You have the power to
change your perceptions.
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I want you to know you have that power,
because that can change your life.
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You probably heard out in the
literature or on television,
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so-and-so had a biochemical imbalance.
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And the model today for depression
is the biochemical model.
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That started around:and has been partly debunked
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more recently.
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I'd like to address the power you have
in transforming your neurochemistry,
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your brain chemistry.
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If you perceive something on
the outside of you is supporting
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you and it activates the
parasympathetic nervous
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system, which is a rest and digest
aspect of your autonomic nervous system,
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you relax, you feel
comfortable, you feel at ease.
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And your neurochemistry gets an
increase in dopamine and encephalons
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and oxytocin and vasopressin,
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estrogen and acetylcholine.
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And you get a series of chemistries that
go up and rise when you feel supported.
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When somebody praises you and supports
you and makes your life easier,
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these chemistries go up.
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If somebody comes along and challenges
you and criticizes you and really makes
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it challenging in some way in your life,
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your testosterone goes
up, your cortisol goes up,
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your osteocalcin goes up,
your histamine goes up,
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your substance p goes up, your
adrenaline and noradrenaline goes up,
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and the other chemistries go down.
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And these changes in your
chemistry, neurochemistry,
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can change within 200 milliseconds.
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I use the analogy if a tiger was
to jump through a room and leap
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towards you with salivating fangs, and
it looks like it's about to eat you,
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the osteocalcin, testosterone
and substance p and, you know,
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all the chemistry of fight or flight
is going to be surging within the
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moment you perceive it and
are consciously aware of it,
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those chemistries are changing.
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But if all of a sudden the
tiger stopped midstream,
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I got a men in black pen and stopped it,
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and you did your
neurochemistry and measured it,
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you would find it skewed over towards
the sympathetic side and you'd see
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dopamine all suppressed and encephalon
suppressed, acetylcholine suppressed,
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et cetera. And so the chemistries are
changing literally based on perception.
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The ratio of your perceptions
are affecting the ratios
of your neurochemistries.
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Now,
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if all of a sudden I did that
men in black pen and reactivated
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it, and now the tiger stops, stands up,
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puts his arms around you,
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holds you up and hugs you
and says, you're great,
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I'm Tony Tiger.
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And as a child you always wanted to eat
frosted flakes and you wanted to meet
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Tony Tiger, he was your childhood hero.
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Now your chemistry is reversed and
now you feel supported and now you get
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complete change in 200 milliseconds.
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So your chemistry is changing based
on your ratios of perceptions.
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If you perceive something supporting
it, the chemistry goes in one direction.
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If you see something challenging,
it goes in another direction.
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And it changes clearly faster
than you can blink an eye.
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But what's interesting is,
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this thing is fluctuating based
on your ratios throughout the day,
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as you're having things occur
that you're not expecting,
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that's not meeting expectation,
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you get the fight or flight
responses and those chemistries.
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If something exceeds your expectation,
you're very joyful about it,
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it gets another set of chemistries.
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Every ratio of your perception of
what's going on changes your chemistry.
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If I say something around you that's
really supportive and makes you feel proud
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of yourself, your serotonin's going up.
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If I say something makes you feel
ashamed, your serotonin goes down.
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If I say something that makes you
fight or flight, your glucagon goes up,
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your adrenaline goes up, your blood
pressure tightens and goes up,
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your blood sugar goes up,
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and your blood circulation
and heart rate goes up.
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Your chemistry is changing
those immediately, like that,
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in about a billionth of a second,
200 milliseconds they say.
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But what's interesting is I'm sure you've
had a situation where you're sitting
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in home on a Saturday or Sunday,
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you're married and you've
had a fight with your spouse,
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and you're having a go at each other,
you're having a yelling match going on.
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And all of a sudden the
doorbell ring, ding-dong,
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and you stop what you're
doing, you freeze that,
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you go to the door, you
haven't completed the argument,
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you're still frustrated.
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You go to the door and a friend of yours
you hadn't seen in 20 years comes to
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the door. Well, I was in the neighborhood,
stopped by and everything else,
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and you put on a smile and you
kind of fake it till you make it,
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and you go there and you're
playing a nice thing and you know,
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you're trying to put that on hold.
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And then what happens is the person leaves
an hour later, you had a great time,
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it kind of changed your mood a little bit,
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but you didn't want to
talk to your spouse.
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You still were upset and you festered
on it, and then you didn't work it out.
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And the next day you went to work and
you went out shopping or whatever and you
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still didn't work it out. You never
rebalanced that. And it's stored there.
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And those stored memories
that are still imbalanced,
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that are stored in the subconscious mind,
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which when the amygdala is seeing
an imbalanced ratio of perceptions,
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it goes to the hippocampus and
assigns a valency, a charge on it,
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it stores it in those memories for
short term, for survival mechanisms,
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and it sits there. And while it's there,
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it's throwing your
chemistry out of balance.
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And so stored subconscious baggage
that's never been brought back into
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balance, that's sitting
there and festering inside,
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fantasies or nightmares,
pleasings or displeasings,
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peace or war perceptions,
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stay in the psyche until they're brought
back into balance and seeing both sides
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simultaneously. They'll stay in
there and throw your chemistry off.
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And if you do neurochemistry
studies, you'll find, oh,
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you have a biochemical imbalance.
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They don't tell you that it stores
because of all those incomplete
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awarenesses and judgements
that you've never resolved.
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They just say you have a
brain chemistry imbalance.
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And so we need to go balance
it with neurochemistry.
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Here's a drug to take care of. Well,
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the psychology or psychiatry and
medical profession loves to promote that
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because you don't have to do anything,
they just go and try to regulate it.
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It's not as effective as resolving
your issues and balancing out your
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perceptions and returning back to
appreciation and love with each other.
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But it's a secondary thing and people
don't want to have to go be accountable,
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they want to be right, the
other person wants to be right,
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so you have this festering issue that
doesn't get dissolved. In the meantime,
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you're throwing your chemistry off and
you end up have neurological imbalance or
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neurochemical imbalance. So
I'm not into that. I'm not,
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I don't believe that the neurochemical
balancing act is going to be anywhere
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near as effective as resolving
the issue in the first place,
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and being accountable to go
back and calm down the system.
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That's why I put together the Breakthrough
Experience Program to teach people
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how to do what I call the Demartini Method
on how to dissolve and resolve those
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stored, subconsciously stored emotional
baggages that we carry around that
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imbalance our chemistry, that
throw our physiology off,
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that create signs and symptoms
psychologically and physiologically,
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and show you how to
actually dissolve them,
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how to ask the right questions to make
you fully conscious and aware of the
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balance that's there that you're
overlooking. In other words,
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whenever we judge something on the
outside that's positive or negative,
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it's because we're too humble or
too proud on the inside to admit
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we have that and we do that same
thing. You know, it was Romans 2,
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the New Testament that made a statement
that whatever you judge in others,
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you do the same things. And that's true.
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I've seen that in thousands and
thousands of cases in the Breakthrough
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Experience.
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People judge people for things and then
they don't realize it's them they're
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judging ultimately. Whatever they resent
in people on the outside is a shame,
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a thing that they're
ashamed of on the inside.
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Things they admire in someone on the
outside is a thing that they admire on the
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inside and they're proud of on the inside.
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And as long as you're proud or shamed,
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you're exaggerating and
minimizing who you are.
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And as long as you're infatuated
or resentful to others,
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you have an imbalanced idea who they are.
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And therefore you're not authentic and
you're not allowing them to be authentic.
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And there you create symptoms
and biochemical imbalances
in the brain to let you
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know that. The imbalances in
the brain are not illness,
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they're feedback mechanisms to let you
know that you don't have a balanced
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perspective.
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And they'll stay there irrespective of
time and space until you balance them.
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And if you balance them,
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the chemistry goes back into balance
and so does your psychology and
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physiological symptoms,
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and you cure yourself or heal yourself
instead of taking some medication that
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has side effects.
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So I'm a firm believer that if
you don't take command of your own
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perceptions and don't take
command of your own chemistry,
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you'll probably have a
deficiency of drugs in your mind,
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and you'll think you'll have to take
some drug to take care of it, balance it.
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But I find that most of the people that
are relying on that are just unwilling
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to actually go back and discern what
it is that's imbalanced their mind,
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it's been, they've got so many
stored in the subconscious mind,
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they're overwhelmed by all
the different judgments,
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and they're holding themselves back from
actually knowing how to dissolve them.
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That's why I put together the Breakthrough
Experience Program and the Demartini
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Method to help sift through those one
by one and methodically balancing the
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chemistries and balancing the
perceptions, the ratios of perceptions,
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then bringing them into
appreciation and love again,
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which normalizes and heals the chemistry.
And then the brain chemistry changes.
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I've had people that had their brain
chemistry and even their blood chemistries
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checked,
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and they found out that they have high
glucagon levels and they have got low
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insulin levels and they've
got signs of diabetes,
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then I go in there and find out where
they're bitter and resentful and they're
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in a fight or flight
response and challenge it,
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calm down that bitterness and resentment,
rebalance out their perception,
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and the insulin and glucagon
levels come back into balance.
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And I've seen this many times
and we've been told that, well,
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you've got a damaged pancreas and your
beta cells are not producing or whatever,
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and suddenly they're
back into balance again.
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So I'm a firm believer giving yourself
power and not robbing yourself of the
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power. And I'm not saying that
the medicine doesn't have a place.
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In some people's case, they're so far
gone that they haven't adjusted it,
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their physiology's gone
awry but in most cases,
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these people have the capacity
to bring them back into balance.
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They just don't know how and they
haven't been trained on doing it.
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And so I do my best to try to
educate them on how to do that.
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And they got nothing to lose.
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They can always go and return to the
neurochemistry that they do from the
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pharmaceutical industry,
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but you just might surprise yourself
what you might be able to do on your own,
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and get your power back. So
that's what I'm interested in.
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I'm trying to give people their power
back instead of becoming dependent.
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And in some cases, that's
exactly what happens,
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and that's the thing that's
worth the time spent. But,
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the neurochemistry is a byproduct
of your ratios of perceptions.
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Change the ratio of your perceptions,
you can change your neurochemistry.
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That's a very powerful tool.
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I have people that come into
the Breakthrough Experience
that have unrealistic
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expectations. They're depressed, they've
got clinical diagnosis, depression.
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In the Breakthrough Experience,
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I find out what are the
unrealistic expectations.
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They have usually a perception that
somebody else is supposed to be one sided
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more than another. They're
going to be nice, never mean.
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So their expectation are not met. They
feel a let down and they're depressed.
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Or they have an expectation of other
people to live in their values,
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not their own. And then they feel
again, unrealistic expectation,
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unmet expectation, anger, depression.
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And so the the body is creating that
symptom to let them know they have an
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unrealistic expectation, but nobody's
paying attention to that expectation.
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They believe that their expectations
are grounded. They're not.
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They're sometimes ridiculous
expectations I find in people that are
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clinically depressed.
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And so I go in there and I dissolve the
fantasies about how they think life's
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supposed to be and lift up the depression,
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show them the benefits of what's happening
and the drawbacks if they got what
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their fantasy was. When I bring those
into balance, the chemistry changes.
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Suddenly they're not depressed.
They go back and say, well,
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your chemistries have
changed. And I've seen that.
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So I'm certain that you have the power
inside to make a difference in your life,
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if you're willing to take the time and
do the work. I show people how to do it.
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It's up to them to do it. I help guide
them. I take them through the process.
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I balance it all out in the
Breakthrough Experience.
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And once they learn how to do
it, they can change their life.
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And they're not having to be dependent.
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I'm not a promoter of taking
a drug as the first resort.
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I think that's the last resort.
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But I am a firm believer that you can
be accountable in your life and take
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command of your expectations.
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Everybody here has had a moment
where they've had a letdown,
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they had an expectation of something
happening and they felt let down.
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But have you ever stopped and asked,
was the expectation really real?
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Was it grounded? Was it something
that was not delusional?
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And you'll find out if you're let down,
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many times it's because you
had an unrealistic expectation.
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I see this in relationships.
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I see men and women have expectations
on their spouses or boyfriends or
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girlfriends about doing certain things,
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and in the process of doing
that, they don't live up to it.
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They're now angry and bitter and they're
down and depressed and resentful.
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And it's because they have an unrealistic
expectation for that individual to
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live in that, the person
that's upset, values.
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Or that they're supposed to be
more one sided than another.
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Or I see people do it to themselves.
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They expect themselves to be one sided
more than the other or expect them to
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live outside their own values.
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There's a whole lot of unrealistic
expectations that people have.
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And then they challenge their life.
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They throw their chemistries off because
their ratios of perceptions are off,
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and then they end up having
a biochemical imbalance.
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So I'm just taking a few moments here to
kind of wake you up to the possibility
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that you have more command and more
power in your life than you thought.
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And what I do is I teach people in the
Breakthrough Experience and doing the
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Demartini Method on how to ask quality
questions that bring your neurochemistry
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back into balance by bringing your
psychology and your expectations and your
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perceptions back into balance.
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If you balance your perception and
all you have is gratitude and love,
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I take people in the
Breakthrough Experience and
they've got major resentments
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and major frustrations and setbacks and
broken hearts and all kinds of things,
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grief, and I show them how
to ask series of questions,
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balance their ratios of perception,
change the chemistry in their body,
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their physiology changes,
they have tears of gratitude,
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their heart opens to life again,
and all of a sudden, their anger,
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their depression, their
chemistries are returned to normal.
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And I see that and I go,
people deserve to know that.
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And they deserve to know they have the
power inside themselves to do something
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about it. And so that's why I'm
sharing this message here today,
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just in case you didn't know that you
have more power. Now, is it work? Sure.
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And if you don't want to do the
work, well, you'll take a drug,
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but you will have side effects.
Almost every drug has a side effects.
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Don't take a drug without
going through the PDR,
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physician's desk reference and
read all the side effects on it.
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Because you want to be informed of it,
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because sometimes you'll
have a symptom from that,
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then there'll be another drug
and then a symptom from that,
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and there'll be another drug and you'll
chase down and you'll end up with 20
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drugs as you get older. I'm trying
to give you your power back.
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I'm trying to teach you how
neurochemistry in the brain works.
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I'm trying to teach you how you have
the power to change your perceptions.
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I want you to know you have that power
because that can change your life.
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When you feel that you're dependent,
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you don't have the same positioning
in life as you do when you feel you're
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capable of taking command and
restructuring your perceptions and your
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chemistry. So I just wanted
to take a moment on there,
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on the chemistry of perceptions,
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and know that every one of the
transmitters in your brain,
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every one of the modulators, regulators,
hormones, every signal molecule,
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even signal molecules at the
cell level in the DNA level,
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even little signature molecules
going out of every cell,
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even your excretion systems,
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all cell releases are all
changed by your perception.
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Change your perception, change
your chemistry. You can actually,
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I've seen people automatically get a
headache from a change in perception and
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dissolve that headache the second they
change their perception and balance it.
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I've seen people that have
hormonal imbalances and
they've got problems getting
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pregnant.
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They change their perceptions and all of
a sudden they're able to get pregnant.
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I've seen so many changes in the
last 40 something years of doing this
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that I'm speaking out about it.
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So if you'd like to learn how to
take command and balance out your
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perception so you can have a balanced
ratio of hormones and transmitters
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on your own, come to the
Breakthrough Experience.
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Let me show you how to take resentments,
infatuations, pride, shames,
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griefs, reliefs, anything that's
an imbalanced ratio of perception,
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that making anger,
aggression, blame, betrayal,
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anything that you have false
causalities on or attribution biases on,
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that's imbalanced, I can show you how
to balance them out and result in,
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'Thank you. I love you.'
Anything that's not 'thank you,
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I love you,' is going to throw your
chemistries out. Anything that's balanced,
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that really has a deep appreciation and
you see the hidden order in your parent
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chaos is going to return your chemistries
to normal. It's going to help.
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That's why I still think that gratitude
and love are still the greatest healers
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on the planet.
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Because they help us balance out our
neurochemistry and our physical chemistry
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and helps us basically
take command of our life.
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So I just want to share
that message today.
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I know that if you come to
the Breakthrough Experience
what I'll teach you there
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will be life changing
and trajectory changing,
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and you can take command of your life.
If you don't want command of your life,
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that's another story.
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But if you want command of your life
and want to be a master of destiny,
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not a victim of history, and not want
to blame a biochemical deficiency,
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'you have a deficiency of drugs,'
that's to me is, that's insane.
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I'm haven't taken drugs in my life.
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I'm a firm believer in taking command of
my life. If you're interested in that,
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come to the Breakthrough Experience.
Let me show you how to do that.
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Let me have you experience it yourself.
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Watch the change and go and do your test
if you want before and after and see
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what happens. I watched a lady that
one time had all kind of biochemical,
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hyperlipidemia, hypertension,
anemia and everything else,
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and we cleared six major male figures
in her life, cleared them out,
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went back and somehow all her
chemistry was normalized again.
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And the doctor didn't, I don't know
what you did but whatever it is,
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it's back to normal again. And I explained
it. She and I know what happened.
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We changed our perception, changed
the ratios of our perception,
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changed our chemistry, changed
her life. If you want that,
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come to the Breakthrough Experience,
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I look forward to thanking you
and watching the transformation.
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And I will look forward to seeing you
next week. Thank you for joining me today.