interesting distracted thing. 153 00:11:27,776 --> 00:11:29,426 But for right now, we're gonna focus. 154 00:11:29,431 --> 00:11:31,256 So one great. 155 00:11:31,871 --> 00:11:36,551 One great strategy for working in short periods of time is a Pomodoro timer. 156 00:11:36,911 --> 00:11:39,843 So this has existed for, many, many years. 157 00:11:39,901 --> 00:11:47,251 originally in the form of a physical pomodoro, tomato shaped timer that 158 00:11:47,251 --> 00:11:50,911 like a kitchen timer that you would set for a specific amount of time. 159 00:11:51,451 --> 00:11:53,281 When it's done, you're done working. 160 00:11:53,821 --> 00:11:56,041 Now there are some great tools. 161 00:11:57,301 --> 00:12:01,111 One of them is, Pomo focus, Pomo focus.io. 162 00:12:01,411 --> 00:12:03,661 I'll leave a link for that in the show notes as well. 163 00:12:04,321 --> 00:12:10,981 And Pomodoro is, is a really a technique that is focused on 25 minutes of 164 00:12:10,986 --> 00:12:13,531 work, followed by a five minute break. 165 00:12:13,831 --> 00:12:18,331 So it's a 30 minute chunk of time, 25 minutes of work, five minute break. 166 00:12:18,421 --> 00:12:25,001 And there there's lots of apps and opportunities to use a Pomodoro. 167 00:12:25,711 --> 00:12:27,871 It also gives you a transition between tasks. 168 00:12:27,931 --> 00:12:34,411 So if you put tasks that take a lot of mental brain power and you do those 169 00:12:34,411 --> 00:12:39,841 first, then you know, giving yourself that break afterward and transitioning 170 00:12:39,846 --> 00:12:46,171 to something that like maybe takes men less mental power, you're going to be 171 00:12:46,171 --> 00:12:51,961 using your mental energy more efficiently and giving your brain that break that 172 00:12:51,961 --> 00:12:54,451 it needs as you transition before tasks. 173 00:12:55,111 --> 00:12:58,021 So, you know, can always take more time. 174 00:12:58,411 --> 00:13:03,096 The 25 5 is, you know, something that is, generally accepted. 175 00:13:03,096 --> 00:13:07,926 But if you can focus for 45 minutes and then take 15 minutes off, great. 176 00:13:08,346 --> 00:13:12,846 If you need to, you know, work for 15 minutes and take five 177 00:13:12,846 --> 00:13:14,076 minutes off, that's fine too. 178 00:13:14,466 --> 00:13:16,566 But use that break wisely. 179 00:13:17,676 --> 00:13:17,756 Actually. 180 00:13:17,761 --> 00:13:19,866 Get up and get away from your work. 181 00:13:20,376 --> 00:13:22,386 Go take a walk. 182 00:13:22,866 --> 00:13:24,126 Make yourself some tea. 183 00:13:24,696 --> 00:13:28,506 If you wanna get on social media, if you wanna talk to people, you can do that. 184 00:13:28,836 --> 00:13:35,226 But just note that things that are, you know, distractions are hard to 185 00:13:35,231 --> 00:13:40,986 come back from that really engage your brain like short social media clips, or 186 00:13:40,986 --> 00:13:45,126 scrolling through pictures or lots of interactions or information coming at you. 187 00:13:45,996 --> 00:13:51,756 May actually lead to more distraction, so use that time 188 00:13:51,756 --> 00:13:54,426 wisely and as works best for you. 189 00:13:54,786 --> 00:13:59,436 All right, let's move on to the third strategy for being 190 00:13:59,436 --> 00:14:01,056 more productive with A D H D. 191 00:14:01,416 --> 00:14:05,556 And this is to set a time limit for a task. 192 00:14:06,471 --> 00:14:09,291 This is also known as time boxing. 193 00:14:09,741 --> 00:14:14,361 So people with H ADHD are often perfectionist and tend to 194 00:14:14,631 --> 00:14:17,721 overcompensate for the ADHD symptoms. 195 00:14:19,251 --> 00:14:22,161 Because they see them as behavior flaws. 196 00:14:22,311 --> 00:14:26,301 I know I did for a long time, and I, I really saw it as like a, a 197 00:14:26,306 --> 00:14:28,191 behavioral or even a character flaw. 198 00:14:28,881 --> 00:14:32,571 But that's why sometimes even with a Pomodoro technique, 199 00:14:32,576 --> 00:14:34,641 you can get stuck on a task. 200 00:14:35,211 --> 00:14:38,661 For example, you might keep working on a presentation. 201 00:14:39,481 --> 00:14:46,231 For all of the Pomodoros, those 25 minute slots, and you might 202 00:14:46,381 --> 00:14:48,181 fill up an entire day with that. 203 00:14:49,261 --> 00:14:53,611 It's challenging when you want something to be perfect and you can, and you 204 00:14:53,616 --> 00:14:56,461 keep working on it, keep working on it, keep working on it, and it's 205 00:14:56,466 --> 00:15:00,001 hard to remember that sometimes, like enough is just good enough. 206 00:15:00,841 --> 00:15:02,381 This podcast is a great example. 207 00:15:03,121 --> 00:15:05,911 It's so hard for me not to stop. 208 00:15:07,026 --> 00:15:09,246 Rerecord and do that from the very beginning. 209 00:15:09,336 --> 00:15:13,326 You know, I hear my son in the background and I'm like, oh my gosh, that's 210 00:15:13,326 --> 00:15:14,826 gonna bleed through on the recording. 211 00:15:14,826 --> 00:15:19,296 And the voiceover artist in me and the, you know, audio nerd guy in 212 00:15:19,296 --> 00:15:22,266 me is like, I have to have clean audio and that's not gonna work. 213 00:15:23,331 --> 00:15:25,161 I flubbed this sentence. 214 00:15:25,191 --> 00:15:28,557 I said like an so many times that people are gonna think I'm dumb. 215 00:15:28,767 --> 00:15:30,657 I have to restart this, right? 216 00:15:31,197 --> 00:15:33,207 Perfectionism can be a poison. 217 00:15:33,597 --> 00:15:35,517 So how do we avoid this from happening? 218 00:15:36,057 --> 00:15:38,187 The answer is time boxing. 219 00:15:38,847 --> 00:15:43,977 Which is to allocate a fixed period of time for a planned activity, and 220 00:15:43,977 --> 00:15:49,197 then put it in your calendar and just like when you're scheduling a meeting, 221 00:15:49,497 --> 00:15:52,107 once that block of time is done. 222 00:15:52,602 --> 00:15:53,172 that's it. 223 00:15:53,412 --> 00:15:54,162 You it. 224 00:15:54,162 --> 00:15:56,472 It's in there like a meeting, like an important meeting that you 225 00:15:56,472 --> 00:16:00,222 can't cancel, you can't reschedule, and you cannot be distracted. 226 00:16:00,222 --> 00:16:04,032 During that meeting, you are meeting with the boss or the client, or the person 227 00:16:04,032 --> 00:16:05,442 who is going to determine your fate. 228 00:16:05,712 --> 00:16:07,632 This meeting is set in your calendar. 229 00:16:08,022 --> 00:16:11,532 This box of time cannot be moved and. 230 00:16:12,102 --> 00:16:13,992 You can't work any more than that. 231 00:16:14,562 --> 00:16:18,072 It's a meeting that has to finish at a certain time because that person 232 00:16:18,072 --> 00:16:20,082 has to get on a plane and leave. 233 00:16:20,142 --> 00:16:22,362 And this is your time, this is your shot. 234 00:16:22,992 --> 00:16:25,902 This way you can really see how much time you're dedicating to a 235 00:16:25,902 --> 00:16:28,212 task and not go overboard on it. 236 00:16:28,662 --> 00:16:29,652 So here's an example. 237 00:16:29,652 --> 00:16:32,892 You have a presentation for work, and it's due in two days and in your 238 00:16:32,892 --> 00:16:35,562 calendar you block out six Pomodoros. 239 00:16:35,562 --> 00:16:37,812 So that's two and a half hours for this. 240 00:16:38,607 --> 00:16:44,277 That's due on Tuesday afternoon, and then on Wednesday you can block 241 00:16:44,277 --> 00:16:48,957 off maybe one podo to review it and make any necessary changes. 242 00:16:49,437 --> 00:16:55,647 So you've put in an adequate amount of time to get a presentation done, 243 00:16:56,097 --> 00:16:58,827 but knowing that you only have two and a half hours, there are 244 00:16:58,827 --> 00:17:03,597 some things that a perfectionist mind is just going to have to say. 245 00:17:04,767 --> 00:17:08,607 I gotta set that down and move on for the sake of getting it done in 246 00:17:08,607 --> 00:17:11,787 this time period, and then still having the opportunity to review 247 00:17:11,787 --> 00:17:16,287 it or tweak it on a separate day when you have fresh eyes on it. 248 00:17:17,217 --> 00:17:21,537 The thing that I always remind myself with these kind of situations is this 249 00:17:21,537 --> 00:17:26,937 presentation may be what I am sharing right now today, but I still have the 250 00:17:26,937 --> 00:17:28,827 opportunity to go back and tweak it later. 251 00:17:28,827 --> 00:17:32,727 So if I want to add more Pomodoro, I can do that. 252 00:17:32,757 --> 00:17:36,627 If I want to add more time to work on something later, I can do that and 253 00:17:36,627 --> 00:17:39,627 still have it be perfect in the future. 254 00:17:39,807 --> 00:17:44,637 But for right now, it needs to be good enough because there are other things 255 00:17:44,637 --> 00:17:46,437 in my day that I need to attend to. 256 00:17:46,437 --> 00:17:53,217 And if I spend eight hours focused on one presentation, then what else is getting 257 00:17:53,307 --> 00:17:57,927 left over and what else is just getting backlogged that I'm gonna have to deal? 258 00:17:58,287 --> 00:17:59,307 Anyway at another time. 259 00:17:59,637 --> 00:18:05,427 So what if even after organizing your list and setting time limit 260 00:18:05,427 --> 00:18:10,167 for each task, you still still don't feel motivated to get started? 261 00:18:10,677 --> 00:18:13,227 Are there ways to address that obstacle? 262 00:18:13,437 --> 00:18:18,230 Well, let's, let's find out, here's another strategy for, getting more done, 263 00:18:18,980 --> 00:18:24,590 perhaps working from home or working. 264 00:18:25,010 --> 00:18:28,760 In an office is a challenging environment for you. 265 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:32,330 Depending on how your brain is, maybe being in a social environment 266 00:18:32,330 --> 00:18:33,650 is challenging for you to focus. 267 00:18:33,890 --> 00:18:38,570 Maybe being by yourself and being alone and distracted is a challenge for you. 268 00:18:39,020 --> 00:18:44,360 So there's an opportunity for you to connect with like-minded fellow people 269 00:18:44,990 --> 00:18:48,500 by joining a virtual co-working space. 270 00:18:48,980 --> 00:18:51,830 If procrastinating is stopping you from getting work done, 271 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,080 then this strategy is great for. 272 00:18:55,175 --> 00:18:59,945 , find someone who needs to get work done as well, and then 273 00:19:00,155 --> 00:19:01,955 work with them in real time. 274 00:19:02,405 --> 00:19:07,085 They don't have to help you with your task or vice versa, but they can work 275 00:19:07,085 --> 00:19:08,945 on their tasks while you work on yours. 276 00:19:09,065 --> 00:19:15,155 And it's an accountability co-working session, and it works because. 277 00:19:16,370 --> 00:19:20,930 provides this connection and accountability and focus and sort of this 278 00:19:20,930 --> 00:19:27,170 like idea of, of someone else, you know, watching you or keeping tabs on you and 279 00:19:27,500 --> 00:19:29,780 they can help you get more work done. 280 00:19:30,230 --> 00:19:35,240 So, having a virtual session and getting like work partners, it, it 281 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:38,570 signals your brain that it's time to work and time to get stuff done 282 00:19:38,990 --> 00:19:41,530 and can help you be less distracted. 283 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:48,080 And then when you commit to working with someone, Then when your tasks are done, 284 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:54,110 you're more likely to like follow through and actually keep your promises to them. 285 00:19:54,590 --> 00:19:58,176 If you're interested in, virtual coworking sessions, there's a great. 286 00:19:58,941 --> 00:20:01,341 Place called Flow Club that you can check out. 287 00:20:01,671 --> 00:20:07,641 It's an online co-working community and the entire process is guided by a host, so 288 00:20:08,271 --> 00:20:13,101 you don't have to figure out anything in order to get all of the benefits from it. 289 00:20:13,461 --> 00:20:19,941 I'm actually gonna share one, one bonus focus technique here that is like 290 00:20:20,211 --> 00:20:24,411 pretty simple for me, but it really, it's really helpful and that's ritual. 291 00:20:24,921 --> 00:20:25,371 Ritual. 292 00:20:25,371 --> 00:20:25,551 And. 293 00:20:26,646 --> 00:20:32,406 Help me put my brain into the focus and, flow mode. 294 00:20:32,856 --> 00:20:37,236 So for me, it's, you know, coming in my office or going to a cafe 295 00:20:37,746 --> 00:20:44,436 and sitting down, having my water, putting in my noise, canceling ear 296 00:20:44,496 --> 00:20:48,216 buds, putting on a specific playlist. 297 00:20:48,756 --> 00:20:51,006 So I use the same playlist every time. 298 00:20:51,006 --> 00:20:53,916 It's, it's time for me to focus. 299 00:20:54,276 --> 00:20:54,966 I use. 300 00:20:55,611 --> 00:21:01,251 Sulf edge frequencies, so I'll use alpha, beta, theta different, 301 00:21:01,281 --> 00:21:05,931 not . It's not a, not a, a Greek order, but they're frequencies. 302 00:21:06,501 --> 00:21:11,931 That actually program your brain for focus and attention and when you're 303 00:21:11,931 --> 00:21:15,981 getting into, and, and different ones can be used for different types of focus. 304 00:21:16,011 --> 00:21:19,679 I think I'm gonna do, an actual episode on, the Soul Edge frequencies 305 00:21:19,679 --> 00:21:23,039 because they're fascinating and the way that it helps your brain, 306 00:21:23,086 --> 00:21:26,254 actually get into different states, whether that's hyper-focused or 307 00:21:26,254 --> 00:21:29,044 creativity is, is really, really cool. 308 00:21:30,454 --> 00:21:33,154 You know, then I'll, I'll put on, you know, specific music. 309 00:21:33,484 --> 00:21:40,084 I have my yellow legal notepad with my red pen, and that's 310 00:21:40,084 --> 00:21:42,634 my process every single time. 311 00:21:43,024 --> 00:21:47,824 If I'm doing any sort of creativity and ideation, big St. 312 00:21:47,914 --> 00:21:49,864 Big, you know, brainstorming stuff, you, you can't see it. 313 00:21:49,864 --> 00:21:54,064 But on the other side of my office here is this gigantic whiteboard. 314 00:21:54,454 --> 00:21:55,174 Same thing. 315 00:21:55,624 --> 00:21:57,544 I, I clear it all off. 316 00:21:58,414 --> 00:22:02,224 I, I have my red sharpie, or not Sharpie. 317 00:22:02,914 --> 00:22:03,784 It's a, it's a whiteboard. 318 00:22:04,084 --> 00:22:06,214 My, my dry erase marker. 319 00:22:06,312 --> 00:22:10,572 it's in red and that's what I use to brainstorm and that's what I 320 00:22:10,572 --> 00:22:13,032 use to get all of my thoughts. 321 00:22:13,032 --> 00:22:13,722 Just dump it down. 322 00:22:14,532 --> 00:22:18,822 But what I'm getting at here is ritual and routine can be really helpful 323 00:22:18,822 --> 00:22:23,442 for getting our brain signaling our brain that, Hey, it's time to focus. 324 00:22:23,832 --> 00:22:31,572 This is how I have made a D H D, my superpower, understanding that 325 00:22:31,577 --> 00:22:36,552 I have so much in my brain, so many thoughts, so many ideas, instead of. 326 00:22:37,422 --> 00:22:40,032 seeing that as a negative thing or somehow a flaw. 327 00:22:40,602 --> 00:22:47,562 Now I celebrate it and I say, yeah, this can be frustrating at times, but if I 328 00:22:48,102 --> 00:22:56,202 push myself to use the way that my brain works to actually get more accomplished, 329 00:22:56,682 --> 00:22:58,722 it's a really, it's a beautiful thing. 330 00:22:59,967 --> 00:23:06,147 I can use strategy and I can maximize productivity, but it's, it's important for 331 00:23:06,147 --> 00:23:13,047 me to also just allow my brain to do what it naturally wants to do sometimes and not 332 00:23:13,377 --> 00:23:16,317 always force it into a focused strategy. 333 00:23:16,587 --> 00:23:21,147 It's important to be aware of burnout as well, especially. 334 00:23:21,842 --> 00:23:27,092 if you experience hyperfocus as a symptom of adhd, cuz that 335 00:23:27,212 --> 00:23:28,442 that can be the flip side of it. 336 00:23:28,832 --> 00:23:33,992 So make sure that you schedule downtime as well and let your, your brain 337 00:23:33,992 --> 00:23:38,612 during a certain time of each day, and certainly at least one day a week just. 338 00:23:39,582 --> 00:23:41,772 B, just do what it's gonna do. 339 00:23:42,042 --> 00:23:46,722 So along with those strategies that I mentioned before, you should also carve 340 00:23:46,722 --> 00:23:52,182 out some time each day, 10 to 15 minutes at the end of each day, or an hour, 341 00:23:52,212 --> 00:23:56,982 hour and a half each week to reflect on how you manage your time and work. 342 00:23:57,527 --> 00:23:59,477 Don't just think about areas of improvement, but 343 00:23:59,477 --> 00:24:01,247 celebrate those wins as well. 344 00:24:01,577 --> 00:24:06,167 Those things that you have, have worked on and those tasks that you have accomplished 345 00:24:06,727 --> 00:24:09,257 are, are, are worthy of being celebrated. 346 00:24:09,257 --> 00:24:13,487 And the more you do that and the more you have that ritual, that shutdown ritual at 347 00:24:13,487 --> 00:24:18,917 the end of your day and week, just like a planning session, set your brain up for 348 00:24:18,917 --> 00:24:23,177 success the next time It doesn't need to. 349 00:24:24,102 --> 00:24:25,002 Such a struggle. 350 00:24:25,002 --> 00:24:29,562 We don't have to fight against h d or fuels out-of-box thinking and 351 00:24:29,562 --> 00:24:34,602 creativity and keeps you full of energy and enables you to even focus 352 00:24:34,602 --> 00:24:36,522 and thrive with deep work as well. 353 00:24:36,792 --> 00:24:41,641 So I hope that these tips have been helpful and I hope that, just 354 00:24:41,671 --> 00:24:46,102 talking about a d h ADHD and sharing, openly is helpful for you as. 355 00:24:46,702 --> 00:24:50,282 So, please leave your your comments on, on this show. 356 00:24:50,612 --> 00:24:53,432 I would love to know what strategies are helpful for you. 357 00:24:53,582 --> 00:24:57,697 If you have ideas for me to share, in future episodes, let me know. 358 00:24:57,697 --> 00:25:02,254 I'm happy to explore opportunities for, for new, new ideas. 359 00:25:02,254 --> 00:25:04,384 And I love this self experimentation as well. 360 00:25:04,384 --> 00:25:06,724 So send him my way and let's check him out. 361 00:25:07,384 --> 00:25:07,684 All right. 362 00:25:07,864 --> 00:25:08,404 That's it for. 363 00:25:08,849 --> 00:25:11,729 Thanks so much and until next time, be well. 364 00:25:14,909 --> 00:25:17,819 Thanks so much for listening to Passion and Profits Without Burnout. 365 00:25:18,209 --> 00:25:21,209 I hope that you found some impactful takeaways, and if you 366 00:25:21,209 --> 00:25:22,889 did, I'd love to hear from you. 367 00:25:23,279 --> 00:25:27,569 Share a screenshot on your IG story, tag me or send me a quick message. 368 00:25:27,869 --> 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